How does an INFP know their beliefs are accurate? | CS Joseph Responds

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C.S. Joseph

C.S. Joseph

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@Cuspofrevolution
@Cuspofrevolution 6 ай бұрын
This is fantastic because even though im not successful in the sense of money and fame i have overcome a lot of obstacles. Still have a lot to overcome but considering the pathway i was headed and the path im on now pushing your boundaries as infp is a must especially when we are depressed because thats an indicator that we need to make an adjustment in our lives. 😊 great content this one.
@leahmdye
@leahmdye 2 жыл бұрын
This is so on point. I'm an INFP and my beastie is an ESTP and she always calls me out when I go on one of my platitudes about life- the proof is in the pudding!
@intj1782
@intj1782 2 жыл бұрын
Man! Listen - you are literally the best. Damn true with every single video you make. I'm literally watching every single video you have uploaded on this channel and all of a sudden everything is making much much more sense. It makes me feel good. I want you to continue doing this. I will buy your journey men membership once I'll complete watching every single video on your channel & will start earning enough on my own (will still probably gonna take an year). Am taking notes, cause obviously I am not gonna remember everything, but my understanding about everything is expanding. You said in one of your videos that INTJs should stop taking shortcuts & should watch every single video including other types (I don't remember that's exactly what you said but it was along the line, something similar to that.) and you were damn right, it's changing the way I am having conversation with people - it's been more than 6 months am following you & now is when am noticing the good changes that you are bringing in people's lives (my life being honest, lol) by teaching them about people. I want you to keep doing your work, It feels good understanding myself and other, I appreciate it - it all makes sense. ~ INTJ
@dannisayseffyou
@dannisayseffyou 2 жыл бұрын
Same here infj
@justglitter
@justglitter 2 жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree with this! I'm so grateful for social media in this regard. I'm a member of lots of different groups for various things I've taken an interest in, studied, and of course come to my own interpretation on. I used to be so timid expressing my beliefs, but in those groups I gained some confidence and started speaking my mind. I've been given such amazing feedback that now I can even share my position on things in real life! Even if I know it is completely 100% opposite what others think sometimes! Me, conflict avoidant, messy little hermit with devine purpose lacking follow through, contradiction that I am. It's kinda a big thing, for those who don't know. Now you know.
@miaypypyp738
@miaypypyp738 2 жыл бұрын
Something burns the most is the truth or the reality I am unwilling to face. Pain is the tool to verify whether I am living in truth or not.
@oh_nat9340
@oh_nat9340 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, using ourselves as test subjects. 👍🏼
@denissesantillan6218
@denissesantillan6218 2 жыл бұрын
Just like my ESTP daddy used to tell me when he would take me (an INFP) to work with him and I would daydream. "Pass me my f*#%in tools God *@#% it." In all honesty there is such applicable life knowledge I got just by observing him as a kid. I might not be on all 10 toes everyday like he might have liked, but thanks to him I won't be made no dummy. 😅
@jobo8868
@jobo8868 2 жыл бұрын
Lol GREAT dad ya got there😭
@sharpiesarecool814
@sharpiesarecool814 2 жыл бұрын
hahaha that's hilarious.
@jenstone4708
@jenstone4708 2 жыл бұрын
That’s just so beautiful 😭😭😭😭♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
@00Klingon
@00Klingon 2 жыл бұрын
I once witnessed a debate between a brilliant ENFP and an ENTP about the nature of truth that was very eye opening and exposed a sort of uncomfortable reality about "objective truth" that most Ne,Ti personalities seem to innately understand when they often say the words "It depends"... A prime example is scientific measurement which is inherently always a compromise of truth. When measuring in carpentry, we often are satisfied with a certain level of slop or tolerance, limited by the precision of our tools and measuring devices, but when working with precise engineered metal objects, that tolerance can narrow down, even to the nanometer scale. Even then, there is a level of precision that becomes impractical to know without overly expensive equipment and we all end up accepting a level of "truth". Once we get to this level of precision there can be so many environmental variables that impact our measurement such as temperature, that precision can be fleeting and difficult to achieve. Once we reach the atomic level of measurement, things begin to look more assured, until you factor in quantum effects and once again, we must agree to accepting a level of truth, but the absolute truth is still unknowable. Even on a quark and string level, on and on it goes, it's like elephants all the way down until the very act of measurement, impacts your measurement. Every time physicists think they've found the truth of the universe, something more is discovered. Thus is the nature of absolute truth in a world limited by three dimensions moving through a 4th.
