HOW CAN AN LDR WORK?| REAL TALK DARBS

[@berniedethreyes9051]

Very well said. I am currently in an LDR and my partner can’t come to Ph due to restrictions. I sometimes ask myself if this is still worth fighting for since there is no certainty on when are we going to see each other again. I feel frustrated most of the time and tend to question our love for each other since I know and I feel that some things had changed. Insecurities hits me. I sometimes question his loyalty as well. But one thing I realized. I chose to stay and I trust and believe in love. To everyone out there having the same dilemma as me, let’s keep fighting and let’s pray that every sacrifices we have turn into a sweet victory. God bless us. Love wins. Thanks kuya for your message.

[@maricar8747]

I feel you.. i also in a long distance relationship and i have doubt everyday.. but he always assured me that im just the one and he love me..

[@angeliecaranyagan3092]

Been there than that. But bad thing is, we broke up na :(

[@lovecompoc6236]

@Lupita Gutierrez sad naman :( sayang ung 2 years

[@gerlynarevalo9974]

Me rn. 🥹😭 trying to be strong.

[@samotsari3463]

Thank you,my girlfriend and i, ay maghihiwalay na din. Papunta na syang ibang bansa,iniisip ko pa lang ang hirap na😔😌

[@spectrem-4157]

Diyan naman ang love, trust, honesty, loyalty, faithful. Pero if wala ang pinaka main ingredient sa lahat. Which is "COMMUNICATION" is the key. Pano na kung ung love languages niya isa dun is physical touch. Sablay agad. Pangalawa recieving gifts, at ubos na ipon like literal na ubos 2019 was worse and 2020 made it worst. pandemic at walang hiring sa lugar niyo. Di makapunta sa kabilang city to work. Obligation mo pa to take care of ur love ones at home. LDR is very hard. It requires a lot of effort and understanding. At least I tried and made sacrifices that's all that matters. Pili lang tlga sa mga tao ang Ldr.

[@linsmique917]

Sometimes we give up easily ,but we think we can make it work for the better to be patiently waiting for ..

[@lesmisurbanite5306]

LDR is so difficult. I'm on the verge of giving up. Trust is important and love alone can't be a foundation of your relationship's strength. A lot of things to consider including communication, self-worth, time, commitment, etc.

[@nadtorrefiel7416]

this channel needs more subscribers and views.

[@msfam3039]

"Never allow your present to suffer the consequences of the past" wala pa naman akong present but tbh nakakatakot na maulit ulit ung sa past. I do really have this trust issue..hays.

[@ms.seimeiofficial]

very well said, I am currently in ldr and I swear it is not really that easy kase may mga time na napaparanoid ka pag di mo sya nakakausap at kung ano anong naiisip mo but in the end you tend to trust your partner that he/she knows his/her limitation and does not exceed to that.

[@mariaisabellasajol6902]

🙏 thank u

[@miralynopiniano208]

Going 8yrs with my man and 2yrs ldr. Ang hirap. Sobra. The fact that u just want to hug him, but u can't :( isang hug lng to ease all of the pain, but u can't.

[@fujiyamato2159]

Hirap din po ldr kac mag pa 5yrs ako dito sa abroad...

[@miralynopiniano208]

@@fujiyamato2159 yes po sobrang hirap ng ldr. Mdali lng magsalita for those na wala sa situation, pero pag ikw na ibang usapan na un. Btw, keep safe 💕

[@kimberlybenoya7479]

I'm currently in Ldr , I am from Cebu and my partner is from Guimaras but here we are still fighting all went well nmn as long as may trust ka at loyal kayo sa isat isa . Patience also kasi may times na you need a hug from him but di nagawa and most of all pagdadasal kay Lord . 2 years kami ng partner ko and this year we're going to see each other na . Trust the process

[@reynaldogarbin4415]

I have a question… How can I put my trust to somebody who I cannot feel, touch or even seen?

[@cristydevera4024]

LDR is really hard...I don't know kung magwowork Yung relationship namin.. I ask wisdom Kay Lord always kung Hindi siya para sa akin Sana ngayon palang kayo na siya ni Lord sa buhay ko.

[@ceciliaguevarra8851]

Im whole and Im happy with my life now and Im ready to my new beginning with my son and mom and of course myself..

