How Do I Financially Prepare For Divorce?

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How Do I Financially Prepare For Divorce?
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@a.h.2667
@a.h.2667 3 жыл бұрын
At first I thought he was leaving the marriage for another woman, but he is the other woman.
@kanecierra8940
@kanecierra8940 3 жыл бұрын
🤣
@Kingpin745
@Kingpin745 3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@ret4kind
@ret4kind 3 жыл бұрын
Look out ladies. Military guys are talking in the barracks about creative ways around Briffault's Law.
@HOLDXSTEEL
@HOLDXSTEEL 3 жыл бұрын
I thought she was leaving for someone else. I blame the woman in almost every relationship
@JayGarcon
@JayGarcon 3 жыл бұрын
🤣😂🤣😂
@mxerb5912
@mxerb5912 3 жыл бұрын
Dave :Living together for financial reasons is weird Her: he wants to changed genders Dave: hmm
@bettinaorevil5056
@bettinaorevil5056 3 жыл бұрын
😂
@texmutantvr1464
@texmutantvr1464 3 жыл бұрын
amen brother
@jbrittsun
@jbrittsun 3 жыл бұрын
He can't really express is true opinion on air. Can you imagine the fallout and loss of business and reputation...people would crucify him.
@mxerb5912
@mxerb5912 3 жыл бұрын
@@jbrittsun don’t think he gives a rip as he’s said before
@mxerb5912
@mxerb5912 3 жыл бұрын
@Common Sense don’t judge
@Lolatyou332
@Lolatyou332 3 жыл бұрын
Caller: "Dave Ramsey my husband is changing genders" Dave Ramsey: "Sell your car"
@TheLady1908
@TheLady1908 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@KingJagan
@KingJagan 3 жыл бұрын
Beans and rice, rice and beans.
@NeededGR13F
@NeededGR13F 3 жыл бұрын
@@KingJagan but he's getting rid of the beans tho.
@skeyzz1
@skeyzz1 3 жыл бұрын
Sell so much stuff the kids think their next!
@CJ05ful
@CJ05ful 3 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@TeKnoVKNG23
@TeKnoVKNG23 3 жыл бұрын
Don't think marriage counseling is going to help this one Dave.
@MelissaandMoney
@MelissaandMoney 3 жыл бұрын
Definitely not...
@EadsB7002
@EadsB7002 3 жыл бұрын
Nope. I get so annoyed when people automatically assume marriage counseling is the first way to go to “save” any and every marriage. Not always the case. Waste of time and $ in some cases, such as this one!
@zacharylowe8083
@zacharylowe8083 3 жыл бұрын
You’d be surprised.
@joshmonus
@joshmonus 3 ай бұрын
Lol no kidding
@LifeandLifeMoreAbundantly
@LifeandLifeMoreAbundantly Ай бұрын
A Christian marriage counselor.
@SamM-nb1gs
@SamM-nb1gs 3 жыл бұрын
This is gonna be a big TRANSition. In every way...
@hectormorones8733
@hectormorones8733 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@blackworldtraveler3711
@blackworldtraveler3711 3 жыл бұрын
Just since they don’t drag it on.
@achavez78
@achavez78 3 жыл бұрын
You win the internet today!
@mr.speyside5240
@mr.speyside5240 3 жыл бұрын
“Dave, my husband is changing genders.” “What’s your household income?”
@kanecierra8940
@kanecierra8940 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@Username1957js
@Username1957js 3 жыл бұрын
😂
@deuteriumjones
@deuteriumjones 3 жыл бұрын
“Good, sell your old gender.”
@debbie12346
@debbie12346 3 жыл бұрын
Stop 😂🤣😂
@Itbebobby
@Itbebobby 3 жыл бұрын
“Well she’s gonna be delivering pizzas to get out of this”
@MWebb-de9pq
@MWebb-de9pq 3 жыл бұрын
This happened to my family when my father decided this path. It crippled my home maker mother, she had no money to get professional help in her corner. Fortunately us kids were older and not in grade school, be we were not in positions ourselves to help her, financially or emotionally. It’s even harder when you have the world saying “be who you ‘are’” to my father, instead of saying “sacrifice yourself for your family”.
@frankiesmom8478
@frankiesmom8478 3 жыл бұрын
My mother had the same thing happen to her at 50. She did not have a career established. 22 years later she’s broke, zero assets and I’m now her retirement. My advice to you would make sure she’s preparing for retirement. Help her budget once she gets a job. Pick a job that is not commission. Introduce her to Dave Ramsey.
@frankiesmom8478
@frankiesmom8478 3 жыл бұрын
One more thing... if she gets the house and sells it don’t let her invest the money. My mom lost every dime on the stock market because she trusted a financial advisor. Make sure she gets half of your dads retirement.
@scottrodriguezabednego8520
@scottrodriguezabednego8520 3 жыл бұрын
Someone I was introduced to 69unlockers ▪️com helped me spy on my partner's phone without any trace this was the proof I needed to know the cheater I've been with all thanks to the genius who exposed my partner
@tylerjensen9438
@tylerjensen9438 3 жыл бұрын
Me throughout the first part of the video: why in the world are these two looking at a divorce? 2:15: oh.