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 2 жыл бұрын
well said.
@afnanbogey
@afnanbogey 2 жыл бұрын
Shaming, accountability and concrete real-world experience with results-based environments help. Statistics, mixed martial arts, business, scientific rigour. Situations where you will probably fail and then have to adapt accordingly. And yeah, in retrospect, most of my early growth came forced by an ESTP friend and ESTP cousin lol.
@williamcompitello2302
@williamcompitello2302 2 жыл бұрын
Truth exists despite how I feel. When wrong, I should decide whether to use the correction to enhance or abandon my belief. INFPs, if you want energy, have this in mind! I can be real lazy at times. Be curious to potential correction when showing your beliefs instead of sitting In your anger/comfort forever. We don't have that pleasure in reality.
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 2 жыл бұрын
Well said
@chrishillswrites6442
@chrishillswrites6442 3 ай бұрын
this is literally the most important question I ever had
@hashiyo9987
@hashiyo9987 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Joseph, thanks for video regarding INFP, really appreciate your input. I have brother in law who probably is ESTP. When I say something to him, most of the times he says" Show me, that what you saying is the truth". My response is always the same, "You don't have to belive me, is up to you. I don't have time nor patience to prove myself to anybody". It's person choice whather they belive someone or not, especially since I told him that I wouldn't lie to my family to cause any misfortune or some kind of trick. That's why I stop talking to him, since is always about proving. Each and every damn time I was right, and he saw it. Never mention anything that I was right about something.
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah they'll agree that something makes sense but not accept it until it's proven.
@Jclarno1
@Jclarno1 Жыл бұрын
Not sure having people try to access their blindspot is going to be a great longterm solution, but I agree in part about going to the extraverted functions. INFP's should strengthen Ne. It will get them out into the world and experimenting with the things they more naturally care about. As Ne strengthens, Te will get stronger as well and will route them on a more solid course and their Si will gather the memories and experiences and inform them what is true and what isn't in the practical world as they succeed and fail with their pursuits.
@Violet_Odorata
@Violet_Odorata Ай бұрын
I think it's important to at least know that it exist, and the gravity of it's importance. Imagine how greatly it will affect our hero function and the subsequent belief we will form thereafter.
@haihai5293
@haihai5293 2 жыл бұрын
Like always - THANKS.
@andrewross5454
@andrewross5454 2 жыл бұрын
As an ENFJ somewhat fixated on the nature of truth who has an INFP little brother this is painfully accurate. INFPs need an egregious amount of sources and confirmation to accept anything that doesn't support their FI hero sensibilities.. I often wonder if it also has to do with the reality that they have ISTP ego (or the crafter/virtuoso ego) crafts the perception of reality based on what the INFP "feels is true." Because it satisfies those emotional implications and the INFP is driven to spread a moral philosophy you often see an INFP's perspective is driven by this need to craft a moral fi fantasy-based reality.. the best fantasy authors I would argue are INFPs. GRRM and Tolkien - both INFP with this dynamic.. Anyhow INFP is GREAT at moving the goalposts in an argument and is often more focused on the emotional experience of maintaining your loyalty and how it makes them feel morally than they are capable of discerning the truth with TI demon and Ne/TE pessimism.. It often feels like INFP are scared of the world because of the combination of SI child (Si child is comfort-seeking in order to be able to operate in a healthy, comfortable manner) and the pessimistic at odds with interpreting reality outside of feeling based FI hero Ne parent and Te inferior.. They aren't exactly great at assessing danger realistically, working out logical implications with TI demon, and being overly pessimistic of how evil the world is with Ne/TE pessimism.. They are prone to being EXTREMELY stubborn and morally adhering to their principles.. This breakdown is freaking incredible.. I have never seen an ESTP and an INFP form a friendship and watch these two personality types interact.. Given how ENFJs and INFP are golden pairs is seems much more likely that an INFP would be forming this type of dynamic and exploring these considerations with idealistic, give you a good experience driven by FE hero virtue ENFJ.. ESTP tends to be less emotionally accommodating just more likely to hold an INFP's feet to the fire.. Thank you Chase.. I wouldnt have developed the discipline of breaking down cognitive functioning and ego hacking if it weren't for your many profound insights.
