How and why are husbands forced to pay voluntary maintenance in matrimonial matters?

[@truthrevealer8869]

We need to bring these things public through the media. Countless husband is suffering.

[@Blackfire970]

No one cares especially not other men.

[@paritoshdutta6644]

@Johan Liebert but you still got what the guy is saying, right. Stop this habit of finding mistakes in everything. The guys has raised a genuine issue, he deserves praise .

[@latasukhani8422]

Men don't suffer, it's always women and children who suffer in matrimonial issues.

[@sagarkapasi099]

@@latasukhani8422 Is this sattire? Please give your details so i can sue you right now

[@latasukhani8422]

Are you giving me a threat for posting a general statement?

[@LegendDragonFist]

So, the best course of action would be to not get married or I should change my gender to a female.

[@scalerup]

Wow, From being taken as a curse if a girl child is born to a fantasy that I wish to be a female, India has grown. Karma playing its game.💗💗

[@4urandy]

Change to female.. and play victimhood eternally

[@rounaksingh70]

Same

[@roxrtk3299]

Dont marry, its not worth it anymore, like have relations with women but nor marry, western culture u know

[@Blackfire970]

True that

[@biswadeeppalit1205]

Dowry is illegal but alimony is legal ohh God what an example of equality our Indian judiciary system has set 😂

[@UPAKHOSALA]

don't speak the Truth 😮😅 the judge of a court acting as a Extortionist threatening a Man rather than demanding the Wife who have not provided any financial evidence yet threatening the man

[@2912teddytweety2016]

Dowry was never illegal. In ancient times parents used to save some money or presents based on their status for female child as security during marriage since those days aged males used to marry kids, and don't know when the child becomes widow. Now the reason for current dowry is harassment hence it has been declared as illegal. But maintenance after divorce now should only be applicable if women suffered loss of job or career due to the marriage which significantly diminishes her chance to get back in the work force after the divorce. Because not only career but women also suffer self esteem issues and body shaming which usually males don't physically.

[@manjunathams8865]

Well said! Hahahha😂😂 may be that law made by a woman

[@poojaganguli2624]

​@@manjunathams8865 You will never understand how much a woman has to sacrifice to keep up with the mans rule.

[@jagruti153]

5:32

[@thesoup_is_dry1358]

I hope the beloved son of the judge goes through same if not more pain than this poor man.

[@kaailu1001]

they will sort it out of courts or threaten and clear them.

[@thesoup_is_dry1358]

@@kaailu1001 i hope the lady make scene out of it by going to media and public.

[@kunal6599]

@@thesoup_is_dry1358did you know bout "uncle nepotism" in a indian courts ???

[@thesoup_is_dry1358]

@@kunal6599what is that ?... do judges support other judges or something ?

[@kunal6599]

@@thesoup_is_dry1358 yeah you got it in very single take !! Judges elects their so called " bua ka ladka ", chacha ka ladka or someone in their relation but not with whom from which they have their direct relation like their child so one can blame them !!! So in most of the cases even if judge son gets accused he will most probably transfer his case to another court and get out of the accusations

[@aruunmenon]

The best thing about Indian law is that you get hardly 7 years for murder, let your wife know this.

[@JohnDoe-kj2cs]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@kraj4818]

Noted

[@abhijithvarmar1034]

Why unwanted fate for us, by making her know that their is a simpler way out than a divorce!!

[@aruunmenon]

@@abhijithvarmar1034 Divorce is simpler for them and more lucrative too, all of that with no risk at all. Why would they try anything else?

[@abhijithvarmar1034]

@@aruunmenon yes, it is.....

[@HK-kz1wu]

In the eyes of governments everywhere, marriage is a CONTRACT. A fundamental common sense rule for life is this : “NEVER ENTER INTO A CONTRACT WITH SOMEONE WHO BENEFITS BY BREAKING THAT CONTRACT”. This is the fundamental reason why marriage is a very bad idea for men nowadays. Stay safe brothers!

[@tintunbirha]

We hindus have become weak. Kick the judges, politicians, in their backsides for following western norms and STRICTLY bring back hindu ethos for hindus viz a man cannot divorce ( the word doesn't exist in hinduism) his wife unless she deserts him for another man. In that case she doesnt deserve ANYTHING. Otherwise, the man HAS to take care or provide for her irrespective of whether she is stupid, low IQ, lazy or crazy, bad cook, barren ( unable to bear children), whatever. The man, of course can marry again for happiness and contentment. But all the time he must provide fir his 1st wife, with ALL rights in dignity and properties.

[@dgxa]

Thats an eye opening statement 👏👏👏

[@vikibww]

my man. true

[@buddha2845]

Indian judicial system is totally biased against men and pro women

[@VishalDudhani]

Excellent way to put it !

[@lostshayarr]

"marriage is the worst mistake a wise man can do in India".