@edgehodl4832
@edgehodl4832 3 жыл бұрын
Awkward!!
@shola7987
@shola7987 3 жыл бұрын
Easy click bait lol
@ShadaeMastersAstrology
@ShadaeMastersAstrology 3 жыл бұрын
This man done Bruce Jennered this poor woman and their children 😭
@TheePrettyGirlSwag
@TheePrettyGirlSwag 3 жыл бұрын
I’m sitting here thinking another wide back in walked over pumps...Derek Jay vibes.
@sethbender2863
@sethbender2863 3 жыл бұрын
Truth
@JugglingFinance
@JugglingFinance 3 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭😭😮😮😮😭😭😂😰😩
@paulgabel8261
@paulgabel8261 3 жыл бұрын
You meant this 👀
@SerErryk
@SerErryk Жыл бұрын
The husband is so brave 🙄
@edwardmauer7442
@edwardmauer7442 3 жыл бұрын
They could've juiced up the title of the video a bit.
@Zeeno
@Zeeno 3 жыл бұрын
Juiced up? Bruh after 2:13 I think they under juiced lol
@InvalidFingerprint
@InvalidFingerprint 3 жыл бұрын
@@Zeeno that's what OP is saying
@Zeeno
@Zeeno 3 жыл бұрын
@@InvalidFingerprint oh lol its edited now. Previously it said "They juiced up the title of the video a little bit"
@InvalidFingerprint
@InvalidFingerprint 3 жыл бұрын
@@Zeeno oh hahaha, your reply definitely rings true to that then!
@joshmonus
@joshmonus 3 ай бұрын
Lol
@J0hnny0
@J0hnny0 3 жыл бұрын
The comments section is gold today 🤣🤣🤣
@ThreePuttBogeys88
@ThreePuttBogeys88 3 жыл бұрын
But what's your household income?
@myrellasamuels3513
@myrellasamuels3513 3 жыл бұрын
I saw your comment but didn’t think it would be THIS good
@risingsunofjapan
@risingsunofjapan 3 жыл бұрын
I think people are forgetting here that Dave is a FINANCIAL therapist. Not a Marriage therapist
@dontundra2259
@dontundra2259 3 жыл бұрын
People try to make Dave do miracles.
@scottrodriguezabednego8520
@scottrodriguezabednego8520 3 жыл бұрын
Someone I was introduced to 69unlockers ▪️com helped me spy on my partner's phone without any trace this was the proof I needed to know the cheater I've been with all thanks to the genius who exposed my partner
@lorrainem8234
@lorrainem8234 Жыл бұрын
He still gives excellent relationship advice.
@ryandetert450
@ryandetert450 Жыл бұрын
He used to be a marriage counselor too actually, shockingly
@ret4kind
@ret4kind 3 жыл бұрын
2:10 that's definitely a top 10 anime twist of all time. Never saw it coming.
@shrujay4035
@shrujay4035 3 жыл бұрын
I read your comment as I started watching this... I was like let me guess... I couldn't guess that... 😂😂😂😂
@joeairbender267
@joeairbender267 3 жыл бұрын
Wife: ''My husband is now a trans and we have some financial problems'' Dave: ''Sell the gender, rice and bean and bean and rice''
@AC-ly6tg
@AC-ly6tg 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
@breezyveezy1
@breezyveezy1 8 ай бұрын
If My husband did this to me I would clean him out! I’d get a good lawyer and make sure my kids were ok since if he did this then he’s given up being a family or father.
@Kysen10
@Kysen10 3 жыл бұрын
2:15 came out of nowhere! wow. This might be another legendary DR call.
@exxology1
@exxology1 3 жыл бұрын
When a young woman called worried about being a stay at home mom Dave basically said don’t worry, if things go wrong you’ll get half! This should prove how important it is to ALWAYS have a backup plan!!
@EadsB7002
@EadsB7002 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely! Women need to always ensure that they are able to take care of themselves, irregardless of marital status.
@ariefraiser140
@ariefraiser140 3 жыл бұрын
Title: How do I financially prepare for divorce? Me: Prenup.
@fnordiumendures138
@fnordiumendures138 3 жыл бұрын
Prenup may not work as intended in your jurisdiction. Always consult a lawyer, and really, really listen to what he tells you.
@christofl6523
@christofl6523 3 жыл бұрын
@@fnordiumendures138 Better yet, don't ever get married.
@MikeThePike316
@MikeThePike316 3 жыл бұрын
It sounded like the issue is how to continue the baby steps when your income is about to dramatically reduce. Prenup ain't gonna help that.
@elmateo77
@elmateo77 3 жыл бұрын
@@MikeThePike316 Yeah a prenup wouldn't have helped her as it sounds like she didn't go into the marriage with a high income or net worth.
@EadsB7002
@EadsB7002 3 жыл бұрын
True. And too many women make the mistake of going into marriage without any means to fall back on (way to provide for themselves) in the event the marriage fails.
