Hey Steve: How Do You Ask A Guy Out?

[@OtherDude]

One thing just to keep in mind, some guys are just shy/nervous. Some guys are really afraid of that possible rejection. So he battles with himself trying to overcome that or wait for her to give a strong enough signal to make a move.

[@shashwatsharma4420]

True, I love women who are more open and don't sit in the corner satisfying their ego.

[@Lucke-lp7xm]

@@shashwatsharma4420 i think women being assertive sexually is actualy really hot

[@roxana4218]

That is true. That’s why it’s important for the woman to send the right signals and make herself approachable.

[@OtherDude]

@@roxana4218 I know Steve is old fashioned but I'm also not against the idea of women asking men out. I think that should be more common.

[@amlou4975]

@@OtherDude I approached a guy in person, asked him to hangout, he said yes to chill at the lakefront (whatever idc) and he cut me a deal on my tattoo session. Few days later I ask him out to see if this weekend would be good, no response... views my ig story the same day I texted him. After not viewing it for a few days when I got the tattoo done by him/ when I had asked him out in person.

[@taybee4653]

I just feel like somebody really wants you, they will come after you.

[@sarahbutler5463]

Yes, check out their intentions / motives that's the wonderful thing about having a dad he can't fool daddy 🤔

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

Yups same, Ive never really approached a woman is she really wants me they will come after you

[@nightgoggles9931]

If we all had this mentality, all of us would be single

[@suzanneschulz8479]

Took 35 years later to BELIEVE you are right.

[@willie.j4098]

Tayler Buster it is not like that

[@bwong6897]

Steve Harvey : Female Audience: 👏👏👏👏👏

[@1st_b]

Bryan Wong ** Steve Harvey: *Panders to female audience* Female Audience: 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@duckmcgee8979]

Somebody needs to the way these grown little boys treat them

[@nightgoggles9931]

@@duckmcgee8979 Steve panders to/ coddles all of these women. A comedian with multiple failed marriages, a rep of cheating, giving advice on respecting women. The irony! He doesn't even believe a lot of this stuff. He just knows he can make millions selling it

[@angosin3237]

Brandon Curtis, he made mistakes yes, perhaps he also learnt from them.

[@willie.j4098]

Bryan Wong right

[@ЁниЁнсон]

besides being gorgeous your skin complexion is👌👌

[@johndelaney1787]

She is really cute

[@chavelsolomon7758]

Ёни Ёнсон nice

[@briw8562]

Soooooo facts

[@MrNanah38]

I love that dark skinned

[@Ujjwal927]

Are we talking about the girl who asked the question? If so, I am not dating her even if she was the last girl on the planet. She needs to drop some blubber

[@judithobuje6312]

This ask Steve has been helping me a lot! I have a 14 year old and am a single mother so you can imagin how helpful Steve been to us!always here! Etching from Kenya.

[@simongatama424]

🗣 Wamlambez 😁😁

[@denyss3476]

I like that answer! People can have s face to face conversation anymore! Yes, what you allow is what you get.. Amen Steve..

[@anthonyword6914]

I wonder if Diddy knocked on the door? I like Steve advice. But he always seems to have all the answers. He's too perfect!

[@ms.goldenbrown6846]

Lol hell nawl diddy a millionair 😂😂😂😂

[@rsznlifestyle]

The problem is these thing don’t really work. He saying the guy should do whatever the girl wants. That’s unattractive to females. He should do what he wants and if she doesn’t like it she will move on. That’s how the game is played.Steve is just telling females what they want to hear not what they are attracted to. You as a man would love to smash a lot of women. You’d like to hear yes from them all, but the one who you are really attracted to is the one who is a challenge. Same with the women.

[@thruthemotions]

Hes not perfect. He had many divorces before his final marriage with Margerie

[@claudiacastrillon4440]

Diddy and Diddys son 😌😜😜😜😜

[@suraj-op2bx]

Her skins is reflecting light and making her shine

[@bobosims1848]

Steve: "You gotta look in somebody's eyes, and you gotta feel something. You can't text that!" Me :WORD!

