Hey Mama 👶🏼✨ are you in your Boring Era too?

[@steph9561]

I think everyone needs to realize again that you are sharing parts of your life that normally are private. Anyone who Vlogs their day-to-day life are going to go through busy phases, slow phases, anxious phases, depressed phases, happy phases, sad phases, exciting phases, and so forth you cannot be expected to keep everyone’s attention like you are making a $3 billion movie for the big screen! your true followers appreciate the mundane because it’s relatable and we get you, thank you for continuing to share your family, your ups and downs because essentially we’re all going through the same thing. As a mother of three and 1/2 yr old I need a village in real life and online to continue to remind me that it’s OK to have a boring life lol

[@steph9561]

Sorry I had to edit this a million times Brit, I was using speak to text while I did laundry. Boring! 😂

[@NancyBayyoud]

​@@steph9561 You're doing amazing you know? ❤

[@lindsaylele]

Single mom living with my parents with a 3 year old, went back to school and am starting over. Not dating. Boring is not bad!

[@MalinaCC]

I totally understand the “boring” lifestyle. My whole life my parents lived that way and I didn’t understand it. When I stopped to think about it, they had been through so much in their childhood (refugees who escaped genocide) that boring is actually incredibly peaceful, enjoyable, and something they worked hard to have. If you have been through a lot, the boring times are honestly a nice break from the chaos. There is nothing wrong with not needing to fill every second of the day with a new experience or stimuli ❤

[@yourstruly6107]

thats a great perspective 🙏🏻

[@lt8438]

I love seeing the raw and real parenting moments. I also have a 4 year old daughter and I felt so seen when you and Arrow have a little moment of feelings over the plate and snacks. It's all our first time on this planet. It's my first time being a mom, her first time being a daughter and we're all learning and trying our best. Thank you for including these moments.

[@ceeceero]

My “boring” life is so peaceful. My husband and I aren’t living reckless drinking every weekend, we aren’t toxic fighting and insecure. But most importantly our children are being raised in a healthy and safe home with consistency. 😌 it’s nice to not worry to “keep up” with everyone else who honestly is barely hanging on.

[@heather1650]

I think the words nurturing and grounding may also be good words that describe this era for you and your family. You are definitely not simply boring. You are taking care of yourself and your loved ones and spending time with them and it requires a lot. You are amazing!

[@jessicadaniel6345]

While I truly understand why you had to explain what you’re future content will look like do to a comment she left (I saw it in the last video), sounds like she hasn’t seen your older video explaining your mental health & what your future content is gonna look like. Honestly, I’m here for it! I’ve been following you since fall of 2020 and you’ve been through so much since then. Not sure if that lady has a child or not, but if she does, it’s like she forgot what it’s like becoming a mom while finding who you are with gaining this amazing role in your life. I have 2 miracle girls and I’m finally at a place where I love this new me. It goes without saying that you’re not going to be the old Brittany and the same content. You’re forever evolving 🫶🏼

[@BlaackStones]

Nothing about having a loving family and living a peaceful life is boring. Trust me. I’ve been battling a chronic illness with absolutely no support - and I love watching your videos. This is just giving me so much hope for my life. Truly, I wait for your videos each week. They make my day. Please continue to post them ❤️

[@hstrickland2012]

I too am in my boring era and it’s just a fact of life right now. I don’t have the capacity. If friends want to hang, it needs to be at home bc I just want to chill out with zero expectations. Being a mom is overwhelming and overstimulating. You’re doing your best!

[@kimberlyh.3483]

I love these "boring" vlogs. No one can be expected to have 24/7 excitement in their lives. You should do a space tour. Basically show your space in your parents house and how you decorated and utilized storage. Or maybe decorate it for a vlog.

[@kayaconstance]

I get like that as a vlogger tho, my life ain’t always exciting as a mum with little bit of free time and it makes me think if I should even bother recording my DITLs cause it’s “boring” 🤷🏼‍♀️ 😅

[@TiarraKennedyMurray]

I love and needed this video. I will find me again one day soon. For now, my girls have all of me.

