Her Hips TRIPLED In Size After Giving Birth To 8 Kids | Awake Surgery

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[@ahavarichardson5426]

Y'all have been lying to the public for so long NOW IT'S NOT Funny anymore!! Right kids out of a TRANS GENDERED PERSON!!!!! It's BECAUSE he has been taking female hormones for a long time!! Real women have this same procedure!!!

[@dpellek74]

Let me guess. Tlc didn't pay or help her pay the surgery or anything like they do most ppl they exploit.?

[@aleahchappell4683]

keep your ignorant comments to yourself. she said why she didn’t wanna marry , but yet she’s an wife.

[@midnightvelvet3243]

Just a dumb ass comment

[@oops2671]

Las pompis se le fueron de lado sson implantes

[@rituuuurr]

All these women supporting her and understanding her pain was the sweetest thing I saw today. Aw :,)

[@kane2440]

the sad thing is these women want to look like her in 20 years we will have AAAlot of 40/50 year olds looking just like this

[@МаринаЛукина-ю3н]

It's not definitely because of 8 kids.

[@HT-bi2qb]

​@@МаринаЛукина-ю3н what's it from then?

[@МаринаЛукина-ю3н]

@@HT-bi2qb I think it's because of some metabolic processes.

[@naomimartin7986]

She didn’t want to get married because she didn’t want to wear a dress with her hips the way they were.

[@WholeHeartily]

I like that her daughter said “you look different” instead of “you look better” because she didn’t see her mother as “flawed” in the before, and I appreciate that. Language is important!

[@lisasallery7860]

Oh you are so right. I never even thought of it like that. But that’s lovely the way you connected it ❤❤

[@AudreeAdam]

That is so true!

[@Djwyrm]

Very true. As kids your not fully confined to the "social norms" yet so you just see people as people.

[@zoyadulzura7490]

@@Djwyrm The daughter was quite sensitive to her mom's feelings. She knew her mom was beautiful before and after the procedure, and was happy that such a procedure was going to have such a big impact on her mom's wellbeing.

[@watchdealer11]

Lmfao it's obviously better bro

[@kaitlynleeanna425]

Wait a minute… 8 kids together after 10 years and you’re still just his gf oh hell na

[@yungcunt1717]

free surrogate these ladies getting played

[@khadijahbeverly3829]

She said she didn’t wanna wear a wedding dress without getting her hips fix. What are you trying to say?

[@mariagodoy3554]

​@@khadijahbeverly3829 she could just get married at the court before the church if she really don't want to wear a dress.

[@brendaguadalupe8220]

Why are you judging , it’s a 10 minute video and you don’t know all the reasons of why they’re getting married after so long .

[@SnailCato]

Bro just look at her daughter, there's no way she is just 10, their kids obviously have different fathers

[@vangogh66110]

The fact she has 8 kids and still looks younger enough to look like the children's oldest sister is fricking insane. Woman straight up got some great genes, regardless of her hip issue

[@Parah_Salin]

Only millennials look this good at that age, ifykyk

[@nxbxdy3404]

@@Parah_Salin why would you assume that ???

[@Parah_Salin]

@@nxbxdy3404 I wasn't being serious, it was a comment on how millennials are a generation which has aged very well...and it seemed to me she was in my age group. I meant no disrespect but if assuming makes me an 🫏 well then my bad lol

[@nxbxdy3404]

@@Parah_Salin oh okay. that's fine.

[@katherinetutschek4757]

Her stomach looks great too considering she had 8 kids! It looks better than some women who had only one.

[@bluebird3042]

She has had eight children & her body is in such good shape. I'm very happy for Ruby, she seems like a lovely person. The Doctor is great too, very compassionate.

[@jenny5309-k3j]

My friend has 8 kids and looks like she's never been pregnant. Doesn't work out or anything. It's pretty amazing. Her stomach is flatter than mine, and I don't have kids!

[@bluebird3042]

@Jenny N Yes, I don't have children but I've always had a belly that stuck out a bit. I've known women like your friend who after giving birth seem to spring back into shape really quickly.

[@theshenanigans545]

​@@bluebird3042I had a small belly before I had my son last year after I had him my stomach got so small, snatched me all the way up man I couldn't believe it especially because I was really worried about post partum fat after I had him

[@lettus143]

@@theshenanigans545 was it your first baby? with me, i dounced back and then some after my first. couldnt believe it, wish i maintained it but my mental health got the best of me and i used food to cope. i'm pregnant with #5 right now and although there has been some bounce back after each pregnancy, nothing compares to that of my first pregnancy. i remember i was so small my landlord at the time kept telling me that there must be something wrong because i looked like i was 5-6 months pregnant at my babies due date.

[@patremagilbert682]

Yes

[@Metonymy1979]

That looks so painful and annoying. I feel for her. She looks amazing

[@BasitKhan-jr5rx]

Feel good for her or feel sorry for her ? Mention clearly

[@miaosov]

@@BasitKhan-jr5rx why would they "feel good" for her, who says that? lol

[@chloechan321]

@@BasitKhan-jr5rx the phrase "feel for someone" means to sympathize with them. Nothing wrong with what they said.

