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[@sweetnesszw]

We need to love ourselves enough to walk away from anything that doesn’t serve us❤️

[@haileygamba]

Period end of story ❤

[@azaria4447]

I’ve been single for 6 months after 5.5 years. I’ve done nothing but pour into myself and this is the most happy and at peace I’ve ever been. I’m so picky with my time and energy. I feel like the Lord is transforming me

[@nickandchrismom]

This is beautiful! ❤

[@Cathiip]

Same thing with me!! ❤

[@eelyssafischer]

Same sis!!

[@ashleyzebraprint]

I can't wait to get to the version of myself 🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@candygirl1990]

Im starting my single journey, I'm looking forward to it. Well done to you ❤❤❤

[@beyondthenurd]

Closure is not a thing. Give closure to yourself. THIS RIGHT HERE!

[@toriambrr]

closure is starting a whole new life

[@beyondthenurd]

@@toriambrr THAT PART!

[@bestdayever5728]

Your hair looks tf good. Excuse me?

[@leonan.990]

It really does

[@haileygamba]

It’s giving Rachel from Friends ❤

[@JoiLouiseReacts]

I’m saying the same thing!!!! We love the hair!!! ❤

[@Jlynn1738]

I came to say the same thing 😂

[@Kris-tb8hw]

Lmao this is how I give compliments too 😂❤

[@RoseMiah9191]

Listen- i‘m a 34 yr old female and i‘m telling you one thing now to the younger females out there. The one thing that gets you stuck and struggling is having kids. You’re lacking income, you don‘t/ barely have time to yourself, you won‘t ever really be able to detach from the daddy/ man since you depend on child support. I see this enough at my age and i‘m glad i never had kids, have my own income and can fully support myself without being dependant on a man. And trust me- men can smell your neediness. If i‘m in a place where i don‘t feel good i can leave and never look back. So if you are with „the love of your life“ and he is talking you into having kids- really think longterm- he might be gone in 5 years- he can start all over with another woman. You are a mom then and stuck. Good luck with that.

[@laurita1967]

As a christian, it fills my heart with joy to hear you include God into your advice, hearing your testimony of how God has healed you and you speaking about God with no shame. Praying as you continue to grow in your spiritual walk with Christ ❤

[@GabrielleTollerson]

Amen!!

[@mercedeshutch9553]

Right! I liked that too! I was like subscribe ❤

[@Lexi0626]

My ex broke up with me 9 months ago. That was the worst day of my life, I was in a really bad place mentally (I had mental health issues way before this happened) and all I wanted was to get back together with him. That was when I found these self-help videos, youtubers, and podcasts and they (including Hailey) helped me SO much. There isn't a day when I don't watch at least one self-help video or listen to a podcast episode, usually in the morning while I drink my coffee. My ex texted me yesterday. He wants to start things over. And yet here I am in the morning, still watching this video.

[@internetbee2786]

I was feeling pretty down today after work about my broken engagement (8 year relationship) and then this video came up on my recommended, I know it was a sign from God to stay strong and trust the process. Thank you for your wise words! xx

[@salsa3942]

I feel your hurt as im going through something similar. We got this ❤

[@haileygamba]

How beautiful! On the other side of pain is opportunity and something better ❤

[@ChanpreetSpeaks]

Sending u love n healing ❤ stay strong girl ❤️

[@candygirl1990]

Hi, I got dumped by email last year after 4 years. I take one day at a time, just be so kind to yourself please. You will be ok ❤❤

[@JaneeLeeSanders]

Married 13 years and I love these types of videos from you. I can always pull something relevant to me and my personal growth while still being happily married

[@zykieya]

as a woman who just let go of someone who wasn’t serving them I needed this Hailey 😊, I love you so much ❤

[@ilekamays]

me and my ex just separated because we both needed growth outside of eachother or in his words “so we can come back together more complete people because we deserve each other in completeness”. i’m definitely taking my journey seriously for me and definitely reclaiming my time. neeeeded this!!!!!!

