How Can You Tell If an INFP is Being a Hoe? | CS Joseph Responds

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[@00Klingon]

Interestingly, I had an INFP roommate in college who was very slothful. He often blamed women for not being interested in him, saying they just don’t like “nice guys” (he was not a nice guy). Very full of himself… and yet, when two women offered themselves to him in some twisted competition of theirs (he was a target of happenstance) he took them up on it. He later got married to one of them after getting her pregnant and then cheated on her with a much younger girl and got caught. Now he’s living alone blaming women for his unhappiness again.

[@viwikiwi5541]

Hes just dumb

[@i.magination6814]

They message you, thats how you tell.

[@pinklasagna8328]

YAAAAS DADDY 😓😳👄

[@specialsnowflake9097]

Ur damn straight bout dat hun

[@nethercords]

ouch

[@TheGuyWhoCantPickAName]

@@pinklasagna8328 Ayo chilll

[@Mysdefy]

Lol

[@CuddleClaw.]

I’m friends with a male INFP and he’s going through a phase right now where he’s having open relationships and fucking 5-6 women, the women are finding new men, dumping him, cycle continues. I mean…. It’s definitely ho-ish behavior. And it definitely keeps him in my friend zone, it’s so unattractive. And he seems mentally confused, says conflicting things about what he wants. I think that he actually wants a monogamous relationship but is tired of feeling hurt and rejected. It’s kinda sad.

[@aladdout9454]

ik an infp admitting to liking toxic women and goes beyond his way to hate my type too so hes a type racist as well.

[@JB-qg3iw]

@@aladdout9454 sounds like my new best friend

[@aladdout9454]

@@JB-qg3iw what you like doing that too or just u have someone similar in mind?

[@pinklasagna8328]

Yay another infp video Wait wHAt

[@yasmeenabdulaziz4490]

This is by far the funniest and my most favorite title for a video ever 🤣

[@mishkathlay]

Is this about INFP or an episode of Fresh and Fit?

[@phillconklin382]

As an INFP male I can confirm what you said at least it's true for me. I'm no hoe. I'm monogamous. You mentioned Neil Straus's book. I hated that book because I hate the idea of game it doesn't fit in my values to look at people as something to be won or human interaction as a game but rather as an opportunity to express your authentic self. I think the compromising nature of the dating scene just doesn't fit well with high Fi, because the world is pretty black and white for me morally. I can only enter into something of substance over an indefinite amount of time. Sex is a meaningful interaction not a casual one so I just think hoe is not the best term for INFP unless maybe their Fi specifically points to sexual liberation or passion being prioritized. It's not the case for me. I think with the shaved head you remind me of John Cryer, I couldn't stop thinking about it. The whole swing and cigar thing you have now is a vibe.

[@Sam-by3kk]

Please could you do one about ENFPs? I'm also wondering about how INTJs can trust ENFPs when ENFPs are usually pretty sexually open/flirtatious with those around them

[@specialsnowflake9097]

U smash c s joseph

[@woody3476]

I clicked this and thought it said ENFP because that's what came to mind. INFPs are not as sexually open as their extroverted alternative, so I would love to see him explain that as well.

[@specialsnowflake9097]

In has willy

[@specialsnowflake9097]

@@woody3476 veri silly c s yousef

[@malakashraf2801]

@@woody3476 what's primary to infps is secondary to enfps and vice versa .

[@rimasoosamir8167]

I bet us INFPs are among the types that have the lowest body counts yet you stil ask this question

[@Dasani_water_drinker]

Lol yeah right

[@d.o.9072]

Amazing lecture and it seems like everything is spot on, I literally felt every sentence digging in my memory. Important caveat though: Just because you are with an INFP does not not mean she will turn treacherous, if she trusts you , she will be insanely loyal up to the point that you accuse them, then it will become a self fulfilling prophecy. Love and respect your INFPs everyone, they can be truly amazing if properly cared for.

[@capricrone3537]

Woah this is crazy to me. Im listening between the lines too... Im getting married this month at 28, and as an infp, it struck me for the first time that it feels like a loss of power. Im not a hoe, i waited til marriage (safe to say now) but ive ne maxed and gone on at least a hundred first dates. Ive had eight boyfriends. I like to feel desired, and being wanted feels powerful and like i have the cards. You dont have to do much, but as someone planning to have as many children as i can, i realize i have to work now. A man will really have power over me. I have a fairly big anon following on right wing twitter talking about many topics, and my feelings are validated by that. I have to delete the twitter because it distracts me and leads to sloth. And i have noticed since i have been engaged, even me and my fiances mutual friends are less interested in my opinions or chatting with me! So i almost am losing a lot of men who value my opinion! I guess i have to practice self sacrifice for my children and find power in creating a legacy. But its scary! Useful concepts!

[@superXfairXgirl]

I did not recognise myself in almost any of these infp behaviours you described. Also, I do believe in men "hoes". Fornication is a sin for both genders. The wall terrifies me for sure (28).

