How Do I Leave A Toxic Job That Pays Well

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The Ken Coleman Show - Highlights

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@BrandonBurch
@BrandonBurch 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah don't do what I did. I stayed in a job I was miserable in for so long that I reach my mental Breaking Point and I put in my notice before having another job lined up. I literally couldn't take it anymore. I waited way too long. I've been living on my savings, and it's coming down to the wire where I have only two more months to find a job. Things are starting to look up, as though I will find something soon, but still this is too close for comfort.
@sarahlee8022
@sarahlee8022 5 жыл бұрын
Wishing you the best. Dont give up. Sometimes things come in the Nick of time. Be encouraged. God bless.
@Cristianandtupac
@Cristianandtupac 5 жыл бұрын
Brandon Burch I’m afraid to reach the mental breaking point, but when I’m at work I daydream about being at home doing nothing and being better off.
@BrandonBurch
@BrandonBurch 5 жыл бұрын
@@sarahlee8022 thanks
@ebrunalbantoglu8803
@ebrunalbantoglu8803 4 жыл бұрын
I need some piece of advice please. I've been working as a translator which is the happiest thing to do for me. The working place, coworkes are good but I'm taking low salary. And there's another job with high salary being English teacher but I don't like doing it. And also I'd like to save money. Should I quit this job and accept the job just for money?
@cynthia6771
@cynthia6771 3 жыл бұрын
@@Cristianandtupac me too. I sit in my car before work and physically cry almost every morning and I wish I could be at home where I'm safe
@tamick2000
@tamick2000 5 жыл бұрын
If you ride the ship down, you ride your soul down. It is more valuable to leave a toxic environment and find another job and then work on your side business. You need to keep positive momentum in your life as a priority.
@ac75911
@ac75911 4 жыл бұрын
We should all be able to do a full background check on companies before they hire us, including their financials and direction they are going in. They can check all of us but then still hire people just to downsize or lay off months later. It's backwards.
@BillClinton228
@BillClinton228 Жыл бұрын
😂 if we could see a companys turnover rate or their financials the hiring advantage will be taken away from companies and thats not something they want. The perception will always be that companies pay the money so their opinion of us matters more. But the truth is that if there are no employees there is no company. You matter just as much as the people who pay you the salary.
@josephrostkowski8631
@josephrostkowski8631 Жыл бұрын
Already exists, IT IS CALLED TURN OVER RATE ! companies that are not privatized are by law to give you this percentage, and always ask during interviews! When you apply for a new job always interview them , they are the one looking for help! You just apply to an opportunity they so called posted!
@walterstanford8162
@walterstanford8162 4 ай бұрын
I should have done that with the last job I was in but the job I have now is better.
@gottaluvjen2337
@gottaluvjen2337 5 жыл бұрын
This was a word! 🙌🏾I don’t know how this came up in my feed but I am thankful. I am the same exact place is this guy and the advice that was sound and practical!
@RealLifeMoney
@RealLifeMoney 5 жыл бұрын
It makes sense to second guess cause sometimes we gotta do what we gotta do. But feeling stuck isn’t good either. Our health is much more important 🙌
@journalsfromdavid
@journalsfromdavid 2 жыл бұрын
does a job not pay for health tho🤣 ?
@vacuumblink2300
@vacuumblink2300 2 жыл бұрын
@@journalsfromdavid it really doesn’t all things considered
@esonon5210
@esonon5210 3 жыл бұрын
I'm glad Ken gave this advice out. Lots of time people end up in jobs they hate because they don't have a plan in place. They don't make things happen, things happen to them.
@Gunnut880
@Gunnut880 5 жыл бұрын
I was in a similar situation but fortunately, I have a cousin that recognized I was very unhappy in my work and pushed for me to apply to a better job, and I did and I took the leap of faith the day after I applied and quit the toxic job, and it worked out got invited to interview for it, then I got the job offer, I start June 3rd. Also, I don't think I would have gotten the job without the connections I have and developed with certain people in the area I will be working and also knowing a lot of different people in the same job role I will be working across the state of Kansas, the proximity principle works.
@matthewmitchell68
@matthewmitchell68 3 жыл бұрын
Keeping your expenses minimum is critical, I live below 20k a year. I have a wide variety of different options to choose from in occupations!
