HIDDEN Signs You’re In A Toxic Friendship 🦠

[@JustPhoenyx]

1. They never let you have an opinion. 2. They make fun of you as a "joke" way to often. 3. They always think they are right and never admit they are wrong.

[@suriakumari7889]

Do u know my toxic friend?

[@abigailpadilla6417]

Tell me about it😢

[@wobble3267]

True

[@angelcreativevideo3867]

So my 5 y-years of bestie is fake🙂

[@unigirlgaming]

Well my only friend is a toxic friend welp ima make new friends then

[@cpm8290]

1. You aren’t happy, in-fact you feel worse about yourself after talking or hanging out with them 2. They tell you about all the problems you have ( to make you feel like its your fault they treat you the way they do )

[@dakiwicat5522]

That is the exact description of my best friend…..

[@cpm8290]

@@dakiwicat5522 bestie 💀

[@Starly._.]

My ex bestfriend call me ugly and short I got upset and she said she was jk but I have a feeling that she's not joking. And she literally said "your kind and Christian but you're behavior" she's so racist too and when I say to her "aren't we friend sorry, from now on I will Assume that you are dead (it's like I'm gonna ignore her)". And she literally put it on her status and took a picture that she is cry I was like"DON'T ACT THAT IT'S NOT YOU'RE FAULT" she literally said to my other friends "L wanted me to kill myself" I didn't even told her to kill herself it's so annoying! And she said she wanted to punch me

[@Americavlogintamil]

Omg... Exactly. I feel it

[@rainining]

My friend told me to km$ and when I said I well he said “great” is this a toxic friendship?

[@thegreenthunder2]

1. They dump all their issues on you without asking if you can handle it first 2. You feel like their opinion is the only one that matters and they dismiss your own 3. They get mad if you talk to other people besides them

[@Fern_the_wild_therian]

This is so true 😔 my friend is super toxic and I can’t leave. She’s really popular and if I don’t want to be friends anymore she will turn everyone against me. Even my other friends.

[@thegreenthunder2]

@@Fern_the_wild_therian awww... sorry to hear that. If you don't feel comfortable with her, just try and have a conversation how her behavior is making you feel if you haven't. If you can't and the friendship is only damaging you, honestly I'd suggest leaving but as you said you can't..... so I wish the best for you. But if you can leave, please do. And if your other friends are real, they will stick with you. Chances are some of them might feel the same way about her as you do but are just better at hiding it, so you calling her out and standing your ground might help not only you but some of your other friends leave the toxic friendship. Even if you can't, I really hope it gets better eventually 💚

[@andrealopez8461]

I’m scared to like dump my toxic friend because she always says the flaws in me and never tells me what’s good about me and whenever she gets made I my friend group she always tells me and not the rest of the group which puts all the pressure on me

[@thegreenthunder2]

@@andrealopez8461 it's hard. I've had to do it too. Some peop,e aren't inherently bad, but toxic friends can actually be both bad with just being a horrible person and good, good people who don't know how to be a good friend. Try to confront them on their behavior, make their flaws known to them, and see if you can get them to understand how they make you feel. It's best to try to work things out. Though if you can't, it's not your fault and it is 100% okay to get out of a friendship that is mentally draining... you don't have t9 explain yourself to them for that. And if your other friends are your real friends, they'll still stick with you no matter what happens. People like your friend just like control, and if you won't submit to what they want or get under their pressure they have no control over you. If you can.. try to work things out and call them out on their behavior, but if you can't, it's not a bad idea to leave. Then again, that's your choice. Sorry u got a toxic friend tho. They re a pain

[@aliassem1035]

@@andrealopez8461end it. Do not settle for the less. No company is better than bad company. Real friends compliment you and praise you and enjoy your company. I just ended my friendship with my toxic bsf of 8 years and I never felt better

[@Five-survive]

This saying really helps if anyone needs it. "You shouldn't care about people talking behind your back. There is a reason they are behind you."

[@MintTori78]

my best friend since 2nd grade and my only friend for like 8 yrs does this stuff..

[@priscillapmhango3393]

1. They are in competition with you and when things are going well for you, they are not happy 2. They make everything about them. Even your misfortune. 3. They want to be pursued all the time and can not fathom that you have emotional needs as well.

[@Aria_Playz123]

1. You aren’t happy when you hang out with them ☹️ This happens to me, I got invited to a birthday sleepover. But I said I was sick, Cause I didn’t want to go. I just felt sad and nervous about going. Now we’re not friends and I don’t regret leaving her one bit

[@saachuuuuuu]

Fr

[@pugparty3799]

I was meant to meet with my friends but went shopping with my sister for an hour or two first (I needed stuff and I wanted to delay meeting them) when I actually did meet up with them I felt like I wasn't there and it was so draining. I can't wait to get away from them all

[@NarutoUzumakiofficial]

#4 they lack empathy for you going thru hard times #5 they’re hypocrites. They do bad stuff and if you do it just once they get upset. #6 hold your past against you. We all do this I think but a true friend wouldn’t. I’m guilty of this but i try let it go and help people now #7 they don’t truly give 2nd chances.

[@thegreat444]

You're supposed to hold your people's past against them. That's why it's important that you do fair business. And do people right at all times

[@NarutoUzumakiofficial]

@@thegreat444 what about forgiveness? I don’t want hold peoples past against them.