[@justgween7573]

CSJ is talking about how the non-Christian world likes to run with things and he's right about it. Doesn't mean we always do it as Christ followers; that might be why you didn't relate to what he said. I didn't either but only knew it was because God and my upbringing have helped prevent me from being these things he discussed. I'm not the most slothful and treacherous INFP I've witnessed, but I know my capabilities of doing do and am working to still purge what I still have of these qualities from myself.

[@justgween7573]

Also, the Wall need not be so scary. Our worth is ultimately in Christ and not our looks. Same with Christ believing men's worth not being ultimately in their strength/money/legacy/capabilities to provide.

[@superXfairXgirl]

@@justgween7573 Well, I am not afraid of being considered "ugly" for vanity purposes. It is about getting married, no man, even a man of God, will marry a woman he does not find attractive, and I really need to get married because I am burning in my flesh. This is the reason why I am scared of the wall. I might go to Hell if my burning causes me to sin.

[@superXfairXgirl]

@@justgween7573 Also, I really need a husband who earns a decent amount of money so I can be a housewife, like a woman of God should be.

[@justgween7573]

@@superXfairXgirl something is not adding up. We go to Heaven because we are depending on Christ's perfection to get us there. Not our own ability to not sin. *Anyone* who goes to Hell goes because they chose not to put their trust in Christ. Not because their horniness got the best of them that one time.

[@FreshStart2024-qg8zm]

Just want to say, as an INFP female - he's pretty spot on lol.

[@fificore]

*Why do you have to get off social media if you're committed to someone? That just means you don't trust them, in which case you shouldn't even be with them.*

[@Sam-by3kk]

Instagram is far more about dating than it is about connecting genuinely with your friends and family. Have you seen the instagram DMs of women compared to men?

[@fificore]

@@Sam-by3kk: I hope whoever asks someone to get off any social media also gets off of it, too, otherwise it'd be unfair.

[@Sam-by3kk]

@@fificore Depends, many men use it for business. Women less so. Men and women are not the same.

[@cyberneticbutterfly8506]

@@Sam-by3kk It's not about how it's used but rather how they respond to men's messages. I can't for the life of me believe that an esfj woman and an intp woman responds in the same way. Same thing when meeting people in real life. Leading someone on vs shutting them down the moment they try making advances.

[@fificore]

@Hana600: I'm an INFP.

[@peachesandpoets]

I'm a new sub and saw the title and was like what the hell 😂

[@malakashraf2801]

Welcome , we have a lot of this around here .

[@blank8479]

He talks so much that I got hypnotized and could not think. Like it was hard for me to even actually think my own thoughts or remember what the question was. Now I gotta hand it to you Joseph you are really good at hacking my brain well done.

[@phillconklin382]

It's the swinging, it's dulling your senses into submission. lol

[@claudeyanly5356]

Your typology material used to be really good. Why have ya gone down the PUA rabbit hole? Disappointed.

[@CSJoseph]

PUA? I am talking about behavioral psychology, not PUA

[@TheMizzafia]

Im a infp female. I agree with everything but the bit about us not wanting to settle down. I believe we play the field because of our insecurities and feeling of powerlessness not solely because we don't want commitment. More so afraid to trust people.

[@jt_rooster3228]

Y'all INFPs need power since that's your cognitive origin.

[@willyandfruit]

Out of all the videos I've seen you make about INTPs this one really hit home. Perhaps that's why those new-agey internet gurus resonate with so many people because they talk of how once you let go of pleasing others and learn to love yourself and do things for the joy of it without expecting something in return life starts to become magical Notes: - No amount of being liked will change the fact that you are born to this world alone and die alone. Don't live your entire life serving/pleasing others. Learn to be your own source of self-acceptance. (Then, who knows maybe people will come to you for help) - Look at your diaries. Look at how much you discovered. There is more to discover. And with that you have value.

[@lanalvr2413]

the title really made me laugh haha

[@nanas707]

Istp reveal entp lies . And entp reveal INFP . INFP reveal esfp . End esfp reveal istp. I am in INFP and in my work place WE are INFP entp istp and esfp it is very envoying hwo we reveal each other in thé ordre i had mention .Amazing game for this quadra .

[@rallarkarl]

My INFP broke up with me after four years together. She just texted me that it was over and now she's acting as if I don't exist. I don't know what to do and I ask her to sit down with me and have a talk about this but shes not even answering. Don't know what to do..

[@juliall255]

make sure everyone around her knows what she is doing. As an infp, she cares about her reputation and status. Destroy it with the truth of what she has done. Make sure you have the evidence to have everyone on your side. Infps want everyone to think highly of them but thats not going to happen if she is being such a dick to you. Just expose her

[@HDTutorials.]

Hello! I love your series about personality types and in this video I generally agree with what you say. But I don't agree with the Rape comparasion. A woman cheating on a man is not equivalent to a man raping a woman, because when a woman cheats, she is free to have sex with whoever she wants. On the flip side, a man is not free to do whatever he wants with a woman without her consent. That's the difference. It's men responsibility to have high standards and self-respect to not to allow their parterns to take them for granted and to call out their partners with every behaviour they don't allow (and be congruent). In my opinion, I would focus more on educating men how to react to the signs that you expose, and also how society manipulates men into being more agreeable, to stand women's misconducts and and to act feminine. I think it would be a better environment for men and more proactive than just "spotting" free-spirit women.

