Hitting Rock Bottom: PERSONAL STORY OF LOSING EVERYTHING

Today I'm being extremely vulnerable by sharing one of my personal stories of hitting rock bottom and losing everything. The intention behind sharing this story is to instill hope in those that are experiencing their worlds being tipped upside down. It's an invitation to remember that when you come from a place of love and gratitude, fear will ease away and hope will trickle in. I'm living proof that you can survive this rollercoaster ride. And I believe that we have all been here before and by remembering your own personal story of when you survived betrayal, uncertainty, loss, pain, disease, etc that you too will feel this ever knowing peace inside you. Sweet beings, you have everything you need need to survive this.
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[@LuluAgan]

Thanks for watching! I invite you to share three things you are grateful for right now.

[@swisscleo]

I am grateful to have come across your path many years ago , as you inspire me everyday, I am grateful for seeing everyday so many beautiful miracles and I am grateful for having love and being able to share love with others! What about yourself?

[@lisamandelin2706]

Thank you for sharing! What a beautiful and brave message, I think you were channeling during some of this! God flows through us and you certainly are an example of that my friend. I miss you and will see you soon. xo

[@LuluAgan]

@@swisscleo Meeting you seems like another lifetime ago..LOL! Do you still surf? I'm currently in Nosara, Costa Rica and making the best of every dang day!

[@LuluAgan]

@@lisamandelin2706 Aloha lovely...thank you for watching. This one definitely took some courage, and yes, I was definitely channeling (wink wink). I miss you and can't wait to catch a wave with you in the very near future. Sending big love your way...xx

[@johnbosconnachi5720]

Please can I talk you ,I just lost my life and everything

[@iballychifumbe6759]

I really needed to hear this right now. I have just lost my house and l feel so broken down right now. This is the most difficult night l have ever gone through 😭

[@LuluAgan]

Aloha Ibally, I'm so sorry that you have lost your house. I know this feels horrible and quite scary right now, so I hope the gratitude practice helps ease the range of emotions that you are currently experiencing.

[@tammyrobinson1613]

I lost my town home, the equity, most of my furniture, etc in it. The home I built from scratch after my divorce, and raised my two children in as a single mom. 3 weeks later the engine blew in my car. Then my family left me. I was homeless and carlos, and no family. On top of that the chronic health conditions, that I had to give up my business years prior for, and was on disability, tripled. I've been lost for 7 months. I'm trying to read and listen to all the comeback stories that I can right now. How are you doing now?

[@christinastacey3741]

I am a hard worker. A strong and good person. And unfortunately an alcoholic. I lost my job my house and my significant other. I have nowhere to go. No money. A criminal record I've yet to sort out. And the only hope I muster to keep going are from stories like yours. I lost everything. Everything. I will get it back. Thank you for making these videos. I dont know where I'd be if I didnt have people like you letting your story be know. It gives me hope when I thought hope was gone. Thank you...

[@tammyrobinson1613]

How are you getting along now? I sincerely hope you have been able to start sorting your life out. You are worth it. It's a hell of a lot of work. Thet dark night of the soul is so rough to go through. Hugs from a fellow traveler on this journey

[@ThePlough1978]

#metoo Lost my family , my missus, job and home. Now wallowing in Thailand with a dwindling bank balance ... No idea what I'll do.. *Crap Game*

[@fatterthanbeyonce764]

you have to beat this. it cant beat you. you have a story to tell one day

[@highrolla142]

I hope everything is going great God bless don't give up I'm rooting for you .

[@christinamorales6887]

Lost my job, had COVID-19, my son overdosed, my car was repossessed and can’t pay rent. It’s a disaster but God has a plan and purpose for my life.

[@judilynn9569]

In the last 10 years, I've lost my job, my home and now I'm about to lose my storage unit that has everything, and I do mean EVERYTHING of my life in it. All of my personal belongings and household. Everything. And I have no way to pay to stop it. After all this time holding on and looking for a permanent place to live...it's all in vain. I'm searching videos for people who have mentally and spiritually survived huge loss. At my age, I never thought I'd be losing everything and starting life over with almost nothing. But I am eternally grateful that I am still here (in spite of cancer taking a shot at me).

[@karenk177]

Hey can u reach out?

[@highrolla142]

God bless you , I hope things are looking great for you . I pray for a turning point .