@jobo8868
@jobo8868 2 жыл бұрын
GRRM is actually an intp. It explains the copious amount of Ti sentences in his books
@andrewross5454
@andrewross5454 2 жыл бұрын
@@jobo8868 There's usually the consideration of the "architect author" or the "gardener author." GO research GRRM's writing process and consider the implications of how he describes how he forms his world, the considerations of moral implications etc. Samwell Tarley is what personality archetype? He's a self insert by the author.. Im open to having the conversation and would be interested to hear your support for this conclusion..
@andrewross5454
@andrewross5454 2 жыл бұрын
@@jobo8868 I really am interested in the supporting argument here.. most sources that I can find conclude he's an INFP.. I think the SI child implications are obvious and that we can reasonably agree that he has to be INTP or INFP but I don't think his process operates in reflection of an INTP method.. My father is an INTP petroleum engineer that is also very gifted with writing and there are very significant cognitive nuanced differences between INTP and INFPs..
@andrewross5454
@andrewross5454 2 жыл бұрын
This is a detailed consideration of the argument.. Thought you may like it for considerations.
@jobo8868
@jobo8868 2 жыл бұрын
@@andrewross5454 all I know is that if you watch interviews with GRRM you will find that his thoughts are mainly pragmatic, Ti-Fe, and systematic in comparison to infps
@vincent.mazkett187
@vincent.mazkett187 2 жыл бұрын
I've tried Testing my Belief aka "Sharing" with other people but only one or few who listens but doesn't make a counter-argument against mine. Others, they careless to listen like as if they are "IMPROVING" themselves, their lives so, why bother? and even on Facebook I haven't received at least a comment. Unless it is Religion or Politics, that what's triggers them. Practicality...on that part it seems to me like Preaching vs Practice, Spirit vs Material etc., and also the "Actions speaks LOUDER than Words". So it does make sense to me now.
@jenstone4708
@jenstone4708 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for bringing the truth to us. Thank you for everything. You have done GREAT things for us. 🦋
@tauqeerhussain3586
@tauqeerhussain3586 2 жыл бұрын
I think you pointed out a problem with INFPs which I think is misunderstood as inability to prove our beliefs. Beliefs/principles, in general, are deeply cerebral and hypothetical. When we linger in this realm of this hypothesis, we(INFPs) are least concerned or bothered about its practical value because we never had to look for it. And this becomes a problem as we grow up as an adult. Asking an INFP to prove their beliefs into findings/results is like providing the physical proof of faith. And that can only be researched from a religious scripture or from transcribing an axiom of life that we have had a realisation of. The point that I'm trying to make is, proving beliefs into findings/experiments is kinda compiling code into 0's and 1's for an INFP. Almost like we need to have a whole book written by us to scrutinize and analyse every letter of every word of the beliefs the we uphold - which is often times quite traumatizing because every time the beliefs don't explain the consequences of a complex situation, we get overwhelmed to feel that everything we believed in was a lie that would make us lose hope. But as long as we keep recalibrating the misconceptions in our beliefs and false truths to reinforce that we look for, it feels like we've only taken one step forward.
@jobo8868
@jobo8868 2 жыл бұрын
Comparing proving beliefs to proving a religious faith is a bit weird since there are beliefs that can be proven Also "false truth" is a contradictory phrase Since infps do keep trying to prove their beliefs mentally, an easy solution would be to concretely experiment their beliefs. That way they avoid constantly recalibrating their beliefs in their mind.
