How I am Getting Through Grieving my Wife - Important Steps to Help People Grieving

[@southchum101]

Lost my wife of 22 years, she was my high school sweetheart…she passed away at 40 years old…endometrial cancer stage 4…we caught it too late, it’s two weeks into her passing now and was searching KZbin Vids of “afterlife” videos to make sure she’s ok…stumbled upon your vids. Everything you described about your wife and the whole process mirrors my exact experience. And yes, I spontaneously cry in my car too, so much just triggers me right now. I too didn’t plan on becoming a single dad (15 year old son) and widowed. My wife and son was my whole social life. Your video has really helped me a lot. Thank you. 🙏

[@renshaw5darlene1519]

May God help ease your pain. So sorry about your wife. Prayers and positive thoughts coming your way. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@terrijsm]

❤❤

[@sheilaewall4426]

Again I a. sorry for your loss. Try to see if you can get in touch with Taylor odlozil. He lives in Texas. He has a five year old son and lost his wife Haley on July 14, 2023 at age of 30 from ovarian cancer. I feel you and Taylor would have something in common and perhaps breathe in an easier manner.

[@user_abcxyzz]

Afterlife doesn't exist. It's just permanent lights out. They don't know they're dead they just cease to exist. No memory, no feeling

[@pattykochenower4222]

Ps I LOVE your dogs and their little doggie noises and squeaks , it’s just very you and your family and I love it! I love that you just let them be , so cute!

[@Judesgram2]

I talk to my husband daily. When he passed we made a decision to never, ever, talk about him in the past tense...he is here with us still.

[@sarahlund-nt3kw]

That's so important to not talk about people we've lost, in the past tense. It's okay to believe that they're still here with us. We've had a bond with them for decades, so we all want to feel like the connection between ourselves, and the deceased person is ongoing, for the rest of our lives. And why not? Don't let anyone tell you any different. The deceased person is still with us every day. If anyone has a different opinion on that, let them express it, but you don't have to believe it. You have a right to believe in what you believe in. We all do. Much love. 😊❤

[@mt_gox]

@@sarahlund-nt3kw in jenny's case, is the present tense not only "ok" but .... accurate?$

[@noirth-security]

Thank you for this

[@user_abcxyzz]

Hes not here. Accept it. Never here again. All is in the past

[@glitzzygem]

Kyle, this is a wonderful way to help others who are also grieving. Not only are you working with grief but you are also a beacon of light to those who are going through grief with your positivity. We love you Kyle and your whole family and that includes your furbabies.

[@superchatcat658]

I love reading your posts. You're always very encouraging towards Kyle.

[@glitzzygem]

@@superchatcat658 thank you. I'm only speaking from my heart.

[@LeasoUlia-xn4tc]

Thank you for this videos Life is a challenge sadness or happiness Calmness You owed it to yourself to come out on the other as a more calm dad brother or a friend You’re doing a great job Keeping yourself busy You and the kids families friends support from your grief group Keep doing what you do Time is precious Take care of yourself and your family Hi 🌸🌸 and Huckle

[@foggyqubti6288]

We can also just stay in bed all day and not want to see anyone. That's ok. We don't always have to be positive. We are allowed to feel what we feel.

[@guineveremoonmist1060]

Good for you for starting your own channel. Jenny is definitely proud!❤❤❤

[@belesdan1886]

I lost my mom last year, but she was gone years before. She had Parkinson. I lost my dad many years ago, but we had a difficult relationship. I never had a wife. It hurt me much more when I lost my dog who was the kindest soul ever andwas around me all the time and everything I had. He deserved every tear I shed. I told everybody who wanted to comfort me about his life, his character, how awesome he was and that helped me to get through this time. After a year of grief it eventually got easier and I started to enjoy life again. Talking really helps although I am a silent guy. Don´t shut yourself up.

[@ilb735]

Bless you💞 thank you for sharing that.

[@suzanne296]

Thanks for sharing

[@belesdan1886]

@dlfaith Yes, I have two dogs now. After that year of grief I started walking dogs from the shelter, and I´m a self-employed dogwalker now.