[@kadianedobor1715]

For folks that are going through abuse- you don’t deserve that. They may treat you in a way where you think you deserve it- you don’t. God will not punish you for leaving an abusive marriage.

[@tsumixis3376]

The emerald nails are such a vibe 💚

[@haileygamba]

I know and I’m getting them done soon 🙃

[@IvorianAya]

Wow you dropped this right on time… it’s been exactly a year since I cut him off and I keep getting waves of being okay then reminiscing on what could have been. I just want to finally be healed and let him go forever

[@eliz9853]

“Although I may be alone I am never lonely” 👌🏿👌🏿 and that is the magic of belonging to him 2:15

[@bonganimwenda7926]

The video I never knew I needed, it's pretty weird how I always tend to feel bad for the other person when I finally move on and they want me back, I tend to have this need to cater to their needs and support them emotionally or any way I can but at the same time not wanting to have anything to do with them.

[@AggieDickie]

Same gurl😢

[@moniquemonet94]

Wow..that part

[@butterflypurplesilver444]

This is me. That’s why before we let go I do ask them if they are truly sure? Because when I actually really let go I let go

[@LostVisionary]

I left a relationship with the father of my child because I knew that it didn’t serve my fullest potential. now he’s married and I’m single lol but it does not hurt me. I see their life and it’s the complete opposite of what I want. he’s not affectionate or spontaneous like I want, and sometimes you have to think “did I even want that to be my life?” I’m very unconventional and my ex’s current life is conventional. It never would’ve worked for me so therefore I can’t care. I’m still waiting patiently while working on my career, but I know for a fact that my aligned person will make all of this worth the wait. I can feel my man otw, he’s lookin for me right now 😏 alone but NEVER lonely 💕

[@haileygamba]

You are a smart woman! It’s never as good as it seems 🫣 certain people will either only show their highlight reels or they are happy and inlove and even more of a reason for you to be at peace. You will be blessed by God ❤

[@aderoprescott4461]

I just sent this to my 17 yo daughter. She was in a relationship with someone she’s known for most of her childhood and he ghosted her and recently popped back up in her life. I was sharing some of the gems you mentioned, with her and I really hope she looks at your video. You’re wise beyond your years.

[@shynanigansss]

Whewwww this is right on time! I just finished the book “Set Boundaries: Find Peace” setting those boundaries and not settling is a challenge for somebody that’s usually a people pleaser. But being that doesn’t serve me.

[@vee5784]

Hey! what author was this by ? im searching for this title on Amazon and there are a few versions coming up. Is it the Nedra Glover one? Thanks in advance ☺

[@shynanigansss]

@@vee5784 that is the one! 😊

[@lyriclove011]

You did that I left a 5 year relationship in February and they are still trying to crawl back. I needed this reminder on why I stay the hell away.

[@saraic5486]

I’m in the loving myself phase and this whole video resonated so much with me! I will be listening to it often to remind me that I deserve better and just need to keep it moving. I am the prize 🏆

[@Rezzas4298]

Me too, amazing amazing content ❤

[@uniquelyfashioned]

I really needed this today. Self love and self care is really important to me. I’m always looking for ways to love me 1st. Being single for me is a form of self love. I know what I want and don’t want in a relationship and I know myself. Whatever my faults or mistakes I deal with them and I give myself grace when I mess up.

[@SomNerdy]

Hail is getting more spiritually aligned and I can feel those wordssss. You're speaking factsss. Loving boring and simple over choas! Preach sisssss!

[@hotliketee]

Thank you for this encouraging word! Romans 8:28 has been my scripture for the year! So much spiritual confirmation. Praise the Lord! 🙏🏽✨🙌🏽

[@eelyssafischer]

New subbie! In my “focus on ME” girl era and it’s a first for me. I’ve always centered men and attachment issues, it’s time to reclaim my space, reset my intentions, and call my energy BACK. You’re an embodiment of where I’m heading! Thanks sis 🤍

