How being "real" makes you magnetic af...

Freedom is the ability to be disliked. When you are free to be you, not attached to what other people think and feel about you, you end up becoming more expressive, more free and more magnetic because you are being the real you. Join the High Vibe Tribe: aarondoughty.c...
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[@AaronDoughty44]

Hey! have you joined the High Vibe Tribe yet? its my new free community! I go live and do free workshops and meditations in there, join here! aarondoughty.com/highvibetribe

[@vibewell]

😊

[@leemardankha9621]

I think it is the time to make a video regarding a very important point How can I know if this person is suitable for me? I am talking here about marriage Thank you Aaron for all the effort you are making

[@leemardankha9621]

I think you have explained everything in your videos regarding How to be and stay positive and spiritual How to attract positive people But now you just need to tell us how can we know if this person is the right one for us?

[@poisoning-socrates]

You've cut out the entire part of what it is to relate to another human being in an actual relationship.

[@jacksnstaffs5562]

Have joined! Glad to be part of it ❤

[@Clevelandsteamer324]

Some People are very upset when you won’t stay in the box they put you in.

[@hanasipkova]

Indeed

[@terencehennegan1439]

Very true.

[@cindy888-p3v]

I seem to be triggering a lot of people. I will not let other dim my light!

[@veronicasmith2612]

Let them be upset 🎉 let them eat cake

[@Clevelandsteamer324]

@@cindy888-p3v you only catch flack when you are over the target

[@rosaiverson3475]

“There is no one more hated than he who speaks the truth” - Plato

[@janicetelfer6211]

💯 I was going to say that too lol 😊

[@jacksnstaffs5562]

Funny that, isn't it?

[@gigliolagrey6861]

"Freedom is actually being disliked". You speak the truth, yes, you do!

[@moonmaiden4197]

“You don’t wanna be nice you wanna be authentic.” 👍🏻👍🏻

[@moonmaiden4197]

I would rather be respected than liked.

[@sprungson]

"when presented with the choice to be right or to be kind, choose kindness". What you put out matters.

[@Hiltie1]

Brilliant wisdom 😉

[@johnwerahiko6226]

Depends what place you are coming from. I understand the context though. I think more accurately is don't compromise authenticity for connection

[@Hiltie1]

@@johnwerahiko6226 brilliant wisdom.

[@aydansadig7684]

You are better than my therapist

[@walleworld6859]

👏👏👏 Agree 💯

[@art.junk13]

Being real Sensitive And vulnerable has pushed people away from me…..I love the real me and that’s going to have to be enough

[@Youasktoomanyquestionssis]

The universe is pushing them away. They don’t deserve you!

[@jessicapankiw1067]

So grateful we live in a world where we have easy access to uplifting content

[@JoJo-vz5uy]

Everyone is “nice”… few are KIND.

[@jackroberts416]

AMEN to that. When you realize all your happiness comes from within you, you cultivate a positive mindset and know how to stay positive, then nobody can effect you unless you let it. At a certain point you become imperturbable. It helps when you realize that you have no control over what anybody else thinks of you and vice versa nobody else has control over what you think of them then you stop caring because you can act as much of a clown as you want to try and be liked and people still might not like you. What I do is just try to do the right thing at all times. And for the most part that means what is best for my well being. Principles over people.

[@jordinlee4908]

Perfectly articulated. 🙏

[@amimitchell5745]

You are on fire! I've struggled with this people pleasing issue my whole life. Really needed to hear this. Thank you!

[@starlightdaisy]

Can't explain how much all of these videos have helped me. I was so exhausted being a people pleaser and didn't know how to get out of the cycle . The candle meditation helps my panic attacks I feel more safe in my body . I would love to see an autism video on here

[@divine.healing]

"I like me" 💯🌹❤️

[@ValentinaHaros-fd6nf]

I ❤ your response I like me too💟⚖️🕊️

[@NewEarthSpiritual808]

This might sound strange, but I don't think I know what I'm like when I let go of other people's expectations.

[@mantisgardens1375]

Perhaps I don't know either... How do you (or me)know what their expectation is?

[@carolinekelly8481]

This guy has heart ❤️ he has good energy!

[@Pylirr_Raerana]

I really like this video! 😁😉👏🏻 So true also so annoying sometimes to see people caring so much whether others like them or not and hurting themselves and loved ones just to stay “nice” for everybody.

[@MalyndaPope]

I believe that what other people think of me is none of my business. I still have difficulty with practical application at times though.