[@breezeh1127]

That is the kindest thing I haver ever heard Kyle. You acknowledging the fact that others are grieving your wife so deeply too. People who may have never even met her. You have left room for them ❤. You are the most selfless and incredibly connected human being. Jenny and you both. 💜 Thank you for all of these wonderful tips and helpers. I plan to use them and to pass them to friends who are also hurting 💓

[@dianamahar483]

This is a huge step, Kyle..helping others, sharing what you’re going thru…God Bless you and your beautiful children 😊😊❤

[@dtmc4509]

You had an exceptional relationship with your spouse. Many do not. Amazing to me.

[@berenadelacruz628]

Thank you Kyle for this beautiful message, I truly need it at this point in my life, lost my husband of 38 yrs. And I feel so lost and alone, I really needed to hear this. God Bless you🐞

[@dshotz]

#replay. I am a very long time hospice nurse. I have lead many bereavement support groups. Kyle, your tips are brilliant. With each video I watch I am able to see healing. I also see the pain as well, but each new video wraps a new color around the dark spot. I am so proud of you ❤

[@sweetcountrylivinginmichigan]

Love this Kyle! Thanks❤

[@susansullivan5203]

Kyle, I think that I was guided to turn on your message in the early hours of the morning. My husband was just diagnosed with a terminal illness. He is having surgery in the morning. You have just identified what is happening to me. I am going through "Early Greiving"!!! I believe my husband is in denial and does not want to talk about what he is going through. It is so hard. I am scared and want to be there for him. He is my life and I always thought I would pass before him. I just have no idea where to turn at this point. It is very helpful listening to you. Thank you for sharing your innermost feelings.

[@gaylefw5072]

Sending you love and light ❤ Hang in there🤗

[@granny2012joan]

Grief is torture everyday, it was six years we lost our 41 year old son on Christmas Day 2017. It has been getting easier if that is what you can call it and now we talk about the good memories and not his last day. He passed away from the Noro virus, his heart stopped and they didn’t get him back in time before he was brain dead. He was the best son, husband and father to a 12 year old daughter who is now in her first year of college. He would be so proud. I still talk to my son everyday and I will until I see him again Thank you, Kyle ❤️❤️❤️

[@susanmiguel4809]

Thank you Kyle for this. My husband just passed 3 weeks ago. He was 78. We were married 48 1/2 years. I was just barely 20 when we met and was he was 9 years older than me. He was on hospice for 6 months before he left. I feel so blessed that God gave me the gift and trusted me enough to be his caregiver these last 4 years (he had dementia and multiple organ issues.). I thought that because of his age and the length of our relationship it would be easier for me but it’s not. I don’t know how to be “one”. We were so solid w/each other and now I feel fractured w/no understanding of how to put the pieces together again. I will get through this because of my faith but oh, how very big that very dark circle is. Seems like the “colors” cannot penetrate it. I loved following you and Jenny. She was such a beautiful soul, as you are also. Thank you for sharing. I’m 69 and it shows that you can teach an old dog-wait, let me rephrase that…one is never too old to be taught sound wisdom. Thank you and may the love and peace of Christ be with you. Many hugs to you and your precious angels! Sue

[@gaylefw5072]

Sue, Sending you love and comfort during this time❤

[@susanmiguel4809]

@@gaylefw5072 Thank you so much. That blesses my heart.❤️

[@superchatcat658]

I believe it's important from what Kyle has said that everyone should maintain some friendships or a community in addition to their partner so that they dont find themselves without support if the worst should happen. Jenny was a good example of this.

[@GreatGreebo]

Personally I think your family and your grief are all one thing and can remain together on one channel 🤷🏻‍♀️. Not trying to tell you what to do, just don’t think you need to split up your content because it all goes together ❤️ Thank you for the video. Hang in there Kyle.

[@teresalevitt2717]

I am old..my husband died in August..cancer..sudden..I have no friends ..we had moved to be near our daughter...thank God we did...her and son in law do lots..but I won't burden them with my anguish..I deal with the aloneness.. 3 weeks ago...our last little dog died.... Thank you for listening

[@hannakinn]