@mikebrownbassist802
@mikebrownbassist802 4 жыл бұрын
I really think it is nearly impossible for most people to sit down and “think about” what they want to do. A lot of “passions” don’t pay anything. I think it is more helpful to try a lot of different things until you fine tune what you do and do not like. New opportunities will arise from interacting with new people and having different experiences. Sitting in an office cubicle and “coming up” with your dream job is unlikely. If it was, more people would be doing their dream job. Also, there is a good chance the job you “thought” would be great turns out to be a terrible fit...because you had never done it...you just “thought” it would be a fun job.
@shannon2748
@shannon2748 3 жыл бұрын
I agree. 100%
@surfingswimmer1711
@surfingswimmer1711 3 жыл бұрын
this is really good advice everyone should listen to. Don't quit your job if your not passionate about it, but are good enough at doing it, and if it's not toxic. Instead work on getting your passion ready so that eventually you can quit a job your not passionate about but can still do ok.
@thedealmakergogoba8087
@thedealmakergogoba8087 4 жыл бұрын
I have a 6 months lined up, that is aligned with my passion. I am pulling a plug on my 9to5, toxic manager who lacks communication and leadership skills. This 6 months gig is my consulting passion and there is a big chance I can grow the income more than this 6months. My 9to5 is holding me back and I cant afford to leave ths gig bcse of my current job
@cirella1064
@cirella1064 2 жыл бұрын
Yes! Listen to this guy! Start looking and networking.
@NeoAndersonReloaded
@NeoAndersonReloaded 5 жыл бұрын
Dang im in the same place. I make 110k, no degree. My job is really starting to make us like robots vs a human.
@GoogleAccount00
@GoogleAccount00 4 жыл бұрын
Wow, nice salary
@quarantinekitchen6909
@quarantinekitchen6909 3 жыл бұрын
I make 47k with student loans :( and someone less qualified than me makes 65,000!!!!!! Experience does pay
@P3P3TEAM0
@P3P3TEAM0 3 жыл бұрын
I can relate! I was getting paid extremely well, but I did not have a voice or even a choice! I abruptly left a few days ago because of all the toxicity, Im a bit afraid but I know I’ll find something. Peace and health are more important than money.
@Cristianandtupac
@Cristianandtupac 5 жыл бұрын
I also feel stuck at my job and I’m slowly trying to quit. I got a second job and I’m going to go back to school while saving money to go back to school.
@TheKenColemanShow
@TheKenColemanShow 5 жыл бұрын
You have what it takes Crisitian!
@Cristianandtupac
@Cristianandtupac 5 жыл бұрын
The Ken Coleman Show ❤️
@jwracingteam
@jwracingteam 2 жыл бұрын
This is one of those situations I think we will all face at some stage of our career, coach Ken to the rescue again! The Titanic analogy was spot on, Bookmark this one.
@richardyamato
@richardyamato 4 жыл бұрын
My job really pays well. Even though I really don't need the money (I can go home to our farm and live a simple life) but I feel it's a waste quitting all that good money.
@asmitachatterjee5146
@asmitachatterjee5146 3 жыл бұрын
This video is JUST what I needed! I AM Joe (well, earning way less than him but still the situation is SAME!) Thanks so much for making this Ken! 🙏
@elivenelivenny8197
@elivenelivenny8197 4 жыл бұрын
be realistic ? and what exactly is "reality" ? It's a limited perception of the masses telling you how to live your life, when in fact you're the one creating the reality for yourself. So why you should listen to someone else's version of reality and live that when you can make your own? I would not listen to this guy's advice. if you truly want to help yourself and follow your heart and truly know yourself, I highly recommend reading books on how the mind works.. I strongly suggest Neville Goddard's & Dr.Joseph Murphy's teaching. they are phenomenal ! Hope this comment won't get deleted (:
@susannag1712
@susannag1712 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad I stumbled across your channel. Game. Changer!
@arthurdevrome8925
@arthurdevrome8925 4 жыл бұрын
Be happy! For me it's worse: I have a shit job and it doesn't even pay well!!! Damnit!!!
@BMORETODAY
@BMORETODAY 8 ай бұрын
You can find a 70k job anywhere! Im over stressing leaving a 150-200k job on Monday! Lol
@aus1317
@aus1317 5 жыл бұрын
I have a pair of Golden handcuffs on too.
@erin79
@erin79 4 жыл бұрын
Me three.
