Her married boyfriend refuses to get divorce after 2yr of dating...

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Ashley L Dalton

Ashley L Dalton

Күн бұрын

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@melliegotsoul
@melliegotsoul Жыл бұрын
she’s crazy as hell if she waste her good years and good looks on a married man. i don’t care what he told you-he’s married and he is wasting your time!
@Maltese256
@Maltese256 Жыл бұрын
💯
@melliegotsoul
@melliegotsoul Жыл бұрын
@@The_fashioner777 this is the most low-level, poor minded generalization i have ever read. you have no point of any significance here. your gutter-speak doesn’t change the fact that dealing with a married man is a waste of time. he’s married, there is no clear path for them to continue on that doesn’t include his current wife.
@MogulTalkWithDarcelLaurie
@MogulTalkWithDarcelLaurie Жыл бұрын
As a divorced woman. My ex husband tried to talk to another woman while I lived in the same house. Don’t fall for it. Wait until it’s final. Enjoy your youth and as Ashley said get with someone who is available 100%
@kristinamaine1989
@kristinamaine1989 Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear that sis. I don't think enough women put themselves in the wife's shoes when they are dealing with knowingly married men. Women should wait til the divorce is final, and if he's still all about u like he led u to believe, trust he'll know where to find you.
@wsidegurl6631
@wsidegurl6631 Жыл бұрын
Facts
@dorothymatthews6690
@dorothymatthews6690 Жыл бұрын
Dating a married man never works out for your good! Girl you are beautiful and besides that you are breaking a covenant and going against God. Don't do it or you will suffer. Wait until he is divorced and healed at least 6 years and I know you don't want to waist your young years. He's lying to you! Ashley is so gracious . That man is still married.
@charmyntaylor9566
@charmyntaylor9566 Жыл бұрын
Agreed my story is the same as yours
@MogulTalkWithDarcelLaurie
@MogulTalkWithDarcelLaurie Жыл бұрын
Thank you all for your comments. My glow up has been real since the divorce.☺️ But just wanted to offer an opinion of someone who was there. Divorce is messy, so always deal with someone who is 100% available.
@tallulahdozier
@tallulahdozier Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, she has low self esteem. As beautiful as she is and she doesn’t believe she can do better.
@faith1614
@faith1614 Жыл бұрын
Why do women date a man knowing he is married to begin with. I’m sorry that alone is a turn off and I wouldn’t even continue dating a person like that let alone a ongoing relationship. That is beyond low self esteem to choose a taken man right?
@BkEmRainRose
@BkEmRainRose Жыл бұрын
If something happen to that married man. They will call his wife to make the decisions..
@jawandathomas4365
@jawandathomas4365 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@kim_316
@kim_316 Жыл бұрын
He’s married. Period. Legally and spiritually. Every establishment recognizes them as so regardless of them going through the divorce process.
@Mariamsadventure
@Mariamsadventure Жыл бұрын
There is legally separated terms though…. Some divorces take over 5 years in court… some can go as long as 10 years….
@naturallyrachel3401
@naturallyrachel3401 Жыл бұрын
He still lives with his wife! 🤦🏾‍♀️
@BKME19
@BKME19 Жыл бұрын
Her not initially saying he’s married just goes to show you she knows she is living in the land of delusional and knows that this situation is wrong. They come on here seeking validation for their wrong choices. Ashley, keep doing your great work. Because a lot of these women clearly need guidance.
@Happy-ey6yu
@Happy-ey6yu Жыл бұрын
It was her trying to convince people he's a good guy, meanwhile he's cheating on his wife because I doubt he's actually separated.
@candorsspot2775
@candorsspot2775 Жыл бұрын
​@@Happy-ey6yuis she a good woman?
@gabriellagiradi2611
@gabriellagiradi2611 Жыл бұрын
Right she sounds like a pick me! It’s kinda pathetic
@BlackBeauty-yl8uq
@BlackBeauty-yl8uq Жыл бұрын
Bingo
@jayc5756
@jayc5756 7 ай бұрын
Exactly. Thankfully Ashley Intuition had her mention marriage...cause idk if she would've mentioned it if Ashlet didn't. 🤔
@faith1614
@faith1614 Жыл бұрын
Why is she with a married man knowing he is married. This man is clearly and intentionally choosing a long distance relationship to conseal his ongoing marriage and fake divorce. It speaks volumes to his character and also her character to be in a relationship like this. I would say more about this man and woman but mama told me if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing at all.
