how to stop dimming your own light & embrace your best self

[@RAHHicecream]

We’re good at recognizing other people’s light and dimming our own

[@pleasurepartytennine8677]

THATS ME

[@destineebrock6779]

So true

[@amiraclebostick8124]

This is literally what I’m working on breaking out of😮‍💨 I miss myself

[@jaskamalkaur4817]

Ive always struggled with the fact that in todays society to be a successful artist you have to become a content creator. I have slowly embraced and accepted kt more and more but deep down I never wanted to be a content creator, I want to be an artist

[@marinasamuels405]

Nairobi people represent 🇰🇪🇰🇪❤️🫶🏻

[@gardenfaiiry]

I think this applies to our SO’s/close friends too! Sometimes we stop seeing our loved one’s light! and we have to step back, and appreciate them for who they are!

[@cue_stories]

So excited to hear your wisdom today, HINDZ. We’re all making it together out here

[@thingshappened2]

I’m 17. I have a hard time maintaining friendships, it’s like I’m scared of them really. I have this one friend who is always checking up on me and asking how I’m doing but it’s like I can’t get past the idea of her wanting something from me. What exactly? I don’t even have an answer for that. I’ve got this job. And I’m around these new people and it’s cool they’re all great but I can’t stop thinking about how calculating I seem to myself in my head when i interact with them. How disingenuous, it all feels. I ghost people a lot, some have voiced their dislikes for it and all I do is apologize. I can’t even count how many times I’ve done it. I’ve texted some people and they haven’t responded and I feel so anxious and sick. And I’m trying to relax and I found this video.

[@Iamnikkimartin]

Where in your life did you place trust in someone and they failed u? Where did the abandonment happen? When did you shut down? Im proud that you see yourself at such a young age and that you are interested in healing! 🖤

[@Wilderness-brothers604]

You gotta realize the internal issues, but as well to figure out those internal issues, a lot of researching and self-development look up stoic

[@chaylicedominic414]

🕯❤ i have similar tendencies + anxieties. with a friend who deals with the same, we decided on these emojis as something of a bat signal. not to warn others to "gear up" but it's used as a text reply to let the other person know "i'm not tryna straight up ghost you, i just need some space + time" communication is key in any relationship. always speak your truth and you'll never be disingenuous

[@Fannessz]

The way we lock out ourselves, thinking we can sort it out without any help, however, that is the beauty of being humans, learning and sharing. We are teachers to each other; we can always go back and be students/listeners again, and there is a time when we share and teach others. We are here for each other and for ourselves. Thank you for this beautiful reminder!

[@lauraluey]

A micro-step today, is the very step that can change the whole course and direction, and bring you in the position that you desire and deserve 💛🍀

[@theleaningtreeorganics]

I love how you mentioned that people will "Remind you of Your Light" - such a wonderful and uplifting reminder! Thank you, HINDZ! I also admired your courage in asking someone the question to remind you of your light. How did this experience feel to you, when asking the question? 🧡🌴

[@ThePilgrimsProcess]

Amazing message Hindz! Self doubt is a great marker that you need to face something that is holding you back. On the other side of that challenge lies growth and liberation.

[@jashen5742]

Lmao nah you had me cracking up at 0:55 🤣 and I’m glad you got out of there!! ❤

[@angelaurora808]

currently camping right now….sitting at table watching this with boyfriend🥺🙏🏻❤️

[@from_ann]

Feel quote : It is impossible to heal what you do not allow yourself to feel. For a long time I have been in a stupor and do not quite understand what to do. But these words were important to hear. Thank you Nindz.

[@NishDixon]

"In that moment I realized I rely on myself way too much to learn everything on my own" OMFGGGG you just dropped a BOMB with that one. Thank you so much for that Aha moment LOL

[@byronjohnson8346]

YOU REMIND ME OF ME HAVING A SERIOUS DISCUSSION WITH MY DOCTOR. AS I LISTEN YOU GENERATE THE CORRECT MENTAL DIALOG. YOU CALM THE SPIRIT WITH A DEEP LEVEL OF UNDERSTANDING

[@christopherstevens337]

you always pop up in the perfect moments man. thank you for all you do for the people. blessings to you and yours

[@theluschmasterinc]

Your insights and tips for stopping self-sabotage and embracing our true potential are invaluable. Thank you for sharing this uplifting message, inspiring us all to shine brightly and believe in ourselves.

