How I decoded “feeling is the secret” and stopped being abandoned

[@yoXneo]

My mind is blown! This makes so much sense as to how manifesting works and how it’s not a trying process. That our job is to become emotionally available to us and build a sense of trust and safety for ourselves and then we attract because we feel safe to take action ands go for what we desire! 🤯 amazing breakdown Abby!

[@greyberet1]

I’m a little puzzled by your remark about your mind being “brown”…? At first I thought it might have been a typo, but then a quick glance at my iPhone keyboard showed that the keys for the “r” and “l” seem too far apart for it to have been so; just curious…

[@yoXneo]

@@greyberet1 lmfao it was blown thank you for making me aware of it. I'm on my tablet

[@greyberet1]

@@yoXneo Cheers, a good chuckle 😆!

[@AbbyRuston]

@@greyberet1 😂😂 This was fun to follow along with.. sometimes ya never know until you ask 😂😂 thanks for being so kind and sweet to each other! 🥹

[@AbbyRuston]

@@yoXneo 😂😂

[@GSAlchemy]

We know you’re the real deal, Abby♥️

[@AbbyRuston]

🥹🙌🏼🙂 thank you! Always doing my best to keep it real! It’s the only way to actually create change!

[@silverback7783]

Holy S. i can tell you did find this stuff out the hard way like me Abby.❤ Did you ever get a healthy relationship i hope so, u deserve it you have done so much work on yourself...

[@piek359]

This is gold! How do we forgive the anger of being raised that way? I understand it and I even have a good relationship with them but, on some level I’m mad I have to do all this work to reverse that programming

[@lauramolisho2715]

This was too good ❤

[@AbbyRuston]

🥹🙏 Thank you very much for your words and taking the time to share them with me. So glad you enjoyed it and you liked it! Firing me up to go make more 🏃🏻‍♀️--

[@poppy5986]

Hi Abby, thank you for this really insightful video. It explains in easy to understand language Neville Goddard’s work, which can be hard to decipher sometimes 😊 . I particularly liked the explanation of ‘feeling’, as my interpretation was the same as your initial idea. Looking forward to the money version of this. Thank you ❤

[@AbbyRuston]

Thank you for taking time out of your day to share your experience and thoughts. I really appreciate your kind words and very happy to hear the video helped! Will expand more on the money aspect in a future video or possible a live soon!

[@nicolemazur8527]

Absolutely wonderful!

[@AbbyRuston]

Thanks so much for the love! So glad you enjoyed it! 🙌🏼

[@nikamazur6763]

Abby, you amazing, thank you!

[@AbbyRuston]

🙏🙌🏼

[@acmb6763]

Another amazing video… I’ve been doing this work for years AND therapy, and your explanation is so amazing! And what to do and how to sooth yourself is just incredible. Thank you for helping so many people ❤❤❤❤

[@superactive8220]

Great explanation 😢❤❤

[@silverback7783]

I think it maybe is both you can think your way to it, feel your way to, or act your way to it. But you will understand it better by feeling your way to it. Second by thinking your way to it. Third by acting your way to it, typically.

[@Jsla25]

This explains so much, thank you Abby ❤

[@AbbyRuston]

🥳🥳🥳🥳 love to hear that! Hope it breaks down and shifts any limiting perceptions!!

[@Jsla25]

@@AbbyRuston100%- it also explains my money paradigm as I perceived love and money as ‘resources’ 🤯 ❤

[@magda2435]

Yes there’s a lot of bs. You are a total exception ❤

[@lisaw6219]

Instead of thinking "of it" you have to think "from it" energically.

[@ImGodExperiencingItself]

Love you Abby❤❤. My consciousness to yours❤❤.

[@AbbyRuston]

So much love to you. Thank you for your kindness and time to share it with me 🙏❤️

[@ImGodExperiencingItself]

@@AbbyRustonLove you

[@ImGodExperiencingItself]

@@AbbyRuston I spiritualy awoke in 2017, I love you and your channel .

[@ImGodExperiencingItself]

I awoke in 2017 also, much love to you

[@silverback7783]

The Alchemist has some cool ideas on manifesting...

[@AbbyRuston]

Its been years since I've read it, so maybe this is the perfect sign I need to give it another read! Thanks for the message!

[@silverback7783]

​@AbbyRuston oh I meant the alchemist you tube channel. Never read that book, yet.

[@lotusbreeze6229]

Abby what is your availability? Is there a wait-list

[@AbbyRuston]

Currently I have some spots still available this week!