@analiseferguson
@analiseferguson Жыл бұрын
Four to five years for a divorce? Doesn’t sound right at all. Ashley your advice is spot on. Men will take a mile if you give them an inch. Also don’t be deluded. He’s a married man. All the best.
@Mariamsadventure
@Mariamsadventure Жыл бұрын
It sounds right… if the other party vanishes, refuses to comply with the papers…. Some forgives can take up to 10 years if not more… it’s a sad system.
@alexanderthegreat5649
@alexanderthegreat5649 Жыл бұрын
That sounds VERY right for plenty of couples with assets and kids! Not even joking but broke people divorces are pretty simple when no one owns a single piece of property, business, etc and kids usually go to mothers unless it's fought which all court cases take money and broke people can't pay for long so they settle em quickly. People with assets fight over said assets I've seen it PLENTY of times last a decade! My mom's friend only just settled a 6yr divorce proceeding where the only assets was 1 house, and his money accounts from military he was fighting to not disclose. But the kids were grown so that wasn't even a factor nor was she even fighting for the house, others? They fight over every single thing the woman wants every dime she can get plus every minute she can take with the kids from him which also adds into more money for her via child support, and he's fighting against her on all those fronts. 5yrs is so normal in those cases.
@lekistaflurry6323
@lekistaflurry6323 Жыл бұрын
So what if the divorce become final and you hear from him even less? This is happening to someone I know. She went through these motions also😢 now she's like, where is he? I said he most likely used you for entertainment while he went through the divorce😢 Sad truth
@jayc5756
@jayc5756 7 ай бұрын
I lost a friend over this. She choose him over me...cause I told her Exactly what it is.
@bellanoche9050
@bellanoche9050 Жыл бұрын
Don’t play yourself sis. He’s a married man. Cut your losses now.
@gabrielthuu
@gabrielthuu Жыл бұрын
And he may be the one delaying the divorce proceedings cause he doesn’t want to leave his wife ……I wish Gabriela can see these messages
@Mishy555
@Mishy555 Жыл бұрын
Right!
@tanbutterfly8282
@tanbutterfly8282 Жыл бұрын
It doesn’t take 4 to 5 years. He is lying sis
@wellknown1204
@wellknown1204 Жыл бұрын
Exactly!!! And he is in his 40s too😂😂😂, girl get someone your age range. Lots of single dudes from age 25-35 so stuck to those
@monharris28
@monharris28 6 ай бұрын
seriously, he running that smooth game on her with the excuses--she's under a spell!!!
@nikkilove9301
@nikkilove9301 Жыл бұрын
She has pretty privilege and not even using it.... what a waste lol
@victormuhammad2678
@victormuhammad2678 Жыл бұрын
She ain’t that pretty and not too bright
@LizzyAnnShow
@LizzyAnnShow Жыл бұрын
@@victormuhammad2678she is very beautiful
@jadellm.1222
@jadellm.1222 11 ай бұрын
She’s pretty, Periodt
@Beauty777_
@Beauty777_ 11 ай бұрын
@@victormuhammad2678it’s always the accounts with no picture that have so much to say 🙄
@MrTwonetwone
@MrTwonetwone 11 ай бұрын
@@Beauty777_you mad?😂
@loveneisha
@loveneisha Жыл бұрын
Poor baby is in denial. She believes all his lies because she's in "love."
@blondinahassell3381
@blondinahassell3381 Жыл бұрын
Hope she wakes up soon🙏💯
@gabrielthuu
@gabrielthuu Жыл бұрын
She needs a wake up call before he nut on her #singlemum
@jawandathomas4365
@jawandathomas4365 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@annerobinson9781
@annerobinson9781 Жыл бұрын
In the great words of Nene Leakes, ‘Close your legs to married men!’
@jawandathomas4365
@jawandathomas4365 Жыл бұрын
Period.......
