Highly Confident People DON'T Have It All Together...

[@JulienHimself]

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[@garouuchiha4041]

Powerful, beneficial. 👍

[@rafaelvilas4230]

thanks

[@Zachary-b7z]

This was the video that did it for me 💯 plus here. Love it!!

[@tcoom76]

The most liberating thing is when you grow up and realize nobody really knows what they are doing out here!

[@JulienHimself]

Yes! 👌

[@4Mikes4Mindset4]

I have moments when it clicks for me. It is liberating 👍

[@birdsbin4588]

learned that from dropping out of school at 15 as well as moving out from being pretty coddled through my childhood lol not that we were rich or that my family was together but i've definitely gained a lot of not giving fucks and when you truly don't give fucks you become a robot with feelings, so im trying to give fucks now. it was a coping mechanism.... is

[@daynemin]

Haha yeh I finished high school and assumed all the adults knew what was going on bahaha

[@cj3420]

The fact that this is all improv, all coming from the soul, bringing your best to this group of strangers right after you received potentially life threatening news… it’s beautiful and is a testament to how much you care about fulfilling your vision. It brought tears to my eyes. Not only do you talk about great stuff, you demonstrate it live every time you get on that stage, and some people forget that. Thank you for everything you do, from your game days to your trauma release days - it does not go under appreciated 🙌🏼🙏🏼

[@memm7846]

its crazy how SO many of the things julien says are things and ways of thinking and seeing things and analogies i came up for myself as well over many past years

[@arianajabba3356]

I don’t understand how u don’t have billions of people watching you. Every human being on this planet should hear all of this stuff you are saying. I am very grateful for you and your content. I appreciate it tons. Thank you Julien!!!❤

[@london713]

100% agree. He is way better than all of the self help mentors who just give you pump and dump motivation. He is honest and true, and we can feel than

[@arianajabba3356]

@@london713 EXACTLY!!! It’s like he has read all the books etc, and took the most important and relevant stuff which ACTUALLY works in real life and not just ”theories” he heard about and now he’s preaching about them, bc that’s what most of other content creators do

[@london713]

100% agree ariana, iv decided to go to his event in march 21, Im super exited :D@@arianajabba3356

[@Florianpimpf]

its so funny when u watch videos multiple times and some stuff makes sense, then u go back after some time rewatch it and focus on 1000 different things u didnt relate with before. and the old stuff still makes sense in a certain paradigm. i got so much value out of your videos. life gets better and better even though it doesnt feel comfortable all the time. thank you mr. julien once again. would like to kiss your feet 24/7 because i wouldnt have figured out anything i realized because of you from the place i was coming. im starting to love life more and more. for me it was alot of fear grief and i still got lots of apathy in me. right now im in between anger and courage. still not where i want to be but happy rn. (desire pretty much started my journey 1,5 years ago, but made me really depressed the last months happy to finally be out of that 🤡😂 give me all my problems i can and will handle them! keep it up julien. love ur content, thanks for saving my life

[@Jess-lr6em]

Finding Julien's channel is one of the best things that happened to me, so I'm grateful for it and that you opened my eyes :)

[@BeholdtheLambofGod]

Dude same

[@naomipaffettmeditationmind2819]

I see so many people in the coaching world throwing it out there that we just need to be aligned to be happy, but really is this ever going to happen when we put that label on it, no! shits going to happen, life is going to have its difficulties, its about experiencing it! thanks Julien for another amazing video and wake up call. ❤

[@asianfanboi]

