Houston Black Women Are Struggling To Get Dates Because of THIS!

[@SoapBoyFresh]

All these "dating problems" could be easily solved if the women in these cities focused more on a man's character than his wallet.

[@TChalla007]

way to logical for them.

[@kendrickbell8525]

True indeed 💯

[@renwilson6987]

Be careful you’re making too much sense.

[@luvbig41]

Bingo!!!! They will never understand that.

[@larnardholmes]

BIG FACTS 💯💯💯

[@jefferyburgess7291]

I’m from Houston 30, born and raised in South Park/dead end never date a Houston woman. I lucked up and found black lady from a small town in Arkansas. Soft spoken, genuinely sweet and gentle,27 ,no kids she’s not perfect but the best I’ve ever woman that I’ve had the pleasure of being with

[@Barlowh2o]

Same here, from Houston, I'd never take anyone from here serious!

[@Pikian6]

Why black thou? Yall simps never learn, don't come crying to brothas when she does u dirty we'll laugh at u

[@harveyhankerson8359]

I’m from Dallas. And believe it’s everywhere in Texas. I’m so glad I got OUT early. I’m now in Canada.. and it’s ten times better up North.. most of my family left Texas years ago.. because it’s was very expensive to live there. I just missed the BBQ. !! . My homeboy’s there still out there grinding. Still chasing those 304.. !! My goodness !!

[@b9479]

Could you please explain?

[@jefferyburgess7291]

@@b9479 I already did the only thing I left out is stds and Houston is in the top 5 for HIV syphilis, gonorrhea ,chlamydia ,in that order and yes, women are the record holders in these STDs in the city of Houston.

[@JudgmentuponYou]

The worst places to date in America, is America as a whole..

[@antp5611]

Good 👍🏿 Point

[@minowamelvin4549]

I agree

[@feywinterfox9630]

Amen!

[@SnozBerryQueen]

Yup. These men aren't it at all.

[@warriorclassmedia]

Yep

[@shellsopinion5837]

Don’t they have an STD problem down in Houston?

[@alexperry2014]

Yep

[@heavyarmskenobi]

3 for 1

[@potbellibangaz]

The United Snakes have an STD problem . This ENTIRE country is the new Sodom and Ghamora! If I had to date in 2o24, I WOULDN’T! We are living in the days of Noah, and a cleansing is coming, get on the boat!

[@evos469]

A problem 😂😂😂😂 bruh it's plural down there

[@healthyhabits3406]

They have std problem in the United States

[@screamatchaboi]

Big Keisha needs to be in the gym, not dating apps.

[@harveyhankerson8359]

I just at a planet fitness in Houston last week. I’m from California. Dam it’s definitely a big deal out here. My goodness. The females in Texas. Are just plain evil. Not all but most.) hell back in California it was so easy to get some attention.) but in Texas. The females over here are brutal. !!! I was talking to this one chick.. hell she asked me for my ID.. !! My goodness !!

[@blacopsassassin2771]

😂cold...

[@angiesworld8038]

Look how big Oshay is in this video. You can see his titis through his shirt!

[@emmanuele7441]

Body positivity won’t allow them take care of themselves

[@HiHello-wz6bx]

It's crazy how much the dynamics shift for men 25+. After that it definitely seems like it's the women who have to compete. Glad to see you hf brothers figuring this out now and delaying serious relationships till they've hit life goals.

[@michelsummers6108]

STD's, HIV has spiked in ATL and Houston 😟😟😟

[@harveyhankerson8359]

Same here in Detroit !!. No difference.

[@natashalampkin366]

Everywhere

[@Rob_uno]

@@natashalampkin366 hell no phoenix is nowhere near the level of Houston. 1 in every 3 is diabolical

[@terryGrindz_69]

Percs n Mollys.. got errr body being slimy.

[@porkerpete7722]

All predominantly black areas. Maybe not so much Houston though.

[@passportbrosuntied]

Not finding men to date for black women is not finding a simp that will worship them and pay all their bills without getting nothing in return.

[@HiHello-wz6bx]

The men they want didn't get where they are without discipline and consistency. That type of man is not about to partner with someone who desires to come into his life and demand to be the central focus. It's just not healthy or realistic but so many women do this

[@keem7910]

@@HiHello-wz6bxthese girls like street niggas who are bums

[@ms.a806]

Lol😂

[@anthonyarline2951]

💯

[@Mike-sb7yy]

Bottom Line

[@larrys-story-time]

I'm not going on any app named Jigsaw, lol!

