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[@CalebHammer]

Listen: I dig in to make sure we get to the bottom of the “why” behind decisions and debts, and I make very clear the guest and the audience understands how bad those debts are… … that does not mean we can judge them as actual human beings and their marriage over all. Be KIND in the comments please. These people were bad a** enough to come on the show in the first place, and that deserves some love.

[@chesh1rek1tten]

I really respect you for your empathy and just respect for your guests. 💜

[@MA-yo7eg]

Caleb I understand your need to make this disclaimer but couples like this need a REAL wake up call. This is their futures in stake.

[@evelynhixayanaluna1381]

Thank you Caleb for all you do to help people and their finances!

[@kaylingalewitz]

You are incredibly well spoken Caleb!!

[@FinanciallyPowerful]

YES!❤❤❤❤❤

[@michaelmcnulty8785]

I want Caleb to do these audits during congressional budget meetings.

[@chkngrl]

He'd have a mental breakdown. Way too much taquitos, way too much b.s. and his voice would get so high pitched it would break.

[@smnbrgss]

It’d be interesting to see financial audits for all the governments of the world or even just on a state level

[@sanjoabraham7316]

except governments dont work the same as people, so youd be comparing apples to oranges

[@travelinzac]

"You want to spend $1.7T on F-35s? You have 922 perfectly good F-16s and 127 F-22s and .... whats wrong with the literally thosands of fighter jets you already have!?!" as he crescendos into squeaky squeak

[@devenmurray3580]

The government is not a household or a business. Stop pretending this is true. It’s factually not.

[@user-ly3ik9oj5k]

Daily routine: 1. Watch calebs financial audit 2. Contemplate my financial decisions for the rest of the day

[@Crabernacker]

My tv broke a month ago and i still cant think about getting a new one without caleb asking me why? in my head

[@oliviagraves1643]

I cut my credit cards up and deleted my doordash account cause of this channel lol

[@Junereth]

I started baking my own bread because of this channel

[@oliviagraves1643]

@@Junereth I want this so badly to not be a joke lmao

[@soapa4279]

I haven't eaten in 3 months because of this channel

[@BodyByBenSLC]

"is that more important that getting out of debt?" that was my mantra for almost 10 years. It took from 35 to 45 of years of age of bus taking and top ramen but Merry Christmas to me debt free 3 weeks ago.

[@imrebarten6115]

Lets fucking GOOOOOOOOO!!!! Congrats man, welcome to the free life

[@anakinvader9120]

Congrats session! I've finally dialed mine down to about a year to be completely debt free and have my emergency fund up to par. Keep up the awesome work! I wish you all the success!

[@ArianaMMR]

I agree with all of that but ramen is soooooo bad for you. Like literally 2000mg of sodium in every pack. That is insane. There is healthy cheap options, Chick peas, peanut butter and jelly, rice, beans, legumes, chicken etc…. Just saying. Surviving on ramen for years will affect your health. What is the point of getting out of debt if you’re going to be too unhealthy to enjoy it?

[@wardiya3arbiya]

Why you had debt? Debt scare the s out of. I go in sleeping paralysis if I get a loan.

[@bvhia]

Wow .... congrats! The dedication is impressive

[@forcryingoutloud23]

Paying Amazon her husband's salary right back is horrifying. That man has the patience of a saint.

[@CocoaPuff01]

He needs to get a real job

[@arfner]

@@CocoaPuff01 This is trash tier logic. If you have EVER used Amazon, then calling it or any other service that you use "not a real job" is retarded.

[@sheepj2464]

@@CocoaPuff01he makes good money they just can’t keep it

[@justinwood7156]

@@CocoaPuff01 the man works 80 hrs a week trying to work up the ranks to a CEO position. He is doing fine

[@CocoaPuff01]

@@justinwood7156 he delivers pizza for a living, causing HER to work 80 hour weeks to make up for his lack of salary. She needs a new husband

[@codysmith43]

Imagine a future.. where Caleb gets that match on Hinge, and immediately financially audits her.

[@Jaxphotographs]

Yesss! Haha

[@paulaa.1445]

Not a bad idea considering that’s his entire staple. It would be ironic if he dated a girl neck deep in debt

[@cerinabrooks616]

😂

[@ryanyoung9202]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@k2k4]

He'd find himself a credit card person to settle down with

[@obsessorforever6617]

My jaw literally dropped when she was throwing shade at the hubby for "paying off debt and working". She had to have known that wouldn't go over well on this channel.

[@izzywoods794]

I think it rly showed how opposite their mindsets are. She sees as far as tomorrow and he’s looking at a few years. Neither is far enough but theyre still extremely different

[@mald379]

I think people are being really unfair towards her. She works 80h a week. Your mental health is important, and if you keep balance by going to cinema from time to time to remind yourself there is a world outside of your screen then its your right to do so. Not to mention that they are just married and hardly see eachother. If you dont make active effort to spend nice time together then this relationship is going to end. I know one couple who did exactly that. The guy was so focused on building savings that he refused to go to dinner, vacation, anything that costs money basically, even though they were financially fine. Now they are divorced, he has all the money but no wife because he didnt nurture the mental side of relationship.

[@obsessorforever6617]

@@mald379 I'll give you that one of the main reasons relationships end is the guy stops dating the girl. That is true, but relationships also end when values are diametrically opposed. I didn't get the sense the guy is overly controlling but relationships require sacrifices from both people. If they can't make any recessions at all the relationship was likely going to fail regardless.

[@suhseal]

Right??? Good for him being a mole in a hole

[@suhseal]

@@mald379I get the idea of work life balance and mental health… but it’s clear there’s an impulse control problem here and there’s no balance. Her laughing instead of taking it seriously is really telling and insanely cavalier

[@allie.k.anderson]

The best financial decision I ever made was to get married at the court house with a $400 dollar dinner followed after. ❤

[@rexlazard]

Exactly the same!! Courthouse wearing a thrifted dress, then pizza and beer with our closest friends and family after 🥰 wouldn’t have changed a thing about it!

[@theaugustjamalshow9107]

Yup courthouse and a bbq in my in-laws back yard that they paid for.

[@JabbaQuest47]

Same thing I did and I don’t regret not having a wedding at all!

[@scrashthepunkstar]

My wife and I had waffles for Breakfast after getting married... and we're not poor by any means. Love is what truly matters.

