How guys DM girls on Instagram

Girls every day get hit up by all different types of guys in the DMs, and they are all horrible in their own unique ways.
Amanda: ‪@amandamccants5381‬
Simp: ‪@RyanTheLeader‬
Fuccboi: ‪@TrevorWallace‬
Jeff: ‪@JeffWittek‬
Dad: ‪@BossyBoys‬
Lackluster: ‪@LAHWF‬
Foreign Guy: ‪@brookskossover‬
Misogynist: ‪@DannyMullenOfficial‬
FILMED BY: ‪@RyanTheLeader‬
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[@Cherdleys]

Comment ur insta below so I can slide in....

[@fruggle]

@fitralah

[@gwenholbrook]

Cherdleys @gwenndowinn fckn get all up in thur

[@dylantolo]

@dylan.tolo

[@CommanderCodyChipless]

@hypotheticallytheinternetsucks

[@tessamarkham111]

@t.art222 🥺

[@iansebastian8623]

I like how the sociopathic entrepreneur uses IG on a desktop

[@aaronnikels5706]

For real tho, it’s the actual mark of a sociopath

[@amandamate9117]

underrated comment

[@ak-zm3ll]

@@findingnory get off the internet bruh

[@findingnory]

@@ak-zm3ll ignorance is bliss

[@ak-zm3ll]

@@findingnory he was obviously joking you nutjob

[@vjgodlybang]

Ryan is absolutely the best resident simp actor we have.

[@LegrochaTV]

Tim Evans 😬😬

[@alanrunner6397]

Idubzz?

[@Next-xm2dh]

I Hope His Wife's Boyfriend Doesn't Find Out That He's Texting Another Girl

[@daytonm6809]

runner lmaooooo

[@polong99]

Simp lord

[@95bekirable]

"The Lackluster" Wow, this is the first time i see someone giving a perfect description of me.

[@lofiseeker1790]

Shit i mean if they dont reply there not into you so stop validating them

[@gizmodobaggins7040]

Peace & Quiet the lacklustre only sent hi

[@lofiseeker1790]

@@gizmodobaggins7040 hi gets replies if your hot or have a superior photo

[@gizmodobaggins7040]

Peace & Quiet yeah but a hi isn’t much validation, you want this guy to wait for girls to talk to him.

[@lofiseeker1790]

@@gizmodobaggins7040 if they dont reply there not into him

[@Rufio_Cristiforus_Tucarus]

Dude, the "foreigner" sounded like he was speaking an older Germanic language that went extinct by the year 1500 instead of a language of an actual modern day nation. Lmao

[@macdeus2601]

I was wondering if it was Latin, but then I started thinking it kinda sounded like Anglo-Saxon 'Old English'.

[@leoaraujo8590]

It definitely sounds like a weird mixture of norrønt and old english

[@canneddinners6059]

It was Icelandic

[@justinharris6865]

Ryan is good at acting like a simp. Almost too good...

[@lostinoc3528]

It's easy to be yourself

[@RyanTheLeader]

LostinOC stop

[@jaymeister26]

Don’t listen to them Ryan, you are the ULTIMATE gentleman

[@Sejikan]

Lets be real, nobody starts out with game. We all simp at one point or another

[@ChillBro.1]

@@Sejikan I can disagree, I think dudes count as a space case just as well.

[@legendmilk349]

You forgot the guy who still doesn’t know what a DM is

[@Cherdleys]

tru tho

[@camerongeringer7724]

Y-Yea, that....that guy...because you know...I know what that is...p-poor looser lol

[@brycestewart4717]

Dick message?

[@SeanBolisVlogs]

Cherdleys haha this is great!

[@largocharles8729]

Im guilty

[@parkourbee2]

Emailing a girl a personality quiz before going on a date with her would be kinda genius if it wasn't so creepy

[@axtra9561]

​@@TheRealNorth21 no its to form a connection

[@aggiee8653]

@@axtra9561 it's probably a bit of both isn't it?

[@P0lkoli]

Yeaaaaah, you might be creepy dude

[@jacobverner321]

@@aggiee8653 no, it’s about connection and moving things forward, cause you can’t sleep with a girl or start a relationship online as fas as I know. Finding out is the girl good for you can be done with a 10 minute phone call, it’s that simple.