[@benbernank1341]

And men need to learn that the only faithful women is one that has absolute burning desire for her man. Once that’s lost, she will cheat as long as she has the opportunity (isn’t a land whale 🐳)

[@HDTutorials.]

@gugahaker 1. There is definitely a huge difference between cheating and raping. When you cheat on someone, you are betraying someone's trust and the worst you can do to that person is to hurt them emotionally. When you rape someone, you are sexually assaulting that person, and you are forcing that person to have sex with you without they wanting it. When you cheat, you inmoraly use your freedom, but it's still your freedom; whilst when you rape someone, you are violating another person's freedom. That's a HUGE difference. 2. Why don't men do just the same thing? To only have sex with women who they like? My point is to encourage men to be more selective and to only interact with women who they consider attractive and not settling down. 3. You do well with removing a cheater from your life without hesitation. That's how men should act but not only when she cheats, but when they start seeing early sings of disrespect. Men should give maximum 2 warnings, and if women do it again, to walk away. Ironically, when women perceive that you are willing to do it, in their majority they stop. 4. I also think that it's a huge betrayal when women get pregnant from another man. But I think they do it because they don't see any consequence. If all men rejected another man's baby, women indeed would cheat much less because of the risk involved in it. If all men took paternity tests with the newborns, we would have less drama after years. Again, my point is showing men how to be men, learn women's true nature and stand for themselves without fear of being critizised or excluded from society. Then is when the tables will turn.

[@HDTutorials.]

@@benbernank1341 Exactly. A woman won't cheat on a man she perceives as her best partner possible that satisfies her sexually and emotionally. Some guys have work to do 🤠

[@CSJoseph]

Yeah I don’t care. It’s still the truth.

[@tamtam6717]

@@CSJoseph no, cheating cannot be compared to rape! That’s a horrible comparison!

[@ninaivana1106]

30 min long respond video, I know I have to click on kt 😂

[@woody3476]

It'd be a lot nicer if he had labeled sections so we didn't have to jump around and guess where the most important points are.

[@williamcompitello2302]

So it wouldn't be a good idea for a man choosing to live without being a father? Correct me if I misunderstand.

[@williamcompitello2302]

I knew men I was friends with who were content at being uncles. At least present uncles. Is there more content from you that explains the need to tackle fatherhood?

[@serban2139]

Idk, when she says im not like other girls? hmm..

[@webnovelsatu1455]

There's an intj woman who said that, it annoyed me as infp, not that I was offended/hate her

[@mr.kakerudanielvl6496]

99s aren't 90s kids.

[@beezd6828]

Delete Instagram??? Seriously?. Thats extreme.

[@FOXARUS]

Beard filling in nicely

[@sharpiesarecool814]

Your idea of a perfect woman seems to be a XXXJ :/ It's hard to be a XXXP woman you know. To have a introverted judging and extroverted perceiving function is hard. So yes you're right it is very hard to give individuality up for a man or whatever. That's just the nature of being a high Ti or Fi generally

[@shannenmcdonald6238]

I think it would actually be easier for an INFP woman since INFPs are a naturally feminine type.

[@sharpiesarecool814]

@@shannenmcdonald6238 I see your point

[@rayoffuckingsunshine]

Would be cool if you separated your ideological content from your objective content for those who just want to learn about personality type, not sexual market theory - and reference the videos if someone wants to watch them, separately. Now if I want to learn about INFPs, I gotta sit through an ideological lecture geared towards a male audience, and I don't care about that at all. Or at least maybe provide chapters in the video, to be able to skip and get to the gist of the info that is relevant to the Channel.

[@simpletomash]

They way they dress is a pretty damn strong indicator already

[@superXfairXgirl]

I think you are right. If infps put the effort into dressing a specific it really does mean something.

[@simpletomash]

@@superXfairXgirl yep

[@malakashraf2801]

Negatively or positively ?

[@mrflyingace]

Pretty sure it's "ho" while "hoe" is just a common misspelling.

[@cyberneticbutterfly8506]

Maybe he meant the gardening equipment.

[@mrflyingace]

@@cyberneticbutterfly8506 Yeah, you're right. Didn't think of that.

[@SEVENTHREEANDNINE]

Hoe is a garden instrument. You are correct.

[@otonashishiroushuuya4241]

I think if you can deal with the worst of infp women and figure them out , and end up on the top, then you can figure out any woman. True or false?

[@amytiffanyhemingway]

hahahahahaha. impossible to end up on top with the worst of INFP women.

[@Entyipo]

Is there a reason for the season numbers or is it just used to categorize the different types of content?

