HOMEMAKING DAY IN THE LIFE //DECORATE, COOKING, BAKING, ORGANIZING, GARDENING AND MY FASTIC JOURNEY!

[@LaurenNicholsen]

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[@Banyo__]

Thank you for your message to the moms out there. My mom was a working mom in the 80s when the majority of other moms around her were homemakers who often put pressure on her that she was supposed to be making our lunches from scratch and needed to be more involved and present for a lot of the school events when she was working. She always hated that and had a lot of guilt thinking she was not a good mom or needed to do more and as a result, often over extended herself. Messages like this are great because one method of being a mom doesn't work for all and we should give mom's the grace to figure out motherhood in the best way they know how.

[@mariapoca00]

I currently deal with this. It’s hard the women at work have NO kids or older kids and most ppl in my neighborhood and on KZbin don’t have to work a job outside of the home. I appreciate Lauren as she’s done both with the 9-5 having a boss and now she is self employed. So her schedules inspired me. I totally get how your mom felt 🫤

[@Banyo__]

@mariapoca00 my heart goes out to you. I think in those tough moments just ask yourself are your kids happy, your partner if you have one, yourself...these are what matter and not their opinions.

[@louisechartrand5672]

As a full time stay at home momma of 4 boys ranging in age from 11 to 24 & 2 with special needs, I understand this pressure. In todays society I feel that things have switched & now working moms are more the rule & stay at home moms the exception. Even though I am super busy with our own family I also help a ton with my aging parents & special needs nephew. Despite this I receive regular comments about being lazy ( because I don't have a paycheck) or questions about what I do all day, or you must know all the good shows to binge .... It is sad that people judge moms. It's literally the hardest job no matter how you chose to live it. We all love our children & want to do whats best for them.

[@Banyo__]

@louisechartrand5672 yes, this 100%. I'm sorry you're going through that but you know who you are and what you do for others. People are going to think and say what they want but we all need to remind ourselves whose opinions ACTUALLY matter. Keep doing what you are doing. You've got this!

[@louisechartrand5672]

Awww thank you so much! That means a lot ❤

[@johannasanto5902]

Being a single mom trying to juggle it all your message was everything. Made me feel a whole lot better today, Thank You!

[@tadeuszoltarzewski]

I'm sure your a great Mother, yes it's the hardest work we will do. 👏👏 From Rosie O 🇬🇧

[@vickiglow2009]

You inspire me in my season of life. I was a busy mom in the 80’s and 90’s and now that I’m finally retiring from my career, I look forward to baking bread for the first time, starting at least an herb garden, cooking nice meals and experimenting with new recipes and learning Spanish. It’s never too late to start living the life you’ve always wanted.

[@christiankbro]

Thank you for the encouragement regarding not pressing yourself to be "all the things" and doing "all the things" right now for our families. As people change and grow, priorities change and grow too. And that's okay. It's about the journey. I love your channel Lauren, so happy I found you last year!!! Been encouraged with your videos ever since. 🩷🩷🩷

[@jennypf4389]

As a mom with two little ones, thank you for your honesty and your words of encouragement. It’s so hard to find the time to make the big meals and do all the decorations that I used to love to do but you’re right, my kids just want to spend time with me right now and don’t care about that lasagna that took me two hours 😊

[@Neelie4]

Love your honesty about home making with young kids ❤ you're right- they wont remember if you make homemade lasagna or bread from scratch. Spending time with them is more important

[@jenniferwagoner3134]

I have two boys, the oldest is 8 and the youngest is 1. Sometimes I feel like a failure because everything isn't pintrest perfect so thank you for your message. It's nice to know that I'm not the only mom that just doesn't have time for all the extra stuff. My youngest is always on my heels and climbs my legs while I'm doing the dishes lol I'm lucky to just keep my house clean, let alone make homemade pasta!