[@sebastianlucas704]

$400 dollar dinner???

[@MasterSpaz]

I live paycheck to paycheck but holy shit these videos make me feel way better about my financial situation.

[@MrJpreezy17]

Yeah same

[@TheStarForge]

Bro SAME, like what the hell haha.

[@qwertpoiuy430]

@@TheStarForge if they’d allow me to be in that amount of debt, my life would be better. But it’s also because I’m not in that amount of debt, that the small debt I have could be paid in a few paychecks, and it’s only put off because until my current job, I was struggling to even survive. Better days come ahead, and it’s great that it comes when I have a better foundation to build up financially and do it properly. America today often relies on going to debt for life.

[@ukstevey]

big same

[@APRCraig]

@@qwertpoiuy430 American banks and loan companies want you to be in debt. Minimum payment is always slightly above interest rates to keep you feeling like you are paying off your debts but infact it just balloons up. You start off with a debt of 1000$ but after paying pretty much only minimum payments you ended up paying 2-3k... its stupid. People should be forced to have a proper education and/or have to attend credit card educational classes before you are allowed to get a card.

[@TehVelocityHD]

THE UPLOADING CONSISTENCY

[@Jake_venture]

Caleb’s a content beast

[@mtnorgard]

I know every other day I got a new audit to watch.

[@Hnj-f]

I love it, but I only found Caleb about a month ago, and even then, I'm struggling to binge it all 😂

[@Juicedb999]

So many people financially ill = content

[@TonyCox1351]

National laboratories use Caleb’s uploads to calibrate their atomic clock.

[@Angela-ne9cy]

Something to remember: those 2 years will pass by no matter what you do. EITHER you can be debt free in 2 years or you can still be stuck in this mess. That's it.

[@OhsoWoobie]

good mindset.

[@SemajRaff]

Great way to see it, freedom only costs 24 months

[@patricec.2957]

@@SemajRaff not that easy, we speak about 80 hours a week for 2 years, i wonder who can resist at that

[@SemajRaff]

@@patricec.2957 totally forget that’s what they were doing, doesn’t sound as easy now. Hoping they can lock in and clean up this mess

[@globalphenomena6979]

​​​@@patricec.2957I was thinking the same thing, they might experience burnout I honestly hope they address their mental health first and foremost, remember to take those paid vacations and time off

[@nainafavs]

The nonchalant casual attitude of this woman... IS TELLING.

[@Milly_in_denmark]

Yes her attitude is like she either doesn’t care that they are in debt or she doesn’t care about the relationship. They are not on the same page.

[@geesegoose6174]

She's definitely gold digging 😬

[@atlasbonds6095]

​@@geesegoose6174She makes more money than him, BUT that still kinda adds up. She wants to spend her money, then use his to pay off her debts. It's wild. She could be doing so well, but chooses very short-term gratification over that. Smh.

[@mason2256]

@@atlasbonds6095she doesn’t, with a second job she does, but not with one

[@helianabanes4875]

It is infuriating! She is not being a partner.

[@matt6387]

The wedding advice is killer. My wife and I purchased our first house in place of paying for a big wedding. We now own two it was the smartest decision i have ever made financially.

[@koLdZ1]

Abso-fucking-lutely, good job to the both of you

[@raquelgadirli4290]

Same here! 10 years ago, court wedding, 500$ dinner, 30%down on house, 2 week Hawaii honeymoon! And almost done paying our house down next year 🎉! I always talk down weddings!

[@ScottySwans]

Caleb, a thought for the editor: You speak very quickly in the payoff plan, and I think it'd be helpful to have a timeline graphic on screen, showing the progress and paying off to freedom 💜

[@Laura-jm2iy]

A timeline graphic would be a great visual!

[@superbigblack]

Yea this video he seemed to talk really fast, faster than normal.

[@Kevintendo]

@@superbigblackprobs because it’s a super long video

[@lilgrannyari]

This is an amazing suggestion. I think it would be easy for the guests to just screenshot and keep with them. I think a lot about the recent update and how the budget and timeline seemed to go through one ear and out the other-- I'm guilty of this, too! If it were me, I would add the screenshots as my lock and home screen 😅

[@salli2883]

TImelines are the best graphic for showing a plan like this, maybe even have what happens each month with the money left over after the budget, they could put a green square on the timeline that says $4000 TO SAVINGS this month.

[@shitbeausaysofficial]

"I WANT TO ENJOY THE MONEY I MAKE." Lady you already did and went past that 😂

[@reynoldwalters5104]

😂😂😂😂

[@sandrasauerkraut8741]

I‘m German and even though I don’t understand everything in the American money system, I love this show. Makes me think twice about every purchase and keeps me shoveling hundreds of €€ into my savings each month. 😅

[@JeBeDee1818]

Ich bin vor fast 15 Jahren hierher gezogen und das Leben auf Pump ist hier leider sehr weit verbreitet. Weiss noch wie schwer ich es fand in D meine erste Kreditkarte zu kriegen und dann kam ich hier an mit 0 History und hatte innerhalb von 2 Jahren 4 Karten 😬. Spar schön weiter! So mach ich das auch und die Videos motivieren immer!

[@b.k.3280]

The scary thing is the credit score. Sounds like something coming out of communist china

[@KittyKits-ju8vz]

Hat auf mich denselben Effekt 😂 Lieb diese Videos

[@taylorschleusner]

I'll catch you up to speed. Everything is run on debt, healthcare costs a lot, the wealthy carry the country on their taxes.

[@Battledrone]

As a fellow European I just don't understand the mindset of these people. The wife's body language says "guilty and knowing" all the time but yet she spends without thinking about it. The American finance system is just a sick business of seducing you into debt fast and easy and next punish you hard if you can't pay it back. It is very tempting for those looking for instant gratification.

[@bryansmethers8936]

I didn't have a ton of hope until I saw the tears, her defensive/laughing wall dropped and the reality hit hard. That NEEDED to happen, I'm rooting for these two!

[@rawilliams5881]

I'm glad she finally started to take the problem seriously instead of giggling like an infant. Luckily Caleb didn't fall for the oh-I'm-such-an-airhead act.

[@vanderumd11]

You need to understand reality. At 30.. her SELF ESTEEM is tied directly to what she can buy. Budgeting will absolutely destroy their intimacy and then the crocodile tears will start. This guy is doomed

[@R0BYN1989]

Caleb, the weight loss is visible. You look GREAT!