[@robertaharvey2027]

Just repeat it over and over as I say this one myself! Thank you for sharing and have you seen one of his other recent videos about thoughts and thinking as well? Because best to stop the thinking part which is what you are doing in the second sentence, so stop it and I am making light of this and that you geddit with good intentions! 😊🎉❤

[@MalyndaPope]

I haven't seen that video, but I do see what you are saying. I'm owning a difficulty by repeating it. Thank you for your insight!

[@robertaharvey2027]

@@MalyndaPope Thank you for letting me know and I wish you all the best! 🙌🏼😻

[@thefutureisnow209]

Love that you clarified the difference between a gaslighting narcissist and standing up for your true self. Deff the other side of it. You are a light. Thank you.

[@wilson8979]

Great video! The will you stamp my card, so funny. 😂 I don’t want to give away my power. I like being authentic. I am safe to be myself.

[@loopswell1385]

6 months and I keep coming back to your videos, you have helped me through some emotional states of dependency and I feel almost comforted by your content now

[@drew67gmdrm72]

Freud , Adler and Jung. Yes three amigos 😊 Freud works on your lower consciousness ,Adler on socialization and Jung on your transcendence ,as i have come to see it.

[@user-xo2gc3mt6m]

How liberating so true so sweet …to live speaking our unique truth,spreading our core strengths,living by our morals and not by what others expect from us..offering what unique abilities god gave us and doing these not being afraid of what others think …truly liberating and soul relieving

[@AngelsEdgeOfficial]

I can feel other people's energy. That's why I started following you. I believe it's a God-given gift. I generally don't go around advertising this, but it's true. Some people may not understand it, but people carry--energy, vibes--whatever you want to call it. It's a good idea to be nice to others. I mean, if you saw someone destitute, sleeping on the sidewalk, would you really walk by them if you had the ability to get them something to eat? From seeing the look of despair to watching the big smile on their face is priceless. You should try it sometime.

[@patrickdjivo3862]

This is Gold ! Thank you Angel

[@KatesTake]

💯 not needing to be liked.

[@MerariBonova]

I'm learning boundaries, and it's very hard when you are around people that are manipulative and have different tactics to persuade, I can feel it, I know and I'm aware. Watching this video helped me to see the missing puzzle of the work I'm doing because I have been practicing boundaries but I have noticed my old self still try sometimes to agree to certain things specially after people insist and insist, It feels unfamiliar and uncomfortable to be "rude" and say "No I don't want to do that" I still feel the need to ease tension because In my head I'm thinking " that is not me, I'm not a rude, mean person I don't want to say "No" a lot of times until they get tired of asking" BUT now I understand that is totally ok to be disliked , people will talk anyway so I rather be just be loyal to myself and have the trust of being disliked. That will set me free to not be involved with the wrong people that can't accept boundaries.

[@chromagik]

Aaron, I love how you bring a bit of humour and silliness to your videos - so much personal development is all serious but you make it fun 😊 thank you for your authenticity, you practice what you preach! 🙏🏻 ❤

[@AlexandriaMenjivar]

Yes.. I was just feeling and thinking the same! ❤

[@anatoliyminchev9671]

" Validation and approval is the ugly cousin's substitute to love." - That's great! Thank you !

[@veronicasmith2612]

You've been nailing it recently Aaron! I'm a resurrected viewer from 2018 and I'm so glad to have found your content again. What you're teaching is so valuable, and your method of teaching is sticking.

[@richardhansen1590]

I love the talk about identifying your emotions with childhood, because a lot of children were brought up with shame and have spent decades trying to get rid of that hold, often very much at the expense of themselves. Childhood issues can take years to unwrap if you do not have the tools to do so and like Aaron says free yourself. Nice video Aaron very lucid and informative.👏

[@susanhills7199]

So true... I love me and for sometimes being a bit of a weirdo! I dont care what ppl think..I am whole and complete! ❤

[@axonometri]

Have you ever given thought to the fact that each one of us are so complex and nearly infinitely unique in our make up of cosmic energy, that what works for you, might not work for me?