@PragmaticMoves
@PragmaticMoves Жыл бұрын
Nene didn't follow her own words 😂😂
@nolabae
@nolabae Жыл бұрын
She complained about the young 20s being a waste of time but her older married cheater isn't any better.
@maddart4445
@maddart4445 11 ай бұрын
It’s worse. It’s some else’s man!
@schokococoa575
@schokococoa575 10 ай бұрын
I had to laugh at that part. So stupid😂
@xshesyourqorqeousxx3
@xshesyourqorqeousxx3 4 ай бұрын
Exactly, my husband is 26, homeowner, landlord, and makes $100k+. They be having these excuses to get with older men but in reality they want to be treated like a spoiled child and that’s fine and all but spoiled children always grow up rotten and these relationships always become rotten. You can be treated like a Queen by a man of any age but a child by only an older man.
@mrsnewmoneyboss1004
@mrsnewmoneyboss1004 Жыл бұрын
People hate to hear that “separated” means married. Why do these married people get options to have a gf/bf and a hubby/wife?! There’s many people in the world and a married person shouldn’t get the time of day.
@wifeyb.9779
@wifeyb.9779 Жыл бұрын
If only the world works like that
@jayc5756
@jayc5756 7 ай бұрын
Exactly
@HealingMariah
@HealingMariah Жыл бұрын
From my experience of having a friend who dealt with a taken man, not married but lived with child’s mom, the woman usually feels she’s an upgrade from the current chick. This is why she’ll hold on because she truly feels he’ll leave the woman for her which is possible but, not worth the shame, karma etc.
@Msd4-13
@Msd4-13 Жыл бұрын
Why would she thinks that she’s better messing with a man that won’t even marry the mother of his children that he’s living with. If she thought that she was better she would be dating better. The fact that she knows that he has someone and stays around downgrades her a lot, whereas though his kids mother may not even know that he’s cheating. The only thing that’ll make him leave is if she finds out and gets tired and puts him out. He would more than likely cheat with the kids mom even after that.
@HealingMariah
@HealingMariah Жыл бұрын
@@Msd4-13 It’s deep that how. You think that man’s wife looks better than the girl in the video? No way. My friends biggest point was how the other lady was so OLD!!! She felt like an upgrade!!!!!
@gabrielthuu
@gabrielthuu Жыл бұрын
True the same issues he had in marriage he will carry them to the relationship because he already figured her out and will manipulate her so bad
@ericablanton9006
@ericablanton9006 Жыл бұрын
​@@Msd4-13 why would someone marry somebody just because they stay together and they got kids together. You people are delusional, people lay up all the time cohabitat all the time and never get close to marriage so where this new concept come in he bad and the other girl bad cause he didn't marry the baby mother
@kmena72
@kmena72 Жыл бұрын
@@HealingMariah, then the man must have been hella old!🥴
@TRIPLEC4ME
@TRIPLEC4ME Жыл бұрын
This video is a reminder of why it is so important to have a male figure to talk to about these things as well. The young lady Gabriella spoke to her mother about the situation who told her she is wasting her youth but I hope she can talk to a male figure who she trust such as a father or Uncle and see what they say
@natalierandrews
@natalierandrews Жыл бұрын
She doesn’t see it for what it is because she doesn’t want to. She loves him. Love covers a multitude of sin! 🥴 At the end of the day, he’s married and unavailable. He already has a wife, separated or not. Move on! There are plenty of men who will treat you right. You are the prize, not him. What you two have is not real. He’s someone else’s husband, respectively. ❤
@TriceMDona
@TriceMDona Жыл бұрын
Love covers a multitude of sins, but I wonder if this is actually love. Love would say, "go on and get yourself together while I get myself together." It sounds like she's infatuated with him. 🤷🏾‍♀️
@beac8238
@beac8238 Жыл бұрын
This ain’t love. This is low self esteem and convenience. This is also affection and attachment. But that is not love. Love is loyalty and sacrifice. He doesn’t love either woman. He just cares about the wife more.
@ShanteeHaynes
@ShanteeHaynes Жыл бұрын
she's definitely aware of the issue. She wants to be validated and this is probably her first mature relationship experience. She knows that she's likely an arm charm for this dude, and he knows she's at the age that she's receptive to stability, so he's probably 'future faking' her to keep her strung along.