[@iceboss226]

Woman, approach the man and let him know you wanna talk or something. When you talk, let him know your future relationship plans in a subtle way. If he's interested, y'all can date and see if things workout. If you scare him off, he's not the one for you. If he wants to netflix and chill, tell him you not that kind of person. Quit playing stupid old games and wasting time. A lot of single women are still waiting for a guy to approach them....

[@enniswhalen2428]

L S - As you can see, women enjoy the double standard !

[@queenriri9393]

So in your opinion, as a man...its ok for a woman to approach a man?

[@sepulcher8263]

@@queenriri9393 Yes.

[@TheQueenNoco]

He never answered her question...

[@twalabusi_siwe2346]

I think he did indirectly

[@GoogleAccount00]

He never answers the questions......

[@TheQueenNoco]

@@twalabusi_siwe2346 He didnt lol she asked how does she put it out there that she is interested....he started talking about opening car doors and his kids lol

[@krissmgvlogs]

He was saying to her let the man take the initiative. Don't be too easy. Even after he ask you out he still has to act like a gentleman. If you ask him out he will treat you accordingly.

[@twalabusi_siwe2346]

@@TheQueenNoco I kinda got the " you don't ask him out" vibe just indirectly.... Like the guy has to make a move to show interest. Maybe , maybe not 😀

[@MrGodismypower]

All I got from this is that a woman shouldn't ask a man out because it's not her job. A man should be the one to do it according to Steve. Gonna be a lot of lonely women then. Regardless of your gender, a closed mouth doesn't get fed.

[@patriciakelley1174]

Among the different roles assigned to men and women in the Bible, men are assigned the role of leadership. God’s design and assignment of equally valuable roles among spiritually equal beings. Men initiate; women respond.

[@MrGodismypower]

@@patriciakelley1174 let me ask you this and be completely honest: you follow the rules of the Bible 100% of the time?

[@Pinky_Piie]

Nobody could

[@Varaidzo1]

I still think women can let a guy know she is interested and most times women make men into who they are

[@stephelisabeth3143]

MrGodismypower this. You have got to be honest about how you feel. Gender doesn’t matter. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t expect effort of course, but there’s nothing wrong with asking a guy out. If he takes that as an excuse to barely lift a finger throughout the entirety of the relationship, he was just never interested to begin with. Has nothing to do with you asking him out

[@tonib4625]

He didn’t answer her question but his suite is fye ❤️

[@Sabza015]

He did though

[@dimitrz2000]

Update: the poor girl has still not gone on a date because she is waiting for the guy to make the first move 😂 I think Steve completely missed the jest of the question. Correct advice would have been : With so many things going around boys these days would be more nervous to ask a girl on date. So if you like a guy, there is nothing stopping you or there is no disrespect in you asking the guy out.

[@chaes2040]

So....the point is that you don’t ask a guy out. They ask YOU out.

[@heliaalves9062]

Completely agree!

[@heliaalves9062]

@@leanophologolo9066 Allow me to tell you that if a guy is truly into a woman, if she's good looking, he will definitely ask her out. If a woman needs to throw herself at the guy, he won't say no but I don't believe he will be serious. This is just speaking from experience, maybe someone else has had different experiences.

[@123CREATIONS]

@@leanophologolo9066 Rejection is apart of life.🤷🏿‍♀️ Men shouldnt take it personal..maybe your just not the one for her..or maybe she is not ready just yet.

[@krissmgvlogs]

@@leanophologolo9066 Rubbish. If you get rejected, move on.

[@leanophologolo9066]

@@123CREATIONS there are diffrent reasons why they get rejected but was just saying

[@planbtvnews]

When man truly love you, you become their ancient automanual remote with only voice and and sign control.

