How Cary Grant Seduced Women

[@pensivepenguin3000]

I love when you use examples from classic Hollywood to demonstrate gentlemanly style and behavior! No matter how much time passes, this era will always remain the coolest and most sophisticated ever. I’d love to see you do a video on the style and swagger of the Rat Pack

[@Gent.Z]

Thank you. I'm a huge fan of Old Hollywood and these movies have a special place in my heart. The Rat Pack would be an excellent topic for a video.

[@thomashilmersen711]

Do one on Sean Connery, too. Dr. No is a classic, where Connery is very masculine and seductive with the female characters.

[@Gent.Z]

Great suggestion. Dr. No is my favorite of the Connery-era movies.

[@Mrvictorfernandes]

My favorite bit of laconic dialogue from Cary Grant comes from his exchange with Audrey Hepburn in the film "Charade": Cary Grant: "Oh, you should see your face." Audrey Hepburn: "What's the matter with it?" Cary Grant: "It's lovely." Nuff said... 😊

[@Gent.Z]

That is one of my favorite all-time movies. I read that Cary had such chemistry with Audrey that he had to tape himself 'down there' to stop it from showing.

[@Mrvictorfernandes]

@@Gent.Z That story is very, very true, and their chemistry was so potent it inspired Audrey to ad-lib the line "unless it's called for" after saying to Cary "I don't bite, you know!" Cary loved working with her very much and said, "Audrey is like steel; she bends but she never breaks."

[@pensivepenguin3000]

There’s another brand of classic gentlemen, and it’s what I would call the Jimmy Stewart archetype. Look at George Bailey from it’s a wonderful life. Sure, he looks the part with that classic menswear, but he’s also a kind, gracious, infinitely generous man, devoted husband and father, and an all-around good guy. Spotlighting George in a future video might offer another perspective on gentlemanliness in it’s different forms

[@williamjohnson3093]

A Jimmy Stewart episode would be awesome! I’m hoping James will cover him soon

[@pensivepenguin3000]

@@williamjohnson3093 personally he is the classic Hollywood type that I relate with. Sometimes I’m too nice to people, and he has just that slight touch of awkwardness that makes him endearing lol

[@sgazzz]

Really great breakdown, Carey Grant is a great role model for any striving gentleman

[@Gent.Z]

He is indeed

[@mat7083]

Idk. Some of his movies made him annoying and undesirable. He talked too much and quickly whisked beautiful but confused girls. And goes back to the same girl we know isn’t good or compatible for him.

[@seanmceneaney1784]

I liked Steve McQueen in The Thomas Crown Affair..he was pretty smooth in that movie.

[@Gent.Z]

Great, thank you for the suggestion.

[@wheelerdealer2105]

Steve was great, but I think Pierce took it up a few steps in his version..

[@mat7083]

⁠@@wheelerdealer2105No. imo, Steve’s version is just unmatched. Like a lion that slowly walks away from the antelope, knowing that it can pounce on that antelope at any time. Meanwhile, the antelope is tense and anxious for that lion to engage her, but the supposed predator never does…until CHECKMATE! The prey has been played.

[@thechairman74]

@@mat7083 The difference between the Thomas Crown's is that that the Brosnan one is a bit more mature. Both actors are in their mid to late 40s, as opposed to McQueen being late 30s and Faye Dunaway being late 20s in the original. Just a different feeling. I think the idea of presenting seduction in a film depends a great deal on the ages of the characters. I don't get worked up about age differences now like a lot of people do, but the idea of seduction between a mid 50s Grant and a mid 40s Bergman and having ten years age difference is much more acceptable than if they were twenty years younger.

[@mat7083]

@@thechairman74 That’s a fair assessment. And considering the era Cary and Bergman lived in as well

[@sparkynicGaming]

My favourite has to be Sean Connery he was a great man and absolutely one of the best bonds of all time 🙏🏻

[@sirloollonator]

Yeah, great Gentleman in Marnie!

