How I Became Confident

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[@NateOBrien]

Beware of scammers in the comment section impersonating me! I will never solicit you for money or ask you to join some sketchy crypto scheme :)

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What a legend

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They're impersonating many KZbinrs, not just you

[@edgonzalez186]

THANK YOU SO MUCH! I'll share this.

[@Neil.Denize]

This a great video, excellent filming and editing with some solid tips love your work mate.

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I highly recommend you to delete their comments, I wish that if KZbin had an AI algorithm to ban those types of comments.

[@SY-sp8uo]

Confidence is not *they will like me.* Confidence is *I will be fine, if they don't.*

[@macymacyy]

I need this drilled into my head lol

[@NONAME-ry2kt]

Jay Shetty right?

[@alejandromayorga8614]

Wow. I also need this in my mind

[@johnnymaldonadoparedes3502]

** Drop the mic **

[@intentionalliving7326]

Well put!!

[@Ellaa9905]

"Confidence isin't walking into a room with youre nose in the air thinking youre better than everyone else, it's not having to compare yourself to everyone else in first place"👊🏞

[@LanaBlakely]

"The sun's gonna blow up one day and we might all die. That sucks, right?" Haha 😂

[@andjela9413]

My two favourite people. Introverts unite separately! 😅

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Please collab, you two! 🥺🙏

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Collab 🔥🔥

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Prettiest KZbinr ever

[@cookingthebooks901]

Ugh start dating already.

[@CharlieChang]

DUDE THIS VIDEO IS EPIC

[@wildcardcentral2782]

charlie, can you reply to this comment?

[@thomasennaa]

Sooo epic 🤟🏻

[@acommonman7950]

Is it really tho?

[@read_to_me_a_book_with_samira]

Self-confidence is the basis of any success that a person may have in life🤚

[@mohamedelhabib2485]

أنت في كل مكان 😅

[@hicham4440]

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[@360.Tapestry]

thanks for nothing

[@aabelmendoza]

Thanks for nothing

[@onrjs]

thanks for nothing

[@nicoleonfeels]

Confidence is an invaluable skill. If you don’t believe in yourself, who will?

[@nathanhunnisett6199]

jesus will

[@realchiknuggets]

Flawed question to add to what you already were saying, but A for effort.

[@realchiknuggets]

@@nathanhunnisett6199 Exactly, brother. I don't even believe in any religions, but that question was pretty bad lol

[@cryptoflippodcast]

*I love the fact that this is filmed in a cinematic way* Who else is inspired 👇👇

[@namistudioca]

Me! Love this style. 🤟

[@intentionalliving7326]

Yes!! Glad im not the only one admiring all the b-roll 🤩🤗

[@cliffdariff74]

ahh... for me, no difference.

[@icytmedia]

"Get comfortable being uncomfortable" - Jeff Cavaliere

[@edelconnaughton790]

Great Quote!

[@reginanogueira9167]

Exactly!

[@jamesevans2507]

jeff cavaliere is a scammer lol

[@realchiknuggets]

@@jamesevans2507 He is? Who is he?

[@jamesevans2507]

@@realchiknuggets Supposed elite fitness coach who fakes his lifts with fake weight plates. He also took a guy personally under his wing to coach him for years for his channel, with his advanced top tier diet and training techniques, and the guy still doesn't look like he lifts and his numbers are complete dogshit. lmao.

[@paddygalloway8780]

Great video man, so true that it doesn't come from external validation. I used to be super shy but made an effort to change that a few years back.

[@intentionalliving7326]

It’s quite the journey to get to that conclusion... one gains some skills along the way :)

[@TheIronSnail]

My god that INTROOOOOOOO down to the color pallet of that shirt jacket you're wearing SIDE NOTE: can anyone ID that shirt jacket...

[@medtown]

I love how Nate's content always got that cinematic feeling. B roll makes such a difference in a video.

[@anthonyllido9720]

Every parents having this kind of kid ...they would be so proud. 😇❤️🙏

[@Chahlie]

My son is this age and I try so much to direct him the right way but it ends up being down to the people he spends time with, as he works more than they do. I hate seeing so much money slip through his hands. I've explained over and over that I don't want him to make my mistakes. Sad. He thinks 'things just work out' for me, but doesn't realise what goes into that.