[@roxrtk3299]

"Marriage is the worst mistake any wise person can do in this Era of gender biased laws..." #stay Single, dont Marry, jist have Gf and have fun as long as both r happy together

[@amiyarana8733]

@@roxrtk3299 even the girlfriend can use law against you if relationship gets sour. So be careful.

[@roxrtk3299]

@@amiyarana8733 yes ur right, but atleast here i am not bound to pay some shit alimony..right??? or do they have counter for this as well and our gender biased laws are fked up till that extent...

[@amiyarana8733]

@@roxrtk3299 yes if you have any physical relationship with your girlfriend and then break up with her to get another girl, then the former can use sexual assault case against you. And you have to pay heavy compensation to her and serve jail time in India. So be very careful. These girls can play with you any time due to their higher legal privileges.

[@roxrtk3299]

@@amiyarana8733 can u tell me how is she going ti prove that we have sexual relationship if we didnt had sex after break or for a long time before breaking up, cuz she has to undergo tests and also if she has to show some video proofs if she ever recorded, which i think she never gonna show if she ever secretly recorded them... Can u plz tell me, i am genuinely wanting to know how...plz

[@deckwizar]

Just don't get married. The juice is not worth the squeeze. Stay single, save money, enjoy life, travel and retire early. It's better to end up alone in the end than miserable in company.

[@roxrtk3299]

Exactly brother ✅✅✅

[@nareshagarwal5605]

Lol easy to say..

[@rap9703]

@@nareshagarwal5605 actually its easy to do also because nowdays you have to be 100% perfect for a lady otherwise you are screwed if she knew 1% about the laws which is present to protect them but used mostly to harass men. Women have power to destroy not your life but your parents life too. Do you really want to see your parents in jail just because she is not satisfied mentally/physically/emotionally/financially/socially or whatever else new reasons they will create they will destroy you and your family do you want this? do you???

[@anitarathi1863]

I assume tour parents wre in a live in Don't talk shit that is a rare case you are talking about

[@iash0ksingh1794]

lol... now courts have already ordered that if a couple is living together whether they're married or not they'll be considered as husband and wife

[@skycelestial4449]

Being a female and a sister of a cousin who suffered same trauma, I am appalled to see this moral decay in females.. Remember this b4 choosing/ marrying a girl: 1. Check the behavious of her mother 2. Check her spending habits 3. Check her ability to listen and compromise 4 Dont go on face value alone 5.if she is simpleton and honest then marry 6 Remember you are marrying for a lifelong partner not a model to flaunt . 7 Remember bad girl will be bad wife and eventually bad mother. Get married with sensible down to earth partner . In long term peace and prosperity matters not the money and looks.

[@cannibalronny7314]

Sorry to say but it is impossible to dissect a person's personality just by observing these few things, even an expert psychiatrist won't know what exactly is going on in a person's mind. It is all luck. Also women are smarter than me when it comes to gaining affection.

[@rohitnagwanshi]

All the above points are correct which I sadly realise after marriage and my spouse doesn't fulfill even a single one.

[@noone7097]

How to find a down to earth woman? The only way is now to look for them in T4 cities and rural areas. Most of the urban women are no more down to earth and for them making a compromise means oppression and patriarchal society.

[@kumarabhishek1064]

Not marrying is the best option for men. Anyone can go rogue when system enables them to become one. Best advice is : no marriage. Thank God most men are learning these things when they are unmarried otherwise their lives would have been screwed.

[@Rah_6967]

​@@rohitnagwanshi bhai shaadi karni chahiye? Mere parents force kar rahe hain

[@killer9ravi]

It sickens me to even think how deeply biased the entire judiciary is against men!

[@mayak2676]

Women in our country have been living & loving with numerous bias for centuries, no man ever had a problem with that, as long as it was convenient for them😁. Anyways, bias of any kind is wrong, irrespective of gender, caste, religion.

[@Holy_Reich]

​@@mayak2676rule of nature, eh? Understand only coz of men in the past strong is favoured Only coz of men now weak is favoured. From reservation to privileges

[@ZoldicsDiaries]

WHy do men agree to this? Why not eliminate the "problem"? You will save a lot of money and worst case could be you have to spend some months in jail, but you will come out as you will be 1st time offender- you can start a business after that and lead a peaceful life after that and even marry some other women. Pleasr eliminate the problem. Courts and gov must fear what man can do if he is cornered .

[@ZoldicsDiaries]

​@@mayak2676so were men, for 1000 years men were killed oppressed by first western invaders and then British, what about that? Majority dies were men! When will they recognized ?

[@honestcat224]

Court hearings need to be made public, these Milaards need to be made accountable. They need to be seen by their neighbours, friends and family in their true nature and hated for it if necessary. Judicial reforms are must!

[@arpitkumar4525]

They need to be ostracized

[@ZoldicsDiaries]

WHy do men agree to this? Why not eliminate the "problem"? You will save a lot of money and worst case could be you have to spend some months in jail, but you will come out as you will be 1st time offender- you can start a business after that and lead a peaceful life after that and even marry some other women. Pleasr eliminate the problem. Courts and gov must fear what man can do if he is cornered .

