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In this video, delve into the profound effects of childhood traumas on an individual's personality, examining the psychological and emotional transformations that occur. Gain insights into the long-term consequences of early-life experiences and their implications for mental health and well-being. Tailored for UPSC Mains preparation, this analysis explores the intersection of psychology and personal development, offering valuable perspectives for understanding the complexities of the human psyche.
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[@RajKumar-hn7dv]

Sir ap Michael Jackson ko bhul gya

[@MDsahil77743]

koi trauma frauma nhi ha yrr sab bahana ha...hmare RR me aa ke dekho

[@biologypathshala6851]

Verbal abuse can be really traumatic I can never forget those words said by my mom😢

[@tiyasabhattacharjee9279]

​@@UncannyDoughit's very easy to blame children.

[@narutokun2854]

Childhood trauma is a real thing. Its impact affects my whole personality. I have had a tough time in school. I have anxiety issues and many more. I still have nightmares of my school time ,which left me with anxiety and panic. I feel empty and detached.

[@aishwaryasingh7230]

So true for me😭

[@saritapanwar2869]

Heal yourself dear. For your self.

[@narutokun2854]

@@saritapanwar2869 I'm in good condition now. It's been 8 years now. It is just an underlying response which resurfaces in stressed situations. I'm doing good in life . Thank you for your concern ☺️

[@tanusaini1560]

Same story 😐

[@SudhanshuDhanraj]

I'm in this phase I absent alot but not anymore

[@shubhampardikar9573]

Thanks to study iq that our society is at least talking about childhood trauma... Most of children had faced this trauma that's why we never openup and share feelings with parents.

[@D.2601]

Sponsored by PR of movie Animal?

[@breakfastonuranus]

​@@D.2601touch some grass 🤡

[@saumyagureja8156]

I can relate to this a lot. But the thing is we can recondition our brain by telling that it can be managed.

[@anushakhokhar3985]

Open up!!

[@karthiktn1614]

Because we were scared

[@LazyyyyDuckk]

Same story My father use to hit my mother every few months. Even when she was 7 month pregnant. My mother , as a typical Indian sushil naari , continued facing these things. It effected my childhood. Now I am 22 I have faced depersonalisation derealisation, depression and OCD. I am anxious till now I don't respect him.. It is effecting my social and work life.. My childhood destroyed my teenage And my bad teenage effecting working life..

[@pushapraj559]

Same here😢

[@autohub2161]

🙄😢

[@sparkleshop666]

Same here 😞

[@archnakashyap-hd9tg]

I also faced these things in my home.

[@Startupsaga7]

Same here specially as girl it's horrible for me

[@nadirmohammed7537]

Who said childrens are loved unconditionally? Children are loved when they score good grades. My childhood was spoiled due to educational pressure. Attempted multiple times to suicide, by didn't had guts. Now economy pressure is bringing back the same trauma. 😢

[@Gurpreetsinghpreet1]

Take the pictures of your religious and inspirational heroes who didn't fall at hard times, This is life everything will go with time.

[@akshayverma5809]

Same here 😔

[@SANJAYKUMAR-vz1ij]

I am also having financial problems ...In country like India so many people are facing this problem . So have patience and courage ..This time too will pass . God bless you brother !

[@romirhyme]

U say right iam also on same path but I am 25 year old girl

[@sonamtiwari5909]

Aap apne life me sab kuch achive karenge aap ek successful life jiyenge hard work kijiye sabka accha time aata hai aapka bhi aayega god bless you

[@HungwonBeBe]

Yes It's real. Not necessarily from parents but siblings can give you childhood trauma

[@sudeeptKJ]

😂😂 wo bhi tab nadan hi hote hen bhai

[@Scorpionvogue]

Thats what we have learnt seeing our parents… we thought that was the only way to control the situation. Now we have grown up and understand that those choices were wrong and things can be communicated calmly and we are learning and trying to be better and we are sorry that our younger ones have to go through this…

[@interviewera3602]

My father was an alcoholic. And there were constant fights between my parents when I was a child. My father provided enough money for us to live a comfortable life but he was not emotional present and abusive. Even my mom was always occupied with her work . I felt unappreciated and unloved as child. I am currently 31 suffering from anxiety disorder, low self esteem and depression.