I'm sorry you have no friends, are lonely and I understand you not wanting to share that with your family. Perhaps there is a senior center in your area, I have lived in towns that had really nice senior facilities where seniors could go to meet with others, do crafts, play board games, go on group outings on busses etc. Some offered transportation to and from the centers daily or weekly via bus pickup others had carpooling type services. Some offered exercise courses, learn a new language groups, group movie viewing, group singing abd musical courses. I remember when my sister and I were in our late 40s we toured the brand new senior center in our small town and were amazed at how great it was. They had computers and offered free computer courses, had a reading library, a wall of puzzles and board games, art and craft rooms. They had coffee, tea, water and a small kiosk with treats you could buy, the money for the snacks went to a local food bank. The center was state and county funded and primarily staffed by volunteers, it was awesome. Even if a person only went there to sit and have coffee or tea and perhaps play a game of cards or charades or work on a puzzle with someone that's 30 minutes or more that they were not sotting home alone. If you have any hobbies perhaps you could become involved in a group that meets to do that hobby, I know most communities have quilting, knitting, crocheting and scrapbooking circles. Stores like JoAnns fabric offers different hobby courses where people meet in friendly groups to learn that craft. Stores like Lowes and Home Depot offer different classes to learn simple building related skills. I went to one once with a child we built a birdhouse. Many high schools offer adult education courses, my mom took an evening art course and learned to do water color painting and she learned some rudimentary Spanish. Some of my local churches have women's groups that meet and plan activities like church suppers. One group of volunteers operates a small church thrift store, another has a group that organizes and staffs a big spring 2 day flea market, others have a church bazaar day, sort of like an outdoor carnival. One has a group of volunteers that works for a good part of the year to get donated items and items from parishioners for their annual Christmas bazaar. There is also a group of women at that church that work all year making hand crafted items to donate to be sold at the bazaar. You might also consider volunteering at someplace whose cause you support. Pet rescues and adoption centers often have spots for volunteers as do some pet stores. Public television stations often need volunteers during pledge drives and during regular operations as well to help with tasks like answering viewer services emails, returning phone calls, stuffing envelopes etc.. Food banks often need volunteers. Hospitals and senior living facilities often use volunteers to do tasks like manning the reception desk, answering general phone calls, working in the gift shop, etc.. Volunteering is a great way to serve your community, feel useful, and meet new people. If you can find a reason to leave your home and go out and about you may make friends or at the very least engage in activities that take you out of your home and give you something to focus on besides your own grief and loneliness. I hope my suggestions help in some way and that something resonates with you. In a world full of people none of us should be isolated and lonely unless we choose to. If I can help in any way let me know. ~ Hanna

[@Lisa.Halloran]

I'm so sorry for what you have been going through. It's so hard to deal with loneliness ❤

[@emilyleigh2784]

Sorry for ur loss. Maybe make a KZbin channel and ull have all kinds of wonderful true friends ❤😊

[@gaylefw5072]

Sending you love and light🤗❤

[@hilarymccarthy1011]

So, so sorry that you're going through this. May God bless and comfort you. ❤

[@genamartin229]

I had a therapist tell me that crying has saved my life. It is healing your heart.

[@dallaswilson1984]

Thank you Kyle for sharing. You are courageous, insightful and a light in the dark for many. Besides that, you show your vulnerability and struggles. Yet, you demonstrate how to work through those times. You are a blessing

[@robynhume9186]

You are AMAZING Kyle! I m sure you have helped so many with your wisdom. I pray your journey becomes easier. Blessings to you , your precious children and family.❤

[@arlenederenzi4784]

Thank you, Kyle. I recently heard that "Grief is love with no where to go."

[@pattykochenower4222]

Thank you Kyle , this was very helpful and appreciated. I lost my brother and I’ve shut everyone out since , your channel has really helped me . Have a good Sunday and week ahead . I’m really proud of you and appreciate you still filming . One day at a time .. hugs and prayers ❤️🙏

[@simplesue8334]

I like that you’re separating the family channel and this channel. It makes it easier for me to go back and find something that resonates with me versus on the family channel. 🙏😇

[@debbieturley8673]

Thank you so much Kyle. You are truly amazing in your ability to articulate such a difficult emotion. My grief is related to caring for my elderly Mom with cognitive decline. I call this experience “The Thousand Goodbyes”, as I see her slowly losing memory and function and independence. Simultaneously I have had to come to terms with radical acceptance of a relationship that will never be what I had hoped for. For me my faith is such a comfort, and the blessing of grandchildren. Praying for you and your family. May God bless you daily.

[@Lisa.Halloran]

I'm so sorry you are going through this experience ❤

[@sunshinenorain]

Your voice is so calming and this video will help a lot of people.