[@alicem3415]

Here we got our misogynist caricature.

[@LoganAllec]

"it would be nice to see without braces" oh mannnnnn

[@sethdantuono]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/gYHdd2aemqp2ppI

[@DaPhenomAce]

😂😂😂

[@skeletonbuyingpealts7134]

5:40

[@MrMNH1]

That shit had me rolling. I'm obviously late to the party

[@JQ888]

The entrepreneur and the dad’s friend seem realistic AF lol

[@lkurkiril1731]

The dad one is just fucked up

[@lkurkiril1731]

Doesnt even deserve a censor

[@lkurkiril1731]

D dad msging your sons friend

[@lkurkiril1731]

God this world is terrible

[@CaneSugarCane]

@Willie Trombone aren't you A DOOD???

[@WillMcCartneyAI]

I love how more and more people are getting added to the Cherdleys universe slowly

[@develer816]

ikr

[@matthew5200]

The multiverse....the most ambitious crossover in history

[@theguyintheback4714]

Does the dad thing really happen?

[@fourtwenty1813]

The CCU: Cherdleys cinematic universe

[@surgeonofdeath8280]

trevor wallace mvp

[@josejayant3127]

Legend says that "the lackluster" guy is still waiting for a reply.

[@alvinmodz]

Imagine 😆

[@r.d.6290]

A reply from next instachick in line.

[@domanddev]

“So weird, so creepy, so kinky” 😂😂😂

[@ZombryaTheDark]

I read that as soon as she said it.

[@EduardoSalamanca1960]

Joe

[@11-1LOVE]

Barbaro

[@RyanTheLeader]

She is the most beautiful specimen I have laid eyes upon and will defend her at all costs.

[@borvesl]

I feel like you naturally have the simp look

[@kustikingissepp4300]

go to sleep, im your wifes new boyfriend

[@RuilinLinRyan]

U were the best here lol

[@JohnDoe-tf4un]

Hey I complimented her first!! Back off😎😎

[@wilberforce95]

simp

[@josuecalderon8607]

-Has "money" -Doesn't have money Brilliant

[@_mayankr]

that's "munny" dawg

[@Lambullghini]

@@_mayankr my peipahhhhhhh man *THIS IS DRUUUUUUUUUUUUUG MANNY*

[@mentirosoduarte]

Hypothetically, he has money.

[@deborahstephens863]

Died at “congrats on me DMing you” XD that is absolutely the attitude with male influencers

[@ilaywho8856]

"she double tapped it, ill take it" literally every girl double taps chats

[@thesleppymexican]

cries inside

[@rickterrance4981]

Why do they do that shit.

[@Lipnoxy]

@@rickterrance4981 they either dont have an idea what to respond or they just dont want to talk

[@armin38822]

@@Lipnoxy They don't want to come off as to interested and replay right away. They don't want to leave you on seen and replay much later. Is to obvious. Recently I asked a girl out and she responds after literarly 2 days saying yes. But you will get this only from chicks under 25 at least in my expirence.

[@armin38822]

@@adenm8963 She turned out to be really nice just way to shy and insecure. But once I got to know her good I realized she's a really sweet person. Went out about 3 times. Never turned out into anything bigger but I liked her company.

[@path0gen24]

“My bf didn’t call me beautiful so I’m checking my dms to get validated” 😕😕

[@g.berwald5312]

Accurate

[@itwillgetbetter769]

Quite sad innit bot its the truf

[@VigilantMinistries]

Don’t forget the “today” part cuz ya know that if you forget for a single day she’s probably losing her shit

[@austiniscoolduh]

Every girl ever

[@dylansocha7554]

Sad thing is a lot of girls do this same bs 😐

[@kevintochimani]

“You requested a mchicken and i thought that was so cool” DEAD 😂😂

[@juicecan6450]

McDead

[@oHawkeyeo]

Holy shit. 5 mins in and then realised the entrepreneur was cherdleys, lol

[@DXultra]

I did not realize that until I read this comment, wow

[@kostisdedes4175]

Whaaaat how did I not see this, I've seen this video two times

[@rsb__]

He’s a method actor gets really immersed in his roles

[@NomadCRY]

you guys cant be serious? how the fuck did you notice this?

