How to be energetically attractive & confident ✨ inner radiance codes

[@lolilovee]

Hearing Hitomi say that her ex wouldn’t compliment her but would compliment his ex gf made me realise it doesn’t matter how gorgeous you are, if your partner isn’t complimenting you then it is not a reflection of your appearance, but a reflection of their behaviour 🤷‍♀️ because Hitomi is fire 🔥

[@rayarising]

Thank you for combining activism/feminism/awareness of social issues with spirituality. I find a lot of the times “spiritual” people will turn a blind eye to oppression and bigotry in the name of remaining “neutral” when in reality that’s the reason the bigotry has continued for as long as it has. Thich nhat hanh talked about the intersection of activism and spirituality as well. Your messages are so beautiful and well-expressed. This was much needed. Thank you so much.

[@aurwood68]

Yes this! the "higher self" is constantly sabotaged by capitalism, oppression, sexism and racism if you're part of minority

[@user-fg6hg7ds1v]

So true

[@narieun8202]

LITERALLY

[@thelioness3956]

Yes. This is why it’s important to follow queer spiritualists. I find they are more in touch with spirituality and how that works in an oppressive world.

[@ceciliacarniti7862]

1- Know who you are, write down a mission statement, cultivate who you want to be everyday 2- Commit to your healing, everything is happening form not to me 3- Witness your reaction, anger anxiety, with neutrality, be curious about your experiences and be kind to yourself, take care of yourself 4- confidence is not only owning the room and have your shit together 5- find things what makes you feel unstable and bring medicine to it 6- Voice your feelings even with others, you do not have to always be happy for others 7- Do not chase relationships 8- Turn off by disrespect 9- Jealousy means that you are not fulfilled in some area of your life, social media is only a highlight of people's lives, communicate with people 10- internalised patriarchy brings you to competition, insecurities, be aware of that 11- embodiment practices help

[@kissland1530]

I literally love you for this

[@Rnb602]

@@kissland1530 same

[@leiremartinezmorcillo1049]

thank u sm!!

[@GoldenKay19]

Thanks a lot

[@saliirivera1204]

THANKS!

[@kleccc5]

I’ve suffered from social anxiety for many years now, and i loved when you talked about the urge to hide your fear and insecurities in fear of being judged. I do that often, i don’t want to be seen as too “sensitive” to “stupid” things and i always say “i’m fine” and overcompensate my crippling anxiety by being loud and noisy, so much that i sometimes fear that nobody really knows me, bc i hide the most vulnerable parts of myself.

[@tommy5065]

same 🥲 i’m now realising that the person everyone knows & loves is not really me. it’s just a version I think will be acceptable and digestible and use it as a way to protect myself from rejection or judgment.

[@lovemylillie1]

@@tommy5065 My loves! You WILL get better I promise you!! I just want to tell you this as someone who had social anxiety and has overcome it through therapy. In a few years you will look back and say "wow that was bad, so glad I´m safe and happy now"

[@seema2hot861]

@@lovemylillie1 any advice on socializing daily ?

[@melikedenizli768]

Hitomi I just wanna say thank you! I first discovered you when I was 15 and in a depression. You helped go through life, learn how to respect and love myself and develop myself into the beautiful 20 year old woman that I am today. I’m still going through rough times and your videos will forever be here to help me deal with everything around me in a healthy way. You inspire me. I love you. Thank you!

[@stephaniemorales6089]

Aww

[@ilovepastawithvodkasauce3217]

I'm so soeey that you went through that and I'm so glad you're okay now.

[@trrishadigwasiya9949]

Omg I do the same ! This video is like a Mantra for Me

[@isabellek1171]

You’re so articulate Hitomi, calling in that energy of assertiveness, honesty and boundaries in this season of my life

[@carinaaulis4118]

"you won't have to chase what is truly meant for you" that hit so hard, I feel like I have been fighting my entire life ❤️ thank you for that, you've taught me so much and continue to amaze me.