[@letsgrowwithm4620]

I lost everything and still loosing I don’t know how to stop this! I started a business while I trusted people Whose intentions was to steal from me, I started building the house to which I believe the person I trusted stole huge amounts of money to me which was supposed to build my place , I have no family ,friends to depend on I have no job still a student with toxic mother who badmouthing me every were and am pregnant no were to go , no one to depend.

[@CheyanneDelRey]

How are you now?

[@thecleankitchen7898]

Gratitude for what I have, no matter how small, keeps me going. I have lost my house, my family, most of my friends, and all my belongings. Gratitude attracts more good things. Thank you for sharing your story and advice.

[@LuluAgan]

Aloha and thank you for watching. I'm sorry for your loss. I'm delighted to hear that gratitude is helping you move forward. It's an incredible practice! Have you also taken time to process the emotions around your loss because it sounds like you have been hit hard?

[@thecleankitchen7898]

@@LuluAgan Thank you. No, I have not allowed myself to completely process my loss. I wanted to wait until I am in a safer space. I am staying with two friends. One, I have learned has schizophrenia. He is also violent, but I have no other place to go in this city. I don’t want to leave the city just yet.

[@tammyrobinson1613]

Thank you for sharing your story as well. . I've lost my home, much of my family, my health, and my car. I'm losing myself.

[@jackyfrom_usa522]

​@@LuluAgan WHAT WILL I DO???? I CHOOSE WRONG COLLEGE and i cant go back its in different country and the place i stay is terrible and noisy

[@jacquelinedotson9970]

Yes I have lost everything my car two cars matter fact my housing I'm homeless list my marriage of 34 years. But I trust God and know he is going to make a way for me Thank you for this message 🙏 🙏

[@Swellwomen]

Aloha Jacqueline - I'm sorry that you are moving through a rock bottom moment. Looks like God wanted you to have a fresh start and although its hard right now, I invite you to lean in, focus on what your heart desires, and follow the bread crumbs that lead you to a happier and healthier life. You got this! xx Lulu

[@frankgeary7574]

I’m hoping I can bounce back one day. I have lost all of my savings. I even had to borrow money from my daughter. I am in debt and now my marriage is gone. I hate myself for it all

[@spytechchronicles]

I have failed in life. Friends do not trust me and I don't trust myself or anyone else. I am exhausted and at my wit's end. I don't think I can learn anything new. At the moment I have moved back with my parents and spend my days sleeping and nights replaying all my mistakes that I have made in my life.

[@holly8781]

In December 2022 my soulmate and best friend passed away in my arms. I had 3 weeks to move out of our 4 bedroom home. I had to move to Florida from Georgia because that was the only resource I had for a living environment. I lost my home, the relationship with my boyfriend 3 kids, my oldest moved across the world to join the military and my youngest went to live with some friends. My dogs went to live with my boyfriend mom. In this process I was homeless twice and became suicidal. I went through 7 jobs and now I’m about to be homeless again. In my opinion I am at the bottom of despair. I am trying so hard to get my life together and nothing is working. I understand your journey and definitely relate. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@LuluAgan]

Aloha Holly and thank you so much for being vulnerable enough to share your story. Rock bottoms, although painful, are opportunities to step into our power. You can't give up now because there's no where to go but up. Start small and I encourage you to get the help you need to move through this. There must be some sort of therapy or a shelter that can help you. Start there. Sending you love & light. Lulu

[@longlostvideos191]

i have lost everything. everything I worked for. its feels like my soul has been ripped out of my chest. Im hurting and struggling to see any light at the end of the tunnel, is there really any hope left.

[@CrashoutGaming]

You in me both imagine all ya family being dead in u have no help to get bk up i cant help but cry most times

[@unapologeticfeminine]

This thread is so heavy. So many of us moving through such devastating and excruciating times. May we all return to the breath, to our heartbeats, to the present and remember something anything the smallest thing to be grateful for and build from there. There is always hope even like the sun on a cloudy day. It's there and shining even though your view is blocked. Just hang on long enough to let the clouds pass. Warm hugs to you both.

