How do I douche?

[@oppaaaitzme]

Im a gay 18yo dude from jordan and ive been listeing to ur broadcasts nonstop please never stop esp when ik ur both are gays and i feel really safe watching both of you thank you so much for ur contet

[@DarkLord-pw5pu]

Good luck in middle east dude. Same as you I'm gay 😂

[@oppaaaitzme]

@@DarkLord-pw5pu 🤣 its not easy

[@DarkLord-pw5pu]

@oxbimo yeah I'm living in Iran is quite worse than Jordan😂

[@oppaaaitzme]

@@DarkLord-pw5pu oooo damn rip😂

[@hazemkhaled4248]

guys.. same here from Egypt :() :() it's really great and cute how we middle eastern gay men bond and communicate over the topics we both share ❤❤good to know there are others like me❤‍🩹❤‍🩹

[@alanpease8474]

I have been a bottom for a long time, but I have learned things I never knew with this video and the one before it. Thanks gentlemen, and keep up the great work!

[@stumack9755]

bottoms up! 🍺

[@alanpease8474]

@@stumack9755 I'll drink to that!

[@briangallentine3810]

What a wonderful, intelligent, sensitive conversation. And informative, thank you so much!

[@chrisjohns6742]

After 30 + years of anal sex (vers, still tight, no medical issues because of years of penetration) and trying various douching methods, it's true that pure H2O is the best. Irritation is a buzz kill with any chemical or enema type douching. Yes, diet is important, and everyone has a different "system." While some guys (or gals) might not need to douche, there may still be residual fecal matter or order, and this can be a turn-off for the top. Some guys dont seem to mind "natural," but it's a turn-off for me both as a bttm or top. If im not clean, im not relaxed. Additionally, while a bttm, I can feel if something other than lube is in there while having intercourse. I've found that exercising, bike riding, jogging, going out dancing, etc, after douching works great, as long as you've not used too much H20. Then, when ready for sex after, a quick check with lubed fingers or a dildo of comparable size to your partner (if you know) is all that is needed. I've also found pure silicone based lube to be the best for me. Some lube brands have actually been irritating. When i was younger, vaseline was all i had. It worked, and also olive oil for a natural alternative. From my experience, with practice, education, and knowing your body, you can safely have years of anal sex.

[@RLucas3000]

You should name the bad brands please

[@thezmanchar]

So don’t you think a top should also clean that area too so that people don’t have to smell it.

[@RadgePangilinan]

Top should also be hygiene and clean their tools tool specially the uncut ones. It’s a big turn off to smell a cheese like or fishlike odor. They can be carriers of bad bacteria as well.

[@alanpease8474]

All great advice!

[@alanpease8474]

Well thought out and written. I agree one hundred percent!

[@richardbernard6845]

It is good that kids in 2024 have resources like this to be well informed. When I came out in 1977 at the tender age of 22, there was so much I did not know and there was no good resources like this to keep a college boy nice and clean and ready for action.

[@michaelallred1516]

You guys made this fun and educational at the same time!

[@BertCaraballo]

I think your videos are so helpful. As a gay in my 50's I wish this stuff was available to me when I was "starting out my gay journey". Thank you so much!

[@dizzeek9139]

So the pressure washer should just be used to clean outside of the house?

[@thomasplaysgamestoo]

Damn. I've been pressure washing my anus for years 🫣

[@HamiltonRb]

Exactly, and no bending over in the car wash either. It is for vehicles only

[@thedudeforyou69]

☠️

[@HighHolyOne]

My hand-held shower wand has a 'driveway' setting.

[@Ty-ku9qx]

Pls shut up😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@pharmjoe11]

This series is GREAT! Appreciate Gabe's thoughtful question and Doctor Tyler's expertise!!

[@househeadericmd]

These men are great and honest and bold to cover such real sex issues .

[@johnandrick64]

Don't be afraid of a diagram, and a sample water bulb, as saying "too large", or "smaller" is so relative. Show one,or two ! Your personal chemistry works well, guys....keep it up !

