Help for the Unfaithful: Identifying Your Self Destruct Button

[@andreabrunkow9314]

I think most "self destruct buttons" are self pity, affirmation seeking and self entitlement.

[@nazim5980]

Thank you so much Samuel. I totally agree with you. This self-destruction button defines all my tentations. But, it is so hard to identify this. My trust in God guides me in the best way as possible. I hope that everyone can find God in order to stay in the path of God.

[@cyndikrysiak213]

U are so right, went to 2 different therapists, even verified the certifications, BUT got bad advice n just stuck goin round n round with same conversations in sessions with high $...So thankful Y'all popped up. THANKS TO GOD

[@antonioburton8332]

I had 3 and it kept me going in circles until I found a program to help out

[@j.santos7674]

Thank you thank you thank you. I'm done sacrificed everything I loved because I couldn't see what was happening and happened to me. My business my pride and hitting that button almost killed me! Thank you, I thought I was the only one.

[@Ballajd1]

This is an outstanding message! Many Thanks and God Bless!

[@Abrilgee]

Im the betrayed. My partner or maybe ex now, doesn’t want to do the repair work. He thinks he’s tried.. I think he’s had done little to nothing towards recovery. I’ve told him what I need and doesn’t care. Needless to say he told me today he’s not happy and that he sees no point in trying anymore because nothings changed and that we don’t have a bond anymore. He basically pressed the button right? Anyway I think it’s ironic that after all Ive been through in our relationship, I’ve stayed and fought for us for our family and he gives up so easily. I think we broke up and it’s made me feel like day one

[@heathergivens6393]

very much needed this video today! Thank you

[@charleneg.4053]

Samuel, please reply! Have you made a video on having a flirtatious personality? If not, will you consider making one? My husband of 17 years, and the unfaithful, recently said to me “you know I am a flirtatious person”. I think he’s beginning to see how being that way with other women can open doors for opportunities that should be avoided. I want his attention as his wife, and I’m not comfortable with him acting that way with another woman. I feel it should be reserved for me. I feel betrayed that he would even want to flirt with other women. I think he does it because he likes the attention; he’s admitted to me that he does enjoy that. Thank you in advance! My husband and I are getting so much out of your videos.

[@gracegiven4525]

I would recommend you watch Rick Reynolds video about this called Pimping Tenderness. Totally nails the grooming behavior of “just being Nice (flirtatious)”.

[@AnaBananaM28]

Can you please make a video about “A pregnancy/child from affair?” And how to deal with it, we were separated when it happened.

[@samshealingpodcast]

working on it, but trying to get someone in who has been through it and can share what they went through personally.

[@zgirl1972]

Going through this too, I'm so sorry. It's so hard but I know it's possible to get through this.

[@zgirl1972]

@@samshealingpodcast Been going through this since Feb 2018. I'm hoping to go to your retreat soon. Infidelity, Revenge Infidelity, friend betrayal and a baby.

[@mikepandolfo2349]

Thank you

[@mnilchian]

Can you refer a therapist we are in Los Angeles, CA?

[@AffairrecoveryLLC]

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