[@justinchan8877]

Thank you for your kind words. I'm at rock bottom right now ,with losing my wife, house and covid lockdown. Your story is very touching...knowing that others have went through what I'm going through right now

[@LuluAgan]

Justin, I'm so sorry to hear about your losses. I know it's a super intense time right now, so I encourage you to look into some sort of virtual therapy or to join an online support group. You don't have to go through this alone. Connecting with others that are going through similar experiences really does help. Also, jump on board with a gratitude practice. That has been a game-changer to me, but no matter how bad shit is hitting the fan, there is something positive going on. Sending a big hug your way!

[@justinchan8877]

@@LuluAgan Thank you so much Lulu. I told myself I deserve to be happy with or without her. I missed how happy I used to be and I'm going to get back there.

[@frankgeary7574]

How are you doing today? I am currently in debt, my savings is all gone and my finance has left me

[@kristinecrowley8321]

Thanks for sharing your story. I came across it when looking for some support after having the hardest few years of my life and losing everything.....My home, almost every single thing I owned., my hope, my confidence. My story is a little different and unfortunately we (my family) did not have the support of friends and family that you’d expect when going through a hard time. Instead we got judgement and rejection and criticism because people just don’t understand. It’s been hard....we lost all our stuff in a storage auction and it devastated me and left me feeling very violated. Our living space leaves much to be desired and we have struggled to just get by. We feel hurt and isolated having nobody to turn to for any help. But we are managing. We’re getting by. Many days I feel like I’m just existing and not living. I feel like a shell of the person I used to be. But my kids are happy and healthy and my marriage is still hanging on....so we have each other and I try to keep in mind that’s all that really matters.

[@LuluAgan]

Aloha Kristine -Thank you for sharing your story. I'm so sorry that you are going through such a difficult time right now. There's no other way to put it other than it sucks. Really sucks! What really stood out was your strength to carry on. The fact that your kids are happy and healthy and your marriage is still handing on is a blessing. And you are right...it's all the matters. I see you as the rock in the family, so keep going girl. I know this is hard to see and feel right now, but after hitting rock bottom, there's nowhere to go except up. Focus on the little things that bring you bliss throughout your day, practice gratitude, and plant some seeds of intention. Where do you see yourself a year from now and then break that down to what inspired action you can take to get closer to that dream. Sending big love your way and don't hesitate to reach out if you need more tips.

[@kristinecrowley8321]

@@LuluAgan thanks for your kind words and advice! I do feel that I’ve had to be the rock in the family, which is hard when I feel so depleted. Sometimes I really wish I had someone to take care of me! But you’re right....nowhere to go but up, although it seems at times like progress is soooo slow. I understand and accept that life has its challenges and adversities and that they’re necessary to make you stronger and better, it just seems like this is never ending sometimes. I know there must be light at the end of the tunnel but when will we reach the end of the tunnel? I just want more for my kids, you know? This isn’t what I imagined for them. I feel like they’ve been robbed of the childhood they deserve. But hanging on is all we can do and I will, and I will do what you suggested in terms of what I can do to improve things....even if it’s just in very small ways every day. Thank you! And good luck to you...I hope you’re able to rebuild and achieve your dream!

[@victoriat8481]

I've lost everything except my three children, Thank Jesus. I can not get out if bed till lunch time, I am comatized. My eldest son has to care for my children till I awake. I'm not depressed, I am stressed. The thought of not being able to get up early and do the important things for my children destroys me, no matter how hard I try. It's an absolute disaster. It really is. I need help, I cannot work and I'm medically okay. I CANNOT work this out......I'm LOST and hating myself. How do I get out of this destructive cycle?

[@LuluAgan]

Aloha Victoria - I'm so sorry for what you are going through right now. I have some ideas that may help you move through this. Would you be interested in jumping on a 1:1 complimentary call via Zoom, so we can chat?

[@GODWorX888]