@SimonSaysyo
@SimonSaysyo 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Victoria, keep your head up. You’ll get through this. 🙏🏽
@sovashadow
@sovashadow 3 жыл бұрын
the changing genders caught me off guard on this show and at this hour in the morning
@Jane5720
@Jane5720 3 жыл бұрын
What hour would work for you?
@susaneberhardt6301
@susaneberhardt6301 3 жыл бұрын
Ahh...it happens...
@w04andia
@w04andia 3 жыл бұрын
@@Jane5720 lol!
@Scott-got-caught
@Scott-got-caught 3 жыл бұрын
Perhaps after your evening tea would have been a better hour for you?
@ktsterlin9304
@ktsterlin9304 3 жыл бұрын
I really have nothing to say about the curveball in this video,I hope they all get proper counseling to move through all this.
@elliottmiller3282
@elliottmiller3282 3 жыл бұрын
God job Dave for not making a big deal of this
@reginatheresa199
@reginatheresa199 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah definitely didn’t see that coming! I’m glad she’s handling it so well. She might want to give Dr. D a call as well.
@ShadaeMastersAstrology
@ShadaeMastersAstrology 3 жыл бұрын
As soon as she hangs up she needs to call Dr Phil!
@reginatheresa199
@reginatheresa199 3 жыл бұрын
@@ShadaeMastersAstrology even better!
@joanneelzinga807
@joanneelzinga807 3 жыл бұрын
This is heartbreaking. God help this couple 🙏🏽
@shawnshelt3824
@shawnshelt3824 3 жыл бұрын
So sad. Yea that's not workable.
@f_r_e_d
@f_r_e_d 3 жыл бұрын
So much drama like a telenovela, I spit my rice n beans Dave. It cost me $2.47
@dmitriyr4095
@dmitriyr4095 3 жыл бұрын
That’s some pricy rice and beans.
@EadsB7002
@EadsB7002 3 жыл бұрын
My gosh. The more reading and research I do on this type of thing, the more I believe we take so little into consideration before getting married, should we ever be faced with divorce in the future. We spend way more time on choosing a reception band, china patterns, and discussing how many kids rather than considering our financial (and emotional) future. Truly disturbing. No judgement, because i was guilty too. This is one of many reasons why i don't know that i would ever get married ever again. Not without a prenup at least.
@littlemax8851
@littlemax8851 3 жыл бұрын
Dave: poor woman Me: which one?
@deepfakesforreal9487
@deepfakesforreal9487 3 жыл бұрын
Both.
@CaseyBurnsInvesting
@CaseyBurnsInvesting 3 жыл бұрын
This is some Dr. Phil 💩 2:10
@webbie1891
@webbie1891 3 жыл бұрын
Wait, he changed genders?😬 Poor woman
@susaneberhardt6301
@susaneberhardt6301 3 жыл бұрын
@Andrew E That will most likely take longer than the divorce though...
@deepfakesforreal9487
@deepfakesforreal9487 3 жыл бұрын
Who would blame her. I mean zir. Its hard to be a man these days. I might be next
@shoegal1969
@shoegal1969 3 жыл бұрын
1. Start gathering documents, make copies of EVERYTHING, especially bank statements and such, so the money doesn't "disappear" later. 2. Start putting money away in a separate savings account, hidden. Stash away the cash somewhere safe. 3. Get a safety deposit box for the copies of papers, hidden cash stash. 4. Hire a good lawyer, follow the advice, prepare, prepare, prepare
@arthrodea
@arthrodea 3 жыл бұрын
Actually hiding money from your spouse before or during a divorce is a ILLEGAL. This includes hiding cash, hiding assets, buying gift cards, anything. Judges will not look on this favorably. You have to divide all assets fairly according to how the court rules.
@matthewgardner2144
@matthewgardner2144 3 жыл бұрын
You just contradicted yourself with your 'advice' hon.
3 жыл бұрын
prepare for hard times brought by weak men
@deepfakesforreal9487
@deepfakesforreal9487 3 жыл бұрын
Society has been sh!tting on men and destroying masculinity for decades now. The new generation has got a lot to deal with.
@wanilimbe
@wanilimbe 3 жыл бұрын
I hope the callers doesn’t have kids with her husband
@queen.kristal8395
@queen.kristal8395 3 жыл бұрын
Also I feel like the husband should pay some of the house payment if they have kids ,because your still responsible for them and for them to make sure they have a place to stay.
@IreneZGoodman
@IreneZGoodman 3 жыл бұрын
That's what child support is for.