[@marshallhowell5828]

🤣☠🤣

[@blacopsassassin2771]

😂😂😮

[@onlymeentertainment]

📠😆😆😆

[@Makeitmakesensejo]

Rightttttttttttt...SAW....bad movie.

[@frederickwalker740]

How about “Chain Saw”?

[@healthyhabits3406]

They have aged out, they was getting tricked on and played the game to long

[@The11Jade]

No

[@ghostwalker89]

​@@The11Jade yes. You got a bunch of 30 somethings still talking about dating and going to clubs. It's over for them.

[@iamme7664]

@@ghostwalker89you got a bunch of 40 something year old GROWN MEN still going to bars and clubs looking for chicks their daughters ages 😂 it’s over for both sides after a certain age but DELUSION keeps everyone going 😊

[@HiHello-wz6bx]

​@@iamme7664A 40 something yr old man with his stuff together and decent game isn't suffering for female encounters. The reality is most men don't reach their financial peak till around 37+ and can date competitively till like 55. And for every 1 of those men their are like 10 women.

[@steadmoney3431]

@@HiHello-wz6bxshe’s so out of her wits she didn’t know what you just said. She was str8 speaking from pure emotion…

[@mrsquirrel8079]

Im from Houston; born, raise, and escaped. Women from Houston have that "Bronx New York" energy. They are not friendly, nor feminine in the least bit and can be extra mean. You know those gold digger videos that seems so fake when the brothers try to talk to a girl and she's rude but all of a sudden becomes nice when she see his car. I use to call B.S. on those videos....until it happened to me when visiting Houston. I admit I was looking dusty as hell that day and a girl walking by. I didn't say a thing to her but she gave me a very dirty gtfafm look.I walked to my car and she all of a sudden comes over to me and asked me for a ride being friendly. I just closed my door and pulled off shaking my head. I say nope to Houston/new york women period.

[@green-t3d]

Black male population in America is over 20 million. 5 Million of them date out especially college educated black men. The black female population is much bigger. This isn't just a Houston issue black women will have this problem everywhere..

[@dariusthegreat3097]

Until they admit there is a problem, then it will get worse. Keep on bashing BM, keep on hating accountability.............BM actually prefer BW first but we have way more options, especially the ones that make money.

[@yessumyessum6624]

There's just too many black women in the world. Heck, too many women period. Wars, homosexuality, prison, and homicides have eliminated much of the male population. All that should be obvious.

[@SteveThomthom]

Bull💩. 1 in 4 black men are not with non black women 😂 absolute cap. The population would look DRASTICALLY different if that was the case. By default, white men, Hispanic and Asian men would be dating interracial in higher figures if that was the case.

[@mateaukalua4426]

And then they only want 6'0 plus guys with money. 😂

[@kassdremusic]

Black women still confused about why they can’t get dates. Yikes

[@thecodetalker5742]

They're not confused. They're in denial.

[@The11Jade]

Yeah no, plenty of black women are either dating or married. This isn’t real life, it’s social media

[@jakejakobz]

Yikes on bikes 😆

[@neon_one_neo3317]

"Most educated demographic"

[@shelles106]

​@@neon_one_neo3317 😂😂😂 you said it!

[@grinchwork]

“if you’re a 10….” delusion. very few of them are 10’s.

[@GOTTA_RUN]

Nobody from the south could be a 10. Best y'all got is a 7

[@b9479]

I've maybe seen only two 10s in my entire life

[@CG-lu8tq]

@@GOTTA_RUNone of the dumbest comments I ever read 🤡

[@PassportGang]

@@CG-lu8tq10s are extremely rare. I saw a 10 one time in Philadelphia. I was driving on the north side and suddenly traffic came to a stop for about 8 minutes. I was wondering if there was an accident up ahead until I saw her. She was jogging on the sidewalk and she was so fine she caused traffic congestion from cars slowing down to look and holler. I remember thinking that if she ain’t a rapper or athletes GF then she’s wasting her potential. That was a true 10. Those are rare. You don’t see them everyday, unless you’re Diddy or James Harding or something. Average guy only sees true 10s once or twice in their lives. That’s how rare they are especially in the spaces where average people coexist.

[@madjunir]

If you ask all these delulu ladies they believe they are 10s and even good looking men they want to rate a 7

[@LeonardWashington1989]

Been out the game for about 12 years now and from what im seeing, the dating pool everywhere got sewage in it .