So sorry sweetheart! I have experienced all of this!! The Universe is God he created everything including us! He is our Father and He waits and waits for us to cry out His name! To depend on Him! He is our provider! Please Go on KZbin and Look up Jehovah Jireh! Our Provider Our healer: Jehovah Rapha our rescuer! Our comforter our guide and He will bring Beauty from Ashes! Give it all to Him and allow Him to direct your every step! I lost everything twice in 6 years. I never wouldve made it without Him. I almost lost my mind and I cried His name! I only breathe because of that very moment If He never hears from us… If we never turn to Him and put our faith in Him and NOT the world.. we cant go back to Heaven! Cry His name! He will work Miracles! Im a Walking, talking, miracle of Him! He has rebuilt me from the bottom up! The world has been deceived! God is not Religion He is our EVERYTHING! Our Daddy! He wants the world to know we have believed many deceptions regarding Him and How much He loves and adores every child on this Earth! Without Him Everything dies! Including Us! We do t move, we dont breath, we dont live Without God providing all of it! If God goes.. all His goodness goes with Him. You are His baby! Cry out to Him and include Him in everything every day! Also, The Lords prayer keeps us clean of all sin if we speak it out daily. The world needs to know He left us an instruction manual. B.I.B.L.E. BASIC INSTRUCTIONS BEFORE LEAVING EARTH! You are on your way back to the top! The Joy of the Lord is our strength! Nehemiah 8:10 I pray His exceedingly and abundantly above and beyond anything you could ask or think over you! Ephesians 3:20 God Bless you!

[@Healingpath1988]

That’s great you’ve had friends and family - I’ve no supports - I lost my only sibling my big brother and in the throes of grief I resigned from my great job to go to another job that didn’t work out. So I’m 1 year I lost my big bro- dads in a nursing home and my mother is intensive care - I also moved into a new apartment and can’t settle - so I lost my brother, my job, mother sick and can’t settle in my new apartment- I’m quite spiritual and do yoga but in the debts of depression I have no motivation no money and can’t get out of bed most days - please send me love and light 🙏🌷 and last week my clutch went in my car I’ve no car either - l have to keep hope as I did want to leave this planet - I pray god has a different direction altogether ❤️🙏

[@awhb5412]

Thanks so much. For sharing your experience I'm going through the same thing and thank you because just encouraged me so much help me to look forward

[@blacklotusalchemy8648]

Thank you for sharing this , it’s exactly what I needed at this moment in time 🙏🏽

[@annjean8709]

Thank you for sharing your heartfelt testimony. May your higher being bless you with abundant blessings.🙏🏾 💕💖💖💕

[@marvinpulumo3281]

Oh thank you so much for sharing your beautiful an powerful story. My factory in South Africa has just been broken into and the thieves stole everything, all the equipment and machinery. They vandalized my beloved vintage car too. I was broken but now, since I have watched this video of yours. I now have hope and love growing inside me and my ancestors are telling me now, to not look back but to move forward and love again an again for there are better days to come. Thank you again to you and know this, I pray for your recover financially and emotionally too 🙏🤗

[@LuluAgan]

Thank you for sharing Marvin. I'm so sorry for your losses. Your shift in mindset is inspiring and one day you'll look back to see that this rock bottom experience allowed for transformation and growth. Sending you positive vibes from Maui!

[@marvinpulumo3281]

Thank you 💕 Lulu, coming from you this means alot. I will my best to push on and be more careful in this future. May my great thoughts you reach you and comfort you. I admire your your confidence a great deal, keep well and push on better days are coming your way 🙏🙌

[@phylintress]

Thank you for sharing I couldn’t help but cry the entire video I’m going through the same thing as well as losing my relationship in the midst of a hardship! It hurts but I’m hopeful for the future

[@SteezyDollIsabel]

Thank you for making this video I lost my business I feel like I lost everything my time and money. I just feel so lost. After your video I feel better about my situation I will be okay after losing everything. Thank you so much for sharing your personal story. 😭💞

[@FutureMemories2024]

Thank you so much for this. I know I'm listening to myself in you. I am at that place right now. I've thought of starting a KZbin channel to journal my experiences of climbing out of loss and hopelessness. I really needed to hear this today.

[@DrLaraZib]

Wow thank you for sharing this very honest story - this gives people hope & courage to keep going!

[@LuluAgan]

Dr Lara Zib Thank you for watching! 💕

[@debbiethompsoncoaching]

Thank you so much for your story!! It will help so many people.

[@LuluAgan]

Debbie Thompson Thanks for watching Debbie! 🙏💕

[@DebbraLupien_AkashicRecords]

Thank you for sharing your beautiful, heartfelt message. Gratitude abounds. Lately I've been more aware of being grateful for healthy lungs and deep breathing. Grateful for the support of my family to follow by dream. Grateful for pure, fresh, cold water. I could go on and on but you asked for three. 😊

[@LuluAgan]

You gave me goosebumps Debbra! Thank you for sharing. Sending a big squeeze your way!