[@map.1870]

all of my situations were exhausting and i wondered why it never worked out. life is about experience and learning. no one comes into the world perfect. after all the dating, i finally know what i love. im finally in a good relationship where its so easy and loving, i wonder if its even real. i go to sleep without anxiety, i dont fear that hes doing something behind my back. i dont rely on constant communication. i still have my insecurities but he gives me no reason to worry. looking back, im super thankful for the experiences because if it was perfect off the bat, my curiosity would've strayed me. i love your videos hailey! you articulate everything in such a great way. again, wish i had you 3 years ago, but i guess thats okay

[@jens8223]

Hailey I see your growth. And lately you been coming out with the real gems. I’m a little older than you (31) and trust me when I say you sound like you know what you’re talking about. Ladies don’t go into your 30s being just as dumb as you were in your 20s. Many women have devalued real women because everything is just so easy now for men and so accessible. Just makes it even harder for the real good women out there. Stick to your boundaries and DONT SETTLE

[@redheadvibez]

Why am I going back to see if things will change . Wow . I really needed this . I’m currently making my escape plan . I’m ready to leave but one part of me….can’t .

[@aidaortiz7219]

Excellent advise and reflection! Thank you for this. ✨💫 I want to add something to what you’re saying. If you wait and are celibate, you will have so much more clarity, and your integrity will be intact. It’s much easier to make a decision with a clear mind, having sex with someone creates a soul tie, and things get complicated. Not to mention, you’re exchanging energy and if it’s a toxic relationship, it drains your life force. Protect your head above all things.

[@haileygamba]

I always say this! And I have to say as someone who has been intimate too soon in the past YOU ARE SO RIGHT ❤

[@rozmarinne7193]

Hailey, no words can describe how much I love your videos and how much joy and wisdom they bring me. This one is by far my favorite, you almost made me cry... I'm 21 now and I've been single for 3 years and sometimes it's hard to deal with😅 but after listening to you i feel so reassured. I'm currently working on my education and skills, going to gym and leveling myself up to be the highest version. May God bless us all with love and light😌❤ Thank you Hailey!

[@Lifes_a_beauty]

I needed this. I’ve been in a relationship for so long I gave him the whole me. I’m not happy, he doesn’t make me feel wanted, there’s no affection. Everything u said. and I’m spiritual now. Yeah Ego.

[@armanievans346]

Ur a god send I swear! Just got from being crazy making a fake account to hit him up since he blocked me and I’m apologizing when he hurt me

[@Loveprevails1111]

Being nonchalant about me ❌🙅🏾‍♀️❌ You put my feelings into words perfectly! I always end up walking away when a man is too cool about me and hadn’t been able to explain it that way. Thank you!

[@itsmelilperry6716]

oooo I honestly love that you mentioned you didn't see your parents settle for less so you aren't gonna settle because that is really a lot of people's experience. I am apart of that collective to where I grew up with parents who were hot and cold, very toxic, lacked trust & respect, and had me in the middle of it BUT one minute it was I hate you and the next it was I Love You. Love should never be so on and off. Now My dad is older and realizes he doesn't want to be alone in his older years, so he tries so hard to swoon my mother but she is forever hurt and bitter over their past. Some things you just don't come back from; however she is admittedly Lonely and says it out of her own mouth. It took me growing up to realize I didn't want to be in a relationship like that, but I still feel like I developed some of those toxic traits that show up when I am no longer happy and unable to speak up about it cause I also don't want to be alone or I want to avoid confrontation. Everything is a learning lesson.

[@diamondmaddox5]

This video dropped nothing but gems ! It started off with the fact that a lot of us INCLUDING MYSELF struggles with the egotistic thought of “I don’t want him but I don’t want anyone else to have him. I personally struggle with that BAD. And it felt good to address it in the beginning

[@diamondmaddox5]

And I’m a cancer so sometimes it’s hard for me to move on because I love hard…… but these past few years. I’ve been on my FUCK you see you around energy!

[@kaarinaMoongo]

The part about our ego's took a lot of importance that I placed on this person out of me.