[@blacopsassassin2771]

😂😂dammm

[@EarthlyUnknowns]

Facts! I been out the dating scene for 14 now and I’m happy cause the shit I’m seeing now is crazy as hell. Everybody’s delusional 😂

[@chadparks4841]

Correct

[@deejay5102]

"Men are more selfish" *today* because the divorce game of your ex wife walking away with half is a game they *don't* wanna play. Men have more to lose. It's just that simple.....

[@JairodSamuel]

lol Basically it’s cool when they do it but when Men do it. So now they mad because they realize they nothing special in regard to the Dating Game.😂😂😂

[@upsurgeagency3593]

I call it a narcissistic meltdown😅

[@eon001]

Let me guess, not enough men 6'5 and taller.

[@blacopsassassin2771]

Yeah, the 666 type, and I'm not talking about the antichrist 😂😅

[@eon001]

@@blacopsassassin2771 😩

[@ShadowMoses21]

Truth be told, the women out here stop caring for height; it's pocket depth only homie.

[@elreytriton]

@@ShadowMoses21 that's a lie. if you tall and broke you can still hit. she'll just hide you lol

[@feywinterfox9630]

@@blacopsassassin2771 I don't know how long we can call it 666, heck a few months ago I have started hearing both on and off line of them wanting men taller than 6 and 6.5. Keep in mind these are the same barely over 5' tall women wanting to date a 2 story building. And they have been saying for a while now that six figures is too low now which I don't understand. The majority of them have never seen a paycheck/bank balance with a number and 5-6 zeros behind it let long more and yet they talk about it like they all grew up never to modern day royalty. (smh)

[@ExTRAErrestrial_Travels]

lol I’m from Houston & still live here. I’m an Infection Control Director & have a consulting business doing the same thing, so I’m doing very well for myself. These women out here are easy pickings once they find out you got something going on 😂. BUT you gotta be careful, lots of STDs out here (I know because of my job working in healthcare). I’ve stopped dating here, now I just got to work, stack my bread, and catch flights. Been to 9 countries this year alone. My hinge & tinder stay going off 😂. Got fine ones, ugly ones, slim ones, fat ones 😂.

[@jwalk31]

That's crazy. and yeah, keep going to those countries. In fact, LEAVE. Settle down in one of those countries. Used to live in River Oaks, now I live in Estonia. finally have a family with the most loving and beautiful woman. I learned that lesson waaaay back in 2005. get out!!

[@georgecarl6040]

When you got to those countries you can literally buy a woman and being her back they don't cost that much🤷🏻

[@keem7910]

@@georgecarl6040never bring them back. Stay there

[@deeson27]

Living the dream. Live it up Bro

[@MS-1917]

I am a health educator. I question your ethics because you are to speak so cavalierly about STDs. Unbelievable.

[@dolphus32]

The first guy on the panel... doesn't look like he's qualified to speak with authority on dating. The woman who went to the speed dating event... might want to focus on reshaping and elevating her physical appeal. I'm in Houston. Been here from Chicago for 30 years. It's only in the last 13 years or so, that dating has become more problematic. Before that, if you were a guy that was just average across the board, you had some good options. And if you were a brother that was above average, dating here was like being in an all you can steak, lobster and crab buffet. But not now. The mass influx of people from other urban areas has played a part in this change. But the biggest impact in my opinion has been...Social media! It has made chicks who look average or below, feel like they're entitled to a man who has put in the work to look good, be a successful human being that is financially and emotionally stable. Those women who got the looks, no kids, good careers and so on, are hanging with females that are ratchet and for the streets. So, it's hard to tell them apart.

[@ghostwalker89]

What complete, dumb logic from you. U like women, men's accomplishments outside looks, also carry weight when dating. Kinda stupid to be as old as you've gotten and still thinking like this.

[@elreytriton]

the first guy is a htx instagram comedian

[@jameswade9202]

I live in Houston and work in the Medical Center District. The word that comes to mind is COMPETITION. If you’re not willing to compete you will be left out. Houston definitely is a melting pot and certain guys with options and potential are desired by ALL women and not some. Good luck ladies. 👍🏾

[@Barlowh2o]

@@jameswade9202 i said this exact thing

[@HiHello-wz6bx]

For women, dating after grade school and college is blood sport.

[@theoreticalviews2939]

You're absolutely spot on. Furthermore, any bw in futile and weird competition for bm exclusively in HTX is probably lower class and lacking in options. Lol. There's far too many affluent, accomplished, cultured, interesting, and single people in the TMC and other areas than to be fixated on a single demographic.