[@lotusbreeze6229]

@@AbbyRuston will I see availability after I fill out questions? I wasn't sure how it worked

[@AbbyRuston]

@@lotusbreeze6229 I will email you and we will coordinate to find a day and time!

[@greyberet1]

My understanding of this is that in using the word “feeling”, Neville means a sensation, probably transitory, that needs to be frequently experienced and directed towards a desired“ state of being” as a permanent emotional state in which one would be were that person’s situation already as desired. This is the function of the conscious mind, to frequently imagine being in the desired situation, in order to gradually get the person in such a frame of mind. Just saying that’s my take on this…

[@AbbyRuston]

Thank you for sharing your take! My take is that Sensation isn't the function of the the conscious mind, it's the language of the subconscious which is what runs everyones life. The conscious mind can't feel a feeling(sensation).. it can only think of a feeling or have a memory of that moment of the past when a feeling was experienced.. both are think OF it. What I'm sharing is how to create a shift at the level of consciousness which Neville said is the only place of true change.. the feelings, the assumptions, self concept and exercises are all tools in an attempt to upgrade the consciousness. So this video breaks down how people can do that so that feeling the feeling is automatic and natural.

[@silverback7783]

Feelings are real many men struggle with this concept, I know I do.... But I see how it can be seen both ways, one from a more masculine view and another from a more feminine view. But, yes what formed the first feeling came from a greater innocence from when you were younger, or maybe an even greater innocence from another life... it spirals more into the metaphysical at this point, especially if you don't remember a past life. I simply observe and piece together what I can with thinking, which is a very male way of doing things, yet I am a male, that is aware that I am a male, and is becoming aware of what females actually are, and since I do I tap into a lot of female stuff. It is easier for me because I literally have six sister's, and I talk to all of them. I visit their (what to me is a strange world, but it is a beautiful world with and we help each other. Different people will have different abilities to deal with metaphysical thoughts. Me from a early age even to this day, I have been very religious and spiritual at the same time. I believed in everything from an idealistic thought perspective while also feeling everything at the same. I still do it on some level, so it is very interesting... I am seldom bored, it is like a rabbit hole that never ends.

[@silverback7783]

So basically i have to stop feeling like i need to earn my wifes love. In reality she has it for me or she doesn't and she mostly doesnt..😂😂😂 i have my own love on the inside so no need to chase it on the outside.

[@goddessglow6996]

Love yourself first the rest will follow

[@silverback7783]

@goddessglow6996 Dude, I actually remember where I was the first time I realized this. Like, oh sh-t... MAYBE I need to figure out how to love myself first... It is a spark, but it takes a lot of development to fan that spark into a flame.

[@silverback7783]

Your basically describing what causes codependency on one video this could save some thousands in therapy sessions...

[@AbbyRuston]

It's amazing how much its part of most peoples lives and creates so much suffering. The more I learn and heal from it, the better I feel. I always thought the better feelings would come from finding the perfect relationship, but really I was looking for the relationship with myself the entire time.. WHICH is the gateway to connecting deeply with another!

[@silverback7783]

@AbbyRuston Well, I really appreciate your work, Abby; because you're helping people to understand and clear some of these blockages that you have cleared for yourself. I could read Neville for years like I did Ruiz and not get it all on my own. It took me years of constantly going back to my Ruiz books to even understand what he was talking about because I had so many family, religion, and just societial along with the media and advertisers and controlled oppositional politics and really just our entire societal system creates blockages, if you as an individual get infected by one of them, which is very easy to do, and it is also way easier to just live with them then to face them. But like it really is a kind of hell or fog that he describes in his books, it is as if religion left us a few clues just to bait the hook then society re-baits the the fish hook and shoves on us, and people are hooked on ot... You have to find your own positive vibe outside the negative thought forces in the world and basically just vibe yourself out of it. It is very much like the hell the five major reigions describe (the funny part is each religion has their own version of hell and some versions are stronger tha other ones), or it is like the matrix (The last matrix movie ends with Neo and Trinity getting stuck in matrix again and then getting back out), so the maya never ends for anyone until it ends for you on an individual level. I have kids, so I have a lot of incentive to like figure everything out so they have someone to pattern off of, so they are not stuck on some level.

[@silverback7783]

@@AbbyRuston the only question is do you take the risk of connecting to someone else or do you stay single.... I wish I knew for 100 percent. I guess sometimes you just take the leap... one door closes than another opens...