[@kimmbond2052]

Hey Lauren, One garden tip. Your plants have lots of foliage which you would think is good. However, I always prune my tomato plants so only the stems that grow at a 90 degree angle are left. The plant can’t support all the foliage AND make fruit. Hope this helps.❤️

[@savannahdrum]

Lauren, thank you so so so much for talking about moms with younger kids. I’m 37 and have a 1 and 3 year old. I love mommy vloggers but it can definitely make you feel inadequate sometimes 😅 it’s so encouraging to hear what you said. It’s all I can do to keep them safe and entertained at the moment, let alone keep a clean house and make homemade meals all the time. After my first was born I used to watch other moms with their 3rd newborn and cry because somehow they could take care of their babies and had the energy to take care of their other children, clean house and even put makeup on and I felt like such a failure. It took having a second to realize that with more kids comes more knowledge which can make things a ✨little✨easier. Anyways, just wanted you to know, thank you.

[@pamelamaurer2076]

I really like the way you were honest in this video of how you want to structure their days and are used to doing every for them but the difficulty of letting go. That is real life

[@LoriBarbour]

Thank you, Lauren, for speaking to the pressures that so many can often feel to somehow, not just do it all, but to do it all prefectly. 🙌 My boys are ones that I can never get anything done while they are around. I have never been away from them, we have little to no help, my husband works all the time since I currently don't, and they did not go to any day care, etc. at first, my health has been rough, and oh yes, of course there was that hell called COVID... My point is my kids are five and three, and just the other week they finally started to go into another room, and even a different level of the house some to play on their own. I have been lucky to just keep my head above water while trying desperately to catch up on life from before we had children and I worked 50-60 hour weeks. You are so right that being able to do it all is crazy, feeling like you have to or should is ridiculous for you and and your family. Thank you again for knowing this and caring enough to take the time to say it. As always, you are my favorite, and I consider you a dear ("Tube" 😉) friend! ❤

[@mc5366]

LOVE your honesty and real life with kids, cooking and your Rude chickens 😂I always look forward to your videos. Thank you!!

[@bellefaith1627]

Thank you for the amazing advice for moms with young children out there. I so appreciate it as this is so affirmative for someone who has other priorities like being present with young kids other than all things handmade cooking. It’s so very wise. Thank you!

[@vanessamartinez4679]

God I love how honest you are. Thank you for your real advice about the early years of your motherhood. I have adult and teens now and yes I can say that I can do so much more when they grow up!!!

[@donnaryan9365]

Cannot believe how well your countertops are holding up! Morning routine? Walk 45 mins. Shower and coffee. Then onto a myriad of chores, projects. You have inspired me since day #1. But I am definately related to.youvas far as neatness and constantly redecorating adding, moving things around . It's a skill

[@mariawilliams1314]

Great video Lauren! I am a 68 year old grandmother but really appreciated your encouragement to young moms out there. I couldn’t help but laugh when you said you were not going to do much but add a dew flags you your table! 😂 So I was expecting flags in a few vases but you went full out with a beautiful tablescape! I think the flags were great along with the other decor. I will say Lauren you make everything look so easy. 😊❤😊🇺🇸🧨🌻

[@bethanyfranklin966]

Lauren, thank you so much for what you said to Moms with little kids. I have a 2.5 year old and just adopted a newborn and I feel like even though I love my life and my kids, it’s easy to feel guilty for not doing all the homemaking things. Thanks for the reminder that my kids want me to lay on the floor and play with them, not make them homemade bread all the time. Thank you - you’re the best.

[@kimberlyr872]

I honestly didn’t notice your sweater was on inside out. Lol Love the black and white tank top wore in the second half of the video. It’s so pretty! I laughed when pointed out all the flag decor you used. I did the same but with stars. 😂 Thank you for sharing your story of parenting with little ones. We always put so much pressure on ourselves thinking we need to do it all. I started looking for videos on moms getting things done with kids (especially little ones) the end of 2019 because I felt like I wasn’t doing enough and was my own worst enemy. KZbin moms like you, Brianna k, and Kim Wads helped me realized that I need to be more in the moment and present with my kids instead of worrying about things that can wait. I’m so thankful for the KZbin moms who are here to help motivate and encourage moms to be more present and remind us we are not alone.

[@victoriawolfe686]

You have pickling cucumbers! Delicious. Pick them wearing gardening gloves and just rub them between your hands for a few seconds. The prickles will rub right off, and then you can keep a jar of refrigerator pickles around to snack on!

[@trudysenglishvictorianhome3244]

You have such a beautiful heart Lauren! Such a sweet message for all those young Mamas!! 💕💕💕💞. Those meatballs look delicious 😋!! I've never had them with Chicken Thighs.