[@ArchiveTremendous]

Plan-B TV plan-beta TV

[@planbtvnews]

@@ArchiveTremendous Hahaha i will Appreciate Guidelines

[@ericksantos4555]

How do you ask a guy out? The same way he asks you out. It's that easy. The worst a girl can say is no. Same applies to women. Worst he can say is no. If it's such a simple process, then do it. Doesn't matter who asks who out. Read the situation and make a move. Rejection isn't an excuse because no one likes to be rejected.

[@HinaTa-moj]

her skin is perfect

[@mattward262]

Can you imagine Diddy ringing Steve’s doorbell lol

[@beverlyhigh620]

At, just turned 61, I'm dating again. The widowed men of my generation are the most polite, kind. The divorced are usually the rudest and pushiest. I have 3 rules for myself; 1: no sex without commitment, 2: no drinking or smoking, I'm not kissing an ashtray or a booze bottle, 3: have manners, be kind. By the way, I'm divorced and started dating after 18 years of no relationships because I had a younger daughter at home.

[@nightgoggles9931]

I guess that explains why you're so rude and pushy

[@simadownah]

Brandon Curtis lmao. Go cry in the corner.

[@shashwatsharma4420]

Your rules are not rules, they are etiquettes. Also all the best

[@DaphneOrtiz]

He didn’t answer the question: how to ask him out? Lol

[@amitramsingh3565]

That what not p.diddy said your daughter went to his house 😂😂😂

[@audreyc1091]

Amit Ramsingh 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@njaunjeru9575]

Gorgeous, gorgeous, sister... Damn, you deserve a guy who respect's you because you look upright and well raised

[@rc653]

That chuckle at 1:01 was the cutest. :)

[@floydbanks1777]

Time is a precious thing. You can't get it back. Don't wait and expect the guy to know how you want to be treated. Tell him. Say, " Okay, let's go out on a date. You meet me at my place. You treat the first time. I'll treat the second ".

[@aann7132]

Floyd Banks we don’t ask men on dates and we don’t pay.

[@Pinky_Piie]

Women pay and ask guys out on dates, it's just you won't do it

[@Thekingdom912]

Asia A why take a girl on a date if she can’t benefit you more then just giving you sex?

[@ngozichineke1438]

@@aann7132 preach!

[@twitch8763]

That's the truth right there

[@iamchekka]

Steve has a lot of experience and great advice ✊💯❗

[@MsCandyKush_YT]

Never ask a man out! Let him choose you and ask you out.

[@eoinoconnor5783]

If that’s how you feel then you’d better be worth it to be asked out in the first place.

[@ZionFame]

Yea, true if a man wants you he will do anything for you The fact that he is not saying anything yet means he is still contemplating on your love girl 💁

[@zuesgodofthunder9361]

Rainy Zion or he’s just shy? Lol

[@ZionFame]

@@zuesgodofthunder9361 mmmm really, 😉

[@zuesgodofthunder9361]

Rainy Zion or lacks confidence🤷🏽‍♂️ Many reasons why😜

[@Abc-cp6cb]

Exactly if a man wants you hell let you know. Otherwise, be quit and stay in the kitchen. When the man is ready for you hell let you know.

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

Same if a woman wants you she will do anything for you a real women ain’t gonna waste a mans time. Goes both ways just sayin 💁🏼‍♂️

[@aetl100]

I agree. It's allowed ... What if you are 24 and not living with your parents? 24 and still living at home? An adult does not need anyone's permission-but why not have the young man or woman you are interested in ring the bell and say hi. If it gets serious then you can ask them over for dinner. Some people are cautious about letting a new relationship in any shape or form into their home. Others don't want their new relationship introduced into the family unless they know or believe he/she is Mr./Ms. right.

[@buttercupthetortoise7806]

I genuinely feel like no girl wants me. I’ve been rejected at least 5-8 times. And they never want me. Any advice or any knowledge on what I should do?

[@Nextgenerationkdz]

I wouldn’t put a “like” on this I’d put a “LOVE ♥️ “ on this video. Thanks Steve, Sincerely “Van” S.Y.C.