[@noahark3984]

Aren't alimony & dowry, two sides of the same coin? If good & educated men can stand strongly against dowry system, why can't good & educated women reciprocate by standing strongly against unfair alimony laws??

[@montysharma8271]

Because hypocrisy is their nature 😏

[@emartins3118]

Because they are desperate housewives aka feminist

[@kissofmeditation8419]

Thats equality LOL....the word hypocrisy will feel embarrased in front of these feminists...

[@domonkor7667]

@@montysharma8271 Don't marry . If you want freedom. If you want a begger life then marry

[@vikrampatel3946]

Because women ☕

[@malharm6346]

In my Family Court Matter, once the judge threatened me that she will reject my divorce petition. I stood by my argument and asked her to mention the grounds on which it is being rejected, further reminded that judge cannot threaten and do such biasness in court. My petition was not rejected.

[@domonkor7667]

Don't. Marry. If you want a comparatively happy life

[@Shrey_Shrek]

Based

[@thinker1491]

A lot of chuthiya judges around, we need to deal then them before dealing with law

[@ajaygautam832]

​@@thinker1491most of judges are feminist these days . Sad but true

[@srigurunarsingvidhyabhusha7609]

Are you male or female?

[@poshfactor6364]

All India men should file petition against such laws.... Please men. Do this. Society need to be saved.

[@ezhilarasinanda5750]

Why are the judges not accountable for their misdeeds? Why do they possess such immunity? Just hearing these cases brings chills to any married man.

[@forgaming5640]

I already decided to married a girl abroad i am not married with indian girl

[@vamshi8694]

​@@forgaming5640Please don't do that brother..suing by partner is a regular affair over there

[@tony_montana9122]

​@@forgaming5640India me specially north side jyada lafda hai,northeast girl thik hai

[@Musica_Originals]

Can we go to the Consumer Forum? Judges are being paid on our tax monies.

[@T-TJ]

Media gets its cut , Police gets their cut, Judges gets their cut, everyone gets it cut. So sit back calmly because nothing will happen. MAN have to suffer. MAN Should and will stop marrying.

[@bhb4756]

This is very common ploy by judges. Husbands are COERCED into paying money to wife and motive is to record it as a CONSENT ORDER for reasons stated by you as it all favours wife & legally ties up hands of husbands to seek legal remedy against such order.

[@bindubiswas3298]

Its so funny that during an argument in supreme court when Mr Kapil sibal was arguing that these divorce petition should be dealt in lesser time as people loose their prime age, Supreme court judges were trying to be so innocently saying that why people are moving to live in open marriages not having family. Its like butcher saying I cannot understand why lamb looks scared.

[@lol6434]

These things should be taught in schools and colleges regardless the subjects you have taken. Good job, Amish.

[@SiSi-ju1xk]

Men deserve to suffer for forcing wife to suffer with his parents

[@lol6434]

@@SiSi-ju1xk shut up feminist. Y'all hate on men but without men this world breaks. Like it or not, that's the truth.

[@raghunathreddybudda-hk1jc]

​@@SiSi-ju1xk stop simping

[@Raju_K]

@@SiSi-ju1xk Women should suffer marrying a man of standards they cant provide and destroying his life.

[@vivekkumar-ei7vz]

​@@SiSi-ju1xkGod bless you with fake matrimonial cases

[@MrCoolprax]

I don't know how good a lawyer you really are but without doubt you are one amazing human being

[@ZoldicsDiaries]

WHy do men agree to this? Why not eliminate the "problem"? You will save a lot of money and worst case could be you have to spend some months in jail, but you will come out as you will be 1st time offender- you can start a business after that and lead a peaceful life after that and even marry some other women. Pleasr eliminate the problem. Courts and gov must fear what man can do if he is cornered .

[@Sandeep-tc1yv]

I heard that promotions in judiciary also depends on the number of cases they could grant maintenance to the wives, so technically husbands have many enemies to deal with for the marriage sin he committed.

[@prashant5460]

better to gamble with money than in arranged marriage dont trust anyone its hell to marry a wrong person

[@ZoldicsDiaries]

WHy do men agree to this? Why not eliminate the "problem"? You will save a lot of money and worst case could be you have to spend some months in jail, but you will come out as you will be 1st time offender- you can start a business after that and lead a peaceful life after that and even marry some other women. Pleasr eliminate the problem. Courts and gov must fear what man can do if he is cornered .

[@SanatanVishwa-d1k]

Men's rights movement is the need of the hour

[@WhereAreYouNowAtlantis]

It isn't as much of a hit as the feminist movement, nor will it be. Its just us men who can support each other in this biased world.

[@FXT130]

It is state vs Indian citizen. We have weaken Indian states's institutions.