[@annevanbrunschot7235]

WEAR STUFF THAT MAKES YOU FEEL AWESOME, WHATEVER THAT IS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! thank you Hitomi, for yet another super inspiring video, kickstarting so much growth and inner work in me

[@leahsfieldnotes]

needed this 🥺🫂

[@_lublub]

I've built my self-esteem on how much friends I have, who I hang out with, how good I look to other people. But it's so much about learning about yourself deeply and loving yourself. Now, I truly enjoy in being myself. And I've never felt better. Thank you for sharing, Hitomi!

[@angelakim1743]

I’m a senior in high school and I almost started crying watching this because I related so much with what you said! Thank you so much for this and helping me remember who I am!❤️

[@Britney_Balderas]

Your energy is truly so healing and inspiring! I'm sure I speak for everyone when I say your realness and truth motivates me to step into my own truth unapologetically! 💜💜💜

[@jasminimal444]

The knowledge you have, is amazing and grounding. You’re shedding so much light and shifting soo many people and things and timelines. You are an amazing woman, and you are teaching us so much and I fully step into that with you.

[@gothgirlgrace]

Hitomi, the spiritual growth and evolution you’ve committed to over the years since I’ve been watching you is showing through your glow. Your consciousness shines through you being and your soul speaks louder than anything. I couldn’t have asked for a better topic from you. Surrendering is love. 💘✨

[@oliviagates4499]

Your astonishing beauty - as a whole - is so inspiring to me 💕 You radiate love, light and compassion - life 🌼 You make me think of a butterfly, and my heart feels nurtured by your poetic presence 🦋 Thank you for being here on earth, so alive and radiant ✨🌹

[@aurwood68]

Respond neutrally is such game changer thank you sis ✨

[@ishouldbestudying3848]

I love how you just get to the point, my ADHD thanks you, truly 😭👏🏽

[@venuscastrovia5024]

Honestly, girl, my ADHD thanks her too. Love these videos.🤗

[@ninjabrown8560]

Hey hitomi I would love more yoga/ breathing exercises videos from you! You’re honestly one of the reasons why I’m becoming more spiritual and healing my depression ❤️❤️

[@serremanon503]

Thank you for relating well-being, and social oppression. Thank you for talking openly about racism and misogyny and how they deeply affect how we evolve as women. You're the first person on KZbin with this type of channel to talk about it and it feels so good, thank you ❤️☀️

[@mareike8509]

such powerful words, thank you! especially these messages really resonated with me: * Knowing that everything is happening for me, not to me * I do not chase, I attract * Use it as a mirror (jealousy as an anchor)

[@lvsqna]

It's been a year, how are youu, Mare?

[@juliats1]

Thank you for sharing your insights and authenticity with us. I feel like I’m genuinely growing when I watch your videos. A lot of the things you say used to (and still do sometimes) trigger something in me. Not the sexuality subjects, more so spirituality and femininity relates things. There is sometimes a strong urge to roll my eyes and dismiss everything, or even to project and judge. I feel actively unsafe in those moments. But then I allow myself to believe you, I can see that you’re incredibly kind and are coming from a beautiful place, with beautiful intentions behind your actions and words, and so I make myself sit in the uncomfortable space and allow for it to expand something in me. I now realise that that expansion is actually healing, and that’s a magical thing. I don’t know If this makes any sense at all, but I just wanted to say thank you ✨ Sending you hugs 🤗

[@MatthewEncina]

Curious about going deeper on "chasing". I agree with you, not to chase but to attract, in order to be in a better confident position for yourself. However, what happens to the person who is chasing you? Are you inadvertently making them shrink and feel small for coming towards you? How do you attract- while respecting another person's self-worth- without putting them in a lesser position in the relationship? If no one is chasing, how would attraction work? Just wondering if you have additional thoughts on this. PS. I appreciate your content for bringing up topics few are willing to discuss openly.

