How I Like To Treat Other People.

[@kevincastellanos-fc9ni]

As someone in customer service it´s nice when, after a long call helping out a customer, they ask me in the end for my name so they can say "Thank you, Kevin have a good day."

[@s.j.5810]

Thank you Kevin. I hope you have a good day tomorrow.

[@Vlabar]

I treat others the way I want to be treated. Learned that from my King.

[@willj4179]

You Are Welcome. :-)

[@AusDenBergen]

Buy an ad.

[@TomIsTrying]

We need the golden rule like we’ve never needed it before ❤

[@waterpolostr17]

Jocko trying to shame Echo for liking save by the bell is hilarious!

[@Mason-wk2kg]

These thumbnails are getting stranger

[@trickslies844]

Getting a bit desperate

[@Spychu1993]

@@trickslies844 it starts to look bad...

[@Alritealritealrite]

​@@trickslies844How do you jump to that conclusion?

[@PrometheusPrime-u5f]

Whats wrong with president Camacho?

[@trickslies844]

@@Alritealritealrite I mean click bait isn't exactly something new on YT and these daily views seem to be getting a bit dire

[@jzen1455]

I’m with Jocko. I HATE it when people I barely know constantly uses my name. It feels manipulative to me, but I’m hyper-sensitive to all the Cluster B red flags.

[@s.j.5810]

Yeah, I'd let that go man. It's not that serious.

[@DouglasRamirez-dj7sd]

When I meet new will use their name several times. It's a memory trick. When you first meet someone, you use their name and it helps to implant the face to the name.

[@lwelk273]

in my departure from the Navy - ended up in the 90's working some 9 years in the nightclub business. As a manager - always took care of folks like Echo that supported me and the club so folks could have a good time. In our "home" - I had always been calm when asking someone or advising them they needed to leave. When most of them would look at me or say something to escalate - I would always advise them NOT to strike me in my home. If they do - they will not make it out alive. Crazy stories over 9 years but so can relate to the convo today. Overall - we welcomed some 4K through our doors over the explosion of country music in the 90's. Best gentleman to you!

[@PioneerPauly]

I think saying a name is related to being comfortable, and if you're trying to put emphasis on a delivery

[@davesackenheim2937]

Echo Charles is such a good guy

[@PrometheusPrime-u5f]

that is a badass video preview image

[@KellyWestgate]

Hello from Centcal. I was taught by my parents that you always treat people with respect and kindness. If I see a name I use their name at the end of interaction when thanking them for what ever they have done. My father always told me that you always treat people respectfully even those that can do nothing for you.

[@immortaltyger1569]

Time for us to hear about the crazy stories Echo has from that doorman job.

[@ronnie_5150]

I give Echo as much credit for being a bouncer as Jocko for being a SEAL. There is nothing worse than being around drunks as when you are sober. 😁

[@Rob-gx7rx]

i give this advice to people who want job interview tips all the time; never say "sir" more than once, but always say it once - either at the beginning of the meeting or the end.

[@michaelbuell3711]

Luke 6:31-36 "Do to others as you would have them do to you. If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them. And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners do that. And if you lend to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, expecting to be repaid in full. But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful."

[@nateshepardson1204]

Echo having a lot of fun with these thumbnails 😂

[@ballan00]

I always try to remember and greet/thank people using their names... but never repeat it more than once w/in a conversation. I think back to the bouncer example that Echo was talking about. We used to frequent a very "happening" club back when I was in my 20's. The bouncer who worked there was a local PO making extra money working the club. I always greated him by name and made small talk with him... basically treated him like a friend. After a few visits he would always just let my friends and I into the VIP section even though we didn't pay him or show up with a bunch of hot chicks. I never asked him for anything.

[@42cmiller]

This relates to an interaction I had with a couple at work yesterday…. This couple introduced themselves via their names, called me by my name (via name tag) and thus proceeded to order their drinks. Being in the service industry, hospitality and building rapport play an important part in what I do. To me though the name intro out the gate took me by surprise. I felt like I used their names too much. Albeit unexpected and somewhat awkward (considering I referred to them by their first names too often) it led to an excellent experience during their time with me at the bar.