[@CSJoseph]

Different types of content

[@dawnykim7585]

omg i cant believe you said that a man getting cheated on is equivalent to a woman getting raped

[@christinehallfeldt4280]

Very slothful and being a mother of two and taking care of more than just myself has been one of the greatest impacts in my life. Overcome much but still have a long road to travel 😊 insightful as ever

[@TheGuyWhoCantPickAName]

Why is it when chase swings in thy swing I start swinging in my chair

[@mishkathlay]

Bro is Red Pill

[@frederickaugustusdouglass9713]

Where do you think redpill ideas come from?

[@charis6411]

A lot of this is true actually. So anyone 28+ and not married what does she do? Resign herself to never get married or just date much much older men 😐

[@CSJoseph]

Watch Season 31 playlist. It will be painful and you will hate me, but there is a specific section that will be the answer to your prayers. There is hope.

[@dawnykim7585]

LOL omg i was not expecting this, but when I saw the title, I had to click. hilarious

[@haihai5293]

Thank you as always, Mr. C.S.Joseph. In the future, you would be so kind to make a short video of how INFP can mature (if you find the will and time, of course) Regards.

[@CSJoseph]

I did. It’s in Season 19 at csjoseph.life/portal in the discover infp section

[@haihai5293]

@@CSJoseph Ahh right i forgot about this. I actually bought acces to it long time ago and watched like 4,5 times. You really explained it very well but you know us, we want more (now i feel akward :D ) Anyway you doing super positive work for world. Thanks for response btw.

[@kimtopology4257]

We live in a world of womanizers' And from most people perspective INFP'S don't sleep around since their moral compass is so strong they have standards they don't just date anyone this info is so wrong and inconsistent to that type it's not even funny I honestly think men who are womanizers' are surface level people with no standards or any understanding of women in general especially INFP'S so let's just say that I have this drive in me to debunk the content on this video since it's not true .

[@antonyka-pra-ra]

i feel ya , but consider INFPs know people, so much so its nearly telepathic mind reading as such INFP know exactly what to do sexually that will maximize their partners 'experience' anyone who has sex with INFP will forever want to have sex with them. This in itself increases the opportunity for encounters given the constant attention of previous partners more often than not it may be nothing more than a serviceable pity fuck thing, just to shush them up. it may or may not be desired by the infp but the partners would never know this , since an infp rarely does anything unless they are sure that what they do is done well.

[@cacorn982]

Thanks Chase! Good video, very detailed!

[@5pancerny200]

Your concept of Purple Pill is a thing I have been thinking recently about Chase and I am really glad, that there are people who independently of me also consider that to be a good option. I discovered a red pill sexual market paradigm about a year ago and I think it's observations about human behavior are quite correct, but on the other hand the goals some of it's "prophets" like getting laid as much as you can and not worrying about future of your offsprings later seems to be not good right for society as a whole. So the concept of monogamous relationship is a good foundation because it tries to eliminate negative male and female sexual behaviors while preserving some of the things all of the parties want to achieve in a relationship. So as an 19yo INTP with tragic game, average looks and a strong core belief that man should preserve his heritage and legacy of his family because of all the effort that the past generations put into raising all those children, so they will remember them and continue their legacy. Because of those factors I think the best way forward for me is now to read extensively to understand the world we live in the best I can and study law, in order to later have a good paying job appreciated by the society. I also try to move my body or exercise everyday with the mixed results, but that's better than nothing. Then combining all of those in a peak of male SMV (about thirty) I should start dating to find a normal, not promiscuous and respectful girl to raise kids with her. If I find a partner earlier - great, but I do not believe on that due to not sufficient SMV and a ton of things I need to do to raise it. That's what I think the purple pill should mean - if you are more beta you should work in your teenage and early adulthood on an alpha side, if you are more alpha you should invest on he beta side in that years. And that's my definition of purple pill.

[@JR-ow8xg]

Oh wow I really like your point of view :) it is refreshing to read an opinion about the Purple Pill with a fair perspective and zero fanaticism.

[@cyberneticbutterfly8506]

From that perspective a reasonable goal instead of "getting laid as much as possible" should be "what is the ideal frequency of getting laid? Let's match that."

[@CSJoseph]

Purple pill is not a good option. You just have to be more red than blue but not discount the blue said. Each man is responsible for providing both ends of hypergamy simultaneously due to masculine idealism.

[@feedyourhead731]

Forget all that and get to know some women as friends on a human level. This red pill /pill sh*t is just misogyny repackaged for the next generation.

[@5pancerny200]

@@feedyourhead731 So in your opinion we should put all studies and data about human nature and psyche in the garbage, just because some potential female friend of mine or whatever might be offended. You are joking, right?

[@meg3298]

Oh wow it's a beta thing to not care about having kids? I thought it was an alpha thing. I was thinking like provider / family guy

[@ajits64]

I haven't watched yet, but just seeing the image and title are enough to make me LOL(!!!) 🤣🙀🙃 (can't wait to watch)

[@OG_PG_]

Hey Joseph, I’ve watched the series on compatibility but you didn’t address and explain the compatibility between the INTJ and INFP How would that relationship look like?