[@TheDreamer1618]

It might be something about meeting each other than chasing. The negative connotation of "chasing" is in pursuing someone or something that is actively fleeing or combative. I also think "seeking" may be a more positive approach. Chasing can sometimes connote reaching for something not meant for you or not embracing you, in the context of platonic and romantic relationships. Just some thoughts because i think this is a great question 😊

[@birsensaglam5864]

good question.

[@shelly3446]

@@TheDreamer1618 I love this response

[@MatthewEncina]

@@TheDreamer1618 Thanks for sharing layers to this conversation. I do also like the term "seeking" as it feels like it has less baggage.

[@bonne_vie]

I've tried to make friendships work that weren't great when I should have let them go and focused on people who made more of an effort and who I was more comfortable around. So I think she means something like that.

[@shaunteallette9732]

Your so eloquently spoken it’s so beautiful

[@livsatyapoems1538]

Thank you for the work that you have done on your path. May you continue to be centered, guided and confident on your path. May all obstacles be removed in your way of service. May the plants be with you! Much love and gratitude ✨🌿✨🌿

[@SaraLovesTea]

Girl wtf I saw them reporting abt Shawn Mendes and a mystery girl Im like wait thats Hitomi from youtube or am I mistaken?? Im so glad Shawn is getting on this journey & making himself better with no other than someone like u who has helped all of us transform our lives 😢😢 love u 😘

[@givingyougrace9923]

I have Literally been doing shadow work on this exact topic.. as a Scorpio rising, I've realized that a lot of my experience with sexuality was coupled with shame or being shamed. cheers to healing and releasing 😭❤️

[@brownsugar9629]

Life’s been so hard having a Scorpio rising.

[@schoolprojects7438]

Hitomi I am 16 and I just want to say thank you for being in my life and many others. I thank you for being such a healing spirit. I love how positively intentioned you are and how unapologetic you’ve become when it comes to showing your true colors and beauty. I love you so much Hitomi.

[@zevo8293]

I’m a young 20 year old man and I’ve learned from this video I still have a lot of work to do on myself mentally even after taking the time to take care of myself and figure out my wants and needs for about 6 to 7 months. So thank you.

[@danie6247]

I would love to hear about your experience merging physical space with a partner. What has the transition brought up for you, and how do you cultivate your autonomy while in such close quarters with another? Thanks for sharing your experiences :)

[@victoriadevall]

yes would love this

[@lulilv]

Yes please!!!!

[@KnitBone]

I would love to hear about this if she’s comfortable sharing too! I’ve been living with my partner for 11 years and I’m now realizing how much we need our own spaces as well as shared space. I’m interested to hear how others balance this and support each other’s autonomy as well as the relationship in a healthy, loving way.

[@khalilahd.]

I love the honesty and transparency you always exhibit in your videos. You make me feel safe in being myself and learning myself. Love you Hitomi 💚

[@caitlynburns2490]

Hitomi, the space you hold is so healing. Thank you.

[@pages.n.petals]

Thank you so much for this video! Really trying to become a stronger person by sticking to my own needs and not constantly adjusting to everyone else. Setting boundaries, and giving myself what I truly need is the first step. So thank you for the sweet words and giving me a nice space on the internet to grow

[@LaraShaker]

i swear, this is divine timing.. everytime i struggle w/ something, you upload a video exactly covering that topic

[@anitaayres830]

what i love most about watching your videos is that they’re so wholesome and interesting and healing that it feels like watching them is an act of self love 🦋

[@avarachel]

Hitomi, thank you. This video felt like a gentle reminder and a warm hug. I appreciate your work so much 💜

[@kalimarie6682]

GIRL did I just see an article about you with Shawn Mendes?!?!

[@luraayzit]

I love the fact that you are making videos your younger self needed

[@lorisantos12]

Love love love this video ❤️ This year is really about me continuing my journey in learning who I am and becoming more confident in that person. I feel like a lot of my life, I survived by creating these personalities and characters so that I can garner affection and that validation. I have been unlearning a lot and am becoming rooted in myself and I think this video is super helpful in that journey. Took a lot of notes in my journal!