[@judithmoore8692]

Cary grant refused the role of the first James Bond.

[@tomjamison3126]

Great analysis, James! Cary Grant has always been my favorite. Although George Clooney started taking over that position years ago when he did the Oceans movies. His calm deliberate approach to Julia Roberts almost seemed like a more easy-to-copy version of Cary Grant. And of course, Clooney has been called the modern, American Grant for a long time. I'd love to see you do a video of the Clooney seduction style, and compare/contrast it to Cary Grant's.

[@Gent.Z]

You make a great point, Tom. In many ways, I see George Clooney as a modern Cary Grant. Although I prefer Grant and his movies, there is a lot to learn from Clooney, especially with his role as Danny Ocean.

[@scottg2946]

As I'm not that much of a 50's movie buff, I can't think of anyone more suitable for this kind of example than Cary Grant. For more of a current day (well...nearly 20 years ago now) actor, I've always admired the Don Draper character portrayed by Jon Hamm in Mad Men. While the character had a mind-bendingly complicated and dark back story, just the everyday carriage, gait, and gravitas presented by Jon Hamm I think is very hard to top.

[@thechairman74]

The most important thing about the Hamm/Draper performance was the period setting. It helped a lot and I doubt that if Hamm had played a modern character it would have worked as well.

[@thechairman74]

I would recommend watching Grant's Hitchcock films like Notorious, also costarring Ingrid Bergman, To Catch A Thief, and North by Northwest. Also, Stanley Donen's Charade with Audrey Hepburn. Donen also directed Indiscreet.

[@WaylandGaming]

I should really start watching these old movies. Lots to learn.

[@Gent.Z]

@@WaylandGaming there is a lot of wisdom in them.

[@pensivepenguin3000]

And more importantly, they are just classic and brilliant films. Of course we have gifted actors today, but nobody was on the level of this generation

[@thechairman74]

They're among the greatest films ever made, and Hitchcock's direction helped greatly in selling the seduction aspect.

[@flamethedarktruesalt9347]

@@pensivepenguin3000 Yes! Great care was taken in telling the story. Nothing hurried or rushed. It asked patience from the audience.

[@oneminutedaily6394]

Any reccs?

[@mtlicq]

Thanks ! Great video !!! Cary certainly was classy with women, super-classy guy all around. I'd use the word "dignified" (and totally considerate, and appreciated) -- instead of "slow," like a lazy lout. His surprise kiss from Grace Kelly was the ultimate reward.

[@Gent.Z]

@@mtlicq Dignified indeed. I like to break things down into simple terms, especially for our gents watching abroad, but I hope it is obvious that there is nothing lazy or loutish about Grant’s persona

[@sidbemus4625]

" I don't believe I've had the pleasure. "

[@sprezzatura8755]

His Girl Friday is one of my favorite Cary Grant movies.

[@TeddyRumble]

@@sprezzatura8755 "Arsenic and Old Lace" demonstrated his silly side. He could do anything. He looked great into his 70s...

[@The-Real-Jack]

Step 1: be tall and attractive

[@acidtooth]

exactly

[@pensivepenguin3000]

Very much not the point, and he even goes into detail about why. Watch the whole video, my fellow gent

[@user-dx5mh7qw9r]

Better, be Mr. Grant​@@acidtooth

[@EugeneMurray-z1b]

Achieved already!

[@The-Real-Jack]

Hate to be a blackpiller, but your behaviour comes across completely different to women depending on whether they're attracted to you or not. If a girl finds you physically attractive, certain behaviours will be attractive. Those same behaviours done by an ugly short man will be perceived as creepy.

[@rosaleencloade9447]

I also like very much Mr. Gregory Peck!

[@crystalfrancis3211]

Cary Grant’s voice certainly added to his sex appeal.

[@137dylan]

I was born 30 miles from Grant. 'Charade' is one of my all time favourite films.

