how I LOST 40LBS of fat by ROMANTICIZING my weight loss journey (& eat whatever i want)

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Mae Alice Suzuki

Mae Alice Suzuki

Күн бұрын

how i lost 40lbs of fat while building muscle, got a six-pack, cured my binge eating, chronic dieting and stopped food noise in a few short months through ROMANTICIZING my weight loss transformation journey. i hope my story can inspire and help you 🤍 (btw i’m 5’3!)
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chapters:
0:00 - intro
1:12 - I did more than manifesting
2:37 - visualizing
3:24 - weight loss hypnosis
5:08 - find a new “obsession”
5:33 - LET yourself lose weight
6:38 - physics
7:26 - skinny traits
8:47 - stop lying
9:25 - abundance mindset
11:04 - do NOT punish yourself
11:34 - calorie “value”
12:43 - gut health
13:54 - all-you-can-eat buffets…
14:34 - pedestal
15:15 - eating habits
16:30 - protein
17:40 - gym as a lifestyle
19:07 - how to get abs
19:57 - permanent results
21:02 - be aware of any illness
tags: lose weight fast, cure ED, recovery, diets, keto, carnivore, intermittent fasting, fat loss, learn habits, gym workouts, fit lifestyle, gym life, heal relationship with food, self-improvement, self development, work on myself, weight loss journey, skinny habits, thin people traits, law of thermodynamics, calculate bmr, healthy calories, eat more protein, heal gut health, lose weight permanently, weight loss motivation, weight loss diet, weight loss transformation, how to get abs, get six pack abs, body recomposition
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@ariamrethse.
@ariamrethse. Ай бұрын
Eat like a queen, workout like a warrior. This analogy works for me, romanticize my life as if I were in a royal movie hahaha
@carterjunction7158
@carterjunction7158 Ай бұрын
I absolutely love this idea!❤
@artsumu
@artsumu Ай бұрын
omg fr
@hannahjoy8623
@hannahjoy8623 Ай бұрын
This is such a great framing, thanks for sharing!!
@aliciaboxill4405
@aliciaboxill4405 Ай бұрын
❤ oh my I love this
@aysxa00
@aysxa00 Ай бұрын
i love this so much, i'm keeping this quote as a reminder!
@reneereadss
@reneereadss Ай бұрын
The person I want to be: -she doesn’t obsess over exercise but remains active in her life. -she eats clean foods that she’s learned to love but treats herself to sweets because life is still too short. -she guards her peace and aloneness but still makes time for friends and family. -she’s okay with failing because she knows she can pick herself up. She’s me, I hope in the future.
@8jaime8
@8jaime8 Ай бұрын
I’d be careful about viewing sweets as a treat. In fact, when you think about what the ingredients in them and what they do to the body, it’s the opposite of treating yourself well. Maybe view it as variety. You can have them if you feel like it, but you deserve better than to put too much junk like that in your body. I’m not trying to criticise what you wrote. It’s just meant to be helpful, because reframing this stuff is tricky - and a lot of overweight people struggle to give up their ‘treats’ because it makes them feel deprived. It’s one of the topics Mae covered. Hope that makes sense.
@XOChristianaNicole
@XOChristianaNicole Ай бұрын
“She’s me, I hope on the future.” Hope is dependent on circumstance - it’s total BS. If you desire something - fully commit and have faith, in yourself. “In the future” Why not now? If you want something, in the future - it’ll always be just that. In the future. Live in the present, doll. That doesn’t imply doing everything you stated perfectly, now - though, know that you already ARE that person you envision, NOW, and this is the process to it all playing it out and coming forth.
