Hidden Signs of ADHD in Girls: Overlooked Symptoms Revealed

[@DoctorJacque]

My most important ADHD video so far - 5 Truths Parents of Kids with ADHD Need to Hear | Essential Guide - kzbin.info/www/bejne/aYOpqYKNnMuEeKM I hope this video and the strategies in it are truly helpful to you!

[@rhondamills2621]

As an undiagnosed female over 60, I am so glad you are spreading this critical information. Finally science is catching up with the reality that many of us females are living. Thank you! ❤️

[@gleighful]

Ugh. As someone late diagnosed, I wish my ADHD was caught sooner. All of these symptoms have been present my entire life, and my late diagnosis caused me to have other issues like low self esteem, anxiety, and negative self image.

[@sarawilliams5990]

This video describes me as a child to a T, but looking back at my old reports, my struggles were blamed on me being over-reactive, ambivalent towards my family members, and just being too sensitive. All those were said by a professional assessor, too! I was bullied, and teachers were often the ringleaders. They hated me for taking too long on assignments or messing up writing down homework. I was so often shamed in class that I stopped trying. I really wish no more little girls would have to go through that anymore.

[@DoctorJacque]

Thank you for sharing. Sadly, I know you are not alone in your experience. And I'm sorry that anyone has to go through that. It's painful and can have such a lasting impact. I too hope that collectively we become more educated on ADHD and mental health and can take a more non-judgmental and curious stance when someone is struggling.

[@SolidMilkFan]

so, recently I’ve been researching about ADHD… a lot. I have an older brother who has many of the generalized boy ADHD symptoms like standing up from his chair, hyperactivity, you get it. During my research I’ve noticed i have a lot of symptoms of generalized ADHD in girls (I’m a female) and I’ve even taken a few online tests that have said I have ADHD (of course I’m not here to self diagnose but I was merely trying to get an understanding of more of the symptoms and the actual accuracy of me having ADHD) and a few of the symptoms I’ve been experiencing are messy organized room easily distracted inattentive forgetfulness Short attention span Sensitive to criticism (emotional too) Racing thoughts (one thought to another) Lower self esteem Procastinate a lot (also leaving things unfinished and school work is difficult for me to complete) fidget with my nails when I’m bored or nervous Shake my legs in my seat a lot Blurt out words (when I mean blurt out words I mean I’ll be randomly singing or repeating a melody or be really chatty, although this only happens with my friend group because I tend to be more shy around my family and other unknown people) I mentioned the possibility to my mom that I might have ADHD and she said she doesn’t believe I do, and I told her there were different types but she still insisted that I don’t have it because I have good grades in school and I seem stable to her (fwi I didn’t mention my symptoms to her) and regardless of my symptoms , I don’t think she’ll believe me because I’m more a shy person and I like to keep things to my self this often occurs at school or in my room. I don’t whether to talk to my mom or not to get tested because what if I actually don’t have ADHD and I’ve just been overreacting and I’ll be super embarrassed, besides my mom doesn’t believe i could have it.. any advice?? 😕

[@Milkmaid007]

ik I'm the same way I'm very worried too

[@cheezetoasty3573]

Female autism is similar to female adhd too.

[@Didi......]

Im a 16 yr old girl and I feel the same way too! I have the same symptoms you listed out except for the school one, I hold it off until the last few days and panic extensively and do it in different time intervals because I get extremely distracted, but when the due date encroaches its like my brain snaps into place and nothing really matters anymore-I dont care about anything else going on, judt that assignment thats going to be due in 30 mins. I also told my mom, whos a nurse, about it but she told me if I get diagnosed I'll lose lots of job opportunities. Im at an impasse 😢

[@DoctorJacque]

Everyone deserves support. I know it’s hard to advocate for yourself, especially when you’re feeling uncertain. Parents, your medical doctor, or a close teacher can be great places to start in helping you figure it out. I get a lot of messages similar to yours. I will try to make a more in depth video about it soon. As unfortunate as it is to feel the way you do, I’m grateful to see other commenting they feel the same. Sometimes it’s just nice to know others are going through the same thing. 💕

[@TenEnvelopes]

Ask your mom to watch some myth-busting videos about ADHD with you. If any of your symptoms are interfering with your self-esteem, learning, or relationships, then they should be taken seriously. You don't have to convince your mom that you have ADHD, you just have to convince her that you're struggling enough to require an evalutation.