[@Gent.Z]

@@137dylan fantastic movie. One thing I love about Grant is that, like myself, he was raised in England, but made in America 🇬🇧🇺🇸

[@ceciliatercic7103]

Also his sense of humour 😏

[@TheMassacreFilms]

I wish I was as charismatic and cool as Cary Grant!

[@TeddyRumble]

We all do.

[@rockhero2274]

You will be (long pause) you...will...be. 👉

[@mike.p.1400]

Work on it and learn.

[@moodyguymick]

What's stopping you ?

[@Gent.Z]

So did Cary Grant

[@maddogpopp]

the information you share should be taught in high school. Certainly not being taught today at home

[@Gent.Z]

@@maddogpopp I would love to see lessons on Cary Grant included as part of the curriculum

[@iandougall7169]

The only key quality needed to be successful in this regard is powerful self confidence.

[@marleneyanchus4644]

Great book on men's style " Cary Grant Style " I don't remember the author ,but great timeless tips

[@rodbat9075]

glad I discovered this goldilocks of a channel.

[@Gent.Z]

@@rodbat9075 ‘Goldilocks’ - I like it. Thanks very much

[@Sabermoose]

Watch Charade with Cary Grant and Audrey Hepburn. Very good movie

[@Gent.Z]

Fantastic movie. Always free to watch on KZbin, too.

[@mtlicq]

Also, Sidney Poitier was classy too, and the singer, Max Raabe (Palast Orchester) although he is not in a movie, you can see him on youtube, very classy gent

[@Gent.Z]

@@mtlicq Thanks for your suggestions. I previously touched on Sidney Poitier in an older video, but I will have to check out Max Raabe

[@mtlicq]

@@Gent.Z Glad you noticed my comment. Actually, Max's music fits well with your Bauhaus poster, from the time of elegance when it was more common for men to be gentlemen and ladies were ladies, (although he also does new compositions as well.) Anyways, for a youtybe intro you can see _Opus 3 Artists_ video tited: *_Max Raabe & Palast Orchester: Tonight or Never_* You can also see his classy style in *_Max Raabe - J'Attendrai_* etc...

[@Gent.Z]

@@mtlicq Thank you. I look forward to listening

[@giacomoleopardi5776]

All Time Favorit is Burt Lancester... Maybe he is not a real Gentleman, but he had the Best a Man could have

[@TeddyRumble]

"The Swimmer"

[@Gent.Z]

@@TeddyRumble Thanks for the recommendation

[@maxomans]

Just started watching To catch a thief, cannot wait to see where the story goes!

[@Gent.Z]

@@maxomans Excellent movie

[@BalladsofBahrain]

"In a world of Andrew Tates, I'm Cary Grant" - James Gent

[@sammajor2075]

The personification of "tall,dark,and handsome". The right side of the thumbnail looks like a celebration of love transcending melanin levels.

[@zachz699]

One thing I will say about this channel and all of us who watch it. To be, rather than to seem.

[@glamdolly30]

Yet another quality video, brimful of wisdom on the two sexes (and for the avoidance of doubt/woke 'gender cult' devotees, yes, there are only two sexes). It's impressive you are directly and exclusively aiming these videos at your fellow man. You clearly have much wisdom to impart. But alas I must bring a note of reluctant dissent to my comments here. You quoted the late, great Cary Grant's view that style is somewhere 'in the middle' of fashion. So true! Cary would never wear suit trousers like the currently fashionable, too-snug, too-short, 'ankle swingers' you are sporting at the end of this video. Please study the suit cuts (and especially trouser lengths) of classic style icons of yesteryear like Grant, who knew how a suit should be cut. A man's ankles are not a feature that should be drawn attention to. Ditto men's legs generally, which are wiry/muscly, and not flattered by the skintight, skinny jeans look, which can be so sexy on women's curves. Male and female legs are starkly different!

[@ninozah]

Extract the best from all Bond characters

[@aryiascolbert8487]

Great video. May you do a video on how to take photos like a gentleman?