[@jenniferlloyd9574]

Friend and I split for years but reconnected during covid. We vowed never to talk about the negative past. Lately, she's been going there throwing things up in my facel, stuff I can't change that I've already apologized for...

[@2pacEEz]

My friend said the other day abt someone: “ I feel forced to be friends with her now” and that’s what I feel like with her.. hypocrite isn’t it?

[@Moonlight-q7e1w]

They never defend u when other people are talking sh1t to ur face and they are just watching

[@pupcakezzzz]

Yes one time she sat there and watched me get called fat, etc and then they said her hair was in 3 dimensions and she told 6 different teachers..

[@DinoNuggiesareSLAY]

my friend had one of her friends call me ugly on discord and instead of defending me she said “REAL.” and what’s worse is that my other friend in our trio showed me and the one that said it didn’t even care. she just said “haha” as if it were funny that her and her friends were talking about how ugly i am

[@urluvbryz]

True she never defends me I always defend her but now I stopped I asked her once why don't u defend or help me that u should probably do she said," why should I even do that?"

[@2pacEEz]

FR. I had a friend that had this friend who always picked on me for no reason and at the time I was rly sentsitive, and I always argued with her and told her “THEYRE A TOXIC FRIEND AND THEYLL PROB LEAVE YOU” and we all know what happens next… *I WAS RIGHT.*

[@danbartelt2593]

They will always pretend to be the victim in every sinareo. They won't let you hang out with any of you other friends 😢

[@Angel-lf3dc]

This is exactly what I'm dealing with right now!!

[@Boosss275]

Going thru the same thing rn girl

[@2pacEEz]

If I hang out with my other friends or by myself it’s considered “not wanting to be their friend anymore”

[@Limerant_Evangeline]

1. They correct you about everything they can so they can feel better about themselves 2. They always guilt you for not helping them but get annoyed when you do 3. Always making things about them and what they want. I speak from experience.

[@imari9997]

The first one hits, I’m literally annoyed with that friend rn, always talking people down and even trying to “correct me” and when I saw something about it, they’d start acting like “Oh it’s only because I care about you.” When it has always been about inflating their ego.

[@Tawnyaise0]

And the second one hits me. So basically, since a few months, One of my friend is coming late and saying that she doesn't have anywhere to sit so we should move in and give her some space. So we called her in our 2 seater bench, I was in the corner so I was always being pressured with the wall and the girl beside me. After this happened for like a month, I had enough, I said her to go back and sit, and she got angry and didn't talk to me. The other girl is also saying that I can't even compromise for a friend. So I broke my friendship today. One girl is a use me sign who wants to help everyone and if someone refuses, they are bad, other uses their friends in the name of friendship, and when someone refuses, she calls them selfish. I hope I did the right thing.

[@damienb99]

4. They call you a ‘bad friend’ or ‘f*cking selfish’ when you stand up for yourself because of all their injustice towards you

[@Yaboygray]

Fr tho I have friends that call me fat,annoying and yell at me I kinda hate them now💔💔💔 but I cant leave and idk why😢😢😢

[@abhijayparashar5253]

Exactly 💯

[@BARATHBARATH-gz6sc]

And that toxic friend will always uses your things carelessly and his things preciously😈😈. But my true friend will always protect my things even when I'm not there ❤😢

[@jenniferlloyd9574]

Yes, true. 😢❤

[@relity276]

This pinned comment is deep

[@celesteInes07]

Mabye he is writing it,this video was uploaded today

[@chaoscrew8551]

Ya

[@ItsJovie]

@@celesteInes07 When its been 6 months 💀💀💀

[@Idontcare886]

@@ItsJovie FR

[@randomname9554]

@@ItsJovie it’s been a year it’s 2023 now

[@jmsanvictores134]

One sign of being in a toxic friendship. They make you not quit a bad habit because your “friendship” was because of that one bad habit you had in common.

[@jenniferlloyd9574]

Friend got pissed because I started exercising during covid. She claimed she didn't have time, therefore I shouldn't work out. Yes she has time.

[@TessLambert-cq2nc]

To all those on a toxic friendship I'm so sorry I was in one and I know how hard it is to get out of it. They will guilt trip you make it seem like you were the bad friend and them try to make you come back because they like to use you. One sign that you could be in a toxic friend ship is if your friend hits you. Now its OK for like friendly pushes and that kinda stuff but its not OK to punch hard pinch pull hair etc. Another sign is that they will guilt trip you and make you say sorry first every time and make you feel bad and hurt you. They will also only talk about them self and only do the things they want to do. And if you suggest an idea they will so no I don't like that game or no I don't want to do it. And if you do t want to do what they are doing they will say you never do what I like Also if you you get into a fight then they will most likely ignore you instead of resolving it. And they will also bump into you. And lastly get mad at you for no reason. Like not doing anything at your break time. You not coming to them when they are upset but if you do come they get mad at you. You just never get a break. Now how to peacefully get out of this toxic relationship is to not talk to them. You guys will hopefully drift apart from each other. You can say it over text but keep it short and simple. Now you might thing that saying over text is not the right way but its so easy. And them in if you do it in person then they will try to make you change there mind. And last way in person. Like I just said it can not really turn out well but if they try to make you change you mind then just ignore them. I really hopes this helps you guys

[@wecanbeherosjustforoneday]

i have a question, its fine if u cant answer it My "bestie" dumped me yesterday for "copying" her, she's an irl friend and only friend, i have no friends anymore.. I tried being friends with her again but she never replied to my text.. so heres the question, if u had no friends like me, what would u do?