[@Backtotheplayground]

you say you lost everything, but that's not everything. you still had your friends, family and money. try actually losing EVERYTHING.

[@Chris-kr7gg]

Health is true wealth.

[@kylergeston]

Colleen, I agree with what you stated as well. It wasn't EVERYTHING. Looks like she has some pretty rich friends to help her out. Look at this place.

[@Backtotheplayground]

Even health. It’s true health is wealth.

[@Chris-kr7gg]

Very true, lose it all and see how you respond with nothing and no one to look to.

[@kp74952]

Thank you for sharing. "Breathe and believe."

[@HildiGuiney]

🙏🏼💗 I’m grateful to have such a strong woman like you in my life! You give me courage! I’m grateful to have a roof over my head and to have love in my heart! Thank you for sharing 💗

[@LuluAgan]

And you are always an inspiration in my life Hildi! Love you...and see you very soon!

[@DhanaClarkson]

Thanks for sharing! I’m grateful for my health, my family, and my friend!

[@LuluAgan]

Yes!! Thank you for expressing gratitude with us today.

[@Obliquapilates]

Thank you Lulu, So good to rewatch this right now as events of today are so fear fueling. Yes, beautiful story, your story which I feel makes you more amazing and able to encourage so well. I am grateful for resources like you, my breath and heart beat-two elements that give me everything and ask for nothing in return (aka my unconditional love)...I am grateful for my work, my amenities, my physical wellness and being of sound mind. Lastly, I am grateful for nature-all that it provides-one of my favorite books is The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein that introduced me to the importance of stewardship towards our world...I remember being so moved by that books simplicity...I think I cry more now when I read it...

[@LuluAgan]

Thanks for taking the time to watch this again Greta. I'm honored by your words and thank you for sharing your gratitude practice today. There's so much to be grateful for. I have added The Giving Tree to my reading list. Sending you big love!

[@Alphaaminatamusic]

Thank you so much for sharing your story. I just hit my rock bottom and lost alot of valuables, my purse and luggage. Really inspired by your message and by your courage and attitude of gratitude! Hope things are getting better for you.

[@karenk177]

Hey how did u do it, are u better now? It will be nice to talk to u

[@stephandden]

Love your strength and resilience Lulu! I am grateful to have a family that loves me, a job amidst COVID-19 and the inkling to wake up each morning ✨

[@LuluAgan]

Thank you Steph & Den! So much to be grateful for...sending big love!

[@estereneforrest887]

Thank you, I am grateful for my breathe, my healthy heart beat, my life.

[@LuluAgan]

Those are all beautiful things to be grateful for. Thank you for sharing!

[@jennybellido3279]

Thank you so much for sharing your story, Lulu!

[@LuluAgan]

Thank you for taking the time to watch Jenny!

[@judithholleran6423]

Hope you are doing better. Wonderful video. Being grateful is so important. Thank you for sharing.

[@LuluAgan]

Aloha Judith - life is full of twist and turns and I've landed in a place that fills my heart with so much joy. Thanks for watching and I hope you too are rocking your bliss. Have a great weekend!

[@Cryptoneptune]

I lost 160K a year ago behind someone I thought I could trust. The lesson I learned is don’t ignore the red flags but, also forgive yourself when you make mistakes. I’m rebuilding. Thankful for family who helped support & lifted me up during this time. It’s painful but, we will make it back from rock bottom.

[@SocialConfidenceMastery]

I appreciate your openness and vulnerability!

[@LuluAgan]

Thank you! 🙏💫

[@Ziqelekaziiii]

Thanks for sharing 😭😭

[@tajkharey590]

Wow !!! What an amazing woman x

[@brody3754]

This was great, thank you, Lulu.

[@LuluAgan]

You are very welcome Brody! Wishing you peace and happiness, so matter what's happening in your world.

[@psplaystation1]

Reduced to living in my car right now, so thank you for giving me some hope and love x

[@carolerbph.d3567]

It is very nice of you sharing this video...

[@LuluAgan]

Thanks for watching Carol. Sending a squeeze your way!