[@glitzzygem]

Thank you Kyle for sharing all this great information with us you gave us very helpful informative tips. Thank you Kyle ❤

[@marinemomma62]

Kyle thank you for sharing. You are helping me and I’m sure so many people. Such great tips. Playing music and an instrument can really help. I pray for everyone here who is suffering a loss. God Bless 🙏❤️🙏

[@I-am-a-Jesus-girl]

Thank you Kyle. My son took his life on the 5th January. I'm 70 miss him so much. Can't wait to see him again soon.

[@LetItBeSummer-1]

I’m so sorry for your loss. You will be with him again 💗

[@kimberlyfasulo]

I love this channel, and the idea you have going for it! You are a very good grief mentor, and your only 4 months in. This is your calling. You have a great personality,and can really help others while helping yourself. Go Kyle!

[@paulawilkes7366]

Thank you kyle . Just watched your video. I lost my best friend she was my soul mate. My sister from another family. She wasnt unwell and passed away suddenly in her sleep .. watching your video i connected to everything you said about grief.. i went through all these feelings .. i think its true that you should speak about grief . Some people find this a very grey area. But by you speaking about this you can be assured you are helping people with grief 😊

[@gaylefw5072]

Sending you love and good thoughts ❤

[@a.life.reimagined]

You've come so far. Camping with the kids, baseball, you are do8ng it all and that ain't no small thing Kyle. God Bless❤❤

[@christinedickson9766]

Awesome talk Kyle. You are a wonderful speaker. I suppose your profession is shining through here. Very organized. Such a terrific thing you are doing on your channel. I agree that it belongs on your channel. Lots of important and very useful information for people who are grievivg. Thanks for sharing❤

[@rachkbill]

Thank you Kyle - I needed this today. I think God sent Jenny's story my way to prepare me for what was coming. My sister was just diagnosed with stage 4 rectal cancer that spread to her liver and lungs yesterday. My sister is in complete shock and hasn't reacted at all. I'm a freaking mess. Seeing how gracefully Jenny handled her journey and seeing her strength is giving me strength and hope. I hope that I can be as good of a support to my sister that you and Ashley were to Jenny !!! Thank you for showing me that people can get through this. I don't feel like I can handle losing my sister, so I'm trying my best to stay positive. My sister is the oldest and has been like a second mom to me. She is the strength of our family- she is the glue that keeps us all together and strong. But now she needs me to be the strong one. Thank you for showing us that you can be strong and have faith even when you feel scared and broken !!!

[@kimh207]

I teared up reading your post 😢 God bless you sweetie blessings to you and your family may God be with you stay strong.

[@saharaservin4863]

❤

[@Lisa.Halloran]

I'm so sorry about your sister. ❤

[@sheilahill6415]

So sorry to hear this about your sister. Lots of love and hugs xxx

[@emilyleigh2784]

Prayers for u and ur sister 🙏🏻

[@InvisibleVicky]

Hearing the dogs makes me smile

[@richardhigginbotham8413]

Lost my wife last month 13 March 2024 appreciate your video 30 years of marriage and she died in my arms while doing cpr never fully revived

[@shellyfish9046]

Your comfort is in knowing that she is with God and you will see her again some day. There are others on their channel who are not trusting in God and it shows.

[@cookingwithvicki9292]

kyle you are a shining light…. even in grief you continue to think of others. 💜

[@avarismimi]

I just love see you thrive with your family. I like content on one channel. It all goes together. Life.❤ what works best for you 😊

[@MichelleLaMotte]

One of the things that I received from a Pastor. When I’m feeling overwhelmed is just stop, close my eyes and breathe in and while breathing in and out I say, “I breathe You in Holy Spirit. Your strength comes suddenly. Your peace fills me completely.” Right then, it happens and I instantly feel better. ❤

[@allyssumrose]

Pastor Steven Furtick said that so I'm guessing that's where you heard that. I love his teaching and watch Elevation Church & Elevation Worship all the time!! 🙂

[@michelledaggett5582]

Thank you Kyle. After I finished listening to you I was able to meditate for about 4 mins. It was helpful so I thank you. ❤️

[@TheRealPeggySue]