[@erictoomer5665]

This kinda reality check is so necessary to continue to happen to expose ladies to their true worth on the market and not the delusional worth they see themselves as “this” or “that”.

[@upsurgeagency3593]

Ded aass

[@adielwilson8749]

Going over to somebody's house to sit on the couch while they hitting somebody else us diabolical

[@jwalk31]

Right? At least go and participate.

[@feywinterfox9630]

@@jwalk31 🤣🤣🤣

[@DevilsAdvocate619]

They like to share men

[@lloydpulphus8582]

That’s why I don’t believe the chick ain’t no hell you gonna go to a man house and watch him hit another chick in front of your face , these 304 be lying

[@davidford3073]

Wow just leave w/ur mind in tac

[@screamatchaboi]

Smart black men date abroad... ✈️✈️

[@RaphieS-x3k]

Lame black men date abroad because they always been lame and can't get a girl in the United States

[@RS-gz6hj]

🤣🤣🤣

[@JD-te6vm]

There’s ALOT of Houston men visiting Africa. Ghana specifically

[@RaphieS-x3k]

@@JD-te6vm why,..... so you can make them all baby mamas

[@6feet6figures]

@@RaphieS-x3kthe Europeans being doing that for centuries 😅

[@Nobody-f9y]

I think why modern dating is so hard... because of inflation....high rent, gas , food... you have to work 40 plus hours a week....even if your making 35hr or more...average rent 1400 for apartment 2 bedroom are 2k ... aversge house is 445k ... most people are not Financially stable ...how are you going have a long-term relationship and start a family... thats why most people are single or casual date....people are to busy working....its expensive to go out to eat even fast food or ordering from pizza hut

[@evos469]

Nope it was trash before inflation

[@midorian12491]

Great take

[@porkerpete7722]

It would make sense for people to couple up and share expenses, growing together. But thats a fairytale.

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

It plays a part but not really. During the 40s black folks wasn’t rich but their marriage rates were the highest in America in general and this is comparing to the other ethnic backgrounds. I don’t think it’s the inflation 100% but it does help make it more difficult.

[@MrJethro92]

It's wild she said the childhood crush that got away. 4 females in Houston hit me with the "Hey big head" in the past 3 months and was wondering if I found a wife in Atlanta yet. CRAZY 😂😂😂

[@jondo3817]

it's more like the men she "friend-zoned" and put on a shelf.

[@6stringbeats397]

There are plenty of bears.

[@macmoney88]

😂😂 good one

[@godrules3596]

Lmao😂😂

[@kennethsmith6367]

Not in Houston!😉

[@GoatHolyfield]

Bears aren't attractive to ratchet behavior either 😂

[@dretarry]

Dating in Houston is also very dangerous lol... I aint forget them STD numbers.

[@r.d1571]

Grew up in Houston but travelled extensively. I went to Brazil and after meeting Brazilian women and working with them, I've never looked back. I won't marry a woman from Houston considering a lot of women are high maintenance and Houston is now a leading city in the U.S. for HIV. There are flights direct from Houston to Rio de Janeiro via United Airlines. Take the chance. It's worth the risk.

[@CryptoDun]

All these women think they a 10😂 But they all single 10’s😏

[@richardyeagerjr8200]

It's hard dating today because the women are not interested unless a man spends alot of money on them. Men are saying hells to the no. No more.

[@beliciam8235]

& men are only interested in breeding you within 2 secs of meeting you & complaining.

[@fleming1124]

Like Kevin Samuels said, ( If I put you in the room with these rich men) why would they pick you?

[@RaphieS-x3k]

You're not rich Sir,... so, shut up!!!!

[@PluggDaPlumma]

First of all I just moved back from Houston 5 months ago and I will say she’s Cappn every man I know who’s not from Houston say they crazy af , men from all over say the same thing and plus they give the box up quick sheeee capn

[@ruckerrc]

That was a GOAT move to have the date sleep on the coach because she's not that type of girl, and call over another one who is that type of girl. LOL

[@grtinfulleffect8349]

STDs.

[@harveyhankerson8359]

Yup.. I’m so glad. I got my passport. !! Y’all can have them. !

[@Rob10288]

👍🏿👍🏿

[@rhope8118]

Look at what these women look like 😂😂 no way who wants this

[@Jason-nb7tr]

Houston is the Texas capital of Ray Ray and Pookie infestation! Ever since the migration of ninjas coming from Louisiana due to the Hurricane years back!

[@upsurgeagency3593]

..The A-pooki-lypes

[@AmoniC.]

