How ENTPs Undermine Their Own Self-Worth

How ENTPs Undermine Their Own Self-Worth | PersonalityHacker.com

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@Personalityhacker 2 жыл бұрын

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@sugarmagnolia33 2 жыл бұрын

"Am I competent and capable and do people like me?" Sums it up 100% haha

@233kosta 8 ай бұрын

Yes Yes No 😂😂😂😂

@tozemoon7349 10 ай бұрын

I'm an ENTP and what I found that works the best to maintain self-worth: 1. Use your Ti to write down a list of values you want to live up to. 2. Live by those values everyday. Let them be your guardrails. 3. Know that when someone disapproves of you but you did not offend your own principles, then your self-worth is intact. 4. If you did offend your own values, then admit your mistake (to yourself) and work on improving it. 5. Don't create too many values that it reaches the stratosphere. Be realistic and lower expectations of yourself. We can't all be ENTPs like Tony Stark and don't want to also. 6. Being helpful to others is useful as stated in the video, however don't hinge your worth on it. Seeking approval in others is the source of suffering for ENTPs (probably all humans :0). Patience towards yourself is key.

@233kosta 8 ай бұрын

Principles are essential to maintaining integrity. But you shouldn't have many. Otherwise they're likely to conflict.

@Thefire591 7 ай бұрын

Why would you want to be like tony stark

@MrEvans1 6 ай бұрын

@@Thefire591 because he is great 😂

@itsanditimevarietyshow Жыл бұрын

This video was so valuable to me as an ENTP. It really reminded me that I am valuable. We do have a tendency to forget this.

@Personalityhacker Жыл бұрын

Thank you Andria for sharing the impact the video had for you. Appreciate the comment. ~ Joel

@Niveous23 Жыл бұрын

It's actually a savage existence as an ENTP. Your superpowers come at a heavy cost. So you don't have much bias? So you can remain impartial and neutral in a world that can only pretend to be that at it's very best day? How does an ENTP achieve this Buddha-like state? Its easy. Don't put much value in anything ever at any time. That's a deep level of apathy. We are VERY detached. Can an ENTP give in and just...idk...live in a role for a few days/months/years? Sure. The ENTP has to stop trying to emulate everything they see others experiencing. We love self growth, and feeling valued. But that feeling isn't gonna come about the same way others get it. You just 'fake it till you make it'. The ENTP is a master at pulling things outta thin air and making it real. That apathy prevents you from getting swept up in the beauty of life. You have to will things into existence. The only thing that motivates me naturally is spite. Not ideal. The rest has to be systematically willed into existence. You feel ignored? Will that shit away. Step into the role of someone that gets noticed. The rest will come naturally.

@abodebeats Жыл бұрын

God damn, relatable 😅

@Arcticpagan 10 ай бұрын

as somone that has faked it till i maked it for my whole life i can agree but i had to be reminded of this. i have gone trough mental abuse wich made me so uncertain about my own abilities ive become the people pleasing ENTP and im miserable at this moment.

@RocketPropelledWombat 6 ай бұрын

I used to feel the same until I had a role that got me noticed (and realised I was mostly surrounded by fake twunts). It made me appreciate my friends more though tbh. And as for being driven by spite, me being motivated full-stop is a pretty hardcore thing that can come across as being motivated by something negative because, due to the amount of focus, I don't take any prisoners... it's nothing i'm ever particularly proud about but it gets shit done.

@7sanctuz 6 ай бұрын

It's been a looooooong time since I've related so hard. I'm going to copy this and save it. Thank you so much!

@MrEvans1 6 ай бұрын

This gives me ENTJ vibes not ENTP😅 tbf

@CocoYano_ Жыл бұрын

One of the best videos on ENTP’s have ever seen, and probably one of the only true ENTP’s on KZbin…. Your contribution is greatly appreciated Madame lol

@Mountainside101 Жыл бұрын

This is EXACTLY the thought process i have. How can i have value to demonstrate and utilise as a concrete tool to improve society. I have actually starting helping people by gathering knowledge and spreading them around like a mad man for about a month now. They actually tell me they felt refreshed after talking to me !

@hm5142 4 ай бұрын

I am an ENTP, and the negative talk is strong in this one. I evaluate myself by the same set of rules you apply to others and the rest of the universe. Sometimes, I don't measure up, and basically, cannot cut myself any slack. Makes for a very honest life, a life of high achievement, but not a very happy life.

@lifecoachingtoronto 2 жыл бұрын

I believe there's so much value in knowing who you truly are so you can live out of who you truly are to feel & give & experience all that you are :)

@nethercords 10 ай бұрын

The take home point in this video really hits home

@pugninja7037 Жыл бұрын

As a entp, I'm a listener on a platform to people who need it, I can't offer advice.. literally just walk with people on their issues. And one I realised I'm not going to help everyone, and two, we all need to be heard and not given a solution. When I have a person tell me how lonely they are,u gotta find alot of words entps aren't used to. It's not easy, but not every one wants a solution.

@mariog7213 Жыл бұрын

That’s an issue I’ve struggled with particularly with one of my best friends. She’s a feeling type and just bears it all out and my immediate response is to offer solutions to help her but it seemed like she always got angry at me. One day, after she had gone to some therapy, she told me that sometimes- most times- she just needed someone to hear her out.

@booradley0x0 Жыл бұрын

You have essentially described why I am so unhappy in my current job.

@kaushikbarman1658 Жыл бұрын

00:50 😭 I really don't have the resources to deal with it.

@shaheersk721 6 ай бұрын

As an entp, i skipped this video and quickly went to the comment section.