@millennialqueenz
@millennialqueenz Жыл бұрын
Angel spoke to my soul. Young & wise! Say it again for the people in the back !
@babylink12
@babylink12 Жыл бұрын
Unless he is a multi-millionaire there is no reason a divorce will take THAT LONG… he is still entertaining his wife, Gabriela your young and beautiful and wasting your time!!!!!
@jacks4009
@jacks4009 Жыл бұрын
I think he is living with his wife tbh
@RosasResources
@RosasResources Жыл бұрын
Thats not true.
@QueenSonora
@QueenSonora Жыл бұрын
Genuinely not trying to be funny, but if her intuition is saying to stay with him, she wouldn’t be questioning it right now. The questioning is for a reason. Any man that is not building a sense of security is not for you…
@BrandiSB95
@BrandiSB95 Жыл бұрын
She lost me there too. She started off saying she thinks she is in over her head. Then switched to her intuition tells her to stay because he’s a good guy. Nah sis yo intuition said this is beyond you
@jayc5756
@jayc5756 7 ай бұрын
​@@BrandiSB95 Exactly. She got emotions confused with Intuition Intuition then Logic...then Emotions. In that order.
@gggreene73
@gggreene73 Жыл бұрын
Nah. He’s married and been “pending” divorce for 5 years? Nope. He’s still married because she accepts him this way.
@goldengoddess2378
@goldengoddess2378 Жыл бұрын
Umm that's not her boyfriend that is someone's HUSBAND! Not to mention even if he left his wife, he'd probably never marry her anyway and if he did, she would get cheated on like the wife. You lose them how you get them.
@jawandathomas4365
@jawandathomas4365 Жыл бұрын
Well said !!!
@scorpioroyalty6942
@scorpioroyalty6942 Жыл бұрын
She’s far too pretty to be thinking about a married man…I wouldn’t give an ultimatum to a MARRIED MAN…and she’s not in the house with him either but she THINKS he’s her man! But can’t see him being with his wife in another house/state
@melissascott8441
@melissascott8441 Жыл бұрын
Her intuition told her what now???? Nah thats her heart not her intuition
@tialee4170
@tialee4170 Жыл бұрын
Yea my marriage is complicated and I can only imagine what he’s telling the other women. I’m sure he lies about what he’s actually doing for me and our children and telling me as supposed to what he’s telling them. He’s claiming he’s fighting for me and his family, while I want to be done. I’m sure he’s telling the women he’s dealing with differently because he’s a narcissist.
@jayc5756
@jayc5756 7 ай бұрын
I lost an alleged homegirl friend over this crap. She was in love with a married man. I told her what it is...she got mad at me. We was friends for over 10 years...but its cool. It is what it is.
@KwiLew
@KwiLew Жыл бұрын
Angel was so insightful! Thank you for sharing your experience!!
@nonelikememe
@nonelikememe Жыл бұрын
She's not ready and will never be ready. You have to just do it. He will continue to give crumbs and those crumbs taste so good when you are starving..run
@VondaTheeSamurai
@VondaTheeSamurai Жыл бұрын
Do she have PROOF that he is not living with his wife cause, men lie. This soul tie is wild
@intentionalparenting2605
@intentionalparenting2605 Жыл бұрын
Exactly! Hell, she has a long distance relationship with a married man 😮 so…the irony
@bonbonsongbird5650
@bonbonsongbird5650 Жыл бұрын
This is the comment I was looking for. He may have moved his family away and still kept her long distance. The longer she stays, the harder it will be to leave. Soul ties are real.
@hotmess9640
@hotmess9640 Жыл бұрын
@@bonbonsongbird5650soul ties are NOT real, that line of thinking is what creates people like Gabriela. It’s sheer delusion
@Crystal_curls85
@Crystal_curls85 Жыл бұрын
Once she gets out of this I hope she does not repeat this cycle. Run run, run for your life!
@annerobinson9781
@annerobinson9781 Жыл бұрын
Angel came to speak a word and a word was spoke!
@lw5820
@lw5820 Жыл бұрын
Angel knows her shit 😭 she spoke the truth. Whatever a man shows u is what it is.
