High Conflict Coparenting Tips- Understanding The High Conflict Coparent Better

[@bluebird6300]

Thank you, so appreciate this video I have been struggling with an unwilling but able ex and my daughter is suffering 😢

[@HighConflictCoparentingSecrets]

I am so happy that you have found some help from this video. This chart is actually applicable to all high conflict situations. Let me know how I can help with other questions.

[@jimmihalios3425]

Excellent! Very valuable and professional info. Thank You for your good work !

[@robertdelgado6274]

Mind blown. Thank you so much

[@HighConflictCoparentingSecrets]

Happy to help!

[@betrustedandhonest7462]

This is the most enjoyed video on KZbin, very well explained I really learned alot. Unbelievably greatful.... Thank you..

[@skiptickle7174]

Excellent & extremely valuable information. Must view this more than once.

[@MillieRat318]

Wow! This is good. Makes perfect sense.

[@sagenosnibor9173]

THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH!

[@Sobalm]

Very relevant insights for such a challenging reality. Thank you

[@coparentingcollective]

♥️ Our children, regardless of their age or parent's relationship status, want just five things: love, acknowledgment, inclusion, joy, & opportunities. Should it really be that hard to get out of our feelings to let them feel like their life matters too? After divorce, nothing tells them they are still important like truly great co-parenting can.

[@sharishafuller6933]

Thank you!

[@IsraelWillBeFree]

See here is my problem. I'm in a high conflict situation. This guy has tried to kill me three times on top of all the rest that makes him a cliche narc. When we would go to the Drs with the children and she said stop giving your son so much milk and no more high fructose corn syrup he refused to go along..not til after we left. In the Drs he acted like he was suppose to. Our son would have such bad eczema it be bleeding which was caused by high fructose corn syrup causing leaky gut syndrome and he still didn't want to keep our son off those junk snacks. But he sure as hell would get pissed at me if I wasn't constantly putting hydrocortisone cream on his rashes. It said three times a day. He was the same with Tylenol and all kids meds. More is less. If it called for 5mg he'd want to give 10 and I said that's how children overdose and die! But because he's an addict he has addict thinking.. More is less. He is highly manipulative. Highly toxic and I would love for my son's to have their dad but not as he is. He's dangerous and doesn't care about anything except making peoples lives hell.

[@bayarearaised9576]

This is helpful

[@HighConflictCoparentingSecrets]

I am glad it has helped.

[@brechtkuppens]

Thank you

[@BadaAndLala]

My daughters dad (Ex) doesn’t want to put her in school and had her 5 shots behind forgets to feed her and give her attention. I want full custody because I know he isn’t sober nor does he have a job to provide for her. What do I do?

[@HighConflictCoparentingSecrets]

Hi Jada, please feel free to call me to come up a plan to help with your daughter's situation at 858-522-9396.

[@b.sangary4508]

How do you work with someone you love?

[@HighConflictCoparentingSecrets]

Do you mean if they are unwilling or unable? A lot of people have not learned the tools to feel confident or competent. This is hard when you love someone who seems capable or supportive but they don't seem to take initiative or follow up on their supportive behavior. You have to narrow down further to decide if perhaps they can be coached to move their needle of being stuck in one of the quadrants to find out if they are willing/able to get unstuck. This may be asking them to participate in some kind of program to get unstuck or to seek professional help, could be a life coach, could be a therapist, a teacher, taking a class... Our goal with our children, is to help them to think for themselves, to help coach them with nurturing, structuring, and encouraging them to do something they want to do or learn something they should eventually learn, one step at a time. Encouraging them for their courage to try. Encouraging them and rewarding the for taking action. Unwilling can be a coverup for being too afraid to do something due to feeling weak, inadequate, powerless... A great book to read is Mindset, a new psychology of success by Carol Dweck. there are several chapters on parenting and teaching in the classroom that are applicable to children, the rest of the book talks about the growth vs fixed mindset of corporations, sports leaders, leaders... it helps you better understand the differences between the mindsets. If you want to help your loved one, see if they are willing to read the book and discuss. Let me know if I can help you.

[@HighConflictCoparentingSecrets]

I am so sorry for all of your hardships. There are no words to describe the pain and sadness that you were feeling except for when other people have had the same experience is a plus back up time with their children, and in your case physical illness. I will be happy to give you a couple thoughts related to the on able. There are about six or seven different types of unable. One of them is lacking parenting skills. Another one is a lacking empathy and the ability to provide the emotional intelligence training for children, another one is lacking time with the children, due to court orders or distance, another one is someone who has a physical or emotional disability, and another one is Anything else I left out. I am very sorry again for your pain. I can’t even send you a Knouff get well wishes for a good thoughts to cover the agony you’re going through missing out on time with your son. You are welcome to contact me. [e-mail]

[@lupeclaross4639]

Amen!!

[@citacita3548]

My daughter been living with me since she was 2months . Her dad visits every two wks for a weekend. Now my daughter is 18 months and wants our child to stay with him for a month...is this healthy for the child ? I personally don't think so but I need opinions .

[@josephnyabvudzi4452]

Cita 1000 no it's a complete no no

[@citacita3548]

Fatimah Katete can u explain why in your point of view? Now he's asking for her to stay for a wks than back to me for a wknd but I stay in LAS Vegas NV Nd he's on California...that's 4hours away !