Hide No More - A Documentary on Sexual Abuse

[@mariah7174]

Without this documentary I wouldn't have been able to confess my whole story I didn't know how to start thanks for making this

[@columbusohio72]

Do you have a video,?

[@mariah7174]

columbusohio72 nah did it through cps

[@columbusohio72]

+mariah :U ok

[@LivingBeyondAbuse]

Thanks so much for making and sharing this documentary. I'm a survivor of over a decade of childhood sexual abuse by my biological father. I now speak, coach, create motivational videos for survivors and I wrote a book that will come out this fall. Healing is not only possible, it gets easier once you get some momentum going. More stories need to come out, more people need to share. Thanks again!

[@Ridinwithpride]

"There's a big difference between living and just surviving". How true

[@anitaspeets2214]

Hello, I have a youtube channel and I need support to reach 100. I am a sexual abuse survivor and I am sharing my story. Would you mind subscribing to my channel and liking my videos? Please let me know what you think? A

[@ValouQc]

Being blamed for your pain and limits and being told to stop living in the past constantly by those who should care is painful. If they only validated the pain saying this must be hard for you it would end there. When people minimise your struggles and make it sound as if you use this to be lazy, it just makes it grow bigger in hope they’d understand.

[@starlingswallow]

The woman who talks about the movie camera being turned on in her head and nothing would shut it off....my heart is breaking for you....for ALL of you who endured this hell on earth. I can't believe what you have had to endure....I'm so sorry.

[@kyleesmommykim]

Wow, this was one of the most honest documentaries I have seen on this subject and I have watched a lot! Good job! Thank you for speaking up about sexual abuse, that is exactly what we need to help people heal and help stop kids from being abused.

[@TheA5554]

I am a 25 year old male, who if you met in real life would be like the boy next door, with his own business, studies, etc. However i am a victim of child abuse-mainly neglect,but also physical and it absolutely destroys every part of who you are. This is not just something that happens in impoverished or extreme circumstances, it happens in everyday middle class families all around the world.

[@billhill7330]

I feel your pain.

[@catherinerothe9258]

Paul Sawdon I am all alone in the world. I have no one. Nobody cares about me. Nobody gives a damn if I live or die. No one would miss me. I am not worthy of love. Everybody always gives up on me.

[@aileenwagner2576]

​@@catherinerothe9258I know my comment is late, but I am reaching out to u. I care. May not know u, but I'd like to help. I'm here.

[@april1961bakerutube]

My childhood sexual abuser was also family member.I can only remember being sexually abused from the age of 5.He also sexually abused my older sister.When we reveiled it 20 years ago to the rest of the family-We were told it would just cause trouble-let it go-it was so long ago.He has never been made to be accountable for this.

[@GinaLC]

Thank you so much for making this video. More people need to see this. 6.50-7.09 is so powerful. And I think she's right.

[@ericbritton8146]

As the man (Gen 1:26-28), a husband (Gen 2:21-25) and a father (Gen 3:16), the minister of God (Rom 13), teacher (Eph 4) and one of the survivors who was bullied in school, I am so sorry this happened to you. Every time I see and/or hear anything like this, I see my wife or my daughters. If I could protect everyone from being harmed, I would, but I can not be everywhere all at once.

[@ghostchaser13]

thank you for making this video---people need to address this issue and stop sweeping all this under the rug

[@Carpenterdane]

It's so sad, these ladies had no one in their corner. No one had their back.

[@4chance12]

You can tell the woman with the jean jacket has been through ALOT!!!

[@lilamonelie1949]

You are totally right!!! I was referring to "If they could just feel one day, one day the pain that we carry around for the rest of our lives, I guarantee you they would never do it again." Obviously this assumption that was made in the film (starting at around 6:55) isn´t right, if it was, abused people would never become abusers themselves. That was all I was trying to say.

[@pixelobservations]

It's like you are forced to carry the body of the child you were that they murdered every day for the rest of your life.