[@akoTophixTV]

This vlog is not supposed to convince you that you're supposed to believe in LDR but this is actually me telling you that sometimes, people are actually willing to take sacrifices despite of the consequences because that's how powerful having a feeling for someone is...specifically, love. ~ Salamat, Kuya Darbs. Sa mga tulad kong in LDR. Kaya natin to sa tulong ni God. 🙏🙏🙏

[@craft3minutescraft252]

3 years in ldr soon magkikita na kami. Thanks God nalampasan namin lahat ng pagsubok ups and down kami He is from UK. Tiwala lang understand at love 💘.

[@celyn1893]

first time mo ba sya makikita with those 3 years?

[@dulcebandiola3631]

nakakainspire po kayo kmi 3years together na. then mag ldr pa lng❤😊

[@clairebayson7138]

Very well said 💯 % but if you both love each other you can survive this situation

[@aimeemarcos1410]

Ang hirap lang kasing magbigay ng trust kung sa marami ka ng naranasang Heartbreak ..

[@lawrence-kun]

Thank you po kuya... 5 months napo kami tapos minsan po na hihirapan po i handle nang mabuti yung relationship namin kasi LDR nga tapos once every 2 month lang po kami nag kikita...mi nsan nakakaisip po ako mga mga negatives kaya nag search po ako ng mga tips about sa LDR then pinanuod ko po yung video mo kuya ...ang ganda mo ng message na binigay nyo nag iba yung pananaw ko about sa LDR nalaman ko na hindi pala Impossible basta't kinakaya lang pi talaga tapos hindi po sinusukuan... maraming salamat po ulit kuya sa advice... sana po makagawa pa po kayo ng mga videos na ganito at makatulong pa po sa ibang LDR katulad namin❤️

[@jeruhwell0815]

congrats darb.. more power!! 💪🏻🙏🏻

[@dianequinco7092]

I am currently in a an LDR relationship and it works it doesn't matter how far or near your love is what matters most is how both of you work it out.

[@chel1950]

9 years LDR😂 Ang salitang mahirap ay di ko ma explain itawa na lang natin yan pero hoping na Soon together Forever nA Pray For Us guys we need more prayer warriors

[@mammon5900]

Thank you. I'm watching this while crying as I regret making her suffer because I was scared she would do the exam same thing my past did. I'm sorry love. I love you and I regret hurting you. I'm so sorry.

[@capricorn483]

Praying for the sweet victory to both of us @jerson ♥️♥️ almost 4yrs of waiting will always worth .. 😘

[@diemzee9948]

4 years napo kayong LDR?

[@draco6661]

update hahaua

[@capricorn483]

@Draco and now we are married 🙏🏻

[@draco6661]

@@capricorn483 WOWWWWWW CONGRATSSS

[@mcquinettebenedicto5871]

I like the way you deliver your advice wala ng paliguy.liguy pa,,

[@keypurpose4963]

I'm crying now😭, my bf have to leave to work abroad. I really don't want to have this ldr, but the fact that you don't wanna waste for our future, I'll give my support on him. Hnd ko Rin pinapakita na ilang beses Ako lumuluha because I thought hnd ko ma experience Ang LDR. babalikan ko tong comment na ito hopefully sa pag balik ko magkasama na ulit kami and we will live together. I love you love ❤️

[@irishenriquez685]

Hi, same situation! Sobrang hirap pero fighting para sa future! 🥺🤞🏻💯

[@calipogi8214]

Kamusta naman kau maam?Hoping na mas maging malakas kau

[@karbysparks8348]

Sarap makinig kay kuya darbs, salamat sa advice 😉😊

[@julietsurisantos8020]

More Power To You Darb! You're such an Effective Adviser!! You are so Awesome! Keep it Up! Godbless you more knowledge and wisdom! I love your style and being yourself! Sobrang tawa ko at pauulit-ulit kong play at hindi ako maka get over sa kakatawa when you said "magwowork daw ang ldr, kapag may trust kayong tatlo sa isat isa! Hahaha🤣🤣 Congrats Darb! 💕😘

[@raicyceprine8953]

Deserve mo yung pangalan ng channel mo. You don't push your opinions to others, and you don't judge. Kalmado ka lng sa topic and more importantly, honest. The way you speak is as if you're communicating with me personally; not just a speech for the general. Tuloy mo lang yan lods! You'll create a great impact sa aming filipino netizens

[@gayaprilsungahid7192]

Thanks for this advice. I can relate to ldr. This advice is really helpful. Thanks po

[@rochellevarona8086]