@AdmCornFlake
@AdmCornFlake Ай бұрын
@@8jaime8 Nah, this aint it toward people who have EDs. It is absolutely okay to treat yourself and call it that. They're treats precisely because they're not meant to be a staple anyway, it's engrained in the word. Not sure what point you're trying to make with that distinction. Anyway, let's not demonize sugar. It causes a blood sugar spike, but most bodies are fully adapted and equipped to deal with this, though the effect is particularly negated if you eat your sweet shortly after a proper meal. This is because the sugar is absorbed slower from being mixed in with other stuff and the blood sugar rise cannot be considered dramatic, even with refined sugars. Anyway, we need a certain amount of sugar to function to begin with. Going slightly above that isn't gonna make you break out, fat, etc. So don't make people feel guilt over this, please.
@isabellal2840
@isabellal2840 Ай бұрын
YOU CAN DO IT
@MimiNwabuokuMD
@MimiNwabuokuMD Ай бұрын
I have a feeling that you have just described your NOW. You are fabulous ❤
@Moshm4n
@Moshm4n 2 ай бұрын
I'm 6'3. Over 5 years, I went from 387-lbs down to being in the 190's today. The single largest mental change I had to make was rearranging my schema around food. When I was a kid, food was often used as a reward, or had while doing other fun activities, like playing video games or watching movies. Food, in my mind, was fun. I ate to have fun. The conditioning that shaped my associations around it was such that they weren't much different than perceptions around recreational drugs and drinking. Food was effectively a drug for me. I ate to have fun, but I also ate to numb emotional pain. I can go to the store and get my nice fun in a box rather than sit with uncomfortable feelings. And there's a build up of emotional debt with that. Doing the weight-loss for myself was nice in that I feel and look much better, but it led me to fix a lot of problems in my head too.
@MintuKBorah
@MintuKBorah 2 ай бұрын
Congrats 🎉
@starlvs
@starlvs 2 ай бұрын
same. Food always made me happy so whenever I was sad or bored I would eat it. Thank god I’ve finally rewired my brain lol
@mochalatte8202
@mochalatte8202 2 ай бұрын
Congrats on your success. I hope to have the same mental change I am struggling
@kirstysteele3764
@kirstysteele3764 2 ай бұрын
Same mate ❤
@zitjednoduse
@zitjednoduse 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for your story. But WHAT did you do, that you change your mental state?
@LucidSunset
@LucidSunset 2 ай бұрын
Lying to ourselves is a huge issue. And ppl lie that they aren't lying to themselves.
@arianaperez626
@arianaperez626 2 ай бұрын
Right
@sam634
@sam634 2 ай бұрын
@@theultimatereductionist7592 lucidsunset never said anything about what everyone else thinks he just made a general statement which is mostly true
@sumiha
@sumiha Ай бұрын
@@theultimatereductionist7592i dont think they meant it in a general way (eg: EVERYONE lies to themselves) but what LucidSunset said was true, thats why people struggle with addiction and binge-eating. You do have a point but you missed their point in the process..
@cyberspace7208
@cyberspace7208 Ай бұрын
Exactly
@minminlala9262
@minminlala9262 Ай бұрын
@@theultimatereductionist7592they didn’t use the word everyone
@bean1731
@bean1731 2 ай бұрын
You are SO REAL for this. The two that stuck out to me are: find an exercise that you enjoy doing, and make sure you only eat foods you enjoy. I love walking, so I’ve made walking my hobby. I bought cute pink walking shoes, and I just walk and walk while enjoying the fresh air. I do at least 10k steps per day, usually more. And I’ve stopped overeating because I only eat foods that I actually love! I fell in love with eating yummy, nourishing foods. Sometimes I'll eat something unhealthy and I usually regret it because my tummy hurts after!
@itsshaytime487
@itsshaytime487 Ай бұрын
Congratulations on your new YOU! Same for me😊
@iamyou3080
@iamyou3080 Ай бұрын
People SLEEP on walking! That’s how I lost 35 lbs! I walked 10-15k steps 5x a week and it helped tremendously. That with intermittent fasting. Congrats!! 💗💕
@reverse5355
@reverse5355 22 күн бұрын
do you have destination in your walks or other targets that help you walk more?