[@jeanieturner5183]

Your table scape turned out adorable. I get so excited to see a video pop up . I enjoy all your videos.

[@BClanBeauty]

I got into home making once I was no longer working full time. I would cook meals for my family nightly after work, but there wasn’t much effort in the making many items from scratch. Eating out or takeaway was a 3 night event…now it’s rare. Sometimes it takes time to get into a rhythm that works and I finally found mine after being a mom for thirteen years. Thanks for sharing this because sometimes moms will look at you and think that it’s impossible, when it may just take time.

[@cherylbrake1643]

Lauren, you are so uplifting and have such a beautiful soul! I just love watching your videos! Have a great day!

[@jpalms7163]

Loved the reminder to be inspired not compare! Love your videos as always!

[@Croberts3190]

I love your voice! It’s so calming and soothing. You’re an inspiring homemaker and I love your design and decor. Thank you for sharing!

[@allieF714]

Can I just say I don't have kids and I love this channel. Your food always looks great and its just lovely, peaceful and friendly and full of love to watch you create for you family. I think of my parents and the memories of them. I think of my mom. I amthe youngest of four in my family. My older sister and twin siblings were busy and even though I got along great with my sisters and brother, there was a age gap so I did a lot with my folks. One of the many memories I cherish is decorating the windows and house for the holidays with my mom. She had the cute vintage cut outs for the windows which I love still. Xmas was my dad's holiday since his bday was in December. I do struggle with weight and health issues so I hoped to see more of your intermittent fasting which I'm trying with no success. I think my 😬 stress does not help but just to get inspired and not completely copy since we are different but have inspiration. I love when you talk about your stuff as well. Thank you for your inspiration keep it up Amiga.

[@tadeuszoltarzewski]

Spot on Lauren. Being present in our children's lives is most important. You have the best balance. Quote from a great home cook here in London, Nigella Lawson, "Life is too short to stuff a mushroom" 😂Keep up the great videos hunny bunny 🐰. Sending ❤to you and the family. From Rosie O from Devon England 🇬🇧👌😍

[@jessicasmith9599]

Thank you for saying something to us moms with little ones. You’re inspirational and I want to be able to do so many things, but it’s just impossible and I definitely feel like a failure or like I’m slacking bc I’m not doing as much as I would like or even as much as moms with only one kid (I have four from 8months to 6 years old and my husband left us, so it’s a lot!) thank you for all of your inspiration.

[@CarmenPerez-pm9dd]

Lauren ❤ you are such an inspiration to all moms out there including me. Your children and hubby are beyond blessed to have u 👍you are Wonder Woman and the Duracell energizer bunny at the same time what an incredible positive energy you have that’s why your children are learning from you that’s wonderful. Your hubby sounds like a cool dad too. Beautifully done in your home decor cooking inspirar with your garden and meal preps and organization in all u do. May God bless u always with health love and new creations always ❤😊

[@ashleyevans1969]

Thank you for that encouraging message. It's so hard to balance being a mom and taking care of everything else. I struggle with feeling guilty about not spending enough time with my kids or not spending enough time doing stuff around the house. I just want to say I love your videos!

[@thesearethedays9398]

Thank you for this! I’m in the trenches with 3 young kids and I always wondered how you do it all. I just have to wait a little longer till they’re more independent and then I’d love to take on the things you do! Congrats on momming! You are an excellent homemaker!!

[@carrollgirl547]

So great of you Lauren to share the reality of mothering infants/toddlers. Great video as always

[@VIVASTYLEBYNB1]

Thanks, dear for your kind message to all mothers. Believe every mother should not feel guilty about working or staying at home. Both ways it is not easy particularly when you are a solo mother or have zero domestic support for a partner. You are a great mother and your family here (us) value you also.

[@sharonhayduk2424]

Great video as usual!! I’m glad you and your family had a wonderful 4th. ❤

[@coracarp3819]

Love your perspective on kids, work, cooking and home!

[@shirleygardner7456]

So so true! Enjoy every second with those babes because with the blink of an they are grown! I was fortunate enough to be able to stay home with our three. My husband worked two jobs that enabled me to do so. We had the best time. Some days we would meet my husband at a park during his lunch hour for a picnic and sometimes we would meet him at a restaurant. Our kids are grown now and have kids of their own. I was fortunate enough to be a big part of my grandkids lives and we did so much together and wet a lot of places. Two of them just graduated high school this past June and the other one is a senior this coming year. Time has definitely flown by. So spend all the time you can with those precious little ones. They’ll remember it and you won’t regret a minute of it I promise you!!!