TBH im also in a relationship right now I'm from antipolo, at yung partner ko namn is currently in Antique and pursuing his College Dreams. I do understand namn kung bakit niya tinatapos ang pag aaral niya ng college kc dream niya un. And supportive namn ako kc as we grow as a individuals we need to be the best version of our selves ☺️. Siguro nga dahil sa work nalang ang iniisip ko mas mahaba ang free time ko. Since may priorities na siya ngayon nakakamiss lang, di na gaya ng dati na palagi kami magkausap, siya pa nga yung tumatawag palagi sakin di gaya ngayon di na siya tumatawag at di na mashado nakakapagchat hanggang heart react nalang. minsan ang reply kasing haba lang ng bangs ni Dora😅. nakakalungkot kc kahit na gusto ko pa siya makausap ng mas mahaba hindi naman na pweding Ipilit kasi inaantok na siya sa paggawa ng activities at house chores 😔 happy namn ako na matulongin at masipag siya pero nakakabitin lang kasi syempre excited ako matapos sa work para makachat na siya pero ayun😅. Hayyss😔 haha naiiyak tuloy ako. Nawawalan din ako minsan ng lakas kc parang wala na siya gana kausap ako😅 kaya tuloy iniisip ko boring ko na ata kausap. Pero keri lang! Willing to wait kasi Mahal na Mahal ko siya❤️.

[@rudyhonor4813]

Ayaw mo puntahan? Ako from Alabang inuwian ko sya sa Bikol, trying to revive it, minsan physical presences lang kailangan nila.

[@kikikarrie4158]

How are you two. Kayo pa ba?

[@rochellevarona8086]

@@rudyhonor4813 nag surprise visit na po ako sa kaniya noong February 2022 and masaya kaming nag celebrate ng Valentines day😊.

[@rochellevarona8086]

@@kikikarrie4158 Yes 💪😇 kami parin po despite of all challanges and drama sa life😅.

[@gameon8491]

@@rochellevarona8086 Nakakatuwang pakinggan, stay strong po kayo ma'am. -Here i am struggling kase to decide na mag transition kami into LDR dahil lang sa mag hahanap ng higher paying job sa ncr

[@zyrahbelo850]

LDR kami okay na Sana... Kasi consistent yong communication Ang problema Yung religion magkaiba....kahit sinubukan niyo sa huli masasaktan parin kayo

[@hannahashlia1520]

Well explained.....

[@K-ON_YuiHirasawa]

thanks po, i needed it so much

[@aireenroma]

Ldr for 2 years and 5 months waiting to meet him I don't know when

[@clairebayson6927]

LdR is very difficult because you feel some bored insecurities in another people or couple and if you’re negative thinker makakapag isip ka talaga ng hindi maganda but for me i trusted my partner and i know how much he love me so much so that i didn’t have a reason to do not trust him

[@rocksbien1058]

Sobrang hirap for me ng ldr😥😭 maraming nagbago kompara nung andito si partner ko sa pinas maraming nagbabago kahit lahat ginagawa muna..... I hope and pray to much nalang...

[@maricorponcardas35]

LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP for almost 5years now, marunong makuntento sa isa kahit malayo hehe!

[@nengramirez1800]

tama po ..thankyou💟

[@rhyzahgoco687]

I learn from this topic tnx

[@marydavid2775]

I'm the current one who suffer because of her past :)

[@axlrosebation3314]

hayyss realtalk nga

[@justinchua4610]

thank you po sa advice❤

[@ceciliaguevarra8851]

For me IM NOT INTO LDR its takes a lot of patience, time and sacrifice

[@atemelds3548]

very well said😢😞

[@ellehcorcor1791]

Hi kuya darbs❤️ That hits me so hard.Andami ko pong natutunan sa bawat live mo sa IG. Thank you😇❤️

[@marlyngalve6639]

Ganurn tatlo talaga haha

[@FilipinaAndTheForeigner]

Beginning ldr here

[@yolandaalfonso6865]

Kakainis... I learn lots from u I'm widow 10 yrs... Tadhana jokes me..... I meet person super kind.. I need to understand that he likes me..he told .dont know how to love me because of his experience with her leaving partner..he always supporting alot..i fell am important. Sa nga bahala ang panginoon....ang Alam ko I do my very best being a good trustworthy....

[@marlonvillegas1653]

we are actually in a situation that we have to sacrifice time..occasion..events..important matters..what if ur not happy with ur family life..nandun n tyo s ayaw mo ng mambae..kc tapos kna dun eh..paid off n ung past mo..ayaw mo n balikan..pero distance meron dapat plans..how long u wil be far away from ur family..or happy n cia s ganung set up..im not for the money..i can live a simple life..beyond this city..or worst end up a life thats not a worthy to live for..