[@seemssafe2995]

These thumbnails are the beginning of the end for Jocko.. Straying away from where this all started.

[@beefysupreme]

whats wrong with the thumbnail

[@ryangrout2427]

It’s literally just echo having some fun, grow up😂

[@Silverghost992]

Jocko looking like an 80s pro wrestler in the thumb nail. 💪

[@TheNavalAviator]

Naw he looks like an ancient king.

[@AusDenBergen]

Lord Steven Regal

[@ezekielonezero3955]

King jokko looks dope

[@Doodlefisher]

“Hello Jerry….hello Newman” - Seinfeld

[@dezzdinn]

Okay fellas who roll with Jocko you heard him he likes when you say his name plenty of times. 👍😁

[@Raptured_and_back]

In sales you learn saying their name makes most people feel more important. Im one of those people who sees through the 'repeating name' trick because i used to use it when i sold door to door.

[@thundergrace]

thanks for your service....

[@theendlezzz4867]

Rise and grind

[@aurumbuilingcorp]

Sometimes I think it helps to feel more personal with someone to use their name when you great them. Might help establish a better relationship with people. Can definitely agree tho it could be over used

[@rblbatb]

Saved by the Bell was a cool kids show back in the day.

[@Lucysmom26]

I think it's right that there might be two types of people regarding this issue. For myself I'm like Jocko, I *always* notice it when people say my name like that, kinda jamming it in where it doesn't naturally fit - especially if they do it repeatedly. I find that highly awkward and it immediately makes me suspicious that they want something or are trying to sell me something. Interesting because a friend in sales told me he was advised to do it, that it makes people feel good and important. Again I guess it just depends on the person? Cuz it just makes me feel weird.

[@jovertmalayan5864]

Jocko is the new king Kong!😊

[@Geels937]

thanks for the good podcast. edited my other opinions, keep my thoughts to myself when it's a risk of being a nuisance.

[@MarchOfTheWarrior27000km]

Buhahaha I got a guy I met during my ruck across North America. He swindled my number out of me. Now every time he texts me he’s uses my name in the texts " Hey Marcus J " but long form super strange 😂😂 i admit I blocked him 😂😂😂

[@sauliuspaurazas]

Saved by the bell- we used to watch it in Lithuania, also ;) :D

[@MissJen-78]

There are many books explaining the benefits of using one’s name in conversation.

[@LeSpiduh-Mon]

Do you have one that you recommend?

[@MissJen-78]

@@LeSpiduh-Mon My fave :How to win friends and influence people.

[@michaelpetrus19]

30+ years in the nightclub business I can tell you that you can learn volumes about a person just from their response to a warm greeting. On the same token, you can learn if those in the service business in any capacity hate their jobs when they address the customer as chief or boss. How can I help you boss?..............lol.................I think they call that passive-aggressive

[@brianbachmeier34]

Excellent

[@harryv6752]

That thumbnail is so metal! 🤘

[@briankelm]

Replay!! Great thought-provoking message.

[@fusionsoul]

TIL Echo is a huge Saved By the Bell fan 😂

[@Jimminityjabooboo]

These thumbnails on fleek

[@lylebaierlein419]

I'm horrible at remembering people's names, I spent quite a few years meeting hundreds of new people almost every night of the week. So if we meet and say or use your name a few times it's only because I'm trying to commit it to my memory so I don't upset you by forgetting it.

[@Thedude-fp3qm]

I have worked as a doorman and a driver for a hotel and I must say I find it strange when someone I don’t know calls me by my name. I’m like I don’t know you call me sir

[@rawlinjohnson3055]

I think the main reason people use someone’s name so much is because they read a really popular book called “How to win friends and influence people” by Dale Carnegie. It literally teaches you to use someone’s name a lot when talking to them. I agree with Jocko, it seems a little bit weird.

[@chrisoys2746]

There’s nuances to how to execute it effectively. Like all things there are excesses, that actually diminish the value of. I believe Dale’s point is make the attempt to develop a human connection. Use of their name can be the catalyst .