Lame Katrina happen 20 years ago Plus in the last 4 years ppl from every where triple y’all population. Learn to educate yourself before making ignorant comments. I notice none of y’all have the same energy for the immigrants that come over and do better than you.🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Darrytheprince]

Yeah it's a lot of them but Houston Black culture is so diverse that you could easily insulate yourself from hood shit by the kind of ppl you hang around.

[@AmoniC.]

@@Darrytheprince y’all say the same thing over and Louisiana is small compared to the immigrants that come there from different countries and disrespect yall Yall sound like yall still on the plantation

[@marshallhowell5828]

@@Darrytheprince We can insulate ourselves but that's not the solution to the problem, the women are CHOSING the RAY RAY and Pookies!

[@Anime1love]

Black people need to prioritize EDUCATION. What's the % of black people who hold a MBA? Focus on education and everything will take care of itself.

[@moblack5883]

just telling folks to focus on education is flawed. Especially in 2024 with the costs of education. what should be taught is focus on a skill/education that pays. I'm sick of folks recommending college and folks graduating with psychology degrees. STEM STEM and skills/job based should be the focus

[@FeVer.Dreamzzz]

@@moblack5883 That’s still education. Bw are seeing a boost, but now we need bm to start and actually finish school so that we can have representation in every department.

[@eliflihi]

Or marriage was when we were best friends it I understand all the new world thinks is they can educated their way out their way.

[@eliflihi]

@@sammajor2075 exception or example? Cause thousands get out of liberal arts every year and make less than a school janitor being social workers. Stop lying to these young people. You can make the same as an independent welder. Same as construction site supervisor. Plant operator, and many more, independent plumber, and electrician. So again your point on college is silly. Trades are shorter and demand is higher.

[@RemyBeast]

Hyper consumerism and the over sexualization of women/"female empowerment" has exponentially made things worse.

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

Yes but people want to act like it doesn’t play a role why the dating is messed up.

[@luvbig41]

Hol up!!! That chick saw a woman hangin on to dude in the club and she still went back to his home? LMAO!!!!

[@b9479]

Most women want men who already have someone, I personally know a married woman who only cheats with other married men 🤷

[@imheresoidontgetfined]

@@b9479or she looks for men who have something to lose like herself 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@steadmoney3431]

@@imheresoidontgetfinedthat’s it that’s all

[@thaiboxing67]

Dating market is what it is now because more men are staring to realize their value and using that as leverage to weed out the undesirables. Women created the current climate and men have just adapted

[@72hdc]

The truth is feminism is strong here and most guys now are saying no thanks. They are very rude and disrespectful also loud with to many expectations . The other thing is they don’t like to compete at all so I just move around and keep cool .

[@AnansiTheSpider8]

I hate the term "situationship." Just call it a non-traditional relationship or an affair and stop coming up with new words for certain types of relationships that have always been in existence.

[@upsurgeagency3593]

I hate that too,word

[@fleming1124]

Less than 4% of men make over 100k a year. Of any color. Bureau of Labor and Statistics, check my facts

[@Raidervibes]

Houston is 12 to 1. It is wat it is. The wm outnumber the men 🤷🏾‍♂️... the wm are beautiful and plentiful

[@YourAlcoholicUncle]

And they all have antibiotic-resistant gonorrhea and hiv. Good luck

[@principtounenmondesir]

Self hate is strong in you I see and fyi so is there counterpart WW ....Houston known for beautiful Black people

[@Anime1love]

That math is off, 12 to 1 is insane.

[@ImrahilKawlu]

Bull

[@D4SH19]

Raidervibes WM is short for white male not women. Also this mindset is why Houston is rampant with STD.

[@SilFord-o9f]

Im from NYC, and Dallas Texas have so many woman ready for action! Great city 👏

[@marshallhowell5828]

If you're looking to just smash, yes. I'm from NYC as well and most of the women here (Dallas) are too comfortable with just being part of your "team". I've NEVER experienced this in NY...

[@SilFord-o9f]

@@marshallhowell5828 bc it's not enough "eligible" men out there, women outnumber men in the DFW,

[@EastsideSILENCER777]

Dallas SUCKED when I was there. I wonder where you're at.

[@joeyjackoff298]

When I lived in Dallas 10 years ago...had a roster full of chicks..and I was making 100K...it was like shooting fish in a barrel...and I wasn't simping with them either...

