I had left the toxic environment with my dad and aunt and unfortunately I had to come back to it :( Now I'm dealing with it all over again.. :( I want to be away from it for good and start healing. I'm dealing with the frustration, heartache , anger of having to come back to this crap because of financial reasons. :(
@Kathleen-bk1rk4 ай бұрын
I just happened to read ur comment and it was like I was reading my journal.. also totally related to financial. I totally relate to the utter frustration and anger. I'm just so burnt out after 3 plus yrs of this insanity that I'm about to do something drastic
@LindaStokes-ff2kv4 ай бұрын
@@Kathleen-bk1rk the harder I try to get out of this situation the worse it gets to finally be able to break free from it. So frustrating.. :(
@Yishai3774 ай бұрын
I honestly wish I had some type of wisdom to pass on to help you deal with this. All I can think of is to practice the Gray Rock method.
@LindaStokes-ff2kv4 ай бұрын
@@Yishai377 thank you. I am trying to avoid them at all times. I try not to talk to them unless it's just necessary. Only one or two words given on my part... I just hope that my financial situation improves very soon.. :(
@Yishai3774 ай бұрын
@@LindaStokes-ff2kv In the name of Jesus, you'll be fine. Do not let them invoke an emotional response from you. That is their fuel.
@katrinanoel41104 ай бұрын
Right on time Kevin! I needed this! Thank you❤.
@Yishai3774 ай бұрын
Sometimes I don't know who I'm more angry with. My ex narc or myself for putting up with it for so long.
@mercedesmoreno36074 ай бұрын
Yea. Me too.
@Us-eq5ok4 ай бұрын
And still missing them after knowing why we left over and over. So frustrating
@Steve1972014 ай бұрын
What a beautiful location! Where is that, Kevin?
@arianasha4 ай бұрын
Kevin this is absolutely TRUE ! Brilliant..
@privateprivate83664 ай бұрын
There is ALWAYS a way to be angry with narcissists. I’m the type of person, who can be angry with a person, for what I think they potentially might do. But, I was angry, for the decades wasted, not understanding I was probably being abused, insidiously, by my covert mother. I was angry for what she might be capable, if I were even more empathetic. I was angry about why she likely wanted to have happen to me, which was not just death, but a miserable one. I was angry with what caused her to be that way. I was angry because, although I never returned, I knew the possibility of me doing so. I was angry to discover that most people thought she had the right to be abusive to her daughters. I was angry because me sister also felt she had that right. I was angry because of likely lost opportunities, concerning love, career and health.
@BR-cd2cl4 ай бұрын
Always brilliant! Thank you Kevin! Love where you’re walking.
@beth35354 ай бұрын
Agree. The anger, for me anyway, turned to resolve. The latter prevented me from engaging, showing anger, taking the bait, and worse. Character assignation with just about anyone he could reach…the schools, the kids parents, friends I had introduced him to, professional services…the works. Once we were finally physically separated and divorced, he played the kids for years. But the surprise and reactive anger wasn’t there; I mostly recognized a new low and thanked the lord that I was free of it.
@reverentalexanderchezeley-63674 ай бұрын
You wouldn't be human if you didn't have them. God gets angry at evil, we're made in His image, so should we get angry at evil. Thanks Kevin.
@Senoritagata-nu5te4 ай бұрын
This makes sense now but there is something deeper. Gods judgement. I am afraid of not forgiving because I will be judged for dying in my sin of unforgiveness
@reverentalexanderchezeley-63674 ай бұрын
@@Senoritagata-nu5te Dear Seno. My apologies for the late reply, I trust your well. No Christian can die in the "sin of unforgiveness." Christ has paid the penalty of all of humanity's sins in thought, word and deed on the Cross. All of God the Father's judgement of humanity was laid upon Jesus on that Cross. He bore our sins in His holy body so that we don't pay for them after we die. Such is the deep deep love of Jesus. Their all paid for by Christ who loved us and died for us. May I suggest you ask the Lord to soften your heart and help you to forgive. He loves to help His children. Your forgiving them for your mental well being, peace of mind see, and the dissolving of any bitterness and resentment you may or may not have. Though these things are understandable, bitterness and resentment rot our souls. Forgiveness is about you be emotionaly free, not them who hurt you, they couldn't give a damn whether you forgive them or not. Hope that helps my fear friend. I'll be praying for you. Kind regards. God bless you. Reverend Alexander B. Eley BA Honours Degree Theology. Wales, Great Britain.
