Setting Boundaries with Father of your Child

hello welcome back. The purpose of this video is to help single mother set boundaries with 'baby daddy or father of their child. Many single mother have sabotage their future relationship by not setting boundaries with the father of their child.
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[@Key-oq6fi]

My queen you are in the right lane with this one. I made a mistake of doing this and believe me it is not worth it because no matter how much you want them to change or be the best version in any situation with them. That is not how they see it and that is not the way it is truthful. So, thank you for making the video because many women need it. Trust, peace love and light your way

[@garybrown4385]

People need to set boundaries. Having a child with someone only means you had a child plain and simple. She makes a valid point! I don't know where all this foolishness with baby daddy's come from

[@vanessascales9984]

I've always wanted children. I feel it in my body. I've never felt marriage as a biological imperative.

[@34faeli]

Boundaries should be marry before you carry. This goes for both genders. If you have no intentions of getting married, stop having babies out of wedlock.

[@MissSandralicious]

Omg I love this I needed this

[@blankkisses]

Super great advice. I’m also guilty of doing some of these things. Thank you for your video ❤

[@riccibreaux6139]

Same, lord forgive me

[@garybrown4385]

Excellent points

[@cieloazul9833]

Very good video

[@shazselati9188]

Thank you very helpful

[@RossieSimpson-xf8dj]

I'm 19 and pregnant with twins right now, and I was with my boyfriend for a long time and we originally wanted to settle with each other, i wanted him really bad, and we lived together for a while and gave a lot to each other. When I found out I was pregnant he was excited and came to live with me, We were both really excited and thinking about getting married too. It was only after months of him living at my place with my family and I, that my family told him they wanted him to pay rent and get a job, and it took him so long to get a job, and then after that he left because my parents and I bugged him and he got so annoyed he just left and went to live back with his step mom. He ghosted me for a week and then told me he didn't want me, he said he wanted my kids and my dog and he's going to take them from me... I don't get it tho, I've done everything for him and he doesn't love me? Why not? I know I'm supposed to want him to want his kids too still, but I wanted him to want me too. I'm confused , if he doesn't want me, hasn't paid anything for my kids yet, my parents have bought everything. :/

[@damilolaliz0]

I feel your pain cause I know your still emotionally attached to him at this point you have to accept that the love wasn’t there in the beginning you now need to plan if wants to see the kids he needs to pay child benefit follow me on my other channel @rich_mom_mindset I will talk more on this

[@Jesusiscomingbk]

Seek deliverance. Look into "soul ties". Break that off in the name of Jesus!

[@Tatyanawilliams-jw3kd]

Same story I had 😢

[@MissSandralicious]

I do have one question .. what about a father who lives in another country and comes and visits 2-3 times a year for a couple weeks and wants to stay in my house

[@damilolaliz0]

You should never allow a man that is not your husband to live in your house he can book a hotel. Him living with you can be dangerous for you sexually and block other dudes from taking you seriously. Follow me on my other channel the rich mom mindset

[@MissSandralicious]

@@damilolaliz0 the first part no one needs to worry about we haven’t been in a sexual anything in over 7 years. He wouldn’t dare to touch me .. but you’re right the other part of a man not taking me seriously that’s facts! He’s what’s getting in the way of me meeting anyone and I’m ready to meet someone 💖

[@lewis20002000]

There is no way I would deal with a woman who lets her baby daddy/ex stay at her house for any reason. "2-3 times a year for a couple of weeks", I am sorry, but another man cannot flex about staying at my woman's place, no sex in 7yrs or not. I don't care if he lives on the moon, when he wants to see his kids he can create a place/hotel suite to enjoy/take them out.

[@ezrabasil2521]

Disadvantages of dating a single mother 1. His or her child might accuse you falsely 2. Baby daddy drama Let me just stop from their 😂

[@shelby-jademustang9564]

I love how you put everything real on point say it how it is love it real talk 🎉❤ love the part For every single mum out there There is a single dad Don’t forget ❤😅🥲🙌 We both seen each other naked , he has seen you naked 😅😂😂 love that Literally … why do us ladies get the bad name just because we have birth to the child

[@damilolaliz0]

I have second channel that solely focus on single mom @rich_mum_mindset