[@superXfairXgirl]

Can be really nice BUT the INTJ must not neglect the INFP and the INFP must let the INTJ breathe lol. This pairing requires some maturity from both sides - because immature Fi hero is just so awful to deal with, for both sides. If the INTJ neglects the INFP for too long, there might be cheating. If the two individuals are mature, it will most likely work in my opinion. From an INFP who love NTJs.

[@superXfairXgirl]

@Hana600 Your infp "friend". But, when stronger feelings are involved, the infp must feel desired OR the infp will feel sad. It is tough to feel sad with Fi hero. Sadness becomes your whole life and it can lead to depression and worse. So, to escape, they either leave or cheat if they love too much to leave.

[@superXfairXgirl]

@Hana600 I would say, do not quit, as in doorslamming her. Test her loyalty by being distant, like do not start a conversation for 2 months. If she initiate something frequently, even text messages, she cares about you. If she does not, well, you might not be the most important person to her.

[@superXfairXgirl]

@Hana600 I really like your face btw. You have some charisma.

[@melino9709]

@Hana600 you guys think the other person is doing the bare minimum but in actuality is you guys Fe trickster! Plus that SI demons that keeps forgetting all the shit people do for them, Chase talks about this how intjs do the bare minimum. And end up always losing their partners and friends. This is why you guys do well with INFPS AND ESFJS... the more selfess the person the better. I have an intj friend I had to give more than receive in order for are relationship to work but at the end of the day I know she cares for me because if not she wouldn't share her TIME with me which for her is extremely valuable, plus she trust me a lot that tells me she considera me her friend because intjs do get paranoid on who they give their trust to.

[@susiesaraf]

I wonder if I'm an ESTP based on your description. also morals matter and I have them. not remotely info of me then...but the age thing really made sense. what logical person wouldn't illuminate other opportunities if they love a man. this is general to all types male/female.

[@Lm56lm]

I don’t relate

[@dookhynabeelah4897]

Truth is truth 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

[@sharpiesarecool814]

The title surprised and made me laugh, so as Infp I had to click

[@jazzyalex6760]

Perfect timing

[@nicholasmendez9108]

Walter White

[@aladdout9454]

saw a post of an infp openly admitting to leaving a guy cuz he wasnt making much and she found someone else who did. I mean shit that was cold. What's more awful is that she truly believed that she was the right one. What's even more awful is that nfjs with their Fe and shit will genuinely eat up that shit that "yeah this was probably my fault...i mean it always is" bullcrap. No offense but i really hate the western society

[@fificore]

Um, if he was expecting sex from her (the kind that could make her pregnant), then she has every right to leave. If you've ever had a pregnancy scare, you'd know what I'm talking about.

[@aladdout9454]

@@fificore no she admitted to loving him a lot and she was hurt to leave him but she had to choose to. And she still talks and shares a lot with this ex despite being with someone else.

[@fificore]

@@aladdout9454: Exactly my point: she had to.

[@aladdout9454]

@@fificore this might be the "spinning the narrative" thing he talks about. Fair u can agree with her leaving to get a richer man and justify that bullshit but theres no excuse for still talking to this guy when she had gotten with the richer guy

[@superXfairXgirl]

It is much safer for a woman who wants to raise children to have a husband with a decent income. It is the wise choice.

[@7733rk]

Lol what a question

[@theprettygoodgatsby]

Wait, hold on, what's with the title???? 😂As an INFP i need to watch this

[@sharpiesarecool814]

Hmm what is the equivalent to a man being raped then 🤔

[@malakashraf2801]

I don't think they hate it that much 😂

[@webnovelsatu1455]

@@malakashraf2801 Naaa what if the man get raped by gay or a granny 🤣

[@thedestroyercreator]

Is this accurate for enfp females too ?

[@nourelhouda2628]

I think for all women

[@malakashraf2801]

What's primary to infps is secondary to enfps and vice versa .

[@jayyfrancis17]

Maybe you could explain (mbti) cognitive functions to rallo tomassi I think it would improve his work a lot

[@annayudin290]

Don't think it's for Rollo, to be honest

[@malakashraf2801]

@@annayudin290 why 😂 that guys is untrustworthy, but is that your point ?

[@annayudin290]

@@malakashraf2801 No because Rollos main subject is red pill. Hypergamy and game.. which could be applied here but honestly he keeps it pretty surface level. This is highly complex stuff that not anyone can just pick up, easily atleast

[@ninaivana1106]

I'm 23 and still a virgin (partly because I'm as well interested in women and couldnt figure out my 'sexual identity') I'm wondering whats best to do next (other than reading "dear lover").

[@CSJoseph]

Read Lady by Roosh

[@ninaivana1106]

@@CSJoseph thanks for the answer, I have already read this one, but I could look into it again.

[@carterrettig7662]

Bro is Walter white

[@pinklasagna8328]

If they force themselves to become cute and fail miserably.

[@specialsnowflake9097]

It's c s josephs infp

[@specialsnowflake9097]

Ready to adopt me as your child with Raylin C S Oneup

[@specialsnowflake9097]

Or should I say Joseph Joseph

[@specialsnowflake9097]

Rothschild bankster umpf umpf amirite

[@specialsnowflake9097]

Is dat why people listen to u

[@specialsnowflake9097]

Amirite chase dominguel

[@bodhisattvaFM]

C'mon Chase. There's got to be a standard for this that still allows a woman to have an Instagram account.