[@SmileyKats11]

thank you, my girlfriend, and I just broke up. a mutual decision but honestly it was her bringing up the fact we both needed to change for the better. I have been going to therapy for a few months now and have learned some of the ways to help me through my traumas and it's been easier for me to see these things I've been doing to dim out my own light. She on the other hand I think has just become too guilty of seeing me try and be a better person and not knowing where to start. I have tried and tried to convince her to do things with me or even while I'm doing them do them on her own, but it hasn't worked. deep down we both know we are become too codependent of one another and there is no space for us to just BE US. it sucks, it really sucks. I am so anxiously attached to her and she's an avoidant we clash in ways that both just trigger us to our core. we wanted this mutual break up so we don't end up resenting each other so much that we have to hate each other. like we both have done with so many previous relationships either love or friendships. I just need to learn how to love myself again, do things for ME again, things that bring me joy, and realize how much worth I have in this world. I was always constantly asking and or hoping to get it from her. but it never came, and if that's whoever's fault, or whoever's thought process is wrong, I know what I need to do. Even though it will be going against the grain of what I have been doing for a while now. It's what must be done. I genuinely believe she was either a lesson in disguise or a right person wrong time experience. I want to be in her life forever, and if that has to be just as friends.. well. I will be the best friend I can ever be. :(

[@LeloucheDGuitar]

Let fully go and if your connection shall be it'll be, but to truly change you have to walk alone from time to time

[@brisbreathing]

Hindz, I’ve been listening to you for a few years now. I love to play these videos in the morning while I make my coffee and prepare for the day. It’s the positivity and energy I need and can’t quite seem to find within myself. This video particularly called me, and told me what I needed to hear. I genuinely smiled for the first time in a while. Thank you.

[@michaeldigiulio6327]

When your light is so strong it radiates to the external -- it’s all making Sense - I studied the unknown my whole life and just so blissed to gravitate to Angelic Warriors like You brother we all need leaders and Mentors to take us back Home Within

[@L30.420]

hindz, you’re absolutely beautiful and have helped me so much already. im at my lowest right now and the more i think how i feel or whats wrong i start realizing more things abt myself, i been feeling like im showing signs of bipolar disorder, i want to be wrong. i had a breakdown earlier and i was talking to myself abt relapsing, i told myself “hey thats not you, thats someone else” and i had second thoughts but i didnt relapse. im very close though i will admit that. i dont know who i am or what to do. i feel like i need a change in my life, but i dont need to change myself. if you read all of this i love you so much thank you

[@madsmonroe777]

i’m proud of you for pushing through and hope you’re doing better 6 months later. sending you so much love💌

[@michelle.173]

Starting my Sunday off with the gospel of Hindz. 🙌🏻 Love it! Thank you for your light this morning ✨💖

[@eyes1168]

i love how you say slippery slope

[@Earthena1]

More Love from Nairobi❤. Be blessed for everything you do.❤

[@amzijackson]

Get out of my head Hindz!!! 😂 😂 But in all honesty you hit the nail on the head for me. I’ve been masking self-doubt as humility. I appreciate the tips you shared and insight into my own personal struggles. I know I can overcome it! 🙏🏾🤟🏾

[@yourfavoritebrendan]

As an artist living in LA, this was important for me to hear today. Thanks!

[@luannedimaggio7025]

Boy, did I need this today. Took a nap to reset. Then watch your video. I can and will turn this day around, thanks to you!!

[@inicole47]

2:02 my heart 🥹, y’all make me smile ✨

[@lindsaygiberson7752]

You are like a walking mic drop. Thank you for all your words.