[@helloxonsfan]

Great discussion & information... ... Just became your newest Sub...!!! 👍🏽

[@justink1952]

The intelligence of the guy on the left, and the way he breaks it down into such a simple way for the guy on the right, is so hot. Intelligence and being able to speak in an educated way is so sexy. 🔥

[@bugrakaanaknc5218]

bro is in heat

[@soberanisfam1323]

Guy on the right is way hotter tho

[@Loljustsomewoter]

This content is so valuable for queer (especially young queer) audiences. Thank you for taking the time to make this educational content and doing your part on keeping queer youth healthy, happy and safe.

[@nicklindsay3418]

I dont think i could see a hot doctor. I wouldnt be able to go in for check ups...that being said, glad hes on youtube

[@rob-oe4wr]

Great advice Guys. You've answered many of my questions, Thanks

[@peterwoolfe1886]

Absolutely love the informed intelligent conversations. My only recommendation would be occasional diagrams and drawings. A picture being worth 1000 words, as they say, would most definitely be helpful.

[@kdunham1964]

Nice job guys one of the most in depth tutorials on douching I have seen…♥️👍♥️

[@tajaywilliams714]

The interviewer asked the same questions right throughout the video 😂🤣

[@theblondecritic]

Like he wasn’t paying attention. I think he was into the doctor 😮😅😅

[@RationalSaneThinker]

Agreed. Poor Tyler has to repeatedly preface his responses with, "Again..."

[@victorcruz1773]

You both do such a great job at sharing insight on good sexual health practices and keeping us engaged.

[@charlesjeffery3998]

Damn they don't even give you a heart for this, they sure do I agree with you totally, but they should at least read the comments, I mean I have a lot of questions, that and I'm sure all of us do that we can't ask anyone else, and lollipops thank them a lot for that, I know I do, and obviously so do you 👍❤

[@jackx917]

Many years ago I worked in a nursing home and had to give a daily enema to one resident. He had been a traveling salesman, and had a lifelong habit of giving himself a daily enema before getting on the road. By doing this he had destroyed the nerve signals in his rectal cavity, therefore unable to start paristalsis without an aid such as an enema.

[@parkerbalboa9031]

Thanks for the heads up....I give my self an enema at least 5 days a week...especially before work. Good to know !

[@rethablair6902]

🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯

[@ryanscottlogan8459]

@@parkerbalboa9031Very bizarre.

[@GetWellSoonR.E.M.]

Yeah, too much douching can damage your mucosal lining. That’s why it’s best to just do it as needed imo

[@parisz]

​@@parkerbalboa9031what do you mean before work??? Five times a week definitely sounds like too often...

[@burgerboytv]

Thanks for this content much needed!!Can y’all talk about poppers next?!

[@JoeyHerbertt]

I’d advise against this, this prematurely caused Drusen in my right eye. This is also relative to genetics, poppers increase eye pressure, among other health related responses. Use with caution, but I strongly say do not use. Just my 2 cents, just meditate exactly to how they portray/educate the voluntary and involuntary reaction of your anus. Think about what you want, not what you fear☺️

[@rainpoolraiu]

More reason to talk about this! People know the risks of hard drugs, but for Poppers it's not talked about enough

[@davidcoleman4479]

Some of y’all were Not listening lol. He definitely said starting at 22:00 if you use a fleet size enema bottle (Lukewarm water filled to the top) to use 1/4 of the bottle. But he also said you can use half the bottle. So if he is saying 3oz of water, why use a shower attachment🤔

[@Rain73455]

Thank you guys so much. This is so informative🤗

[@hsinghungyeh]

Takeaway ⭐ 1. Only clean the rectum part (not to the colon) 2. Device: A proper size squeeze bulb (that can clean and reach 7-9 inches) + lubricant 3. Fill it up with lukewarm tap water (no other solution), lubricate it, and gently put in 1/4 amount (and refill it so that you don't get air) 4. Repeat the process until the water is clear (usually the entire process takes around 15 mins) 5. If water is constantly unclear, you might go too deep or put too much water in it 6. Take 30 mins break to allow your rectum to reset for the physical business

[@Scbms1_9-09]

But how I m gonna understand that just my colon clean and how am I gonna check it

[@stevec1945]

Actually really important info.. thanks 🙏🏻

[@seethevolcane-qj8ys]

Intelligent, articulate discussion. Great vlog.

