🥹🤗🙏 thanks for the king words! Always love hearing from you!
@amdiary711 ай бұрын
12:27 I often struggle with associating myself with my new self concept because of guilt ! Since my surroundings made me feel like I was “too lucky”, “too spoiled” and that I “always got what I want” I started feeling very guilty when I was a kid, like, “Oh, why am I so happy if all the people around me are miserable ? I must suffer like them, right ? Because, they will think I’m an awful person if I don’t suffer like them.” Then I was labeled as “privileged” all the time so it’s difficult to step out of this mentality and realize that people’s jealousy really pushes them to judge others and try to bring them to their level instead of elevating themselves. But I’m trying to let go of that guilt. I did nothing wrong.
@AbbyRuston11 ай бұрын
That makes total sense and it was a brilliant strategy to stay safe as a kid.. if you stood out you risked being isolated and alone and without connection.. connection meant survival and that was the highest priority since you couldn't provide for yourself.. what's happening now is that same priority of their opinion still exists..You still hold their opinion, judgement or expectation as "THE" standard and yes it sounds like they were a jealous or frustrated due to their own stories and their own experience. And seeing you happy pushed on that past painful memory. You didn't create the pain... ever. You were confused as a kid bc you were just BEING and you were told that was bad.. so that confusion of 'well how can I be?' How can I fit in with others and not be judged? This fixation on 'what do others think of me' is still there. So you see through that lens. So now that relational wound pops up when you get close to what you need or maybe if you get "more" than you are suppose to. You have to start to listen to the stories that pop up that you assume or believe other people are thinking... if I have that then I'm bad... that's the voice of your early on environment.. not your own voice.. when you recognize it, this is where you mind the gap. Look to nature. No tree is selfish to get what it needs. No flower is selfish. Does this make sense?
@RealityTrailers11 ай бұрын
All facts are based on and in imagination ❤❤❤
@AbbyRuston11 ай бұрын
They definitely start there and the only way to break out is to get our body on board with whatever new vision we see for ourselves! They gotta go together or neither can go!
@eversogaza549111 ай бұрын
You are really magnetic
@AbbyRuston11 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for the kind words! You see in me what is also in you 😊
@Broken2Bright8 ай бұрын
6:50 this is where I get stuck
@quantum_man10 ай бұрын
This is Brilliant Abby. You have cracked.the code and explain it so well. God Bless and thank you! ❤
@magda243511 ай бұрын
Your videos always appear when I need them the most ❤
@AbbyRuston11 ай бұрын
So happy to hear it! The universe always has your back!
@magda243511 ай бұрын
@@AbbyRuston so true Abby
@AbbyRuston11 ай бұрын
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@JaatSorout-e6m10 ай бұрын
Well my subconscious is giving me best way how to impress it😂❤you break it very beautifully love it❤❤❤i got it❤❤
@AbbyRuston10 ай бұрын
So glad you enjoyed it! thanks for watching and taking the time to share this with me!
@tangonline810 ай бұрын
Abby you have a gorgeous heart ❤
@AbbyRuston10 ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind words! Always remember, you see in others what is also in you!
@lamarnazar989311 ай бұрын
Appreciate it. Thank you.
@AbbyRuston11 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for watching! Glad you enjoyed it!
@johnnyjohnjohn421611 ай бұрын
Hi Abby, please could you read How to Hack Reality by Philip Bailey and do a video review of it? Its a short book, but powerful. I think it's the best thing ever written on manifestation and even makes Neville's stuff 'click'. It just makes so much sense. I think your viewers would get a lot out of it, i know i did!
@mariamerchant37310 ай бұрын
Thank you after reading your comment I got the book today. Have just started reading it.
@johnnyjohnjohn421610 ай бұрын
@@mariamerchant373 Hi Maria, oh lovely! I hope you experience the same shift in consciousness as I did. Things rang true to me and fell into place. I'd love to know your thoughts.
@mariamerchant37310 ай бұрын
@@johnnyjohnjohn4216 thank you so much. If you feel comfortable can you share what things clicked for you. I will share my insight after I finish reading. Once again I thank you for being kind enough to share something that helped you with others!
@johnnyjohnjohn421610 ай бұрын
@@mariamerchant373 it's my pleasure! I always had trouble with the wording of 'feeling' your wish fulfilled, which is easy to confuse with 'emotions'. But really, after reading and listening to many convoluted explanations of this, when you get right down to it, they're all trying to say the same thing; you've got to just KNOW it. I.e. what would it 'feel' like to know you had $5 million in the bank? Apart from feeling good, safe, secure... there's that subtle little simple feeling of just knowing it lol Like you know the sky is blue. That doesnt take any effort. And its hardly a feeling at all. So its more like a decision that you make. You just decide that you are going to get what you desire and thats that. You know it. Then the anticipation part of it draws it to the Now. Exactly like how you manifest things in a lucid dream, if you have ever had experience of that. That's exactly how it works. You dont will it, force it, dont have to believe it. You just know it and anticipate its arival, knowing that it will. The analogy of knowing a parcel is going to be delivered today was really key for me; its not even in question, the couriers website says its left the depot, on its way right now. You dont know when it'll get here but you know the 'moment is drawing closer', any minute now, maybe right this second! Simply imagining it as if it had already happened is just daydreaming, pretty much indistinguishable from mere fantasy, no matter how detailed the visualisation is . What makes it different? What is that subtle nuance? Well, you KNOW it is a reality. Its decided. It is done. And to get over the paradox of knowing something that hasn't manifested itself quite yet, you are 'anticipating its immanent arrival'. A belief has no time element, is a perpetual carrot on a stick as he says. Knowing its a done deal and anticipating its arrival draws it to the Now. I've had several serendipitous encounters after embodying this new mindset, which i wont get into. But it works, absolutely.
@mariamerchant37310 ай бұрын
@@johnnyjohnjohn4216 @johnnyjohnjohn4216 thank you for writing at length. What all you wrote was like revising what I've just read. Was more keen on knowing about implications in your life but you mentioned serendipitous encounters which you don't want to get into details, that actually I was keem on knowing but i respect your decision in not wanting to share. Thanks!