@pyewacket78834 ай бұрын
Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
@suesipp25754 ай бұрын
I love it~~ your focus is where you belong
@lydiabergmann45214 ай бұрын
What a nice place to have a place to have a relaxing walk! Reminds me to the example of Jesus taking his deciples on a walk through the fields teaching them. This lesson is really for a deeper understanding giving us a key to leave the prison we may be in. The new freedom is like a walk on a lake.💦 God bless🙏💛
@MichaelKorsaknov-eh8gd4 ай бұрын
Thank you my friend ❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@casideedaun10414 ай бұрын
Oh i needed to hear this so so bad. I want him to pay me back. Im homeless to get away.
@suesipp25754 ай бұрын
such a great insight~~ so cool!! YEs!!
@lisazidlick16504 ай бұрын
Excellent! A home run! Back to the trough for the last time and it feels Great! ❤❤❤
@crazycats5354 ай бұрын
This is the coolest video 🎉
@EdithCasines4 ай бұрын
What if that person is your daughter??
@nedina09264 ай бұрын
Or your son !
@Stoic_Horo4 ай бұрын
Build a community around you join a bowling club garden club computer club and church to build a group of good people about you and re-wire your child together. Remember to say no to them to help them grow. I know it's a bit like tough love but you can support them as they run through thier emotional response. Keep people about you when ever your child visits your home.
@saluma14474 ай бұрын
Hi Kevin, where are u recording at?
@BIGKUDOS4 ай бұрын
This video is so elevating and I can certainly resonate thank you for the share and caring of others❣️
@larshesthaven58284 ай бұрын
The turning point for me was the narcs smear campains, the lies, rage, back stapping, paranoia and my daughters enormous stupidity, ignorance and inhumanity... I stayed with the narc mother for extra one year to be with my daughter and hoped I could take my daughter with me ...infortunately I was not allowed to take my daughter with me in order to save her life from being mentally, physically and spiritually abused by the narc mothers sickness. My daughter is 10.000 km away from me in a country where the whole system is rotten and corruptive, and they have no clue what narcissism is. And besides they dont care to find out what a narc monster can come up with hurting an innocent child with severe mental narc abuse...its a criminal act ...you are right about anger etc. Two times I got so angry that it came to my mind killing the narc mother and do it with no regret to save me and my daughter. When that anger feeling turned up it was the cups overflow and I decided to go home to my own country to heal my wounds. The narc mother still has her poisonous claws glued onto my daughters body, mind, brain, heart, soul and spirit. When I talk with my daughter face to face I can now see her joy, laughter and light disappering...its heartbreaking
@larshesthaven58284 ай бұрын
The narc mothers stupudity and ignorance it should be
@TheHelenhunter4 ай бұрын
It's definitely criminal.
@TheHelenhunter4 ай бұрын
If I wouldn't be angry that would mean that I agree.
@vivianeprudentiabuelens91424 ай бұрын
Kevin I just want peace ☮️ at last , they are totally crazy , and I can’t get him out ! In Belgium 🇧🇪there 3:59 is no law against narcissistic people ! I hate no one , I just want out ……! 4:57
@Birdie-m8o4 ай бұрын
I need counseling/support here, if I can get it. Don't want to go to Frontier Health or any other counseling dirty that I know I can't trust for help & answers
@Birdie-m8o4 ай бұрын
-deity-
@lezangrobbler53494 ай бұрын
Thank you👑✨
@suesipp25754 ай бұрын
I love that jacket~~~
@margaretsnewtoylynnparks53364 ай бұрын
His chair is NICE too!!!!
@rockinrobinsnest4 ай бұрын
My brother and his flying monkey wife!
@Snezanah4 ай бұрын
It's like you need to be Jesus Christ or Mother Mary to survive in a holy way a narc a psychopath and all these insane individuals.
@TheHelenhunter4 ай бұрын
Yeah 😅
@richellepeace44574 ай бұрын
I petition that the seeds of the flying monkeys are sold into bondage. I lost what I loved because of peoples games so can they...
@Evajiv4 ай бұрын
Are you only carrying a shadow of a stick???
@divinelightlounge4 ай бұрын
✨👑✨
@rajwinderkaur77864 ай бұрын
People are sending the videos. I didn't demand for his message.
@rajwinderkaur77864 ай бұрын
People are repeating again and again his I'll treat this is not good. I didn't want to say more about wanna and his family. Please you don't mind .
@mikepapadopoulos59684 ай бұрын
Good thing you are outside walking instead of being inside smoking cigars like a thug.