[@snezailic3244]

Your points are spot on with my daughter. It's such a relief that we have had her officially diagnosed and the school is supporting her. I'm an educator and have better understanding and appreciation for those with adhd

[@zcook9528]

I also always interrupt but not on purpose or idont talk at all

[@SeleneMoonBird]

WOW!!! This is nugget after nugget of information gemstones! I wrote the six things, but MOST DEFINITELY watch the video. For such a short video, it is concise and to the point, with a lot of eye-opening insights! Thank you for this video and info! I'm a 41yo woman, and don't have children, but being diagnosed later in life (mid-late 30s) this informative video is definitely something that helps me understand my ADHD journey as far back as my childhood. 1. More likely to have symptoms of inattention. 2. Hyperactivity / Impuslivity may look different. 3. May struggle more with relationships / friendships. 4. Symptoms overlap (ADHD | Anxiety | Depression). 5. More emotional reactivity and exaggerated emotions. 6. More coping skills that mask their ADHD.

[@DoctorJacque]

Thanks so much for watching and commenting. I'm glad you found it relatable and helpful. 💚

[@HumanandAnimalSupporter]

I've come across various ADHD therapies, including psychotherapy, behavior therapy, and cognitive behavioral therapy, and it's fascinating to see the diversity in approaches. Each person's journey with ADHD treatments is unique, and it's great that there are amazing different options available.🧠💪

[@DoctorJacque]

Absolutely! While we know that certain therapies and treatments are backed by evidence, it doesn’t mean every single one will help every single person in the same way. It’s important to find the right support that’s help to you. 💕

[@AprilMcMillanCreative]

Why is “masking” not seen as simply learning to cope or overcome the struggles? How do you help someone understand the difference?

[@IsoldaNeumann]

I was well into adulthood, trying to help my son survive HIS diagnosis of ADHD. Counselors recommended medication. My husband favored the leather belt. Trying to run interference between these two was quite a challenge. Eventually, I was able to help my son and keep the belt away. My own personal challenge was to distract my parents from the things I did not do well and absolutely DAZZLE them with things I came up with on my own.

[@stefanmargraf7878]

All those teachers have to learn about neurodivergence and stop their punish behavior!

[@casperinsight3524]

Ms. Martin

[@bubbanorris4ever]

ive noticed that i have had many symptons that boys and girls do. like sometimes im hyperactive and always moving and thinking about different things around me and in my mind, sometimes im not thinking about anything and my eyesight go all blurry and think about nothing basically zone out when there is alot of people around me, sometimes im with my friends or family who are talking to eachother and i interrupt them without even meaning to like at all and i feel bad after, sometimes i can be shy and not talk to others and dont want to talk unless im with a good friend or family member who can help me in the conversation or can be there just for support in a weirdish way that i cant explain until i know them then im always talking and all of that, sometimes i react alot but them sometimes i dont know what to do and i just stop so then soemtimes i have a small outburst. sometimes i forget where i put things or forget what i just heard or forget things that i learned in class even though i tried my best to listen to my teacher, im always thinking about one thing then quickly thinking about the next, im always fidgeting around shaking my whole leg and similar things with my fingers or hands, always playing with hairbands fingers necklace because in the weirdest way it almost comforts me. i always am biting or picking my nails even though i try my best not to and get annoyed at myself but i genuinely cant stop so i dont know what makes me do that and i wish i could understand but i really just dont. theres so many more things i feel that i could say that i just dont understand. i feel as though what i feel whether its adhd or not, doesnt affect my learning at school as in like marks and stuff but i still feel like i notice these things in the learning process or in the classroom (school-wise) in my life and my good friends do too. sorry i know this is such bad grammar but i just was trying to get my feelings down.