[@jacksnstaffs5562]

Thank you so much for this. It's really helped. I've always been authentic. But I've also had some fear and found that people seemed to hate me for it which triggered stuff from my childhood. Lately I decided to crank things up. To let my light shine to the full no matter what because it's a waste of life to make yourself small because you are afraid. This has brought a lot of hate from some people who have tried to tear me down but it also brought some things that I have not experienced before. One of the people who had been particularly nasty to me over a long period of time apologized and said it was not me they hated but themselves which was sad but interesting. Also letting your light shine attracts other kinds of people. For the first time in my life I have real friends who are really kind people with good intentions. I feel like this is one of our main reasons for being here. To Love ourselves, to own it and to let our light shine full blast no matter what. There is a beautiful quote by Marianne Williamson called "Our deepest fear" which is about letting your light shine. It's so inspirational. Know that you are loved and most of all love yourself first before anything else and know that you are worthy of that love ❤

[@Kookey-hu9cw]

Thank you for sharing this ❤

[@vancouvervito]

You’re absolutely right - if I wanna be free I gotta be me!

[@eaglecandy]

You have been so helpful to me. I realize even more than I have admitted to myself that I am a total people pleaser in order to be liked.. Thank you Aaron for the helpful insights!

[@isthatcarlin4948]

Im ok with not be liked, everybody likes the “nice” guy

[@melissaroshan]

Timely. Thank you Light Being. ❤

[@michelehoover777]

I love that you are putting this out there. I talk about this with my all my clients and it was my lightning moment.

[@TRUTHRULES777]

Yep! Be yourself🌞

[@timothytaylor5551]

A cheaper place = less constraints of society in a way. I love you Aaron. Don't forget about me Rastafari

[@ThePositivityPrincess]

Dude. I pictured you at the gym getting into a fight… I was like, wait what? Aaron gets into fights… no… lol.. Mr. Right-Meow…. No way… then you said just kidding and laughed and my world fell back in place

[@carolinecaroline6567]

Stamp my little card!! 😂😂😂😂 I love how you teach Aaron ❤❤❤❤

[@MrYatesj1]

Fer Real! BE Yourself and if others don't dig it, it's ok. Don't try to offend others but don't hide your light. Cheers

[@highflyer72]

Omg perfect timing...I dont resonate with most people it seems.....oh well🙏🩷☺️

[@dylanpringle4314]

That’s too funny. I understand this all the way through and through. I try to explain to people they’re not interested in fixing their future.

[@lisa33428]

Some people are “shoulding” all over me by telling me who I should be. It doesn’t resonate with them when I choose boundaries that protect and contribute to my wellbeing. I don’t feel obligated to please others at my own expense. Love your videos. 🌷

[@Reunion4ever]

You know when I first REALLY liked you? When you talked about your vulnerability and about Nordstrom shoes 😂

[@genevievegaudreau4629]

Love your authentic self Aaron ❤ you are so right everytime i listen to your video it resonates so much! So insightful 🙏 thank you!

[@ambervert]

Freedom here we come!!

[@Sohum1111]

The synchronicity is so beautiful and of course Aron is the one popping up. When I was done sitting in the forrest, crying as often. Talking to myself on cam, with the conclusion once again- I just want to be free. This is freedom and it makes so much sense 🕉🌹🙏 Thank You. All of You ❤

[@lakritzz2397]

You‘re so right man!! Eventually these thoughts reached my inner heart. Right time right place. Thanks a lot!!!

[@GlamourGirl1045]

Excellent video!! So helpful and encouraging! 💯

[@judykomarek4242]

You are on top of your game!!! I so appreciate your service to help me and many others.

[@ferrari777ism]

you are helping me find my power again, thank you Aaron

[@aMSkEes]

I’m free and genuine, but it also gets ppl wanting to challenge you. “Bad people”.

[@sayisfying26]

I'm so glad i discovered your channel ❤

[@lizvollmost6864]

I have always loved Madonna and I love Pink too.Magick

[@cece4919]

The Oxford, dictionary definition of the word nice literally translates to stupid, or aloof, ignorant. So yeah…

[@Kristinewildnfree]

Thank you, you gave me something to think about and it resonates!

[@DistortedIlusion]

Mama Free has no power over me

[@ericapm9120]

I like listening to you. It’s therapeutical

[@marlonbravo9466]

Thank you for the consolation Aaron! 🖤

[@mykidsarebrilliant]

Happy Mother's day Aaron! You are the definition of a good mother, nurturing us and helping us grow in love and acceptance! May you be blessed, always. Cheers! xo.