@queen.kristal8395
@queen.kristal8395 3 жыл бұрын
Well I say that because I wouldn’t want to sell or lose the house when kids are in involved then go to renting makes no sense
@sarrahconley3143
@sarrahconley3143 3 жыл бұрын
They should but that's why we women make sure the house is paid off fast. 🤣
@scottrodriguezabednego8520
@scottrodriguezabednego8520 3 жыл бұрын
Someone I was introduced to 69unlockers ▪️com helped me spy on my partner's phone without any trace this was the proof I needed to know the cheater I've been with all thanks to the genius
@staceystrukel1917
@staceystrukel1917 3 жыл бұрын
I hope everything works out well for them. 🙏
@hatchimatchi69
@hatchimatchi69 3 жыл бұрын
The TRANSaction changes to a business TRANSaction. Lol
@baywest
@baywest 3 жыл бұрын
I read this at the EXACT moment he said it 😂🤣
@msstacey777
@msstacey777 3 жыл бұрын
I heard that too....🤣
@1.5Koreans0.5American
@1.5Koreans0.5American 3 жыл бұрын
Came as fast as I can🔥
@dionnakemp4291
@dionnakemp4291 3 жыл бұрын
@JR 😂
@Transfixion
@Transfixion 3 жыл бұрын
I knew I'd see you here lol
@frankiesmom8478
@frankiesmom8478 3 жыл бұрын
Close the joint checking account and reopen a new account at the same bank. The bank can forward all the autodebits/autodeposits to the new account. You can close a joint checking account without your spouse present even if you are not the primary
@mikeymiranda859
@mikeymiranda859 3 жыл бұрын
He got turned out in the Military
@AC-ly6tg
@AC-ly6tg 3 жыл бұрын
I heard about that before. Kinda weird
@americanbobtail1
@americanbobtail1 3 жыл бұрын
Bradley Manning.....
@shansmith7100
@shansmith7100 3 жыл бұрын
I know a lot of people stay together for finances. Especially the woman she looks at her mortgage/rent and all other things. Hear my friends say it all the time. Ima keep him around cause the 1st is coming up don’t know how ima pay rent. It happens.
@scottrodriguezabednego8520
@scottrodriguezabednego8520 3 жыл бұрын
Someone I was introduced to 69unlockers ▪️com helped me spy on my partner's phone without any trace this was the proof I needed to know the cheater I've been with all thanks to the genius
@johanna6050
@johanna6050 3 жыл бұрын
Everyone - arrange your life so that you are able to support yourself. Finish your education/learn your trade before you have kids.
@susaneberhardt6301
@susaneberhardt6301 3 жыл бұрын
Yup, did it...and sooo glad I did.
@moe4188
@moe4188 3 жыл бұрын
The money i would pay for daves real thoughts on this
@shrujay4035
@shrujay4035 3 жыл бұрын
No matter what you think, 02:11 is kind of unexpected.
@webbie1891
@webbie1891 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, he deserves to get divorce
@ReddingRed
@ReddingRed 3 жыл бұрын
THAT was a curveball that became a high heater straight toward the head! Wow..we're paying for that...
@roddiesimmons8773
@roddiesimmons8773 4 ай бұрын
Anthony, I like the new haircut. I just got mine today, so that's probably why I picked up on it, Looks good. Didn't say much in this episode, but the haircut said it all. 😎
@danreyes736
@danreyes736 3 жыл бұрын
“My husband is changing genders” “We see this a lot”
@SilviaManentFinancialAdvisor
@SilviaManentFinancialAdvisor 3 жыл бұрын
1) Don't get married unless you are 100% in-love and trust the person! Never be scared of staying single!! It's better to be single than have to deal with a person that you don't get along with!! 2) Make sure to have enough money before you get married under your own name 3) PRENUP! 4) Understand the basics of finance, investing & budgeting! Nobody should get married without knowing this stuff!
@sophiehamley715
@sophiehamley715 3 жыл бұрын
Seriously! Never get married!
@claudiafer3051
@claudiafer3051 3 жыл бұрын
Yes! It's so sad! Some people get married because they are scared!
@emilym.5004
@emilym.5004 3 жыл бұрын
@@claudiafer3051 Tottaly!!!
@blackworldtraveler3711
@blackworldtraveler3711 3 жыл бұрын
You just invalidated most of #1 with #2, #3, and #4. You also proved that money is everything.
@mxerb5912
@mxerb5912 3 жыл бұрын
@@blackworldtraveler3711 😂
@danteeightsix9069
@danteeightsix9069 3 жыл бұрын
If you're early enough, you can prepare for a divorce by not getting married in the first place and avoid it altogether.
@Scott-got-caught
@Scott-got-caught 3 жыл бұрын
Amen. We buy alot of properties simply because if divorce situations. Good for business, bad for the couples. From the seller's perspective, It's quite a stressful situation but it happens everyday. Big business for lawyers too
@umairahmad4711
@umairahmad4711 3 жыл бұрын
The idea of getting marriage with finances on the topic is terrifying because your future spouse could be the opposite with your beliefs with spending money . 😳
@elmateo77
@elmateo77 3 жыл бұрын
Don't marry someone like that then. Discuss finances thoroughly before you get married.
@dionnakemp4291
@dionnakemp4291 3 жыл бұрын
2:13 I wasn't expecting that. 😮
@crack1270
@crack1270 3 жыл бұрын
I like how she asked if it was weird that her husband now wants to be a female, we all agree that is weird
@lesabri
@lesabri 3 жыл бұрын
He said it was weird to stay married, not that her husband is transgender.
@NeededGR13F
@NeededGR13F 3 жыл бұрын
@@lesabri both are weird.