[@ii_Ashlyn]

@@wecanbeherosjustforonedayig u could try to talk to others and then become their friend ?

[@wecanbeherosjustforoneday]

@@ii_Ashlyn oh ok ill try, ty!

[@TessLambert-cq2nc]

@@wecanbeherosjustforoneday you can try to put yourself out there more and be nice to people then try to engage in conversation and eventually you should be able to join a friend group

[@wecanbeherosjustforoneday]

@@TessLambert-cq2nc oh yeah! Thanks for all the support!!

[@friendsquad2324]

A few days ago, i became friends with our new classmate girl, she seemed sweet, but later on right now, whenever we talk, i always let her talk first, cus i never wanna seem rude, but whenever I wanna talk, or tell her some she always interrupts me. But i don't wanna cut our friendship, she always tells me im her only friend in the entire school.

[@alicia1284]

I love her so much and I don’t want to let go, but she treats me like crap. All of these comments described her and I just don’t know what to do. She’ll go off on me because everyone else tells her she’s not wrong when she is, and I let her know when she’s wrong cause I want to be a good friend and help her not make the same mistakes. I told my therapist about all of our problems, most of which I’m not gonna post about for her privacy but my therapist says that she is being overly-sensitive and very toxic. She makes me feel bad about myself, excludes me, always thinks she’s right and will never admit when she’s wrong, and never wants to hear my side of the story. Whenever she does apologize, it’s fake and she never says what she’s sorry for and just says, “Oh I didn’t mean it” “Oh it’s just hormones” I guess it just never feels sincere. She also blames me for her problems and makes me cry so, so much. But the worst thing is, I’m used to it. I’m used to having to apologize cause I miss my old friend. I’m used to being walked all over, and when I finally tell her how I feel she gets angry. She makes it about her instead, when everything is always about her and her problems. My therapist helped me realize this behavior is toxic, and I should break off our relationship but I just can’t. It would ruin so many friend-groups, and just cause a lot of drama. I miss my old best-friend.

[@SagiChan77]

This is my exact experience. I’ve been distancing but decided to hang out today and I feel mad and upset once again afterwards.

[@Falloutglitch]

-Can't genuinely admit that they were wrong, even in important events. -Gives fake apologies, "I'm sorry that what I did, hurt your feelings," instead of I'm sorry for doing that."

[@Sharkie2807]

This is so accurate

[@Stayednicel_y]

They never appreciate what we do for them They make you feel outcast when they are with people with more fun

[@unluckellie]

damn that pinned comment made my timbers shiver

[@agamyasingh471]

cau u pls tell what was the pin comment all about cause it's not visible now

[@unluckellie]

@@agamyasingh471 There's no pinned comment... it's sarcasm.

[@sugarcubefam]

@@unluckellie that jerk!!!😭 jk it's ok I'm very forgiving

[@unluckellie]

@@sugarcubefam LOL

[@RodentK1ng]

​@@unluckellieyou still alive?

[@LinkTheFusky]

“Check the pinned comment” bruh where 😂

[@devanshidazzy]

Its sarcasm for the 3 point he never pinned

[@heartsfor_saz]

1. They talk bad about your friends or their friends to you 2. They never want to fix arguments without YOU apologizing first 3. They make fun of you as "jokes" way to much (all from experience)

[@Nabilkhan2064]

You made me fall down in tears because I stopped being friends to my best friends and now am alone I was planning to do this and I did but I can’t let it out after all the memories we had together😢

[@Holo_the_vessel]

One of my friends used to twist their words to always be in the right, frame others, and tell people what they don't want to hear

[@felicitydeikos5250]

It's very true, that RELATIVES.....NEVER WANT TO HEAR YOUR SIDE OF THE STORY TOO.

[@Lisa.IlikefnafOk.]

Third is when you stop being their friend they say idc Fourth is that they post their drama story

[@Mollyl_164]

Im in a toxic friendship but i cant leave can u help me or give me tips to get out of it

[@Crushing24-7]

1- they don’t invite you to things then they get mad that you don’t invite them 2- they make plans with others in front of you 3- they talk about you badly behind your back 4- they pull aside people that your hanging out with so they can talk to them privately (If they do this then they are prob talking about you) 5- tell everyone your secrets that you trusted them with 6- they make fun of you in public 7- they take you for granted ( like they use you for money, food, friends) 7- they tell you about what they hate about you 8- they leave you out 9- they say there busy when you ask to hang out then they post a pic or vid with someone else (usually says last minute plans) or they post a pic of them at home (usually says # bored or something) 10- if they physically, mentally, or emotionally hurt you Just saying I know this because I’m going through a very toxic friendship that I don’t know how to end. Also if your scared that your friend did any of this to you, don’t be everything I listed were examples on how I found a few of my friends to be toxic. Please everyone stay safe. Love y’all

[@ThisGameDominant]