[@gwenseawell2426]

Hi Lauren,enjoyed the video the table scape was beautiful very Patriotic! Your garden looks really good.

[@lesliedemarco1691]

Hi Lauren! I love waking up and finding a new video from you!

[@willothewispl]

Love all the flags on the patio and the umbrella, very cute and festive. That dinner looks scrumptious. God Bless.

[@kellyroy7248]

Hi Lauren! I love your message about being present while kids are very little. I totally agree. I wasted A LOT of time trying to be the perfect home maker when my first two kids were babies/toddlers. When my third was born I chose to slow all that down and focus on being a mom. It was the best decision I ever made. Simple home made meals instead of 3 hour 4 course meals. Babies are only babies once 💗

[@JimLaw-kw2en]

Well not the life insurance so I don't think of something better

[@lindawillis9460]

Ah Laureen, It is so sweet of you to tell the other moms that you were not doing all you do now when your children were younger. It is so nice for moms to not beat themselves up thinking they should be a super mom when it is not realistic... Also love you being in front of the camera talking to us more. Love the new format! You really are so personable and it is showing more and more!

[@rachellemoorman760]

Thank you so much for this video and even more-your wonderful advise about motherhood. All of our journeys are so very different and you do an amazing job of promoting lifting each other up and celebrating our differences! I’m so grateful to have found your videos-thank you for all you do!!❤️❤️😘🙏🏻

[@paulettemoss8320]

Hi Lauren. Just wanted to say thank you for your video on your counter tops. My daughter bought a kit for my grand daughters room. I watched your video a couple of times and it was so helpful. It came out beautiful. I didn't do very much veining because my grand daughter is OCD so what I did was perfect. Again thank you. Love your videos!

[@shanseabra]

New mama here, I love your vibe and also your easy going ,Also your mama speech was very encouraging I love that

[@jamiepost8913]

All of your energy inspires me so much! Keep doing what you doing! We love it!

[@lisafriend5535]

Great message for moms. This from a 66 year old grammy. Always love your videos.

[@Tm12589]

That’s so sweet for you to say that to all of US ladies

[@kenadams9056]

Love your channel old enough to be your Grandma.!You bring homemaking to a heartfelt profession!!

[@debbiegiangrandi4672]

Love your channel my daughter is 18, I work as a nurse and was a majority alone my husband worked hospital hours. I always felt I lacked in the cooking and keeping it all together. Your words are encouraging and helpful to moms who struggle with work family life balance. Also what do you use in your coop hay or woodchips we have chickens it is hard to keep coop clean ❤

[@sharondiesen2924]

You are a great person, mentor, and always telling it like it is. It is very encouraging and comforting and I love all of your videos very interesting and informative. Thank you Sharon

[@debbiemccann3711]

Hi Lauren Your table for dinner looked beautiful.I do want to thank you for the activity box for kids with different items.I take care of my great niece on Tuesdays she is 7.Every week since school has let out and she with me from 8-5 she loves to see what is in the box for that day.Thank you for another great video.😊

[@amyberndt6186]

I was taught at 8 years old how to cook, clean and do my whole family’s laundry. I taught my daughter the same thing. She was self sufficient by 9 years old. She did house cleaning, cooking and laundry. I never had to worry about her once she went to college. I personally, thought it was good for her to know. She stayed home by herself and was babysitting, making her own money by 12.

[@robyndismon394]

Children don't need to be self sufficient at 9 yrs of age. That's far too much responsibility at that age. They just need to be children.

[@amyberndt6186]

To each their own. My daughter grew up to be very respectful and responsible. She graduated a 4 year college in 3 years, bought their first home at 21 and second one at 24. She is a very well rounded person who is appreciative for everything she’s ever received. She is an only child and had many privileges. Everyone can choose how to raise their children.

[@robyndismon394]

@@amyberndt6186 No. I disagree. Your daughter could have been equally as successful in many, many ways. She could have travelled the world at 24, immersed herself in any number of interests and curriculums which would add to HER happiness, not yours. The way your daughter lives meets with your approval. She doesn't need your approval nor should she look to you in any form of supplication.. No where did I say she was hurt or burdened. At least I certainly hope not.