[@mrdad-zl9zl]

thats a very accurate way of putting it

[@s.elizabethmoore1488]

Describes childhood sexual abuse in the words I’ve never been able to find. Mine started at 11. Today, I’m 57 years old. It is with me every day. I’m so grateful that men are falling from very high places. In my heart, I know for ever 1 that finds the courage to speak, there is at least 1000 that can’t. It’s about time that this movement begins. It’ll never STOP! If men aren’t talking about sex, they are gesturing. If they aren’t talking or gesturing, they’re making unwanted innuendos By and large, it is they who molest Children and Rape Women. I’m not a misandrist. I’m a REALIST! Men know it, Donald Trump can attest. Any heterosexual man in this world 🌎 KNOWS it goes on. They hang in locker rooms and unknowingly scheme and condone. To men, we are objects, they pay us less, they promote men over us. And they think & do bend us over desk, throw us down and violate our children. They do it because the little head is stronger then the one that sits in their shoulders. In all the strength they claim, they’re weak.i wish for these offenders the equivalent prison time commensurate to the pain in which they have carelessly caused.

[@starlingswallow]

This is the best description of the horrific reality of this abuse. Thank you.

[@KarenArmentrout-x1w]

Omg, great analogy

[@nadinetaylor2804]

Thank you for sharing this,I appreciate it. It is what I needed or need, I need to heal

[@columbusohio72]

Stay strong

[@jennacapone125]

Excellent video Ray! My heart goes out to both of those women ..

[@KuyaKuya]

I am one of the victims and it took me 12 years to tell it to my mom...and even so I never tell her the details coz I'm scared it will cause her heartbroken. Now, I'm holding on this secret that I'm searching for someone who I can tell it..what I experienced.....it's not just happen once...years....

[@frandodilrules]

Thank you for making this video. You are a voice to those who are too scared or do not understand...

[@betelgeuse111]

A beautifully made short documentary. Thank you for speaking out and sharing this issue with others.

[@classyclaws]

Really impressed with, though a short video, very expressive of real depth, true emotional healing and blunt honesty about sexual abuse and the harm caused by it. The best revenge, is being healed and having a happy well-balanced life. It takes alit of emotional hard-work in some cases, but its worth it. Like the lady interviewed, it is really living. However, you don't have to impulsively, live with the pain, for the rest of one's life.

[@spencerwilson3298]

Thank you for making this. I too am a survivor.

[@destany9591]

My story is very similar to # 1. I was 7 years old had a best friend 10 years old. I would spend a lot of weekends/summers over at her house. Her older brother a boy in his late teens would often be volunteered by their parents to look after us while they worked late or sometimes they'd go on cruises and leave him in charge the whole weekend. No one saw this as an issue, he was a very well mannered, out going, well spoken young man, great student. Leader of his football team. He was actually enjoyable to be around, he'd teach us how to bake and play tea party\dress up with us. The abuse started out very slowly, and progressed. He'd insist on being in the bathroom while I took showers, he'd "help" me bathe. Invite me into his bedroom once his sister fell asleep. "Cuddle." with me. Luckily, things did not go any further than that. Because I told his mom. I don't wish anything bad on him. I truly hope he's somewhere having therapy and changing his life. However, I wouldn't trust him to be around children.

[@aBrownWitch]

Thanks for portraying this! Pls make more of these films. Amazing effort.

[@mardigann996]

These desperate moms should get equal blame. The abusive man sticks around because of moms daughters and sons, then mommy turns a blind eye so she can pretend everyone is in a happy family. The Steve Wilko showcases examples of this quite well in his show yet no one gets up and tells the mom SHE IS SCARED TO BE ALONE AND THE COST ARE HER KIDS!

[@kandiebarreiro4776]

my heart goes to these victims... i hope they heal

[@yvonne2965]

Its heart wrenching 💔

[@kaleidojess]

How could you not protect your child?

[@KenyanBunnie]

Sometimes I feel like I am just supposed to pretend nothing happened, many years have passed by. But the pain is still here eating at me every day. Whether in depression, in manic behaviors, in calm happy states... It is still fucking there, ruling my life. Reminding me I am damaged, from the depths if my soul to how I view my own self.

[@roselarsen4790]

Brave beautiful women!! So inspiring. Unbelievable what they have endured and have come out the other side Thank God they have come out the other side. I was not sexually abused and yet my dysfuntional family dynamic has been very painful to me. I so admire these women.Thank you for sharing their story.