[@IAmebAdger]

Caleb at the end of the video: "No one is judging you for emotions" Comments section:

[@stuff1784]

@@R0BYN1989He looks really fit! I can see his tricep!!

[@mjmsdcs]

I think she’s someone that would respond really well to thinking of purchases in terms of hours worked. It’s so eye opening to tell yourself “I’m gonna have to work for 2 hours for this bottle of puzzle glue” instead of just saying “ this puzzle glue cost $18”.

[@ladynuyorican]

This line of thinking really helped me to reel in my spending. It's like yeah it seems cheap but is it worth me working an hour for it?

[@wallaceluna6241]

When I first started working I did that. I still do, its in the back of my mind but damn. that shit hurts when you be wanting to buy something expensive. You be like "oh shit 40 hours minimum right here"

[@ipodtouch470]

This along with the health benefits is why I can’t go out to eat including fast food more then once a week. I think to myself “Is this meal really worth 1-2 hours worth of my time?”

[@googone1902]

When I was addicted to substances I wouldn’t think “this is $60 “ I would think “is this more valuable than 2 blues?” Often times I would say no

[@thomaspapenfuhs1924]

It also helps with understanding what ARE more valid expenses as well. For example, if my work pay rate is X, and buying a new tool is 5X, but that tool is going to save me 6 hours of work a week, yeah it's a lot of money to pay at once, but it pays for itself in a WEEK.

[@FRBSUWOO]

I'm 100% sure she's the one who pressured and convinced him to have a destination wedding & start this whole debt mess in the first place

[@saira._.elizabeth]

When he said “because I like puzzles too” all but broke my heart.

[@dustythorpe9625]

“I wanna enjoy the money I make!” What she isn’t wrapping her head around is that debt means you are enjoying that money BEFORE you ever make it. I recently learned this of myself. If I’m forever spending money I haven’t made yet I’ll never actually have any money.

[@tylerwhitmore2540]

She already enjoyed the money she is/will make.

[@latino.js1]

It's a cat and mouse chase, where debt will always win if you let it be and not change expending habits

[@blancavirto6577]

When he tried to make that clear to her you can just tell that was the moment she shut down. She just did not want to hear the truth.

[@DemetriT1]

Exactly 💯

[@alaskadurf1918]

The money a man makes is ‘our money” and the money she makes is for her…….crazy

[@sampritchett8381]

Wow. Her mood totally flipped once she heard how long it would take to pay off. I think thats what she needed to hear to realize how bad this situation really is.

[@psr076]

Yes because her laughing at everything was too much for me. Even though she has a degree she needs to mature.. She needs to watch episodes with older people without saving and struggling…

[@MrMikeDao]

@@psr076it’s a coping mechanism even Caleb mentions it. How does the host understand this but you don’t

[@psr076]

@@MrMikeDao I did get it but for me everything for me it was too much . I ‘m pretty it must unnerve her husband …

[@anousenic]

For those curious: 1:09:14 (plus maybe a couple minutes before)

[@banonymous6790]

42:05 I think her mood also shifted right before this. When she found out the student loans were more than she thought.

[@pfeilspitze]

Kudos to him for actually being able to answer questions about some of the things. "It has the number on the second page" is way more awareness than most people here.

[@khalidalali186]

It’s fascinating how people making that much money, and working that hard, can spend their money that easily.

[@sunnysunshine6271]

10 years ago I divorced a man who almost ran me into bankruptcy. Best decision ever as I'm wealthy and completely debt free now.

[@Dan16673]

Yeah dude needs to leave right away. Is your ex broke?

[@sunnysunshine6271]

@@Dan16673 You bet he is lol, but he found a new woman he can drag down ;).

[@kevinwilliams8820]

Sounds like you dodged a bullet. I hope this dude dodges the bullet that is his wife

[@Dan16673]

@@sunnysunshine6271 no shit? Good for you! Glad my wife and I are on the same page

[@sunnysunshine6271]

@@Dan16673 👍🏼

[@a.h.2667]

They better not even think about having kids until they're both on board to fix this mess.

[@dieseldaveee3724]

LOL you really think that's what's on most people's minds when they're doing the horizontal bop? I seriously doubt that them not having kids was an executive decision given how the rest of the finances look. They're childless by pure luck of birth control methods at this point and you have no evidence to prove she's not pregnant at the time this was even filmed. Don't get me wrong, I completely agree with you but my cynicism just tells me it's way too optimistic.

[@wss952]

@@dieseldaveee3724if they will take a destination wedding on a whim without the money to pay for it, they’d have a kid without thinking about it too if this doesn’t open their eyes at all.

[@lindajohnson.]

The don’t need children or a house until they get their finances in order.

[@TonyCox1351]

Aren’t kids the fix? Im pretty sure studies show that popping out a couple of kids is the quickest way to fix marital problems

[@iamalwayzbored]

​@@TonyCox1351😂😂😂😂

[@ExitDomina]

I was glad to see her shed a tear after 40 minutes of nervous laughter. I think she was trying to avoid feeling the stress of their situation and in that moment I think she finally let herself be real with herself.

[@eveenala]

I feel for her… Working 80hrs a week SUCKS. Thinking you’ll need to do this for TWO YEARS and enjoy NONE of it??? It’s not easy. I’m gonna have to do it for 4 months right now and that’s rough for me. I hope she powers through it. Caleb feeding into longterm goals and the future for couples is great.

[@isisathena5237]

I hope she realizes that a lot of this was her choice, and if she thinks life won’t be enjoyable during these two years imagine how much worse it will be when she is 65 with no retirement and still has lingering debts.

[@fran2911]

I can't even convince myself to get a phone on payments, and these people are buying dumb misc stuff they don't even need racking up crippling interest on them..

[@rahulshah1408]

From that look, I doubt it. There needs to be more carrots in the plan. There is no way this will go thru. Marriage counseling is the only hope.

[@26Sundrops]

heck, it will be worse after those two years go by without progress. If they want to buy a house and "get away from all that," they might not be able to even get approved for a mortgage.

[@26Sundrops]

@@disguiseddv8ant486 there are plenty of women who are great with money, plenty of men who are awful with money. Just look at the many people who come on the show. You can't see past your own ego.

