How a toxic partner can turn every argument into your fault

[@ak-47intelligence75]

The last time someone did this to me, I told them I was happy I made them miserable and blocked. Take 0 responsibility. Next.

[@ThrivewithMiriam]

Honestly, that’s such a powerful move. It’s like reclaiming your energy and refusing to carry the weight of their manipulation any longer. Sometimes the best response is no response-just a clear boundary and moving on. It’s a reminder that we don’t owe anyone our peace or our energy when they’ve already taken too much. Next, indeed! 💅🔥

[@ak-47intelligence75]

The thing is that, a lot of times, women know they are being gaslighted and lied to. They know their partners are twisting the facts and framing it in a way to shift the blame but a lot of times, women will ignore all the signs and be quiet to " keep the peace ". His peace, not yours cause many times , he's happy, moving on and in peace but the woman feels like she's carrying the weight of the world on her shoulders.

[@ThrivewithMiriam]

You’re absolutely right-so many women recognize the gaslighting and manipulation but feel trapped in silence to avoid conflict or further harm. It’s heartbreaking how often “keeping the peace” means sacrificing their own well-being, while their partner continues to live unbothered. It’s not fair, and it’s such a heavy burden to carry. It’s so important to remind women that their peace matters too and that they don’t have to bear that weight alone. Speaking up or walking away might feel impossible in the moment, but it’s a step toward reclaiming their peace and freedom. Thank you for shedding light on this-it’s a conversation that needs to be had more often. ❤️