[@DoctorJacque]

It’s so hard when things feel confusing. If you’re able, talking with your parents, or someone else you trust, about how you’re feeling is generally a good place to start. Sounds like you have a good group of friends who know you and support you, and that’s amazing 💚

[@ilovenycsomuch]

Can you explain WHY it may cause things like having a messy room, lack of emotional regulation & outbursts, or being bad with time management?? Other than that it’s a collection symptoms in men/women I don’t really understand what the disorder IS, is there something that scientists have found to malfunction in the brain that leads to these things like forgetfulness & inattentiveness???

[@DoctorJacque]

Thank you for watching and your question. Like many mental health conditions, there is still a lot to be discovered and learned, and usually many factors at play. With ADHD, we know there are problems with the brain systems responsible for executive functions, like planning, organization, and attention control. We also know there is a disruption in the dopamine system, which is responsible for feelings of reward, mood, sleep, and learning/memory. Smaller specific brain structures, like the prefrontal cortex, cerebellum, hippocampus, and amygdala have been found in kids with ADHD too. Those structures play a role in some of the other symptoms/problems mentioned above.

[@ilovenycsomuch]

@@DoctorJacque that helps, thank you!

[@linbron2018]

Love your videos, great info please don’t stop posting. Are you on Facebook?

[@DoctorJacque]

Thank you so much for your viewing support - I really appreciate it! No plans to stop making videos. It just takes a while to get new ones out. :-) I am on facebook, but I don't post there regularly.

[@shanclarkyhart3287]

I've been diagnosed with lots of different things by different medical professionals, and I think I just have adhd I have depression panic attacks, and anxiety too... how do you get help when no one listens and doctors are useless 😢

[@DoctorJacque]

That’s so tough. Usually a good place to start is your medical doctor. It’s okay to advocate for yourself and what you need. Someone who you feel close to may also be able to help advocate for what you deserve - someone who will understand and listen to what you’re saying.

[@jesserodriguezhammond1763]

I love the video but the background music for people with ADHD is very distracting. Thanks for the video.

[@zcook9528]

So sometimes I am hyperactive and very anxious and sometimes I am very spaced out (getting lost in thoughts) and don't pay much attention. I am both depending on the time of day and it switches, just like that. Does anyone know why. I have also not been diagnosed for ADHD because I have never thought it was a necessity or important but as I am getting older it is getting worse. One of my parents and my sister has both been diagnosed with ADHD, should I? :)

[@Evonaevona-pe1jd]

You should check it out, you sound like you have adhd

[@allen8280]

Sure wish I could save these videos to be able to watch later.

[@DoctorJacque]

Hi! You can (within KZbin)! If you're on desktop, click the three dots under the video on the right, and then click save. You can add any videos to a watch later list. On mobile, where the like and share buttons are (under the video and channel name), you can scroll over to the save button and do the same.

[@deborahallen1260]

On my desktop, there were no 3 dots, like with videos from other people.

[@allen8280]

@@DoctorJacque The 3 dots finally showed up.

[@SeleneMoonBird]

@@deborahallen1260 Sometimes you have to refresh the page (at least that happens to me sometimes when my computer has way too many tabs open and is struggling to process all the pages opened.) Also, you have to be signed in (it's free - make sure you don't sign up for the paid version or trial) to be able to save things to your profile. And once signed in, you can go to your history and save from there as well, by selecting the three dots. And you can make tons of different playlists if you like to organize things ... and then not watch most of them like me. 😄 Good intentions, too much to learn, too many distractions, but just in case... and nothing like listening to a playlist while cleaning your house to keep your mind busy and multitask. 🙂 Good luck!

[@DoctorJacque]

Thanks for the tips! 🥰

[@AminaZakari-dz1dk]

I suspect I have ADHD because I watch simptoms and they are similar and I am just 11

[@DoctorJacque]

It's important to remember that info you find on KZbin or elsewhere isn't meant for self-diagnosis, but to educate and raise awareness. Many people have some of the symptoms to some degree. For the people who have ADHD, those symptoms get in the way regularly during things they need and want to do, causing more problems. When you're concerned about something you're experiencing, it's best to bring those concerns to a trusted grown up or individual and find the right support, which could be through school, your medical doctor, or a counselor/therapist. Hope that's helpful!

[@FawazKazeem-k8m]

I think i have adhd and i 1 yrs but i am not sure , but i am girl