@Jaejaejaejae-ef7rj
@Jaejaejaejae-ef7rj 13 күн бұрын
@@reverse5355just put on a podcast or music and try to go different routes from time to time if you have the ability. Nature is also often very captivating if you pay attention to it.
@abbycrabbyy
@abbycrabbyy Күн бұрын
YOGA. YOGA. YOGA. i loveeee yoga and ab workouts SO MUCH. when i was younger i wanted to be a gymnast, so these workouts are the closest i feel to one haha! i feel like im playing everytime i do it.
@mashakakusaka
@mashakakusaka 2 ай бұрын
I am Slavic, and in my country and family, leaving food on your plate is considered ungrateful, and as a waste of food. So, as a part of our mentality, I was always told to eat everything, and when I grew up, I figured out that I often overate not because I like junk food or snacking; I wouldn't say I like sweets and stuff. But my biggest problem is to leave the food when I am full. Especially when I moved to the USA with these huge portions at the restaurants. And I felt terrible leaving it on my plate, knowing I paid for it. It took me a while to learn how to listen to myself, and stop when I am not hungry anymore
@itsshaytime487
@itsshaytime487 Ай бұрын
Congratulations, this is a huge accomplishment and should be talked about more!
@missjoblue7992
@missjoblue7992 Ай бұрын
I grew up like that too but as an adult, if I can't finish something then I'll just put it in the fridge for my next meal plus more food if it's not enough
@alketa5081
@alketa5081 Ай бұрын
I get u thats why now i have a binge eating disorder because of that balkan mindset
@redluv123
@redluv123 Ай бұрын
Same with Punjabi culture. And as a kid you have to listen to your elders and parents. I say fuck em now. People in my family like to bully and shame me for “not eating enough.” But now I just know they’re jealous. I love when my waist looks snatched and titties don’t feel heavy and my back no longer hurts 😇
@akulla2
@akulla2 Ай бұрын
yess! It is so hard to give up this habit
@manjotsahota7613
@manjotsahota7613 Ай бұрын
pls never delete this, this is revolutionary
@Burnt2ashes
@Burnt2ashes 14 күн бұрын
What-
@jayymack1993
@jayymack1993 2 ай бұрын
I love when people are HONEST about what they want. I have an aversion towards people who act like Aesthetics don't mean anything, as if everyone doesn't at least have the DESIRE to look good!
@MechPhoenix
@MechPhoenix Ай бұрын
Looking good = feeling good = being healthy
@alexia964
@alexia964 Ай бұрын
@@MechPhoenix no health and attractiveness aren’t necessarily correlated in women
@The_Winsome_Pixie
@The_Winsome_Pixie 15 күн бұрын
@@alexia964I think you look your best when you are your healthiest. Usually when we are healthy we find our mood is boosted. We sleep better. That’s attractive. It’s not about comparing to other people.
@jamaninone2889
@jamaninone2889 Ай бұрын
"Even though we do our best, our best looks different every day." So true and something I never thought about. I would always hold myself to the highest standard and beat myself up for failing
@0trustt
@0trustt 2 ай бұрын
Keeping your gut healthy helps everything else fall into place!
@jamespooler9082
@jamespooler9082 2 ай бұрын
core health mitochondria
@Bunnidove
@Bunnidove 2 ай бұрын
I'm realizing that now... after getting fat and unhealthy. Go figure, but at least now I'll be healthier
@itsshaytime487
@itsshaytime487 Ай бұрын
Sooo true!
@oliviafagin293
@oliviafagin293 Ай бұрын
Slooowly increasing my intake of fiber and prebiotics (especially resistant starch foods) was a GAME changer! A great example of adding good stuff to your diet instead of constantly cutting the "bad" stuff out.