[@alishaali5595]

Due these things i also lack self esteem and confidence..

[@sunnyranjan2723]

Which anxiety disorder nightmare?

[@amansrivastav5728]

मुझे सच मे बहुत रोना आता है हमारे पेरेंट्स अधिकतर हमारे अच्छे के लिए डांटते या मारते है लेकिन उनको इस बात का अंदाजा नही होता कि इससे बच्चे को आने वाले समय मे कितनी मुश्किलें होगी।😢😢 leadership, self-confidence, Love, Friendship सब जगह इसका असर होता है।

[@SaileshAgrawal]

This is frequently the outcome of arranged (forced) marriage. In most cases, these types of marriages do not succeed and result in a fight between both parties and in the end the child who didn't even asked to be born get traumatised by an undeserving family. So be wise, be independent and earn your partner yourself.

[@motionscanner3533]

Agree with you, facing this from childhood.

[@saksakura3830]

So true

[@nomadsonu8842]

Right my same situation

[@sanal4492]

Not necessarily true. The same can happen in love marriages too.

[@SaileshAgrawal]

@@sanal4492 therefore the word "mostly" was written there.

[@himanshugupta1993]

let's we not repeat this with upcoming generations ❤

[@avinashjassu5236]

Right! Our parents did so wrong with us. They gave us so many scars but we will never do it with our kids.

[@papolugeetanath7503]

Thadastu 🤚

[@kunallahiri]

We expect more from new generation..Good going all.. God bless the new gen..they are way better than our parents generation.

[@iamaneagle1]

Unless we heal our own inner child we can't heal the generational traumas

[@pycub9626]

Not necessarily parents, siblings can also give you childhood trauma

[@souravkumar-yk5ns]

There must be parenting courses which should be done mandatory for couples before having a child. If this can't be done then atleast couples should do this type of courses on their own to understand the importance of proper parenting. Also this would solve a lot of mental health issues among the children.

[@Greekhistoryyy]

So true.. not everyone deserves child

[@tiyasabhattacharjee9279]

The problem is most parents think themselves as GOD while all they do is similar as an evil.

[@RakeshDebbarma86]

Truly.

[@akashdeep9932]

Mere papa humko peeth dete the to utna dukh nhi hota tha jitna ki woh mere dosto k samne mein peeth dete the hota tha....

[@vegetal8460]

Try to resonate bro Papa humara acha hi chahte h.

[@uski8834]

😁😁humare yahan Aisa hi hota hai Papa log bhi toh pitei hai yr Chronology smjho😁

[@Together.we.grow.better]

​@@uski8834 but at that time, no intelligence work.

[@uski8834]

@@Together.we.grow.better 😁Bhai seh lo Papa logo ki Apne bacchon Mt maarna tum Intelligence Jo aa gyi hai hum logo mei ab😁

[@pikingd8840]

​@@uski8834 you have been initiated so try to change the chronology. Be kind, considerate,understanding and emotionally intelligent . Be better than your predecessors.

[@leasttolearner7680]

I'm literally crying while watching this video....I just hate my father alot...he destroyed my mummy's life and gave me a very harsh childhood 😭.....I got nothing from him...neither financial nor emotional support....he just gave me lots of trauma

[@md.suhail8181]

Same my childhood is destroyed by my father

[@Darkanddespire]

my father stripped me naked and forced me run in the neighourhood in front of all people because i woke up late, at 8 am, and if i stop running my dad would threaten to beat me, people stood and watched, giggled , after a long time a woman covered me and took me to her house, kids teens in the area bullied me for months/years after that. it changed me forever, i lost all confidence.

[@virajharimkar7783]

😢 That’s so horrible….