[@martivasiliades8407]

Good advice to young moms. You are a good role model !

[@toniacassetta5766]

Thank you Lauren. Did not see the gal’s sight that you were going to post?!

[@angelacox-martin2789]

Loved this one, you seem so much more chilled and happy and honest these days and it's great x

[@lizpunzalan5823]

Thanks for another nice video. And thank you for talking about taking time and just being present with your children especially when they are little. Don’t try to do iit all especially involved cooking. I also have 5 children all close in age and those days when they are little are tough just to keep up. Meals were simple but going to the playground or beach… was more important than a fancy home cooked meal or clean/ decorated house. We also have cats, lots of chickens and 1 horse. Have a blessed day everyone! Happy Summer!

[@genniejefferson6588]

You’re so great at decor. I wouldn’t change a thing. Great cook to.

[@amandadubord2492]

I look forward to your uploads! They make my whole day and motivate us all, so thank you! I can't wait to see your favorite post workout protein shake recipe! Maybe a "whats in my gym bag video?!"

[@iciecobalt]

Love the 🇺🇸 flags. Never can have too many! Loved it loved all the decor!!!

[@judyohara959]

Loved all the flags on the umbrella! What great fun❤️

[@teresahatfield4521]

Lauren. Your summer updates are really fun. Nice to know what you are up to. You keep so busy. You are so inspiring. Thanks for sharing. So nice.

[@tanyavansloun8231]

I needd to hear that! I have a 7 month old and 3 year old and just working on being present

[@donnamcknight3175]

Love your garden! And Yes Acre Homestead is the bomb!

[@Iamhome365]

Love Becky from Acre Homestead. I've never made brioche, something I'd love to have under my belt. Must try it out soon. I make white bread, irish brown bread, scones etc

[@amandapowell7184]

I really appreciated how you spoke about being a mother with young kids. My kids are now getting to the age where I can do things I like and spend the time to bake etc. But I DID NOT have the "bandwith" as you called it when they were super little. And always felt guilty and less than that I didn't do all the things that other moms were doing, especially moms on youtube. I wish I had someone tell me that 10 years ago! 😆Thanks Lauren!

[@thecrossoncottage]

I am currently obsessed with Acre Homestead too! lol! I watch her videos literally every night as my "unwind time" before bed. Something about her and her content is so inspiring and calming! lol

[@kiwanyvillarin5017]

Cannot wait for the content coming! I love your back-to-school year videos! ❤

[@eileenhoffmann701]

Thank you for this video Lauren! I am recovering from Gallbladder surgery and have to just sit and relax.I am sooo happy that I have this video to watch! You really made my day!

[@natalieodle5654]

Such beautiful words of wisdom Lauren ❤ you are a gem.

[@christinenicholls07]

You are amazing! Thank you for the continued inspiration! I hope your dog feels better. ❤️‍🩹

[@debbieunverzagt5379]

Love Becky at Acre homestead. She is awesome. Glad your brioche turned out well.

[@vtec-619]

Good morning Lauren always enjoying the content!!👍☺️

[@mommag3024]

Sometimes when we were little we would play restaurant and would make each other lunch. We would make a menu with different things we would know how to make and then I would make whatever my sister wanted and then she would make my lunch. Usually it was just different types of sandwiches ( lunch meat, PB&J ect...) We had picnics with neighborhood kids too. Just make a sandwich and grab a bag of chips and meet up at a friend's house. Sometimes we'd eat on a blanket in the yard, sometimes we'd hang blankets on a clothes line like a tent and eat in there. I also watch Becky from Acre Homestead. She really got me interested in making my own freezer meals

[@tresannrn8454]

Your very inspirational Lauren. Thank you for sharing such heartfelt content!

[@barbarapeterson8030]

HAPPY WEDNESDAY Lauren, family, and fur babies. Our daughter in law, and oldest son, have the 2 grandblessings, the boy is 4 he does basketball camp every year with PITT; AND Now that that is over he is in T.BALL. The 8 yr old girl does Competitive dance majority of the year; and for Summer she does Dance camp. STTB

[@stardustgirl2904]

I used to my four kids choose in the summer what they would want to do. I let them experience freedom in the summer.