[@SilFord-o9f]

@joeyjackoff298 no city is perfect, but Dallas is a very good city, very nice woman with careers etc many career choices etc

[@Secretarynotsure89]

Woman inundated with options she says “I’m not going to settle.” Same woman sees man inundated with options and says “why won’t you settle.” 🤣

[@rolainpierre2875]

Facts 💯

[@neikoboi1]

I live in Houston and we are the most diverse city in America next to LA. So it all comes down to having so many varieties of different cultures of women plus being the 4th largest city in America it's just to much competition bottom line a Candy Shop!🍬🍬

[@calebhenderson6507]

They find it hard to date everywhere apparently... damn

[@lorrainebwoy]

Oshay you give mi alot of confidence to work hard and give myself an opportunity ✨️

[@andrewpouncil8411]

All of the women in Houston chasin after the same 1 percent rich men 😂

[@mateaukalua4426]

Average guys have given up on them. They're cooked. 😂😂

[@azure8696]

All that itchin, scratchin, and burning goin on around the community rn😂🤣😭

[@sonjack1981]

I'm in Houston and would consider myself a high value Man and don't wanna date here at all ngl.

[@principtounenmondesir]

Yall shock when Foriegn Blacks are hesitant to date AA it because of this smh shit sad

[@brilliantideas-y7f]

I don't know any black American that's attracted to a foreign black

[@principtounenmondesir]

@@brilliantideas-y7f man please

[@brilliantideas-y7f]

@@principtounenmondesir Most the ones I know date white. I'm serious.

[@thebluejay3145]

I haven't seen any hesitation, most times ba aren't interested

[@principtounenmondesir]

@@brilliantideas-y7f we ain't talking your circle fool learn to read

[@Dustyone23]

When women say dating in Atlanta is trash, ask them what the men there think of dating. Truth is, nobody feels like there are many good options on the dating market, men or women.

[@mateaukalua4426]

There aren't a lot of good options for anyone.

[@pbsven]

You are 100% on point with your view / prospective. Most (NOT ALL) of these women that are saying: "The Dating Market / Scene is trash". Is because the Men they want . . . Or Want, to Want them - DON'T. They confuse & conflate a Man wanting to "Clap their Cheeks, for one Night, or a few weeks", with a Man that genuinely wants them, for a serious relationship. The last Sista in your video seems to get it. I say "seems to", because she mentioned women being "10's" . . . Being a 10 is not a "State of Mind" - You are either a 10, or you are NOT. . . 10's may have a lot to complain about - But, difficulty attracting Men, OR Women, is not one of their complaints. The BOTTOMLINE - Men with OPTIONS will generally take them. You are not going to affirmative action, your way into a Situationship / Relationship, with most guys with said options.

[@JeffFairow]

Do not move to Houston. We are full!

[@Rob_uno]

Of StDs… Yes the world knows

[@markdyer6322]

Every city in the south is saying the exact same thing

[@ashlirabid9614]

I'm still coming

[@k-slay4407]

​@Rob_uno 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@SmilingChemistryExperime-tk8ei]

Yeslordtmiller❤❤❤❤❤

[@Wgz945]

They are just as bad in Houston, no 🧢 i went out with my bro to gt drinks, he introduced me to a chick from his gym, i was already in a relationship at the time, so i was just tt her never gt her number or anything. Next day at work i swear on my gma soul this same chick was on Kevin Samuels 😂😂😂😂, she was a divorced mom of one, KS told her to gt back with her bby father, she said no. Fast forward we are friends on social media, she’s still single looking for a rich man Don’t get it twisted there are a bunch of attractive women here, but you have ti be careful

[@b9479]

That's true, Houston does have a lot of very attractive women, Houston and Atlanta got the most beautiful women in the south

[@antp5611]

​@@b9479so does New Orleans & Baton Rouge 😊

[@lamarunderwood5055]

I'm an 80s baby and seen the shift in the black american community. Why is it hard for us to find good stable lasting relationships and marriage you say? Survey say!: We are out of pocket in every way imaginable, every aspect of life mentally, psychology, spiritually,etc. Just a long line of issues that we know we have, yet we don't want to fix them. This is an issue in every major Metropolitan black populated city or town in the US. Welcome to Babylon 2024.👀👀👀🤷🏾‍♂️😬🚮👎🏾🚫🦀🦀🦀🛢🛢🛢.

[@onlymeentertainment]

I’m still going overseas to find my Queen

[@antp5611]

Gud 4u

[@TMassChronicles]

I’m from Houston and it is slowly becoming Atlanta.