[@yeetusfeetus7877]

@@disguiseddv8ant486”Most females” I think it’s actually most people in general.

[@MrHoggReads]

That man is auch a good husband. Im half way through and the little things like him saying "I loke puzzles too" to help support his wife is heartwarming.

[@123ABC488]

That support is why they struggling but he is most definitely a good husband. He tried to lighten her accountability (straightening), and I ain't mad at him. I hope she realizes her actions and don't put them in this situation again

[@robert8930]

a good husband would not support his wife into taking so much debt. he dont even need to work a second job. she made a big mess, she should work those 2 full jobs. he's working just to pay off her fun shopping. he may love her, but he's too weak to lead her. and she acts like a child without supervision.

[@UTP_ENT]

He’s not a good husband he’s an enabling husband.

[@123ABC488]

@@robert8930 true but women do what they want!

[@robert8930]

@@123ABC488 wrong, they are married, her finances are no longer only hers, she impacts her husband too, so he can tell her to either stop/control it or he's gone. he can choose to leave and he should leave if she dont change her behavior, that's his option and she can indeed do what she want, but know that she may end up single.

[@thomasjefferson_]

The audacity to be the creator of the majority of debt in the relationship and still almost insult your husband for trying to pay it off as quickly as possible

[@carlosperalta1714]

The audacity ticks me off too.

[@Texasgodzillakun]

Dude this whole episode is a collection of my greatest fears especially the money burning wife or partner. I’ve been blessed enough to have been married to my wife for 10 years who helps me in everything. She keeps me healthy, happy, and helps me achieve my goals ever since we met 20 years ago as kids.

[@gh0rochi363]

I'm glad for you man hope you guys go all the way happy

[@detcordxxxi]

The common thread through a lot of these audits are people who "want the things that I want," even when they cannot afford them. Financial literacy is so important!!

[@marymessina7398]

Oh, to learn the difference between “want” and “need” is what is imperative for financial freedom. Learn the difference early folks.

[@MisterNightfish]

A few minutes in and I'm resolved more than ever that if I ever get married it's gotta be to someone who has similar goals financially. Imagine being this deep in the hole and when you are trying to climb out, your partner not only doesn't help you but just grabs a shovel.

[@Distantdistress]

Financial related issues is the number one reason next to infidelity for divorces in the United States.

[@caimano55]

That is a smart and wise choice sir!

[@gobot4455]

100% correct. I married a financially illiterate woman and the hoops I have to jump through to make sure we are financially sound while making an income that puts me in the top 8% is stupid.

[@indianumberonecountry]

@@gobot4455sorry to hear that sir, but what would you say (if any) were some redflags before you got married? I know hindsight can be 20/20, so is there any advice you would give a young man who wants to avoid that situation? Would be appreciated so I and others dont fall for the same thing

[@talyahr3302]

And laughs about it

[@iliketurtles20]

Caleb, I say this as a psychiatrist: 1) Thanks for always putting an emphasis on the value of therapy and the link between financial concerns and mental health concerns. 2) Your motivational interviewing skills are impressive when working with someone who is not yet committed to change.

[@unnamed154]

I started seeing a therapist because my wife and I had problems. Realized how much impact lying to her about my debt had on our relationship. My wife and I are now in the best spot we've ever been. Our communication and partnership is strong. Communication is so vital to a healthy marriage and really healthy relationships. I'm almost debt free and I update my wife on the balance so that we're both on the same page.

[@jupiterthree5228]

My mental health sucks, and my Financials are great. Guess I save when I'm suicidal.

[@SMOOSHII]

I was thinking the same thing watching other videos. Okay MI 👏

[@leftysheppey]

​@@jupiterthree5228if your financials are great, talk to your doctor. The best thing that ever happened to me

[@DHFlip18]

​@@unnamed154Man, I'm so glad to hear you and your wife are on the same page financially. Really makes the relationship that much better too. Good job!

[@ryanhalien8468]

SUCH good advice Caleb gave on weddings, unreal how many people screw the rest of their marriage going way overboard on one day as if they live in a fairy tale or their life is a movie. This is real life and in real life having a happy and comfortable life going forward is WAAAAAAY more Important than your “SpECial DaY”, screw the one day, and besides you can make it special without spending gobs of money on it!

[@kimberlybrito9377]

I skipped starbucks today thank u caleb

[@Prestige_07]

My wife and I had a backyard wedding in October of 2020. We made a ton of brisket/pulled pork and assorted sides, bought all drinks/plates/utensils at Costco and used handmade decorations/centerpieces. We spent about $1200 and had the best day ever. Weddings don't have to be painful.

[@mssdn8976]

I object to paying for destination weddings, often to places I wouldn’t choose to go to with people I wouldn’t go on vacation with. I say no to all these wedding invitations

[@kimberlymoriarity]

Yeah the crazy part is she probably could've fed most if not everyone she wanted to invite for the same price if not less

[@ryanlemmers5300]

That’s awesome! The best things and memories are DIY, not a catered experience

[@jrgreen17]

My wife and I did this as well in April 2021. Best decision we could have made. My sister and her husband went the opposite route and spent close to $30,000 and at this point they aren’t even sure if their marriage will even work.

[@aaykay4060]

@@mssdn8976I object to even going to destination weddings. Unless it’s a really close friend or family I really want to spend the time with, why would I use my money and vacation time to go to someone else’s destination of choice, and spend $$$ for hotels, flights, gifts. Specially given that the chances of them getting divorced eventually is pretty damn high.

[@christinefrier7888]

Please follow up with this couple in six months. Petal to the metal on their debt. Rooting for you both.

[@alephnaught8343]

pedal lol. i just imagine holding a flower petal to a piece of metal while shouting encouragment!

[@indianumberonecountry]

@@alephnaught8343😂😂

[@hiteshadhikari]

If he is any smart, he would divorce her

[@CSpottsGaming]

​@@hiteshadhikariHe's not exactly a financial guru himself, that $45k car was not a better choice than her constant Amazon purchases. Suggesting a divorce here is unhinged.

[@hiteshadhikari]

@@CSpottsGaming ome seems to be serious about paying debt, other laughs it off One gets a 45k car which they use for work and life, other chooses a destination wedding as cheap option One is tensed, other finds debt funny

[@somethinginteresting2202]

This interview is an excellent demonstration on how instant gratification is addictive and such an easyhabit to slip into. It’s insidious. I hope this lovely couple manage to stick to the plan and avoid taking on new debt.