[@tommiemcclain8952]

i was sexual abused when i was 12-14 years old and i went into the foster care system and i was adopted and still dealing with these promblem

[@De5O54]

Very fine videofilm. Thank you for making it. And thank you for uploading it.

[@0dontspeak]

Absolutely heartbreaking. From a place of darkness the light is brighter.

[@EveGomezProduction]

This was an awesome video Thanks for posting!

[@anitaspeets2214]

Hi Evelyn, how are you? I'm looking for people to subscribe to my channel and like my videos. My channel is my full name Anita Speets. I am a sexual abuse survivor and I need all of the support I can get. I would really appreciate it. Thank you so much! A

[@lilamonelie1949]

But what can you do, when these are the only parents you have? As a kid you still love them no matter what. And even as a grown up when you see them as the beasts they are, you still miss them. Miss them the way they should have been.

[@PSACTampa]

Thanks to all the brave women in this who have chosen not to stay silent.

[@russellroot2670]

Young children brought up in sex abuse plus,secrets, would be called toxic stress and this leads to cognitive learning disabilities in life, drinking drugs , sex abuse, and once you conquer those ,laying in bed the rest of your life thinking shoulda coulda woulda. Our lives aren't the same, some are lost in the cracks, some are called the family blacksheep.

[@corinneyaworski1273]

What a good documentary. Part of the problem when I was raped was that I knew if I had told my parents-who were either non-caring or in denial or just plain I was a burden. I didn't tell them, or anyone for years.What it does to one's life-I still don't think I am over it, even though I am old.

[@pegusashler]

THANKS FOR THIS .. GREAT JOB

[@kingdombanner2312]

may all these women find peace and comfort in God

[@nestfullofbirds]

This is beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing!

[@TomTom-gs8qp]

This is one woman's personal story of physical, verbal and sexual abuse from a family member. The book tells how she felt all alone in her struggle and how with no support from her mother who was aware of the situation, she still managed to survive the abuse and get away from the abuser, her biological father, Daniel. She explains how the abuse started for her at the age of 5. Her story tells how she was made to take on responsibilities that were not hers and how it caused resentment. It also tells how she has never been free to live her own life and how she yeans to be free of a totally dependent family member who has caused her a great deal of pain and shows no apparent remorse for her actions. The book points out her personal views of the damage abuse can cause and how she feels she will NEVER be completely free. She shares her story in her first, non-fictional book, "I Want to Be Free." It is available via page publishing. Website: www.pagepublishing.com/portfolio-view/i-want-to-be-free/ and Amazon, ITunes and Ebooks. Thank you so very much. If I can help someone writing this book would have been a blessing to me. If nothing else, I hope it raises awareness about this horrible cycle (tragedy) that some people have to endure.kzbin.info/www/bejne/iWLboaKpqbh1a7s

[@healing3733]

She's so right just one day

[@ValouQc]

Thank you. I have to be reminded that I’m aloud to exist.

[@alinapol]

I feel so sorry for you, Ladies. Thank you for sharing your stories, I appreciate that. As mentioned by other person, this was helpful to heal a bit, for me

[@sarahfotheringham399]

Awesome video. It's very moving. I'm an instructor in a social work class. Can I ask permission to share this video with the class? I think it's so important for social workers to learn about sexual abuse.

[@sgtcrab1]

It is a shame there is no hell for these abusive sobs!

[@nancyvallejo9149]

I was abused my whole life in every way until I try to leave and when I did try to leave I almost lost my life. The abusers can kill u if u try to leave them. The worst part is the no one cares at all u are alone in this. Sometimes the police don’t listen ether. It’s hard when u don’t see a way out but drug and alcohol abuse will only make it a lot worse so let’s not go there please.

[@pearlkenna5745]

Really sad, I hope they will find some peace and happiness in there lives, the best of look to you beautiful women ❤

[@nurse7559]

Just so sickening. I'm so sorry you all had to go through that shit. I'm so angry 🤬🤬🤬 and the"mother's" are just guilty, they were told & saw it, but did NOTHING to stop it!!

[@yvonne2965]

Yes it makes me very angry too!!!