Hello! I feel terrible that your dealing with a bad friendship, I already been through one too. Don’t worry I’m on the same page. and from seeing this comment, I kind of want to tell you a story about what happened in my friendship. (And no I’m not trying to make the topic all about me) but what happened was I had a best friend that I would never leave behind for almost 4 years since I was in kindergarten. She later went to a different school and me and met new friends. She always left me out and said insults behind my back. The only reason I knew is cause one of my other friends who is in the same group chat secretly added me in there, but had a hack to where it doesn’t show that they added me. Later in the span couple months, they start talking about me behind my back, but are super nice to me. When they talk to me. and later a fight broke out between my friend. Jacob and Ansley Ansley was. Jacob was trying to cure the fight by helping us focus on the future and then Ansley said these. “Yeah and you won’t shut up about” and “idc what you do” and I was very sad that she had changed ever since she met new friends and later one night me and her were talking and a little fight broke out. Ansley said that when she met her other friends, she knew what a actual true friend was, but I always helped her push through terrible arguments and backed her up in text fights. I always trusted her and helped her push through hard times that she had, and ever since her friends joined she no longer appreciated it, and then clarified that she never liked me and never trusted me, and then told me a list of things that she did, and clarified the truth. I understand that this is a lot to read. Sorry about that. But what’s crazy is that she broke our friendship because I trusted and helped her. after that I felt super bad. Thinking of what I did wrong and one night cried myself to sleep. The same night I texted my friend Jacob, and he said that I should not cry about Ansley because she backstabbed me. And I do believe that. But I know she is a fake friend when I noticed that she was talking really bad about my friend Jacob.

[@hayley-oi9vg]

All these signs yet I don’t want to be alone in school

[@Crushing24-7]

@@hayley-oi9vgya same

[@Crushing24-7]

@@ThisGameDominantI’m gonna tell you the story of how the toxic relationship between my friends is still going on and it’s getting worse So basically a few months ago these two girls O and S were best friends with B then they just all of a sudden turned on her and kept yelling at her because B liked to hug them and call them Pookie and stuff like that to show them that she really appreciates them as friends then O and S after around three years of being best friends with B they decided to take a break from their friendship Then, a few days later, I witnessed the B crying in the library and obviously I comforted her and then the next day I found her crying in the bathroom so I comforted her there two (everything that happened definitely affected her mental health.) Then later B and her only other BFF got into a huge fight that coned them to stop talking (they still don’t talk) obviously I comforted her and became her BFF and honestly she is the best person I have ever met Then fast forward two weeks a judge group of people turned on O and S because whenever they invited someone else to join their friend group they would kick them out two days later so everyone was saying bad things about them. (also a few things they were saying was O changed for this one guy C then they started to date so S changed for O and also said C kept talking really bad about O and they are in a toxic relationship.) also the group that started talking about about O and S had 17+ People H,H,G,C,D,C,L,K,H,Z,L,M,B,J,L,C,C… etc also only 27 people know about this drama. And ya there is a lot more but I’m to lazy to keep typing lol I am so sorry that this was so long but It was definitely really good to talk about and not keep it to myself.

[@mxrella]

One is that they think they're always right!! I'm in a whole fg with them and they constantly do things to the group, like discriminating or bodyshaming others and brushing it off as a 'joke'. We decided to confront her yesterday (tho I didn't say anything) and she came crying to me repetitively saying how fake they are and how she didn't do anything wrong??

[@wendanyu5092]

For the first one, it's always only talking about me and never about them like they just don't have anything to say or share I guess

[@ImSoLonely-]

My best friend told me i was wasting my life because i chose not to work out like her (we’re literally 12) and she’s always talking about losing weight because she knows i’m insecure about my weight and i know i shouldn’t start with her but she’s basically the only thing i have let and i don’t want to lose her because if i do she will spread rumors about me and say bad things about me and i really can’t deal with it anymore but i will never forgive myself if i lose her

[@petrgratovic]

My problem too. Not that bad as yours, but if I left my "friends" I would be lonely.

[@genevieveHowarth]

This is so true, but if I got rid of them, I wouldn’t have any friends

[@whos.mayy13]

same plus i’ve been best friends with her for 7 years so far and she started getting kinda toxic recently, idk what to do now cause she is clearly bringing me down and talking to her makes me mad cause she always ignores my feelings and opinions on stuff..

[@aliassem1035]

@@whos.mayy13do it. Have respect for yourself, trust me you will feel better. Remember no company is better than bad company. Put God first and He will send you the best of blessings.

[@yesmynameischris]

I have this in mine When they are nice when you guys are alone but when other people are their they don’t care about you

[@astrophilehere..343]

They do hear my side of story but with less interest and always think like they're suffering from much bigger problems and that they're the most unfortunate, idk why maybe to look cool idk I hate that tho

[@myliss6100]

YESS IT'S EXACTLY THAT! and they also explain their bad tamper with their past experiences and "Traumas" but when it comes to you trying to explain one of your behavior like they do (saying that it's past trauma) they just denigrates it and tells you that your pas has nothing to do with it

[@astrophilehere..343]

@@myliss6100 yeah you're right, I hope you find better ppl in your life, I, thank god, got rid of these type of ppl and I'm living a much peacefully now

[@myliss6100]

@@astrophilehere..343 I'm currently in this kinda friendship and it's so tiring mentally, it's hard but I'm trying to let go of them rather than sticking to bad people. I'm so happy that things went well for you!