[@tawanamack2901]

She’s really showing a lot of immaturity here.

[@barbarafallin2038]

I am sick of her

[@brandisr71]

@@barbarafallin2038it wasn’t that bad. Maybe watch the end. And she’s in front of cameras. I’d imagine there’s some things about you people could point out whether it’s money or something else and initially you’d get defensive.

[@Tank-vi2dv]

Everyone needs to financially audit their dates and girl/boyfriends before marriage... this is a terrible situation.

[@blue-wb8yn]

Agree!!!

[@_2315_]

👏

[@veronicacervantes4033]

It sounds like this was mostly after marriage. They both decided to have the destination wedding .

[@sheralync5854]

that is part of pre-marital counselling. Are they aligned on financial approach/plan.

[@stadot1427]

​@@sheralync5854 it was probably the quickest and easiest session of our premarital counseling. Clear mortgage ASAP, no other debt, live within means, be generous. Everything else we've been figuring out together as we go.

[@adamkrasuski862]

6 minutes in and I already feel bad for this guy. Tough to achieve a goal when your partner doesn’t seem to take it seriously. I will say mad respect to both of them for working 2 jobs but gotta keep that end goal in mind.

[@Jordybuilt]

YUP, feel bad for him too but he also is dealing with it. Divorce coming

[@MA-yo7eg]

Ol’ buddy gotta be regretting the marriage

[@thepleasantpuffin]

Yeah, imagine getting insulted by your spouse for wanting to pay off consumer debt.

[@Bhodisatvas]

This is a prime example of someone looking to feed off the resources of another. NEVER get into a relationship with someone with unattended debt and a head in the sand attitude. I can guarantee if this guy doesn't drop her she will be out the door as soon as her debts have been lowered or cleared by this guy's hard work.

[@Bynming]

It's tragic. Makes me appreciate my wife that much more.

[@shayshayabedin]

I cannot believe my husband and I are the same age as these people. How do people get themselves to such horrifying financial positions. This is wild. At our big age.

[@Samurai-xm2yn]

47:40 she’s thinking x-Ray techs don’t deal with vomit, but that would be a huge mistake to assume that…

[@alephnaught8343]

Petition to get this man 1 million subscribers by the end of the year!

[@CalebHammer]

That would be amazing; you’ve all already done so much- I couldn’t ask for more ❤️

[@joekerr3638]

Aleph naught should be going for infinite subscribers.

[@alephnaught8343]

@@joekerr3638 ha, countably infinite tho.

[@grammaurai6843]

I've told everyone I know, especially kids under 25, to watch him.

[@julietfung98]

Glad to finally see someone close to my age. We were in the same boat early 30s, 100G in debt worked our butts off and paid it off in 3.5 years. You guys can do it.

[@lvasquez2978]

This is so inspiring. I love to see it and it makes me hopeful!!

[@izzywoods794]

Can i ask how? Did you have a high paying couple jobs? Or budget super intensely?

[@Beepbopboop19]

​@@izzywoods794the OP and his spouse paid $28,571 a year for that goal. If a couple makes $80k together that's very doable. Cooking at home, free dates only, my husband and I lived on 50k for a couple years, it's possible. Also side jobs here and there help.

[@julietfung98]

@izzywoods794 I had 3 jobs, (vet tech jobs were in need) and I think it helped that it was during covid so we only were spending money on groceries and not eating out. Also, easier in your 20s and early 30s. Now I'm too tired to work a full week lol

[@joydivine8488]

@CalebHammer we need some of these success stories? New series idea?

[@Rchamp7217]

For anyone out there, an affordable wedding is 100% doable! We had a budget for $5k for everything (Ranch house/venue for several days, dress, grooms shirts, food, alcohol, decor, etc) and we went UNDER budget! We even waited till our 2 year anniversary to have our "honeymoon" cruise. We'll worth the wait! What matters is you are together! If you can't afford a wedding, have a courthouse wedding my my brother in law and sister and then have a party later! Well worth the wait! You can do this! ❤

[@amandab.6815]

"I want to enjoy the money I make".... ah, you already enjoyed the money before you even made it, that's why you are in debt.

[@JMidwestern]

It is not uncommon for some people in uncomfortable situations to laugh. That doesn't mean they find the situation funny or are not taking it seriously. Commenters are being downright cruel to this woman because they are misinterpreting her laughs. It is evident the woman knows how serious things have gotten as evidenced by her crying throughout the 2nd half of the video & by her taking on a 2nd job working 80 hours a week. I can't imagine how humbling it must be to come onto this show.

[@jaes1346]

100%. The comment sections is downright toxic right now.

[@Lazirus951]

Totally. I don't think people know how tough it is to realize you have a problem and go on camera to be criticized. It's even more tough to let go of pride and admit you've been a fool on camera. Defensive laughter is understandable.

[@justanothermaid]

Indeed! I would not have the bravery to do this. I hope they achieve all the dreams they share.

[@C-wey]

He goes hard so comments want to go harder. But absolutely she knows it's serious. It's a defensive laugh, it's the last thing you can do before and after you cry. Both of them should have pride in the fact that they are grinding so hard. If they go this hard they can put it behind them in two years and come out ahead. That's a ton of effort, likely far more than most of these commenters are willing to put in.

[@jackie8357]

Agreed, she's just trying to cope she was crying intermittently throughout the whole video.

[@zakkwhite4571]

When she said she wants to enjoy some of the money she made, you should have hit her with "You already did enjoy this money. That's why you in debt.". She obviously doesn't understand that she's working to pay back money already spent.

[@tiffany.Elizabeth.]

i said that in my head lol

[@jodygarcia9892]

I feel like people think of debt as free money

[@BigBo-Peep]

Thought the exact same thing. "You enjoyed money you didn't make!!"

[@alyssajenaway3781]

Great point.

[@elmateo77]

I can't think of any stuff they sell on Amazon that would be worth working 80 hours a week for the rest of my life for...

[@user-sn6xb6ce9s]

I wish this couple nothing but the best!!! ❤❤❤❤ you guys can do it!!!

[@tomstdenis]

"helping others (who watch the show) ..." is very true. I tend to go over my budgeting spreadsheets/debt repayment history while watching this show. It's like after watching "Hoarders" and then I clean my entire house.