[@nitinpandhare2753]

Same happened with me

[@Curious_Girl007]

It's terrifying 😥

[@Overloaded877]

I would have never forgave my parents

[@theintrovert5309]

You should not continue any relationship with your father

[@mswr3351]

Mere parents ne Kabhi mara nahi but they were emotionally unavailable to me.. and emotional support nahi tha..pyar bhari bate nahi thi.. that made me a person who wants validation and assurance of love from my partner .. and I observed I only feel attracted to emotionally unavailable people.. thank god now I know why and what I need..

[@abhishekkumarmahato6413]

This video is focused on bullying done by parents. But that is not the only reason for childhood traumas. I am lucky to have soft parents. But I suffered from a lot of childhood traumas caused by toxic friends circle and irresponsible school teachers. Non friendly school teachers and toxic friends make a person to be timid and introverted. I still face problems in talking to my college professors and overall to any other person because of these traumas.

[@akashninawe1596]

During my childhood I was extremely bullied by my relatives due to skinnyness that i lost my confidence...I used to cry a lot before them but they didn't care ...I used to feel shame of myself...I started to stop seeing myself in the mirror...even scare to go in front of them ...still i avoid them as much as i can .

[@vishathapa152]

That's what studying psychology is important!!

[@tarunjain1537]

When parents are narcissistic, then childhood suffers which shows up in their adulthood behaviour...

[@mmmky3204]

Everyone around me is so nostalgic about their lost childhood & sweet memories but i can't even remember a nice/decent memory of my own, either it was verbal abuse from my grandma to faltu ki comparison & competition between siblings, relatives showing pity or teasing me for my upbringing & financial background, my tired parents couldn't find energy to deal with me. Kahe ka nostalgia bhai?!!😭😂

[@aashikasharma1616]

Same here, I can't remember anything good about my childhood

[@riyasinha932]

Same

[@souvikg347]

You are not alone my brother

[@aritreemukherjee4994]

Same here

[@SameerSamon]

Hey everyone I've gone through the same, No doubt most of us have faced this in childhood but even the celebrities have gone through the same and they're doing good in their life now, we can too grow up from these traumas. When we grow as parents remember our child doesn't go through the same. 😊

[@Together.we.grow.better]

Yep, we can atleast try to think good.

[@HungwonBeBe]

In our society parents always force their child to get married who don't want to and ended up with a failure marriage and Terrible parenting which only ruine the children life

[@Shivam-tb8hi]

sometimes i think what if i had failure marriage and atop of it becoming a worse parent which i hate is what really haunts me most

[@SaileshAgrawal]

So true.

[@AmanKumar-ln2yx]

I believe that all these debates should definitely be discussed like a seminar, if today's youth are most affected by anything then it is loneliness and somewhere due to this, the people at home and this society which never Have you ever troubled them?

[@PritiKumari-ci5lq]

Due to this I am a emotional fearful girl but I try to change my self daily

[@Curious_Girl007]

Me too I m 26 now but still can't forget my parents fight every next day. My childhood is a horrible memory

[@nigorigama]

Bhi

[@riyasinha932]

Same

[@itsakingfisher4354]

​@@Curious_Girl007same is happening with me now😭😭

[@letsmoveon6151]

​@@Curious_Girl007same

[@abdulnadeem739]

I was wishing for a video on this topic. You have mentioned all fact 100% correct. I grew up in toxic environment, so I can understand how difficult it gets to overcome such mental disorder.

[@Iamawesome11]

Same my father did to me, my mum n siblings.severe domestic violence case...and finally he killed my mom in front of me. I suffered pcos, ocd, lack of confidence, trust issues bcoz of his constant bullying and beating.plz dont have kids if u are not able to handle them with love and care

[@anshug1351]

May be he had a childhood trauma and this things justify in everybody who faced it..these type of people harrass their wife children ..this is narcissism

[@susmithreddy3216]

May god give strength to you and your siblings.

[@Iamawesome11]

@@anshug1351 his childhood wasn't traumatic as much as I know..but for sure he is a narcissist. But no matter whatever happen, it is our duty as an adult to heel ourselves and become a better person even though if someone suffers a traumatic childhood...bcoz one has no right to spoil others life just bcoz he or she had some bad experiences in life.