@sabasahlu5417
@sabasahlu5417 Жыл бұрын
Ashley's makeup is 🔥 and this young lady is too beautiful for this.
@thetwinspuppetshow71
@thetwinspuppetshow71 Жыл бұрын
Yep Angel got it together and she LEARNED from her experience!! We all been there!
@purrfectnails2473
@purrfectnails2473 Жыл бұрын
Angel is so beautiful, wise and smart. I’m glad to see a young woman that’s knows what’s going on.
@MrTwonetwone
@MrTwonetwone 11 ай бұрын
Beautiful? I gotta get my eyes checked 😂
@saphireflowers3382
@saphireflowers3382 Жыл бұрын
He’s married. Let. Him. Go.
@Maltese256
@Maltese256 Жыл бұрын
Ghost that man & forget about him ! Stop wasting your youth on married men ! It never ends well .
@kaneesharichardson
@kaneesharichardson Жыл бұрын
What i have noticed watching these lives, a lot of women have a scarcity mindset when it comes to men, which is why a lot of the ladies hold on to potential, even when the men are walking red flags. I get wanting to find your someone but please know you ladies deserve better than setting for potential!
@moniquecobb9051
@moniquecobb9051 Жыл бұрын
That’s some good sisterly, Aunty, motherly advice! Kudos Ashley!
@teralecole316
@teralecole316 Жыл бұрын
I personally love it when the girls hitch their wagons to married men. Means there’s more eligible bachelors on the market for available ladies. Why be #2 when you can be #1 ✨
@melissascott8441
@melissascott8441 Жыл бұрын
He's not rushing that divorce because she didnt make it a requirement for this relationship to begin! So He's not going to finalize nothing because he already have her! She's not going anywhere until about 2 more years! Shes still making excuses for him!
@rororidley5829
@rororidley5829 Жыл бұрын
Exactly!!! My husband of 20 years was married when we met and he filed and completed his divorce so fast to get with me. He was tired of hearing NO. He jokes about how I told him no so much, he thought his name was No. But I need security and I’m territorial so I’m not sharing my guy or his last name.
@xshesyourqorqeousxx3
@xshesyourqorqeousxx3 4 ай бұрын
@@rororidley5829what about him made you comfortable enough to be with him so fresh after a divorce? I feel like I’m another life if I was to get with a divorced man, he would have be divorced for at least 3+ years for me to feel “comfortable” dating him.
@MzConcept13
@MzConcept13 Жыл бұрын
He playing her and she ALLOWING him to play her
@rororidley5829
@rororidley5829 Жыл бұрын
Exactly!!! My husband of 20 years was married when we met and he filed and completed his divorce so fast to get with me. He was tired of hearing NO. He jokes about how I told him no so much, he thought his name was No. But he got divorced and the rest is history.
@jay-alldayy
@jay-alldayy Жыл бұрын
Same here! My husband was married but separated when I met him. I told him no so many times! His marriage was finalized 3 months after we met. A real man will ALWAYS put verbs in his sentences! ❤
@alegna4444
@alegna4444 Жыл бұрын
Ashley, you always have the right words to say. ❤ and yesss she is so beautiful.
@rabrown2799
@rabrown2799 Жыл бұрын
Most times these men are not giving you life-changing money. House paid for with your name only on the deed. Luxury vehicle paid in full with your name only on title. Don't waste your youth on men who don't truly value you. The one that values you will protect you not only physically, but mentally/emotionally etc. meaning you won't have to question the relationship because they show you where you stand and what you mean to them.
@Mintjulep3
@Mintjulep3 Жыл бұрын
She is part of the problem with dating in her age group. There’s a lot that she needs to admit about herself and the role she is playing in this situation
@brittneydavis8662
@brittneydavis8662 Жыл бұрын
The holdup is him. It doesn’t take that long. Never date a married man. EVER! That’s a covenant established by God and as long as it still intact you never get involved with that under any circumstances because the man will tell you everything to keep both women involved. And if he marries you next what makes you think he won’t do the same to you?
@thelibraluv1
@thelibraluv1 Жыл бұрын
He’s been lying to you sweetheart 😩🥺. Break it off as soon as you can. Ditch the allusion.