[@Suhmareeuh]

This video came at the perfect time! Thank you Hailey for being the big sister I never had ❤️

[@jonah2400]

I really appreciate this video a lot, and it is very timely with what I'm going through. I appreciate it the most on how vocal you are with God working with you through your journey. I need more content creators like you. Wishing you best in your journey!

[@mackenziesmith2474]

closure is a verbal form of what they’ve already shown you!!!! period!

[@charsdiy1879]

This video was EVERYTHING. Hailey so much facts said about how to be our highest selves and never settling for less than. Amen🙌🔥

[@funnygirlever]

I needed this that no one in my life has given me this talk but put me down. Made fun of me. Lie to me. Blame me for everything. You just saved me another bullshit year. Another year of pain. Another year of torturing myself and Punishing myself any longer. Thank you so much! Your so on point. So true. I hope more people see this video and save themselves from years of pain and torturing. I love you for this and owe it to you to better myself so your time and wise words are not to be wasted. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@vemartinez04]

The timing of this video is *chef's kiss* ✨️

[@Kat-px6vf]

Crazy to realize this video is 8 months old. I’ve been feeling really stuck and stagnant this year but seeing this video and seeing the progress you made in those 8 months def was the hope I needed to feel that I can still change a lot in the next 6 months of 2024🥺 Thank you ❣️

[@gooblini]

I mean its hard to pick a favorite among all the hairstyles youve got bc theyre always SERVING But i think this goes to my mental Hailey Gamba Best Look Shrine 😍🤩 IM INLOVE, just *chef kiss*

[@BiancaLonesse]

Hailey out here raising our vibration 🙌🏽🥰

[@Mara_143]

Love your hair, brows, nails etc

[@make_emfall_inlovee]

Hailey coming thru with word👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@catherinemahoney4989]

Anytime you said “God,” in my head I replaced with the word “universe” because that’s what I believe in, and this whole video and message was so beautiful 😍

[@neena9202]

I have a hard time discerning when i should give grace and be understanding and when i should walk away. My current new relationship, i feel on edge for a few reasons That i tried to ignore. i took some space after it built up from being overwhelemed and now i look like the unstable one and he said his family thinks he should date someone else, but were only a month in and i needed space to think about things, its been alot of pressue already and i dont think i should feel this way and i dont like how he portrays me for taking a step back

[@6lack_pineapple]

If it's already anxiety inducing after a month...walk away.

[@neena9202]

@@6lack_pineapple thank u, you're right def shouldn't feel like this

[@carolynwebb8726]

Crazy i thought i was in love with him but it was my projection. I was in love with myself but gave everything to him thinking we were similar in thought and morals.....NOPE!! Im OUT!

[@motha_earth1386]

Same!!

[@shawndale-johnson1720]

Girl… You are speaking the truth ! Every scenario you’ve listed I resonate with 💯

[@freebird1784]

So wise and so young. Much love girl.

[@kristi_welch]

Really needed this message! Thank you for always sharing your light ✨

[@WeightLosswithPCOS]

A word! Wish I had these videos when I was in my late 20s, but still feeling confident in my early 30s that true love will come my way. God is so good! 💕

[@Sugarsweetpopx]

I’m Muslim and I was married but now I’m divorced. It was 6 years, from start to finish toxic. But it was hard to leave bc we had a child right away. And I so badly wanted things to work out. We both had child good trauma. He’s avoidant I’m anxious. It was a mess. The disrespect was so high, our child was eating her hair so much it looked like we cut it. I get not feeling sorry for people for choosing their own misery, sometimes it’s so hard to let go, I lost a friend because of how bad it got. Ofc she was also going through a divorce and had a child but she was able to choose herself quicker than I was. I’m still sad this is still new to me. And I don’t want this to be our reality. But the other option is harder. Even as a baby momma now, I have to put my boundaries up with him though we have moments where we want to show kindness, care etc. It just sucks that if you let them down people will use you to no end.

[@khalilah6686]

Hailey you have really been the GOAT in this season of my life. I have to keep saying that girl thank you for the reminders, the messages, and your experience. Love you little big sis!!! 😘💜🤗

[@lydieinthecity]

moving on also includes leaving weird ass friends behind too. a lot of the times the pain you endure come from your inner circle.