[@inesoliveira7418]

I love how this was making fun of not just the weird men but also the stupid girls who (sometimes) do seem to be looking for "validation" in social media...

[@husseinandout3867]

Sometimes? lol

[@killingblow528]

This man just called out all of Instagram. Like, the whole thing.

[@SaintStrength0]

Haahahaha

[@deepstariaenigmatica2601]

the WHOLE thing liDerally

[@AmericanYeti]

exactlyy

[@gwenholbrook]

“When we go on our first date we can go carve our initials into a tree. One to be romantic. Two to let you know I have a I knife 🔪 💘

[@anthony89107]

The type of love I need smh

[@gwenholbrook]

Anthony Velasco lmao fun facts I used this pickup line on a guy on tinder. We’ve been dating for four years next week 😂 no lie.

[@jamalabadi9149]

@@gwenholbrook i was about to say that it sounded so specific that i can tell it's an original lmao

[@slightlyaboveaverage2235]

You forgot the final quotation mark.

[@anthony89107]

@@gwenholbrook Thats actually beautiful kudos to y'all, honestly. Ill hold out hope for myself lol

[@tetsuointhebathroomstall1312]

I showed this to my dad and he said, "These characters are all me at the same time"

[@prettyrat.]

oh

[@luchko3936]

Ooh

[@nyxdrawsthings6847]

W h a t

[@Whowhatwherehuh]

*oh no*

[@gonzoguy-ra]

🤣🤣🤣

[@dannybenhur6123]

They just compressed entire dating culture in one video...

[@MustacheDLuffy]

Less dating culture and more social media dating culture

[@melodykuromibebbies2138]

summarized to word it differently

[@juggalaud6989]

This is literally online dating, nobody wins.

[@Alex-uo4qq]

80% of people online dating need to get off online dating because they are not serious about finding someone or they are straight up delusional about who is in their league. Online dating is an absolute dumpster fire of attention whores and idiots. There's a few good ones out there but they are rare.

[@juggalaud6989]

@@Alex-uo4qq damn straight

[@highvoltage47]

I met my ex on it. Even though we didn't work out, we're still cool. And I know some people who met on it and are still together, so it's not all bad

[@ChillBro.1]

@@Alex-uo4qq I mean tbh that's why I do it, just for hook-ups. It's not to be serious. Or else I go out and meet women on the street. It is what it is.

[@ogbeairiodion8848]

Gerardo Garcia can’t do that anymore tho😰

[@kugell]

Aha aha like hypothetically if I was a cow, and you were like aha a farmer, ahaha would you milk me?

[@sihamharchli]

Good one 😂

[@TXC_CARNAGE]

joke

[@hiyou6501]

Aidan Sweet 500th like

[@goavs7438]

ahahaha

[@praveen9093]

@@goavs7438 its "aha aha aha"

[@axa3547]

I send hi and when my self respect wake up again I just delete it

[@squinteastwood7109]

Cherdleys blessing us with quality content over the quarantine, this was too accurate especially Ryan's simpin

[@nikhilpant6428]

Squint EastWOOD710 Nice dp

[@fsmo]

How do you know Ryan's simpin was accurate?

[@MrTrabzonsporlu]

I like how Jeff is just... Jeff...

[@jonathancastiglione6399]

Geoff*

[@loek7531]

@@jonathancastiglione6399 No he's talking about Jeff Wittek

[@lalboimanlun1230]

Im that lackluster guy.

[@nathanieljohnson5555]

Not cool how relatable the Socialpathic entrepreneur one was, didn’t know I was a demographic

[@kaeki8175]

🤣🤣what's your mbti

[@nathanieljohnson5555]

@@kaeki8175 istp

[@kaeki8175]

@@nathanieljohnson5555 oh dang that's cool

[@ZambiePlayz]

Hypothetically tho, if you were a dog would you dig for this bone

[@Sejikan]

I ship it

[@brindamarie]

No

[@lex1212]

Ship material

[@jamesjackson8531]

The sociopathic entrepreneur is so spot on there's a video with tai lopez where he says he makes girls take personality tests before dating them.

