His words and actions don't match!

Well - actions speak louder than words only works to a point - a discrepancy between the two is a red flag.
What do you think?

[@trainkeenpilates5227]

“Okay” “Good bye” and walk away, that’s what you do. 💯

[@MikeCampbellmc]

That's potentially it. Or, a situation could invite exploration and learning to ensure different outcomes in the future

[@suzannemaroney4579]

Zero “integrity !” You hit the nail on the head!!

[@song4mozart]

When I have told my bf that his words and actions don't match when they don't, he tries to gaslight me.

[@MikeCampbellmc]

Sorry to hear that. It sounds frustrating. What's your next move then?

[@song4mozart]

@Mike Campbell Ultimately, I am responsible for what happens to myself. I am not a victim, and I can't give someone that control.

[@alisoncanty1894]

I am almost pulling my hair out!! I am so hurt and angry in my situation with him!! Going to have to confront!!

[@MikeCampbellmc]

All the best. Confront with kindness.

[@jenisesaez5653]

Run a way you don’t Want to be in a relationship that’s gonna cause you more pain than pleasure I wasted 15 years don’t do the same mistake I did

[@inneruniverse17]

I wish I hadn't ignored this glaringly obvious red flag in my last 'relationship'. I wouldn't have wasted a year and a half on him. I still can't believe I was so stupid.

[@MikeCampbellmc]

That sucks. Well, it certainly has some (tough) lessons for you. make sure you learn them!

[@inneruniverse17]

@@MikeCampbellmc Yes. I've stopped dating as a result. What a waste of time. I'm happier single anyway.

[@MikeCampbellmc]

@@inneruniverse17 that's sad to hear. However, if you're happier then only you know what is best for you.