@dorothyhoward9262
@dorothyhoward9262 Жыл бұрын
That man got her wrapped around his finger. He know exactly what he's doing... this is just the beginning and it's already starting off wrong. If he dies- with any assets -its going to his "wife" and kids. He reading her energy and she's easy to manipulate for him. Young ladies... stop falling for this bullshit. U could never come before his children. U can never be his top priority. U deserve better.
@visionsoflight2357
@visionsoflight2357 Жыл бұрын
He may be divorced already but telling her it’s taking years to finalize …because he doesn’t want to get remarried right now. My uncle stays married to my aunt because he doesn’t want the pressure of marrying his side chicks; they have been separated for years. He is constantly dating young women, wasting their youth and time. He has quite the racket going on sadly the women fall for it.
@classicwrehasha
@classicwrehasha Жыл бұрын
Angel was like hearing the ‘daters gospel’ - refreshing to my soul. What a wise young woman. All the best in love and life to you.
@ttfells2020
@ttfells2020 Жыл бұрын
👑Ashley, I love how you have created a positive space for us to support one another. This is one of my favorite platforms for this reason ❤ 👑❤
@Sendreamz6
@Sendreamz6 Жыл бұрын
I just discovered Ashley. i love her calm, advices and soothing tone which is like a therapy in itself I just do not understand the handbags with the label at the back of them as a background deco.! To me that is really tacky if it supposed to portray succes…. That said Thank you Ashley for beeing nice but effective! Even with the bad energy ones she always keeps her composure and a « firm softness » ( I am not sure you can say that in English 😅) Even if she lets them know, it is done elegantly!
@Ppucixel
@Ppucixel Жыл бұрын
I started dating my man when he was separated and it had only been a month…. He ended up getting divorced within 9 months. I couldn’t imagine if he was still going through a divorce. That doesn’t make sense. If a man wants out and he’s done, he’s done. And he’s gonna make it happen.
@rabrown2799
@rabrown2799 Жыл бұрын
Angel very smart, learned and grew. Beautiful
@Ashleysworld4444
@Ashleysworld4444 Жыл бұрын
We need a makeup tutorial from you ash 😍
@sarahxo6546
@sarahxo6546 Жыл бұрын
Angel is spitting game that many women in their 40s havent comprehended yet
@itsLemonadeTV
@itsLemonadeTV 26 күн бұрын
Girl please leave that married man alone. He’s not leaving his wife
@katherinekier
@katherinekier Жыл бұрын
yeah girl, Issa no. she’s too cute to put up with that.
@Nat-rv3cp
@Nat-rv3cp 5 ай бұрын
If I’m getting a divorce the laaaaaast thing on my mind would be ANOTHER friggin marriage 🤣🤣🤣 oh poor girl, at least she’s pretty she got that going for herself.
@demarionausar1454
@demarionausar1454 Жыл бұрын
This is so sad. I'll tell my daughters to get her ish together
@KENZIIE_lol
@KENZIIE_lol Жыл бұрын
Wow. Some people have no moral compass. She thinks her adulterous lover is a great guy. She's the mistress, who can't wait to take the wife's place, not even for a minute thinking how the wife (and his family) might feel. In fact, she might be the reason for the marriage problems, instead of being the innocent party as she tries to make it out. The dude is smart enough not to take this train wreck mistress serious. He just gets what he wants but keeps her warm enough for access. Plus her feelings are based on "wanting him". If she were to get him, she'd lose feelings soon thereafter. And the dude knows it.
@pauldareason
@pauldareason 11 ай бұрын
barrs
@TamiBri
@TamiBri Жыл бұрын
She is being fully manipulated by this grown man 🤦🏾‍♀️
@876kev
@876kev 10 ай бұрын
Facts
@Nikki-p1t
@Nikki-p1t 3 ай бұрын
But she’s a grown woman, right?