@tauqeerhussain3586
@tauqeerhussain3586 2 жыл бұрын
@@jobo8868 Are you saying that religious faith can be proven or that religious faith doesn't count as belief because it can't be proven? Please explain And I just explained exactly why it's an uphill task to prove beliefs as those beliefs dwell in hypotheticals rather than reality. So converting them so, is like rewriting it in our brain all over again, which is why we need recalibrate them over and over again until it becomes realistic
@jobo8868
@jobo8868 2 жыл бұрын
@@tauqeerhussain3586 I was just saying that if some beliefs can be verified in reality, then comparing them to religious faith in terms of not being able to physically prove it is technically illogical since it's inherently impossible to prove if the stories of whatever religion, actually happened And my other point was that even though beliefs are abstract, they can be applied concretely. And with or without finding physical proof, alleviates the need to further recalibrate beliefs mentally... if that makes sense?
@peachesandpoets
@peachesandpoets 2 жыл бұрын
My bestie is an enfp and she always gives me the "have you tested your beliefs"
@UKONGLeader
@UKONGLeader 2 жыл бұрын
“To learn the truth you must long to be teachable, or you can despise correction and remain ignorant.” ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭12:1‬ ‭TPT‬‬
@davecross4493
@davecross4493 2 жыл бұрын
When you drill down, every view of reality and all human 'concepts' and 'models of how things are' are entirely subjective, including your view of yourself, especially with our limited human perception tools. So to say any belief is 'accurate' is a misunderstanding in itself.
@nethercords
@nethercords 2 жыл бұрын
i would say that the best way to find out is to go on a heros journey and find your own mythology, then you will know your own mettle.
@tanishqavishwakarma9151
@tanishqavishwakarma9151 2 жыл бұрын
Im an infp why am i naturally good with hands like sketching on point. Its like I thought I was Istp
@feedyourhead731
@feedyourhead731 2 жыл бұрын
Well, fi isn't contingent on social conventions so I don't know if seeing others reactions would be relevant. It isn't 'supposed' to be practical, it's idealistic. There's an inherent tension between practicality and idealism. Estps are extremely practical but to me, seem to have no principles. It's a life long struggle for infps to figure out how to navigate and survive in world where almost everything contrasts with your ideals. It's mostly an experience in trying to compromise as little as possible while still being able to feed yourself, honestly.
@superXfairXgirl
@superXfairXgirl 2 жыл бұрын
I am doing all these things - I have to technically. But, it is not going well. I am debating with people but they cannot stand it and make me shut my mouth, sometimes even violently. Makes me sad.
@fificore
@fificore 2 жыл бұрын
I talk loud and stand my ground these days. They would love it if I were just the little quiet weirdo, wouldn't they? F*ck them being "uncomfortable". I'll talk, then they can talk after.
@superXfairXgirl
@superXfairXgirl 2 жыл бұрын
@@fificore According to my beliefs, I am supposed to be quiet, since I am a woman. Sharing my ideas should not be about my personal pride, but about elevating each other. But, one sure thing is that I am craving for respect. I am desperate to find people who treat me right. When I share my faith, they assume I am stupid, so most people actually disrespect me for this reason.
@JoiskiMe
@JoiskiMe 2 жыл бұрын
Yes sister! Jesus is Lord!!🙏
@superXfairXgirl
@superXfairXgirl 2 жыл бұрын
@@JoiskiMe Thanks ! May God bless you ! By the way, is it correct to keep "the" in my pseudo ? Asking because English is not my mother's tongue.
@JoiskiMe
@JoiskiMe 2 жыл бұрын
@@superXfairXgirl Yes it is correct! Probably more so than what I wrote because it emphasises that He is the One Lord! (There aren't any other). God bless you too! INFPs for Christ ftw!
@BlackCornflake
@BlackCornflake 2 жыл бұрын
Didn't realise I indirectly admitted to confirmation bias. Wonder what else I've accidentally admitted to... Yikes ;) Thanks Chase.
@johnharrison3001
@johnharrison3001 2 жыл бұрын
The trickster is not well known for validating your principles. It can create a double bind that stretches your principles to breaking point. Just as society does not validate social skill with Fe trickster so the field doesn't validate principles with Se trickster and I have little tolerance of the ESTP principles in Fi trickster. Infp might find a better test bed for principles using Fe nemesis and an audience that listens well.