[@ninam9303]

I've been going through some medical stuff recently and it's definitely my boring era! Arrow needs the stability of routine as do you with everything going on. There's a whole life together to do things out of the box. Take in this special time living with your parents and everything will fall into place one piece at a time. I think you're doing an incredible job Brit. From one tired Mama to another! ❤

[@nicholekeller4427]

I love these videos! My husband is currently deployed and boring is beautiful in this season of my life! Thank you for always staying true to yourself!❤

[@sdafergu]

You're daughter saying "I'm waiting!" In the background 😂

[@landrykiser]

I’ve watched you since the pregnancy and milestone videos because I was pregnant at the same time! Seeing where you are today makes me tear up too because I can relate to how overwhelming the pressure is to be the best mom that you are while also making decisions that will be most beneficial in the future rather than the time being. It’s valid to go ahead and grieve that feeling and then work/focus towards the dream of the future, which isn’t always the best answer it’s still a struggle BUT this is where God teaches you the most about you, your values, your limits, parts of your heart that you didn’t even know you had 💖

[@Antiheroicas]

I think your chat at the end really helped me. And also comments from here too were in such similar places and I’m so glad we can all rally here in a little online community to cheer each other on

[@elisadeluca6870]

Relatable and comforting to watch ❤️ definitely not boring

[@TheBeogradjanka84]

My parents live with me and my husband and our two kids and honestly I feel so blessed to have them and help me around , my mom is amazing she helps all the time with kids , I can leave when I need to without hassle which is amazing to have these days . You are not boring we are mature at some point and choose quality over quantity :)

[@lauragoddardify]

My son will be 4 in January, he’s exactly the same as how Arrow was with the food. I’ve been worrying that it’s just him but seeing this and the comments has made me realised I’m not alone 😅 his attitude sometimes is so bad and I raised him to be the kindest boy (which he still is inbetween). When you said she’s broken the family, I could SO relate. We went on holiday with my parents and the first few days were great but after that, everyone was just exhausted. Kids are just SO tiring!!

[@jhovanaespinoza16]

Love ya Brittany, looking forward to your “boring” vloggs. You are not! But let’s run with it lol your life looks a whole lot like mine, it’s comforting to watch your videos🩷💖

[@claireanderson9155]

I love this video, you have so much going on in your life!!! I personally love simple, super simple living it's what I strive for, definitely resonated with me, my introverted soul needs simple. You're an amazing momma and daughter ❤️❤️❤️

[@stephanierenee6934]

this is my favorite video that you've posted recently! loved the conversation and honesty at the end. my oldest son is almost 4 and his little brother was just born a couple weeks ago. i'm staying home with my newborn for a couple months and similarly to you, every day is pretty much the same right now and i'm just trying to soak it in while it lasts. this time is a gift and not something i want to take for granted. thanks for keeping it real :)

[@cassyrattler3922]

I can totally relate too this video. That’s exactly how I’m feeling “in that boring faze” I feel like I can’t relate to most people right now. I’m in mommy mode and focusing on being the best mom. And also loving myself and working on my mental health. There’s just not anytime in my life for extra people and drama. Stay strong Brittany!

[@kellyhampson4548]

I'm so with you on the boring phase! Having little kids is boring, you're on their routine and doing everything for them. We'll get excitement back one day but we don't need it right now. Also I feel you on the hard feelings when she says she doesn't have friends. We moved 2 years ago to small town and still haven't managed to make any friends here and I feel so guilty all the time that my kids don't have friends 😢

[@Antiheroicas]

The snack plate exchange is the epitome of having a 4 year old 😂

[@lifeofjenniferb]

As someone who is in similar situation, single mum, live with my parents, my life seems pretty boring, fitness is my outlet, I just ran my first marathon. But besides that I pretty much do nothing, just hang out with my daughter and work 😂 I think your vlogs are very relatable for a lot of people so don’t think you’re boring, you’re amazing and doing your best 🩷

