This whole process seems so enabling with everyone else doing the work while Sandra kicks back and seems to enjoy the whole thing as a social event. There doesn't seem to be any incentive for change when the cheerful cleaners will just show up again when the hoard builds back up.
@cassandraknight8804Ай бұрын
I somewhat agree, I think she wants them to help her sell the stuff…. Seriously 😟
@DVD927Ай бұрын
I think she’s very lonely.
@NyarlathothepАй бұрын
In the American version of Hoarders they embarrass and demean them in front of the cameras, and pay for thier therapy afterwards, but they still revert to the same behavior.
@melanieallen8980Ай бұрын
she needs counseling
@alinehunt28319 күн бұрын
She did have some surgeries so she might not be able to do the kind of lifting required for this clean. But yeah, she's getting to micromanage in a way that's probably not best
@ruthfoster7939Ай бұрын
The ladies that want to help her are wonderful
@Ccamero123Ай бұрын
Having a friend with this addiction I’ve given up cleaning and organizing her house. I just stand in the door and wait for her. I can’t do it anymore.
@Nika-bp2tsАй бұрын
"The whole place has got to be done!!!" Sandra says and does little...
@Ccamero123Ай бұрын
It’s so disgusting. I don’t want my home attached to hers!
@stephaniehuthmacher4214Ай бұрын
Compared to American hoarders her home is pristine!!! Here in the US there are usually mice and rats and roaches and spiders and fruit flies and just plain FILTH, with non-functional bathtooms and kitchens.
@brigidspencer5123Ай бұрын
Yes but she has moths and moth maggots!
@DVD927Ай бұрын
Shopping addiction needs to be handled then the hoarding
@Nancy-px7hnАй бұрын
Sandra's home is a shambles. I hope she gets professional counseling for her hoarding disorder.
@LunafallsАй бұрын
This is nothing compared to some of the American episodes. Sandra's house was cluttered, but NOT squalid with rotting food, pet and human waste, etc.
@angelabeninger2298Ай бұрын
Raid everywhere, that poor dog
@Ccamero123Ай бұрын
I know. Poor little thing.
@patsy-hm9rgАй бұрын
i wonder what her income is that she can just buy buy buy
@einahsirro1488Ай бұрын
I wonder that about a lot of them.
@MarigoldmimiАй бұрын
They said she was a legal clerk and is now retired. She probably worked her whole life.@@einahsirro1488
@EsterHorbach-it9tbАй бұрын
Well, a shopping addiction is one thing, but I think the problem is she compensates that she's lonely and has got nothing useful to do with her time. Maybe supporting less fortunate (, financially speaking) people or finding a hobby she loves (not shopping). I know from my own experience with hoarders that cleaning up for them doesn't help in the long run without them seeing the problem(s). She says it's annoying not finding things. She doesn't say it's too much stuff and that it's ruining her beautiful home. I hope she gets the psychological help she needs, because it's not the life anyone should be living.
@wildlifegardenssydney7492Ай бұрын
I think she needs to do a course. Buried in Treasures based on the book for Hoarders. It includes NON shopping trips, (distress tolerance exercises) and lots of insight building. If she only bought food dog food and toilet paper and paid her bills and rates. If she put the rest in a term deposit so she does not touch it. Otherwise it looks like she needs a money manager….as she is so quickly rehoarding after having it all done with so much assistance previously.
@kathygarner1383Ай бұрын
Sandra is sitting on her watoosi when the the Divas do all the work. She doesn’t appear to be ready to let go of stuff!
@em-dy3hnАй бұрын
She won't. She'll get right back t it as soon as they are gone. She said, "Oh it's echoey and empty". Red flag!
@crazycat4695Ай бұрын
That's why I do curb side pick up at Walmart especially!! To easy to over spend when I go in!!
@jb6712Ай бұрын
That voice...like listening to rough rocks being dragged down a chalkboard! I don't understand why, in the British/UK version of this show, the hoarder just sits around and does nothing, and the cleaners do every last bit of work. The hoarder never learns one single thing of value, and as another commenter pointed out, she's just going to fill the cleared out space up aqain. Probably already has, this episode having been done in late 2021-ish.
@brigidspencer5123Ай бұрын
If they help then they just get in the way. Plus having a mental disorder has nothing to do with learning anything.
@alinehunt28319 күн бұрын
I like that this version of the show trusts the subjects to talk intelligently about how they experience life and how their illness works. It allows them to explain in their own words and provides clarifications from people with professional perspectives, and any progress is victory no matter what might happen next. I'm sure the events are brightened up somewhat but producers but they people who are on this show always come off as pretty comfortable talking as opposed to the dramatic american version which does some of this but in a less kind way. Anyway just be good to people even when they're not good
@RR4kindnessАй бұрын
I always say to my kids, if you want to find something, clean up. Imagine if she spent 2 hours cleaning up instead of looking for something. But I understand, it's not that simple. i wish her well.