[@oceaneo4603]

Ho my God !! She's so tough ! I'm impressed !

[@Malliok]

@@BasitKhan-jr5rx Mention clearly? You made your comment sound sexual, when it was anything but that.

[@payboogie]

shouts out to the surgeon for her absolutely incredible bedside manner and her methods of comforting and communicating throughout the procedure and the results holyyy cow chefs kiss and i don’t think anyone could’ve deserved it more u go momma!!

[@oops2671]

Parecen hermanas

[@Calliegrls1]

I agree! This doctor was fabulous!!!!

[@giovanni545]

please dont say holy cow like that

[@Maxmaxmax63]

8 kids and working at a confidence store - how?

[@payboogie]

@@giovanni545 i meant in a wow holy sh!t typa way lmao

[@GodsChildBri]

I wanted to cry when she expressed her insecurity. It's very hard to have an insecurity that you can't hide. You 100,000% deserve to feel ALL THE WAY confident and comfortable in your skin. 💛💛✨✨

[@HarmonRAB-hp4nk]

I had 11 hours in brain surgery (golf ball size tumout, back of he head) its very concerning, any major surgery.... but oh boy do you feel better in the end run borderline aneurism fer me relieved..

[@runningbacktoyou]

understandable insecurity. but glad she seeked medical help soon enough to enjoy live again

[@Heckinwhatonearth]

I have a deformed spine that makes me a hunch-back. I've stopped going outside years ago. When I do it's wearing thick coats even if it's warmer. I'm on a waitlist but it's 4 years long. I would've looked ok otherwise. Didn't use to bother me as much until I got broken up with specifically because of my disgusting back. I envy those with a healthy, straight spine so much.

[@estefanybaltazar8369]

She's like "ow" to a needle yet had 8 children with no assistance. She's a trooper.

[@dynogamergurl]

ikr? ig maybe it was more nerves and because a needle is a sharp sudden pain as opposed to labor thats gradual... but still nerves O steel!

[@j0ellyfish]

A trooper? More like an idiot breeder.

[@RedDogRanch13]

I think it’s her nerves

[@thenowie91]

She has dem childbearing hips 😅

[@julia-ex7im]

she's selfish

[@ashleyrodriguez8143]

With eight kids she still has the looks of a twenty year old. She has a really nice shape. I love how the doctor restores self Esteems.

[@Tom-ck3io]

Old looking 20 year old

[@kylie4954]

She's absolutely beautiful and strong but she does not look almost 2 decades younger than her age. Just say she looks young for 39 and great! Youngest is 30. Nothing wrong with looking your age.

[@uvaldestrongalways]

she does not look 20. im 20 and i look 16. 💀 bye.

[@punothebear]

After 8 kids her vagina has likely tripled in size too.

[@ayofrtho7014]

Weird that yall don't want women to naturally age.

[@Diamondissweet11]

She seems like such a genuine person and she definitely deserves to be happy in her own skin! Those doctors are amazing for being there for her!

[@YiZhan_1005]

Women supporting women and understanding her pain and struggles is the sweetest thing have seen in this video

[@damiandennis3740]

Yeah, whatever... you guys live life on easy mode ... let's talk about a man Everlasting struggle

[@Lyney_Baby]

@damiandennis3740 you know you sit your broke ass down everyday and eat your moms dinner you've never struggled a day in your life wannabe from the streets guy

[@Lyney_Baby]

@damiandennis3740 you're not even a man probably just a edgy teenager lets be honest here what struggle have you had eating vegetables?

[@urfav.emerie]

@@damiandennis3740no we dont. i could list so many things

[@nimzay_art]

What's y'all everlasting struggle? ​@@damiandennis3740

[@abbyag]

The staff did a wonderful job comforting her and she was such a trooper!

[@faithyisoncrack]

@belllynbaysraysbrielleeant374 why are you commenting this on threads what the fuck is that? are you gonna shoot it up or something????? PLEASE DONT

[@kane2440]

the sad thing is these women want to look like her in 20 years we will have AAAlot of 40/50 year olds looking just like this

[@madero-jb5ri]

Now she can have another eight kids. 😂😂😂

[@periodt5264]

@@kane2440 they wouldnt want to do it if, people didn't make them insecure or constantly emphasise the need to look a certain way

[@towerofresonance4877]

First surgery ever! That really amazes me considering she had 8 children! She is strong!

[@questionmark9819]

Lucky too me thinks

[@JessieBanana]

@@questionmark9819 Interventions during birth increase your chances of having a c-section, so while no epidural is of course more painful, it makes sense that she hasn’t needed to have a c-section.

[@patremagilbert682]

Yes

[@johnnylego807]

@@JessieBananaI thought they give epidurals irregardless?? if you are pregnant and going into labor or before they usually give an epidural?