[@astrophilehere..343]

@@myliss6100 yeah, ig it's good to have these kinda friendships at some point in life so that you can learn how to choose ppl to be with. 8 months ago when I wrote that comment, I could've given anything to get rid of those ppl but now I think it wasn't that hard to get away from them. Just move away swiftly and yk not by causing problems so if you meet them in future (which I hope you don't lol), you don't cause any trouble to each other. NEVER EVER LET ANYBODY RUIN YOUR MENTAL HEALTH, value it more than them

[@myliss6100]

@@astrophilehere..343 As you said I have to put my mental health before anything else, and at least I learned something from it and they also gave me some good memories at some point and kept me company, but time passes and people change so our mentality might've changed and make it harder to understand each other I guess, I can't expect form people to change so I just need to let go. Also, thank you! Your comment actually helped me a lot to figure things out more and clear my mind!

[@rishika9803]

Can anyone give me an advice? My male bsf bad mouthed about me. His female friends asked him if I was his bsf and he's like : "Ew Ew, who'll hang out with her? Who'll stay with her?" When the girls (who heard this convo) told me about this convo, my whole world almost shattered. I loved him with all my might. I left crying from there. Every moment we had, every talk, every chat - was everything fake? I remember the way he used to look at me. How could he? Should I confront him or get distant?

[@makizenin1840]

I recommend you to distance yourself from him or even cutt off your friendship with them. It's better to be alone tha being surrounded by people who make you feel less.

[@Hermione194]

Girl if he is talking about your back , badmouthing you , and etc . He is breaking your trust , he is just trying to break your heart , your trust . You should just leave him , life is a beautiful journey , where you can always get new friends. So just break your friendship , dear, your life is in your hand , you have to decide what you should do. Btw , don't overthink about this matter Just move on girl

[@sunnylanexoxo]

My two best friends met each other and started to talk about me behind my back and they lied to me and about me. I decided to give them one more chance because they begged me and I don’t know what to do. I have NO other friends so if I lose them I’ll be lonely. One of them I thought I could still trust but she spilled all the things I told her to my other friend. And the other doesn’t laugh at my jokes, Act like they didn’t hear me when I talk, and are ALWAYS mad at me and doesn’t have a reason to be. Please give me advice I don’t know what to do. ⚠️‼️

[@Kharie_UrFav-z7t]

Thank you so much you have know clue how much this helps

[@AlexLuce-nt4mq]

1. They never admit they are wrong and always think their right. 2. They ghost you and never really tell you why. 3. They don't like when you hang out with other people and exclude you because of it. Coming from someone who experienced this..🙁

[@SagiChan77]

I find myself second-guessing my concerns I bring up bc this person always get very emotional and attacked feeling. I feel like maybe I am the bad friend sometimes. I’m trying to get out of the friendship but it’s hard to completely cut contact even tho you know it’s what’s best. It’s harder when they’re part of multiple friend groups :

[@kinmatamaki3229]

1. They pretend to listen to you, but when you bring it up later they "don't remember" 2. They shower you with gifts, but then say you owe them because they spent money on you 3. They bring up or mention (or you find out) they have their ex friended on Facebook, ect *last one may not be true for everyone, it was for me so just be careful*

[@petrgratovic]

I think you are wrong. If some people are like me, they don't pretend, they just have bad memory. I can't even remember what I had for lunch 😂! I will remember it very foggy. It's something like names and birthdays dates xd.

[@kinmatamaki3229]

@@petrgratovic fair point what I meant is they don't remember but also dismiss any evidence or proof the other person has to say it's right

[@Amber-kl1xr]

1.They make you feel like you are not enough 2.They make you change 3.They make fun of you insecurities and when you are crying they laugh Also to all the comments thank y’all and this vid tysm

[@bulutanimations5463]

My homie defends my back and tells hurtful truths into my face. So do i to him. Bros for life 🤜🤛

[@benji_79]

If your “friends” talk shit about you in your face then they are real friends and they are just joking, but if they talk shit about you behind your back they are fake.

[@Noboyfriendnoproblem]

1. They wouldnt leave to talk to someone else while talking to you. 2. Always makes fun of you and always says its a joke 3. Always say "Im just joking!!!" When they realise theyre wrong

[@hitomiancker3742]

I lost 2 best freinds they were both toxic 1 of them stole my crush behind my back and started spreading lies

[@edmundevardo7829]

I'm going to do what my friend does. they never admit they are wrong even if they know it.they always get upset if you do something wrong, but when they do it wrong and you tell then they will get upset. she always cries about everything and shows it as a flex trying to get everyone's attention.

[@myliss6100]

Hii I meant to ask you something. I have this friend of mine that is supposed to be my bff. But the case is that she gets made at me for anything I do, even for a tiny mistake I might have done or just because I don't agree all her opinions. I told her that if anything I do bothered you or hurted you just tell me respectfully and directly to me (no behind messages). but every time she gets mad she just attack me and be disrespectful, and when I respond to her (no vulgarity of course) I become the bad one cause I'm "too agressive". I pointed her out this mader about her so many times and every tell she tells me she'll fix it I admit that but she tells me cause it's because of her past and all and all, but when it comes to me and I do a mistake and tells her sorry that it's because of my past experiences she denigrates it and tells me my past has nothing to do with it. Please tell me if I am in the wrong or not!