@cynthia6771
@cynthia6771 3 жыл бұрын
Same. Well said
@dawngunter9165
@dawngunter9165 3 жыл бұрын
I am in a place where I make decent money. I get anxious when I come in and am miserable. I think I would be okay as long as I didn't have to come into the office each day. I have bipolar II and that doesn't help matters either. I have owned my own business for 27 years but I have not worked on growing it since 2000. I love what I do, what I do at this job is what I will do in my own business. I do have a deal that I can work until at least April 30th, outside of this job, but at home. It is as an employee of another company. Then I also have the opportunity to do premium audits as a 1099 contractor from home. My business is accounting/taxes. Please advise.
@nocarbsnation
@nocarbsnation 3 жыл бұрын
I can so relate to this...
@seriousfaith
@seriousfaith 5 жыл бұрын
I love Ken's facial expressions while he's listening to word salad!
@Libra8410
@Libra8410 3 жыл бұрын
😂
@vacuumblink2300
@vacuumblink2300 2 жыл бұрын
What about it was “word salad?” The guy made his point really well…
@Szechaun_Don
@Szechaun_Don 3 жыл бұрын
My same predicament as an electrician...I hate it...I don't like anything about it but it pays well
@colindong7316
@colindong7316 Жыл бұрын
I thought he was going to say he made 200k+ a yr. He can bloody leave this job
@sarahlee8022
@sarahlee8022 5 жыл бұрын
Ken I love how straight forward you are. Good segment.
@dthatcher7
@dthatcher7 3 жыл бұрын
"How Do I Leave a Toxic Job That Pays Well"? Find a job that pays just as well? 70k.... that's not a problem? ROFLMAO.... Finding jobs over $60k without very specific skill sets or at very specific employers is like pulling teeth... even out here in a west coast major metro. If you are paid really well, prospective employers will be able to find plenty of good candidates for less... Just sayin
@StuartHerrington
@StuartHerrington 5 жыл бұрын
I’m in the same boat as this guy, also doing a similar job. It’s not great.
@7saany
@7saany 2 жыл бұрын
How do I find out what Im passionate about? Most people have an idea but all I knoe is what I DONT like and dont want
@Outdoorsnmotors
@Outdoorsnmotors Жыл бұрын
I’m in the same boat, my company pays me about 70k a year, a lot of managers don’t even make that in my area and I’m not even a manager, the downside is I have to work a shitty schedule, and the schedule is starting to take a hard toll on me.
@dirtymig0pp772
@dirtymig0pp772 Жыл бұрын
What is your squedual, nights swing ?
@damianwong7503
@damianwong7503 4 жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear this. Thanks Ken.
@na27000
@na27000 3 жыл бұрын
I think he is very harsh sometimes. :( People who call you need more empathy.
@Anton33175
@Anton33175 3 жыл бұрын
No, American need to get used to speak to each other honestly as adults
@bbdass4598
@bbdass4598 20 күн бұрын
No . He is saying it with care. Empathy cannot be used to lie. He cares about him to say how it is. Get ready. Get out
@vacuumblink2300
@vacuumblink2300 2 жыл бұрын
Holy shit this guy is literally me, same dilemma, same occupation and salary too. Creepy
@juliejacobsen2765
@juliejacobsen2765 5 жыл бұрын
Like Dave says a job is no guarantee
@smmcguire34
@smmcguire34 3 жыл бұрын
same boat but I make about half what this guy does and the jobs around here don't pay close to what I'm making
@Mina-rb5ut
@Mina-rb5ut 3 жыл бұрын
Lol 3:04 and 3:10 “ I want to help people live happy healthy lives” “ says the guy that’s miserable “ Lmao this is every “ spiritual guru”
@CathRas95
@CathRas95 2 жыл бұрын
What if you line up a part time job that you live .. But would need a full time job at sime point .. Explaining that on paper could be hard.
@cateclism316
@cateclism316 Жыл бұрын
The "golden handcuffs" suck eggs!
@msjamesmusic
@msjamesmusic 8 ай бұрын
Can we order the cup?
@HHHPedigrees
@HHHPedigrees Жыл бұрын
The guy is going to go from 70k to 20k lmao.