[@JessieAlmighty]

​@@johnnylego807epidurals are optional pain relief. They aren't required. :)

[@BlancheDeverOh]

Let’s talk about how sis is naturally blessed though.. that hourglass figure in her wedding dress - ON POINT! You go, Rubi!!

[@pazj2467]

Yes she is naturally curvy! I was thinking dang does she even need the skin cut off looks like the lipo did what needed to be done. She looks amazing

[@John_Dick1]

I don't think that's a blessing...

[@Htothej20]

@@John_Dick1 welp you did use an ‘I’ statement meaning that’s your own opinion.

[@BlancheDeverOh]

@@John_Dick1 good for you! 👍🏽

[@fatmashamlal7968]

​@@BlancheDeverOh in my part of the world ,(East African Coast) and indeed most of Africa, this is the perfect body shape.

[@cyrilleyong9615]

One of the few times I support surgery like this. She didn't alter and try to be something she wasn't. Just brought out the best in what she already had.

[@sandrabennett5864]

My heart hurts for her. Seeing her so sad and depressed about her own body and she is absolutely gorgeous and I think she looks amazing for having gave birth to 8 babies. God bless her!

[@jwsuicides8095]

She chose to have 8 babies. Irresponsible.

[@dearrationals]

​@@jwsuicides8095 Not "irresponsible", it's her choice. But women really need to stop doing the most in the world. Let the males do something for once. They have it so much easier.

[@thefuzzfactor2989]

@@jwsuicides8095 I think it's great that she's had 8 babies. She looks so young!

[@PkmNIhMs]

@@jwsuicides8095 two people chose to have 8 babies. Only one is going through unstoppable changes to their body that requires uncomfortable surgeries to repair..most daddy has to do is come to orgasm and gain some f_cking weight.

[@T1Oracle]

​@@dearrationals No, it's irresponsible. Those children deserve a stable loving home. Her ego comes second. She can't take care of 8 kids, she can barely keep herself together.

[@blooberri2279]

This surgery couldn’t happen to a sweeter woman. I have great anxiety about going to the dentist and my teeth have suffered because of it, so I can relate to her on that level.

[@samg873]

Same

[@ksasagenator1985]

It’s so scary I get it. I avoided it for the same reason. Go though. Do it slowly. I am 1 year into treatment but so happy I did it.

[@rhiannoncarney]

I'm terrified too :(

[@TheSouthIsHot]

Read Kiss Your Dentist Goodby by Dr. Ellie Phillips. She will teach you how to understand dental health and to take good care of your teeth at home. She's also on KZbin and has a website. She's wonderful. I pray your dental health improves. Dental care is important especially for women!

[@meredith405]

I had the same problem. I ended up having to have all of my teeth pulled at once...awake. Honestly, the fear and anxiety leading up to it was way worse than actually having them pulled. I wished I had done it a lot sooner than I did. 3 high risk pregnancies and genetics were the culprit.

[@UssyMustyYS]

8 kids in 10 years is wild.

[@blinkybli8326]

Half those kids look older than ten so she clearly didn't have them all with the boyfriend.

[@drayaabraham6320]

If you’ve put your body through bearing children and childbirth, much respect to you because it’s a significant sacrifice

[@jk7713]

A sacrifice she willingly chose. That’s not a sacrifice 😂

[@keanaparker5861]

@@jk7713 sacrifices are generally a choice….

[@imakitty1797]

@@jk7713 people act like women who give birth are martyrs.

[@jennette1256]

@imakitty17 For most of human history pregnancy has been quite dangerous for women. Even tho maternal mortality has decreased significantly in the past few decades, still hundreds of thousands of women die from pregnancy each year. They are literally risking their lives in order to create new life and sustain our species. I'm not a mother and I havent ever really wanted to be one, but I have a lot of respect and gratitude for the women who choose to have kids

[@pHixiq]

@@imakitty1797 someone is ignorant lol

[@snotnosedslob]

It's so sweet to see her confidence restored. She seems like a really nice lady and I'm glad she's happier now. She looks great!

[@RussiaIsARiddle778]

She’s so young looking that her daughter looks like she could be her sister. I can’t imagine what this poor woman has been through all these years. It gives new meaning to the word “saddlebags“. What an important change. ❤

[@MarianneMedlin-dz4dz]

I literally thought her daughter was her sister until the video said otherwise. lol!

[@RussiaIsARiddle778]

@@shanbannan17 Right, you missed the point. “She LOOKS so young”. Which means…????????

[@shanbannan17]

@@RussiaIsARiddle778 ye it was late

[@ВероникаПолякова-н6п]

Родила дочь в 20 лет,выглядит обычно!Ужасные жирные бедра - единственный непорядок

[@Thrivinbwoy]

She is BEAUTIFUL!! So happy for her happy ending!! Seems like a great mother and partner !!

[@cecemac159]

I dont agree with all the surgeries people do. But this lady just wanted to look and feel like herself so this is absolutely amazing. So glad she did this.