[@Fshmms]

Yes, it is the requirement. Can't deny that

[@ZoldicsDiaries]

WHy do men agree to this? Why not eliminate the "problem"? You will save a lot of money and worst case could be you have to spend some months in jail, but you will come out as you will be 1st time offender- you can start a business after that and lead a peaceful life after that and even marry some other women. Pleasr eliminate the problem. Courts and gov must fear what man can do if he is cornered .

[@ZoldicsDiaries]

​@@FXT130femicide will increase if Indian gov is not woken up on time😂

[@sushovandas5016]

Very informative video. Husbands should always ask for order on merit. Judges won't fix any absurd amount as they're also bound by the law, threatening husband is just a trick. Do not fall for it.

[@NexterB]

Judges can stoop so low as to call husband as neech, dusht, harami, namard etc. I have seen HC judges do so. And obscene amounts have been awarded, for which husband had to sell his farmland. And to top it all, the child was living with the husband only.

[@kvtechvarshney5179]

What's order for merit?

[@jalajdurve]

@@kvtechvarshney5179 a deserving amount.

[@kavishwarmokal124]

One fine day I am willing to listen the news that judge has been slaughtered for being threatening the client/party.

[@sagarkapasi099]

@@kavishwarmokal124 Morcha Nikalna Chahiye

[@ketangandhi8714]

Shame on the woman and that disconnected judge. Just pathetic. Laws are destroying family.

[@kavishwarmokal124]

Yes, it's true judiciary had destroyed family concept in India. Judiciary itself provoking women and helping them to extort money;

[@FXT130]

But India's spineless politicians are not changing the law.

[@curiosityincarnated.9884]

​@@FXT130they need 2/3rd majority in both houses to change the constitution and bring laws. By default judges and laws are immune to change, unless it's the people mandate. Let everyone choose a party, at least for a term with 2/3rd majority in both houses, and see what happens to these worthless pigs. Law commission just like upsc have to come up for better selection.

[@FXT130]

@@curiosityincarnated.9884 Changing law doesn't required 2/3 majority, a simple majority is enough which present political party in centre is enjoying. That's why they able to change article 370. But doing any justice for men is out of head for these Simp spineless politicians. They obsessed with Naari Shakti only. Spineless assholes.

[@true_chels]

And she doesn't give a f*ck lol. She will be getting the maintenance as well as earning big bucks abroad whereas the husband is ruined, his entire life finished

[@HumbleMan78]

Even if a lawyer is sooo frustrated with the proceedings, just imagine what is the state of common man ?

[@Jojobizarreadv27]

If justice is denied by the law, people will be forced to seek their own personal justice outside the purview of the law.

[@ZoldicsDiaries]

WHy do men agree to this? Why not eliminate the "problem"? You will save a lot of money and worst case could be you have to spend some months in jail, but you will come out as you will be 1st time offender- you can start a business after that and lead a peaceful life after that and even marry some other women. Pleasr eliminate the problem. Courts and gov must fear what man can do if he is cornered .

[@ajaypatel4559]

Absolutely correct. Judges are totally uncontrolled after Neha vs Rajneesh. I m from Gujarat n faced similar situation in divorce n 125. I was threatened with 340. But me n my councel didn't budge, So judge didn't order any interim maintenance for wife n child. Zero interim maintenance

[@paritoshdutta6644]

Why there is no group/ community /association in Men? At least a Facebook group???

[@kisslayy5379]

Good job man..

[@ajaypatel4559]

@@kisslayy5379 thanks but I must tell u that wasn't good experience. That female judge is sitting on my child visit application. N due to that judge i m not filing child custody case.

[@kisslayy5379]

@@ajaypatel4559 ohh bhai female judge..!!! Means u are also dealing a Feminist angle. How u get trapped in this situation..??? What happened..?~?

[@ajaypatel4559]

@@kisslayy5379 double trouble Wife filed divorce, 125 n dv. That court has this great female judge, who is wife of prominent high court judge. So trouble continues.... But I have motto of warrior.

[@bhb4756]

Almost all the times order on merits is much better than consent order, unless consent order fairly takes care of your rights & also records consent of wife to do certain acts/creates rights in your favour like child custody etc., which is very rare in case of maintenance orders. So Never ever play in the hands of judge to get yourself legally trapped in such CONSENT ORDERS.

[@AdvImranAsgar]

@@ancient.sanatani As far as I know it is an order passed by a judge taking consent of both the parties for example maintenance amount in this case.. For example wife damanded 50k as maintenance, the counsel for Husband may negotiate it and say my client is ready to pay say 25k and the judge decides say pay 35k and both the parties agree to it..

[@bhb4756]

@@ancient.sanatani Consent order here means a court order which records "free consent"/choice/volition of a party to do certain act e.g., pay maintenance/give up child custody etc. in favour of the other party/parties with legal assumption that consenting party is not under influence of any coercion/threat during recording of such order, unless one is able to prove element of fraud/coercion/threat etc. later to challenge it, which is extremely uphill task. So consent order is like an agreement/contract between parties having stamp of court and non-compliance of such order by the consenting party attracts prosecution for contempt of court and this way judges & advocates through consent order trap the consenting party i.e., husbands and it's a win-win situation for wife & judge & certainly bad one for husband.