[@ur.favbaddie26]

anytime i try to talk to them about how they’re making me feel they always turn it around on me and say that i do that to them all the time when i know for a fact i dont

[@anushkamhetre8507]

1. They critisize you for no reason at all 2. Always talks behind our backs

[@Lucky2924]

This is all true on my bestie…….bro I’m crying

[@heatherfeathers1fan]

Can’t have a toxicfriend when I don’t have any 😎

[@Markusob1222]

Lol

[@bilstein2410]

When time and time again they make something out of nothing and throw it in your face as a form of jealousy. When you respond, they accuse you of overthinking things and blame the situation on you.

[@Sammithy-ik1nk]

1. When you try to bring up some of the issues that make you uncomfortable but they constantly turn the situation around on you and manipulate you into thinking your the problem. 2. When you try to leave and when you do they say your the toxic, manipulative, and abusive one then you end up coming back to them. 3. They've manipulated you so much that you think that you're absolutely nothing without them. 4. You start to absolutely resent them. 5. You feel drained around them. 6. Belittle you. 7. Make jokes about anything your insecure about. (Eating habits, body, ect.) I'm gonna be completely honest. I was not the bigger person when it came to my "friends". I lied and tried to find reasons to leave. And I didn't even realize I was lying in order to leave. I did talk crap about them, I did. Was that a good thing? No. It wasn't. I left in a bad way, please be honest when you try to leave them. And if they don't like the truth then that's on them. Do not stay with people that make you feel like shit. Or your going to have a shitty mindset, and completely burnt out and so fucking depressed. I stayed for four years and I regret it.

[@asboukcomfortable1670]

Rude, one sided, scowl when you're talking 👄, dismissive and aggressive! Karma on Toxic fake mates! UK 🇬🇧

[@iragarg31]

I just lost some valuable friends and I don’t know what to do. 😭😭😭

[@clairefranklin8459]

Look for people with similar interests and are kind

[@Soloman_1800]

@@clairefranklin8459exactly

[@TheChillinCloud]

they are always there when they need you but then when you need them, there no where in sight

[@DontCopyMyFlow337]

My friend just punched me in the stomach cuz I wanted him to shake my hand💀

[@erinpritts8837]

I’m sorry

[@erinpritts8837]

That must’ve hurt

[@Evilgrimlin]

Then that’s definitely not yo friend

[@Evilgrimlin]

Then that’s definitely not yo friend

[@MintshardsA]

Ive been going through this for awhile now. All my friends try to correct everything I do and act totally different around other older kids. They act like my friends for a minute and then the next thing you know, they’re laughing at me because I suck at a game.

[@AMELIAANDLINA709]

Number 2 is right my friend let’s call her A and E so A speaks behind my back, E is just nasty

[@Theboi66]

I just got in a fight with my best friend Piper my first ever friend in elementary school and now we're in fourth grade, but please like this comment and reply with red heart to cheer me up and support me through my journey

[@GetreadywithZo]

❤️

[@Theboi66]

@@GetreadywithZo thank you i will sub to you

[@Kitsune-e4b]

1. They never let u do things that they are doing 2. If u do something embarrassing they tell u to do it in front of there crush of friend 3. They tell u about all of there problems and expect a positive answer If you're friend does all of these things just dump them 👁👄👁💅

[@user-dxorpnibor]

Main: they try to act too friendly to you, some people will fall into their trap, and they can't identify the toxic friends, and tell their secrets to them and those toxic friends will share it with their friends in the absence of them 😢😢😢😢

[@tootbender6935]

I used to have a friend that made me feel like i had to walk on eggshells

[@noramartin7832]

1# Jealous of everything that u do better then them 2# if u dont feel comfortable around them 3# if thay try to make ur outfit seem ugly to make thay outfit look good 4# competitive Again dis is all i got from Google

[@miasilva2024]

well...I'm not ut I'm in a very mean friendship so here is the story so lets call her Joana ok so one day Joana was a new student I was very lonely all the time and she noticed I was just siting alone just chilling and she said Hi are you ok? I said yea...and she said Do you wanna be friends? I said Sure why not. it was one year later things started to be different i only break a promise but Joana made worse things she yelled at me she forced me she was yelling at me because I wasn't waiting for her on the lunch break because I eat very fast and she was very slow and one day I went into her house they had a pool we went in it has a deep and normal side I stayed in the normal side because I'm scared of deep water and she wasn't she said Cmon lets go come! its so much fun here. I said no thank you I'm scared of deep water and she said Cmondont be so scared of things all the time! I said no I don't wanna come! she said fine then when u will grow up u will be there and others will go to deep lol I ignored her and one day later I went into my house again and she whispered if u will tell your mom I wont be your friend anymore so I didn't tell my mom but I regret that I and that's the end I'm going to search how to end friendship byee

[@OneBadZL1]

1. They talk about having a good time together at a hangout they had in front of your face. 2. They don't invite you to a hangout or its last minute . 3. They call you name's/bully you and don't even notice. 4. You are sad and broken but they don't notice/care.

[@lorddfarquadlover213]

i have this friend rn, we’ll call her sofie and she is being a brat. she is talking behind my back, not hugging me but giving the biggest hugs to my other friend, she cancels plans so quickly, and she stopped talking to me and went and sat with a random kid at lunch. maybe as much as i loved her, it’s time to let her go.🫶

[@CalmBunny-v6r]

ngl, i know im in a toxic friendship but my hand are tied, her dad is powerful, shes everywhere and she has connections with powerfull people not to mention she also touches me in ways i dont want to be touched.

[@Woooompwokkkp]

Don’t say “it’s a joke.” It stays on their heart.