[@BigBZ41]

A hour and 20 min episode? I know this will be an all timer. Caleb’s consistency is unreal

[@CalebHammer]

Thank you for your support!

[@ryanmcrobie7415]

Slow clap for Caleb on this episode, what incredible navigation with this couple and the respect given to their debt and plan.

[@TonyCox1351]

@@CalebHammerthis is legitimately one of my fave episodes. Great work Caleb

[@sinisterplank3113]

You know, consistency is a foundational pillar of good budgeting and good finances, so it makes sense

[@maxinoume]

123k of bad debt that would take them 2.5 years to pay off at their current rate of both working 80h/w. That's just insane. It's completely unsustainable. I feel bad for them.

[@Dan16673]

Wont able. She will not change

[@terricox3559]

I feel worse for him than her

[@adamseidel9780]

It doesn’t have to be sustainable, it’s for 2.5 years. At her current rate of spending, she’ll need to work 80 hours a week just to survive forever.

[@Dan16673]

@@adamseidel9780 this gal is out of control and will be poor forever

[@MotherEarth3121]

@@Dan16673she might change. I’m hopeful. Because 123k is a lot. I guess she just needed someone like Caleb to wake her up about their (mostly her) situation. Plus she paid off some cards. Try to be optimistic.

[@reginafisher9919]

My husband and I got married for under $200, in the living room. The way people waste money blows my mind !! But then we have way more of a life than they do,,we only work between 30-40 hours a week.

[@gunnaur]

I feel this. He is screwed. I lived this and managed to retire early after we finally divorced.

[@daggerdikk4004]

Lol you left yo bitcx to retire?

[@themusic6808]

Easily the BEST episode you’ve done. What started off as her arrogance and denial turned into regret and acceptance, and you could tell he was really just wanting her to get on board with something it seems he’s been concerned about for some time but she wouldn’t take seriously. Also A Plus to Caleb for fully hashing out the severity of their current financial and marital future and giving them something to look forward to.

[@izzywoods794]

Idk if thats arrogance but denial for sure

[@trailertrish]

If me and my ex husband had Caleb’s advice when we were married, we may have stayed together.

[@kevint1607]

rooting for you, Ariel and David! yall got this!!

[@akaku9]

I have a lot of respect for the guests that come on and sit through these sessions. It's got to be embarrassing. The urge to defend yourself has to be nearly all consuming. Even more respect to people for fighting that urge and listen to the advice despite whether or not it is feasible/manageable for them. You're doing an important service Caleb.

[@angievol09]

Just paid off my last dime of credit card debt, only have the mortgage now. Caleb's inspirational speech is spot on in the end, the feeling of freedom that my money is mine, is unspeakable. Great job with this couple!

[@lindajohnson.]

Good for you!😊

[@bhnurse16]

Congratulations! I'm so happy for you 😁

[@danielredziniak2996]

Y’all sound like bots. Not sure why we should congratulate you for finally having common sense

[@angievol09]

@@danielredziniak2996 zzzzzz

[@TexBirdie]

Heck yeah! you rock! I just finished the credit card debt a bit ago & now just mortage & car. Trying to get agressive with it :) Keep on truckin!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@musicart2007]

My husband and I lived in roach infested hell to knock off student loans and save enough to move. IT SUCKS. But our lives are so amazing now. We own our home, we have a baby and we have actual money to save for retirement AND fun. It can be done, you just have to do the hard stuff.

[@izzywoods794]

Not roaches😭😭😭

[@immortui1832]

​@@izzywoods794yes , roaches💁

[@tomcruisemiddleteeth]

oh my god the roaches.....that's actually really commendable (you deserve all the good)

[@telecomgear]

Awesome

[@papabear2515]

Hats off to you two! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@1drea1988]

Wow, I loved this episode and how emphatic Caleb is. 🥺

[@lonnieswag100]

This is such a great example of why you do not marry anybody that you’re not on the same page financially as. Shit can turn into a debt nightmare

[@AnsariX86]

I wonder if it might get through better to someone like this to explain the financial situation if they actually follow his plan. Like for these two bringing in 9k, after getting out of debt their needs would only be like 30% of their budget, take another 30% for their retirement and savings, and they leaves them with 3k per month she could spend on whatever she wants for fun. That's an insane fun budget. Even if they took half of that each month to save for a house that's still $1500/month they could just blow on whatever they want.

[@kiefdemon1979]

My friend had a wedding that cost him $30k, he doesn't remember his wedding. He advised me to do something small and cheap cause it'll mean more and I'll remember the small details better. Had a perfect wedding for $3k. Don't go crazy into debt for a wedding.

[@elizabethallen4353]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🥂🍾

[@geo865833]

THIS.

[@Duneboy13]

Same we had 80 people, Italian catered food for like $750 and a $600 venue. I think our wedding totaled at $2500

[@cami5173]

@@daveobrien2365tbh as someone from a bumfuck nowhere area I didn’t realize weddings could be so expensive 😭

[@TonyCox1351]

I spent $40K on my wedding and yeah I would not recommend it. It didn’t ruin us financially or anything, but we could have gotten in a house a few years earlier had we used it toward that instead.

[@iknowrstank]

She has a degree, he’s a pizza boy. He’s more sensible. Never mistake intelligence with education.

[@DJSolistica]

A degree is just a piece of paper that says you showed up to class and did your homework for 2-4-6-8 yrs. Oh and you pay between 25 - 150,000 $ for it.

[@leena5875]

@DJSolistica that completely simplified what it means to go to school. many people have other obligations such as work and children outside of school. Graduate school is a whole other beast especially if you want to work in medicine and law. it shows more than just doing the bare minimum in life

[@adamseidel9780]

She has a degree in a field that was different than she thought it was when she started studying, but then apparently she just completed the program instead of switching when she found this out, didn’t know the career required certification and failed the test… then was too lazy to take the test a second time.

[@VB_Bryan]

@@DJSolisticathis that blue collar slave dollar mindset brother. Getting a degree can truly be a game changer. And that isn’t to say that being blue collar is bad but that little piece of paper is more than attendance lol

[@clublulu399]

Yea she should be the pizza girl.

[@dukesilver7202]

Getting out of debt is the more important puzzle she needs to solve.

[@lavaslawncare]

Bro! Hopefully this woke them up. They needed your help. Great job!