[@abhilash9918]

@@bhb4756 you're saying it's bad for husband's because generally these consent orders favor women right? It could be bad for women too or the system is just that much tilted in favor of women?

[@bhb4756]

@@abhilash9918 my answer to your first question is Yes & to the best of my knowledge the system is extremely Gynocentric, to the extent of being brutal to men's & children's rights, barring rare exceptions.

[@kvtechvarshney5179]

What's order on merit?

[@futureisyours3016]

This is the kind of Info we need. We dont won't a pro-feminist legal system.

[@Abhinav_Nayana_Sailen]

Idiot, we need a feminist legal system or us men will be continuously exploited like this.

[@scalerup]

KARMA, keep cryin 🤣🤣🤣

[@naturelover7979]

​@@scalerup Karma is a b****.

[@scalerup]

EXACTKY! It will never leave these men, who had tortured womanhood for eras. Karma IS INDEED A BITCH!

[@kcbamania2600]

@@scalerup Yes, Your father and brother should suffer too.

[@Tnahsarp_d]

After listening to you - I'm losing all faith in the judiciary too 😢

[@faizmomin5953]

Thank god for giving me this video recommendation and for making my decision strong, of being a single father in future. I'm 23Yo now.

[@noahark3984]

I don't understand this part of our law, as to why should a petitioner/defendant be expected to gather all evidence against the adversaries? That's the job of the court which should pass necessary orders for investigation through due process of law. We can't leave our full time jobs and become private detectives, just because we don't have the "evidence".

[@georgecarlinn6288]

So hire private detective when you suspect something amiss

[@kaailu1001]

even if you show the evidence, most of the time it gets rejected citing some pathetic excuses such as privacy blah blah...

[@kaberigomes2117]

The problem is people entering marriage without knowing the legal consequence. After knowing if one agrees, it's their choice.

[@srpatnaik4548]

Well said...Marriage is a legal agreement where we enter without signing...

[@abhishekmudgal5873]

Respect Bro....need more lawyer like you.... #Judges don't have absolute power.....also always argue to follow the merit of the court ....

[@shreyashsharma3748]

My man is telling indirectly to not get married. Saviour of mankind ❤

[@mayurdugar03]

This is serious and definitely needs to be brought up for the safety of men going forward. Old laws in newer times is painful.

[@siddharthjmt8216]

Forget getting justice from Indian legal system, first get judges to do their work properly and work for justice. Not generalizing here.

[@LifeGeneralist]

Well said

[@pritambiswas136]

Then why don't judges tell the wives to not to apply for Maintenance?? Why always against husband?

[@domonkor7667]

A man said that. Muskurana ladkiyo ka ada hain. Jo fass gaya samjho woh gaddha hain. So, men should stay away from marriage. If you want intercourse. Go to Japan, gather some money. Many Chinese people came japan for that

[@arpitkumar4525]

Simp

[@kaailu1001]

boz that's our pathetic laws

[@Bharatiya12321]

​@@domonkor7667achcha, randibazi karoge 😂

[@vaibhavirai3502]

men are entitled to maintenance, provided that they earn less than wives. The logic behind alimony/interim maintenance is that the less economically strong spouse does not lose on lifestyle. Few, but there have been cases where men have received alimony.

[@rounaksingh70]

The worst one can do to himself in India is marry

[@WisdomIsAwesome]

You're doing great work spreading awareness about these cases. Thanks so much!

[@sagarmalhotra9560]

Sometimes I feel lonely and think I might need someone and then I see cases like these ,Marriage is scary than a disease nowdays,

[@pm3141]

Best solution is prevention, vet thoroughly so you don't regret later.

[@LifeGeneralist]

For these cases and many more cases, the judges are no longer "Honorable", but Villians and Devils. They have no right to destroy anybody's life

[@monty8722]

The best option is for husband and wife to sit together and sort things out. Keep away from laywers you will be glad you were not made into a cash cow

[@shaikabdulraheem5384]

When there is equality b/w men & women, if wife is also working, then why should a husband pay alimony on divorce... this needs to be changed. For jobs, education, loans interest rate etc are all equal to men & women but for divorce why should a man pay alimony while wife is earning. Everybody should start fighting against this.

[@swarupverma2373]

It’s very sad how the institution of marriage has become… I had a female friend who had put false allegations on her husband of physical violence….she told me in confidence that her husband had never even raised her voice at her but just to extort 40 lacs from him, she had gone well and beyond limits of morality

[@Marcos-uz5xe]

U r the messiah for the men community! I m a big fan of yours! I just hope our brothers get to know the dark side of marriage before getting the knot! Lot of men marry as if it is a rat race,social pressure ,many are scared to be alone, many for sex and get in the trap n make their life hell! Till the law dont change its like making ur own life disaster by getting married! I have seen many of my close friends going through worst time in their life after being drag to the court,so i can feel the pain stay strong guys!