[@KariøNotHere]

1. They be nice to other firends and change there attitude when you come over/join the conversation 2. They make fun of your insecurities 3. They dont care about anything you say 4. They back stab you Dont be firends with them and dont worry youll be alright :)

[@AgostyGoshm]

me with my bestfriend No.1: no sides are heard cause we keep laughing No.2: we are mean to each others faces but its hilarious

[@Blu0nPawz]

My friend always talks about themself and I told some friends how I feel becuase I didn’t know how to say it to their face. They found out though and now I feel like a bad friend and don’t know what to do

[@RSE17]

I only searched this up cuz my so called “friends” r tripping me over and laughing at me while spreading rumours that i like teachers they also kick the ball at my face but idk how to leave the friend group

[@hadassahbrown]

That happened to me and you were right thank you I really need to know that.

[@Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii845]

He starts the drama but he tells his mom like he’s the victim

[@DaughterOf-Apo11o_Ath3naa]

My toxic relationship w/ my besties… 1. They are saying I suck 2. They are blocking me and unfriending me on Roblox (my daughter plays it w/ me sometimes) 3. They are starting to say L when they know I feel bad..

[@Yeonnicee]

Toxic friendship DOESN'T always seem to be TOXIC, because it can gaslight you into thinking its all good but you will realise it is toxic when u fall out FOR REAL, in my case, she told hurtful things and told off that it was just a "joke".

[@L1terally_d1rt]

There's this person, ill call them Jenny (not their real name) Two years ago, i was going through a rough friend break up with a girl I'll name Shab (inside joke with a new friend). Long story short, she replaced me. So, a year ago, since i was in a bad place, i made friends with someone i maybe shouldnt have, Jenny. Jenny and I shared some interests, like a shared favorite show and we both liked queer stuff. I also listened to/read/watched/downloaded things that she liked, but I've noticed lately that she's gotten into one thing ive liked (and that was very recently, and it only took 20 minutes to watch). We get into fights practically every day, with varying intensities. We've blockes eachother for a week, came back, took a break for a week, come back. Nothing. Is. Working. I don't know what to do I don't know if its me I don't know if its Jenny I don't know what to do Its hard to leave Im gonna check back in a week, pls give any advice if you can

[@maddyG7414]

It’s crazy to me reading these comments and seeing the common and consistent themes in everyone experiencing bad friendships. We can’t escape meeting them, but at least we know that the signs are usually very similar in nature and can be avoided.

[@elibaraona164]

"Check the pin commitment" what pin commitment I looked 10 time😭

[@straighterthanaruler]

It is on tiktok

[@Tatertot-r7w]

I think me and my best friend are drifting apart.. a few days ago i asked her if she wanted to hangout monday after school, i have horses and she is leasing one, and her lease is ending so she told me her last lesson is Tuesday, so i wanted to hangout monday, we havent been talking consistently for awhile, and it took her a few days to tell me she cant because she has her lesson monday. Although i told her we can hangout at the barn. And a few days ago she told me it was tuesday. I dont think she wants to be around me anymore. I tried to save it. I tried so hard, i gave more than i received. I prayed for her to see God, shes not Christian. Her mom is very new aged which is fine. But i want to see them in Heaven. I hope she sees God soon. I dont know what to do..

[@seafoamskies819]

Kinda something, I already knew but seeing it in writing triggered something in me. Having to hear that from a random guy on KZbin knocked my senses as to how badly I'm actually being treated. It makes me want to block her on everything, except I keep making excuses for her. I don't even know where to begin to cut her out of my life she is the type of person that will turn everyone against you if she feels threatened. Grown a33 high school graduate acting like a child. Crazy I know. I used to have so much love and respect for her like actually look up to her but now much hate like I'm sad summer has ended because it's the only opportunity I had to not have to see her face at school and pretend I'm happy to be there. Even though I keep quiet cause I don't feel safe enough to express how I feel without being judged in the friendship, I know it would be a problem for her later in life since all her friends have already left her for good reason and I'm the only one she has left because I was too stupid to understand why they were leaving and thought they were all fake, but they were just looking out for them and now I look stupid hanging out with someone that constantly stunts my growth every single day. If I leave now, it will definitely feel like betrayal to me, and I take loyalty to another level. Especially in friendships even over relationships. It's the fact that she always has to belittle me to make herself look good and not even in a Regina George sort of way because Regina is actually pretty. I wish the problem were that I was jealous of my friend's looks or something but it's the fact that many people have told the both of us to our face that I'm prettier than her and she responds with "idgaf' or says something embarrassing about me. It's the fact that all her crushes have said they liked me to my face, and she stops talking to me for a whole week. Her personality just sucks so f%^&$@ bad to the point it almost changed me into a horrible person. I can only hope for college so I can get away and finally be on my own.

[@Dinorideshorses]

What does it mean when your friend copies you in everything? 1. She copied me doing horse riding 2. She copied me liking horses

[@AB3L30NE]

That means that they like you a lot as a friend

[@Harg8]

If that's the only thing that happened, than it's okay. Friends tend to take on eachother's traits/obsession. (Just a little of course)

[@sanaa._.scrolls]

My friend copies anything ,everything i do not only me even all of her friends .. And she's a attention seeker plus shes half time rude she also thinks she's a Beauty Queen and sometimes call others ugly And she's one HUGE troublemaker she always fight with her friends What should I do guys Should I keep her as my friend or leave her She was my bff once... Now not

[@lovelyy_xxx]

Maybe she just shares a genuine interest. I wouldn’t know about it because I have a bad experience with people liking horses.