[@goSilvergirlgo]

Thanks for sharing this video. It was nicely done. There are lots of methods of dealing with this subject here and on other forums, but I especially like a straightforward approach like yours. Child sexual abuse is astonishingly common - I too am a victim, Thanks again, and feel free to check out my story and my blog.

[@denisegarcia2244]

Thank you for sharing

[@valkorimoon7298]

i hope one day i can have the strength to live again.

[@FireFlood]

Thank you so much!

[@PunchDrunkLizzy]

thank u for giving a voice to so many who are too scared to speak out themselves. i can relate very personally to this and i know the pain these women went through. i can't remember who said it but it went along the lines of rape being called the 'lesser murder'. that speaks true to me in my own experience because it like the murder of one's spirit and one's hope. the only thing u can do is try to find someone to talk to about it. because staying silent ends up only causing more problems.

[@Nimue333]

In my case even psychiatrics have made things worse, one told me not to tell my family because it would hurt the elderly, and other told me it wasnt so bad cause it was just touc, that there are other things that are more hurtful like a divorce. I dont know if one strategic to those fuckers is to minimize what the patient went trough so they can feel like they can handle it but by doing that are only helping pedophiles.

[@daleneboon]

Yes! The best way of getting back at your abuser is to outlive them! Done!

[@mrdad-zl9zl]

consistent almost daily sexual abuse of a child from age 3-6 years old, that was my childhood. some times im so angry because i feel like i never even got a chance at not being fucked up or life without extreme shame and self loathing. i have that chance now no one will ever control me again

[@chucklinkt]

As long as survivors of sexual abuse remain quiet then the offender is in control. It doesn't matter how many years as long as the survivor says nothing the offender is free to do the same to others and they absolutely don't care about others' feelings. What they do has nothing to do with sex, it has everything to do with power and control. I say this because i spoke out about 30 years ago and have never regretted it. I am now 62 yo

[@nettaP]

We are making a documentary on child sex abuse that seeks to open up the conversation and get survivors to talk about how their loved ones can support them. Please consider learning more by going to Kickstarter and searching for Casual Conversation.

[@april1961bakerutube]

No,He hasn't spoken to us (his mother or siblings)for going on 20 or so years.He came up with a reason to be angry at our mother for something small.But he wont budge.I feel bad for my mother who has seemed to be the focus of his anger.I myself ,haven't seen him.But i do feel bad for him too.His apology would change things-guess ill be waiting a while.

[@yasminlovato123]

I FEEL SOOO SORRYYYYYYY!!!!

[@dot1spot]

Thanks for clarifying your comment :) I misunderstood.

[@steve261ful]

I feel your pain.

[@catherinerothe9258]

Steve Thundathil I am all alone in the world I have no one. No one cares about me. No one would miss me if I died. I would be forgotten about a couple of mins later. I am not worthy of love.

[@TheUnatuber]

I am outraged by every case here except for that of the male babysitter, which occurred in my home state. Fact is, he wanted to bring his girlfriend to the house while he was babysitting, but the girls' parents refused to let him do so, thus depriving him of his normal receptacle.

[@suntellsthemoon]

+TheUnatuber I'm assuming that this is a joke, because what you said has absolutely no logic.

[@madpoetsociety2917]

+TheUnatuber Please tell me you're joking. Because if you're not you're a fucking lunatic.

[@Airam88-m1i]

STRONG!!!!!!! HUMANS!!!!!

[@renaimodel]

Yea strong homosapiens !

[@redroseray9]

wow i cannot believe the comments he posted. I have blocked him as well as written an email to youtube to have his account removed due to sexual harassment. It seriously blows me away what some people think they are entitled to say. I am so sorry I did not see this sooner and block him after the first comment.

[@Ayitiana]

How did I get from MattyB video???

[@linalessa1995]

Could you tell me your name and the redheaded woman's name? I would like to use this video on a dissertation for my school, if you agreed...

[@tinaroston9314]

I commend you both I am a survivor and at one time I was a victim but through Christ Jesus you can become the victor! the one thing that I have learned about this is that it was not my fault I did not no any better as for my molesters they knew better not me! I don't live a life of shame anymore because my life was written before me as was yours and hers you have to know that there is purpose in all of this and that is to set the captives free! at the appointed time you ladies will do just that! peace and blessings to you both! seek and you shall find,and God bless you both!