[@AllegraJimenez939]

Exactly what I was thinking!

[@Ash_NuggTato]

She actually needed surgery though, that's not normal at all

[@cecemac159]

@@Ash_NuggTato I don't think u read my comment. I said she needed it too. We all are saying same thing

[@cecemac159]

@@AllegraJimenez939 yeah this isnt attention seeking or trying to change yourself. She just wants to be her dang self. Im sure in this situation i would do the same if i could afford to.

[@AllegraJimenez939]

@@cecemac159 yep, I’m sure anyone would, I feel so bad

[@neiliewheeliebin]

They did an amazing job. It was brave of her to share this with the world.

[@angelah8247]

She probably got the procedure paid for by sharing it.

[@projectpenwing]

They pay for the procedures on the show. Show the issue /get free treatment. And without free healthcare like other first world countries, most patients in the US cant afford quality of life procedures like this unless rich.

[@nicoledickerson9516]

⁠@@projectpenwingyou’re wrong. A family member had a lipoma on their back and didn’t have insurance. They were able to still have it taken care of. 41 states have expanded Medicaid in the US. People love to exaggerate the supposed horrors of the US medical system because they want to force us into a completely socialist system…. But when everyone is covered by increased taxes there are still problems with getting good medical attention for long term serious illnesses. That’s why Canada is encouraging euthanasia. They will euthanize kids for depression, people who can’t afford their home after long term illness, and they even encouraged a Paralympian who needed a lift for their stairs to euthanize. The Uk had that baby who’s parents wanted to go to Italy for medical treatment and the right to try to save his life and the UK forbade them from the right to try. The fact is eventually socialism can’t afford all the people they need to treat, house, feed….so they find ways to cut cost…. Even find ways to depopulate , or let some people go months without care and die off on their own.

[@MeMe-zq7qd]

I have lipedema/bad cellulite in my legs that I’m really insecure about. I’ve had people stare and make faces when I wear shorts so I sort of know how she was feeling. It was so great to see her get her confidence back! After 8 kids she deserved to do something for herself for once. She looked beautiful in her wedding dress!

[@ladyJustis]

Exactly why I don't wear shorts

[@Igbo_Israel]

Your beautiful and I never judged women biased on shape I don’t understand why people are so cruel.

[@Igbo_Israel]

@@ladyJustis your very beautiful don’t listen to hate. I’ve never judged a women on shape

[@sanciawalker1293]

I applaud her I have bad cellulite now am in my 50 an it's so depressing to me

[@Igbo_Israel]

@@sanciawalker1293 wow don’t be depressed I’m a life coach. You mind if I leave my IG on here?

[@levvy7879]

Awww the tapping method is so sweet literally, she has a right to be proud

[@hannabarbarawojcik]

I love the therapeutic touch--the nurses petting her arms and then the tapping was so beautiful

[@AnaFernandez-jp5uh]

Agreed.

[@annies6566]

I love this doctor. You can just tell she’s professional and cares about her patients 😊❤

[@mariaellis717]

Please, solve on the problem with medical help.

[@DrewRueDoo]

The medical staff was highly professional and comforting. Props to them!

[@salcee6311]

God bless these surgeons and nurses for being so supportive and kind to her! ❤ god bless them

[@everyxheart]

dang eight kids without an epidural, this woman is a superhero and I'm so glad she's taking time for herself.

[@aissamamatoua.1194]

A Shero

[@zoyadulzura7490]

Then she goes and gets liposuction while awake. That looks incredibly hard to do as well.

[@ronnana694]

whats epidural?

[@reannavaladez3290]

@@ronnana694 it’s the shot they give you to numb you from the waist down while in labor and delivery

[@ronnana694]

@@reannavaladez3290 oh true, she just did the tapping trick?

[@CarolAnn-gh9fl]

She’s such a beautiful woman, no anesthesia during childbirth….She’s a HERO. Sending hugs.

[@lindseyowen5968]

I never had anything giving birth, I never knew anything different so to me that’s birth! 😊 Edit; in case it wasn’t obvious, I LOVE giving birth! 😂 maybe I’m strange! However , with my last birth I lost two and a half liters of blood, leading to a cardiac arrest and flat lined for almost three minutes. I was up and out of bed within a few hours of waking up. The nurses looked at me like I was an alien! 😂

[@baneyney7002]

Lol how is doing something you chose to do make you a hero? 😂 bffr she chose to have eight kids

[@antinatalistwitch111]

Hero for what? Lollll

[@JoaniesJourney]

I was MORE afraid of a needle in my spine than I was of the pain. I had 2 9lb boys. 😜❤

[@aquariusmedia9307]

That's normal here in Nigeria.

[@britlew5933]

Anybody noticed how perfect her tummy is after 8 kids, no stretch marks!

[@candybar6475]

I lost weight and i got stretch marks all over my tummy

[@Bananabread8]

Stretch marks tend to be hereditary

[@WholeHeartily]

Honestly, her body is wonderful.