@susaneberhardt6301
@susaneberhardt6301 3 жыл бұрын
It happens more than you'd think.
@lesabri
@lesabri 3 жыл бұрын
@@nikkisigmon8090 I personally know of at least two people from work who are transgender and I'm just one person. I support the trans community. I imagine it is a very hard decision to make because it literally upends everything just so a person can feel like themselves. Also, this person is a hero anyway because they are in the army.
@lesabri
@lesabri 3 жыл бұрын
@@nikkisigmon8090 touché, - I personally would never enter the military, so I feel like anyone that has that kind of courage is a hero. I hope you have a great day!
@flisfinance5680
@flisfinance5680 3 жыл бұрын
Wow Dave is really an expert on financial related issues and not marriage. They need to actually find a marriage counselor like Dave said!!
@scottrodriguezabednego8520
@scottrodriguezabednego8520 3 жыл бұрын
Someone I was introduced to 69unlockers ▪️com helped me spy on my partner's phone without any trace this was the proof I needed to know the cheater I've been with all thanks to the genius who exposed my partner
@fernandomartinezreyna1836
@fernandomartinezreyna1836 3 жыл бұрын
How does one just “decide to change gender”? People are crazy!
@MikeThePike316
@MikeThePike316 3 жыл бұрын
The husband may have struggled with the decision for a long time.
@PsychicsRfake456
@PsychicsRfake456 3 жыл бұрын
@@MikeThePike316 then he should have never got married and had kids
@lady56725
@lady56725 3 жыл бұрын
True
@scottrodriguezabednego8520
@scottrodriguezabednego8520 3 жыл бұрын
Someone I was introduced to 69unlockers ▪️com helped me spy on my partner's phone without any trace this was the proof I needed to know the cheater I've been with all thanks to the genius who exposed my partner
@queen.kristal8395
@queen.kristal8395 3 жыл бұрын
just get a divorce, don't stay because of financial reasons. you will not be able to move forward with your life and cant remary.
@abdulaliakbar1175
@abdulaliakbar1175 3 жыл бұрын
It sounds like you love divorce...Evil!!!
@ShadaeMastersAstrology
@ShadaeMastersAstrology 3 жыл бұрын
@Heinrich Himmler Katlin and Kris Jenner 😭
@anneshirley9560
@anneshirley9560 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe he should try counseling, before thinking about divorce. Unless he is still going to go through with this.
@robellyosief8820
@robellyosief8820 3 жыл бұрын
For better or worse, for sick and in health.
@susaneberhardt6301
@susaneberhardt6301 3 жыл бұрын
@@robellyosief8820 for gender change or not?
@SpeedfreakUK
@SpeedfreakUK 3 жыл бұрын
Curveball at 2:01
@petersnow2919
@petersnow2919 3 жыл бұрын
It's the guy who needs the counselling to address his gender confusion. He's going to be one very sad and destroyed individual in a very short time after he realises what he's thrown away.
@staceystrukel1917
@staceystrukel1917 3 жыл бұрын
Or the happiest person on earth because he's finally living his true self.
@blackworldtraveler3711
@blackworldtraveler3711 3 жыл бұрын
I bet he didn’t throw away his razor.
@Zeeno
@Zeeno 3 жыл бұрын
Savage bruh
@susaneberhardt6301
@susaneberhardt6301 3 жыл бұрын
@@blackworldtraveler3711 try electrolysis...
@OmegaTou
@OmegaTou 3 жыл бұрын
@@staceystrukel1917 Statistically unlikely. Unfortunately, many people with gender dysphoria think that transition is going to 'fix' them, but after they transition all the fear, shame, self-loathing, and anxiety are all still there. Transitioning isn't magic, and won't fix all the other emotional baggage most people have. There's a reason many people are de-transitioning, but nobody wants to talk about it because it is a hard conversation to have.
@vladamirkb1
@vladamirkb1 3 жыл бұрын
The first sign of divorce is getting married.
@SpeedfreakUK
@SpeedfreakUK 3 жыл бұрын
First sign of failure is trying.
@oroville12345
@oroville12345 3 жыл бұрын
Spot on buddy 👏
@mr.speyside5240
@mr.speyside5240 3 жыл бұрын
Wow
@Justsayingthat
@Justsayingthat 3 жыл бұрын
I laughed but this is at really cynical outlook. In life there are risks.
@blackworldtraveler3711
@blackworldtraveler3711 3 жыл бұрын
@@Justsayingthat All about choices. Couldn’t help but laugh typing this.😂😂😂😂
@theywalkongold9728
@theywalkongold9728 3 жыл бұрын
Now that they're both women, who is the better woman for custody of children? Because if trans athletes are any indication....
@zenFreq
@zenFreq 3 жыл бұрын
Haha, that's so messed up. I feel bad for laughing but too funny
@titanproductions3628
@titanproductions3628 3 жыл бұрын
He’s still a man
@rbraxton00
@rbraxton00 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! I understand being married and everything, I don’t understand not having your own career. Stop depending on a spouse to take care of you.
@lanthonyperdum6430
@lanthonyperdum6430 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly...I like you !!!