[@dramacoachpodcast]

I went on a very short weekend away (flew Fri night, vacay Saturday, flew back Sunday morning) when my daughter was almost 2 and I was pregnant with my second. I had never done it before and I felt so much guilt (FYI- I am an acting coach and I had a student performing in off-Broadway so it was a one-off chance to go support her). I felt all the selfishness and took on sorting all the meals etc prior and was really ott to relieve guilt. It was so unnecessary - she had a blast, I had a reset and came back my best self. Enjoy your girl trip and know it’s part of being a good mom! You are teaching her to do things for herself and look after herself, and also showing her you are allowed to be more than just mommy and you will also come back refreshed and desperate to see her! ❤

[@isladerossi]

I am 100% part of your community and like you said we are here for the good, the bad, and the boring! LOL Although you are not boring, even just seeing your OOTD is always interesting! I am currently disabled and there is barely anything I can do physically but I find ways to be active and creative whether it's boring for others! Love you, Brittany!!!

[@cairo9675]

I so so appreciate you sharing! No one talks about real life experience and its difficult to connect when they don’t. Boring is amazing. Boring is a blessing ❤❤ you definitely made me cry 😂

[@Nutritionbyanni]

Just here to say that you are so resilient and a wonderful mom. Going through many changes yet again myself, I'm on board with "boring" hahaha

[@sunshine037gv]

I had to pause mid video to say I'm dying over here at Arrow's food demands 😂😂 It is incredible how much of the similar conversations/orders I get from my girl at almost the same age. They are trying to ruin us! 😂😂 Having someone so cute give us orders in the sassiest way possible is something I feel that none of us were prepared for 😅

[@wncbeegirl8268]

I love your videos about parenting/being a mom . I know that’s not your entire identity but as a new mom, you inspire me 💗

[@lindseyGibbons-e8v]

Don’t think your videos are boring at all. I enjoy your content bc it’s wholesome and I can relate to you and your struggles. I got rid of all my social medias and only get on KZbin to watch your videos. you are the only influencer that I watch bc you’re so down to earth and real. I also love your hair and outfits that you create. ❤

[@Overhalu]

I'm here for it! I will forever be in my boring era because that is the level of peace I need. Coparenting has been difficult with my almost 4yr and 1.5yr old. Everything the father does affect me but he cannot seem to understand or recognize it and continues to be a horrible communicator. And yet I continue to let him tell me lies and allow him to hurt me.

[@darianalexi]

Hi Brittany! I’ve watched your content for a ridiculous number of years; when I struggled to get out of my house I’d look forward to watching your content. It was like being with a friend. I wish you and your family the best. 💛

[@thaliavergel2980]

Your life is not boring . Love seeing the authentic videos and self. Brings me joy but hope you can find true happiness and smile more. Love you. Link to those glasses please

[@sapphirestorm9874]

Never been so early! Just about to start watching but this resonates with me! My son is 27 months and im a SAHM and I feel very boring orher than being a mom! You however are not boring! ❤ Edited to add i love how strong willed Arrow is! My son is the same he breaks us down (in the nicest way).

[@flor6392]

As a stay at home mom when people ask me what I do all day . I just say take care of my daughter and the house and dog. People have that disinterested look . To then it seems like a "boring" everyday life but to me I'm getting to watxh my daughter grow before my eyes and witness all her firsts

[@emilywade3302]

I love this phase of your life! Don’t feel obligated to do anything different ❤

[@lenas5630]

I think most non- influencers have a similar life to your "boring" phase. Most people work and sit at home- that's about it. Maybe the occasional social interaction or one time a year weekend vacation. So this blog is relatable to most! Don't worry about it 😊

[@laurenhartso]

I remember the year I got a new job, got married and bought a house I was like I just want to do nothing for the next year after all that stress. Sometimes being boring is the best.