[@lynnjones6630]

If a female think a male should do all the foot work, brothers let her keep walking

[@Ujjwal927]

Indeed, we got better and more decent females

[@NBaBall3r26]

he should have asked her, how long have they have know each other? Some men can can be shy/nervous but EVENTUALLY they will step up & ask. One can ONLY wait so long...before its too late.......

[@sylviarosario6503]

I don’t agree, just go up to the guy and say, would you like to meet for coffee, tea. Something simple as first, if the man accepts great. If he declines, no big deal. All these rules in dating are ridiculous. Who the hell needs to meet someone’s legal guardian on s damn first date. This isn’t a marriage proposal.

[@johnhand3856]

Then the woman (if the man isn't attractive) has the ability to files 53xua1 harassment charges against him, as for the man anything he claims just gets laughed off. That sound like a great deal, sign me up....SMH

[@brookethomas5158]

@@johnhand3856 You're a bit off topic there 😗

[@johnhand3856]

@@brookethomas5158 Explain, how so?

[@donne32701]

@@johnhand3856 what is you talking about dude?

[@fionadarlingb]

Steve is right on! It's what she attracts and what she allows, our generation still has some men (not boys) who open doors, go on dates, bring flowers, ect..they're harder to find but they're out there.

[@Thekingdom912]

Darling B most dudes well dudes I know for sure would give that treatment but a lot of women view you as a weaker male these days and a lot of women will still make you compete with other dudes instead of giving the guy all the energy you have to give in that department

[@SirBrucie]

Imagine doing all that only to get flaked on or used. That's a good way to get screwed over.

[@xheartiiz]

Women are the creators of life! We can ask a guy out. We can make the first move. Stop listening to these made up rules. If you like a guy, let him know you’re interested. If the feeling is mutual, great... if not, fine.

[@xjd8375]

He lost me when he said that Millenniums are the brightest group of people and they just want to “Netflix and Chill”!! Well, thinking about it I guess they are!!! 😂☝🏻

[@1castellp]

Every time i ask a woman out, she says no. I'm 40 years old. Some at my age might disagree but I feel like that boat has sailed. My plan is to be happy alone. (Forced smile)

[@nakangujuliet2068]

Ask me out😊😊 at 40 the boat hasn't sailed yet and m sorry to hear about that

[@zemram]

Dude try bromance it's lovely

[@enniswhalen2428]

1 c - Whenever you exhibit your "forced smile", think of the bullets you dodged from divorce, child support,child custody and a MISERABLE existence that got out of control.

[@joshuasarabjit]

First positive statement about millennials. That felt good to hear.

[@Jen-bu1oq]

I honestly don't see nothing wrong with females making the first move.

[@immjaded-2676]

Me either. If U truly like someone go for it

[@BusinessBox13]

Bc there isn’t anything wrong with it. Fragile egos (men and women) hold to weird anecdotes and “traditions”.

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

Exactly !! I swear it’s like woman LOVE being approached and chased and having the ability to shutdown men...but can’t stand even the thought of it being reversed 🙄😂

[@dezos2900]

There is a lot wrong with that. It is spiritually, psychologically and emotionally wrong for a woman to ask a guy out.

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

De Zos but why do those woman with those beliefs have the most stuck up arrogant woman attitudes?? 😂 men and women should just ask out who they feel as long as they are single. It’s funny how when women make the first move or ask out a guy the only people that seem to can’t stand it is angry bitter single women....aka feminist 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

I never really asked girls out before, I’ve usually had girls ask me out. As much as angry feminists hate it, Ain’t nothing wrong with it. If you (guy or girl) like some one, as long as you know for sure that person is single make a move .

[@PapaJaja]

@adrian ramirez He doesn't know what a feminist is.

[@marcusfossa6695]

Asking women out is feminine behavior, no matter how confident you seem. Society needs to evolve to the point where women ask out men.

[@SirenaSpades]

Look at the weak men. Guys, you need to step and stop being soy boys.