[@catcoffee7958]

Her skin is beautiful

[@ayrialacaze]

she works out.

[@Sophiebx]

Bless her heart she’s beautiful and props to her for having 8 kids

[@72586jejones]

This poor woman. It's so hard being a woman, carrying life, being hard on ourselves, etc. I am happy for her.

[@yardleyj9391]

Yes. It's infuriating when some men think wearing a dress and make up make them a woman.

[@72586jejones]

@@yardleyj9391 if they were able to actually get periods, I guarantee their delusion would only last 28 days.

[@cressapellom4205]

Getting pregnant is a choice. No one's gonna feel sorry for something you purposely did.

[@biankalatoma4775]

​@@cressapellom4205 you clearly aren't a mother nor have the capacity to be understanding

[@TEXANSHAWTY]

@@cressapellom4205girl no one is saying they feel bad for because she’s pregnant. They are expressing empathy because of the effects pregnancy had on her body.

[@neisci]

What an amazing job. The doctors, nurses, assistant, the patient.. this was a beautiful episode.

[@obsidian977]

This was so fascinating! Thank you Ruby for being so vulnerable and giving us the opportunity to learn through your experience! You're so awesome! Bless your heart 💕

[@FreyaNaja]

Second that!

[@burdburd2787]

Couldn't say it better!❤

[@sparklebutt1119]

Rubi seems like the nicest person. ❤

[@oneperson5760]

Im so glad for her! I wish her many many years of happy healthy family life.

[@leac.s.2334]

As a pediatric nurse I just looove the doctors tapping technique! Could work great on kids who are anxious about getting shots etc - will definitely try this

[@alamedadanceparty]

I agree. The tapping method is fascinating!! I love how she really cares about her patients and wants to help them.

[@72586jejones]

I was wondering about this. I instantly thought, "I wish someone did this to be when I was in labor."

[@user-or1ym9il5n]

I get nervous at the doctor and use the tapping method all the time!! It works amazingly especially with shots

[@Kitkat1209]

I’m happy it worked for her because multiple people tapping me would increase my anxiety if anything

[@h0rriphic]

@@Kitkat1209 ikr 😂 I’d be like…”I need at least half of you to stop touching me atm” 💀

[@Shehasskills]

awww the tapping technique was so cute and kind of them.. More doctors like this please!!

[@nikkibankhead6759]

Wow, any woman that gives birth to 8 children is an MVP! Especially in these times. No epidural!!! Wow. She deserves this. ❤

[@JazzyJ1994]

How the hell is she a mvp she chose to have a ridiculous amount of children

[@IndiaLaLoca47]

I have 8 kids…. Birth ant no joke 😂

[@りょう-Maltese]

​@@IndiaLaLoca47 yup I have 12

[@katesstoreshelforganizinga5753]

I had 3 without an epidural. Couldn't imagine more. And she looks amazing!!

[@brandnewgraciag7527]

My mom did ❤️ just like her 5 girls and 3 boys.

[@huskydadtokoda]

She got the natural bbl look everyone was trying to get last year

[@victorygarden556]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@tea5518]

😊😊😊😊​@@victorygarden556

[@Momo-27]

😂😂 not realy but its funny

[@uwizeyemary3548]

😂😂😂this comment gat me rolling

[@lowlifevampyre1341]

I love that she kept her natural shape. Definitely a beautiful Mom bod going on! ❤

[@antonia6059]

The doctor is such a wonderful person! I love her positive attitude. Great job

[@Blessedful]

Hey Guys! ❤️ I just want to say thank you all so much for all the beautiful comments! 🥺🥲 It really means a lot to me, yes I do feel so much better about my self now, this surgery was a big life changing for me. I really appreciate y’all guys support. God bless you all 🥲🥲🫶🏻

[@somegenerichandle]

Glad you are doing well. Thank you for the update.

[@ShereseP]

Beautiful! Love your confidence after!

[@djjones7039]

You were beautiful before the surgery but i’m glad that it was able to give you better self esteem & a higher confidence!! Your body blessed you and your boyfriend with 8 KIDS! absolutely beautiful pre and post op

[@perseusarkouda]

I was saying throughout the video how beautiful you are inside and out. So unlucky to have that condition. Wish you the best of life!

[@Linda-uo8hh]

Right on woman!! You're beautiful either way, but I'm glad you're more comfortable and happy. Blessings to you and your family 😊

[@the.magnus]

She is so beautifully, even before surgery. I honestly thought her daughter was a friend that was the same age. So happy for her.

[@madero-jb5ri]

I thought it was her sister.

[@silviatevini5815]

She was deformed thanks surgery

[@neshajamesvlogs]

Awww ❤ it was Great to see her face light up so much. When they told her how it would look before it even started 🥲

[@sengabrockerhoff5750]

'I wanna cry, but I'm sleepy'. 😂 Such a sweetheart.

[@christinewatson1989]

I wish everyone who shames people for getting plastic surgery could see this. TONS of people (myself included) get cosmetic surgery not to look "perfect", but to look NORMAL.