[@catherinerothe9258]

tina roston I was walking to the bus stop last week. These church ladies came over and said, God is love. He loves everybody. I just walked away. I was thinking to myself. He woundnt love me. I am not worthy of love.

[@socialweb4717]

The song at the end?

[@Love-e8i5u]

Im 35 and in this same situation.i live with my mom my boyfriend is Muslim/spiritual but a little crazy.he's not much of an help.I was sexually abused by both parents. My mom is now crippled with sugar.now she needs her husband around.why? They blame me.i have to wash up around this dude.Pay day is coming.I'm losing remorse.

[@isal2281]

I wish if someone tell me the name of the song at the end

[@MrSama555]

touching,

[@ChaldeanOracles.13]

It wasn’t me I swear the robot!

[@dot1spot]

@Ray McEachern Can you please block Jim Devers from making comments (see below) his comments are totally disrespectful and inappropriate!!! Thanks.

[@jamesregli4754]

you know the more i here about these stories the more i see a bad family-life allowing these thing to continue. also it seem like the moms do not deserve to be mothers just as much as the dads do not deserve to be fathers

[@mariaadhiambo4738]

i was also abused for 2 years

[@MiamiPush2theLimit]

Horrifying.

[@nataliababy2448]

Wow this is very touching if only a users knew what we went thur everyday of outlives it messes up everything, our sled esteem relationships u see it played over and over again u never know what kind if day your going to have sometimes I plan would wish I could die but I'm trying :)

[@chrisguerre2012]

That is a very, very, very unhealthy view of women. It's never too late to seek help for yourself.

[@renaimodel]

Ok no one lives like the Brady bunch or partridge family you're right that is make believe!

[@undercovermother6614]

Me too!!!!

[@lilamonelie1949]

Unfortunatly a lot of the abusers were abused themselves when they were little.

[@jeffreyrichardson]

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[@LuluLove22]

it isnt just women though. that also needs to be openly discussed... maybe one day.

[@oaktree7813]

Makes me sick. Polygraph.

[@cassmccarthy2469]

I'm tired of feeling dirty.

[@kyleesmommykim]

+Cassandra McCarthy It's not your fault, but I am not sure if that feeling ever will go away... the more you talk about it the more you open up to people the better you will feel... at least in my case...

[@rociofuentes5567]

God can give you the heeling you need. Nothing you went through is your fault..God bless you

[@catherinerothe9258]

Cass McCarthy I am all alone in this world. I have no one. Nobody gives a damn about me. No one would miss me if I died. I would be forgotten about a couple of minutes later. I am not worthy of love.

[@jeffreyrichardson]

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[@williamcann8476]

If you had been raised in an enviroment where this is acceptable and encouraged, eg: amongst groomers and paedophiles, the child may not even be aware that he/she has a choice in the matter! In fact, it may even be accepted as "normal behaviour" until the child is exposed to an altogether different enviroment. Even then, (in the mind of the child, if not in the enviroment itself, short of an act of God), its "business as usual."

[@brynnletter876]

Thank you for your bravery in coming forward with your story. These topics thrive in silence. There is an amazing project that is helping support those impacted by this topic . Consider sharing your story @ www.bringingthestoriestolight.com

[@stephenfiore9960]

…First woman looks like Jodi Foster

[@michaeldevaney5728]

What a stunningly beautiful looking lady she is absolutely gorgeous xxxxx xxxxxx

[@jeffreyrichardson]

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[@dianehansen5989]

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[@jeffreyrichardson]

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[@savinglives971]

I appreciated this video. Especially, and I'm not saying this to be rude, the age of one of the people in the video. I'm in my mid 20's and I'm still. just. surviving. Check out my video if you get the chance.

[@EricScroggs]

Good documentary, but I wish they would've interviewed some male survivors of sexual abuse, too.

[@columbusohio72]

You should share your story

[@kyleesmommykim]

+Eric Scroggs There is an Oprah episode called 200 men and it is all about sexual abuse on males. You can find it here on youtube if you want to watch it.

[@robertbrown2395]

You are lying 😢