[@RealSSTELLA]

00:56 Lmao I thought you were going to say you jumped in😂

[@alyssahemphill9244]

Thanks!

[@Someoneswildestdreams]

Big up HINDZ and this deep wisdom. I have not been on this channel before. This is the type of content I strive to find and share to others through my experience as well. Thank you for helping me shine my light!

[@romi.777]

Thank you Hindz for this video 🤍 Our outside world is a reflection of what we feel within, taking those steps toward cultivating compassion and patience for ourselves really changes everything, inside and out 🙏🏻🤍

[@kemaranight2456]

I needed this. I’m overly aware of my impact which breeds the same doubt and makes me hesitant to act. However, I appreciate how you mentioned how you too have struggled - “moving forward despite it” is a worthy challenge / reminder. *Acknowledge, Understand, Accept, Harmonize; Áse*✨

[@hannahgracehorn]

You don’t know how much I need this video. I haven’t even watched it yet and I know it was shown to me for a reason. So much love for you.

[@nayelydelgado2977]

I am a student athlete that listens to you’re podcast when I need a positive reminder, I appreciate you intergrading sports in this podcast ❤

[@vanessagarcia-dw2cb]

I had seen your videos before I went down a dark path after a relationship that lasted 8 yrs. I completely lost myself and am still going through an identity crisis. I slowed my life down and became more self aware but I feel like no one understands me because I’m dealing with my childhood trauma where I was not taught to set boundaries and Im a recovering people pleaser too. I have isolated myself for 6 months and have only been working on my health. This video came across at the most perfect time because I feel like Ive been punishing myself because of a bad experience. My childhood and my bad experiences always make my self doubt reappear over and over again. These are demons that I fight even though Ive accomplished so much (escaped my toxic environments, renting my own apartment, attained my bachelors, doing it all alone with no support, no supportive friends). Thank you for this video. It really has given me perspective to why I have felt stuck and I have let my self doubt take over. My fear of moving forward is preventing me from taking the next steps to the unknown.

[@InfamousPanamaPinky]

Blessings 🙏🏽

[@prettyingreyno9]

Thank you so much Hindz! I forgot myself these last few months and this wisdom was everything I needed to feel grounded again :)

[@mrhomework6112]

I find during meditation, when negative thoughts or doubts come in i try to label them. To try and break down where these thoughts to find out what they mean and just let them go and return to the breath. This has been helping me and it’s started to seep through into my unconscious mind.

[@glennh.1736]

Bout to get me some hella fresh fr fr😂

[@olivervasi]

Your content is amazing the most unique perspective, world view / person I have seen big inspiration, a lot to learn from you. You must have done a lot of self reflection appreciate the aork you do brother keep it going

[@martinarouskova7741]

Thank you for sharing your wisdom and thoughts. It always brings me peace and inspiration hearing it and I seem to always circle back to your podcast when I most need it. As an artist its a struggle sometimes to be confident in what you do and not doubting yourself and see the small steps that are being laid out each day to create a path for the future. So thank you for this reminder

[@h3ngist]

Your words feel like the first rays of sunshine after a long winter. This winter has been long, very long. Thank you for providing me with your light, it's helping me find my own 🌞

[@_k.ceeeee]

You pulled me out of a funk today! And I thank you ❤

[@lisastegnii50]

Trying to do everything by myself and then realizing I don’t want to keep being this way is so true for me

[@fiaaafifi]

you are such a impactful, healing and divinely inspired person… please keep going u make people heal🤍🧘‍♀️

[@StaksMusik]

You always give me the motivation to get up and do what I need to do. Ultimately you’re Just a great reminder to stay present And stay elevating Asè

[@amromero321]

This probably saved my life. Thank you you have no idea how soothing your voice is and the lessons and blessings that come with your light. Some people really just suck and take take take take and take. Can you make a video about this topic.

[@realpristine]

Breaking down big goals into baby steps 👏🏾

[@Baeshae15]

That makes so much sense! Stop relying so much on trying to teach everything ourselves.