[@indoora]

This is "reconstructive" not "plastic/cosmetic" there is a difference. Reconstructive is corrective whereas plastic/cosmetic is an elective procedure.

[@WildVee]

@@indoora True - but a lot of people don't know the difference, which is just shameful, because not every procedure is made out of shallow reasons :)

[@smollilbean]

​@@indoora Thank you for pointing that out.

[@dawnvalentine74]

​@@indooraThis is reconstructive and also done for appearances. Having this isn't life threatening.

[@lonspram3922]

@@indoora you are completely wrong. Reconstructive surgery IS plastic surgery. There is no difference.

[@angmo3782]

Big applause to this amazing mum of 8 kids!!! Totally deserved!!!😘😘

[@CL-do5eq]

It is truly a blessing to say she was able to give birth to age children. They are some woman that can’t even give birth to one. God has truly bless her and I’m so glad that she’s able to get the surgery. She truly deserves it. What a great mom.

[@mariskaajoy3899]

Eight children not age children 🫣

[@kaywinter5821]

I love the show of women supporting and comforting this woman!!! I can’t imagine how scared she was and so vulnerable. I pray all is well with Ruby now 💜💜💜🫶🏼🫶🏼

[@ahphong2904]

Ten years and 8 kids, this woman is the superhero, pain-buster. The lipo is a piece of cake. No tears.

[@claudiadavicino-fj8nz]

No es normal tantos hijos

[@racheleconerly3228]

I LOVE THIS STORY! What a sweet, strong mom and a compassionate, innovated surgeon.

[@kossyanita1080]

Thankfully you got your whole confidence back and your now husband stood by you through it all. The doctors outdid themselves too, kudos to them

[@khashiya79]

But even after eight kids , she looks amazing ❤️

[@tarenmarie8407]

Lies

[@Kiss__Kiss]

Definitely a gorgeous woman inside and out.

[@lizxu322]

Like her skin is actually not saggy and the texture is good. Hardly any cellulite even in her extra weight on her thighs. I'd say if it weren't for it the extra fat I'd say she has good genes

[@lizxu322]

​@@tarenmarie8407 look yourself in the mirror and realise you won't ever be 1/2 the woman she is

[@Kiss__Kiss]

@@lizxu322 Truth

[@julied.4445]

Can totally see how happy she was right after the liposuction was done. Surgeries like these really change people's lives for the better ❤ so glad she finally going to have her wedding and be confident in her dress! Mom of 8 definitely deserves it 🎉

[@brianagavina6779]

The doctor is awesome for using that tapping technique! You can tell she truly cares about how the patients feel

[@kezziemoody58]

She is an absolute gorgeous lady, I hope she knew she was beautiful before and after🥰

[@JustMsCrys]

I tell you one thing, after having 8 kids . She look amazing , despite how she feel about her thighs . I’m glad she had the procedure to boost her self confidence .

[@aviesmith8883]

That tapping technique really sounds great! As an anxious person who despises needles I was thrilled to know there was a way to help people like me. I hope more people start implementing her tapping technique!

[@hannahanderson7616]

There is actually a tapping technique you can use when you are anxious...I found a book about it. I also had a therapist teach me some tapping techniques to help

[@candysmith8724]

Having children really changed my body too. My youngest is 13 and I still have a swollen belly that won't go away, I didn't have that problem after my first child. I completely understand this woman's pain.

[@SayaddinaBeneGesserit]

It’s called diet and exercise

[@Ro-wc1ug]

@@SayaddinaBeneGesserit Clearly you’re the one that needs it

[@huhs112]

​@@SayaddinaBeneGesserit are you dumb? 💀

[@ohshesspicy1406]

@@SayaddinaBeneGesseritDon’t be ugly

[@Amlam99780]

@@SayaddinaBeneGesseritso ignorant… you can still suffer from that with exercise and diet, educate yourself before commenting such stupid things!

[@CharmedBeatle]

They helped her very well, the doctors were great.

[@calcleg4121]

WHAT an incredible Woman and Surgeon. How courageous and brave of her to not only be open enough to share with us as she did, but also to see what life changing difference this has made for her. I pray this inspires others. I also give absolute admiration to her loving partner too, who desired to marry her regardless, yet honoured her wishes to have her surgery first. I wish them and their amazing Family of 8, all the greatest fortune moving forward. xxx Watching from the UK.

[@keeleyv2281]

her body is just walking recognition of the incredible mom she is and children she has carried

[@lauriekruczek]

Giving birth didn't make her hips like this. The pregnancy hormones triggered it. She has a genetic chronic illness called lipedema.

[@keeleyv2281]

@@lauriekruczek i didn’t say giving birth triggered it….. i said it’s symbolic of the children she has carried.

[@reality_is_the_key]

Wow. She absolutely deserved this surgery. I enjoyed how she seemed so much more confident at the end. A confident woman can do ANYTHING!❤

[@katolivares1055]

This surgery is vital and will improve her quality of life!! Shes so brave!! ❤

[@alejandraahmed1177]

Wow! Rubi's daughter looks like her sister. What a blessing.