I been dealing with existential dread for a long time. Everytime i think about it alway make me spiral down and leaving me with loud beating heart beat. Now I know it a panic attack so I literally got panic attack when thinking about it haha. Everytime i look for answer or something online it alway leaving me with more dread and make me want to hide from the world more so i resolve to distracting my self and force my self to stop thinking about it. But like every problems you just cant ignore and forget about it, the problem still under the carpet bitting at your feet everytime you walk by. Today i got panic again and searching for anything to distract myself then suddenly i remenber how i alway find you speech snoothing (it weird i know). So i search for your channel and click on the newer video. Damn... I haven't expect to learn how to deal with with existential dread from this. Deep breath and reframe your mind does wonder. It is truly wonderful, miracle even like u said how i still alive now, typing right now to express my appreciation to you. Your video game analogy tell me i should take thing slow. More is not alway better analogy make me not to dwell on loss time. And your hero analogy convice me that so called loss time is not even loss at all, im just on my journey, even it majority of it spend thinking about one problem. And yeah, thinking about the future is scary (and there more far of it the scarier it is) but i deal with it all when it come and i still alive, breathing, and if i not? Other people with pick up the torch and continue onward, just like many before me and maybe many after me. This video is literally a full package haha. Thank you again Julien for making me see life in a new perspective.

[@nabilXCreativeSociety]

These things should be taught at kids in primary schools. Although in a more playful and child-adjusted form I feel these tools would be so much important for everybody to have in their bags from the earyl youth, before crushing into adolescence and adulthood. Thank for your work!

[@london713]

You are just the most realistic self help coach. I'm amazed by you, thanks a lot:)

[@Openingtheshadow]

Love this so so much. This is so true! I use to get so upset internally when my family would look at me and say “oh yeah she’s still figuring it out.” I’m literally screaming inside like WE ARE ALL STILL FIGURING IT OUT, FOREVER!!! Lol. Also, how ironic that you have neck nodules. I have been having popping sensations every time I swallow for about 6 months now… I think it’s time to check them out but I sure am scared. Hope you don’t have cancer Julian, but even if it is you can get through it. ❤

[@jacobb554]

Its okay to not be okay, but it's not okay to pretend you're okay" - Pure Heart Church. Great video Julian !

[@wesleycooper6775]

I see it here in the comments, but it’s so liberating to know EVERYONE doesn’t know what’s going to happen or if they’ll get it. It changes how you see everything

[@mikolajprokopowicz1178]

My goal was to let go of everything. This is 200iq advice. Thank you Julien

[@JulienHimself]

You're welcome! Glad this was helpful! 🙌

[@oscarraneke7017]

Letting go of even the idea of having to let go of everything is letting go of everything

[@RockyBoltzano]

Julien, I feel like you're my best friend that I have never met in person. Thanks for these great videos. ❤

[@losokos]

The most inspirational person i've seen online

[@JulienHimself]

Thank you! Glad my content resonates with you! 🙏

[@mathsis9963]

i just love the way u r so natural...i wish i was like u ....thanku man ...huge respect and love from india

[@forthepeople1664]

Julian here! It's all just a bunch of chemical and biological processes going on. What meaning we attribute to that is perception, everything else is a facade. My outlook is more neutral to positive, because I want to understand and manipulate these processes for the benefit of human health.

[@Talkingpage]

That shirt gets me every time 😄Thank you for teaching me a very effective way of letting go ♥

[@adam.bilton]

this guy speaks soo much sense.

[@robertoordaz3765]

Hey Julien, I hope you get better ❤️

[@GoodasCoffee]

9:07... Consistent, precise & thoughtful. Keeping it real Julien

[@ryantaylor3023]

love the shirt Julien. Love your work seriously has helped me out so much without having a father figure around at home to teach me life lessons. APPRECIATE YOU!

[@victorllin]

Journey before destination.

[@SkinCareLuver]

This is so true. I'm extremely confident and feel like I'm a loser

[@samdunkksu2b129]

We’re all just kids that got older

[@JulienHimself]

Exactly, yes!

[@deniseneumann]

I have to come to terms with this, and stop beating me up for being unperfect and not "mature enough".. the perfect image.

[@kevinalexandercuellarochoa6773]

What a profound and rich understanding this videos offer

[@NahomGirma-i3w]

Thanks Julian. You provide so much valuable lessons.