@Helen-l3iАй бұрын
If she is willing to sell her belongings for a dime on the dollar and her primary concern is to pass the stuff on she can be successful, that is what I do with stuff I don't want anymore, or find a good charity shop that actually gives back to the community instead of a profit secondhand shop, both of these choices are very rewarding to me
@dianeoriander8276Ай бұрын
Here in Australia we have op shops that are by charities, great places to shop
@ntakovacj3644Ай бұрын
I don't have a lot of confidence that she'll succeed. She loves the open space; will she want to fill it now? What is the plan for finding an activity that is satisfying and not harmfully addictive?
@cassandraknight8804Ай бұрын
Yes, she needs therapy
@marichenmarais1654Ай бұрын
It is shocking to see how much money people are willing to waste on meaningless things. Rather contribute toward charities reaching out to the poor, homeless or veterans suffering from PTSD.
@user-lj6nv4lh4dАй бұрын
She has a lot of money but cannot hire one maid😅😅😅😅
@LunafallsАй бұрын
A maid would run the other way. They cannot clean with that much stuff filling the rooms.
@Ccamero123Ай бұрын
Semi attached! That means any creepy crawlers will be shared!
@GodLovesYou1980Ай бұрын
Thank you
@MsJackster88Ай бұрын
I know that hoarding is a mental disorder and when I watch these shows, I have full empathy for the person who is fighting their inner demons. But there's something about Sandra that tells me she craves the attention she is getting for this disorder. To have a team bring your home back to a livable condition and then refill it again goes beyond comprehension. Maybe it's me being judgmental... for some reason Sandra irritates the hell out of me and doesn't seem genuine.
@carlotta4th14 күн бұрын
She never had balance in her life. Her life was her work--100 hours a week! She lost that, she just found a new obsession to delv fully into.
@madhatter909Ай бұрын
lovely ladies
@melanieallen8980Ай бұрын
😂😂 to spend2hours to try 2find something, it quicker2 go2 the shops!! So true!❤😂
@CarolFremel-my4hsАй бұрын
I would clean that place up no trouble - however I’d never let my place get like that 😂
@jessicavorhies7703Ай бұрын
I think she layered everything all over the house and clamed that she's a horder, just to get people to do it all. The reason I think this is because the horders I've seen, their homes are absolutely disgusting. Full of dirt, old food, mold, webs, anything else you could think of. I've even seen carpets haved to be pulled out. So that's why I thought that. All her boxes and stuff is clean, even the floor.
@LunafallsАй бұрын
There are degrees of hoarding; Sandra's situation was relatively tame. It seems to me her underlying problem is compulsive shopping.
@carlotta4th14 күн бұрын
She's a horder (moth infestation and all), she's just only had 3 years to fill it because they already cleaned it out.
@gillianbrookwell1678Ай бұрын
These hoarders complain about how messy their homes are; they can't find anything and how they hate living like they do, but it's themselves that have created this mess. Stop wallowing in self pity, and clean up your act!
@em-dy3hnАй бұрын
IN AA, there is a saying, "Self-awareness avails us nothing". After Step 1, you have to do the next step, and the next, and so on. Most people who suffer from any addiction are aware they have one. Almost none will ever recover.
@dianeoriander8276Ай бұрын
Take your dog out side away from moth spraying.
@alanbirkner1958Ай бұрын
September 2024. She needs years of therapy. Tina, Al's wife
@cynthiahawkins2389Ай бұрын
Has she undergone treatment? Has she explored this compulsion in therapy? Is she ready to make any changes? Guess not...I suspect this is just 'her chance to be on telly as a star?" Ugh...
@em-dy3hnАй бұрын
Sadly, most of these people, if not all, will go right back to hoarding afterwards.
@DVD927Ай бұрын
This is making me sick
@acooperismАй бұрын
Hoarding is a better addiction than alcohol....right?
@crazycat4695Ай бұрын
Honestly I don't care for little nick nacks!! They just collect dust and I don't need the extra work!!
@lauramason97Ай бұрын
Take up a hobby and take up a craft like art or sewing or building puzzles or gardening!
@RR4kindnessАй бұрын
or working at a charity?
@griffin2263Ай бұрын
it is all junk and junk and more junk ! toss the lot of it ..all piles of just stuff
@HerbertBeau-z4rАй бұрын
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@mymail1938Күн бұрын
Daughter of a hoarder myself. There was also a huge moth investation in the entire house. I am still very scared of months and maggots.