[@boogoodie]

She looks absolutely beautiful in her gorgeous wedding dress. What a difference that operation made. I wish her all the very best. ❤

[@Deadlyaunty]

She has 8 kids and still has a flat tummy!!!! ❤ She is a beautiful lady

[@jackiebennett6304]

That’s because she’s pear shaped not apple shaped

[@LYJmusic]

She was storing fat in her hips mainly

[@smollilbean]

​@@jackiebennett6304 yeah okay but what do you mean? Most women are storing fact in their tummies after childbirth irrespective of what body shape they are.

[@imo.124]

Right!

[@sineadiloveyou]

But skin hanging

[@alexisrose1385]

Man she is absolutely gorgeous! With or without the change to her body!

[@StephanieQ88]

Poor mama she raised 8 children and I feel sad that she felt so insecure for a long time. She didn’t deserve that. I wish her all the best for the future! 😊

[@odalis6138]

she shouldve stopped getting pregnant then

[@debbie6526]

@@odalis6138 girl….

[@odalis6138]

@@debbie6526 it’s true if she’s so insecure she should’ve stopped having kids like a damn hamster 8 kids is outrageous

[@petrakostic1839]

​@@odalis6138 yes and she was getting pregnant each year like tf?

[@otohime8516]

@@odalis6138 Who likes to judge gets judged harder... careful cause we might bit our own tongue

[@meanmugging]

Huge thumbs up to the dr and her staff, you can tell she loves what she does and helping people, and gotta be making good money on top.

[@lotoftoyz3074]

Definitely child bearing hips! 8 vaginal births. No epidural. Bless her heart!

[@theodorajackson6233]

​@@valerianlegion oh shut up there is nothing wrong with child bearing hips I have children bearing hips

[@rect835]

@@valerianlegion that’s what it is fool

[@Commentator488]

@@bluetickbeagles116 Is this an ironic comment? Because some won’t understand it that way

[@daughterofyah6209]

@@bluetickbeagles116 you’re idiot if you think it stays that size. Go learn something.

[@Peg__]

​@@bluetickbeagles116I'll politely explain for ya. "Tightness" does not change after vaginal birth. Sadly, that's a fear passed down through the ages from men. "The Husband Stitch" was created from that fear. "What is a husband stitch?". After the baby and the placenta are delivered, the Husband would ask the Doctor to add a few extra stitches on us down there (beyond what is standard), thinking it would "restore tightness". What it actually does, is make the entrance to the vagina smaller. It doesn't change our vaginal walls and muscles at all. Having your entrance sewn like that, creates a hygiene nightmare and sex is extremely painful to the point where sex is no longer desired. Here's an example for the guys, when roles are reversed. A man needs oral surgery. While the man is vulnerable and under anesthetics, his Wife asks the surgeon for extra stitches on each side of his mouth where his skin tore from having his mouth open so long. The wife believed that after oral surgery, kissing is sloppy and oral sex won't be enjoyable for her. What it actually does, is make the opening to your mouth smaller. It doesn't effect a man's tongue muscles and how you use your tongue. For the man, eating and oral hygiene is painful. It's so bad, he doesn't want to eat his favorite foods or brush his teeth. Moral of the story, If a person is worried about your "tightness" due to "Body Count" or having a baby, you were never a human person in their eyes to begin with; Only a object whose purpose is to satisfy them. Hope this helps👍🏼

[@jenniferjenn2071]

Wow , thanks to god to give all the doctors the knowledge and wisdom ,I'm happy for her

[@spookazig]

I have a similar condition called lipedema. I have also had liposuction on my legs while being awake. It is painful and the recovery is difficult. I have so much respect for her and I wish so much happiness for her and her family!

[@shakkeappeal]

They diagnosed me with that, until I finally got a wonderful doctor, who diagnosed me Dercums Disease. Check it out

[@oke.ok.k]

Do you have to be awake or can u just choose that?

[@spookazig]

@@oke.ok.k you can choose it, but it also depends on your doctor. Some of them prefer to do it awake.

[@Oyuki-Mayonesa]

@@shakkeappealis there a cure?

[@Enigma32174]

Lipidema

[@wanaforever6957]

Such a beautiful individual inside and out … glad she was able to get the results she wanted! Shout out to the doctor and nurses for the ability to make her feel comfortable during the process

[@Bubblegum-i9t]

I feel her big time. My hips got hella big after giving birth to my daughters. It sucks because finding pants is so hard. But I don't have money to have surgery. This poor woman has been through a lot I bet. I hope she has better self esteem after. She deserves it. 😊

[@who_me4321]

Did they tell you wat causes it

[@Bubblegum-i9t]

@@who_me4321 the doctors say it the hormones..since they change during and after birth. I definitely didn't have this problem before having them until after. And my hips are very jelloy like. It's gross. Even when I lost weight they stayed the same. It feels and looks nasty.