[@JulienHimself]

You're so welcome!

[@gerickdelacruz7671]

Julien had become kind of OP in this game of life. Respect 💯🔥 and thank you for sharing this to us.

[@clarkkent6927]

48 years old here and it sad they never taught me this during my school years in the 80's and 90's

[@Lukas8363]

yes Julien has everything figured out

[@JulienHimself]

😂😂

[@gr0win]

You’re a breath of fresh air Julien! I was going to DM you on LinkedIn but it doesn’t look like you’re active there? Also, is all ok…your neck…whats the diagnosis?!

[@Ash_Hudson]

Reading that t shirt was like experiencing a stroke until I realised it was Blink 182 lyrics.

[@rajwijesinghe5900]

17 mins condensed wisdom ❤ thank you! you are best 🎉

[@o0MELLY0o]

I don't know when this was recorded but hope you're okay with your neck. Did it come out fine?

[@ellomurz]

Best advice I've heard in awhile. Thank you!

[@SH0CK4W4V3Z]

i truly needed this thank you so much

[@Rslair]

Julien, julien, you should know that some people are born with the shy brain, like literally shyness and quietness could be an inherited trait from one's parents, you said earlier that no one is born being introverted or shy or quiet, but being introverted or quiet isn't often a bad thing, is it?, So oftentimes introverts or quiet people are the ones who pay more attention to details and observe the surroundings more around us, so you make us seem like we have to be the opposite of what we are, I've watched your videos for quite some time and I've noticed that you tend to make being quiet a bad trait, in fact if you'd ask me which would i want to be surrounded by, I'd say the quiet, introverted types because they're more calm, although anxiety can also be inherited too but introverts are more associated with being anxious and shy, introverts can be confident and assertive too, so I'm going to let you know that being quiet or introverted is normal, also if you check the number of people that have came up with new and original ideas to change the future, like the person who came up with electricity, cars, planes, literature, ect, they're all introverts, don't mean to sound any way, but i said this so that you'll understand me more, extroverts are usually known as the loud mouths, also most people assume that most introverts are autistic, which of course, we're really not, it's natural for some people to be quiet introverted shy people, eg. Lionel messi is an introverted shy person, so many famous people are like this, (i only stated this in response to what you said about no one being born this way, that everyone came out being all extroverted and loud in character)

[@yannhijazi]

Love your work Julien. Stay healthy 💪❤️

[@Kingambrosi]

Amazing shirt for those who get it

[@SuperZippyzippy]

I love this guy

[@praneeth6005]

Thank you so much.this was much needed.❤

[@neonsynthwaves]

Thanks for the great content, once again! One of my favorite things you've said is the hologram idea where you'd be saying "It's okay." Wish that was real! P.S. I love your shirt!!

[@laylasanchez8070]

Happy new year ❤

[@Christopher-or6pr]

I've been teaching people lately and I use Saw 4 during it, I laughed so hard at this 😂 cheers man.

[@HigherPlanes]

All we ever know is life. No one ever gets to "I'm dead."

[@Alacard0malley]

The Doom one is also pretty sick

[@damson9470]

that shirt is fire

[@AshTea22]

This really helped me, I'm very guilty of hyper focusing on things. Learning to zoom out, take slow breaths and accept nothings permanent will be good tools for me to develop.

[@JulienHimself]

Nice! Glad this was helpful!

[@whynot1548]

Sadly, this information wont change my status as a single man

[@droidhackerr]

I haven't finish watching this 2:21 ,, I figure out we going to see

[@LearnCompositionOnline]

You are getting very good at this! Look like a speech in Athenas

[@4Mikes4Mindset4]

😄 oh my gosh. So refreshing. Continued thanks julian

[@hangloosejanjuc]

Hey dude ive watched you on and off for a few years now and id like to just say that this video and your message these days is motherfucking potent and as real as it gets. Thanks alot. My whole life has been one big panic attack (in my mind obviously) and this type of shit reminds me to just calm the fuck down. Thanks

[@al6377]

Brilliant, thank you so much!!