@karenJRV
@karenJRV 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe that’s what they agreed on until they kids were in school. Daycare is expensive.
@Justsayingthat
@Justsayingthat 3 жыл бұрын
@@karenJRV agree. A person at home makes sense for many people. Going to work can cost more than staying home with the kids
@perotal
@perotal 3 жыл бұрын
@@karenJRV Which is why people should stop having kids they can't afford.
@Jeremy-fy1sz
@Jeremy-fy1sz 3 жыл бұрын
Many people just get a job to make it through life and never get a career, so why not let your spouse support you? However I have to agree that in marriage, you need to retain your ability support yourself. Make sure you have a some certificate/employable skillset that you feel confident in so that you always have options.
@exxology1
@exxology1 3 жыл бұрын
Because trans issues are so new this poor woman probably can’t just be ANGRY!! Eff this guy!! Seriously! What a dirt bag to start an entire family while having these kind of issues.. I feel so incredibly sad for the caller!
@deepfakesforreal9487
@deepfakesforreal9487 3 жыл бұрын
Which her
@scottrodriguezabednego8520
@scottrodriguezabednego8520 3 жыл бұрын
Someone I was introduced to 69unlockers ▪️com helped me spy on my partner's phone without any trace this was the proof I needed to know the cheater I've been with all thanks to the genius who exposed my partner
@yayyareaa2997
@yayyareaa2997 3 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the new world we live in
@mohitnikumbh593
@mohitnikumbh593 3 жыл бұрын
I'll be honest, this is the weirdest reason I've ever heard for a divorce. What's yours?
@Andonios88
@Andonios88 3 жыл бұрын
Seems like a standard reason for a divorce to me
@CEDL4072
@CEDL4072 3 жыл бұрын
I knew someone who left his wife for gaining weight and she had just given birth....
@Jane5720
@Jane5720 3 жыл бұрын
@@CEDL4072 thank God she got rid of him early
@retiredmanager510
@retiredmanager510 3 жыл бұрын
How did I prepare for divorce- 1) I went out and put a down payment on a new house. 2) I told my girlfriend I was moving back home with my parents for 6 months. I didn’t tell her I bought a house. 3) I watched her call me names, say I was a loser and unmotivated. She dumped me. 4) I closed escrow on a beach house in Southern California in a gated community. 5) I never looked back, I was 25. House is paid in full. I semi retired at 49. I date but the ladies never get to go to my house. I rent a little place for dates. No man cave. I have a house, garage, cars and travel when I want. No marriage, No divorce.
@Jane5720
@Jane5720 3 жыл бұрын
LOL, it seems like a lot of work and lies and omissions. Why bother the ladies, just don't date.
@chrisreynolds6391
@chrisreynolds6391 3 жыл бұрын
Why would a multi-millionaire like you need to sneak around with dates? Also if you bought a house without telling your partner, while a divorce is going on that gives them alot of leverage to take that very expensive house from you especially in Cali. Even if it worked out you took a stupid risk.
@chrisreynolds6391
@chrisreynolds6391 3 жыл бұрын
Oh wait you never got married.
@scottrodriguezabednego8520
@scottrodriguezabednego8520 3 жыл бұрын
Someone I was introduced to 69unlockers ▪️com helped me spy on my partner's phone without any trace this was the proof I needed to know the cheater I've been with all thanks to the genius
@IRI-2050
@IRI-2050 3 жыл бұрын
Didn't realize you had this kind of stuff in Mitch Mcconnell's Kentucky. Thought your are all regular marriage, male female, what a surprise!
@susaneberhardt6301
@susaneberhardt6301 3 жыл бұрын
The military has all types...
@christofl6523
@christofl6523 3 жыл бұрын
How do I financially prepare for divorce? answer: DON'T GET MARRIED!!!
@susansendy1640
@susansendy1640 3 жыл бұрын
Investing in crypto is a more lucrative way of making money
@Samuel-sj9nw
@Samuel-sj9nw 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely right , I got 70% of my total portfolio in crypto and I have been making good profits
@brownjohn5410
@brownjohn5410 3 жыл бұрын
I wanted to trade crypto but got confused by the fluctuations in price
@willsonwealth270
@willsonwealth270 3 жыл бұрын
That won't bother you if you trade with a professional like Mr JohnBill
@lovelychild7917
@lovelychild7917 3 жыл бұрын
I heard that his strategies are really good
@andyjones9475
@andyjones9475 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah My first Investment with Mr Johnbill made me profits of over $24,320 US dollars and ever since then he has Been delivering
@rdb0819
@rdb0819 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! Wasn't expecting this
@JohnM0rris
@JohnM0rris 3 жыл бұрын
So who gets the house? The woman? Or the woman?