@mkmeabeliever
@mkmeabeliever Ай бұрын
LOL! So.....27 ain't grown too! FOH! 🤣🧢🤣🧢
@melanindonnaricca9645
@melanindonnaricca9645 Жыл бұрын
Gabriela!! Stand upp girl. Leave it alone, maybe you’ll find your love who is ready to commit in Colombia or someone who is willing to move to u and commit. U deserve commitment sendin love ❤
@NELLY12533
@NELLY12533 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Ashley and Angel for the advice ❤❤❤… you was on point wow so true 😍
@hair399
@hair399 Жыл бұрын
Gabriela, don't let him rob you of your youth. Move on!!!!!!!!
@SNaeRose123
@SNaeRose123 Жыл бұрын
He’s filing his taxes as married not single…divorce process would recommend if you are completely done with the marriage throughout getting it finalized taxes should be filed separately. He’s still taking care of her because she’s a dependent on his taxes therefore he’s still dealing with his wife…as invested as you are in this relationship invest in the research for of this process.
@binb8496
@binb8496 Жыл бұрын
The sad thing is she learned nothing from this conversation.
@sharesewilliams7811
@sharesewilliams7811 Жыл бұрын
He's manipulating your mind Sis. Step back, reset, heal and move on.
@rabrown2799
@rabrown2799 Жыл бұрын
Hopefully this young lady hears Ashley. This is not a winning situation for her. He may be treating her better than others guys but if he truly loves her and wants to be with her he'd make it clear by cleaning house i.e. completing the divorce and at least moving to engagement with plans for the future. She asked because deep down inside she knows him being married is an issue. I pray she reflects on the highs and lows and her value and moves forward.
@Habeshamorena8
@Habeshamorena8 Жыл бұрын
Yeah he's treating her right BUT juuuust only enough to keep her right where she is . He is not divorcing his wife he just wants to have fun and that wife said you go do you cuz you not gone be here and cheat and I'll do me and when you get some act right come home. They agreed the end SHE IS WAAAAYY OUTTA HER LEAGUE WITH THIS SITUATION. And it shows how young and gullible she is, she believes whatever he tells her.
@rabrown2799
@rabrown2799 Жыл бұрын
@@Habeshamorena8 that's where women get it wrong if he were treating her right, he would not have her in this situation. Nonetheless I get what you are saying. Hopefully she sits with all this because she is beautiful and seems to be a sweet young lady but needs to know that for herself otherwise she will always settle for less than God's best.
@Kaneshaa
@Kaneshaa Жыл бұрын
She said her intuition tells her he is a good man yet he is still married and pursuing her make it make sense. Your intuition tells you to keep trying with someone else’s man???
@mcbueggin
@mcbueggin Жыл бұрын
Excellent advice !
@ShaniquaJwest
@ShaniquaJwest Жыл бұрын
Angel was preachin! She is a very smart young lady! ❤ I love your platform Ashley please keep it coming, we need it!
@dorothymatthews6690
@dorothymatthews6690 Жыл бұрын
Angel dropped the mic on this show and peepedthe whole game on users snd liars! For real, real!
@kekejefferson9219
@kekejefferson9219 Жыл бұрын
He's most likely renting another house and is still with his wife.
@VWHNeal1018
@VWHNeal1018 Жыл бұрын
I believe there is more to it than she’s saying. I don’t believe he told her he was married initially. And shes not in a relationship, he is someones husband. Shes young, employed, well spoken . Don’t tie yourself to a person who is not clearly about their marital status. He doesn’t have the right to be dating. He’s not being 100 percent transparent or honest with her. And why are they talking marriage when she doesn’t know who this man is completely. She should release her heart from him.
@rororidley5829
@rororidley5829 Жыл бұрын
He has the best situationship EVER!! Too-Shay Mate.
@cupidluvzmatch2253
@cupidluvzmatch2253 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Angel.
@TRIPLEC4ME
@TRIPLEC4ME Жыл бұрын
Would a 40 year old think that lol whoooooo let the church say AMEN! Angel just spoke mounds
@moblack5883
@moblack5883 5 ай бұрын
Notice her mom said "wasting your youth" and Ashley says that 27 range is the sweet spot...Stop wasting your youth.
@hellothere8347
@hellothere8347 Жыл бұрын
I like everything that second girl said.
@melliegotsoul
@melliegotsoul Жыл бұрын
what state is he in? his wife might can sue you for alienation of affection. it’s lose lose situation.