[@tl5108]

Rerin YL beggars can’t be choosers and I’ve been going hungry for a while

[@docd2295]

I mean if you have clout and money and looks and intelligence and drive, why would you not narrow the field that way?

[@reddot_22]

The lackluster is the best , feel identified

[@jinojikitomo5065]

I like that they actually started putting some actual social dilemas in these comedy skits, makes them even greater :D

[@kassandrabarraza955]

“she double tapped it, i’ll take it “ feel ittttt 😭😂😂

[@MrHesdan]

It's funny how The Misogynist has a gf but everyone else doesn't, pretty accurate imo.

[@OathBoy_562]

WEXLER24000 Fr shit was hilarious

[@apexpredator6960]

To be fair the Simp has a girlfriend too, she's just too busy with her other boyfriend

[@xt4977]

Dah misogynist

[@GreenFleaze]

Incel logic

[@ArtilleryAffictionado1648]

Makes sense tho, people that take the biggest risks get the biggest prizes (or go to jail) lmao

[@lordmaces7915]

There should be a “The Alpha/chad” character, that acts like a boss, I feel like that’s the only thing that’s missing here

[@alanbilzerian3055]

That's the "Misogynist"

[@nicetry69420]

Chad would be the same as the Lackluster except he wouldn't be wasting time waiting for a reply; he'd be going about his business and if he gets a reply, cool, if not, w/e. Honestly "lackluster's" DM etiquette is pretty normal human DM etiquette vs the rest of these sociopaths, he just needs to work on not internalizing it.

[@macdeus2601]

The Misogynist is that character. He's what "alpha males" look/sound like to normal people. (And everyone else except "alpha males" themselves and the incels that have that weird jealous-simp obsession with them.)

[@charleskone1446]

I didn’t know Cherdleys was the entrepreneur. He totally nailed it

[@robbiedoes8841]

dude i didn't realise until 5 mins in that Cherdleys was the business guy

[@ivaldi032]

Oh no. How'd I not notice

[@name-zv3vv]

How

[@diji5071]

Low key af

[@patmartin6271]

Robbie Does Code same

[@dimitripapadinikolaus]

i thought he was playing the fuccboi

[@davidmandujano1316]

Do the fricken Kyles during quarantine

[@kingbradley6000]

punching dry wall

[@chem9773]

@Tim Evans No,kyle is a different beast...i mean monster.....maybe???

[@JordaneRichard]

Wouldn't they just be doing what they normally do because quote "I ain't gonna lose to no 'rona"

[@G73Server]

the 43 follower guy is kyle

[@Ray-iz2wx]

All of you guys are so underrated bro

[@WetAdek]

I'm basically the lackluster, but I lacklust even more, I don't even have instagram

[@kylejohn2946]

Nobody wins in the DMs. It's time to stop

[@eddyadityapradhan7960]

FACTS 💯

[@ODrane]

Kyle John I won yesterday, I feel good about myself tbh

[@lag5761]

I sense red pill awareness. That makes me feel happy.

[@GlitchDotCraft]

For simps maybe

[@majingamer6109]

Lol maybe your doing it wrong. I'm doing pretty damn good

[@AgiDaKinG]

Shout out to Rahul for trying to secure his future. Not even moving to the United States until 2022 but already tryna get a wife lmao

[@geologick]

My mans Rahul always thinking ahead hahaha

[@Scirollo]

Rahul making moves

[@Zzombie-gn2rb]

The lackluster is straight up me

[@kirkmaxwellofficial]

“She double tapped it, I’ll take it” 😂😢 I felt that one in my soul

[@tiny_weeb_rin5583]

The father made my think of when my High School Principal hit on me after I graduated.

[@hollybauer739]

Rena King economics & history teacher 🙋‍♀️🤢

[@tiny_weeb_rin5583]

@@hollybauer739 So much fun, right!