@josephrostkowski8631
@josephrostkowski8631 Жыл бұрын
Industrial Revolution by product, bunch of people competing instead of working together, causing stress which is the Mai reason for cancer 😢😢😢😢😢😢
@john146muaythai
@john146muaythai 2 жыл бұрын
The gospel means “good news”. The gospel is the proclamation of who Jesus is and what He did for His elect only. The entire Bible (Old testament and New Testament) foreshadows and proclaims who Jesus is and what He did for His elect only (John 5:39, Luke 24:44). Jesus is the Son of God (John 3:16), fully God and fully man (John 1:1 & 1:14) and second person in the Trinity (Matthew 3:16-17). The gospel is God’s testimony concerning Jesus as revealed in the Holy Scriptures by the Holy Spirit which proclaims how Jesus the Christ (John 1:41, Matthew 16:16) was born of a virgin (Matthew 1:23) and born under the law to redeem His elect who were under the law and save His elect from their sins (Matthew 1:21, Galatians 4:4). God’s elect /sheep are the people past, present and future from every tribe, tongue and nation God actively chose to redeem/ justify/save based on Christ. God chose in Christ before the foundation of the world was laid according to the good pleasure of His will for His glory (Revelations 5:9, Ephesians 1:4-5). God actively created and chose a people from every tribe, tongue and nation before they were born for salvation whom God has always loved because of Christ and only Christ (Romans 8). God’s elect are vessels of mercy prepared beforehand for glory to make known the riches of His glory (Romans 9). God’s elect/sheep are God’s chosen vessels of mercy that are Jews and Gentiles because of Christ. (John 10, Romans 9:23-26, Hosea 2:23) God is Holy (Isaiah 6:3). God’s law is holy and good (Romans 7:12). The law of God demands perfection in word, thought, and deed at all times (James 2:10). The law was given through Moses (John 1:17). The law condemned all mankind and brought knowledge of sin (Romans 3:19-20). All people are under sin and none are righteous (Romans 3:9-18). Sin entered the world through Adam and death through sin and death spread to all mankind because all sinned. (Romans 5:12-13). Jesus Christ is the Passover lamb without blemish (1 Peter 1:19) for His elect by God’s sovereign grace (1 Corinthians 5:7). Just as the Israelites were released from Egypt after the death of the firstborn (Exodus 11-13) - Jesus Christ the firstborn of all creation (Colossians 1:15) justified all His elect at the cross from the wrath of God(Romans 5:9-11). Jesus willingly went to the cross (Philippians 2:8) and offered one sacrifice for all time for His elect He sanctified (Hebrews 10:11-14) as their representative and High priest. Jesus was crucified for the elect’s sin and raised for their justification (Romans 4:25). It pleased God the Father to crush His only begotten Son( Isaiah 53:10) and God the Father accepted Jesus’ perfect sacrifice on behalf of His sheep( Acts 2:23) . Jesus paid His elect’s sin debt and there is now no condemnation for those who are married to Christ (Romans 7-8). By Christ’s knowledge He justified all His elect (Isaiah 53:11) and finished His mission (John 19:30). All of God’s sheep will believe God’s testimony concerning Christ because Jesus justified them by His perfect sacrifice on the cross. Not one sheep Jesus died for will perish. Jesus is the good shepherd. Faith(believing God’s testimony concerning Jesus) is the fruit of what Jesus accomplished for His sheep. God’s sheep are righteous before God by the imputed righteousness of Christ provided at the cross as prophesied in Psalm 32 and fulfilled in John 19. All Jesus died for are regenerated at God’s appointed time to believe God’s testimony concerning Christ on who Christ is and what He did at the cross( Acts 13:48).
@josephrostkowski8631
@josephrostkowski8631 Жыл бұрын
It is easier for a Camel to make it through an eye of a needle than a rich man, to make it into heaven,❤
@josephrostkowski8631
@josephrostkowski8631 Жыл бұрын
Hard work and dedication under the name of the Lord feels like no work at all but a blessing and an honor to do so struggle and resentment and jealousy is only the byproduct of Hardwork steered by evil❤
@josephrostkowski8631
@josephrostkowski8631 Жыл бұрын
Forgive us Father for we know what we do😢 !!!!!!