[@Bubblegum-i9t]

@@triciac1019 thanks for the tip. I'll definitely check it out. 👍😊

[@AseAleisha]

Make a video about it

[@tavviiilex4631]

I too have the same issue 😔 I think mine were due to getting the depo shot after having my first. Got off it then had 2 more now my hips are just the widest pointy point of my body. Can't stand it!!!!

[@327dphillips]

Girl you look great. It’s amazing what the surgery does for your attitude and outlook. Ps that dress and those shoes are fire! Congratulations!

[@carlgrimeseyepatch27]

She’s such a beautiful women! She deserves whatever she needs to feel her best!

[@worm3893]

What a kind and comforting medical team. Any time I've had to have a medical procedure I got yelled at to stop crying and panicking and told "it's not THAT bad/quit being a baby/you're an adult" even though I warn them I have extreme anxiety and panic disorder. It always makes the pain and procedure sooo much worse and they act like I'm exaggerating, but I'm only expressing the pain that I'm actually in.

[@Jlynn614]

The tapping thing is awesome!!! Who would’ve thought!! And for 8 kids her body looks amazing! She’s beautiful ❤ I’m glad she got her surgery done to help with her self esteem

[@coleworld4385]

I learned this when I was in pre-med… if one thing hurts, pinch somewhere else and it’ll minimize the other pain… it spreads the pain, it makes your brain glitch almost 😂

[@zari2662]

We use that technique in Veterinary medicine as well. It distracts the animal if we are drawing blood, prepping for surgery etc.

[@M.A.Y.Y]

it works wonders with kids too ... with stuff like taking a splinter out ..... just tap or lightly pinch somewhere else and it distracts them.

[@fuenmonzo]

So many changes women should go through for being moms, and society do not appreciate it enough

[@snowdust3657]

Oh she looks stunning! Especially in her wedding dress! So glad she got the result she wanted!

[@Nat524Ricci]

She looks incredible!!!!! Has a great body to begin with but she definitely deserved this!!!!

[@Joiinstudio]

This mother should be proud of herself. Takes a lot to be vulnerable, hope this journey improves everything. Excellent job!

[@ellplr]

Her stomach looks great after having all the babies. She looks great. The hips are surprising. Its crazy how things happen to the body. She is beautiful

[@ForMySoulSistas]

I'm so happy she got what she needed she looks great for 39 and 8 kids. It amazing what the body can do while carrying life so impressive and sacrificial. Plus finally getting married: You go Mama! 🧡💙💜

[@christinagrant3252]

Oh my 39 and 8 kids?! She really does look amazing. Beautiful woman.

[@ForMySoulSistas]

@@christinagrant3252 ikr! 😊

[@Beaneabean]

“Great for 39”. Why does no one ever say “she looks great for 20” 🤔

[@christinagrant3252]

@@Beaneabean Because 20 is young. When people makes those comments it’s to do with age and being older and usually saying the person looks healthy and younger than their age I guess.

[@Beaneabean]

@@christinagrant3252 No shit. But point is looking great and looking young are not synonymous. Its crazy that in order for someone to look “good” when theyre older, they have to look young. Thats the problem. Being older does not mean you look bad

[@precious1402]

i love this episode showing people caring about other people. Great job doctor and nurses and I hope the lady stays healthy and happy

[@foxyladi9957]

The whole team was awesome with Ruby.. great job!

[@2riel]

Right!? Soothing and comforting her while she got numbed was so sweet

[@ladylyricz1]

Love love love this doctor's personality!!! Mom is a G

[@ajadreynolds]

Looks fantastic. She’s a boss for doing that awake. The surgeon was great with the all female medical team, loved to see that!! 🎉

[@FableFeather]

I had lipo on my abdomen and it was the worst pain of my life. I passed out. This is why it’s usually done under anesthesia. You can feel them use the tube to separate the fat from the skin and then the cannula to suck out the fat. I felt ALL of that. She did very well with not passing out.

[@Moi_81]

I think it is insane you have the option to be awake.

[@1234letsgo]

I feel ya I was also awake during my lipo procedure I had so much pain

[@Mafresita]

Why were you awake?

[@1234letsgo]

@@Mafresita my procedure wasn’t under general anesthesia. I was awake at all times and I also felt pain .. not the best experience at all

[@TheBOG3]

​@@MafresitaIt's safer than general anesthesia.

[@asandi4444]

She is such a beautiful young lady! It doesn't seem possible that she is old enough to have had 8 children. Sending blessings and best wishes from Canada to her and her family.

[@ikelite6402]

Thanks to the nurses in the surgery room

[@zoraidita2022]

I wish her the best. 😊 And she deserves a huge wedding!

[@nicole.stanhope]

Ruby and the medical staff are such beautiful souls! 🫶❤️

[@annalawrence824]

Not only is the tapping rhythmic and potentially soothing, it also keeps the brain from focusing too much attention of the area they are working on, by redirecting it to the areas you are tapping, as well. Smart!