[@mondaysinsanity8193]

RUN! lmao

[@Chocol8chan]

Am i the only one that finds that shit kinky asf

[@jamescanjuggle]

Oh wow fuck that

[@ubayyd]

The 90s: “the internet’s gonna be the coolest thing ever!” The internet:

[@jackmurphy8696]

I don't think any of us were prepared for how shitty and unbalanced humanity actually is on a social level.

[@tanner5809]

I think we should go back to the 90s lol

[@AmberyTear]

Internet is shaped by humanity and humanity sucks.

[@midnightsun2085]

"There comes a time when a man's got to send up a follow up text" Alpha male mindset.

[@MrSsb2000]

I'll forever love this video for introducing me to Danny Mullen.

[@Rocco-mf7kq]

Jeff saying “he’s gay but I’m not” seems like something Jeff would actually do for fun lmao

[@kvescau7768]

Trevor looking like a pack of ice pops

[@kurro6317]

and you know he's banned in her neighborhood

[@beautyandtheoffbeats]

He’s wearing a smoothie

[@Literallyarealhuman]

I’ve always wondered what it looked like from the perspective of the guy who just messaged “hi” , and now I know!

[@kurro6317]

I keep coming back to this video and I just realized it was uploaded on my birthday

[@amethyst1989]

The simp one is real af. As annoying as they can be, they’re pretty damn sweet.

[@stupedasso2591]

Yeah until they find out she only sees him as a friend and shit goes in the other direction real quick

[@ThePsychicFish]

Nah cause it's not real and it's hella lame and pathetic

[@vividbunny7194]

yes they are, and thats why they are not annoying at all

[@vividbunny7194]

@@ThePsychicFish it IS real, youre just too dumb to realize and its not lame, whatever you are doing is lame, and its not pathetic, its brave and strong

[@gizmodobaggins7040]

Vivid Bunny bro

[@thelegendarydarkknight585]

nobody: literally every rich douchbag from a 90s movie 5:54

[@trippie_fabio3181]

Luke Laurencin pablo escobar in narcos

[@trippie_fabio3181]

Luke Laurencin pablo escobar in narcos

[@hotdogamericabum8323]

Luke Laurencin literally every entrepreneur motivation video

[@gamingshortz7912]

I like how they’re exposing actual DM’s loll

[@nighteyes360]

those recent simp skits are terrific

[@1messi1ful]

Jeff is legit a whole mood. He’s so raw doesn’t even have another character 💀

[@wammert]

I just noticed that holy fuck

[@RebelFilmmakersENT]

The entrepreneur writing a IG DM on a desktop like a true sociopath

[@mridulpaul2079]

why so?

[@mintgardener]

That’s what I do lmao

[@tavo5288]

Nooooooo!!!!!! STR8 Flame Of a production 💥💣💥

[@mrhouse4479]

Lol I like how the entrepreneur is just looking out his window like hes just waiting for the result of his genius master plan he put into effect

[@jimconnor5120]

The lackluster guy seems pretty accurate

[@rodrigodelacruz2230]

I'm that guy

[@tanayyy2875]

otay otay

[@davidcarlsen8799]

It's Andrew Hales

[@RemyVonLion]

Andrew felt like a personal attack

[@ploops43265]

Lol fr

[@mameh1624]

Lmao Fr

[@itsjustme5097]

Which one was that

[@ploops43265]

@@itsjustme5097 the dude who waited most of the time and didn't use alot of words.

[@jeremiahgrande455]

Might have to change my game up a bit...

[@itsmebougie]

These guys are doing gods work

[@joshdavies6465]

Choo choo's big now, also you keep upgrading apartments, keep grinding man.

[@nuttyninny9793]

danny mullen needs to be in more skits

[@no0bbbb]

He's the shit

[@NakedNathan]

DANNY MULLEN FREED THE SLAVES

[@yungbootyticklr5508]

This is probably the best piece of writing this channel has ever put out.

[@funygameur]

And that says a lot...really hit me.

[@sethdantuono]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/gYHdd2aemqp2ppI

[@0181spikri]

Thanks for these videos. Learning from them and laughing at them.

[@harryballs3302]

I love that Danny's in the group now

[@aarong7555]

lmaoo yall rlly got jeff wittek in there

[@theartoffuckit5287]

I was more exited about Danny Mullen

[@ethanbradberry5050]

Damn I’ve been hella wondering why my “hi” dms haven’t been working but now I’m enlightened.