[@patriciabalzer4114]

You need to continue to be the amazing you. Just because this channel is about you and your journey it doesn’t mean you owe anyone on it anything. Continue being the inspiring woman you are. I continue coming back not because all your adventures but because you make me smile. Every time you interact with Arrow I always whisper that you’re such a great mommy. Please don’t feel regret for filling your cup up. Yes, Arrow may be struggling with the change. But so are you. I’m sure if your parents were feeling overwhelmed they’d say so. Your relationship with your mom is so beautiful, she would never withhold from you. You just be you. ❤️

[@007ButterflyEffect]

I love all your videos! Boring or not your such an amazing mommy and I can only imagine how much you have on your plate! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@MsUndead96]

I love love love this! Self care to the max. Sending you all the good vibes your way!

[@hazeit]

You're the most relatable content creator for me. Thank you !

[@alexandrashayne4121]

I hope everything be okay god bless you and your whole family, my prayers go out to you. your a wonderful mom and your doing such a great job ❤

[@nicolekerlin6185]

Hearing the "no snack plate" thing made me feel better. My daughter is 4 and has been giving us all the sass lately 😂

[@Ceelvee]

Brittany the fact that hundreds of people check YT every Monday for a new video from you is pretty strong signal that you are NOT boring. You're entertaining to watch just doing normal human stuff, and lots of people relate to you even if your life isn't flamboyant and even seems mundane to some. Just keep being you.

[@wes2356]

Living with family is the best you could ask for, especially with your little one!!!

[@susanalba928]

I love listening about your boring life. Lol I wish I lived in a small town where the pace of life is just a bit slower. It’s not always a bad thing for adults and kids as well. Hope your mom feels better soon!

[@tierrakalisperis4875]

Your daughter and my son are very close in age and the plate and food scenario is so relatable 😆

[@sarafina7067]

"what other people think of me is none of my business!" LOL. love that quote. Anyways, you're doing amazing, keep your head up and you're not boring! lots of love.

[@sarasandoval3808]

I enjoy watching your videos no matter what you do or talk about. I started following you when you were pregnant with Arrow because I was also starting my motherhood journey. My daughter is just about the same age as Arrow and she is just as sassy. She loves acting like the mommy and takes it very seriously 😂

[@420Shortay]

Thx for sharing and for being real!

[@Frescaxo]

You are not boring! 😊 You are definitely so down to earth and relatable. You have grown but you don’t change for others and you stay true to yourself. You certainly don’t write journals and sip on coffee’s all day while pretending to make yourself and the world better 😂

[@-cassandra]

Wish you the best on whatever coming next ❤️ that you mentioned in your ig stories❤️ P.s Arrow is the cutest

[@ashleyglasser346]

I am loving my boring era and love watching your "boring" era vlogs. Although that last little bit got me curious what your baby daddy is doing that is not wise choices... 🤔😅 too exciting for boring era, Brittany! Haha

[@leannekaiser3598]

I’m definitely in my boring era with a 3.5 yo and craving simplicity and routines. Travel sounds blah and a night at home sounds divine 😊

[@dioselinamirabal]

You’re an amazing human being 🥹🩷

[@melissah.9115]

Appreciate you!! As a mom I totally relate to this content 💕

[@lovekimberleyday9232]

He doing amazing thanks for showing how life really is xx

[@TaylorandLucasGarcia]

I like the slower vibe of this vlog better actually !

[@tobulainetobulas3640]

Love you and your not a boring but normal life!❤ Why always people want to get excited rainbow jumping videos? Its not reality. I live in different faze of my life, and now - I am chill. I do not date, I have 3 children, I focus on them and my health, financal sides. And I we do not have to run for something, we have to give universe some space to show how universe is supprting as and surprising as in a wonderful way! 💚

[@cathycurtis1218]

I enjoy your vlogs very much ! Thanks so much for sharing your life with us!