@pointerdogmarketing2197
@pointerdogmarketing2197 2 жыл бұрын
Would you do one on INFP (male) fitness? I'm trying to go from massively obese to being slim/toned...but not too ripped because I kind of want to keep a little bit of "cute" too. I usually get INTP on most online tests, but your online test gives me INFP. Either one works, and yes, I watched your videos on both INFP and INTP. I'll trust you I'm INFP, but also remember I'm an enneagram 6 and doubt everything constantly.
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 2 жыл бұрын
Acolytes members actually get one video answer each month, you can sign up at offers.csjoseph.life/acolyte
@lilo9085
@lilo9085 2 жыл бұрын
My entp bf sent me this video :") usually i send him videos saying " u dont understand me look " , he just sent me this video :") i feel attacked
@sharpiesarecool814
@sharpiesarecool814 2 жыл бұрын
Lol
@christiecochran18
@christiecochran18 2 жыл бұрын
I love that Chase with Si inferior is making an argument for what I naturally do with my Se child which is play and experiment with concepts to see how people react. I have been excoriated by Se inferiors especially for doing this claiming I’m cruelly making people uncomfortable unnecessarily. Please Si demon tell me more. LOL
@surbhiagarwal2322
@surbhiagarwal2322 2 жыл бұрын
Being an Si child user, Se child is the right amount of Se I enjoy. It's not too forceful or even downright annoying, it's playful & experimental, as you said. I have a lot of fun with ENxJs, they make sure everyone is comfortable and enjoys the moment. Cruel um nah forget them sis, they're just jealous of your natural abilities lmao.
@cora1reef
@cora1reef 2 жыл бұрын
this was great, thank you
@elnogo9196
@elnogo9196 2 жыл бұрын
Answer: Infp asks Intp if their assumptions are correct.
@Tigiribakius-tc7cv
@Tigiribakius-tc7cv Жыл бұрын
That would be the best for me.TJs no thank you ExTPs hell NO as they as they murder anything with Ti creative or project social nicities.Ti dom intp especialy il bite
@dxfifa
@dxfifa 4 ай бұрын
as an INTP, please don't wield the sword of truth on anything that talks like an NFP, walks like an NFP, looks like an NFP or quacks like an NFP unless they ask or really need a harsh check that may ruin things. Because they will take it very badly
@mandalovescatspandas1781
@mandalovescatspandas1781 2 жыл бұрын
I think maybe sometimes we can see the reality, but are too stuck into our own beliefs to improve/change the reality for the better. Which is where shame really comes into play because it's like eek! I'm being criticized! I look bad. Crap! I was coping with it too 😅 That Te inferior really kicks the butt and it takes discipline to tell Ti demon to stfu, so it doesnt start creating bs justifications. You just have to settle into an acceptance that yeah, you were off base. ESTP's are great, however. I've been following someone I believe to be one and it's incredible, like this person may have muddled in their youth but actually took the straight and narrow path to become a productive machine?! They didnt deter to these windy, wtf places to gain things that probably would never even occur to a reasonable person it was prudent to obtain? Or a complete accident because of poor choices?😅 But I like this person's practicality. There is one belief they said that resonates beautifully, and that's "real recognizes real". Try testing that belief.. But if an ESTP says it, then yeah.... Thanks for fresh INFP content though! Please keep them coming. I would love to be a member one day. Can't thank you enough
@sharpiesarecool814
@sharpiesarecool814 2 жыл бұрын
is it possible to be an INFP who doesn't know what her beliefs are? I'm not a very societal person and don't really pay attention much what's going around me society wise so I don't have too many opinions what is truly right and wrong (social instinct blind i think), but I do still think I am Fi-dom as my emotions are so overwhelming. I do instinctively know what is right and wrong though when the situation is presented to me though. it's just a "feeling" that someone doing something is not cohesive (that maybe there is some selfish intention that skews them to do the "wrong" thing, so they can get what they want). thank you! I am for sure a templar XNFP. I am very stubborn with my Fi as well. if im feeling something I am feeling something (te inf) it's really hard for me to let go of my feelings and give in to what others want, i can slow others down with my stubborn feelings, so maybe that does indicate Fi dom. I just feel like I don't care about society that much so it's hard to pinpoint fi values like it is in other infps who may be more tuned into politics or animal rights etc (controversial topics like that). Maybe im just so jaded and don't give anymore fucks.