Grounding I think is so important for many reasons. It can keep you out of that drowning overwhelming feeling. It can keep you focused which isn’t always that easy. Focus on the here and now…sounds easy but it isn’t but the great thing like Kyle mentioned is even if you start small like a few minutes…that time will grow and in your ability to focus you can make better decisions, sleep better, be there for others and also it allows the moments that ebb and flow to be genuine in the moments that you really are lost without that person (but grounding will bring you back to the here and now with ease and not jerky). Kyle your thoughts were inspiring and super tools for all our toolboxes….great to have a grief toolbox to dig around in when you are lost…a tool can help your direction…use them. God Bless you for keeping all of this real and honest because I know how much you are still grieving..it hasn’t been that long. But yes you were blessed with Jenny’s wisdom ahead of time…But I think when you talk with Jenny she is there as you two were so close you almost kind of know what she would say or joke about and how she would feel. Thanks for taking the time and sharing. Continue your journey…keep the faith and it is a community and we are here for you also. Camping is going to be awesome..it brings good vibes! You might want to get Winnie some Pom poms so when she watches Ellis play she can be shaking them..she’d feel involved…just a thought. God Bless and always so proud of You and Ellis and Winnie✝️🤗❤️

[@DatFamilyLife]

Hi Kyle! I finally got the rocks we painted sent for Jenny’s rock garden 😊 They will arrive tomorrow! ❤

[@kyleapple9702]

Can't wait!

[@freelancerjourn]

I just wanted to say God bless you, Kyle. You are an amazing human being. Blessings to you, those precious kids of yours and Jenny’s, and your entire family.

[@dianecervantes9095]

👏👏 well said love this video it’s going to be Six years on 21 April and I still miss him very much I always will. Here’s a big hug for me to you and you’re going to be OK you and your children just going to take some time see you and your next video have a blessed Thursday night.❤❤❤❤

[@heatherl3328]

…”Not IN a tractor” 😂😂😂 ok that made me giggle. Out loud. You are a gem Kyle! You’re a blessing to your kids, AND your KZbin fam. Always rooting for you Kyle, your ❤ will mend with time. We love you Applefords, from Utah!!

[@FraziersMommy]

Truly the definition of a teacher. God bless you Kyle 🙏 ✝️

[@rhondahelfrich2563]

I heard something very true .."Grief is Love with no place to go" we love you and your sweet family Kyle ❤️

[@JC-tp5lz]

Kyle, you are truly a good teacher! It shows in your videos and in your creating "lesson plans" for grieving! I bet you are awesome in the classroom too! I have a feeling that much of your strength and resilience comes from a profound faith in God and a life hereafter. You are amazing and awesome! God bless!

[@alesha_coleman]

I just lost my husband to Cancer Saturday. He was in hospice for 4 months until he finally passed. Thank you for these tips, they really help. I'm also navigating grief with two young children.

[@robinjaime]

Any hospice in your area should offer free grief counseling. Tailored to you and specific grief support for children. Look for a non profit or not for profit one. I am very sorry for your profound loss. I’m praying for your family.

[@sheilahill6415]

So sorry for you loss, love and hugs xxx

[@sandidee9360]

I'm so sorry for your loss❤

[@emilyleigh2784]

So sorry for ur loss 😢

[@Rainorshine004]

Godbless you 🌈 🙏 🕊❤ 🙏 he's with you. 🙏

[@loribriggs5291]

I wanted to reach out to you and tell you that you both have helped me out so much during this journey that you’ve been going through. December 23, 2021 I was diagnose with stage 3 lung cancer and as of today, it has now spread into various parts of my body. The latest is I am going through radiation to “zap” my whole brain. I am now stage 4 and I want to thank you for sharing everything. I cried right along with you during all of this. Thank you again ❤

[@sheilahill6415]

Sending you prayers, love and hugs. xxx

[@hbennett5640]

Hugs to you and many caring thoughts❤.

[@marsellasaravia698]

❤

[@jesussaves1827]

Turn to Jesus He loves you, He is the healer of the body And savior of the soul, There is True Hope in Jesus, God protects Psalms 91, He is the God of miracles Acts 2:21 And everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved Jesus alone saves Trust Him with your salvation John 3:16 1 Corinthians 15 1-4 Moreover Brethren, i declare unto you the gospel which i preached unto you, which also ye have received, and with wherein ye stand By which also ye are saved, if you keep in memory what i preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain, For i delivered unto you first of all that which i also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures And that He was buried, and that He rose again the third day according to the scriptures, Take care

[@jesussaves1827]