[@jpchiles]

Thanks for sharing this 🙏!!! It is an impressive story ❤.... it helps me out a lot to deal with loosing it all

[@LuluAgan]

You got this JP. Losing it all is an opportunity to start over and create anything your heart desires. 🙌

[@jpchiles]

@@LuluAgan I will trust ❤️🙏 and be grateful

[@IceyMinaj]

I’ve lost my mom, my dad moved out, I lost my dogs, I got a puppy to help but then she passed at 8 months and my parent is getting back into drugs. It’s too much for me, I’ve been sad everyday of my life for the past year and a half and I can’t do it anymore. But I’m trying and I just hope I can make it

[@unapologeticfeminine]

I hope it's better for you. I hope you have had unexpected moments of beauty love and hope to carry you through the dark clouds.

[@heladds]

I lost the chance and hope for finding my mate and the chance to start a family.

[@MVOV2000]

Sadly, I have no family to rely on and i lost everything

[@fatterthanbeyonce764]

thank you

[@joshreed7102]

The very first internal conservation I truly remember ever having was me talking to God. I was trying to plead with this being I just learned about to please give my mother back because I needed her. I was 3 years old. I was told he wanted her to live with him and he needed her. My father became an alcoholic and married a lady within 6 months that told me I was evil and a devil and would never amount to anything. That became my life story and I made it true. I’m 66 now and I was just informed I’ll be losing my house. I do not touch drugs or alcohol but my wife is an alcoholic. Everything I feared has become my life. I really can’t wait for it to be over. I’m to chicken to end it so I have more to see.

[@unapologeticfeminine]

Dear sweet Josh, I really feel the pain and angst in your writing. May you recover hope and faith to believe that you can still experience some unplanned for and unexpected beauty in your life. There is always time. Lulu is right when she talks about the breath and the present moment. I am trying to train myself to just be fully engaged in each moment because in them the catastrophe and devastation of our lives doesn't have to be felt. I have an affirmation that's really powerful for me and maybe it will help you: "I allow myself to feel grateful that all past and future concerns melt in the light and beauty of this present moment." Our lives our just a constant flow of the Now and we are powerful enough to focus and concentrate on the most life giving and hope filled aspects that give us even a small glimmer of the sublime. The flicker of a leaf catching the breeze from the wind. A bee buzzing from flower to flower. A puffy white cloud that looks like a bunny rabbit. Find anything to remember and see something artful and beautiful around you and know what a privilege it is just to be it's witness. Don't spiral into judgments and stories about the disarray of your life incessantly. Hop out of your "thinky" thoughts long enough to just Be. It's good for us to just Be here now. Praying for you.

[@LuluAgan]

Aloha Josh - thank you for sharing. I'm sorry you are experiencing so much loss right now, but know that you can create the change your heart desires. These rock bottom moments reveal a contrast in life and helps us define what we truly desire. I encourage you to step back and focus on what's going well. Cultivating a gratitude practice and focusing on even the smallest things that make you happy will help you shift your energy. Breathe and believe that something better is on the way. Sending positive energy your way.

[@LuluAgan]

Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom and inspiration. Keep it coming...and have a beautiful weekend!

[@swisscleo]

Thanks for Sharing Lulu Your a Rainbow Warrior!

[@LuluAgan]

Thank you for watching Mona! Are you in France? How are you holding up?

[@swisscleo]

@@LuluAgan I am in Switzerland awaiting for the Merky waters to settle so I can move to South Africa to be united with my loverboi!Doing a lot of meditation and online courses and keeping positive and healthy!

[@Vanessabobessa10]

I couldnt imagine actually building my dream and then it crumbling. Ive never even gotten the chance to build it. Which is also sad. But im still struggling trying to get to the point and i keep failing. I wish "something, or someone" could say something to me that would console me.

[@brandysevans8419]

My children, my health, your video!!

[@LuluAgan]

Brandys Evans Thanks for watching Brandys! We have so much to be grateful for! 🙏💕

[@teganflyman5352]

The truth is there is no idea what is going to happen to us.

[@unlimitedglobal]

I have lost everything and have no home no money no job no friends I do have my 20 year vehivle but I have lost people places things and my interest in living

[@Waynes_Travels]

I'm ready to give up. There is a limit to how much pain one human can take trust me

[@johannpsaila]

God bless all, we all good through stuff, I had one house paid off at 30 top of the world, one project went belly up and started from nothing again at 33, just turned 37, have just bought a new home a year ago with a 30% down payment and 150k on cash we can all do this

[@lindiwendabana2408]

This motivates me, thank you so much for sharing.