[@Nectarine333]

@@marcusfossa6695nah, doesn’t feel natural. Not gonna happen

[@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862]

*We're not too complicated. Just the fact you're asking us is going to surprise us, which is a good thing.*

[@enniswhalen2428]

J - IGC - They think that they are far too high above you to ask you out.

[@amarjotsingh8455]

i agree with steve, that men should have basic manners and court women etc but i am 26 and this "tinder" generation is terrible :/

[@amarjotsingh8455]

@usher luck women have never and will never court men. i will never chase a man. thats not how nature works. i sure as hell will never ask a man out or pay for a date

[@stuarteaston1629]

@@amarjotsingh8455 That's why men don't find self entitled little girls like you appealing. You put yourselfs up on some kind of pedastal and expect men to do all the leg work in a relationship. That isn't an equal and healthy relationship. Relationships are a team effort not one person slaving after the other, so get over yourself.

[@amarjotsingh8455]

@@stuarteaston1629 when i first meet a guy we arent in a relationship, relax dude. men are suppose court, its not my fault youre a beta male and cant understand this very basic concept steve always talks about

[@stuarteaston1629]

@@amarjotsingh8455 Hardly a beta I've got an amazing fiance, unlike you who has nobody. And fyi she agrees that self entitled types like yourself are just plain awful. Also the fact that you watch someone like Steve for dating advice is beyond sad. A man divorced several times, has cheated numerous occasions and is well known to just pander to women, boy what a great example he sets haha. Normal folks look at Steve as a comical act not some life coach. You really need to get over yourself and get a grip.

[@amarjotsingh8455]

@@stuarteaston1629 i am "sad" for watching steve and here you are watching his videos LMAO clearly you arent happy with your girl or else you wouldn't be even watching these videos or responding. LMAO evaluate your own life partna. if your girl pays for dates and wants a beta thats on her. she just settled for you because you came along. but hey good luck on your marriage that will most likely fail!! :)))))

[@Gisellej80]

Right steve dating is not hard just be you

[@FemininelyFifi]

I really loved the distinguished look Mr Harvey

[@grozdinapetrowic4323]

Hey Steeeve... you are the best.... really the Best... your advice is experience of life!!! Love you man!

[@willie.j4098]

Grozdina Petrowic ok so can you tell me what was his answer to her?

[@tianamiller6820]

This is what women resort to when they fel like guys are moving too slow.. But really it could just be an indicator he's not that into you. I have way too much pride and dignity to ask out a man. I want to be courted, wined and dined and treated like the lady I am😊. Instead of lowering your boundaries for men, more women need to DEMAND more from them otherwise you will continue to receive the bare minimum for wotless dudes.

[@thrilla72]

Can't demand equality but still expect me to do all the chasing.

[@tianamiller6820]

@bubble butt I've been courted before though. Sorry to burst your bubble😎

[@sarahbutler5463]

You are so right , that's what lacking in some of thoes in the comment made to you , this is what happens when you don't have a dad around to teach what's proper and what's not proper 👍

[@tianamiller6820]

@bubble butt I watch most of steves vids for entertainment lol like most people do. That's like saying everyone who watches anything relationship related is seeking relationship advice, smart one aren't you?😂 but since you're presumably single that obviously means no girl wants your attention, not surprised with that attitude🤧

[@reneemyricks4306]

@bubble butt I'm on here and I'm not single. what now?

[@umar9483]

How comes my upload update came late? Feel hurt because i always want to be first to comment on Steve. I like u advice Steve🤝

[@ae8406]

P Diddy took notes lol

[@naimadelafeunte9165]

I was in greece on August for a Solo vacation i meet a guy when he smoke to me i Ignore him because i know what he comming for then he was all doing what Steve said just to get me.. He carry my Bag, he hold my hands when we are walking on Rocky Beach so i dont fall, Shows me places i wanna see for 2,5 Days that i stayed there just to get me.. The rest is History 🤷‍♀️

[@princentirwimura6920]

Ain't nobody out here pulling out chairs unless it's they mama. Gotta love equality!