@scottrodriguezabednego8520
@scottrodriguezabednego8520 3 жыл бұрын
Someone I was introduced to 69unlockers ▪️com helped me spy on my partner's phone without any trace this was the proof I needed to know the cheater I've been with all thanks to the genius who exposed my partner
3 жыл бұрын
Dave mentions a marriage counselor, but she is really asking for a divorce counselor. A lot of divorced people had no choice in the matter The court can process a divorce regardless of how you feel about it
@scottrodriguezabednego8520
@scottrodriguezabednego8520 3 жыл бұрын
Someone I was introduced to 69unlockers ▪️com helped me spy on my partner's phone without any trace this was the proof I needed to know the cheater I've been with all thanks to the genius who exposed my partner
@fsmoura
@fsmoura 3 жыл бұрын
1) Get all your money and wealth together in a big pile 2) Kiss it goodbye
@grecojones
@grecojones 3 жыл бұрын
...what?
@ariahlea
@ariahlea 3 жыл бұрын
Right.
@Jergs18
@Jergs18 3 жыл бұрын
I have the perfect answer for this heading. DONT GET MARRIED!
@Neddie2k
@Neddie2k 3 жыл бұрын
2:12, that bit there cut like a knife.
@luismaldonado4989
@luismaldonado4989 3 жыл бұрын
This is truly devastating.
@kantonjones3882
@kantonjones3882 3 жыл бұрын
This took a wildly unexpected turn..
@sminthian
@sminthian 25 күн бұрын
And if you're separated, you don't technically qualify for geo-bachelor.
@djpuplex
@djpuplex 3 жыл бұрын
I work with a bunch of women as a nurse. When one of them files for divorce they coach each other like nothing I've ever seen. You see Briffault Law in action. Men never get married. Never under any circumstances. This "guy" is already acting like a women by changing the terms of the relationship on the women 🤔.
@connorgurgone345
@connorgurgone345 3 жыл бұрын
There are always 2 sides of a story. Never mind
@lanthonyperdum6430
@lanthonyperdum6430 3 жыл бұрын
Great advice my friend...We as men are always behind the eight ball, when it comes to women and marriage !!!
@TigerWoods707
@TigerWoods707 3 жыл бұрын
@@connorgurgone345 history has proven to us that its women who are responsible for these situations more often than not
@retiredmanager510
@retiredmanager510 3 жыл бұрын
It was crazy working in banking,l. Dave touched on the scam they pull. The woman often tells the husband that she found a “great rate” and they would save by refinancing. She brings her happy husband the refi documents. Among those is a quitclaim deed. He signs the documents. The quitclaim is used to take his name off the house. She takes that and files for divorce. He gave up His share of the house but remains on the mortgage. So he gets to pay at the higher rate. She had no intention of refinancing. I saw that happen many many times. .
@matthewgardner2144
@matthewgardner2144 3 жыл бұрын
@@retiredmanager510 And it never crossed your mind to inform the other party as to what they were signing? That seems beyond unethical.
@carlkpsplucky5554
@carlkpsplucky5554 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t blame her. StephisCold once said, “SHE NEED A MAN TO DIG HER TILL SHE MF’ING BUST”. How can he do that if he’s a women?
@boomsuga
@boomsuga 3 жыл бұрын
Dave would just tell them to go to a pastor
@EadsB7002
@EadsB7002 3 жыл бұрын
Ugh.. and that's SO not even gonna help this situation. This is a dead end situation (and a dead one for that matter)....no need in prolonging the burial.
@SouperSaiyan96
@SouperSaiyan96 3 жыл бұрын
But what's your household income?
@duanejackson6718
@duanejackson6718 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah but will he still be able to deliver pizza?
@chrisreynolds6391
@chrisreynolds6391 3 жыл бұрын
He's gonna get on beans and rice and estrogen.
@anthonyc362
@anthonyc362 3 жыл бұрын
Caller: my husband is changing genders Dave: sell his Johnson so a woman changing to a man.
@dabd8175
@dabd8175 3 жыл бұрын
Buy a timeshare. Some calls in tesla or nikola. Buy a purse if u want. And just YOLO
@jakereppuhn
@jakereppuhn 3 жыл бұрын
Nikola is a scam, this is terrible advice for anyone. It’s tanking as we speak
@labornurse
@labornurse 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like this was intended to be sarcasm. Sarcasm is harder to pull off on the internet.
@dabd8175
@dabd8175 3 жыл бұрын
@@labornurse nope no sarcasm 100% thinks it's a good idea. A credit card or two might not hurt her either
@dabd8175
@dabd8175 3 жыл бұрын
@@jakereppuhn buy low sell high?
@dabd8175
@dabd8175 3 жыл бұрын
@@labornurse in fact since the husband is changing genders to female. The wife should change to a male and they should stay married. Problem solved
@CloudTribe
@CloudTribe 3 жыл бұрын
So who gets the house and kids and pays the alimony? Does the origional woman have to move out or does the transitioned one?
@dmitriyr4095
@dmitriyr4095 3 жыл бұрын
I think the original woman gets priority based on seniority.. no?
@susaneberhardt6301
@susaneberhardt6301 3 жыл бұрын
Whoever can afford to / whoever has the kid?
@deepfakesforreal9487
@deepfakesforreal9487 3 жыл бұрын
The trans woman will spend the rest of his life confused and fighting the patriarchy. I dont think he will have time and emotional strength to raise kids.... and ze is in the military
@duanejackson6718
@duanejackson6718 3 жыл бұрын
Dave, ask her if she wants to move to Montana. I'll take her. She sounded cute.