[@vanessaestrada3729]

Same, it's just the season of raising little humans. We'll miss it when it's over. ❤

[@rosenrooot_2023]

I'm at the same 'being okay being boring' place 😂❤

[@nyaradzonhubu497]

Proud of you Brittany you are doing a good job, may the dear Lord watch over you and give you strength and continue to shower you with blessings

[@aleksandrastojanovic3172]

You are showing your life, and life has highs and lows and all the in-betweens. I love your videos now because I find them more relatable. I hope Arrow will adjust to the new home and routine soon, and I wish you all the patience in the world.❤ BTW, what is with the kids and yelling? 😂I have an almost 3-year old and once she started daycare with the older kids (3-5) she started yelling at us, so we are doing the same thing you are - explaining there is no need to raise voices and keeping our cool but it has been challenging.

[@Fendi106]

Don't listen to him, you didn't make a bad decision...quite the opposite. This family time will also benefit your daughter in the long run. And if he doesn't want to step up because you moved away and it's no longer easy to be there for arrow...this is his fault not yours! You are doing your part in being a good mother. God Bless ❤

[@mrnb2125]

Magnesium glycinate w/ B6 for pmdd! Proven to help mood and pain in clinical studies. Saved me!

[@brittanybalyn]

@@mrnb2125 ooo I’ll have to try that, I just was prescribed medication for my next cycle, but I’d like to try your options first. Thank you!

[@kaitlinross4348]

Yessss boring mom era❤️❤️ Perfect way to describe this time of life lol

[@ashleighreneau7114]

The way I laughed out loud at the snack scene 😂😂😂 my daughter is so similar and only 3 so we’re bracing ourselves

[@SyntheticGhoul666]

Life is always going to be difficult and I know how it is having a mother who has gone through cancer and the side effects of things and that they can’t do the same things that they use to do and it’s hard. Having kids in the picture and having to make difficult choices is hard, I get that. You can only do what feels right to you. I know the feeling.. my mom has had breast cancer for the last two years and I’ve been staying with her for awhile off and on but then my dad ended up falling one night (he’s been a fall risk for years and has several falls over the years) and he decided to go to the hospital and he never came home.. I’ve been staying with my mom since she had her surgery and now she’s going through immunotherapy (it’s like chemo but not as harsh), she has to have this for at least a year and well.. since my dad has sadly passed away, I’ve been having to make some difficult choices myself. I feel like I can’t stay at my boyfriends as much as I did when my dad was alive and I have a step son that misses having me there as often as I was (I would go back and forth from my place to my boyfriends place to my parents place a lot and spend weeks or months even at a time at my boyfriends) and I don’t feel like I can do that anymore. My mom and well almost everyone in our lives thinks it’s best for me to move in with my mom for a while. I can relate with things putting a lot of pressure on me and decisions affect me as well..

[@vskob1234]

Hey!!! Yeah, isn’t it amazing how no one tells you that after 1,2 more pregnancies, your pms is going to be the worst it’s ever been??? It’s a thing that no one talks about, but reddit has entire posts on it! Something with the hormones and body and stuff, but yes, I was never like this before my period and now I have to tell my family there’s a few days where everything mentally and physically is the worst

[@VivianPinto]

I don’t think you’re boring, so maybe that’s means I’m also boring 😂 and I here for it! Moms need boring things too. There’s a lot of excitement going on already

[@Sik2ks]

Commenting to support you❤ you are doing a great job.

[@mercedesalissa]

Boring mom to a hectic 4 year old daughter here✋🏼 I actually have to tell my daughter, "sometimes we need to be bored". Because if she had it her way, we'd be doing something every second of every day. And momma has neither the 4 year old energy or that mental resilience😂 Also, I don't know if I found a magic trick or what but my daughter's in a stage where everything and anything I ask her to do is a fight/battle/blowup. Last night, I was asking her to put pj's on and it immediately turned into her flailing around/yelling/throwing a fit. At this stage, I usually get overwhelmed and fed up as well. Well instead, mid fit, I asked her if she wanted a hug... she almost goes to start arguing but stops and says yes. We hug, she then... starts putting on her pjs😳 Could be a fluke, could be a glitch in the matrix. But then this morning, something happened again. She dropped something off the fridge and I asked her to pick it up. She says no and tells me to pick it up. I wait a minute and say "do you need a hug?" And she says yeah. We hug... and then she just walks over and picks the thing up and puts it on the fridge. I didn't even ask her to do it again. If these sound anything like what you're going through, maybe give it a try😂 I don't want to look a gift horse in the mouth but I don't know what's happening and felt I had to share😅

[@jordanlyd8691]

We need the shoe links!!