[@Iamawesome11]

@@susmithreddy3216 thanku

[@anshug1351]

@@Iamawesome11 god bless you..more people of your mindset is need to this society

[@learncafe6720]

There was constant fight between my parents due to poverty and lack of good relationship between them even now also they often. Fight and it has became quite normal for me but. One thing is. Clear that I will never be able to forgive them completely. For this traumas in life . Krishna saves

[@Jai_jagganath]

It's becoz parents comparing their child with other children. They thought that their children also be in IIT,AIIMS as others. Which is not possible for everybody.

[@Monkey_D_Venky]

Mein padhai mein bohot acha nahi hoon. Ab toh school mein pitai banned ho gayi but school mein sab ke samne maad khana Ghar mein phir maad and tution mein bhi same bahut baar suicide karne ka icha hota tha (That time was horrible for me and never want to remember my childhood and the teachers)

[@humblepawn873]

In my childhood, my family members which include my mother, father, uncle, grandfather always kept on saying that I don't have practical knowledge , leave that you can't do that.. This completely destroyed my self-confidence and I didn't try to learn those things which I was not good at.....But fortunately I was good at studies and I got good friends because of them I become somewhat good at social skills... Currently I am doing well in my life....

[@infinitebeing1119]

Same situation. Later found out I and introverted and intuitive type in a sensor type family(MBTI). I had good reasoning ability which had been downplayed by my family. Did effected my self-esteem (now I let go of all these superficial self image) and practices more self awareness which is helping me to raise awareness towards things. Now I stopped saying both Can and Can't instead learn and do what needs to be done.

[@lightworker6298]

​@@infinitebeing1119being gaslighted of my reasoning abilities.

[@akshitdadhwal]

Childhood traumas has an impact to your personality but to some extent … if you get yourself in shape .. try to improve your communication and dressing sense .. study hard accumulate wealth you can negate the effects of childhood traumas

[@infinitebeing1119]

All these things are just bandaids we need to learn to let go for our own wellbeing.

[@anshikabachani]

Joke of the day

[@lightworker6298]

Childhood abuse se aapka success definition hi badal jata hai. Things you are mentioning isn't even on the list of abused person.

[@taleledhiraj]

Emotional Absence of parents is also a trauma. It creates low self esteem entire life of trauma survivor. Impact on all relationships, career, self care, personal finance etc.

[@lightworker6298]

I feel nothing even I do really well. I feel nothing just emptiness

[@Surajbansal909]

My parents are completely opposite to this, we can talk anything. As well as they helped me in every setback. I was beaten by my parents only 2-3 times in my life.

[@payalgoyal9173]

My parents gave me childhood trauma. I will not forgive them. And i thought it was me who was wrong in all these years till my mid 20s. Still somewhere in my heart i pray to god to change this harsh behaviour towards me and make them realise what they did wrong.

[@lightworker6298]

Get away from them,make a new life for yourself. Wish you happiness

[@shreyagoyal6173]

I felt the same buddy

[@payalgoyal9173]

Really, some times I feel I healed but actually I am not then after analysing my behaviour I realised I am just one trigger away

[@Rocket_T2]

A friend of mine has three masters degrees one PhD and still struggle at his work and gets fired within few months; he had drunk abusive father.

[@dharmeshkumar2916]

Solution is to meditate, practice Sudarshan Kriya.. one can get rid of past impressions.. Also all must practice these to become better human beings so that we can be calm and compassionate towards our family and others

[@jzara1917]

Yeah sab kuch work nahi karta jiske saath hota hai usko hi pata hota hai

[@ishitatrivedi6759]

Not only physical abuse but family problems and problems between parents affects me the most

[@shivamtiwari4775]

becoz of my past problem with my parents i dont want to become father becoz i known i will do the same what they did to me and i dont want my child to suffer the way i have suffered

[@himani2472]

Atleast you're realising it and that will make you better than most others who won't.

[@josephkuriakose1759]

Parents fighting amongst themselves in front of the child will definitely have a bad effect on the kid ... However, spanking a child when he/she has done any wrong or to discipline them is not wrong at all!

[@bunnybag]

But done wrong ki paribhasha kya hai? Marks kam aaye hai ko bhi bola jaa skta hai ki he did wrong. Time se sone nahi gaya bhi did wrong.