[@marlonvillegas1653]

i have serious problem..i overthink to much..im sorry..sometimes i wanted to end my life..😔

[@hannasanico6979]

Idol 👏💖💖💖

[@JayneinNetherlands]

Ang galing my tama ka kuya darbs

[@Bars-eg9ps]

nice boy thinks he is so sweet and funny. okay. guud boiiii

[@joselitoperez4457]

Communication/attention is more important for ldr, if doesn't communication/attention that ldr doesn't work 100%

[@YoongDave]

Actually maganda din yung LDR Whhaha ikaw mismo mag cocomfort sa sarili mo

[@ninjajhuvztv3958]

Pinaka masakit sa ating mga ng mamahal ay ang ganyang sittwasion Sa ttoo lang ako mismo di mka move on dhil pag mhl mo tlga ang isang tao sobrang hirap mka limot sa lhat khit ibaling mo sa iba ang atintion mo cia pren nsa utak mo sa ttoo lang dko alam king paano mka limot dhil tgal na nmen wla pero pag naiisip ko cia tumotulo tlga luha ko at ayaw kong may maka alam na iba sa ttoo lang ang skit ang hirap at dko alam kung paano mka limot

[@nickmyap09]

Ang hirap po talaga pag LDR ipagpapalit sa malapit parang ayaw ko na sa mundo 😥😥😥 Lord help me please 😥ano ba dapat ko gawin gusto ko din mag vlog pero wala naman ako mahingian ng Support 😥😥

[@TarantanSHOW]

LDR does not work for me... dyan ako na basag eh...

[@lyrwilllliwryl7493]

Salamat po lods😊

[@vanessaguevara6811]

Ang hirap n biglang ldr kau kc nasanay k na magkasama kau for several years and then nagbago lahat pati ugali nya

[@conejo7288]

pakilakasan pa po yung background music. hahaha

[@karencastillo6627]

Kuya solid paano kung puro away toxic na paadvice naman andoon pa yung nag kakasakit na sa salita lAlo napag tumagal tas dipa nakita acceptable ba na owanan na?

[@wilfredolumayag8167]

Dko alm bat ko to na search mesyo nahihirpaan ndin kse ako

[@jddhjkijnnfdhjku2153]

Mahirap ang LDR eh kung yung magkasama na sa isang bahay naglolokohan pa pano pa kaya yung magkalayo...

[@draco6661]

HAHAHAHA OMS

[@PayrLangTo]

Nasa ldr ako ngayon pero may plano na kaagad ako para puntahan sya dahil 500 pesos nababaon ko kada sahod ng mga magulang ko doon ako makakapag ipon papunta sa lugar ng ka partner ko mukhang kaya naman dahil 2 years and 6 months na pag sasama namen

[@vergieolea3933]

LDR..now i know

[@johnashleyyabut5311]

Sir pa advise naman po, may girlfriend po ako wala pa po kaming isang taon pero gusto sya mag dubai ng parents nya ng dalawang taon. kakayanin moba namin mag survive kahit Wala pa po kaming isang taon na bago lang sa relationship?

[@TeacherNana7]

Sir ano update? Kayo pa ba?

[@marivicmarantal7348]

Seaman wife ako natural lging nsa stages ng ldr kme buwan lng kme magksma next day aalis nanamn sya😌😌

[@irohavaine7033]

Iloveyou kuya

[@maridellifestyle5435]

Never again LDR 😢

[@hannasanico6979]

Totoo hahaha pag maytiwala kayong tatlo ay apat pala jahahahaha

[@derrickcuevas7901]

Oonga

[@franondevilla4322]

bakit tatlo?

[@mariannevaldez9650]

Kaso mali ako e. Nag ooverthink ako. Gusto ko ilaban kaso halos lahat na ng nakapaligid da kanya pinagdudahan ko na :'(

[@joydiamante8225]

Pede po humingi sau ng payo

[@maeninabiancarojo5355]

Wow hahaha

[@emilyboquilla5796]

How about if in deployment your relationship means warzone,ofcourse you should to understand your partner be patient

[@maristelaangelamercado3372]

ang hirap ng ldr ipagpapalit ka sa malapit

[@nicaleorente4053]

Yeah kasi nakakayakap mo HAHAHAA shuta hays ang babaw ng dahilan

[@pjgilos]

🫶🥺

[@nickmyap09]

Ang hirap po talaga pag LDR ipagpapalit sa malapit parang ayaw ko na sa mundo 😥😥😥 Lord help me please 😥ano ba dapat ko gawin gusto ko din mag vlog pero wala naman ako mahingian ng Support 😥😥