[@bella.levezow]

I have the same black purse from amazon!!!

[@christengardner1466]

Im definitely in my boring mom era.

[@HasminRose]

Laughing at the snack clip and Regina George reference 😂

[@charlottefern7438]

The boring videos are my favourite videos

[@ADG247]

I much prefer the “boring” that I want to call “normal” vlogs. Your hair look amazing btw

[@thelmarivera8493]

Where can I get the oura ring?😊

[@mommybreakdown]

Anytime I’m having a hard time, I remind myself that I’m on a floating rock 😅❤

[@mommybreakdown]

Btw if you ever want to binge some old Supernanny videos with commentary, I have a whole playlist on my channel. We talk a lot about parenting challenges and focus on science-backed solutions. You are not alone with that snack plate scene haha

[@karinauribe8301]

Wish I could go back home too with my daughter.

[@PAHGirly]

I come here for relatable content. ❤

[@julieloera2380]

your right were you need to be in you know it your making memories whit your family.

[@jmt1217]

I'm so glad you stopped showing arrow in your videos!! Good for you! Awesome mom, putting your daughter first!

[@ashleyglasser346]

We miss you!

[@f.vachon4171]

Go through your videos and redo throw back videos. Do make up tutorials, make a list of baby names you like ( you don’t have to be pregnant to do it ), make new videos of what Arrow is into at her age, go to a store and film trying on a bunch of outfits to help us fashion illiterate lol Just some idea in case your struggling. You don’t have to recreate the wheel you have a large fan base that loves you!!

[@MSuc9kc]

Loved this video

[@SarahTypes]

canadian 'tuxedo' haha

[@ashleym5000]

I train dogs, exercise, clean, and talk to kids all day long. Sadly, this is the most interesting ive ever been😂

[@rileydix5]

I love the mundane! It’s life 🎉

[@daisyjackson2349]

Please share Grandpa’s french frie recipe! 💗😍

[@danaoates4679]

The salt was too loud! 😅💜

[@francescadavid5628]

It like she’s Regina George 😂 I relate

[@Mike_5]

Boring people should not be ignored in life it is OK and your neck tattoo is very nice but super covert too 🤫

[@GinaShort-q7g]

I realize that your daughter is feeling all the things moving to a new place, but it is disappointing how she knows very little in the manners department (I've seen this for a long time in your videos). She bosses you around, demands different plates, tells you to "hurry up". She doesn't speak to you with respect at all. And what's worse? You never seem to correct her or require manners to receive anything. One of the last things we need in this world is more entitled, ill-mannered people. (I am a mom and my child is not even 3 and she wouldn't speak to me like that, or demand me around. She has learned manners are required, and if she does try to speak to me or her father like that, she is asked to please try again. As you can imagine, she doesn't do it very often because it never yields the results she's looking for)

[@claudiavillanueva-gz3qx]

I agree with your parenting very much but something about giving unsolicited advice really gives “mean girl “ feels so when you talk about “entitled “ people in the world your comment is right around the corner from it.

[@youtubeacc]

There is a difference between a child modelling manners and you demanding they give manners. It’s the same as when you tell a child to say thank you or apologize, it’s not a true and genuine one if you’re demanding it. There’s plenty of time for them to learn genuine manners without us screaming them at them. I have a 2.5 year old and we have never taught him to say thank you and he just picked it up on his own from listening to us say it to others. If he forgets to say it, I let it slide. We have to remember they are kids, not robots.