[@BelindaMovesYou]

I'm going through a difficult time now when it comes to embracing the call on my life and the purpose I am to fulfil. I know I have everything i need in me to accomplish my calling. But then I get excited, go to the door way, and can't move. You’ve remind me to take one small step at a time, get help when needed, and celebrate the small wins. Thanks Hindz. I can do this!❤✌🏾

[@everlastingearth]

This message resonates with me deeply.

[@jhuannyzerpa8308]

I love you so much Hindz. A true blessing to this earth.

[@SunMoon99-YT]

Thank you for sharing your wisdom Hindz, you are more enlightening and encouraging than I feel you realise❤️

[@connorchasecrc]

You're doing God's work on this channel. feel the divine presence in every video. Major dap for this one

[@Maggietheebaddie1948]

Your videos inspire me to do my podcast every Saturday and speak what comes mind from self and spirit and being reflective and proactive to creating our dream lives for black women. Thank you for being a inspiration. ❤

[@peaceazulay9662]

I met your channel by meeting a wonderful person that was too hurt to get in a relationship with me, I hurt her and she hurt me but I know that without her I wouldn't witness this channel. Thank life for all of the good and the bad it brings me. I miss her and want her to feel good but I know it'll never be with me.

[@ShaneLoyaL]

Thank You HINDZ, you are appreciated 🙏🏽

[@kirstyhavenga3372]

Such a beautiful message and such perfect timing Love to hear you mention amapiano Love from south africa ❤ I would for you to travel here!!

[@ljames03]

You’re so awesome Hindz! I’m glad someone you’ve helped could remind you of that! 💜

[@OnyasCakesandPastries]

I love how he speaks and this is exactly what I needed. I feel so much better :)

[@arcane-elysium]

So glad I found your channel my friend. Your voice is a blessing of calm wisdom. Thank you for sharing!

[@jaidathecreator]

Every video you post aligns perfectly with where I’m at and what I need to hear in that moment , thankyou

[@newerwrld]

HINDZ is basically a speaker for the house of good vibrations

[@greenerypositivity]

You have no idea how badly I needed to hear this. ❤ thank you.

[@simmonealex]

The gems from this episode 😮‍💨…i just had to take some notes 📝!

[@emmanueluwom]

sometimees i dont want to watch your videos be cause of all of the attetntion it requires but whenever i finish one i love the feeling and i watch another one. You have such an unique way of putting words to all my mental journey which feels more pleasent with your videos. Thank you a lot

[@fizasalim]

thank you Hindz for simply being you. a beautiful message I needed to be hear and absorb today. thank you ⭐

[@stayhappylittlemermaid]

You need time to think, time to dream, time to talk, and time to do nothing at all.

[@kayohhollom269]

I had (have) problems with self doubt, but like he said celebrating the small Accomplishments is a great thing, cuz last year i WASNT even where i am now. Im a theatre major and it took me 5 plus years to go towards my dream...in the last year i lost my job but i got back in school and was n my first Musical, taking acting classes and started vocal lessons. Last year i wasnt doing anything to move forward with my dreams...i was also in a relationship and it didnt work out and it broke ...me and i realized i put her above my own self ....and Continuously gave her all the grace, but didnt leave any for myself....im still healing from that break up but it pushed the gas even harder for myself....i saw what i needed to work on ect. Im 27 years old and i Frequently have thoughts of "im running out of time" but in Reality im just where i need to be.😊

[@SullivanMarketing]

Bro just pulled me out of my burnout depression … thank you so much

[@BMWM4FX]

Perfect video. I am currently in a situation where I am chronically procrastinating. This procrastination has been going on for 3 years. I have tried changing myself but I fall back into procrastination. And this video sums up the perfect answer of what I needed to hear. Thank you boss. It is actually really insane how close this video is resonating with me.

[@yanjibrenx]

Hi Hindz . Well this might come as a surprise but I am Kenyan living in Nairobi, well not exactly in the CBD but around Nairobi . So I am actually surprised you came here . Anyways I hope you enjoyed your stay here and I really like your content . It's always so inspiring , dope content as well . Keep at it .