[@anthonyllido9720]

I'll pray he'll see the right path . Have Faith Ma'am. God bless you ❤️😇🙏

[@nickk.5661]

@@Chahlie Well, I hope that you can subtly guide him to where he understands how to minimize his expenses and that everything takes work. Most of the times, you can’t force somebody to change completely since they have to come to that conclusion themselves that it’d be the best thing for them. And even then, they must truly work in changing their habits. I recommend you to stop being the enabler of his bad habits because people usually don’t learn if things are already accessible to them cause there needs to be a reason to change. Also provide him the information he needs to become successful and just let him do it on his own. If you completely force things on people, they’ll automatically react with high resistance so just do it subtly if necessary. I hope that everything goes well and that he also has a great father figure to guide him. Good luck

[@renloh0775]

This guy is my hero and he is like 15 years younger than I am LOL

[@JackDuffley]

That B roll was Christopher Nolan quality lol

[@intentionalliving7326]

BEAUTIFUL 🤩!!

[@Rey-Revival]

hahahaha

[@davidlynch7704]

"Everything I'm not made me everything I am" - Kanye

[@Minaaaaa]

Damn

[@realchiknuggets]

@@Minaaaaa lmao

[@tommy3134]

@@Minaaaaa here we go again

[@MrKevo123]

I just got done with a phone call with my therapist and we talked about this for an hour. Your video couldn't have come at a better time.

[@elianluviano1271]

me after lifting my hand up and answering in math class in the second grade

[@matijadrofenik4441]

HAHAHAHA

[@austinhochstetler5887]

Face your fears and confidence follows. And facing your fears is a much bigger issue than confidence for a lot of people. Great stuff Nate, this is stuff I need to hear and I'm sure lots of others will agree. ✌

[@NateOBrien]

Comment a video that you would like to see me create next!

[@impoppy1788]

Yes

[@OlleyThorpe]

The intro was fire Bro!

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How you stay stable

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How to use PowerPoint

[@Henry-rp8fw]

An updated day in the life!

[@shess1640]

In my early 30s my confidence developed as I realized that I was ok with not knowing everything but having confidence in my ability to acquire learn and acquire knowledge, ask questions, follow through, and be accountable to myself.

[@mariareis6831]

I don’t know how you were before, but now you’re an excellent speaker; I enjoy listening to you very much.

[@Business.Lounge]

This man is way younger than me yet I look up to him. Smart kid, keep the content coming, you've even inspired me start my own TV. Hope to be as big as you one day.

[@reta7896]

You will I believe

[@JackDuffley]

Nate back at it again with the mountain / hilltop deep thinking

[@NateOBrien]

This is a how I spend the majority of my days

[@TradingWithCJ]

You probably wont see this, but you was the first youtuber i watched! Love these sort of motivational bids man! Could you do one on like growing your channel?

[@Quickonomics]

A quote that helped me more than I sometimes like to admit: "Is there something you can do about it? Yes? Then there is no reason to worry. No? Then there is no use to worry."

[@alvaro8914]

- Bob Marley, 2021

[@Omar31587]

Confidence is silent, insecurities are loud.

[@MateoLeonViana]

Those cinematics! I appreciate the effort and time you put into the production. A way to become confident is to become really good at something. Confidence comes from competence. That's a way. It'll take time, but it's sure

[@intentionalliving7326]

Yes!! To get there its does require showing up every day to take risk, to face potential failure ✨

[@Je.rone_]

This video is cinematic af😲

[@NatalieHawkinsMusic]

That TED talk was incredible! Thanks for sharing, Guru Nate ✨

[@sonofabear]

Always enjoy your videos, Nate! I hope you start that Mushroom business one day

[@FinancialShinanigan]

As long as Bruce Willis is still alive, we don't need to worry about the sun blowing up

[@heyheyvicky1498]

and if not Bruce Willis, The Rock will safe us

[@alwynjohn-thesimpleinvesto4730]

Love the edits and shots my man, amazing quality video! Love seeing the growth and improvement!!

[@martinhuang1750]

Craig Ferguson said the reason why he's so confident talking to women is because he shows the same amount of respect to everyone; it doesn't matter what you do or how you look. I find it extremely helpful and applicable.

[@tanyo]

After watching your video, I think I should stop watching Gary Vee

[@JakeCarlini]

Heyyyy I got that same Webull mask! Twinsies dude! Also powerful video man! Love it

[@successwithstacee9290]

For some reason no I really want to see one of your old deleted videos. Love the, hey you're looking at my tags.

[@GrowYourWealth101]

Tough times dont last. Tough people do! 💪

[@SamMartinPeakPerformance]

Amen to that

[@brandonc3361]

Jesus the shots in the beginning are movie quality

[@shawnej7013]

To me, confidence is being comfortable with the uncomfortable. The willingness to commit to the things that make me nervous or uncomfortable will build confidence through repetition and experience - maybe not straight away, but eventually. Great video, & nice B Roll!

[@KeithJones31]

Being comfortable with who you are , leads to confidence.

[@alwynjohn-thesimpleinvesto4730]

Keep up the grind brother! Suoer authentic and real!!