[@claudiavanroy5131]

So happy that you chose to share all your wisdom you've received throughout your journey with us. It's so unbelievably helpful and I'm thankful for your videos. Wish I could get to know you in person. Have a nice day

[@MikinnaRaye]

SHAWN MENDES OKAY HITOMI GO OFF I LOVE YOU

[@courtneyandgabbylol]

you do such a good job explaining concepts relating to emotion & mental health :') thank you for being patient and dedicated to your videos

[@skingloss4408]

Thank you for sharing your reflective process and practice. It was a great reminder. I'm finding myself relearning these values that came so easily to me when I was younger. Stay light, patient and curious ✨

[@sophiafolley1282]

It really resonated with me when you said how you feel safer when dressing andogenously. I have long blode hair and fit that sexualised feminine look. I like wearing dresses and looking this way but lately have just been wearing mom jeans etc because I don't feel safe or too noticeable otherwise.

[@mysticmaidenmagic]

nothing better than watching one of your new videos to start my day. watching your videos makes me feel as good as meditating :) you bring out the best in me and i’m so grateful for all the insight and vulnerability you share on your own journey ♡︎ i love you hitomi i’m sending you the biggest hug from afar

[@juliaworksonstuff]

This! I needed this. It brought me right back to my center because you put words into everything I've been feeling. I know me and I know my path and it's not determined by anything external. I know I'm healing and I am ok with the fact that my confidence is still being built within myself and it has nothing to do with how people say they view me. Their projections are not my responsibility and I am in competition with no one. I am learning how to grow and become my own master. I don't need any external validation because that has always felt so fleeting and shallow for me to ride on that 'high' or 'low' because their experience of me is partially them feeling into my experience of me AND partially their own reflection of their own struggle to find purpose. As long as I meet all my feelings with a more observant perspective instead of a judgemental attachment to what is, I know I'm going to be able to return more quickly to my own center and source. I appreciate your KZbin so much and I am just so thankful for being given the gift of mentors like you.

[@iluminapaz2072]

I want to send you a deep heartfelt hug. I had so much anxiety and jealousy, resentment, too, and I am finally remembering who I am. It feels like a cloud lifted, yet I am still dealing with the old neuro networks created through that dark period in my life and with all of my love, compassion and effort, I am stoked to share I am healing and evolving into the kind being that I remember being, the one who celebrates other women for stepping fully into their unique radiance, the woman who is capable of loving and open to being loved, and so much more. Your have highlighted so much of what I am putting into practice and you've just confirmed that I am on a good medicine path

[@LaAlesaura]

I can't Watch One of your videos without pausing every 2 minutes to think about what you Just said. Thank you to inspire me so much.

[@simranpreetsingh7363]

You are literally a healer. And you have spoken to me in such a deep way. I watch your videos and I can imagine this existence. My soul craves for it and you helped me realize so much💕

[@crazedg45]

Thank you so much, Hitomi! Your honesty and vulnerability is remarkable and you may be one of the few social media influencers who actually improve the lives of those who peruse your content :)

[@lmvdam]

I love how you included a part about jealousy, which aligns so much with what I’ve been dealing with/thinking about. Actually talked about it yesterday over dinner. ❤️🙏🏼

[@marinacallis]

Your videos really helped me to enjoy my "me time", findind the way to spend time cultivating myself and avoiding media. I sincerely want to thank you for your content, the respect to you and others and your very special energy. So thank you, thank you, thank you.

[@heavenlyflower_sl]

Thank you, Hitomi! Also when you mentioned not about jobs/wildest dreams, the saying of "i dont chase i attract" is still valid. As in we attract the job/dreams we embody (e.g qualities/skills, hence the discipline to become that person is required) and it will come to us.

[@jadaogorman3893]

you and shawn mendes meditating together is everything!!