[@ARedcoat]

William Powell in the thin man

[@Gent.Z]

@@ARedcoat thank you

[@marlinshanklin-ww7em]

Cary Grant had a secret in his personal life.

[@mediaofhogwarts]

I can easily say I have the Laconic reserve but also there are many topics unsaid here. Some girls in their 20s might want a man to lead the situations most of the time. Based on my experience and fuck ups, it is a balance. Keep cool during some situations but lead the way at the same time. Its not exactly an easy trait. So gents, practice makes perfect 😉

[@Gent.Z]

@@mediaofhogwarts you can lead the way without saying too much. Being a man of action and being a man of words are two very different things.

[@Litha-yz7xq]

You need to cover Robert Mitchum.

[@abhilashghosh7578]

Bruce Willis, Mel Gibson, Clint Eastwood.

[@Gent.Z]

Thank you for your suggestions.

[@Ali-jf5lf]

my fav actor is Paul Newman. He is also really handsome and very mysterious I believe. I appreciate you making a video of him as well. this video was amazing. thanks

[@Gent.Z]

@@Ali-jf5lf My pleasure. There is a lot to unpack about Paul Newman so I may do another video on him in the future. Is there a movie of his that is your favorite?

[@Ali-jf5lf]

@@Gent.Z Thanks for replying. I believe Paul newman was a true gentleman, both in his movies and also in his personal life. My favorite movie from him is Cool Hand Luke!

[@williamjohnson3093]

Another actor whom I really enjoy seeing on screen is Errol Flynn. He was known for his incredibly charismatic persona both on and off the screen. Besides acting, Errol Flynn sailed around Indonesia in his youth, was a war-time correspondent, writer, and a tennis player. He was no stranger to scandal either. For an introductory movie I would suggest either The Adventures of Robin Hood or Captain Blood.

[@satoshigerber1271]

I like Patrick Macnee, not only in the series The Avengers. He has great style and behaviour. Moreover he always controls the situation. David Niven was also a good lokking man. Greetngs. Satoshi

[@Bob-Mann]

Thanks ❤ 🇬🇧

[@ronnieciavarelli3968]

Cary Grant is my favorite and my favorite line from him came in the movie North by Northwest when he’s on the train with Eva Marie Saint and he’s nibbling her neck and he whispers to her how does a girl like you get to become a girl like you, brilliant line .I actually used it a couple of times and one time it worked, go figure😹

[@Gent.Z]

@@ronnieciavarelli3968 Their scenes on the train is a masterclass in sexual chemistry and romance

[@ronnieciavarelli3968]

Thank you for your reply ,may I inquire do you have a favorite actor from that era and if so, do you have a favorite line of his and what do you do for a living since I am new to your channel And know very little about you thank you. Take care.

[@user-qn7ui7sb1q]

If you watch one of the documentaries about him he talks about how he struggled with women. He had issues with relationships.

[@LPrulezhard]

Clark gable, yul Brynner, steve McQueen were all amazing personas on and off screen. Maybe do 1 of them since noone has done one yet on them

[@theotht]

Bro really loves Cary grant

[@marianmoses9604]

How to seduce women like Cary Grant? BE Cary Grant: The epitome of style, class, savoir faire, and old school masculinity.

[@MatheusHenriquez]

I also like very much Gary Cooper!

[@duellingdescartes7950]

Steve McQueen: Bullet

[@Gent.Z]

Great suggestion, thank you.

[@BENZO_TV]

1970 20th century fox rizz 🙏

[@niccolopaganini1782]

From the short! ❤

[@Gent.Z]

@@niccolopaganini1782 good to have you here. Enjoy the full video

[@shamonoise]

Al Pacino please!

[@bvans6439]

Rocked this one Gent Z.