[@sirmadam8183]

Caleb never stop being who you are. You care. It's okay to get emotional about it. We all get it and appreciate you.

[@ChristoherWGray]

He is turning into a charlatan Imploring his listeners not to criticize or judge, all the while he whips his audience into a frenzy doing the exact thing Phony and a fraud

[@ChristoherWGray]

@@droiddevx03 nope Just read his comments dood

[@chriscresswellcomposer]

My wife and I got married while still having debt. We cash flowed a backyard wedding (2021, so covid played a role). I smoked a bunch of meat leading up to the wedding, we got sides from the local BBQ place, we rented a tent, it was BYOB, and our friends said it was one of the most fun weddings they'd been to. The whole thing cost less than $10,000. Probably closer to $5,000.

[@daniellebrackett4905]

Fellow 5k wedding here, and our friends said the same. We kept the guest list limited, the music playing and the bar open and everyone still talks about how fun it was. Smoking your own meats is genius wish we'd have thought to do that too.

[@naroosko]

​@@VegasMilgausswhy did you answer yourself?

[@CJFravel]

I did a backyard wedding as well, 2020 so COVID helped. We ordered a bunch of Chinese food and kept it small. Probably $500 spent since parents had a bunch of party supplies already and only real expenses was the food. And my best friend married us for free.

[@lindajohnson.]

Good for you, smart move. 😊

[@jaysha5226]

My husband and I cash flowed our wedding and honeymoon. My hometown is cheap and we had a small wedding, like 40 people. We spent on the things we cared about, like photography and catering. It cost us about $12K, $17K including the honeymoon. And we all look back at that day fondly. We saved for about a year.

[@Theworldisyouroyster156]

I just discovered this channel yesterday believe it or not folks. Watched 3 in a row. It’s some of the most fascinating and educational content I’ve ever encountered. Caleb thanks for this important information you’re providing and the fact that it’s entertaining is just the icing on the cake.

[@CJ-ui7ow]

I’m hopeful this couple will be just fine. You’re doing great work, Caleb.

[@br.eeyore]

I love that even though David was more serious about paying their debt asap, he made sure to take ownership of how he contributed and didn’t just shift the blame to Ariel. They’ve got this ❤

[@wt_9026]

by the end of the session, they BOTH seemed more aligned as partners - when at the beginning Ariel was reluctant. I feel they saw the light for sure.

[@Beepbopboop19]

​@@wt_9026agree. Glad they'll likely succeed financially!

[@visualizeme-tz3ng]

Of course you loved that. Typical woman

[@DC-hw7fw]

You just want it to be the man's fault.

[@user-ir5xq5ib2z]

even though its all ariels fault

[@M2161]

I love when couples come on!!! It’s great to see how they actually deal with fiancés instead of one person come on where we don’t get the full picture. I’m sure Caleb appreciates that as well!!

[@CalebHammer]

Absolutely!

[@jonathonvoegtli4699]

Although I definitely like the couple ones I do feel bad when the debt is almost 100% one person's because the focus is clearly on one person

[@Sadreath]

@@CalebHammer If you plan on doing this more often you should definitely get a third microphone stand though. I always feel bad for them having to hold the microphone for what is probably hours

[@jaes1346]

@@Sadreath agreed.

[@maxinoume]

@@Sadreath Especially since the meeting must have lasted more than 1.5h xD

[@kubaczek20]

I think I was more interested in listening to solutions than them. Thanks for your and your team work Caleb, amazing job.

[@Beautyandthegeek08]

Loved this episode!! Watching the 20-22 year olds make me feel good about my spending habits but watching 30 year olds talk about what career goals they have is more helpful in reality for me. ❤

[@Beautyandthegeek08]

Omg the ending was so heartwarming ❤

[@globalphenomena6979]

26:50 is exactly the logic that I used to have and the majority of Americans have, we are so miserable from working constantly and having no money that we spend what money we do have on little nonsense things and call that happiness. Thats why I love this show cause it paints a big picture!

[@ryanyoung9202]

YESYESANDYES

[@elmateo77]

@@leroyj62 OK boomer

[@tornotto]

Just an FYI for people who love puzzles and streaming and feel bereft during working on debt - like books, your local library often rents puzzles and DVDs and often has associations with streaming services like Kanopy. If you are worried about paying for a library card, they're free if you live within the city/county the library is associated with. Just sharing free fun in case someone needs it

[@mapleearles6051]

I’m in Australia so I’m not too sure if the US is the same but here you can borrow almost anything from a library, books, DVDs, puzzles, audio books, kids toys, even tools like table saws & drills and of course they have computers, printers, laminators etc. that you can use on site. I’m always shocked how many people don’t know it exists, by far my greatest resource

[@tornotto]

@@mapleearles6051Toys and table saws & drills? That's really cool! I'm in the US and I've not seen a library rent those things, but I think that's brilliant!

[@Sofia-ge5wu]

Goodwill /charity shops/marketplace etc for puzzles, jigsaws etc. Saves a fortune

[@drininix]

This! it definitely depends on the quality of your library but many of them have so much great media for absolutely free, such an underutilized resource the library is so dope dude

[@PoemJunkie]

I listen to 3-4 audiobooks a week with Libby/overdrive, which I can borrow for free with my library card, I can download them straight from the state library with an app.

[@corinawohlfert1787]

Watching these videos are helping me. I am already paying off debt and saving what I can, but I still make stupid decisions sometimes. This tough talk and showing what happened when you let these credit cards get out of hand is scary enough!

[@melnissen7188]

Every once in a while, we all make financial bloopers! I'm in my 40s. And I'm finally debt free, so if you're younger than me, just be glad you only make the occasional blooper! Remember to always pay it off!😊

[@anjiii9530]

I know they will get through this in no time❤ Rooting for you guys

[@joelkaben]

Good job Caleb. This is the wake up call that they needed, especially the wife. As the show progressed, she realized the gravity of the situation. Over $120,000 in debt is very serious.

[@steve_main]

you can tell Caleb is a nice person. he rips into them then immediately apologizes afterwards for doing it. He does not feel comfortable making people feel bad!

[@ridinwithjake]

Yep, it’s “tough love”. We all need it sometimes. Too many people just validate our bad choices and say stuff like “you’re just being you” or “it’s ok to treat yourself”. No. Sometimes good friends need to tell you painful truths.