[@lewishumphries2893]

Love the zooming in and out , really couldn't concentrate .

[@DanQZ]

Whoever playing the dad is my favorite actor ever

[@Cherdleys]

What kinda guy did we miss?

[@lazyliko5641]

The cybernetic enhanced penis overlord

[@wrestlerninja]

the one who never actually sends anything because he secretly hates women and himself

[@Jonathan1m.]

The emo guy and the guy with anime in profile pic

[@krossbow_]

the lesbian

[@ChubbPirates]

The dude that can get her in the line but can't seal the deal. "You wanna party, baby girl?" "Hell yea!" "Wait What? You DO wanna party?" *sinks into couch*

[@operationalbattlestation5477]

Danny Mullen has blessed us with his presence yet again, all shall kneel

[@arson4852]

that guy freed the slaves

[@operationalbattlestation5477]

meint48 fuck yeah he did

[@starvingblackguy5749]

Danny greater than all these peasants

[@starvingblackguy5749]

but these guys cool too :)

[@lukeg9773]

Simp

[@ebkjug]

good to see Danny not breaking character.

[@leofoster9765]

“She double tapped it, I’ll take it” gotta take Ws in the Ls

[@imapersonnamedgio]

10:23 when you accidentally like her old post

[@subhasisbiswas1113]

Oof

[@claudiodimaio]

I'm watching that in loop

[@cookiecookies2870]

Omg Jeff’s in this, i love it

[@patarcher9199]

I love how Danny Mullens wearing a bengals jersey

[@londonwontstopcalling]

I love to think "you're not in the hills" was not scripted.

[@demigod5219]

The misogynist is the best one! 😂😂😂 & that ending explains a lot about her! 🤣🤣🤣

[@SardonicStudios]

That's Danny Mullen. I've done a couple videos with him too lol

[@jo-gu4ln]

I love Papa Mullen

[@craftedteens]

Danny is an international treasure

[@benconnor3206]

SuperGiantRobot Rocket when he said ‘whore do you want this dick’ and she replied ‘i am a whore’ , I died 😂😂

[@gliixo]

The amount of cameos in this made my eyes explode. You owe me, Cherds

[@olli2591]

The amount of cameltoes on the other hand...very disappointing

[@namiiiiiswaaaaaaaann8201]

Ryan the Simp KING. Hail the KING

[@Himani2512]

This video belongs in a museum

[@shipwreck9146]

How girls DM guys on Instagram: *........crickets chirping........*

[@shipwreck9146]

This video was a very good representation of "NiceGuys"

[@snowxflaxess1181]

@@shipwreck9146 the misogynist guy was the biggest "nice guy"

[@shipwreck9146]

@@snowxflaxess1181 Oh yeah, totally agree. Very entitled.

[@snowxflaxess1181]

@@shipwreck9146 now imagine the same guy,but he is your dad 😂

[@snowxflaxess1181]

@@shipwreck9146 that would be pure torture

[@silentjosh847]

“I will now wait for her response...”

[@lordofallusion5862]

I love that the sleazy Dad has some arm tattoos. He was probably so cool when she was 12.

[@carltonxcarlton]

I didn't know these were real. I need more like this.

[@ashwin4674]

The influencer changed his kicks like every time he came on

[@BoolyK]

Marc illy is about to get blasted on social media

[@xgullafter9590]

Whoever that is

[@djlongboi]

He blocked me after I posted in his comments section the DMs he sent

[@arcador]

rhythmic zoom in and zoom out is the king

[@holmiequan1579]

Probably your best video ever 🤣 so good bro

[@krismatic_]

0:15 “meet me at the park after DARK” that dude loves rhyming, it’s like his thing. It’s hilarious

[@dhbss4732]

Cool to see Jeff and everybody in this vid👍🏼👍🏼

[@VincentTornude]

7:57 I like how you can hear the disgust in her voice reading that and I'm just like "oooo that's good, might use that sometime."

[@luftboyprod]

gotta love that 1988-1991 toyota corolla in the background at 1:58