[@jose.rvmirez]

I can’t find the full episode in the underground site. Any help?

[@maxdavies5776]

In 2005 every second product in the shops had max written on it. Then I went into the chemist and a guy said it's U. I said what. He said the guy on the pack. I said what. He showed me a hair dye packet and it was me on the pack. Service. I'm usually pretty good. So are staff. We all have bad days.

[@CopyCatGarage]

I currently work Retail. and when someone gives me their name... I use it.otherwise it's Brother, bossman, and the like. And I like it when someone takes the time to see my name badge and calls me by name.

[@Skatelifefool]

I like the new thumbnails

[@R.Tafolla]

Echo Charles having fun with the thumbnails haha

[@FoXWoR]

great vid!

[@thatomofolo452]

Extreme ownership 🎉🎊🎉

[@KL-os2sr]

Name calling… It’s a way to control

[@s.j.5810]

Or maybe to simply call someone's attention...

[@Doodlefisher]

Saying someone’s name is a sign of respect but excessively is to direct and shows obsessiveness.

[@Sun-d7x]

hoi hoi hoi I would believe. I confirm it's true. Good choice now. --------------------------------- yeah

[@Sun-d7x]

Hey, one more to think off. The heavy mental jailbrake machine.

[@ktinsley4579]

The only dude in the USA that doesn't know about saved by the bell. Kelly kapowski!

[@grynszpanful]

Thumbnails seems a little bit off.

[@simonedatola3353]

New Jocko video Is out, let's fucking go

[@dezzdinn]

What when!?

[@Johnzen03]

Now listen here, Jocko. You leave Saved By the Bell out of this, Jocko. Y'ear me, Jocko?

[@dezzdinn]

A bouncer!? I thought Echoes brother looked familiar! 😁

[@greendragonok]

Im guilty of it but using someone's name without telling them can be problematic

[@greendragonok]

Even if your complimenting them

[@pbdm43]

Good Morning Gentleman

[@canyoncajun]

Mornin

[@LeSpiduh-Mon]

👋🏾 ☕️

[@PrometheusPrime-u5f]

define gentle, I think if one gently throws a grenade at you you know, sure it's gentle buuuuut

[@thatomofolo452]

​@@PrometheusPrime-u5f Alpha male ☝️

[@poorlittlebiker6476]

Good morning

[@jc-tu6pg]

It's manipulative to say someone's name repeatedly

[@thatomofolo452]

Meaning

[@thatomofolo452]

Jocko said it seems weird ☝️

[@thatomofolo452]

It's a bit awkward 😮

[@BrandonCook1999]

Poo poo pee pee

[@matthewsaintcyr746]

As someone who has worked in the service industry for many years, it does feel weird when people you've just met do it repeatedly in a short amount of time. Like if I introduced myself and they introduce themselves back and use my name, that's fine. But then when they use it every time I talk to them, it starts to feel weird.

[@dezzdinn]

Bro… 7 years is a long time to be a bouncer 😮.

[@Nonamethankyou128]

Buddy, idk if these thumbnails are helping to get the views back up.

[@JDPresident]

That was weird.

[@EloyMatana]

Keep widgeting

[@leroygreen8629]

Calling my name at the end of every sentence. That could be a form of manipulation starting.

[@Spychu1993]

Jocko, please listen carefully (or Echo). Those click baity thumbnails are NOT making this channel better. You will be misunderstood in a bad way by those who don't know you. So Why do it? Please go back to black and white, honest video titles. I really hope that the message and being truthful is more important than amount of views. I don't know whether you hired someone to make thunmbnails but the job is done badly. Please let this channel stay professional like it is. Maybe I am over reacting, but maybe not. I can somehow see small, slightly, early signs when once a great YT channel starts to lose its uniqueness and original style. Stay on the path brothers and don't use clickbaity, childish thumbnails, becuase those who don't know you will assume automatically you're just another commentary channel. Sorry for my english

[@JohnDoe-fv2qk]

Good.

[@nickday1770]

Nah the thumbnails are describing the lesson and how it makes you look to act in those ways .