@john146muaythai
@john146muaythai Жыл бұрын
@@josephrostkowski8631 The gospel means “good news”. The gospel is the proclamation of who Jesus is and what He did for His elect only. The entire Bible (Old testament and New Testament) foreshadows and proclaims who Jesus is and what He did for His elect only (John 5:39, Luke 24:44). Jesus is the Son of God (John 3:16), fully God and fully man (John 1:1 & 1:14) and second person in the Trinity (Matthew 3:16-17). The gospel is God’s testimony concerning Jesus as revealed in the Holy Scriptures by the Holy Spirit which proclaims how Jesus the Christ (John 1:41, Matthew 16:16) was born of a virgin (Matthew 1:23) and born under the law to redeem His elect who were under the law and save His elect from their sins (Matthew 1:21, Galatians 4:4). God’s elect /sheep are the people past, present and future from every tribe, tongue and nation God actively chose to redeem/ justify/save based on Christ. God chose in Christ before the foundation of the world was laid according to the good pleasure of His will for His glory (Revelations 5:9, Ephesians 1:4-5). God actively created and chose a people from every tribe, tongue and nation before they were born for salvation whom God has always loved because of Christ and only Christ (Romans 8). God’s elect are vessels of mercy prepared beforehand for glory to make known the riches of His glory (Romans 9). God’s elect/sheep are God’s chosen vessels of mercy that are Jews and Gentiles because of Christ. (John 10, Romans 9:23-26, Hosea 2:23) God is Holy (Isaiah 6:3). God’s law is holy and good (Romans 7:12). The law of God demands perfection in word, thought, and deed at all times (James 2:10). The law was given through Moses (John 1:17). The law condemned all mankind and brought knowledge of sin (Romans 3:19-20). All people are under sin and none are righteous (Romans 3:9-18). Sin entered the world through Adam and death through sin and death spread to all mankind because all sinned. (Romans 5:12-13). Jesus Christ is the Passover lamb without blemish (1 Peter 1:19) for His elect by God’s sovereign grace (1 Corinthians 5:7). Just as the Israelites were released from Egypt after the death of the firstborn (Exodus 11-13) - Jesus Christ the firstborn of all creation (Colossians 1:15) justified all His elect at the cross from the wrath of God(Romans 5:9-11). Jesus willingly went to the cross (Philippians 2:8) and offered one sacrifice for all time for His elect He sanctified (Hebrews 10:11-14) as their representative and High priest. Jesus was crucified for the elect’s sin and raised for their justification (Romans 4:25). It pleased God the Father to crush His only begotten Son( Isaiah 53:10) and God the Father accepted Jesus’ perfect sacrifice on behalf of His sheep( Acts 2:23) . Jesus paid His elect’s sin debt and there is now no condemnation for those who are married to Christ (Romans 7-8). By Christ’s knowledge He justified all His elect (Isaiah 53:11) and finished His mission (John 19:30). All of God’s sheep will believe God’s testimony concerning Christ because Jesus justified them by His perfect sacrifice on the cross. Not one sheep Jesus died for will perish. Jesus is the good shepherd. Faith(believing God’s testimony concerning Jesus) is the fruit of what Jesus accomplished for His sheep. God’s sheep are righteous before God by the imputed righteousness of Christ provided at the cross as prophesied in Psalm 32 and fulfilled in John 19. All Jesus died for are regenerated at God’s appointed time to believe God’s testimony concerning Christ on who Christ is and what He did at the cross( Acts 13:48).
@johnmartin4641
@johnmartin4641 3 жыл бұрын
Simple. You don’t. You suck it up and do whatever you have to do to provide yourself and your family with the best life possible.
@Lisa-my5sy
@Lisa-my5sy Жыл бұрын
Or find a better job
@josephrostkowski8631
@josephrostkowski8631 Жыл бұрын
That’s what slaves used to say to not die!!!!!!
@johnmartin4641
@johnmartin4641 Жыл бұрын
@@josephrostkowski8631 slaves weren’t paid. That was the whole point of slavery.
@kaidaribtissem9826
@kaidaribtissem9826 3 жыл бұрын
Very harsh !
@asmitachatterjee5146
@asmitachatterjee5146 3 жыл бұрын
OMG I SO need to know what happened to this guy!
@colindong7316
@colindong7316 Жыл бұрын
The dude sounds like he's hit with the multilevel marketing bug. That's the same spiel I heard a thousand times. A side business helping people live better lives. I bet he's lost money and made jack sh t from this side business
@samia086
@samia086 5 жыл бұрын
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