[@CSJoseph]

No thanks. Unless she isn’t posting photos of herself.

[@bodhisattvaFM]

@@CSJoseph It would be so easy to just say "Sexist!" and call it a day like the internet does but that's not what I'm pointing out. Your view on dating is cynical - and correct. You're right about what's going on and why but when does it stop? If it's possible to have a relationship that defies the scorched earth dynamics of dating (esp in 2022) but your view never allows that dynamic to end. You give young men solid if regressive advice on how to survive dating but little hope of ever finding or creating a relationship beyond it. The goal is a relationship where I don't have to monitor my partner's Instagram! A healthy relationship. Help our wolf pups find more of those since that's the point of going through the pain of dating in the first place. Love still exists. Bring it into the theory or the theory is just embracing the suck and abandoning hope. This is a problem you can solve but lowkey you're giving up and teaching others to give up. That's weak. Love requires strength.

[@Aldo-Hugo]

Can an INFJ be a simp?

[@ameliadeshane9192]

Fuck yea they are.

[@ashuranero5721]

Are you trying to be like Andrew Tate now with that haircut?

[@CSJoseph]

I was between haircuts, I had a mohawk and shaved it off so I could start fresh. Look at my current videos to see my proper cut.

[@sharpiesarecool814]

This makes me sad. Why can't we have it all? Hm is there a type that gives equal alpha and beta traits? Is there a type that encompasses both? If so, maybe THAT'S the type INFPs can commit to. I think it's just too difficult to ask an INFP to use Te and work hard in a relationship. Csjoseph is kinda right. It's very hard for I think INFPs and ENFJs to consistently use logic to make decisions. I will always follow my heart. It's not that bad you know. Sometimes it grants me good things and sometimes I regret it cuz it puts me in hard positions. So, in conclusion, is there a alpha/beta mix? I'd love to go the self growth route and to master my Te but it's so damn hard and idk if I can keep up with it forever. I'm too moody to be objective most of the time. So perhaps maybe a hybrid of a man does exist. I know this is a bit too idealistic and taking shortcuts. I just feel a little hopeless. I of course value self improvement a lot, but in the process of trying to improve I see my weaknesses so clearly that it makes me curious if there's actually a man that can make me feel comfortable but also challenged

[@supersaiyan8437]

I think that’s why this infp likes me an isfp male because I have alpha (stoic, ambitious, fiercely independent) and beta (caring of her emotions, protective, etc) traits but mostly the good ones and since I would say I’m a pretty healthy isfp whomst dealt with their past traumas and healed from them I’m not emotionally volatile and know how to deal with my emotions quite well

[@supersaiyan8437]

They call an alpha and beta mix a sigma tho which is mostly comprised of intjs who share the same cognitive functions with isfp

[@sharpiesarecool814]

@@supersaiyan8437 thanks for responding! I feel very safe and adore ISFPs. They are about one of the most attractive types to me. ISXPs in general actually. I love how calm yet quirky and amusing ISFPs are. Keep being you! :-)

[@sharpiesarecool814]

@@supersaiyan8437 my ex that I was in a long term relationship with was actually INTJ. Our relationship was crazy comfy and compatible but I was young and wanted to explore more. I feel that kinship with other XXXPs.

[@sharpiesarecool814]

@@reload6887 nono I loooved your comment. Super thought provoking and damn it's making me question it all. To view thinking of other men as SELF destructive. I have never seen it that way! And you assumed correctly. I do lack self discipline, always chasing after what's unavailable/unstable and feeling extremely indecisive when it came time to commit (because of unfortunate childhood issues). Afraid of love, rejection, and being truly open with my heart because I knew true heartbreak would destroy me irreparably so I tend to sabotage/leave good things before I deeply fall in love. So you say INFJs are a good option. I would have to agree. Although I never met one I can imagine the Fe/Ti balance they have being a good one. I've always just been so enamored by the idea of an ISTP. I feel like they're the only type I can fall in love with because I am always so interested in what they say/do. I wished it wasn't so. I think INFJs might be better in terms of stability compared to ENFJs. With ENFJs, we're both too sensitive that fights/breakups are inevitable. ESTPs are conversationally not that attractive but I think they're pleasant to be around but because they don't know how they're feeling ever, it feels like a dead end. I'm glad you realized ISFPs weren't for you, you saved yourself some time haha

[@kittyblossom7342]

Unpopular opinion: This entire video describes the behavior of Princess Diana.

[@malakashraf2801]

Her HUSBAND cheated + she's istp

[@TaxingIsThieving]

What's with the crap music taste

[@meg3298]

@19:40 BASED

[@nmorg1616]

Off topic but does a discord server still exist cuz I remember it being dead a while ago but it’s in the description and on the page so im confusion

[@CSJoseph]

linktr.ee/csjoseph

[@ZatWarrior]

Thank you.