[@leroyyoung6614]

Black women needs to stop being gold diggers stop having high expectations and stop being entitled you only got themselves to blame i don't feel sorry for them

[@Makeitmakesensejo]

And stop the baby hair, lashes, outlandish fake hair,key word outlandish, attitude, booty out, lungs out, loud, jealousy, envy, pull their penis in and be a gentle, kind, good, joyful, peaceful LADY.

[@OverEast34]

A majority of women who complain about dating in cities like Houston, LA, NYC, Atlanta, etc aren’t even trying to be long term. They’ll eventually monkey branch.

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

Honestly to me it’s disgusting and strange to be hoping from one man to another in my opinion. It just opens the door for diseases, trauma, and unnecessary drama…

[@laroiceturner9059]

That sprinkle sprinkle chick was making up her answer on the spot to the question where all the rich men are.

[@rolainpierre2875]

Show you notice that too. 😂😂🤣😭😭

[@midorian12491]

😂

[@zackbog]

Broke women looking for men with money while calling all men broke lol

[@derrickbrown6939]

The only thing good in Houston are the Astros. ⚾

[@Sloan-n9q]

Rockets tied with OKC thunder for best record in the Western conference.

[@derrickbrown6939]

@Sloan-n9q But the Lakers has a better chance getting further in the playoffs than both teams. 😂🏀

[@msa6844]

Dating? Most people in H Town should be worried about their health. The STD is near epidemic levels down there.

[@2neetoon]

I went to Houston and had a BALL dating and getting a job was GREAT. I left bc I wasn't about to wait on a hurricane to hit.

[@6feet6figures]

Doing exactly what there that city is boring af

[@enzigenes]

The real issue is that these women are posing up good qualified men for street dudes. The majority of these women are sleeping around with guys who are in the streets or really have nothing going on and those guys don't want them at the end of the day. They look over and use the "nice guys" for dinner dates and other perks. Many of the women in Houston are scorned and have past trauma. They're not fit to date quality men. The men in Houston are now catching on to their games because many of these women in Houston are users. For some strange reason, they are not interested in good stable quality men. I live in Houston and I don't even approach them like that anymore.

[@williewideback]

Houston has finally caught up with Atlanta

[@dcuthbertson5778]

I lived in Houston. It wasn’t bad when I was there. So I’m not sure what changed. They probably brought that Miami and Atlanta attitude to Texas

[@jasoneaton9477]

This is pitiful.. people cant talk in person anymore ???

[@jamesnash6101]

"You reap what you sow." @5:57, here we go again. Chasing that bag. When a woman places all her value on a materialistic lifestyle. And will only place value men who have disposable income. Then, she's going to be used as an object. When women won't go deeper than the surface, such as marriage and building a life together. Then men will only value those women for his physical pleasure. Yep, since she's using him. He'll be using her. If a woman doesn't want just a mutual exchange of services. Then, date with the purpose of marriage and building a lifetime together. Also, that fast lifestyle for women, will only last until she's about 30. After that, she'll be replaced by a younger woman.

[@ogcmike]

wooow..now I get it it..born and raised out here in Houston and Houston Area all my life, and I was just talking to My Beautiful H'Town Woman of God of 21 Years(Thank You Lord) about why are there so many of our beautiful relatives and friends still single?? They are successful, Love The Lord, go getters, and great homemakers but are always single..now it makes sense🤔

[@yusufsaahir3317]

I'm from Seattle it's bad up here and black woman are scarce.

[@HowYouMove]

You’re 100% right ✊🏾O’Shay so as a single bachelor I’m just gonna smash & dash & save my cash because that’s the best peace for me

[@The11Jade]

Good luck with that

[@The11Jade]

Good luck with that

[@marcmerlini7280]

enjoy the stds

[@EarthlyUnknowns]

This is a problem too though, I ain’t telling you what to do but I hope you wrapping your man’s up and not creating broken families.

[@antp5611]

I would also definitely recommend traveling to other cities and better yet other countries as well

[@michaelelliott289]

I like Houston. I'm sure Houston is much better than almost anything in the Mid-West.

[@yawos9024]

Houston is not better than Chicago.

[@Sloan-n9q]

Negative. I honestly think the women in Denver can easily compete with the women in Houston, because for one, the women Denver got real hair compared to them hair hatted hooligans in Houston.

[@Sloan-n9q]

Them white girls and Venezuelan chicks in Denver look just as good as them women in Houston. Denver is an underrated city when it comes to women

[@bernardallen1507]

What is she talking about if you're a woman that's a ten, you gotta date a seven? A ten is rare. You got a date of seven because you were seven. Hell, you probably a five men date down all the time.