[@aniketx1083]

Its hard to stay alone but this kind of marital disputes are hell

[@iamlegend6983]

I'm 35 and still happily unmarried.

[@kaailu1001]

Then get married, you will change your opinion soon.🤣🤣🤣

[@amitpatra6479]

From husband side..my advice would be don't go to Court for matrimonial dispute..because judgment are not neutral..it becomes a personal choise of judge..so, take the matter in own hands instead.. Need extra courage though.

[@montysharma8271]

How to take the matter in our hand ?

[@kavishwarmokal124]

@@montysharma8271 jiski laathi usaki bhais ;

[@ashishdevadig2835]

@@montysharma8271 samjhdar ko ishaara kaafi hai

[@theone7359]

​@@ashishdevadig2835how

[@kunal6599]

@@montysharma8271 it wouldn't be so suprising if someone bashes a women with a truck in a middle of road :) You know that accident happens right ??

[@ayushkumarsingh8020]

The number of views shows how many men are suffering unjustly because of marriage...! Our societies have degraded beyond repair..!

[@sangharshratnaparkhi6622]

We need Andrew Tate😂

[@umangyadav7335]

andrew tate will tell you to keep your wife at home and do only house chore, get girls when they hit 18 bcz she is pure. so just watch yourself whom you r following blindly.

[@rajanpatadiya5428]

We need gun violence like Bhagat Singh

[@Bharatiya12321]

Ab tum Andrew ko follow karoge to all men are trash wale log honge he .... Faltu ki baate.... Apne dharm ka palan karo na

[@vaibhavirai3502]

@@umangyadav7335 don't think that will happen, sir. The lawyer himself liked this person's comment. The comment section is littered with men making jokes about killing women because it will give them only 7 years of jail time. Had respect for this lawyer.

[@ZoldicsDiaries]

​@@vaibhavirai3502WHy do men agree to this? Why not eliminate the "problem"? You will save a lot of money and worst case could be you have to spend some months in jail, but you will come out as you will be 1st time offender- you can start a business after that and lead a peaceful life after that and even marry some other women. Pleasr eliminate the problem. Courts and gov must fear what man can do if he is cornered .

[@T-TJ]

Media gets its cut , Police gets their cut, Judges gets their cut, everyone gets it cut. So sit back calmly because nothing will happen. MAN have to suffer. MAN Should and will stop marrying.

[@Blackfire970]

Not only law is blind in India but it's dumb too. If both man & women are equal why so harsh laws & punishments for men & literally all immunity for any kind of action to women out there. Guys don't marry or live in in India especially if u r hindu because laws are totally against you.

[@kavishwarmokal124]

Gender neutral laws are the most important thing and need of the today's era.

[@Blackfire970]

@@kavishwarmokal124 agreed.

[@kaailu1001]

Fun fact is even in west men has to bear the burden of marital laws. that's why more men are not interested in marriage in west. Some are even going to asian countries like phillipines , thailand to get traditional wife and stay there only.

[@Blackfire970]

@@kaailu1001 true bro

[@koollinkssbs8166]

Easier said than done. Usually DV cases involve aged in-laws and threat of incarceration breaks the son to agree with any unfair demands. Also if the judge is asking for 50 lakhs, he/she certainly has a cut on the money

[@ChandravijayAgrawal]

pahle to jisne ye law banaya usko sabak sikhana chahiye, fir biased judges ko

[@varunthedoc]

We need to have a prenuptial agreement clearly stating that the lady won’t get a single pie of money, jewellery , property or alimony

[@freespirithermit]

okay then don't ask for dowry from the girl's family either....

[@amishrawat9753]

​@@freespirithermit okay marry in your level. Don't go for sarkari babu

[@ravishankaryadav4002]

​@@freespirithermitnobody ask for dowry it is your imagination!!

[@karanjaiswal9901]

@@freespirithermitmat de bhai,padh likh le thoda nahi maangega koi.

[@Bharatiya12321]

​@@karanjaiswal9901bro padhe likhe hone k baad bhi bhar bhar k dahej lete hai or dete hai

[@anupmohanty2342]

Can someone file a petition against a Judge?

[@shree9647]

Law is always in favour of women. No gender equality in matrimonial cases.

[@snagananda696]

One thing is, the eager bachelor who is searching for a spouse doesn't know this at all. If this is made known across, then I feel at least 50% of men would not marry. Maybe more. Also, if this trend continues, then it's going to be hard for women also to find good men. I mean if someone is ready to marry a woman even after knowing all these unlawful laws, then he would definitely be someone who is capable of threatening the lady and making sure she doesn't file any case.