[@pikingd8840]

Fear will only breed fear . I was fortunate to have emotionally intelligent parents. I guess I didn't turn out that bad !

[@The007vaib]

This kind of thinking is continuing the violence against children by the parents. This Indian mentality that parents can beat their child because they want the good of their children is so wrong. Beating anyone is wrong no matter what. By this logic even the police beating people should also be right.

[@USSR413]

Some form of punishment is necessary for discipline but it should be limited

[@arnabchabiri9670]

Hitting and breaking a cricket bat on my leg is definitely wrong !

[@vidnar2477]

really as a adult i always think about my childhood. no love from parents, teachers. i have no respect for my parents and teachers. they really made me animal which is effecting my current married life. they one and only one i love is my little daughter in this world. she put so much love to my life. atleast i have one ❤in my life. i really thankfull for that.

[@guri-bq3kg]

My experience no one can genuinely love anyone even i. Only through Jesus now I can love other when I have deep attachment with Him. Even your little child may hurt you when she will grown up

[@taranakhan7132]

After listing this full video I am thinking that I am lucky to have my parents in my life because they have never pressurise on me for anything and never beaten me ever.... They always supports my every decision. ..... And I wish that everyone has parents like them... Because our childhood depends on our parents ......

[@bluciferedits4228]

Took me years to get out of Childhood trauma. Parents should realise their Children didn't sign up to be their kids in the first place.

[@STBCSPS]

I got it all physically abused Emotionally abused Verbally abused F**ked up relationship of parents Witnesses domestic violence Was deprived and constantly told how greatful i should for basics being provided Didnt let me go out even if break into tears asking for permission And then asks me why im home sick loner and doest know how to behave around people

[@deeptijha3776]

i can relate

[@ashrafkhadri2317]

maturity is when u realise old age homes are the best think to have for strict parents😏

[@golperjhuri3436]

There also exists narcissistic mother/father, who abuses their kids. Blames them for everything. Nobody talks about that. Not always fighting parents cause childhood trauma. Narcissistic family members also causes childhood trauma.

[@lightworker6298]

I know. Narcissist sibling too.

[@MicroscopicWorld06]

I think Meditation is a good solution of all these problems.

[@infinitebeing1119]

Any traumas can be healed through meditation. Self awareness is powerful tool of transformation. 🙏

[@priyankaaa13]

teachers also can play a role in childhood trauma. A teacher once told me something which still haunts me because at that point of time I was not matured to understand. I even spoke to my parents regarding this, but they just told me to ignore to what she said and be a better person. But, Its been more than 12+ years and sometimes it still hurts me to the core.

[@jayaamishra]

Very well explained sir... Our children are suffering from these unseen traumas that may take years to fade.

[@Swetabh96]

Excellent topic Adarsh Ji !!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻Not everyone understands the effect of parents and situations we grow up in India. Thank you for bringing this up.

[@Crater_3399]

I am victim of this by my father, tuition teacher.............

[@triggeredgamer206]

We grow stronger as we come together it's our generation nobody can teach us 🤜🤛 what to do what to not.

[@himani_sahotra]

but i feel our parents are also suffering from their childhood trauma that's why their behaviour is harsh towards us I think they need counseling first

[@himani2472]

So true! But they would never go to counseling, therapy etc. because these are alien concepts for them. And then the onus falls on us, their children to go to therapy so as to not propagate the cycle of abuse further. And that too secretively because that will supposedly makes us "weak" in front of them and they laugh about it. Irony! :/

[@papolugeetanath7503]

97% people around the world have gone through childhood trauma no one is alone.

[@poushalikundu1825]

I have seen all these things between my parents since my childhood but nothing has hurt my mentality because lord Krishna has saved me through His grace and spiritual wisdom. I'm thankful to the supreme godhead 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@user-sl2zo4ok6h]

Hare Krishna 🙏

[@akshay._.78]

My parents so toxic My brother wants me as failure in life I want to be a gamer. as usual parents beated me and harrased infront of the society Now they are not giving money to study purpose They are saying that go work earn and study on your own I am still 21 year old

[@amazingman07]

Childhood trauma becomes permanent scar !! 😊

[@lightworker6298]

Yes, can't ever be fully cured

[@theparijatray]

I am so glad, finally people are actually talking about this... Much debated issue that needed to be discussed.