@ReadLoveListen
@ReadLoveListen Жыл бұрын
That part especially if the wife was snooping and now she can put 2 and 2 together. I hope that she can move on. She’s wasting her pretty. I wish her the strength to move on.
@Beautyy832
@Beautyy832 Жыл бұрын
She said that she was moving from texas to Ohio
@Jasminemarie94
@Jasminemarie94 Жыл бұрын
Sister. You’re supposed to be using your youth and beauty to benefit you when you date these older men lol. Get what you can get and then dip. Lol. If he’s still married and y’all been dating for 2 years, no way he’s going to then turn around and marry you. He’s just not telling you that. Like I said. Get what you can out of him and date around to find your forever bc it ain’t in him.
@tallulahdozier
@tallulahdozier Жыл бұрын
Right? She is too beautiful to have no game. Use your logic with these men especially older. She’s supposed to be running his raggedy married-behind pockets down not the other way around smh
@saphireflowers3382
@saphireflowers3382 Жыл бұрын
Spot on
@lovefonz26
@lovefonz26 Жыл бұрын
Move on baby, he’s definitely still with his wife.
@candyluna2929
@candyluna2929 Жыл бұрын
I would ghost him. 👻
@jayc5756
@jayc5756 7 ай бұрын
Im glad Ashley intuition had her mention marriage...cause idk if shorty wouldve even mentioned it had Ashley not said anything. Mann And yeah, paused after 8 and a half min. Great advice from Ashley there. Men learn by actions. So its not about what you say...but what you do. So yes, fall back and leave him alone. See what happens from there....but dont have any expectations. FR. Cause you Never Know.
@bethonetwo
@bethonetwo Жыл бұрын
She making every excuse for validation to stay in this going no where relationship. Poor girl is wasting her time and no one will convince her otherwise. Hopefully soon, she will finally come to her senses that she can suffer the pain of cutting him loose and move on.
@gianelogan9841
@gianelogan9841 Жыл бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 for her.
@jg7742
@jg7742 Жыл бұрын
It’s the perfect setup for him not living in the same city, there’s a 20 year age difference, move on, he is not available, he’s not leaving his wife.
@ninaj.4885
@ninaj.4885 Жыл бұрын
This is why these older men go after these young women because they haven't been through enough to see through their BS. Their easier to lie to.
@kgomotsomogashoa8870
@kgomotsomogashoa8870 Жыл бұрын
My married guy put me through University(along with grants from government). We are really great friends now and it's because he did tell me his kids come first and he will never leave his wife no matter what. That helped me accept my place. He allowed me to have a boyfriend and even let me be faithful to the guy if i wanted because i also told him i eventually wanna settle down. He always said "as long as you happy". Today i work in corporate and earning my own money and he is still my support structure. Sometimes some of these guys should just be honest enough to give us a chance to still explore realistic goals.
@NG-th8ny
@NG-th8ny Жыл бұрын
He ‘allowed you’ and ‘let you’!? That’s ridiculous. No shame or self worth.
@kgomotsomogashoa8870
@kgomotsomogashoa8870 Жыл бұрын
@@NG-th8ny My wording was not meant to start a whole feminism vs patriarchy debate. I had the choice to stay. Has nothing to do with self-worth. The point is he prevented the whole situation of me thinking he would actually leave his family for me, i never even considered that.
@Lexi88912
@Lexi88912 Жыл бұрын
Angel right I always say them emotional scars you get was the material things worth it knowing the truth because it cost you something
@feliciaparker2462
@feliciaparker2462 Жыл бұрын
Run girl, don't waste your time it's single men .That's ready to give you what you want .I wasted 4 years told the same thing. The wife told me he never asked for a divorce. He was happy married the whole time .
@kenyab3526
@kenyab3526 11 ай бұрын
I needed a Ashly dropping 💎 when I was in my 20 she gave real ish…
@rosalynechisanga2703
@rosalynechisanga2703 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this.
@spicyni6530
@spicyni6530 Жыл бұрын
Ángel is very wise and a beauty
@mrshappilymarried1
@mrshappilymarried1 Жыл бұрын
She has no clue what "Intuition" nor has she tapped into it. She's wasting her time.
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