[@patriciakelley1174]

It's good to know chivalry isn't totally dead with you.

[@nkryptchn0285]

Good advice Steve

[@JRob594]

Women there's nothing wrong with making the first move especially for us shy guys if you like somebody just tell them they might like you back

[@olgasa6943]

joseph robinson love is fierce and beyond shyness

[@Jonsnows]

Have it at the back of your mind one of the daughters have been passed around a lot (this is pure facts), so listen to this advice at your own predicament.

[@007TheLife]

We live in a world where some millennial men think asking a woman out for a drink is sexual harassment. Seriously, go look up the studies. Thanks to technology, millennials are having a hard time even holding conversations let alone forming meaningful relationships. The game has changed too much. Steve's old school approach is like telling millennials to go back to mailing letters instead of texting. It's a new world, and women are going to have to adapt. Men these days have no problem swiping right and loving a woman for one night.

[@123CREATIONS]

What Im not going to do is ask no guy out on a date..a man needs to take the *initiative* to come to you I dont understand why women are so eagear to be with a man..gurl calm down! Sit down let him choose you!

[@debelix]

The problem is, she really wants this peticular guy

[@123CREATIONS]

@@debelix THATS TRUE.

[@TonyAdams95]

That’s easy for y’all to say because y’all don’t have to approach and make the first move, it easy to tell us what to do when all y’all have to do is look good and wait, no pressure is put on yall. Yeah men are confident leaders and alphas but we aren’t perfect we still get shy and nervous at times just saying

[@violetselene244]

@@TonyAdams95For one you sound jealous of women. And for two you’re a man with testosterone y’all don’t have testosterone for no reason. You’d rather just live with fear rather than push past it? Do you know how many people push past fear everyday in order to get to a desired goal?You sound weak af.

[@W34KN35S]

I mean even if she didnt allow that , another woman will. The problem with leaving traditional values behind is that the culture has accepted and fell in love with the concept of "if not them then someone else". according the culture now no one is important and everyone can be replaced when it comes to dating . I may have put it in a harsh/blunt way that is how i see it , its only about how much fun and pleasure one can get now for the majority.

[@cnsummers4086]

So true and so sad

[@cookiegirl891]

W34KN35S true :/

[@user-qn7ty8ig7s]

I have never had a girl like me, so I ask girls I like. I only get no. I would ask a girl out if I liked them back and they liked me. I agree with him. Just hard to know if a girl likes you for you or for something else. I have had a girl come up to me very sexually and I declined because she was doing the same thing with another guy.

[@peaceplease5443]

That's exactly it. Just say I'm not looking for Netflix and chill. I just tell them to meet me in a public place.

[@jeffreycfmok]

Its the equality you asked for.

[@lccanimations]

I get what Steve is saying. However, the problem with doing everything to get a woman is that many men get played and some women lose attraction for you. As a man, you gotta have boundaries sometimes. Sometimes I feel his philosophy is unhealthy for some good men

[@ThePsychicFish]

Good man = good boy, like a lil dog running around your feet.

[@chillywill95831]

If the woman who is the object of your affection loses interest because you're willing to give her the world, then she ain't worth the world and she knows it. Move on. She can't take advantage of you unless you're giving her what she wants and you're not getting what you want in return. It's really that simple. Stop appeasing her if she can't respect and absorb your admiration for her. It just means you aren't the one for her. But, that doesn't mean that they're all that way and she might just be that way with you but may completely absorb the next guy's admiration because she simply likes him better. It happens!