[@isoutoforbit]

Personally just enough water to clean out the rectum alone doesn't usually keep me clean, any penetrative stimulation causes deeper movement and discomfort. I feel like this insistence of never going any deeper isn't helpful to a large ammount of people for which this doesn't work or isn't their preference because they play with larger toys or they just accidentally go further and don't want to cancel plans. I feel like even though videos like this break some taboos they still leave out situations like this and keep them taboo. I know that perhaps this is good because it's unhealthy to clean out your colon regularly, but why not mention what we can do to minimize those harms, like not doing it often, how to do it so it doesn't take hours, what to eat the previous day and eating fiber, probiotic and prebiotic foods. There was a lot of repetition in this video and not enough analysis of different scenarios and of the anatomy itself.

[@maida-vale]

I feel that you might be overweight or consuming abnormal quantities of junk-food so that the digestive system is constantly shoving manure as a matter of necessity. If you are over 13 - 14 stone as an adult male, then you have a problem and need to regulate your eating habits for your own good and to allow your "gut system" to function within its' natural constraints.

[@hilariosalinas4251]

Thanks to both of you for these educational and funny videos. 😍

[@cr8tivejuicesDJjoejoeFlores]

Please tell people to NOT flush their poo in the shower/tub…toilet, por favor!

[@davidcoleman4479]

😂😂😂 when he said that I was like 🤔🤔🤔 oh no!

[@lindamedina1447]

🙏🙏. Again well done! I am 75 years old and still don’t know this. And as you said the taboo. I never knew the right way to douche. The reason because douching caused cancer. That is for females. So I always showered morning and nite. I did have at least relatives who died of uterus cancer. Doctor insists it was caused by douching. So I am old but love your information. Told my 4 kids to watch these videos. Never learned all these facts about this FACS even in high school. Old days sex was a taboo! Don’t know why it was. So 🙏🙏.

[@Ded-Ede]

5:09 I eat mostly high fiber fruits and veggies so my poop and are super clean and fresh smelling.

[@dumbnhung]

I dunno... sounds complicated... perhaps the good Dr could post a demo video on his OF?

[@pbohearn]

This was a really good interview and I thought both of them were relaxed and professional. However, the interviewer began to repeat the same questions in different ways over and over and he just had the same answers. I don’t think that a tutorial on douching requires 48 minutes. It could’ve been done in half the time.

[@JamesBerkley1]

If this has already been asked, I apologize but my husband and I use a shower attachment to douche so it’s hard to measure how much water is used but I know we’re not supposed to use too much pressure. Is a shower attachment safe?

[@josueumanzor1755]

I would like to add tap water filter it since our cities and water is treated that can affect your stomach or gain a bacteria. its important to filter it o or boil some water and make sure to let it cool before using it. also try to use tempetur water semi warmish to avoid changing much of the internal temperature.

[@cardcaptordanimal]

This was a great video! I do wish that as a gay couple, you all would have talked about your own experiences as one of you obviously douches. I think it would bring your viewers and patients closer to you.

[@davincimen4495]

Thanks for this. How awesome to have handsome young men and a doctor give out this info. I may try ahead to bottom more after this education.

[@rethablair6902]

So young and knowledgeable 😍

[@tallman5814]

You guys crack me up, yet you are informative.

[@Robocop-qe7le]

i see what you did here

[@freelightexpress]

Well, dooshing is necessary if you had a BM earlier that was not clean (during wiping) so some is still likely in anal canal, so a small dooshing to make sure rectum is fully clean/cleared is an essential protocol anyways IMO. I find using a dildo after to further test if clean is helpful and this prelubes anus as well, as an option. Experiment and find out what works best for you, trial and error, but yes...sometimes accidents can happen still, so be prepared for such, and solutions or alternatives. (if u get a fleet or disposable enema bottle, just dump out the saline solution it often comes with and use tap water as recommended,...u can re-use the bottles for as long as they last).

[@mehere337]

What is dooshing?

[@izikavazo]

Emphasis on soluble fiber, which is generally what people mean when they say fiber supplements. But insoluble fiber exists too, and it can do the opposite of what you want. Also, Imodium type anti-diarrhea type medication is great if you're like me and continually get into your upper colon when douching. Maybe don't use if you're already prone to constipation.