[@meg3298]

Wait alpha men get married? I thought alpha men were free agents that focused on themselves, enjoys life, and sleeps with whoever they wanted

[@TaktischerSchachzug_]

Well some of them get married, but you have to be prepared to be not the only wife

[@CSJoseph]

They do, then turn beta

[@TokyoTaisu]

Yes with multiple wives and make as many children as possible.

[@meg3298]

@@TokyoTaisu that's awesome

[@TokyoTaisu]

@@meg3298 even Elon Musk has a harem and was breeding with two girls at the same time, one was one of his employees nobody cares.

[@giuseppelorisnuzzo2840]

so basically it sucks to be an infp man yay

[@webnovelsatu1455]

Care to explain why in simple words?

[@nemesis27]

​@@webnovelsatu1455Society sees them as feminine men

[@lolihames5188]

I saw csj commenting on someone’s comment to watch season 31 about sexuality. Is he part of the red pill Community?

[@questionsfromthebeyond]

No-- he's more purple pilled: taking in the good and sifting out the not great.

[@meg3298]

Chase - at what age would you expect men to start desiring to have offspring?

[@honor9lite1337]

From my experience, at least in early 30s.. Before 30 most of men don't realize that they could eventually die.

[@meg3298]

@@honor9lite1337 interesting input. I could see that. I noticed men in their 20s aren't compatible with me (in my 20s) because there's no urgency to have kids

[@webnovelsatu1455]

Me infp 20 yo male already wanting to have at least 2 wives and kids.. ofc I won't marry first wife before she agrees to polygamy

[@nataliewantscookies]

I’ll probably comment again cuz I have thoughts. But is it bad for men to DM multiple women, in the same way that you condemn women doing it? Also, what would you suggest for a woman who is with a really devoted guy, but he requires her to”dress modestly” (cover up) and those dress standards seem really arbitrary and he’s not willing/able to have a conversation about it? Why can men impose arbitrary standards on women and why don’t women have the same type of arbitrary standards for men (of course women do have arbitrary standards for men but not in the same way) I’m good with someone having standards for me, the person I’m dating, but when they are not pragmatic enough to sort through the merits of the standard then what’s the point?

[@CSJoseph]

Women can if they want, provided they aren’t sexual with any of them.

[@datura_preworkout]

Infps belong to the streetssss

[@malakashraf2801]

Why

[@nourelhouda2628]

This is depressing to watch actually, ugh (the truth hurts) Wait, WHY INFP women are unnoticeable?

[@5pancerny200]

Because as background type they tend to not peacock around large groups and blend in the group, as affiliative they do not want to get in the way of social norms, thus not making them conform a social group values not drawing attention to themselves and as responding they engage with other people directly if want to do something with them quite rarely.

[@malakashraf2801]

Cause behind the scenes

[@carrikartes1403]

Because they feel unacceptable. An INFP that is self accepting, authentic and confident is very different. They can still be a bit shy and awkward at times but they have a dignity and self respect that can be very attractive to some people.

[@nourelhouda2628]

@@carrikartes1403 So most INFPs don't have dignity and self respect?

[@abusukhairi8163]

First

[@meg3298]

Make it illegal for women to divorce their husbands. There is no such thing as equal rights. One gender will always get the upper hand. I trust men to have the upper hand. Give them their rights back.

[@user-uq9oe7sc5m]

Maybe marriage shouldn't be a thing in the first place.

[@cyberneticbutterfly8506]

That's the dumbest thing I ever heard. Essentially it assumes there are no outliers among men. A rotten apple could be cheater, violent, whatever ells. It's impossible to make a generalized rule that doesn't hurt a lot of people but the intensity of the hurt would be immensely larger in the "ban divorce for women" scenario. The bigger issue is that men shouldn't trust just because someone is a good person. It's easy for good people to convince themselves they are in the right when they aren't so you pretty much got to go into relationships assuming it won't last forever. Take what you can get for as long as it lasts and it can still be a good thing. Give in moderate amounts. Never marry. That's a legal trap.

[@meg3298]

@@cyberneticbutterfly8506 Most domestic incidents are initiated by women, so we should have laws protecting men from bad apples.

[@cyberneticbutterfly8506]

@@meg3298 Obviously. Afaik there are already laws since violence is a crime. It's more a problem that men aren't taken seriously when that happens. But this is whataboutism. We still can't forbid the divorce of women who do have problematic men. You are essentially pushing the issues that women frequently have onto the individual woman as if she as to take responsibility for the misbehavior of other women. Neither law nor a just world work like that, nowhere shall individuals have the law against them because they are associated through some general trait like gender with other people who behave poorly.

[@TokyoTaisu]

Here in Japan women cannot divorce their husband without going through meditation with lots of shaming when there are kids involved.