[@nateshepardson1204]

It seems to echo Echo's style. Pretty sure he's doing it. I get your point, but I enjoy them.

[@jeremybrimmer1990]

KZbin

[@josephpapisan9491]

I gotta agree with you. Ai art is great for memes and laughs, but I on the same token it belies the gravity I associate with Jocko and his videos.

[@larkmars8182]

As a waitress i love this 7:23

[@Alaelify]

Kkkkkkkkk there are no limits for these thumbnails

[@Valkyrie11b]

Loving these thumbnails lmao, its like a whole chronology

[@dawnmarshall1290]

Definitely surprising to hear your name from a stranger. You know they're trying to ingratiate themselves..strange .

[@Veteran_Nerd]

Having worked retail and restaurants for 20+ years, I can tell you most people just plain suck haha

[@TBN_24_Lucas]

@7:57 I think I might be a little bit... looks down at shirt with name on it, L o L

[@clonecammandoblue]

jocko definitely likes saying echos name LMFAO

[@The_lastman]

The thumbnails are funny and cool. If you don’t like them you’re lame.

[@doubleHLabs]

Jocko said my name! weird

[@GozarianGozar]

People who use names all the time sound like used car salesman.

[@rawboostvideos]

The craziest thumbnail yet 😂😂😂

[@bettybunbun9664]

So hes just not going to talk about the assassination attempt? Ok.

[@gravelmuncher5379]

what is sleep

[@PrometheusPrime-u5f]

sleep is staying up for 3 years straight while injecting caffeine into your eye balls

[@LunkvanTrunk]

you can hear much breathing into the mic in this episode

[@anxen]

When people say my name I automatically think I'm in trouble 😅

[@RickyHoliday]

8:00

[@PrometheusPrime-u5f]

so ummm, uhhh, what was this about? mother goose advice? I got lost between Zack Morri's cell phone, AC Slater's dance moves and manipulative pressure salves pitches

[@dwise1972]

The name thing in customer service used to be a script back in the 90's. It was supposed to make the customer feel individualized on a phone call.

[@smeyely]

Dont change the thumbnails pls😭😭😭😂😂

[@InterstellarG0]

🐜🤝🫡🗽🎧

[@greendragonok]

Ibask their name even if they have a name tag

[@miklossethnikolajsen3198]

A bad loser only get mad not better

[@ETHANR26]

The name thing is literally a tactic for ingratiating yourself with others.. dunno that you can really be oversensitive to tactical crowbars

[@ETHANR26]

them tsa agents mean tho

[@l3joint]

Please fire whos making these thumbnails

[@Koryoswolfspirit]

The AI art has gotta stop. Enough is enough Echo

[@RobertAnthony___zz]

Hallelujah!!! I’m blessed and favored with $60,000 every week! Now I can afford anything and support the work of God and the church. For Your glory, LORD! HALLELUJAH!

[@JenniferLyn1919]

Oh really? Tell me more! Always interested in hearing stories of successes.

[@RobertAnthony___zz]

This is what Ana Graciela Blackwelder does, she has changed my life.

[@RobertAnthony___zz]

After raising up to 60k trading with her, I bought a new house and car here in the US and also paid for my son’s (Oscar) surgery. Glory to God.shalom.

[@MatthewDaniel3]

I know Ana Graciela Blackwelder, and I have also had success...

[@MatthewDaniel3]

Absolutely! I have heard stories of people who started with little or no knowledge but managed to emerge victorious thanks to Ana Graciela Blackwelder.

[@Leo-nxt]

Echo just in love with A.I. thumbnails 😅

[@svenferreira7176]

These thumbnails are wild! Lol

[@mr.tree.6967]

Who let unc use AI 💀

[@moscowcowboy_13]

At some point in the past few years my name has been changed to "Sir", at least from liberal women. They love saying this word with a bit of annoyance and disgust in their voice, almost dismissively.

[@LOWKEYDANGER]

I hate Ai thumbnails

[@PrometheusPrime-u5f]

I would put it on a 24x37

[@nateshepardson1204]

I enjoy them

[@TammyKnipe-r7h]

Hahahah isnt that show for 12 year olds hahahah😅