[@sarahuber8567]

I disagree. Lol. He pokes holes in people’s self-deception.

[@boxlogoboy6853]

@@sarahuber8567some people are sensitive, so when he’s giving them this budget, it’s less likely they will make some bs up in their head and say “well he’s giving me this strict budget because he hates me and I can let up here and there” because he lets them know he’s not here to attack but to help.

[@aperson191]

Thank you so much for validating her emotions, Caleb.

[@M3tal_Fatigu3]

I just started watching you and I love your content. Financial literacy is important, and I'm grateful these two were brave enough to show as an example. Money is a touchy topic, especially when it comes down to asking "what you want to do with your life?" Its a necessary reality check.

[@MichikoHoshi]

I can't understand the logic of working 80 hour to pay for activities that is "necessary" to cope with working 2 jobs. But the IRS thank you for your contribution.

[@lisapvpv]

😂irs 😂😂😂😂

[@JasonGroom]

Because the therapy cost a couple hundred max, while the job earns them a lot more money. You're right, in a normal situation, it makes no sense, but if you're well over $100,000 in debt, it becomes a good trade off for a temporary solution to solve the issues

[@Caliabra]

I know sad. 80 hours is a lot. 12 hours a day 7 days a week or 16 hours a day 5. Sometimes my work has these overtime requirements like this and I have no time for fun, likes it not possible. Eat, sleep, repeat

[@StockAL3Xj]

Man, I feel bad for this guy. She's dragging both of them down. She's 30 and has the mentality of a teenager.

[@kyleb1984]

Most women never grow up past 14 years old. When you hear the fraze of keeping up with the jones's. Women want to keep up with status of there friends and strangers cuz they care about more what a strange has and to make there friends feel jealous

[@lindajohnson.]

She is definitely going to spend them into oblivion. I cannot imagine this type of mindset.

[@TonyCox1351]

“I work two jobs so I can enjoy my life now” spends her money hanging a puzzle on the wall

[@whattheheck5083]

I really appreciate the couples honesty.

[@Lisa-mp7ig]

They're such a lovely couple, wishing them all the best!

[@dmg8838]

I love how Caleb sympathized with them towards the end. It finally hit her and I really hope she gets it. Seeing her vulnerable and showing emotional gave me a sigh of relief because the constant push back and laughing was aggravating. Best of luck to them!

[@Bhodisatvas]

She only appeared vulnerable and emotional so Caleb would lay off her, it will not change her behavior.

[@CairynJay]

Her laughing seemed like a defence mechanism to me but yes, I agree

[@ronnie5329]

​@@CairynJayi was thinking nervous laughter

[@mmmd3429]

She had the face of I'm just going to sit through the rest of this but I ain't doing none of that.

[@peternguyen1911]

I wouldn’t get offended by the laughter, she’s probably nervous knowing she’s on KZbin for all of the criticism and negative comments

[@13ikea]

More couple audits please! Fiancés, spouses, dating..

[@TacticalPeace]

Them coming onto this show is a step forward many people will keep their heads in the sand till it’s far too late. I wish these two the best hopefully this interview helps them.

[@fay6883]

I admire them so much for coming on. She had such a natural reaction to this. If you’re seeing this, you’re going to do great. Take care of yourself.

[@KateWitt]

40:11 "cause I like puzzles, too" awww. IDK but this was one of the sweetest things he could've said to show his support for his wife ❤

[@iamspencerx]

I grew up with my mom always in debt, everytime I asked for something she "didn't have the money" and is "drowning in debt" so I've always thought struggling financially is normal, until I started living on my own with a student job and man it's so easy not to be in debt, just don't buy things you can't afford. My roomate needed a pc for uni/gaming, he bought a gaming laptop for 1200€, I bought a used desktop for 200€ that I can game on, saved 1000€ comparatively. He bought a new bike for 700€, I bought an old one for 40€. His parents helped him so that's not really debt, but that's still a sign for financial irresponsibility.

[@hkatsonga]

Well done for not repeating the cycle. More power to you!

[@bonniekerr6890]

@iamspencerx. Congratulations for breaking the debt cycle. You are making good choices & building a great future for yourself & your future family👏

[@persimmons5390]

I wouldn't say financial irresponsibility if your room mate has the financial backing in the form of his parents. I purchased property while in university because I knew my parents were backing me in those decisions. Also can your laptop play games well? A gaming laptop is usually more expensive than just a daily driver laptop. It doesn't seem comparable? I'm of the belief that as long as you're purchasing within your means and you're using these items extensively, it is a good investment to pay for better quality for longer lasting items.

[@iamspencerx]

@@persimmons5390 I got a desktop, not a laptop, and my desktop could run games better than his gaming laptop

[@hestiahar6367]

Your roommate was purchasing within his means. It’s not financial irresponsibility

[@caryn1158]

This couple is brave and I pray they stay on the right track!

[@alorah4831]

Caleb is 100% right, do it now!! Your future self will thank you!! Took me 2 years to pay off 50k...working 2 full-time jobs and a part-time job sometimes. It was HARD, but the freedom and options that opened up for me as a result of my hard work was waaaay better than those horrible days and well worth it. This is possible for everyone, you just have to want it and dream about how your life will be when you're done. Those dreams will become your reality. They can do this!

[@annegarrett627]

The best message Caleb offers is how draining and demoralizing it is when you are in your 60's and are struggling to live and you look back at all the money wasted 😢 on credit card spending when you were younger. If Caleb had been advising when I was in my 30's my life now would be much easier. I wish this couple the best of luck.😊

[@justanothermaid]

Yes this. Being mortal, frail, physically unable to do what you could before as you did before....a lot of young people naturally can't comprehend it. The expensive pleasures of youth have a direct cost on the ease of life later.

[@pandapoo23]

Caleb! Don't be self conscious about the high pitch. It's a staple part of your brand at this point and it's one of those small enjoyments we get that keep us coming back. Like mawmaw always said, if it ain't broke, don't fix it.

[@elizabethallen4353]

💯

[@Officialgaby180]

Yes, I love his high pitch lol

[@Shabanezloth]

That final speech from Caleb was really inspiring

[@leftysheppey]

People dont realise how awful life is when you're in debt you cant seem to tunnel out of. I wasnt in much debt, only £3k or so, but when i finally paid off my last debt this year, it was amazing