[@nadiabarmasse5294]

You don't know how much you're helping me in my healing journey ...I'm sending you all my love and light 💜

[@lorine3536]

I have seen you in Isabel Paige's video but did not pay more attention as I was dealing with my mental health.. but I met this amazing human, who his the kindest and most open-minded man I have ever met who told me I reminded him of you ... One of the most powerful compliment I have ever received. Since I have been watching all your videos and it's actually one of the best therapy ever ✨ love and light 🌿🌻

[@brianapagan3760]

This is fire. You are fire. I truly love what you are speaking about. I feel like I’m speaking to my older self. This is everything I have been practicing and I hope more woman are able to learn from your post !

[@jonhansen9625]

you're wise beyond your years and what a beautiful poetic narration at the beginning

[@nxtacoolgirl]

I have watched this video several times, specially when I am feeling doubtful of myself, feeling hurt and in deep pain. I really struggle with abandonment issues, and I am doing my best to find that inner confidence. Your words, way of thinking and living is so inspiring and has helped me so much. Thank you, Hitomi

[@EveChristie]

As a socially anxious introverted - extrovert I needed this! So thank you🫶🏽

[@Earthangel1226]

Been part of the Sophia code commit it for 7 years now and I truly can say it saved my life in more ways than than one. So so grateful for these teachings and activations and can’t wait to go to a retreat someday

[@2abrielle]

Omg girl! Just saw you in the news with Shawn Mendes and I was like: she should not only be described as "young woman" or "his company", it's Hitomi Mochizuki!!

[@josiekenny6621]

Hitomi! I wanted to tell you that the other night I was having a nightmare and then you appeared in my dream and calmed everything down ❤️so much help from you even in my sleep :)

[@candreatania]

Watching your videos is always so healing 😌 my journey is still a long way to go but the knowledge you constantly shared is so much for me to learn! THANK YOU 🙏🏼🧡

[@masalaonthemove]

Positive vibes and confidence 😍. Success might be slow but persistence will bring it. My mantra since I have started my KZbin journey and this video just made me remember it again. Thank you so much and a warm hug 🤗

[@jesschavolla6800]

I wish there was a love button. Hitomi, you articulate yourself so effortlessly and your words are fluid and poetic reaching so far into my soul feeding me exactly what I need to know. Your videos have become a daily ritual for me to watch and send to my beautiful friends. Thank you so much for being you and supporting me in ways I cry in gratitude for regularly. You deserve the whole world and all the love there is💘💘💘💘💘💘💘 So grateful for you 🙏🏽

[@kaylam.5668]

Thank you for spreading this beautiful message! You’re inspiring and helping so many people, including me ✨✨😭😭🧿🧘‍♀️💛🌟

[@1ReneeNae3]

Hahaha I just read the daily mail on Snapchat and they called you a “bombshell shaman” with Shawn Mendes 🤣 I thought that was the funniest and cutest way to describe you from an outsiders perspective! Right when I saw your beautiful smile I exclaimed, “that hitomi!!” ❤️

[@sashalind8789]

hitomi, ive been watching your videos for so long and i am so proud and joyful to see how far youve come! thank you for being here

[@Breezymoreno]

Tell me why I was just scrolling through my feed and I see “Shawn mendes spotted with mystery girl” and when I look at the girl I’m like wtf that’s hitomi

[@choiber1yo]

i saw the new's telling about him and hito and i was like who's this? and since then I'm so happy i saw the new's this day

[@dik662]

I’m watching your videos back to back, and it’s a little late, but you are such a beautiful, kind, inspirational soul 😘 you make me feel safe and validated 🌱 so much love and kindness sent to you & everyone who watches your videos 💜

[@hathorsheathen]

The cadence you speak with in the intro reminds me of hearing Cleo Wade's talks. The serenity and confidence are palpable ❤

[@MothaFluffa]

I love finding videos that are aligning with what I'm thinking and seeing in life and what want for myself. Being able to hear your voice on these things is very helpful especially for someone who is currently in the grit of that life change and seeking better for myself and my path

[@roberthart1228]

Thank you so much for being a warm loving person, this world needs more like you

[@paulavela2604]

hitomi i love you so much okayy thank you for dedicating a part of your life to helping us heal. even if you don't see it that way since you are just living your purpose you are changing my life thank you.