[@aisiswhite]

Facts

[@goldenari295]

Thank you for this, honestly I needed to hear it. I’m so sad, but you’re right *Don’t settle* ‼️⚡️👑 we some Queens out here lol Good way to look at it. If we insist on wanting love from others, redirecting the focus to self love and the mindset of, God is building me up into the woman I need to be to attract the partner that I DESERVE.

[@AAA34FL448]

"Although I feel alone, I am not lonely" GIRL 👏👏👏 God will get you on that 'narrow path' and you feel great walking it

[@Mellioniare17]

The weekly sermons that the girls need >>>

[@bellabarojas5336]

your opening of this video had me crying after the first 30 seconds. Watching this after leaving an on and off long distance relationship this morning has deeply impacted my heart and my faith in my new reality. You are that girl you are an inspiring woman who I can look up to thank you so so much for creating content and staying authentic to who you are it’s definitely inspiring as a girl trying to find identity and really grow myself into the best version of who I am. I feel blessed to be aIive during a time where you are here and thriving been watching your content for a couple months now and you have uplifted so many different aspects of my life I feel such a need to thank you for the impact you have had on my heart and soul thank you so much hailey sending my love and blessings 🤍

[@barika8191]

Such a powerful message. This was on time & definitely hit home.

[@Sarah_j12]

Literally crying watching this ! Thank you.

[@alanaaleo1245]

WOW - you have no idea how much this video resonated! THANK YOU for being the big sister I always wanted and needed Ms. Hailey!

[@Divine_ness022]

Hailey, i’ll just go ahead & say it cuz you’re not gonna give a damn anyway, 😂 but it took me awhile to subscribe to you even though I had been watching your videos for awhile. I felt like you came across “harsh”. I then came to the realization that it’s literally tough love. You deliver the message, crystal clear & you deliver it in a “take my advice or leave it” kind of manner. Because it’s not hard to understand, you just have to do it. And you’re always spot on. The way we’ve watched you flourish & elevate over the years has been amazing, you’re literally the product of what you preach. I definitely appreciate you ❤️

[@haileygamba]

Lol love this comment ! Thank you for sticking around anyways and extracting the message! I speak you to guys the way I’d want a friend to speak to me ❤

[@suziandchopstix]

So thankful for videos like this by Hailey. I always find myself coming back when I start to get delulu thoughts

[@EnglishWinterRunne]

Did not know how much I needed this...#preach

[@safama21]

This is the only video I needed to hear, your person can be perfect but not for you, I didn't love a man in my life untill I knew him, I loved every single thing about him, he was my dream man but not the right one. I understand a lot now! Grateful for God and for your amazing video ❤

[@IvorianAya]

Girl all I needed to hear was GOD 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@haileygamba]

The answer to it all 🫶🏽

[@SZAliaBanks]

Girl you are killing it this year! Thank you!!!!!

[@lunarose2139]

What if he did give me the ring but he still doesn't do anything? Doesn't help clean, doesn't help cook, doesn't help with the mental and physical load. Only talks about his surface level Stuff and doesn't go deep? He plays video games after work and took 7 months to get a 2nd job to get us out of debt but got us further behind because he took nearly the whole year?

[@haileygamba]

hunny you have your answer, you don’t need me to tell you.

[@candygirl1990]

Starting my single journey after years of bad men. Trying not to feel down because its Xmas, and im fed up with smug couples everywhere. But this is my journey and im excited too ❤❤❤

[@Jlynn1738]

This video called me tf out thank you I needed to hear it😰healing is not linear for those of you struggling to grasp this girl talk! But like she said keep choosing you and you’ll stay blessed 🤪PERIDOT

[@kaisuilona]

watching this back because im dealing with a breakup. thank u hailey for keeping me strong 🏹🤍

[@sasa18girl]

When the rhode mic is in frame you know the video is gonna deliver every time.

[@haileygamba]

You know the vibes ❤

[@JOSIE828333]

God really spoke through you on this one, I felt that 🫶🏼

[@LifewithJae_]

Thank you for letting God use you today!!!