Turn to Jesus He loves you, He is the healer of the body And savior of the soul, There is True Hope in Jesus, God protects Psalms 91, He is the God of miracles Acts 2:21 And everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved Jesus alone saves Trust Him with your salvation John 3:16 1 Corinthians 15 1-4 Moreover Brethren, i declare unto you the gospel which i preached unto you, which also ye have received, and with wherein ye stand By which also ye are saved, if you keep in memory what i preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain, For i delivered unto you first of all that which i also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures And that He was buried, and that He rose again the third day according to the scriptures, Take care

[@nataliebrooks6822]

You're truly a gifted communicator/teacher, Kyle. Helping so many. Excellent talk. God bless you sweet Kyle 💙💙💙💙 I'm old enough to be your Mother, have a daughter 7 months younger than you, have lost parents, sister, friends, etc, but still learned and re-learned some points from this very effective talk. Keep shining your light on this world! Well done!!!! 😊🌟🙏😎🌞

[@bellavita3097]

Also, daily sunlight, we don’t get enough sunlight as humans were inside all the time, working, house duties, etc. and a sauna dry sauna steam sauna or infrared sauna is so therapeutic Has so many health benefits. I love the clean fresh wall.;)

[@Netehope123]

Hey Kyle, you are helping others out there who are experiencing loss through your own grief. You may not know it but you have strength in buckets despite the mammoth responsibilities in front of you. People are disputing here whether to combine your channels. You do what’s right for you, however in saying that, I think your separate channel is you 💯. Jenny encouraged you that way. Amazing how this started with Jenny’s channel, and now you’re more comfortable infront of the camera. Thankyou for sharing your world Kyle. May God’s strength keep you strong, for He is always with you and your beautiful children.🇦🇺🩵💜💛

[@juliesaul4002]

I agree with the deep grief being more on your channel and then family on Jenny’s but truly what ever feels right for you, here is a thought… I take my granddaughter to school every morning and pick her up, it’s about a 20 min drive… she is 7 and she always says can I watch Jenny because she loves your kids and loves seeing what you all are doing as a family and she does not understand the more grieving focused from an adult perspective, I feel like Jenny would be really happy to know that her kids are showing a child’s perspective of grieving and getting through this and doing the fun stuff… your kiddos are making friends and it’s really cool to see, I think other kids are relating to your kids and loss, we love you all and so many of us truly admire you Kyle, you inspire others more than you know!

[@ladawnbrooks5994]

Thank you so much for that! I have stage four and I worry about my Son and Husband so much thanks again l may God continue on blessing you and your beautiful family🙏❤️🙏

[@LakelandluvsBlythe]

🙏🙏🙏❤️

[@tondah]

Kyle I think you are doing a great job with the kids & handling everything. Jenny would be so proud . Love & hugs from St. Louis ❤️❤️🙏

[@brendaalbee7922]

Thank you Kyle. I needed to hear this. ❤

[@honoraguski7720]

Clearly you are… a Teacher. For that we are so grateful 😌🙏🏻❤️

[@Rachel_Ryder]

“In a tractor” made me laugh out loud, so unexpected 😂 Thanks for posting this Kyle, it came on the 1 year anniversary of my dad & best friend’s death. A huge comfort, like a warm hug. You are so valuable in this world!

[@GeorgiaMartin-b1r]

The topics you speak on are so important. The faking it is exactly what I do, I pretend to enjoy my life now. I also have true insomnia and cannot sleep. I find myself up all night and I just can't fall asleep. I just feel like i'm moving through the twilight zone most of the time. Things just seem so different and like it will never be a good time again in my life. Life seems dull and mean.😶

[@lesliebakerowen9244]

Kyle, that was such an amazing video which I will keep in mind to recommend to others facing grief. I so believe in positivity and I am not always surrounded by like minded people. I am looking forward to hearing about some news you alluded to in your prior video. Jenny truly set you up for success to navigate this grief journey. What a blessing! Your love and respect for her touches all of our ❤❤. I really want my young adult daughter to watch your videos so she can see what to look for in an amazing spouse. So, so very proud of you Kyle.

[@margaretmackinnon1913]

Kyle you are very good at this. This was very motivating, even for someone not grieving, but maybe going through other life crises . You have come along way and it shows on you. Keep going, you are doing great and helping so many people as you navigate your own grief ❤

[@priscillasmith7998]

Kyle I love listening to you. You are such a good speaker. You have helped me with just listening to this. You have inspired me so much with what you have dealt with but still continuing to do the best you can with your children & your daily life ❤️ You have two wonderful beautiful children. Please keep your channel because I really believe you are a lot of help to so many people. Jenni would be so proud of you ❤❤

[@DaisyG37]

You are really helping others!! My son died and I have 1 person to help. Everyone left, it's pretty shocking. Thank you for helping 🙏

[@sheilahill6415]

So sorry for your loss xxx

[@Lisa.Halloran]

I'm so sorry about the loss of your son ❤

[@mypathunfolding]

Commenting so as many people can see this video who need to.