[@Shreyansh10000]

I'm lucky to have good parents in all aspects I'm blessed ❤

[@monideepakalita482]

Children minds are sensitive.Every child deserves a better environment whether at home and school.Home atmosphere matters most as children spend most of their time at home.

[@vipulverma10]

This video should be shown to every person mandatorily along with proper alternate ways to actually deal with children.

[@shwetakudrimoti970]

Thank you so much StudyIQ for this educative video. As someone who is healing from childhood trauma and has recently watched animal movie's trailer, i am so thrilled to see our traumas being raised mainstream. It's so painful to realise so many symptoms be it physical, mental, communication and emotional arise from trauma. Cheers and good vibes to everyone who are on their healing journey and i pray your futures may be much more better than all your traumas. ❤

[@user-yx3sd1zv3x]

Thanks for arising this important social issue ❤

[@plantparent1994]

I experienced a lot of financial problems, trauma, deprivation of being poor.... I will never let my children to go through such situations... I will neither dominate my children nor my wife... I will not only take care of my close persons' physical health,but also I will take care of their mental health as vell....

[@himani2472]

Super informative and much relatable video!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 It's the need of the hour to break this cycle of abuse and the onus lies on us. Going to therapy or counseling should not be laughed about and should be normalised.

[@rohitjaiswal8838]

Loved the video. I am a son of half mad man my father had became mad medically when I was very little and still on full moon days he became narcissistic and behaves like he is a lion and nobody else matters to him. Well it is a very nice that it is being brought up. ❤️❤️

[@chandan99shaaj]

Thanks to study IQ for this important video.My childhood is also full of trauma.Same reason of course.

[@Stunt-youtuber6rz7x]

This happens because of the family environment.

[@SagarDuttChahlia]

The best topic, video I've ever watched. Society needs to highlight it.

[@shreyashichatterjee4707]

It's not only abt physical abuse. If any one of the parent abandons the other parent along with the kid, the kid believes that no relationship is stable and continues having unstable relationships all over the life

[@snowwhite181]

I developed suicidal thoughts because of my family's abusive behaviour

[@alkagupta8594]

All the stories in the comment section is tearing me up. Hope we all get healed and hope we get to be happy. My love and hugs to you all❤😢

[@bandanakarki6152]

My parents used to beat me when I was being naughty. But it doesn’t mean it will bring anxiety and depression. I admire them a lot❤❤

[@Vishranti_lounge]

But this does not happen with almost all some parents beat their children even after there is no valid reason.

[@Girlyart309]

bhai bina galat kaam kiye pit kr dikhao vo bhi roz roz tab manu m

[@professional645.workout]

​@@Girlyart309kuch to Aisa krti hogi😆 jiske wajah se pitai hoti h

[@peterparker5748]

Yes I am also a victim of childhood trauma.

[@NitinJadhav-cc2xh]

These are very necessary topics to be discussed

[@engineerofemotions1183]

I used to afraid from my dad since i was 8 year old because my father want me to best at study but after that he changed his behaviour and being more polite and lovable with me till now......now i understand that my father become father at a very yound age at the age of 18, may he found it difficult to tackle but when he realised he changed himself as per requirement. I love my papa so much , as he has a growing mindset😊

[@Khush-ny4fp]

Thankyou so much for raising this topic.

[@Modi_Ancient_Eunuch]

Hundred percent true and some times repercussions for others are devastating 🚩

[@knowledgesagar6654]

Thanks for the video .Feeling very relaxed ❤

[@ishaankhattar3748]

Mera maa baap kamra band kar ke fighting karte the me mere bhai bhen rote rhete aur vo gandi gandi galiya bhi dete the wo bhi apne apni family walo ke liye jo humare kabhi sage nhi hui both was motherfukers but aaj hum bade ho gye par parents ke liye pyaar emotions feeling proud humdardi khatam ho chuki h dil se wo kal mare jaye ya abhi doesn't matter 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@milli3leven377]

Same here

[@ishaankhattar3748]

​@@milli3leven377how old you sir

[@Anonymous-hg8hv]

Forget about parents I was beaten by relatives too even then my parents did not question them and it has effected my mental health

[@mpundee2442]

This video is so important!