[@emgdoll3452]

I can sooooo relate. I learned early how to move on faaaast. And I am not lonely, and I have always had your opinion when it comes to What people think of being a woman and single. They speak like they represent all of us living íon earth. They have insecurities and can’t be alone for an hour and they push that narrative that we all need to have a man/woman. They settle just to have someone. I totally agree with you also when it comes to settling. Next. No matter the age, move on.

[@nyamburathuku]

This is really hitting home for me. Thank you Hailey ❤

[@alexisallinone]

Girl you are ruthless 😅😂 I love it

[@ljperry570]

Binging all of her video bc she’s is that girl and will help me be that girl too 😮‍💨❤️‍🔥

[@iamtoribrown_]

Thank you for including God in the conversation and masking it all come together ❤

[@lamaria9801]

Absolutely! I fell hard in love and had the same feelings as you. I’m in that space of learning how to navigate that space and enhancing myself. I’ve experienced the heartbrakes and was definitely a late bloomer. Yes, God first in all things 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 and I’ve been talking to God a lot and asking Him to order my steps and lead me.

[@juicy4742]

This the one!! I relate so much with this video. Best thing I did was fall in love with myself and poor everyday into me.

[@rakhiganar3275]

The ending literally made me cry! This video gave me the courage that I needed thankyouu

[@mvelokhanyile7784]

Happened to me ,he never wanted to be seen a lot with me😂😂😂 and I ditched him while pregnant with his child and I'm alone now but honey I'm healing and I am alot happier.i did not settle ,alone but I will never be lonely🤞💯

[@HeyItsMaori]

The glow you have is unreal. I pray for my growth and pray I continue to become the best version of me. God is the biggest part of that. 🤍 God literally created us for something and he doesn’t want us to go through all the heartbreak.

[@Itsmarissworld]

I’m only 2:25 in but I already love this video I love when my favs mention God 😭💗

[@ChanpreetSpeaks]

Same❤

[@nataliesthompsonxo]

Can we get a hair tutorial 😩😍

[@jahleda8937]

As a man I co-sign dis video 💯

[@mekkanism]

Thank you for this! I feel heard and seen after listening to this video. “I’m getting a line up of what isn’t good for me” I looooove this , because man has it been hard dating. 😭But it has strengthen me. God knows what HE’s doing 🙏🏿

[@vicsolimo]

I sent your video to my best friend who really needed this today✨️

[@jennyleemalpica6995]

I needed this so bad! The older sister I never had ❤

[@dejab2583]

There’s moments where I see a new videos posted but I wait for a moment I can watch and dissect your message and I swear you hit it on the nose with where I’m at in my life and the type of dream girl I’m striving to become, with every video you post. Your truly an asset in my healing journey. Keep goin homegirl!

[@InfallibleGrace]

I love that you mentioned God it’s just soo vital

[@theselflovebae]

Girl this video is right on time! I legit have been subscribed forever to you and some how missed this upload. My ex (who is coincidentally from Jersey) broke up with me a week ago. I was sad at first but then I realized how amazing this opportunity was for me to work on myself and spend time with God. I’ve been working out and eating healthy legit with in a week I lost 7 pounds. I feel so blessed and when he comes back to try and fix things I’m going to legit pretend he doesn’t exist like you said. I’ll never let a man tell me he doesn’t want me twice. Also stay strong queens and listen to self love by savanna Christina if you need encouragement lol

[@shardais0119]

I love this video and advice so much. Straight to the point, no sugar coating and very true/helpful! 👏🏽👏🏽❤

[@jainejane107]

Absolutely loved everything you said in this, but icl I would love the name of this jumper! It's gorgeous!! x

[@haileygamba]

Aw thank you so much! It’s actually a dress from Zara ❤❤

[@maniibabyy3378]

“You have jumped to another planet” 🤣😂😂😂 fr girl that’s really how you have to see it

[@strange_aeons5636]

Love love love love looove this message! 💕 So true and exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you Hailey!