[@kimh207]

Kyle, I wanted to thank you for helping people all around the world and for everything you do. Jenny is smiling down on you. My thoughts and prayers are with you ❤

[@LMR57]

Kyle, I’ve been following you for awhile now. You’re a good husband, a good father and doing well while learning to grieve Jenny’s loss. In less than 2 years, I lost a brother, a sister and just lost my mom. I just haven’t had time to properly grieve anyone. So much sickness, and death in a short time… it’s so fresh still. Your words and tips will definitely help me as I go forward. Thank you for sharing your heartfelt thoughts, ❤ You’re doing amazingly well❤️God bless!

[@sheilahill6415]

Great video Kyle, I'm sure it helped a lot of people. Love, hugs and prayers from the UK XX

[@suzannebranscomb1711]

Thanks for the lesson. You’re a wonderful teacher!

[@superchatcat658]

Kyle "in a tractor" should be part of your merch!

[@kknichols8067]

My husband has been gone for two and a half years now and I still talk to him every day. Listening is also huge! It is amazing the insights and signs that are right there for us. When I was going through the worst of it I could ask him for help, for a sign, for some sense of relief and he would send it. Sometimes it’s as simple as believing. Sending so much love to you and to anyone else going through this painful process 💜

[@sherrybell5599]

Bless your heart Kyle. Im so glad that you are taking good, positive steps to help you in your grieving process. I lost my mom to Alzheimers. I was so close to my mom and took care of her. Grieving a loved one is hard. Keeping you and your precious babies in my prayers. I absolutely love watching your videos of you and your babies adventures.❤❤

[@Emma-um4cr]

Afternoon from London . Kyle I do worry that you’re not getting enough sleep .

[@freelancer839]

Puppy,new work and new coworkers helped me go through that painful break up. I am now forever single and lovin' it 💗💙

[@jenniferoceanhomestead]

💕💕💕🥰 so proud of the work you are doing to help others … it takes time out of your life to share your experiences but I’m sure it’s encouraging and motivating to people watching ! Hope the kids got my happy mail I sent to the P.O. Box … I tried to make it exciting for them so they can smile and have fun with it and brighten up their day 🎁 I didn’t know you got the camper until after it was shipped and delivered lol but there’s something in there I think would look BEAUTIFUL in the camper and it’s one of my favourite sparkly things I have and love so much … Do what makes you happy !!! And maybe ask your close family you trust if they can donate time each week or month to come and do things on a list you have to help ! Even if you are at work … if they have a key they can come for 2 hrs and wash laundry and clean while clothes are washing or do some meal preps and cook food and then freeze it or put it in the fridge so you just have to warm it up for dinner and maybe have some easy breakfast foods made like banana bread or things that are healthier options and homemade and convenient !!! Maybe try to make a work schedule with family who can donate some time to help … and it gives them an opportunity to few good about themselves knowing they are doing good things and helping and allow them to have that because for some it makes them feel good when they can help others 😊 Love you all 💕

[@DJ-el1bt]

You are a great communicator and Teacher. And I need this, so thank you. I definitely shut myself out from help and support. And you are right, they do still exist!

[@cookingwithvicki9292]

beautiful healing tips kyle. my close friend just tragically lost her son and i just sent her this wonderful video. thank you .

[@mamaisalwaysright2935]

Lost my mom December 21st, Kyle. I watched you, Jenny, and the kids long before that, but you have been my absolute go to since them.

[@kyleapple9702]

I’m so sorry for your loss

[@lovely8888888]

Life is so horribly, cruelly unfair. I remain in awe every time I see one of The Apples videos.

[@jackieowens6421]

Thank you for sharing I’m 8 years in with the list of our 24 year old son and so much you have shared we have learn along our grief journey !jenny with you everyday and she is helping you still everyday and she cheering you on !I saw a lady bug the other day at work and thought of Jenny and you here in Florida !your doing an amazing job Kyle !I’ve followed your family journey past 2 years on utube !jenn has help so many people along this journey praying for you and your family !the past 8 years I’ve tried to still be a light in the world and to our daughter and husband I have to wake up every day and make a discussion to be as positive as possible I’m in the health field and find has given me the strength !keep moving stay busy but also rest when u need to !