[@worktolive8115]

Mr. O'Brien I don't think confidence is necessary for me, but I want a bunch of income. In which sense, I'm jealous of you :) Sometimes I watch your movies, and I borrow some parts of your principles you do in your life (for example, investments). Best regards, Richard Gong

[@emmalu3891]

I feel like there are two keys to becoming confident: 1. Accept your shortcomings 2. Improving it. Every time I start a new job, I feel unconfident at the beginning because of my English skills. However, I will think that I can' change right away, and lots of times when I express my opinions in the past, my previous colleagues actually like my ideas and they will ignore how bad my English is. So, I will try to express my opinions more often. That makes me get familiar with the new environment faster and makes me feel more confident. However, when I start a new job next time, I will feel unconfident again. So, another thing that I do is to constantly practice my English speaking skills because this is the root cause of my insecurity.

[@monara97]

I found you from James Jani's comments section. Now I know why he called you a legend 🙂🤟🏻

[@marieekl459]

Would like a video commenting on the fundamentals of money. Not the cliche of money isn’t the source of happiness, but rather your opinion on capitalism and maybe a comparison between capitalist democracy and communism. What is the point of continually chasing money. I mil dollars this year ok..but next year you’ll want 2mil then 5mil etc...but what is the real conclusion at the end, anyways keep up the vids ! :)

[@fexreddinquliyev3598]

Super video,i'm your new subscriber.You're so cute,thank you for the video😊

[@CFrey42]

Can I just say... the B- Roll in this is INSANE

[@intentionalliving7326]

🙌🏻

[@RafReyes1993]

💁 We both know you're not ready for this. Don't force yourself.

[@GrowWithWill]

Dang - Nate has leveled up his videos these last few releases.

[@hannahmathilda7101]

Nate, I love the cinematography feel, especially of all the pretty places in Philly--but more than that, I appreciate your continual authenticity and underlying message. Thank you!

[@sarina5861]

I am so proud of everything you're accomplishing! Hayley would be so so proud, she believed in you so much even from when you were selling chicken eggs when you were like twelve and explaining the profit margin to us lol. I can't wait to see what else you tackle in your life, we will always be your biggest fans. Never forget that

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High quality video production: ✔️ Motivational content: ✔️ WeBull Face Mask: ✔️ 🤣🤣🤣

[@GrowYourWealth101]

Great things never come from comfort zones. 🙏

[@maggyxchuu]

Well goddamn. I feel motivated af right now. You literally speak soo well. Love the videography of the video✨✨✨✨

[@albertjimenez6732]

Beautifully done video, Thank's bro 📈

[@toda8632]

I have to control myself, change myself and start my journey.😤 I am very inspired on these lines or key 🗝️ points.

[@asdalskdf]

People today make me less confident, I had a lot more confidence in people when I was a kid than I do now as a young adult. It could be just the area I’m in, but it definitely makes me feel unconfident to talk to most people around here, I just always feel like they’re not gonna understand me. I used to be more confident when I was constantly trying to be higher on the popularity totem pole, but now that I’m just focusing on myself and my future, it’s like I’m on a completely different wavelength than most of the people in my area.

[@matthewwodatch4613]

I sometimes think that things l've done in an effort to improve myself and become more confident have ultimately made me so different from my peers it is difficult to feel confident because we are (as you say) on different wavelengths (with different interests, priorities, values, goals)

[@LifeofSmokey]

I’m here before he has 5 million subscribers 😁👌

[@emmart9061]

In my opinion confidence is a matter of self trust and trust in the universe in general. The thought that no matter what happens I’m gonna work everything out.

[@theavidinvestor971]

Great video Nate, name of background music anyone?

[@sierrascott2779]

Philly is where I grew the most as a person, my favorite city❤️❤️

[@Larrygu]

Liking the new cinematic videos!

[@rebeccaparker9703]

I just found your channel this week and it’s spurred me on so much to give my kids the best start in life. I’m 35 and it’s been a struggle with 3 kids to get by, I have taught them how to be frugal and to always make sure your getting the best deal on everything but we still live month to month. I have shared your channel with my nearly 16 year old son who is very interested in numbers and money. Hopefully you will inspire him as you have me. I’m at the stage in my life that my kids are having to make decisions and I just hope they are able to be more successful than myself. I am going to be much more proactive and not just make excuses why people I see are more successful than me. Thank you and I wish you continued success in whatever that looks like for you, whether that be continuing to grow, so taking a step back and really living a fulfilling life!

[@skwinglesushi]

Its good to know the person that I think has my version of success was in the same mindset as me. Maybe I do have hope to be confident and financial comfortable too.

[@stayblessed7589]

your videos have really helped me to think differently in my life and that you so much nate....