[@clarucho]

your channel has been my greatest youtube find this year, i watch your videos every week since i found it because it has SO MUCH INFO untouch by others. thank you for sharing your knowledge

[@j.870]

Wow!!!! Very POWERFUL Aaron!!!!🥰

[@AngelSpiritSoul369]

You have helped me transform my life over the past few years 🌟Everything you teach is so true🌟 thank you beautiful precious Soul❤❤❤

[@narudream2944]

Thank you this video opened my eyes ❤❤❤❤❤

[@mayhtoo3576]

It's okay,feel good....goooooose😂

[@debrapaquette6266]

OMG, you just nailed me to the cross. Not all but you definitely sounded like you were talking about me in a lot of this video. I've been having the thought I should buy a shadow journal.

[@catanddog7477]

Thank you soo much Aaron🙏🌼🌱🌿☀

[@helenee.5462]

Freedom is also the ability to actually be liked💚 courage to be liked as who you are

[@askfirestarter]

Facts - This is amazing 🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️💯💯💯

[@SoundOfTheWaves247]

Amazing powerful video.....this video resonates so much with my current situation. Thankyou Aaron

[@brittanycantu8199]

okay these videos always pop up when i need these, thank you for this video and thank you for sharing your knowledge about these topics 🌻

[@marialaska4613]

really like this line freedom is the ability to be disliked ...I. speak my truth ...I know i have NO control over what other people like or dislike only have control over my self ....and now we are free

[@damoncraig6671]

Awesome job Aaron thank you for this video much love and appreciation ❤

[@shootingstar7374]

Thank you Aaron! you just boosted my self-esteem in the first 10 minutes of your video. The art of not giving a F**ck is amazing!

[@danielmillerjr2682]

Thank you!

[@kishanalaidley653]

THANKS AARON!!❤

[@JWHines66]

Great message

[@user-tk8yx3pn4b]

Incredible. Thank you sooo much xx

[@ailbhefoley]

Love every vid I’ve seen of yours. Thanks for being you! It’s showing me that maybe I could be as courageous one day :)

[@ilenek.5428]

Aaron, what you have stumbled upon is gold! I had a girl at work who really acted as if I was a problem. It turned out that I think she was jealous. Im thinking that the dude who didnt like u was jealous as well. You have grown immensely. Sometimes people see how powerful you are before we even get a whiff of it ;)

[@mattmart2888]

Aaron, you a cool ass dude man. I appreciate you and your content.

[@mayhtoo3576]

This Super good conversationA4!!👍👏🏆

[@AvalonNoskova]

Man, I have this too. I don’t want to be considered mean or cold bc I don’t want to be associated with those people who are cruel and cold. I feel some sort of obligation to how others feel. You told me this Aaron, at the recent live in high vibe. I’m really trying to shine a light on it from all the angles. I had tried to clear this but it hasn’t fully lifted yet. Thanks for sharing you had this too. I gotta become aware of it and the benefits I’m getting from this pattern. I want to fully be my authentic self! 🤗❤

[@derquerlenker1365]

Omg I just read this Book just a few month ago, lol! I was just asking myself wether you refer to Adlerian psychology. Nice to see you unpacking it here, brother!😊👍🏻

[@arachni888]

love this it's soooo true

[@livyintheskywithdragons]

Those vids are helping me a lot 🤗🤗

[@jacksnstaffs5562]

No way! I wanted to write to you and ask you to do a video about exactly this! I'm just about to go to bed now but I'm watching this tomorrow! Thank you so much!

[@yourfutureisnow6480]

This was a great video. Resonates

[@user-dz3lb3tm4y]

glad to see you still are not jaded and still realistic and not let your ego grow as subs go up like some on other channels...like spiritual guru look up to me and my words and vibe only , bs. instead ,keeping it real.

[@mayhtoo3576]

We are just we are,not on other's like or dislike, couldn't end another person word or behavior ❤😅

[@heartliss]

Because he is the light he is here to hold me only

[@laurimauri7467]

Wow wow wow ❤️

[@user-nv2kl9sg5g]

My therapist lol love your videos🎉❤

[@seanthegod4585]

I go everywhere with my Trump 2024 🇺🇸 shirt. 😎

[@Thewoowooguru]

🇺🇸

[@heartlightmagic]

That was a great video (not that you need my validation though, haha). I really appreciate these lessons just to embrace one's own authenticity more and more. I've found as well that as I've become more authentic sharing some of my spiritual writing and songs, it's true that not everyone may resonate, but this was a great reminder of the freedom it brings to share one's truth.

[@maccastacka444]

Wow this made so much sense to me thankyou x

[@mayhtoo3576]

Yesss!!had a thought that freedom is itself birth right but way is long so wired&fired of life likely forget the how Authentic in reality ourselves❤😅😇🌎