[@kushalswami0809]

Same happened with me ur first statement was right I got threatened.....then I fought and brought evidence then got maintenance cancelled and because of my application of 340 crpc pressure I won all the cases and got divorce.....ur videos are fabulous.....GBU

[@iamtheoffenderofall]

The establishment....why are marriage rates crashing harder than the Hindenburg? Also establishment....alimony....child support.....more more more.

[@RA-bm8cq]

Can't husband file 406- criminal breach of trust against wife for not returning jewellery and then come to negotiation table...as wrong can be defeated by only wrong in nowdays kaliyuga

[@kshitiz06]

This is why judiciary system needs reform. Judges can be very incompetent and there is no consequences for them.

[@ミツシオガイコちゃん]

I think it's better to get written signature before marriage. Or don't get married at all in India.

[@DrBathina]

In my case one best judge refused to grant maintenance-it’s landmark decision for my case and it turned my case .I remember that honest judge

[@savinaykumar4489]

Take my advice if you ever want to get married in future, marry a village girl, you will be happy throughout your life, this advice was given to me by my friend and today it has been 6 years since I got married and I am living my best life.

[@pinkymishra6970]

Laws were made to make people's live better but some girls abuse those powers, which makes me disguisted. I can only imagine the pain the guy must be going through because I also have a brother and I don't want him to go through this.

[@justadreamerforgood69]

Wymyn will never be able to understand what a man goes through. Besides your safety, wymyn have it so easy !

[@prashanthb6521]

Even after the husband commits suicide the girl will still not leave his family. This is how women are.

[@JohnDoe-kj2cs]

Shut up

[@sonatestd2085]

Not these laws

[@sportstv1217]

Some ? All do.

[@ParagLalwani]

When i was young i was against dowry, but now i think dowry is best thing. Atleast it provide something to men in this cruel world.

[@leo-zh4zv]

MGTOW is the best for men nowadays.. Your mental health, your hard earned reputation and money will be safe.. They bring nothing to the table in marriage nowadays, just acts entitled to everything with extreme confidence and arrogance.. Don't fall for their charms and external beauty.. Just work on yourselves, engage in charity to reduce suffering in the world and live your life peacefully.. Life is too short for indulging & investing yourselves in something that will cause such harassment and waste a lot of your limited time.. NOTE- If you have compulsions. There are other ways to have fun with no strings attached, no headaches or heartaches (if you have money)..😉

[@forgaming5640]

​​@PriyankaDas-ko5vx you just reversed the case i see this so often is that those laws taken from western society where wife file divorce take half his asset than pay child support for 18 years and now so many young western women are signle this thing also happening in india as well i am CA and i looking for a wife abroad i will never married to indian women

[@Damnme719]

What is MGTOW?

[@theartsyowls]

Why as a Lawyer can you all not collate such cases, and file PIL to change certain unjust laws? I know of a friend who is going thru similar trauma and his "sati-savitri" Wife is flirting online late nights with other men, while is also seeking interim maintenance, immediate interimmaintenance, several other demands. Why is that all women all allowed to play a 'woman card'. I myself had not played being an woman, i am divorced, and didnt claim alimony and i know manu woman take advantage of such laws in India.

[@Rozze123_fun]

Being a woman I totally agree with you. It's wrong on wife's behalf to loot her husband even when she is capable to support herself. I am shocked by judgment, no one has right to threaten anyone without hvng substantial proof. Marry a person only after showing all the documents of personal income. Kudos to your courage and honesty for fighting for someone's right. This is mental torture for a man who's got many more responsibility

[@ImanBcheck]

And they claim that they follow constitution 🤣

[@viplovebhokare5552]

That's it I am convinced I am not getting married

[@nived9432]

Hope you become a judge one day....and every husband suffering from these annoying judges seek for your help🙃

[@skandha4265]

It all Starts in Family. A Dad's partiality towards the Girl Child makes them Entitled to Everything... Lying to Acting Innocent.

[@vignesh0208]

"I don't care", that has got to be the more scary & infuriating thing and the last thing you'd want to hear in a court.

[@biswalashis123]

Very informative video. Husbands are always on the loser side in all court matters. But small tips like this one can help all the troubled husbands.

[@krushnavispute4397]

I pray to god by my heart ❤️ that these judges also go through the same situation 🎉

[@noahark3984]

Sometimes I wonder, are judges allowing their own personal belief systems to cloud their judgements??

[@lol6434]

Absolutely, I think so. They are more emotional than logical.

[@shubhamkumardas1476]

@@lol6434 emotional?? They are wokes 😂

[@Swapnil-p7q]

I am male who is victim of domestic violence. I lost all my income and savings, physical health ,Mental healthy and worse thing I lost turst in humans. I thought if you love someone enough you can change cruel person to tolerable one but I was wrong. Marriage is difference between heaven and hell. Most men are in hell.

[@adv.mayurdas4538]

And for such reasons, the younger generation is not willing to get married. Marriage has turned into a business for few women.