@deepfakesforreal9487
@deepfakesforreal9487 3 жыл бұрын
Which one of the two u like?
@scottrodriguezabednego8520
@scottrodriguezabednego8520 3 жыл бұрын
Someone I was introduced to 69unlockers ▪️com helped me spy on my partner's phone without any trace this was the proof I needed to know the cheater I've been with all thanks to the genius who exposed my partner
@basicprogrammer6147
@basicprogrammer6147 10 ай бұрын
Easy: Write a check to the lawyers for your entire life savings. Don't forget!: You'll need to sell your house, too, and send the proceeds to the lawyers. Sheesh. Didn't they teach this in school? (no)
@timbaze5207
@timbaze5207 6 ай бұрын
I’m interesting what the Bible has to say on this because usually if you get divorced, you are living in adultery for the rest of your life, but I can’t even imagine this becoming an issue in bible tomes
@Soljarag5
@Soljarag5 3 жыл бұрын
Wait..... What????
@infiltrator7777
@infiltrator7777 3 жыл бұрын
Hubby doesn’t want his ‘beans and rice’ anymore? 😄
@ryaneboy101
@ryaneboy101 3 жыл бұрын
So your husband decided to change genders😭😭😭Wow!!! Weird and sick😱😱😱
@adams5507
@adams5507 3 жыл бұрын
uh oh stinky
@staceystrukel1917
@staceystrukel1917 3 жыл бұрын
It's not sick.
@blackworldtraveler3711
@blackworldtraveler3711 3 жыл бұрын
@@staceystrukel1917 I laughed enough today don’t post your secrets.
@theywalkongold9728
@theywalkongold9728 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe she wasn't woman enough for him. now he is all the woman he needs
@susaneberhardt6301
@susaneberhardt6301 3 жыл бұрын
@@BrendanRaymondKoroKoro 🤣😂
@dec1slh
@dec1slh 3 жыл бұрын
I would have died if Dave would have started referring to the husband as "it" after she said he was changing genders.
@fhuber7507
@fhuber7507 3 жыл бұрын
You pretty much can't financially prepare for divorce. The divorce laws will require you to properly disclose your finances. And in general you split the money and the debt. She essentially abandoned her husband by refusing to move with him when he got transferred. Hopefully he doesn't have to pay any support.
@scottrodriguezabednego8520
@scottrodriguezabednego8520 3 жыл бұрын
Someone I was introduced to 69unlockers ▪️com helped me spy on my partner's phone without any trace this was the proof I needed to know the cheater I've been with all thanks to the genius who exposed my partner
@EfrainMeza
@EfrainMeza 3 жыл бұрын
yeah 10am and didn’t think this was real life
@CEDL4072
@CEDL4072 3 жыл бұрын
Step 1: Never get married lol
@LetsTalkPersonalFinance
@LetsTalkPersonalFinance 3 жыл бұрын
I haven't heard anyone reccomend a marriage counselor for a couple that is going through a divorce🤔
@shoegal1969
@shoegal1969 3 жыл бұрын
When women start thinking divorce, they are usually past the marriage counselor point. I was.
@Justsayingthat
@Justsayingthat 3 жыл бұрын
I have seen women who said “if I had known I would have stayed” if they communicated better with the spouse. It can prevent a divorce
@blackworldtraveler3711
@blackworldtraveler3711 3 жыл бұрын
@@Justsayingthat They could have a lot in common. In time the husband will catch up.
@susaneberhardt6301
@susaneberhardt6301 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah...this is beyond that, believe me....
@EadsB7002
@EadsB7002 3 жыл бұрын
I get so annoyed when I hear people automatically recommend marriage counseling... like it’s going to save any and all situations. Not the case! 🙄
@chriscampbell8181
@chriscampbell8181 3 жыл бұрын
New guy next to Dave is like, uh.....
@jaym2835
@jaym2835 3 жыл бұрын
Coming from the husband to the homegirl will be a tough transition.
@misterE-1989
@misterE-1989 3 жыл бұрын
2:11 ~ What Dave is thinking: keep you mouth shut, act like this situation is perfectly normal and I'll keep my job.
@deepfakesforreal9487
@deepfakesforreal9487 3 жыл бұрын
Dave always sides with women. Now that he has two in his hands he doesnt know what to do with the whole thing
@misterE-1989
@misterE-1989 3 жыл бұрын
@@deepfakesforreal9487 LOL. I was waiting for Dave's morality lecture, but he would've been considered transphobic in 2020 America... what a wacky world.
@Chesu360
@Chesu360 3 жыл бұрын
Dave's driving by!! 🤣😂
@Chesu360
@Chesu360 3 жыл бұрын
And he ain't stopping!!
@christianchristiansen99
@christianchristiansen99 3 жыл бұрын
Based on the title, I didn’t expect 2:12 to be on her agender..
@AaAa-ri4uf
@AaAa-ri4uf 3 жыл бұрын
who went straight to the comment section @ 2:13?
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