[@KKumarIndy]

Thanks for covering such an important topic so nicely 👌

[@Abhijeetsingh-wu3kw]

If you want to see the change, be the change, I also was beaten by my father in childhood that time i though of suicide but never attempted, later on I realised my father was doing so to make a disciplined and well behave kid as so I had planned to repeat the same treatment to my child but when the actual time came I love my kid instead of beating him and now one is 11y and another 1 is 9y both of them play with me, share their emotion, accept their mistakes and treat me as their friend and I also begin my childhood alongwith them. I still love my father and understand why he was frustrated but the way he relax himself was not right

[@avinashjassu5236]

❤❤

[@himani2472]

You're doing an amazing job as a parent sir by stopping the cycle of abuse. Stay blessed ✨

[@aadiitomar8008]

Kindly make a video on the solutions as well. How can one heal himself or herself?

[@mohitsharma4490]

Discipline and pampering goes together.

[@krindie1213]

Last words made me cry❤

[@aakashratti]

Child hood traumas either it's physical abuse or verbal abuse are the founding steps for adult to face the world. But somewhere parents should regulate their strictness. However when I remember my childhood memories it is full of abuse but somehow it make me laugh and give strength to overcome my burdens and responsibilities

[@sancharimukherjee9231]

So nice you have pointed out this topic. I was a victim of narcissistic parents

[@lightworker6298]

Same 💔

[@jyotsana4266]

Childhood traumas are real..but you know what it can be healed. You have to really face it head on and take therapy. I had extreme traumas. If I can be healed, so can anyone❤

[@lightworker6298]

Childhood trauma never gets fully cured, it's proven. Read the book 'The Body Keep Score'.

[@SnehaPriya-id1ck]

We all gone through it and I can say it affect very hardly 😔

[@vdogra]

Those parents who are doing such type of things ..mostly father abusing or hitting wife in front of children should realise that he himself is losing all respect in front of his children… once children will grow up he will face only hate from his children.. that’s the reality

[@omkumar-sawasi]

Art of parenting par video bnaiye guruji please ❤❤❤

[@sandipkrai3023]

I can relate the feeling, as a kid waking up from the sleep between my parents arguments. But its not always from the parents the siblings can give trauma too.

[@manishapawar4023]

How siblings can give trauma, please expain

[@sandipkrai3023]

@@manishapawar4023 Are you here to argue? Or you are asking me out of curiosity?

[@manishapawar4023]

@@sandipkrai3023 i am just asking for knowledge

[@sandipkrai3023]

@@manishapawar4023 when you bully your younger siblings just for fun or without knowing the consequences it can promote such traumatic experience, it may seem fun but the small child's will not be able to deal with such things.

[@shweta9787]

This vedio is highly relatable......

[@change55843]

It is an very important issue of childrens

[@Aviralshukla570]

Thank you sir for making this useful video

[@BiologyWithRajaBabu]

I have also faced lots of physical and mental torture from my father. I can still remember how he used to hit the back side of my head when I made little mistakes while doing maths. I was then merely 7 or 8 years old child and my skull didn't attain its full maturity and sturdiness. Not only that, he used to break my confidence and self esteem in numerous ways. And the worst thing is that I was made to believe by parents that its quite normal and its my fault that I can't live to his expectations. Now I am a 27 years old bank employee and about to get married. Today when I see modern parents raising and treating their kids in a more empathetic way, I can realize that what happened with me during childhood was totally wrong.

[@AB.R3555]

Lucky to have a very saportive family my parents always stand with me n they enjoy my every single small achievement.❤❤

[@avinashjassu5236]

You are so lucky!

[@lightworker6298]

You are very very lucky!!!