@phillconklin382
@phillconklin382 2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you bringing in a theistic perspective. Is it too personal to ask the details of your faith?
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 2 жыл бұрын
I only save it for those with whom are my brothers or those I am intimate with.
@phillconklin382
@phillconklin382 2 жыл бұрын
@@CSJoseph I respect that. Good luck with it.
@lauraelzey6371
@lauraelzey6371 2 жыл бұрын
Ohhh! now I remember why I repelled from your “Input” Is ARROGANCE a personality type or is Fx you green screen?
@truenemesisprime550
@truenemesisprime550 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Chase, I bought the INFP pack on your site, do we ever get updates? I loved the development video but I think most of it is telling us how we are doing things wrong, only like a quarter of it is the actual development advice cus you realise its going long lol and then you rush through the development part just to get it in the video. You say "then you develop something" (not giving it away) but don't actually say How? Unless all of it is just through our research of all viewpoints? Thanks.
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 2 жыл бұрын
Updates can happen, they get updated when S24 is completed
@mouadrimwind8839
@mouadrimwind8839 2 жыл бұрын
That ESTP sounds very annoying lool
@fenzda
@fenzda 2 жыл бұрын
My Ti gets me in trouble. Testing testing testing. I think I will have this struggle my entire life. Sometimes it is exhausting.
@jobo8868
@jobo8868 2 жыл бұрын
If you keep thinking about it as a struggle, it will always be a struggle.
@fenzda
@fenzda 2 жыл бұрын
I disagree. It gives me an advantage. Know thyself.
@jobo8868
@jobo8868 2 жыл бұрын
@@fenzda I was talking about the struggle. Struggling is not an advantage. If struggling with your Ti demon led you to learning more about yourself then coolio
@fenzda
@fenzda 2 жыл бұрын
No. I realize it is happening. I work with Ti people everyday in my job, so its in my face everyday. My Ne they have trouble with and I get blank stsres. I see this and they do not.
@edwardfeliz36
@edwardfeliz36 2 жыл бұрын
How does one go about further developing deductive reasoning? (INFP) Any games, classes (logic or applied mathematics maybe?), techniques??
@jobo8868
@jobo8868 2 жыл бұрын
Using deductive reasoning.
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 2 жыл бұрын
Improving one's demon function is covered in the members area. It is the journey of a life though.
@jenstone4708
@jenstone4708 2 жыл бұрын
@@CSJoseph I wish you would be more informative. I know you have limited time but I hang on to your every word so I can learn … why is it a journey? Because people won’t like it or it’s uncomfortable to the demon user trying to let it out?
@sirbradfordofhousejones
@sirbradfordofhousejones 2 жыл бұрын
5:00 I’m an esfp and I’ve given this exact advice to an INFP in my life. What good is Fi if you hoard it to yourself and never do anything with it? And how can you test Ne ideas if you never do anything with them? Etc etc
@haihai5293
@haihai5293 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this comment, really.
@rimasoosamir8167
@rimasoosamir8167 Жыл бұрын
*surprised Pikachu face*
@anthonyhayden4826
@anthonyhayden4826 2 жыл бұрын
the term atheist means "not theist", it does not necessarily imply that a person is a denier of god's existence. "god has to exist" requires a logical argument, "just look at how complex X is" is not sufficient. ask yourself this: if a universe with a god and a universe without a god both existed, what would the difference be? how would you go about demonstrating it? and if your response is "a universe without a god can't exist", let's see if we can form a logical argument for that... and whether it could be used to say "a god can't exist" as well. obviously, if it can, we can discard that "logical" argument, as you know that you exist, and you couldn't exist if it was a valid argument. and then you'll find yourself back at the question, honestly asking it instead of brushing it off.
@superXfairXgirl
@superXfairXgirl 2 жыл бұрын
When I say violently, I mean yelling at me, not actually physically hurting me. Even if someone said he wanted to... But it did not happened yet, praise the Lord !