[@pritiprakashmohanta4118]

Stay single.. Focus on your life, career and hobbies 😇

[@vhari6045]

Undue influence, fraudulent behaviour , coercion, extortion, lies, etc. on the part of married women are encouraged by our laws and courts like this and such women go unpunished for such crimes which is not good for our society.

[@abdulwadud3495]

Divorce law should be easy.Otherwise marriage rate is bound to decline which ultimately ends up in loneliness.

[@Marcos-uz5xe]

Better loneliness than being drag to court and have metal harassment for entire life

[@amairaagarwal5659]

I am a woman and i agree these laws are biased towards women, need to get done with it. We women need to come together and stand against this injustice, we know what oppression is lets not become the reason for someone else's reason

[@Sandeep-tc1yv]

Best option is not to marry and let the gold diggers rot. After few years of youth they will find themselves at the right place where their real rate will get evaluated.

[@AndyDutta]

Thank you for the video counselor. I have one observation. These laws such as Hindu Marriage Act, Hindu Personal Law, 498A, domestic violence, dowry, etc., seems to affect the Hindu men disproportionately while leaving men of other religions alone. Is that a correct assumption to make?

[@AbhishekSharmaOP]

Yes its congress who wanted to destroy hindu family and hence added these laws

[@vinayj1763]

No divorce laws are pretty much same for other religions as well.

[@VikramjitSingh924]

Nope not true at all it's according to hindu marriage Act. ​@@vinayj1763 Divorce laws for other religions are far more loose for husbands.

[@asipa]

Its best for a men not to marry or be in relationship now a days.... Just enjoy your life spending on yourself only..and visit gb road whenever required... Or may be thailand

[@Bharatiya12321]

Akela reh Lena but randibazi/ randwe nhi banna ...mard ho namard nhi

[@mandarp9472]

The reason is force A to pay B without any responsibility of person O

[@HiteshPatial]

my god... i am 38 ... very scared ... what if this happened to me ... i am only son of parents ... all women looking for money and status ... nobody have something to offer in name of equality or even equity... how to have affordable surrogacy option to atleast be a father ...

[@-Blue-_]

Shadi mat karna bilkul bhi aj ki duniya Mai kya ho Jaye kuch bharosa nahi hai

[@911abhijeet]

Can such judges be punished by moving to higher court? As they are not performing their duties properly. They are finding a short cut in their work.

[@shashankke250]

No, that's how law works Even the police use this, they ask for confession by stating if you don't say this. Then u won't be allowed to go home or just hide few facts and interrogate. So anything related to police and court. Need a good lawyer, it's better to pay an expensive lawyer.

[@kavishwarmokal124]

Yes, one can and should start filing complaints against erring judges and get them exposed ; time is nearing for judicial system to be scrapped and rebuilt again freshly.

[@rachitsingh9214]

Kanoon इस देश में सिर्फ़ मज़ाक की चीज़ है.... और कुछ नहीं..... इंसाफ वगरह सब बेकार की बाते हैं...!!!

[@maxpayne8741]

one woman is a lawful burden of 3 men (father, husband & son) but sadly, nobody recognises hard work of men. We are taken for granted. Now days it has become a trend to give women rights and burden men with liability.

[@sachinkumar151992]

someone should ask/said to Judge Sahb,," Soon there will be a threat in India in the name of marriage, as already Indian youth is afraid of getting married, and such one sided or biased decisions will incite this situation"

[@mohdelyask]

Indian Law is making getting married so difficult that Men are going to leave getting married.

[@siddharthagupta3062]

Maintenance and alimony laws are the worst laws. What he has told is merely a tip of an ice berg. Nowadays Laws are used as a tool for harassment rather than justice.

[@RA-bm8cq]

What if we made video of entire proceedings or judge threatening the client...and submit it before honourable high court

[@sreyanshuchaterjee3962]

Record all this. These judges need to be stripped of his certification.

[@rahulvasudeva9303]

😂😂😂😂 bhai leave high court even supreme Court judges are sitting there for granting maintenance and alimony to woman. U r living in India, just once you go to court, judges first of all ask for maintenance amounts to pay then if they feel then listen to your petition otherwise reject your petition straight away.

[@BharatJusta]

The biggest reason judges do this because they're on a power trip and they want to be hailed as a hero. A local judge, where I live, has taken on theirself to issue challans to traffic offenders, which on most occassions are local farmers. Hauling a water pump in car are you? Here's a fine, 20000 rupees. Locals are absolutely tired of it. And most have just given up and accepted that if they need to get some work done or if there is something wrong with a vehicle which cannot be rectified since it's a small town and nearest service centers are 150km away, there is a heavy toll to pay to a judge with power and whi enjoys serving justice to locals rather than actual criminals and rapists in the court.

[@salokyadeb1344]

Working women will now claim alimony after divorce, and then they will say they are independent. They are not even independent after marriage 😂

[@dubeyvs6159]

Congratulations and salutations to the indian judicial system for incentivising men not to enter the householder / provider role and avoid this marital institution altogether .

[@ankushje]

Can we make this video viral? This is important.