[@anujsaxena2861]

I do have a question here. No doubt, James and Cary Grant gave me a masterclass in conducting myself around women, particularly those i have a romantic interest in. But then how many of the lessons we learn here, could actually be applied onto the present-day woman? To be fair, only few women today would carry and conduct themselves like Ingrid Bergman did herself. I hate to say it, the modern day woman seems to favor the more nasty type of men. I fear Cary Grant's style of approaching the present-day woman might be wasted on her because she, in all likelihood, may fail to comprehend such classy behaviour. A man displaying such gentemanly conduct is more likely to be dismissed, as a 'grandpa'. Pardon the verbosity. I felt i needed to be so to better explain the situation.

[@lucasgrey9794]

I think you're wrong on this as Cary Grant follows an archetype that is attractive to the female collective unconscious. A good example of this is the KZbin comment sections of videos on Hannibal Lecter of both Anthony Hopkins and Mads Mikkelsen. Read the comments of those videos and see for yourself how powerful that style of seduction is.

[@anujsaxena2861]

@@lucasgrey9794 now that you mention it, I will check them out. And I sincerely hope I am proved wrong!

[@DarthJabba504]

I keep hearing Dennis Reynolds from Always Sunny in Philadelphia narrating this video like in the D.E.N.N.I.S. System.

[@PatriciaDianneYarrow]

Great content, as usual. Cary Grant seduced women on film, but I think he was actually gay in real life. This only adds to his tremendous ability to *act*, is all I am saying.

[@judithmoore8692]

Not gay. Read up.

[@Gent.Z]

@@PatriciaDianneYarrow there are very strong rumors that he was likely bisexual. But he clearly also liked women. Either way, all of the points in this video still apply

[@Jasona1976]

And men too

[@StevenCovey-ct3sx]

Let’s not forget they were also real ladies as well. Not the tattooed ladies straight out of a side show from the 1920s or what is now standard in bars and clubs circa 2024!

[@Gent.Z]

@@StevenCovey-ct3sx there are plenty of fantastic ladies still out there. Let’s focus on being the best men we can, and the right women will be there to appreciate it

[@StevenCovey-ct3sx]

@@Gent.Z Very well said. You are setting a new and higher standard. All the best.

[@yaplusdsaisons]

Sean Connery in Thunderball (best haircut and best laid back attitude ever) / Vittorio Gassman in Profumo di donna / Klaus Maria Brandauer in Never say never again (quite creepy, but intensively elegant) / Maurice Ronet in Le feu follet / and for the Hollywood movies : Griffin Dunne in After Hours, James Woods in everything he shot, and Buster Keaton.

[@EugeneMurray-z1b]

Not a Hollywood Actor Kenneth More Captain Scott 'North West Frontier'

[@user-mc5pl8js9h]

His real name was Archibald Leach. His whole movie star persona was made up. It was all an act.

[@user-dx5mh7qw9r]

Stephan 2 : a good script..... you can't fail....

[@pedrobecerra9902]

Did you ever watch the channel 1stman? I see many similarities with this channel . Keep up the great work James.

[@Gent.Z]

@@pedrobecerra9902 I’m familiar with the name but I don’t think I’ve seen more than one or two of his videos. I’ll take another look

[@TeddyRumble]

Full head of hair.

[@teenoso4069]

its easy if he followed the script and the younger ladies were paid

[@ienjoyapples]

Me: Standing at the door staring at a woman without moving. Woman: Hi, 911, this creepy psycho is in my house

[@joelvaldez3686]

Do one on Tom Ellis and Lucifer?

[@Inflator82]

Hey man, it was a fictional feature movie, not real life.

[@andytyrrell5153]

You be gay mate,

[@TeddyRumble]

LOL

[@hialeahkid2]

There was only one Carey Grant. Seducing was in the movie scripts . Most men live in the real world .

[@judithmoore8692]

Cary

[@hialeahkid2]

Sorry . It's not Harry Carey !

[@superlyger]

The Archie miniseries depicted him as a creep.

[@judithmoore8692]

Read his biographies.

[@superlyger]

I did.