[@ryanscottlogan8459]

2 adorable guys!❤️

[@PrettybuoyJones1992]

I felt like he was repeating most of what he said,like a broken record.😂

[@stumack9755]

fake Dr.

[@tearyraindrop]

😂 its probably for all the idiots that might not get it the first time lol

[@RationalSaneThinker]

That's because the guy on the right kept asking the same question. Poor Tyler had to repeatedly preface his later answers with, "Again..."

[@vicvic6559]

I have loved this relaxing conversation between this two sensual babies and all I have learned - Thanks guys❤

[@kenneyhutchison189]

Very informative and well done!

[@terryketchel2150]

I didn't start douching until my 70's ...due to hemorrhoids (at the opening). I was tired of extra discomfort from wiping. What comfort I had, up to that point, was using a toilet paper plug. This kept me dry, & fecal material away from the hemorrhoids. It's relaxing to know people are now concerned with the topic of cleaning. Thanks for the knowledge of true douching.

[@wiredcoma]

Being just an audio listener, this video got very tiring! Props to the one asking the questions, but this video seemed like a million ways on how to douche and other ways to be clean. Let me ask the same question 500 different ways to stretch this video as much as possible.😵‍💫

[@leonhendricks4778]

Thank you for this way that you approached this topic and educating us.

[@Hylas67]

Wow, is docteur Tyler a "real" doctor? He looks like an OF model (yeah, it's appreciative 😅). I'm asking cause when I google him, his page is about testosterone, nothing about real medecine...

[@Lil-Tee1988]

I’ve learned a LOT! I was taught by an elder to use the fleet enema. 😩😩😩 Good thing I found this video. Idk how or why it was recommended though. 😆

[@florenciomendoza1212]

PS. Oh my , why lots of repetitions. 😱

[@leedavis-m2o]

I have had friends who always douche when they get here. So when they walk in the door got to the bathroom and take care of this. I always have liked that guys do this. It really aids the fun.

[@danielpinojr.8312]

I'm pretty sure this video was the same five questions asked over and over again, in different ways.

[@itsokayrozay]

Me and a customer were having a regular educational sexual conversation and my coworker was all mad and feeling weird because we were talking about it so normal. I don’t know and will never understand why sex conversations are so taboo 🤦🏼‍♀️ if people were more educated at a young age we would have a super low risk of std’s and a lot less unwanted pregnancies. JUST SAYING!!!

[@jimbecarroll5780]

LET'S SEE HOW FAR THAT GETS IN FLA & TX LoL

[@MoNoK15]

Warm water is all you need 😊

[@stumack9755]

🤮

[@Hope-om1kc]

@@stumack9755👨‍❤️‍👨💋

[@erickgarciaflores3791]

Would u suggest the shower attachments ? And what about the fibre supplement pure one I think it’s called you suggest that ?

[@leannrichards2222]

You didn't address the dangers of introducing water bourne bacteria & parasites into the bowels & lower GI tract from douching. ♥️🙏

[@PeterPan-gq7lh]

Personally in 3rd world countries, I've actually used plastic bottled water, for douching as prep, spendy, but safer than using or drinking their tap water to be honest, definitely a good question to ask!!😊😊😊😊

[@ambersemona9676]

I appreciate the subject. Being a heterosexual female this is not something my friends and I talk about. It’s not something I was aware of when it came to douching. Thx guys. 👏🏼👍🏼

[@JM-zw8cq]

the 😢hing i learned is that cleaning the rectum isnt enough. need a full colonic irrigation to get even past the signiid colon… a LONG session with a LONGER THICKER tool is like a plunger…so if ur plunging and there is anything in the sigmoid its all going to get olunged out. so for me i ise cold or warm wattwr untik i feel gas bubbles in my transverse colon (not comfortable but i know water has gotten way up in there to get the deep cleaning…) so for me CLEANING PAST THE SOGMOID COLON OS CRITICAL. i speak from experience…the only comfortable sessions ive had that lasted for HOURS were after a full irrigation… its thw only way to go…have to ait on the toilet for a good 20-45 mintes massaging the ascending and transverse colon to help get it all moving to gwt it all cleared out…

[@CIRCA2003]

can i use tequilla in my douche instead of water

[@johnkristianson6599]

I wanted to thank you for your KZbin channel. I did not know how to douche. I listened to your conversation on douching and it made things very easy. Thanks so much!