@cory99998 7 ай бұрын

Its still trying to assign yourself to something else which I think is counter to what self value is. I think we should strive to find that worth no matter whats happening in our environment or what we are or arent contributing towards. It sounds impossible, but thats the magic. Once you find it, you dont need much more than whatever you bring to life in any situation. Taking a breath can have intrinsic value. This is basically one aspect of the journey towards enlightenment

@dexterjackson8034 8 ай бұрын

As a new ENTP in this season of my life, THANK YOU! This is healing balm for my mind and soul!

@MsKingwa Ай бұрын

On giving one's best. Yes, i worked at an organisation which did not have a mission or vision outside of profit, and hence was not inspiring for me, my best could not emerge. I need to be part of something with a heartfelt and innovative mission to thrive. Coasting and free loading makes me feel like crap. Giving all of myself and going the extra mile is 3000% bliss (and also great for financial autonomy and returns).

@MsKingwa Ай бұрын

Also..... Really good advice on keeping an eye on external metrics for self evaluation and also regularly asking if we feel we are doing our best (I feel like I am some fair distance from that right now!! 😁) Thank you ❤

@chilllife5694 11 ай бұрын

Thanks, sometimes i almost forget i am great.

@yoshiyolo Жыл бұрын

Trynna figure out if I am an ENTJ or ENTP, because I'm very creative and analytical. After seeing this ENTP woman I'm leaning more to towards ENTJ. I've always felt worth inside of me. Naturally I wanted to be the best and to do so is to be as effective as possible. You have learn the skills required to succeed. I'm still not totally sure though

@LeahK-uu9rf 10 ай бұрын

Entps and entjs are worlds apart if you look at cognitive stack.

@Spearman1951 Жыл бұрын

This alpha ENTP never doubted my value. I simply discovered my dominant Extroverted Intuitive Feeling functions. I quit the success track and became a protector.

@piotr8821 Жыл бұрын

"Don't pick on ENTPs, they don't have the resources to deal with it." We don't need resources. We'll just deflect with poorly timed, inappropriate humour. It doesn't hurt... It's okay...

@MrEvans1 6 ай бұрын

That was a good joke tho, now on my list of self deprecating jokes for later 😂

@bmappp 12 күн бұрын

“I need to make sure the part of me that’s uncertain in that area is reminding me of important things but I’m not believing it when it makes me insecure”… what does this mean?? Any entp takers?

@TV-wy1py 2 жыл бұрын

Love the humor. Btw Antonia, can't believe you left it out..."and some ENTPs are trolls"🤣 - sincerely an FJ

@SuperCarottesRapees 9 ай бұрын

Wow this is so cool thank you. I might be ENTP myself and this really resonated with me!!!

@w69rdy 10 ай бұрын

I believe as soon as you do feel that you are good enough, you then become adequate. The truly exceptional people never believe that they are good enough, because you can never be perfect, therefore always strive to constantly improve and better themselves, and although appear to others as exceptional, tragically and ironically never feel that way themselves...

@martow7252 6 ай бұрын

Best entp piece for me so far..thanks

@AstraLog123 4 ай бұрын

How can i help a sad entp

@Nishii55 9 ай бұрын

What if I have self value outside of work? What if I found I have self worth even if I do nothing, even if I fail. I don't know I feel like I have reached a point in life where I stopped trying help/ fix other people and started working on fixing my self.

@darkrebel123 5 ай бұрын

I think I have ENTP preference, and it absolutely grates on my nerves when people glorify the ide idea of intrinsic worth. Intrinsic worth is a great idea and it's a valueble assumption to make about ourselves and others, but when it"s taken to the extreme, as much of the current popular narrative seems to do, it becomes completely disconnected from reality. Value cannot exist as a purely subjective, disconnected thing. And so in my mind, intrinsic worth (just for the sake of existing) is a useful lie at best. Life is full of useful lies, and the lies are valuble in themselves because of how they shape reality in positive ways. But let's not mistake a valueble lie with the objective truth.

@MsKingwa Ай бұрын

Ooooh..... I like that idea of the useful lie...... I will keep it in mind, moving forward.

@John99lm 2 жыл бұрын

Well explained!

@WinstonIngocnito Жыл бұрын

Look at those Ne eyes

@k8schmate 11 ай бұрын

Ok can you explain what that means?

@WinstonIngocnito 11 ай бұрын

@@k8schmate Extroverted intuition eye movements (the eyes darting around)

@humbledtolearned 11 ай бұрын

0:38 lol I say that all the time. I’d respect you a lot more if you owned what you said especially if the comment was clever.

@bluetears2 Жыл бұрын

I suppose but as an ENTP intrinsic worth is worthless to me, who cares if a thing has value being a thing, what does it do, I don’t care for my value as just being a human, that’s only important in a court of law, in my daily life achievements are more important

@mraarontorres Ай бұрын

So how do we monetize this or what Jon's can we do that foster to this strength ... because most places do not want NE TI People don't want to hear the truth .... They want the illusion at the emperor provides

@m2pozad Жыл бұрын

Quiet quitting is screwing over 'The Man'. Believing he's too distracted to notice. And soaking up self-congratulatory weasel points when telling the bros about it at weed session hang-outs.

@ClearMystic Ай бұрын

6:15 Ceremonial dose of 5-meo-dmt. Your welcome

@user-kh7kz4do6q Жыл бұрын

How have you got 6.4k views but 45k likes? 🤔 That aside this is an interesting podcast. I’m an INTJ and have been with my ENTP fiancée for 20years. It’s been really helpful to see how his mind works with regards to self esteem because I’m sure this is something that could improve on to help his mental health and outlook on the world. I’ve just watched your INTJ stuck podcast and it’s been very insightful 😊