[@Thekingdom912]

William Ross move on true but you wasted time and money and probably feelings to because most men makes 30k or less a year and can’t replace money spent as fast. I make 2x that and still caution because the more you spend the more you have to continue to do down the road and they become “entitled “ that’s the aggravating part

[@chillywill95831]

@@Thekingdom912 I get that, but key to what I said is that you're getting something for your time and money. Maybe she's sharing in the meal tickets or movies. Maybe she's taking her time and money and preparing a picnic or a meal for you. YOU shouldn't be asking her for that. She should be offering those things if she likes you. If you've shown interest and used your resources with no reciprocity then cut your losses. Unfortunately, lack of cash flow does mean that you can't really court a woman out here. It don't mean that she's a gold digger, but if you can barely support yourself then how can you expect her to wanna be with you and see you as a long term prospect. It's just not in their nature. They're not built that way. She'll give you her body, but she won't give you her heart. And, if that's all you want from them then you're good. If you want more then you will have to invest more. And, when I say invest more, I mean invest more in yourself... NOT HER! Keep her if you can, but get another job, get a second job, or get another hustle. Yes, that will cut your time spent with her, but that's a good thing. And, she'll see that she's actually given you more purpose and will realize that your time has value, so she'll make the best of it when you're together. If she can't appreciate your efforts, then cut her loose. The upside is that you're now self invested... So.. NEXT!

[@Thekingdom912]

William Ross you got a point but it’s the small % that doesn’t feel entitled so many dudes just overly cautious

[@tinafrancis1879]

Thank you

[@nathanielcarreon5634]

Millennials are brilliant. lol

[@BlastFromThePastInc.]

Anybody else seen that survey online that 80% of women go out on dates for free food?

[@enniswhalen2428]

VTP- Hell with a survey, we ALL know that one!

[@johnhand3856]

@Jennifer Ayala You better start getting used to ponying up that gash of yours for action. Looks don't last for ever and the wall takes no prisoners.

[@big_unit_hoohoo5506]

Steve Harvey: says something nice Ladies : 👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@legingembrefou5981]

We kinda love him lol He gives the hard truths in a kind way and keeps it light and funny but still straightforward

[@athmayeshudas]

Steve harvey❤️👌

[@lanaraul7335]

You don't have to ask man , if he really want you then he will come to you

[@olgasa6943]

bubble butt real men do.

[@leontaecoleman3644]

woman don’t give enough choosing signals.🔥😂😁🤣😒

[@samanthasummer1201]

What if you decline him in the past due to personal issues but your in a better space to date and wanna see him ?

[@kitoakovacs1479]

She is so pretty this is weird

[@ameno0o]

We don't do that cuz women told us its corny and i can open my own door

[@dwisdomNYC]

YOU DON'T.

[@willie.j4098]

It depends bro! Not every guy is in the same situation, Not every guy is same personality Not every guy is DTF

[@SAMack-xd2fn]

The guy she wants, don't want her.

[@beauty84535]

He better really not want her.

[@sherrydixon2820]

WONDER IF HE GONNA TELL DIDDY THAT😱

[@nickisavana7462]

Nice one

[@Florida_gyrl]

Try being 33 and no man ever asks you out but they sure love flirting with you

[@oeao2841]

I told a girl one time that women are missing on dudes by not going up to them... she said "trust me I haven't missed on any opportunity"

[@Abc-cp6cb]

Its not a womans place to be asking out a guy. Stay in your lane ladies! where you belong!

[@Pinky_Piie]

Idk where your from but where I live it really doesn't matter who asks who out

[@eubr4746]

So, and the advice for her was?

[@leontaecoleman3644]

the problem with woman. is that they don’t know how to use choosing signals so a guy could know that their interested.🔥🔥🔥😁😁😂

[@JA-ni7ok]

The reason why us guys don’t take women out on dates anymore is because we don’t wanna get used for a free meal and after the get together, we never see her again.

[@redmage8719]

Flaking on dates and ghosting has become far too common nowadays.

[@beccatwum3401]

Lol 😝 love u Steve 😍😍

[@dwisdomNYC]

Don't believe the hipe about men are scared. If you are something he want and doesn't want to risk losing you....even the most shyest man will muster up the courage to approach you.

[@olgasa6943]

usher luck women are the prize and should not have to ask. You'll learn that when the right woman comes along. You'll be dying to ask.