[@frankg8315]

Excellent conversation!!!

[@hectorrustand9311]

I was wondering if using Imodium or something to control diarrhea after douching might help for some unexpected surprises, thank you for your video

[@ghayath2011]

If my ass could talk, it would give lectures on this subject. 🤣

[@bluestrife28]

Not everyone is as wall-stretched as some, you could be advising someone into epithelial damage or increased disease risk. It’s called fiber.

[@ticolindo2010]

Thanks, Dr. Tyler. I learned a lot.

[@leroytrujillo11]

When did enemas become douching?

[@jeffreyweinzierl1509]

Ya gotta make sure the house is clean before you lay the out the welcome mat at the back door...

[@jaygatz4335]

And the mat says: 'Please Come Again.'

[@iandingle3640]

Thanks - valuable info received - keep up the great work!

[@damb408]

Suggestion: how substance abuse can effect the safety of performing the procedure discussed.

[@augusts1]

Gabriel is so adorable. He looks so innocent but as we all know looks are often deceiving lol.

[@Skybar23]

Can anyone tell me what are the best 'fibre foods' that make douching more easier? Or less bowel movement . I know foods that is spicy and coffee is not good.

[@mcnaugha]

Also... Alcohol can act a bit like chilli. It might lead to bowel disruption, in particular the next day. Always try to stay hydrated. The dryer your bowel movement, the harder it is to get out. So, if you take the aforementioned supplements, make sure you take them with a glass of water.

[@mcnaugha]

Did they kill my original reply because it had an Amazon link in it?

[@rick-kg2fk]

Psyllium husk (fiber) and probiotics will help tremendously. Before you bottom no fried/spicy foods or vegetables (gassy) eat yogurt or a banana if your going to eat that day.

[@Skybar23]

@@rick-kg2fk doesnt yougurt cause a lot of bowel movement

[@rick-kg2fk]

@Skybar23 I don't have a problem with it. If your nervous just stick with fruit

[@StanWatt.]

For a different condition, pruritis ani, as well as for sex my Dr always has a fit when I tell her that I douche to get rid of the pruritus ani. "You'll wash out all of the flora and fauna!". So, do we need to do anything to replace the bacteria? I don't do anything.

[@lawrenceking4144]

Why take so long to get to the answer to the question? All of that medical informatio may be interesting to some people but can't it be a followup AFTER the primary question is answered? Is this an AMSR video? A lot of hushed monotones. Even at double speed it was slow moving.

[@jacobanderson7949]

Thank you. That was very insightful.

[@amcc5887]

Thanx guys, very interesting and informative 💪💪💪

[@user-ts1mz5gy5n]

Could you please do a video talking about cut vs uncut

[@ramse4085]

Thanks for the great video; quick Question: what if accidentally - oops - the water was too hot? 😅

[@cair4742]

How long should you fast in advance? Anyone can answer this question plz

[@Melrosearch7]

Love you guys!

[@curlyflow3720]

I have a question; Is a small water bottle, the one for kids, a sufficient amount of water put in a douche?

[@stevendaniel8126]

Has anyone noticed the price of lubes lately? Holy smokes !! It's through the roof. Going back to saliva......😊

[@darrynv1]

I'm sorry, but every dr that does these talks about douching, are either not bottoms or don't bottom regularly enough. The advise he is giving is not sufficient. The way he is guiding people, most will end up having a woopsie during intercourse. Some guys don't care about that. But most don't want to have to deal with that, it creates too much stress for the bottom and you can't relax, and the top could get upset and leave. There is no better way but to have a clean diet, know which food groups trigger your system. Drink a lot of water. Take your time with prepping. Don't use douche bulbs, you will scratch or tear the skin. Use a hose with or without an attachment, extremely low pressure, almost spluttering..know what time cycles work with filling up. Cleaning up to the sigmoid is not enough for most, to be confident and comfortable you have to clean past the sigmoid. I mean if you stick your finger I to release and excess water, your finger should pass the sigmoid, it almost has a rippled feeling and expands naturally. And if water comes out of the their, do the smell test. If just the slightest bit off-ish. Then you definitely are not ready, even if their are no obstructions, because when you are in the act, with that creating movement, you are bound to have things happen. I pride myself as being a squeaky clean bottom. Ocd with hygiene..I wouldn't recommend taking this guys advice. I am sorry but I feel novices need to know. Otherwise it just ends up in bottom trauma as they call it.