[@johannpsaila]

@@lindiwendabana2408 Keep pushing !!!!

[@crownsofbeauty2336]

Your Universe is called God the creator of all things. He gives and takes a way at his free will. God is love and the love that pour to orhers come from being thankful for his mercy

[@Ohthatscrazytea10]

My situation is the opposite. I know I’m very late lol but I have everything when it come to like a car a house food and extra materials that keeps me happy but I have no one. Not a friend, a family member, a bf nothing. I constantly lose people in my life and I really try to make friends and keep people around but I simply can’t. It’s a terrible feeling not feeling wanted by anyone and I’m always a second choice. Any advice?

[@sheilariley1261]

I was forced to downsize 4 months ago and the depression is horrid. Im 67 but now Im working 2 pt jobs because my Ss pays for necessities only.

[@unapologeticfeminine]

Hugging you. I feel so much angst about returning to the workforce after being able to be home based for so long. I feel so ungrateful to even complain but it's so uncomfortable for me. May we both experience unexpected and overwhelming grace to move through our every day a little more lightly.

[@LuluAgan]

Aloha Sheila - checking in to see how things are going now.

[@tnmusic5397]

Lulu Agan....how did you finally deal with your loss my sister?

[@JL-uo1di]

I am not doing well. I need someone to talk to. I need help. I don't know what to do.

[@LuluAgan]

I'm so sorry to hear that. Have you considered reaching out to a professional that can guide you through your suffering?

[@oddjob7821]

I just dont want to wake up.

[@LuluAgan]

Aloha Dave - I understand that feeling and I know taking even the tiniest steps can seem really hard. One thing that really helped me was to think about someone or something that counts on me showing up in the world. Perhaps it is a loved one, a child, your career, a dear friend. That accountability to someone or something else gave me the inspiration to take one inspired step. It got me out of my own way and moving in the right direction. Also, know that there's help out there. Perhaps you can join a support group and get some therapy? You do matter Dave. Don't forget this....

[@ritafountaine4824]

That nothing I’m on the street my 22 year old died…I lost my home

[@MWorsa]

😓

[@jackyfrom_usa522]

WHAT WILL I DO???? I CHOSE WRONG COLLEGE and i cant go back its in different country the place i stay is terrible and noisy

[@LuluAgan]

Wow Jacky - I'm sorry to hear this. How can you make the most of your situation? Can you look past the negative elements and focus on what is going right?

[@ashwannibakshi4546]

My story from you

[@dogoshin9337]

So you did not lose everything. Trust me, when you lose everything, you have nothing left. Not even a friend. Your friends are there for you. Very rich ones giving you a beautiful home. Try losing everything and not having friends or family to fall back on like you have. Try making this video then.

[@Mma-Guy]

You lost me at friends 🤷‍♂️ it's what I've lost and people can't go on without a support system and community, I have literally no friends and I never thought my life would come to this but it is, and wow it is just not worth living a life without friends truly. So what do you do from there?

[@peacehope7365]

I'm sorry to read your comment 😔 I hope you're OK?

[@Mma-Guy]

@Peace Hope doing much better right now thank you ❤️

[@CarolineYounger]

This is not losing everything, if you still had family and friends, that is something and that is huge. I mean no disrespect, but that isn't losing everything.

[@LuluAgan]

I can understand your point Caroline. I feel it's all about perception because we never lose everything if we are still alive. With the lose of my husband, home / business, savings, a few friends for me this was a rock bottom and at that time if felt like I lose everything. When I turned to gratitude I realized that I had my breath, I'm still alive, and yes, I have family and friends. That help me shift things and I hope it does the same for anyone that stumbles on my video.

[@ry77801]

Powerful Testimony ❤️‍🩹 Thanks for sharing

[@Charbear25]

I recently lost my job...my car...and soon my home....im so lost...i have absolutely no money....i dunno what to do....this video helped me....thank you for it!!🥺🫶🏾🙏🏽

[@lucyjo4448]

I pray things are getting better for you since posting 🙏🏽

[@Charbear25]

@@lucyjo4448 it did!! It got worse before it got better....i ended up in a shelter and my cats got fostered till i got my life back together....we ended up moving out of state started a new life and i have a great job....life is definitely a Rollercoaster lmao...but it all was a learning and humbling experience!! Thank you for your kind words! I hope your life is better as well!