[@olgasa6943]

usher luck can you give birth? When your 50 and all alone you'll remember this text. It's not about what you can do for yourself it's what she can do for you emotionally mentally physically. Now if you can't understand that??

[@patriciakelley1174]

@usher luck - Among the different roles assigned to men and women in the Bible, men are assigned the role of leadership. God’s design and assignment of equally valuable roles among spiritually equal beings. Men initiate; women respond.

[@SirBrucie]

Why can't you approach? Equality remember?

[@godwillbongani5240]

Honestly no every woman thinks like that some women dont mind approaching a man if u want to be approached thats your opinion its not a rule there r successful relationship were a women made the first move and they r still together allow other people to decide what they want🤷‍♂️

[@bengbeng2005]

In USA being dark skin is blessing , all people say to her that she look gorgeous .but in Africa "north" they don't even look at you because of that :'(

[@rolleysoeasyvlogs]

Woooow you brave

[@PRETTYESHIA504]

He did answer the question... It's simple. LET HIM APPROACH YOU AND ASK YOU ON A DATE. you welcome.💯

[@ArcherMVMaster]

Why can't she just make the first move?

[@ryana-6762]

maybe he just wants to be her friend though?

[@enniswhalen2428]

D b - Hey, he has a room FULL of women.What do you think he is going to say?

[@borednow]

this was already uploaded like 2 years ago... :-\

[@denyss3476]

So? The same principles apply then and now even more. People who didn't see it then will this time around.. It should be sent every day until women learn to demand respect.. And know their worth..

[@borednow]

@@denyss3476 that is really stupid reasoning, then everything (important) should be uploaded every year.. people can search for older videos

[@carringtons7682]

I was thinking why is this new lol

[@olgasa6943]

No, a few months ago.

[@mrexecutive]

borednow 2 Years? Are you slow? This was this season. So more like a few months ago.

[@tryingthings9036]

You have not coz you ask not.

[@sarelito9202]

Women have always been active in dating, but through behaviour and way of interacting, not so often just by blurting it out. Each party has its own way of going about it. Anyway, not all men are the same, and not all women. It really very much depends on the Emotional Matrix of their Second Brain how they go about it.

[@rakshapatel1478]

love the advice you gave it is so true

[@CJ_Pharaoh]

Mr Hightower is spot on but who remembers boy meets world? #nostalgia Stay blessed people 🙏

[@handitan3090]

the girl is gorgeous

[@daexion]

Hey, just ask him out because sometimes you need to take the initiative.

[@talondaecckles8524]

We get it a lot of them don't date anymore. Wait on one who do. U are 24 an pretty. Baby please don't ask a boy on a date. Wait on one who can take the lead or who can afford to an because he want to. Don't be impatient or desperate. Don't let a boy make u play the man role😪

[@talondaecckles8524]

@Perry Rose bye and good night

[@lynnjones1065]

Sometimes,a lot of times men think women aren't single,it's hard to believe good looking educated women are single,attitudes ?don't want to you

[@JohnSmith-pl4sf]

Ah so it's fair that guys are supposed to do the approaching, and girls are suppose to sit there and not put in the effort? How is that equal treatment? How is it fair that girls want the guys to keep trying and trying, regardless of the painful experience of rejection?? How is that fair?

[@sarahbutler5463]

That's right , these young people got it all wrong , I was bless to have a dad that talk to his daughter's ( 5 ) of how & what to see / recognize and when / if he come to the house he better come right my dad didn't play and let it be known, he's with the Lord Jesus, I miss him , the right teaching in life will never leave you, trian / teach a child in the way he / she should go when he / she is old it will not depart from them 👍

[@BluntSpeaker]

He didn’t even answer her question...😑😠🙄

[@Rashaadthegr8]

That's a lie. Most women be too busy to date especially in FL.

[@briw8562]

Sophisticated Swanson um no it depends on what ur looking for

[@viviaguilar29]

Very beautiful lady and well spoken... How nobody has approached her yet. I am surprised, honestly. In my country they would fly on her.