[@henryToped]

I like your sound advice. I'm obsessed with being a hygienic bottom too, to the extent that i eat only once a day within one hour eating window (no solid foods for the rest 23 hours) and i make sure what goes in comes out the next day all in one sitting. And i douche until my bowel is feeling empty, or until only clean fresh mucous comes out. Then I'll be ready.

[@AaronYogi]

It would have been useful to talk about any risks. But thanks.

[@ParvaizRaja]

Debets usually work good enough with normal water pressure.

[@candidolopez1131]

I just starting watching you guys and I'm enjoying the educational process - my problem is that the questions seem to be redundant therefore getting a redundant answer throughout the video. Please do not take offense to this! Can I suggest having these questions prepared beforehand so it can be spread-out with different information.. For example - on your last video, I was hoping to cover the reason why not using a condom is prefered by either partner - it may be obvious but some may want to know details on that topic - skin to skin as opposed to a rubber feel against the skin and so on.... Just a suggestion cause I like the premise of the conversations and I'm learning more than I have from other sources - I really enjoy this podcast and will continue watching - so this is just a viewer's observation. So with that I say - good job guys.

[@858frank]

This has been very helpful. Thank you. I have a question that wasn't answered. You kept saying to use a small volume of water, but neglected to indicate what that might be. I did some research and the smallest bulb I found was 6 oz. They went up to 8, 11, or more ounces. Most of the bulbs are not clear and trying to fill them part way might be tricky, so I was hoping to get a bulb that is approximately the right size.

[@Ringkai-qx4kn]

Thank you so much for this video! ❤

[@royward4495]

Onboard with the majority of guidance. However just like we use soap on our skin to reduce bacteria and the odors they can induce, same should be done for such a closed off unventilated bacteria concentrated area. Water alone does not neutralize odor causing bacteria down there. At a minimum I use water with mild non irritating baby soap to clean the rectum. Otherwise people are sticking their stuff into a stinky sleeve.

[@miamianz]

when you walk into 7-11 and buy 3 smart water bottles..

[@johnstancliff7328]

would you follow the prosedure for a colonoscopy to clean out? does that work?

[@RationalSaneThinker]

Sure, you can but that's pretty extreme if you just want to clean the rectum. Why purge the entire intestines when the penis or toy never go beyond the rectum?

[@jpp7783]

A colonoscopy clean out is excessive. It cleans out WAY further up there than you’d need for sex (and should not be done so frequently).

[@sircampbell1249]

Deep cleaning, yes it can

[@sircampbell1249]

Deep cleaning, yes it can

[@user-lp2un7rc9x]

You need to hire me as a consult. Several years of safe fisting experience. Not to recommend, but just good to hear and know other ways, methods and devices usable for a deep clean.

[@JordanSeperoth]

Lmaoooo but why is dr.tyler giving his man that side eye when they are talking about pound town lmaooo the tension!!

[@defchefman86]

Two hunky men 🔥🔥

[@brunodominick4931]

I have watched and read so much content like this but they never have the answer for my doubt: like you taught, everywhere it says we should avoid putting too much water so it does not go beyond the rectum because then it would get kind of impossibe to clean with what can come from the colon.. but a penis goes easily deeper than the rectum sometimes, so how can I make sure those last deepest centimeters are as clean as the rectum if water can't go there?

[@Melrosearch7]

What about salt water?

[@popp-de-pop2812]

Use this video as part of your communication discussion with your partner.

[@MrSurfingdreamer]

This was great! Although, a bit redundant.

[@theblondecritic]

Big time lol but good info

[@SageScenes]

QRST is a great name to think about Questioning Real Scenarios with Dr T :)