[@Avam100]

I’m literally begging you to do another video like this, you’ve taught me so much and changed my perspective so much because of this video. I genuinely have watched this 3 times in a row

[@Avam100]

2 years later I’m still rewatching this video for grounding and confidence

[@lyndarivera8778]

you are so incredibly gorgeous. your inside makes your outer glow blossom

[@MissAlpha519]

Thank you so much for your videos. 💕 You have changed my life spiritually as well as the way I eat and view my food. As someone with binge eating disorder you remind me that my vessel is needed to be fueled. Keep being you my love! Blessed be🧿

[@ruthhobson1294]

Yes yes yes! Keep shining your light by simply being yourself. Thank you for courageously sharing yourself!

[@erykah9452]

omg those photos w shawn 🥺

[@oliviamcdonald243]

My dream to become a yoga teacher/ spiritual guidance/ lifestyle guidance, is slowly coming to fruition! And recently at a job interview I was asked what really inspired my spirituality and the first thing I thought of was Hitomi❤️

[@zhengstahh]

love u hitomi, you are honestly such a light

[@simonefroley1732]

Needed to hear this today. Thank you for sharing your inner work!

[@ava_5647]

Hitomi out here changing lives 🥺💛💛💛

[@divinepeach5853]

Omg that last 30 seconds made me cry. Thanks so much for your love and for these videos that provide tangible methods for showing up courageously in the world!

[@Francielly444]

wow, I'm so proud of you, thank you for standing up beautiful soul

[@nezzylearns]

This was a sign for me I've been asking the Universe to help me with this recently. Just subscribed thank you for sharing this.

[@Bhird_K]

so refreshing! it is very inspiring to hear you talking about all of it!

[@MultiGregschannel]

You are truly a beautiful energetic being

[@michellea3825]

Thank you for this beautiful video, Hitomi! As a recent 20 year old, insecurity and self pity have been prevalent themes.

[@panelsme]

I’m glad I have found this sooner! I’m going to be a sophomore this year and I’ve been wanting to change my perspective on how to love myself and love myself more conditionally. I want to have the best version of myself and improve my mentality and this has help me so far! Thank you 🌺

[@Corazon_Donquixote]

Hitomi is so calming and makes you feel different when you watch her

[@sarahfichtler6579]

That was such a helpful video! I've just left a toxic situationship and after listening to you I can say from the depth of my heart that I am glad that I left

[@Kimberly-sm1bj]

omg, looking for the next video of you with shawn in the jungle....our girl is a shaman now!! I recognized you from the nose-blowing photos online. Love you!!

[@Kimberly-sm1bj]

sorry, got your new title wrong...they called you Sexy Shaman, love it!!

[@mitzil7699]

Thank you so much for this, I feel so connected to literally everything you've said.I love you

[@meeezy]

sp true your closing message literally had me in tears because it really spoke to my soul. just this video really is eye-opening of things to build my confidence up thank you

[@Karen.mm4]

I absolutely loved this. You expressed and vocalized everything so beautifully. I love your energy.

[@aroundtheson1096]

You are a breathe of fresh air, kindness, truth & love. ♡☆

[@raerae9931]

I am endlessly appreciative of you and your light. Thank you!

[@DearEmma-tj1zs]

Thank you sooo much Himoti. Your journey is amazing and I really learn to love myself, always put myself first and while not feeling bad about it. I used to fear negative emotions and mistakes a lot, but now I learn to trust the flow, explore, witness and even play with whatever it is. You are really amazing, and I’m so proud of you, thank you!❤

[@TanyaGriffiths]

the last 20 seconds really touched my heart. thank you Hitomi for being & guiding us as we expand with you x