[@lovelyy_xxx]

@@sanaa._.scrollsDO NOT KEEP HER! I’m warning you! Ending a toxic friendship can be difficult and emotionally draining, but it is best to ensure YOUR safety first! Talk with her first, and if she isn’t willing to change or lies about something, do not be afraid to end it there. It might be hard, but you can do it.

[@dsdurga-9788]

She used to be a good person ig she changed ……idk what to feel . She already has a lot of people to talk to especially boys . It’s not like I want attention but I’ve never talked to many ppl and finally now I am and I’m finally making some male friends (I’ve always felt ….afraid or insecure to talk to boys ig) and she is making friends with them as well, I’m happy she’s making more friends but , they just keep talking about her and it feels like the bond with the friend breaks . Idk probably she is good and I’m just overwhelmed. She does lie , talk behind my back , never listen much , only talks about herself ..etc. She’s been my bestie since I even knew myself and the fact she changed into a person like this breaks my heart , I am supportive towards her changing but …. Idk what to do anymore, it feels like those male friends may slip away but those male friends won’t is what I believe (they r good ppl) well have a Great day thx for reading 😁

[@dsdurga-9788]

I’m srry I wrote so much I got too into my emotions 😓

[@1uvxangelica]

Story: So 4 days ago we were jst playing roblox but realised she is copying me so i got mad,She was ignoring me,So i left,the next day i tried to talk to her,But she didnt care,3 days after i found her chat,she called me the best fake friend,But i was there for her,i was caring to her,i was apologizing to her,and she gave me this attitude,Ever since she sitted to my real best friend i felt lonely,but my seatmate has me,then she did nothing at all,did not say sorry,made me cry for almost 3 days,and still nothing… i feel like she is a fake friend as typing this i am still crying, I feel like im losing my bsf…. Which is my 3rd bestfriend…….

[@Henry_117-u3u]

Had to deal with this 3 months ago but im finally free from them they didnt allow me to have my opinion saying it was invalid and made fun of me not having a job and being bad at a game we all played together so i finally had enough and just left them because their just people who wont change and never be aware of what they do because their miserable people.

[@Jzjzj-t3i]

Most important point they dont wanna have a rivalry with you instead they wanna put you down so that they dont have any competition

[@LadyPineapplington]

My "best friend" didn't even bother talking nicely about me when i was around, she complained about my while walking 3 FEET IN FRONT OF ME. And then tried to blame me when i confronted her. I don't know why i still miss her at times

[@Lancernoevo]

They talk about how bad things are (like say at a restaurant) and instead of being able to bond together over a shared hate they blame you or say "you only work when you want to" bullshit. Like f that i worked my ass off while heing depressed. Restaurants are some of the most toxic environments.

[@Alpha_2.0_loaded]

Me who always alone at school :

[@Ofeliagonzalez34]

They always think everything is a compitition and they ignore you😢

[@-alexx__]

pinned comment got to my heart, really made me shed tears, I am writing this outside in my grandmothers shed lonley. Glad to have pinned comment sVe my life

[@joshuastrouse159]

I was in a toxic friendship but I got out of it

[@malekkhattab6018]

My 7 year friendship might me coming to an end Cuase like in school I’m just temporary to them and I’ll tell you something else from experience they only come to you when there’s nobody else around

[@Sonnyangel205]

When a fake friend stabs you they act like they are the one who is bleeding

[@Piper_McLean180]

I remember that my old best friend in middle school said this: "I get bored of my friends sometimes but I wasn't hanging out with you because I don't want to get bored of you." Like Girl I am not your doll to play with when you feel like it

[@Krizle325]

3. They make a joke and take it to for like you don’t have any emotions

[@Kaylee-ih6zc]

POV your best friend just caused a fight, blamed it on you, called you an attention whore, and many other things. Not going into detail, but I wish I wouldn’t knew sooner cause now she has all my info and knows everything I’ve done the good and the bad and is walking around with it and I’m scared she gonna tell ppl cause what she knows can ruin my life

[@londoncalling1803]

A friend of mine had a “friend” who would always corrupt a conversation! She tried it on me, yeah, MOT happening. ha. Halfway through her lecture I just started “Booooo!! Boooo! I'm bored!! get off the stage!” Everyone and I mean EVERYONE busted out laughing!

[@linzainib7441]

So true , someone who came out of a toxic friendship, iet this friend in my second year of college when we hung around together she either mentioned im too boring to hang around or i never make the effort in the friendship, when i do try and talk and check up on her. It was always about her alll the time. When she talked to a guy on the bus but was upset when she found out he already has a girlfriend and he mentioend their can be a tbree way relationship. Ive been their for her a reassured her that their always much handsome guys around. And then next week she comes more upset saying i was never ther efor her when she was crying over this guy

[@ashleylee7799]

I remember one time I was left out and I was so over it, so I told my friend that I’m tired of her leaving me out, and then when she asked, what she did, and how she left me out, and I didn’t answer, because like cmon u should know what u did, she called me a bad friend for not telling her

[@danielchen7143]

Thanks for this, I just found out my 2 friend was talking behind my back and now I’ve lost complete contact with them but my hearts feels empty now… 😞