@honor9lite1337
@honor9lite1337 2 жыл бұрын
But INFP's Si child wanna some spank 🤔
@superXfairXgirl
@superXfairXgirl 2 жыл бұрын
@@honor9lite1337 My life is about being treated poorly, so I want to be around decent people who respect me. Si child can be mistreated a lot, but at the end of the day, too much is too much. The result is, I have no esteem whatsoever for the people who treated me like this. Could have consequences in the future to some extend, for instance if I ever have children, I do not want my parents to be in contact with them. Forgiveness is important, and I pity them, but I would be stupid to do otherwise. My enfj mother, is not worthy to be called as such and should never have had children. Si child can take a lot, but abuse it and you'll face Fi hero saying "Stop. You have no consideration for me, you are no decent human being, I need you out of my life." This is how a golden pair can turn horrible in our case. Jesus himself said "Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast ye your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn again and rend you."
@melissawalker4093
@melissawalker4093 2 жыл бұрын
I have known an INFP for almost 20 yrs. I constantly call him out for how he talks to people. He always comes back with that was not my intentions. Is this normal for INFP'S?
@jobo8868
@jobo8868 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah they normally do that to try and absolve themselves of any shame
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 2 жыл бұрын
If you tell them they look bad, Te inferior will respond, yes.
@melissawalker4093
@melissawalker4093 2 жыл бұрын
Very interesting. Thank you so much!
@tauqeerhussain3586
@tauqeerhussain3586 2 жыл бұрын
They're saying that it's not their intention because they didn't just not intend but also not consider the consequences of their actions and are unable to see things from others' perspectives until they're pointed out that they're doing something wrong and realise that they are really wrong.
@melissawalker4093
@melissawalker4093 2 жыл бұрын
That is a very interesting perspective. I can definitely see that. Thank you. This will give me the tools to better talk to him when I call him out.
@heatherbelletete7980
@heatherbelletete7980 2 жыл бұрын
Can INTJs do this as well? My son is an ESTP and more often than not we are pretty similar in our thinking, but my INTJ daughter is always calling me out. She really forces me to think things through.
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 2 жыл бұрын
All Te users can, INTJs have Ti critic in their toolbelt as well.
@TheBittenBullet
@TheBittenBullet 2 жыл бұрын
@3:15 you said an ENFP's INFJ subconscious. Did you mean INFJ UNconscious, or ISTJ SUBconcsious? Or maybe ESTP instead of ENFP?
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 2 жыл бұрын
Unconscious
@hanjesse31
@hanjesse31 2 жыл бұрын
Is that the classic intuitives? Seeing beyond what was there?
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 2 жыл бұрын
The 8 abstract types.
@hanjesse31
@hanjesse31 2 жыл бұрын
@@CSJoseph 8 abstract types?
@hanjesse31
@hanjesse31 2 жыл бұрын
@@CSJoseph im sorry, i am not really familiar with a lot of MBTI systems and terminologies
@fakedoorsfordinner1677
@fakedoorsfordinner1677 Жыл бұрын
@@hanjesse31 Any type with N in it
@Clamster555
@Clamster555 4 ай бұрын
You had me until you mentioned intelligent design. Buahaha jesus Christ that was a hoot. Bye Felicia
@Jesusfreak670
@Jesusfreak670 2 жыл бұрын
Do INFPs struggle with typing themselves?
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 2 жыл бұрын
Everyone struggles with typing themselves. Download the free type grid companion at csjoseph.life and work through that, you'll get your answer. Or if you're impatient you can always get a 15 min typing session.
@sjw5797
@sjw5797 2 жыл бұрын
Who here thinks Bob Dylan might be an INFP?
@honor9lite1337
@honor9lite1337 2 жыл бұрын
isfp
@vivekanandgorle3770
@vivekanandgorle3770 2 жыл бұрын
I am infp and non believer. So I don't have this kind of problem.
@honor9lite1337
@honor9lite1337 2 жыл бұрын
You believe you're non believer.