[@ian_panganiban]

Nate where’d you get that cleannn shirt jacket from thooo 👀

[@hansonel]

Really great things to keep in mind for gaining confidence, it is a life long skill. Confidence is cultivated from within ourselves. Confidence from external validation does not last. Loving the beautiful cinematography in this

[@stefanberger2421]

GOOSEBUMPS - if I only had one word to describe this video! awesome job and thanks for sharing your story and spread hope and empower others :).

[@stellz8254]

Best way to gain confidence is solo travel and talk to as may new people as possible

[@crashtestjustin]

Damn dude your videos just keep getting better and better

[@ang3lchav3z]

nate i would really like to know what kind of camera or cameras you used to shoot the video? this is a gorgeous looking video!!

[@intentionalliving7326]

“Limiting your fears” by facing them!! 👏🏻that puts the responsibility right where it belongs: us!! Its not anything external! Beautifully explained!! 🤩

[@jingchaowang5532]

Still remember at first it was just you sitting in front of a camera and talking. look at the quality of those videos! Such a movie. Thanks for keeping improving. Keep it up!

[@AntonioInvests]

Awesome editing 😁

[@MariaCastillo-in4fp]

Me encanta siempre ver tus videos y me fascina tu forma de pensar y concuerdo con el punto de este video.

[@isabelldawn]

Your clips and edits are sharp! Gives me inspiration for my own content :) thanks Nate!

[@cinnamonoatmeal9998]

Confidence to me is knowing myself and my identity, ( which is extremely loved & valuable) bc you just can't control the external. I make tons of mistakes but know myself well enough to know the why & identity the why with bouncing it off others. I also know my heart usually means well and that builds my self worth. I overcome my fears with throwing myself out there, like public speaking.

[@KristynaG]

What if the thing that is bringing me down is my job? But it’s secure and a lot of people are losing their jobs right now so I’m stuck...

[@queenofjensylvania]

Try looking for another job. You don't habe to quit without a backup plan. If you don't like where you are, move. You're not a tree. 😉 Best of luck for you!

[@adamsutherland2670]

In what way is your job affecting your confidence? I agree that you should feel free to look for a new job if yours is toxic. I also caution the idea of quitting as a means of accomplishment. That’s something I’ve been guilty of in the past. Is there a way to master your current situation before moving on?

[@edizon204]

Where did you purchased your brown shirt?

[@jeromerufin8301]

This is awesome content! Your channel is the reason I started my own. Thanks for the inspiration!

[@cagenazariah]

so cool, Nate. I’m really hoping this goes viral or trends on KZbin. Despite being a personal finance channel, the currency of information is truly priceless.

[@marlonelias]

He's good looking!.!.

[@spinaaqm8278]

We are what we think of ourselves, thanks mate 🌊

[@zaneisaiahbernacer4101]

Your content is very relevant in todays world

[@davidkunau]

Wow great video!!! Love how you got personal with it and I also found the TED talk helped change my perspective as well.

[@wedges6907]

Very cool outfit in this video, Nate

[@JeanDagobert]

Nate making movies now 💯

[@oar-N-oasis]

Confident is not external, its internal.. Wiser😊

[@smartwalletandme9624]

Be anxious for nothing, but in everything, by prayer and supplications, make your requests made known to God and His peace will guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus!

[@PierceJPeterson]

Big film 🎥

[@IamDavidGauthier]

Don't focus on what you can't control 💯

[@mangomonkeylearnsmoney1081]

Great video, you speak really well

[@jackthe15headedmonster25]

Thank You Master oogway 🙏

[@lauralarisma]

I’m loving these lifestyle videos you’re coming out with. The videographer is doing such an amazing job! Thanks for the content Nate!

[@Sumbee]

My guy has got a mindset of steel.

[@hansonel]

And the wisdom of an old soul too

[@DonieSun]

Your are so amazing ! Best video I have seen, so glad I found your channel! Love you

[@HelloYatta]

Nate, totally random... Is Mike O'Brien the Tech Review guy your brother?

[@NateOBrien]

Yes we are related

[@HelloYatta]

@@NateOBrien That's awesome. His review on the Amazon Echo 4th was awesome... That's the video I saw and was like... Wow he really favors Nate... Then i saw his name and was like... Woah man they must be brothers lol

[@mompreneurlife]

“Focusing on action s” is a great tip. After reading Amy Cuddy’s book, Presence, body language Became a huge topic in the self improvement and confidence building world. And you know what? It works. It has worked for her, for you, for me, and will work for them anymore. Thanks for the awesome video! So glad to have discovered it and subscribed.

[@irdinamohamad5366]

what was in the bag and where were you carrying it to