[@yoyianime2679]

Ho3 list type: 1- ESTP 2- ESFP 3 - ENFJ 4 -ENFP 5-ISFPS 6- ENTP 7-ENTJ 8- INTJ 9- INFP I0- ISTP 11- INFJ 12- ESFJ 13- INTP 14-ESTJS 15-ISFJS 16-ISTjs Cs Joseph how % accurate this list in your opinion? ESTP -sorry, but can be nymphomaniacs and completely live in the present moment with no regard for the consequences. (And to masculine energy) they want an alpha but so they keep looking and when they find them it’s hard for them to take a step back. They take their time knowing what they want, which can lead to going on thru so many partners. but when they find that person they stay there! And don’t look back either to the side. ESFP- ugh love attention seeks it desperately! easily can get bored. confuses excitement with chemistry are shallow so will swipe a good ISFJ TYPE guy for an ESTP dick. They love instant gratification so they will get it if horny. But when they do and your meet 80% of their requirements they settle Down and will make your life a lovely journey. Never a dull moment they can be wifey material and give you amazing wifey experiences ENFJ- oh! the hopeless romantic always looking for love, but with their legs open. This is a type you know she has a high body count on her but will be an amazing wife and mother to your kids. And you don’t want to break up with them ISFP - talk about sneaky, they can be selfish and they can get turned off easily and bored and go on with the next man, they’re more likely to cheat than be an all-time hoe. But they’re usually very talented pretty girlfriends. Plus if people think bad about their bf they won’t leave them based on what people say. ENFPS- are so into novelty and sexually fluid always will try anything once and can be liberalist and they don’t mind having an orgy today and tomorrow get married. They don’t like feeling like they are missing an opportunity to sleep with you if they think they’re gonna have an amazing experience, and they can to innocently flirt and accidentally fall into someone’s bed without knowing it. ISTP- are quiet (and not in the good way) and practical they will tell you if they want you or not they don’t have time to be a hoe but are too masculine. but they can either be the girlfriend who has been with one man for years and chill, or the can be thatchick who won’t hesitate to sleep with you if that is what She feels like doing so and CAN NOBODY tell her nothing. And that is a scary trait. But usually are your down to earth gf. ENTP- these ones I can tell you that they’re the most Deceiving of all!!! This one you really you must go based on their actions because they can trick you better than any type, They have charm wits, and everything they’re a hoe but a professional hoe, not a sloppy one , But if you do marry her they will make you look good. ENTJ-Way too masculine energy not all of them have that they could be very loving but they have a problem with expressing their feminine feelings and they can go through life with thinking that I can want you to know I get you but if you not up to par she will get disappointed if continue up body counts will add INTJ - focus they don’t really like talking about themselves and honestly, and their past, they can be hoes simple as that. But they ain’t going to talk about it… intjs they screw themselves over. No one else does it to them lol they do it themselves INFP- I believe INFP is either a hoe or not ..no In between, just look at actions when you date her. But I don’t believe they’re the most Hoey but when they’re they can victimize their hoeness , but like chase said they can be the most loyal type of all with their loyal virtue.I believe the most loyal of them all! INFJS- (simple) oh Infjs they can go thru life like they go thru lovers and that can result in a high body count. but is not intended lol.. but if they have hoe friends they can easily be corrupted into being one as well…they are in a long-term relationship most of the time. but they’re amazing I will be with an INFJ even if they have a. High body count. ESFJ- yes we all know they are the caretakers but they but in that search of finding a mate if it was a long search they can acumúlate some body count but they are not trying to be hoes they want to settle more than other types. they make good wife’s I heard INTPs- man I don’t even know what to say if they’re liberals and not ugly they can be similar to infps they can be gullible and let a player use them. Because they can easily be a hit and quit so if that’s the story of their life people will hit and quit. Cs Joseph once said that they can be like a dead fish but usually not hoey ESTJS & ISTJS- it will all depend on what type of lifestyle they live just look at their friends if they are easy hoes they might have had their fun or a small period that They let loose. But they guard there reputations ESTJS ARE SHALLOW. But good wives but strict mothers

[@TokyoTaisu]

All ESTP women I have known call themselves "entrepreneur" on social media and are prostitutes. Not going to beat around the bush there.

[@annl.5512]

Once a ho will always be a ho he/she may not cheat for 1 5 or 10 years but eventually he/she will fall again in the bad behavior I understand that for American standard not cheat for 5 second is a uge success but eventually will happen.

[@malakashraf2801]

Literally no time , too much effort 😂 but what do you mean silent in a bad way ?

[@capricrone3537]

Woah this is crazy to me. Im listening between the lines too... Im getting married this month at 28, and as an infp, it struck me for the first time that it feels like a loss of power. Im not a hoe, i waited til marriage (safe to say now) but ive ne maxed and gone on at least a hundred first dates. Ive had eight boyfriends. I like to feel desired, and being wanted feels powerful and like i have the cards. You dont have to do much, but as someone planning to have as many children as i can, i realize i have to work now. A man will really have power over me. I have a fairly big anon following on right wing twitter talking about many topics, and my feelings are validated by that. I have to delete the twitter because it distracts me and leads to sloth. And i have noticed since i have been engaged, even me and my fiances mutual friends are less interested in my opinions or chatting with me! So i almost am losing a lot of men who value my opinion! I guess i have to practice self sacrifice for my children and find power in creating a legacy. But its scary! Useful concepts!