@vivekanandgorle3770
@vivekanandgorle3770 2 жыл бұрын
@@honor9lite1337 it's my opinion 😂
@vivekanandgorle3770
@vivekanandgorle3770 2 жыл бұрын
@@beeticket I don't understand your comment
@NathanAMeyers
@NathanAMeyers 2 жыл бұрын
6:04 is Wrong. It fails here at "intelligent design must be true - it's now just the question of which designer designed". Reason for this is hefty, but in short - complexity doesn't imply design. And in order for a creator to be real we'd need evidence other than the evidence that physics is consistent. And the consistency of physics and cause / effect is often misinterpreted to be due to some cosmic designing agency or some paralleled consciousness capable of creating, but this is a logically incorrect conclusion since the reality of time/space consistency is only knowably because of natural odds not supernatural odds. Supernatural odds are impossible to be naturally defined without therefore morphing into the natural. We've seen this throughout history with all other personally incredulous statements which turned out just to be god of the gaps arguments. Also, in order to identify time and space AS a CREATION we'd have to acknowledge first that such CREATOR exists. And we don't have that. What we have instead is a world filled with human mammals who wish to speculate upon ultimate truths in such a way where the wrong questions are asked and then the wrong answers are sustained... Each decade of creation perspective vastly differs from the past decade and from other speculative colleagues who will exist in the next decade or within a different theistic perspective; creating infinite permutations of superstitious specifics which are completely incompatible. What IS plausible, however, is that we've yet to discover the FIRST CAUSE, and that such first cause was a god or 2 gods. But it also could be a god with 2 tongues, or a god with 2 side chicks or a god who references his alien council before making decisions or any other lofty first cause situation. In any case, since we don't know the specific we really know nothing. Some point to the abrahamic god since it's that religion's bronze-age literature which has achieved popularity in the present, specifically due to the perceptions that since a "Maximally Great" entity meets the power requirements of creating and sustaining itself outside of space/time, it must therefore be true since the tenants of the protestant dogma already are declared to be correct by the church. But clearly that doesn't actually mean it's true, relevant, or naturally possible. However, similarly, mundane simulation theory accomplishes the same thing too. And there are many other identifiers that a super conscious thing with super access would have for itself which would allow it the POSSIBILITY of creating. But of course, anything can be possible if the surrounding constraints vanish into something new. What people call the necessary intelligent designer is just another permutable idea within an unknown area of actual truth and in most cases should not even to be considered POSSIBLE. Possibility needs to be demonstrated. And since "possibility" is just another label for "internal consistency", we can also recognize the lore in MARVEL, DnD, etc to also be POSSIBLE. But clearly we don't think the infinity stones are real, because we KNOW it's author was intending to relay fiction and therefore can mitigate against the creation of a worldview-altering dogma such as the MARVEL CREATION STORY. But who knows how the future will look back onto our records. They may not have access to the author, like we don't with the gospels, for instance, and then run away with the spoon to declare the marvel story literally true. What other reasons did I miss here that may be leaving you still perceiving your null perspective. Because I do insist you are incorrect and would like to specify more for clarity if possible. Lmk Great video, keep it up friend.
@honor9lite1337
@honor9lite1337 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my intp 😒
@NathanAMeyers
@NathanAMeyers 2 жыл бұрын
@@honor9lite1337 how u know
@BellaD97
@BellaD97 2 жыл бұрын
@@NathanAMeyers lengthy comment, that's how we know.
@anglosaxonisraelites8160
@anglosaxonisraelites8160 2 жыл бұрын
Pattern recognition has it's place when you are trying to prove someone is guilty of what you are accusing them of and they are gaslighting you. Just because the majority of people believe something is true does not make it true. And you sure use a lot of Te for an ENTP. I wonder if you are not an ENTJ.
@honor9lite1337
@honor9lite1337 2 жыл бұрын
How about his non-stop Ne meta?
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 2 жыл бұрын
lol yes I get accused of having Te because I try to cite my sources since half my audience are Te users.
@combokings8346
@combokings8346 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you :^)
@danielnistor1860
@danielnistor1860 2 жыл бұрын
Thry dont they blind af
@payncraft2523
@payncraft2523 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!!
@payncraft2523
@payncraft2523 2 жыл бұрын
Sorry, not agreeing to anything, just excited for information on my future counterpart
@ashleyching7894
@ashleyching7894 2 жыл бұрын
De-duck-tive 😛
@ashleyching7894
@ashleyching7894 2 жыл бұрын
Field test your principles, or you may be living a lie
@ashleyching7894
@ashleyching7894 2 жыл бұрын
Confirmation bias echo chamber
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