[@idontwannabelonelyijustwan1044]

Your videos have a way to find me when I need it most

[@lllavishpg]

I definitely needed this💯

[@静鸣-w7r]

Self doubt is just a second❤

[@FlowBloom]

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!! 🌞

[@Aykaradiantsouls]

Thank you HINDZ, I needed to hear that. You really give me that push that I needed to hear. Many blessings to you. Keep on shining dear brother❤ Aiybobo🎉

[@Akichinay584]

I really enjoy listening to your videos and thinking about things you talk about. It is so fascinating how much i resonate with it. Im so thankful for you! 🇭🇷 greetings and best wishes from Croatia

[@TARRAN_]

Perfect timing my brother. BIG LOVE

[@Trixie_06]

This is so beautiful. Thank you for sharing this words. So much love from Kenya 🩷

[@laspili]

Your voice is so soothing and I love your message every time! This video resonates so much. I have been frozen and I am starting over again. Microsteps! Thank you for the reminder

[@Gokodavid]

beautiful message for the night💯 thank You Hindz.

[@isolated.quality]

I think we uplift others and dim our own because we know what it feels like to dim and we don’t want others to feel that. We want them to feel good. We want to feel good.

[@HUNDREDSgang]

happy to be here

[@Philjoe]

Just found your Chanel. Thank you for your zen. It's truly amazing 👏.

[@trinitywhite9386]

I am so amazed. I just came across this page today and Ive watched at least 10 videos so far. I started to pause and reflect during each and making voice memos of how i resonate or relate certain experiences in my life. I appreciate you sm because you give guidance to my thoughts that were here but I looked past. Its crazy because at the beginning of this video I was thinking about how Im doubting myself and its preventing me from creating and I looked back on how I got to my current job and was scared and couldn’t think I could do it because it’s something ive never done or imagined I could do. I reached out to people who did know and to help me and give me that push to learn, study and master what was needed. As i resumed the video you started talking about how its ok to reach out to people and I just loved that.

[@gabbysweet2001]

I saw 355 likes 😌 and the alignment is beautiful, Im genuinely so happy that I’ve found your channel Angel number 355 is a powerful symbol of creativity, inspiration, and self-expression, urging you to embrace your unique talents and use them to create a life that reflects your true essence.

[@2HUNGRY]

You are awesome thanking for creating you help so many ppl like me and my gf we love you!

[@tiffanysimone4508]

this was so powerful, thank you for this ❤

[@g.e.m9927]

Really did need to hear this today ❤I can’t even express how much. Thank you 🙏

[@TheUniiVerseYT]

Really need this today at work thank you

[@yaboymaloy]

needed this man... love you

[@КсенияЗаболотная-т1т]

Thank you for your video! You have such an amazing voice and thoughts

[@spiritualvirgo3157]

Sending great energy thank you for the last 3 uploads amazing content

[@ramikundalini7887]

In my experience every time I ask for advice I get more confused and i feel that it comes down,to the fact,that I am not following certain bealifs,like the majority living into this area;and so I recognize thouse vibes as I was one of them in my youngest years. The people who I can resonate the most are online,but connecting virtually is not the same as connecting in person and perhaps that's the reson why so many of us feeling isolated sametimes. Amaizing talk. Thank you.

[@epicelizzette]

I needed to pause to intake what Hindz is always talking about. A thought I’ve been having lately is how the does universe curate the perfect word formed by such amazing people and it just hits and resonates and aligns so perfectly to be exactly what I want/need to hear . Ughhhhh Hindz I am so grateful for your existence ❤

[@HERBUSINESSELEVE]

I love jet skiing ❤ I let my hair down. Love

[@TREALxx]

ngl you might've save me with this video, I don't think i've ever felt this bad and I just wanna apoligies to my future self and my past self and i would never think like this again, and ty Hindz, it has been poor couple months but there's nothing to be this sad about i just gotta take actions