[@benhulme2863]

Only I’m not lying. And life is nothing more than a rental at best. I’ll discard you every time.

[@MiroMai]

Greates philosopher of our time.

[@eugenekrabs3837]

I have to disagree plenty of people stick around because they're needed but once being needed goes away

[@rappatenebrense]

Hope its not anything serious with the nodule thing, big J.

[@filmsta5sixtoosie]

That shirt is fuckin epic

[@crazymadelyn9900]

When you realize the adults you looked up to when your were a child are crazy af

[@brofessortoak9tree]

Milk that shit! In and out the dark! Experience it all! Learn hownto breathe like a god!

[@Enrikoh]

What does the tattoo on your left arm mean?

[@ozzyakram441]

inspirational

[@jessebonanno1182]

Thank you Julian I love you haha

[@Aleks_Mechanics]

Notification Squad!🔥🔥🔥

[@JulienHimself]

🔥🔥🔥

[@jelena6172]

I like jour work Julien!!! ❤️

[@djebarazidan103]

i tip my 🎩 for you my intj fellow

[@JulienHimself]

🙏🙏

[@kevintucker7747]

You pinned him 😉

[@aldringregorio7171]

Awesome!

[@JulienHimself]

Thanks!

[@andyx2valid]

Great.

[@Alacard0malley]

Sick fucking shirt bro

[@saishashanka9907]

That Blink-182 shirt tho hahah, nice!

[@martysnyder7970]

You mean ~ 😉 whun aidie tou

[@Mm-abcsony]

What is your shirt saying? Why do I read it different every time 😅

[@RitaColacoNuminous]

What does the shirt say? I can only understand a bit of it lol

[@davidbowman2035]

Can someone explain the t-shirt?

[@munkeeboi1982]

Whereayooo? Anaim soo siuuuree. I canhot sleeep, I canhot dreeem tanaite!

[@ChuckBassHere]

“Don’t waste your time, money you’re already the voice inside my head” Not too sure about “time” part

[@EnsoToleran]

nice shirt. yom delonge

[@a.bogdanenko8309]

Very good 👍

[@JulienHimself]

🔥👊

[@elamriti]

wrong i have figured out what iam doing long time ago ,yall choose to stay sleeping and wach the TEL A VISION

[@lukeclaydon6670]

Great

[@envivo1138]

Don't waste your time on me you're already the voice inside my head :v

[@mikemike7827]

man who tf is playing with metal balls in the background.

[@sokkatomeson7561]

Not a damn word was listened to. Coz I was distracted by the shit Where arrrr yeeeeewwww aynd oim sew soreeee

[@ozzyakram441]

omfg didnt realize that was blink lyrics it looked like russian or some shit i assumed hahahahah niceeeeeeeeee

[@bbffjj]

Vax

[@therifgaming]

Julien SEO 88/100

[@jacobb554]

Jesus is my only logical conclusion for the purpose of life, i don't see how this earth and nature is all just a big mistake by an accidental big bang. I think Jesus is giving us all a chance to trust in him and repent before he returns and destroys all evil. He doesn't want any to perish, so i think he allows temporary suffering so more people have the chance to accept him before the end. These are my beliefs

[@TheHhhhhyyyyyy]

Julien, If you choose to believe Jesus Christ died for your sins, and accept him as your savior you will have the whole eternity to be alive not dead. Jesus is the life and the truth, no one comes to the father except through him, Amen !!!

[@smokingcrab2290]

Amen.

[@OohsAndAhsBros]

fuck that shirt bro

[@OohsAndAhsBros]

I fucking love it

[@Enrikoh]

What does the tattoo on your left arm mean?

[@davidbowman2035]

Can someone explain the t-shirt?