[@joannpergakis4183]

Absolutely beautiful table Your an awesome mother Love your recipes Another incredible veido

[@estelleadamski308]

On Mother's Day I was putting sm garden flag into the ground, almost fell over the edge of the sidewalk, overcorrected myself and injured my knee. I have a torn meniscus, bone bruise & Baker's Cyst. Very painful. So many Dr visits, X-rays, ultrasounds, MRI. I may be facing surgery. So my summer is shot, even before it started! A Bummer, as I love working in my garden.

[@karenfoster8664]

So enjoy your day in the life videos Lauren! You’re so darn cute- love how you offer such great suggestions and ideas- keep up the fabulous content!!!❤

[@kellycospelich9578]

That bread looks AMAZING!!! Great job!

[@LaurenNicholsen]

Thanks so much! 😊

[@ΑΡΙΑΔΝΗΚΟΚΚΙΝΟΘΑΝΟΠΟΥΛΟΥ]

You are amazing person care your family with the best away 💗 happy moments have a great day 💗💮🤍💮🤍💮🤍

[@JimLaw-kw2en]

And that's exactly why i love ins

[@DaRkHoRsE-_-]

Always love a day with you snd the farm Lauren! Never to many flags🎉🎉❤

[@michelleblanton6115]

The sweater inside out ❤ Totally relate! Thanks for keeping it real.

[@thesilverfinch]

Hi Lauren! You inspire me every time I watch you! My kiddos are grown Have 2 grandbabies! We just purchased a wood fire pizza grill. I saw your video you had a pizza night. I'm sure your kids would love to make their own pizzas and bake them in a wood fire pellet grill!! So funny Making memories is what it's all about!!❤

[@kathytappero7179]

As far as the dishes, go… One of the channels I watch, (Moss Gamily TV) has five kids and their family. (Ages 4-18) They have a kitchen help her every day. That person helps at dinner time to either help with the meal or set the table or clear the table or help wash or dry the dishes, whatever is needed. It might be fun in the summer, when your kids don’t have massive amounts of homework, to assign each one to a day and then they get used to the dishes idea when they’re cooking! so neat that you are creating a little gourmets!

[@jeanettejuarez294]

I love to share with you my favorite organic fertilizer Espoma. My second season using it and had huge harvest from my vegetable/berry/ herbs plants. Your garden is looking good 👍

[@cecilia_cherieblossom]

I love what you said about being a mom (even if I'm not one)

[@tracy_222]

Looks beautiful👍🏻🇺🇸love all the flags blowing in the wind🇺🇸tablescape great too🍽️🧨

[@reginaschmiedel5011]

Love Becky @ Acre Homestead. She's awesome. Love you channel too. Beautiful 4th of July decorations.

[@raviharripersad7887]

Love your message wish I had someone told me that when my son was younger. I had to find out this on my own.

[@sharonwilson3529]

As usual thanks for your inspiration. Love your garden, I live in Michigan and have a big garden and grow fresh herbs too 😊

[@marieippolito1620]

Just adorable.

[@karlavedder3139]

I love your channel. I find you incredibly inspiring!!! ❤

[@donnaryan9365]

LOVE ALL OF THE BACK POOL DECK DECO....YOU'RE AN OVER THE TOP CHIC! AND THAT'S OK!!!!

[@samanthagoodwitchcandleco.1313]

Go mama! This year I decided to try and grow jack be little pumpkins and they are out of control! (Idk what I'm doing) 😂 Goodluck the garden. Looks amazing!

[@theresawilloughby9884]

Looks good outdoor Decorating for the 4th of July. ❤❤❤

[@liliethshaw6782]

You are such hard working 💪 person enjoy your video so much ❤️ 💖 beautiful nice work 👌 so sweet

[@fletchfflctch]

You can never go wrong with to many flags😂 festive that's all, still looks great. July 4th is a favorite for us as well. Love to decorate for it till this year when I realized I gave the majority of my decor to my daughter who just moved out, it's her favorite holiday... its ok, new decor and more shopping. For me 😂 For you beautiful garden, try planting the herbs in their o you n pots, it might h er lp bbn out, trim off excess stems and leaves that way all the nutrients will go to the vegetables.