[@Sloan-n9q]

She's saying that dating a 7 is better than dating a 10 because dating a 7 is a lot easier to manipulate and control. A ten caliber female has to deal with a lot of cheating and game playing when dealing with a male 10, while a male 7 is a lot easier to deal with in a relationship.

[@moodyd67]

I really think dating is bad everywhere. Because the internet has raised the standards for women. They think that they are the prize. They think that they're special and they have entitlement issues......💯🤔

[@tysonrichtv3395]

8:10 stop the 🧢 please 🙏🏽

[@jiggajhood]

Meanwhile she doesn't have a ring🤣

[@tysonrichtv3395]

@@jiggajhood right 🎯 🤣🤣🤣👏🏽

[@cmoney-kd6xx]

Great word to end on

[@Darrytheprince]

Stop. Houston dating sucks if all you do is hang out in the same ratchet ass lounges and ratchet ass brunch parties to meet men/women. I live in Houston and my dating and social life is sweet!

[@terence.j]

This

[@BlueJerry2]

Leave these women alone, leave western women alone. Y'all know what to do brothas...🛫🌎

[@JudahSullivan]

7:27 I just moved to Houston in July. She is full of cap and very inconsistent.

[@ac4185]

Why would a guy date you when there are humble respectful good looking Latina women all over Houston.

[@hannobaali_makendali]

Yep. Go to the Mexican and Asian markets for groceries and hit the jackpot.

[@Nunbutslowed]

They act like them too, don’t be confused by the race

[@hannobaali_makendali]

@Rob-z9g3l ii have known Houston since before there were was any significant Latino presence there. Stop hyping the similarities of women and trying to muddy the waters with that word ‘exactly’. THERE ARE DIFFERENCES. And the most de-cultured (Us) are ALWAYS the descendants of those most COLONIZED (Us). Latino women score much higher in the ‘HOME ECONOMICS’ department than so-called black women.

[@Mac11Mike]

Houston women would rather set you up to be robbed by their pookie.

[@anthonyallen9094]

This is sad..... I been thinking about H-Town since i last visited years ago. Houston had some of the best women I'd ever seen. 😔🤦🏾‍♂️ Damn it.

[@TheStrategos392]

Seriously considering moving to Houston, TX.

[@10toeken87]

Houston people think toooo highly of Houston and themselves # cap city

[@kennethscott621]

The first word out of the woman's mouth is where the rich men, they're not looking for a husband , are looking for a wallet

[@k-slay4407]

And the rich men damn sure aint looking for her mid ass.😅😂🤣🤣

[@Stone_Cold_Steve_Urkel]

I'm from Houston. I can tell you we far too player. They only deal with one female.

[@Sloan-n9q]

I seriously can't tell. Most of y'all dudes in Houston are haters and cock blockers. Niggas in Houston be hating on other niggas over hoes. Y'all be dirty macking and cock blocking out of jealousy.

[@Itzwhatever24]

Dating is jus bad in general right now. Its happening everywhere in the US. But it's gona autocorrect soon tho cuz shyts bout to get real....really real.

[@bigdoggham4269]

Why women continue to listen to that lady hell anyone could've told you that😂😅😂 smh. Great Clip Much Respect

Thats because all the scaps from other states flee here where nobody know them .

[@jayschipp7529]

I’ve been in Houston 15 years, and if you have your stuff together and meet most of the female dating criteria, you don’t have to settle down or play by the rules. You don’t have to be faithful, call them back or take them on dates. It’s a competitive market and they HATE it.

[@kurtsimon7530]

Dating is the problem being addicted to apps is the problem. Having a superiority complex is the problem. Living in Houston for the past decade and I've never met a group of people so confident at being selfish. The nicest people I've met here are often not from here. The smartest more humane women definitely come from elsewhere. It's all game, arrogance and fraud but they love it and make it work.🤘🏾

[@DaLockedOne]

Social Media ruined dating. Thats it

[@CheckedOut2024]

Houston dating is trash. I've been here for 15 years..I'm leaving.

[@hannobaali_makendali]

Bye

[@mateaukalua4426]

I was in Denver for almost 5 years and it was trash. 15 years is too much time man. I finally left Denver 4 months ago. I wanted to give the city a fair chance.

[@coreysanders6197]

Too much riff raff, meet up in a closed off space get it in, get out , call 4 days later and do it all over again

[@His_Name_Was_King]

Insanity at its finest-

[@deejay5102]

Most of these women talking all this craziness are the same ones going on dates just to get a free meal...