[@Emma-um4cr]

I as I’ve said before , not that I expect you to remember every single comment , that my family have struggled with loss of my husband’s mum 60 ish , sister 39 , sister 45 all died of breast cancer and I lost my dad Suddenly at 55 . My stepdad has lung cancer and has been going through this for 10 years on and off , now inoperable. You are right to talk it out and like you say you can be angry but that doesn’t mean you’re not aloud to remember what a truly wonderful wife you had and enjoy life as it does go on as unfair as it is ❤

[@donnacain9692]

🙏💐

[@kimh207]

🙏❤️🙏

[@marinemomma62]

Prayers you you and your family 🙏❤️🙏

[@cheriecarpenter3529]

When my husband died in 2015, I learned a lot of different things to help me get through the grieving process ❤️🙏

[@karendjohn8803]

Kyle, thank you for this. You are so wise in the short amount of time you’ve been grieving. It is so hard when life throws you a detour you weren’t expecting, especially at a young age. You have helped me a lot today!

[@marywilson641]

This is great, you do not understand how much you are helping me and a lot of other people thank you ❤

[@Sunflower57-n6t]

Don’t listen to others put it all on one channel bc grieving and family r reality you and the kids have to heal together

[@BellabooItaly22]

Praying for You Kyle.... One hour at a time. Grief is a process, there is no time limit on grief. As I said before, camping is a great therapy..... I see a change developing since your camping journey. Your living life, thars what Jenny wants... Its still ok to grieve. Its a provess .. Praying for You Kyle. God Bless ✝️✨

[@DaisyJo82]

Such a beautiful message! When you feel like kicking and screaming, kick and scream. When you feel like smiling and whistling, smile and whistle. Let every emotion out, as you said! I’m very proud of you! ❤

[@constantinak6648]

This is incredibly helpful

[@joanbeach644]

Kyle, this is wonderful and I think very helpful. I appreciate you sharing this with us. ❤️🙏🏻

[@walcodebruyn2135]

Hey Kyle! Wow your really spoiling us with content lately! So glad ypur active here again as well you and your family are always in my thoughts lots of love from South Africa!

[@marymclaughlin5034]

I think you are very wise.

[@donnaperales371]

Just do what you feel you need to do ❤your doing great 💯

[@faithg9766]

What a positive & helpful thoughts, thank you.

[@janhorton5197]

Kyle, that was so interesting. As a health professional, I find this info very useful.

[@Pamelafromutah]

I think you are doing a great job. Cancer is so ugly. Talking through it can help a lot.

[@cathleenmorgan3784]

Wow what a blessing thank you your message bless you Kyle

[@marieleon-u1s]

Thank you Kayle for your message today 😊 ❤ it really helped me today

[@jks8791]

Kyle, showing the grief process and letting people see you go through some of your grief is so important and so amazing!! Then talking about things to help people grieve...it is just so amazing. Losing your beautiful Jenny was such an awful thing but I know how proud she is of you for doing this!! We all need to talk about death and grief as we all have to go through it at times. So you are absolutely amazing for sharing all of this. I know how hard it is for you!! But you are doing such an amazing job with your grief and raising your 2 littles. Please just remember how proud Jenny is of you!!! Your followers are too. We are all here for you!

[@gemineye1e1even]

I just lost my 18 year old son very unexpectedly 2 days ago. It’s unbearable and I have no idea how I’m going to continue life without him. I thought of you today and how well you’ve dealt with losing Jenny. As soon as I opened KZbin … this video popped up. Thank you. 🙏

[@jesussaves1827]

Turn to Jesus He loves you, He is the healer of the body And savior of the soul, There is True Hope in Jesus, God protects Psalms 91, He is the God of miracles Acts 2:21 And everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved Jesus alone saves Trust Him with your salvation John 3:16 1 Corinthians 15 1-4 Moreover Brethren, i declare unto you the gospel which i preached unto you, which also ye have received, and with wherein ye stand By which also ye are saved, if you keep in memory what i preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain, For i delivered unto you first of all that which i also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures And that He was buried, and that He rose again the third day according to the scriptures, Take care