@Southern4ever
@Southern4ever 29 күн бұрын
@@oliviafagin293can you give some examples of those foods hehe thank you trying to get more nutrition in
@plainoolong
@plainoolong 26 күн бұрын
Just "letting yourself lose weight" is so true, I had such a scarcity mindset for a long time, sometimes I wasn't sure when I could afford my next meal, so I would just binge until I made myself sick. Then I quit smoking and drinking, and food took their place too. It's really difficult to throw food away or let myself be a little hungry without binging, but I'm trying every day! I'm really glad to see you had success with similar problems to me
@sophiestanza
@sophiestanza 19 күн бұрын
I also recently quit smoking and drinking but find I have anxiety around social situations now cuz ~what am I going to do??~ Any tips for what keeps you going and staying clean?
@morgantomlinson821
@morgantomlinson821 2 ай бұрын
Omg the craving brain worm is sooooo real IT'S TERRIBLE!! i guess i never directly heard it connected to gut health this way but you're so right
@Tatianarain
@Tatianarain 2 ай бұрын
This is the only video anyone struggling with weight loss needs to watch 😊 it took me years to figure out the points she makes in the video but I’m happy another person will get to watch this n know without suffering longer
@itsshaytime487
@itsshaytime487 Ай бұрын
SAME❤
@jquinn8324
@jquinn8324 Ай бұрын
Her words are just so impactful!
@corvinisnotcarson
@corvinisnotcarson 23 күн бұрын
SAME
@lou15176
@lou15176 2 ай бұрын
I feel like you will have a rich and fulfilling life Mae 😊 not just your attitude and mindset towards food, but life in general. You are very “together” but you also understand you can never know it all. I’m 48 and we are ALWAYS still learning x
@itsshaytime487
@itsshaytime487 Ай бұрын
So true!
@spookysimp
@spookysimp 2 ай бұрын
i completely understand what you mean when you talk about your mom and ‘chronic dieting’. my mom was an avid dieter - and she never did go though with them (they were insane diets!) but i feel very guilty when i start to lose weight and get fit just because she was never able to follow all the way through. its stopped my progress several times
@Sambucha1234
@Sambucha1234 2 ай бұрын
I understand
@aussiejubes
@aussiejubes Ай бұрын
I learned from a young age to diet because my mum was always on one, but damn she succeeded. I never have. She has the most diabolical willpower I've literally ever witnessed. She'd eat nothing but watermelon until she was so hungry she'd allow herself one meal. That was usually every three days lol. Or she'd do the pritikin diet, WW, whatever it was, she'd drop heaps of weight fast through pure steely will. She'd keep it off at least a year usually. Sadly I inherited none of that willpower. Just her unhappiness with how we look.
@DelusionDispeller
@DelusionDispeller Ай бұрын
My mom was a chronic dieter and exerciser. She was religious in following Joannie Greggains and we both worked out with her. These days, I do kickboxing but the workouts are about 12 minutes to burn over 100 calories after breakfast
@almaflexia7236
@almaflexia7236 2 ай бұрын
I'm just keep reminding to myself that cravings≠my desires, it's just my dopamine lvl's gone low and I can treat this without food easily I focused on my true happiness instead of temporary pleasures and it's working pretty well for me 👍i got rid of most of my negative habits already
@itsshaytime487
@itsshaytime487 Ай бұрын
Yes! Nice! Congratulations, I just figured it out too! AND IT FEELS SO GOOD 😊
@almaflexia7236
@almaflexia7236 Ай бұрын
@@itsshaytime487 good for you! it's feels so free not to be a slave to the dopamine...
@portisdead8906
@portisdead8906 Ай бұрын
This is so insightful! I thought I'd heard everything already but something was still missing because I still struggle with cravings often, so seeing this comment helped me revalue my cravings so ty❤
@Kj-gr9fv
@Kj-gr9fv Ай бұрын
Adding on I once read telling yourself, "I can have these foods whenever I want if I want to, helps take back your control." Helped me shift my mindset and not think that it was the last time I was going to have some of my favorite treats.
@DivineHala
@DivineHala 24 күн бұрын
I definitely needed to see this, my cravings don’t equal my desires
@baddiesubs9
@baddiesubs9 2 ай бұрын
MAE this is the best video on weight loss i’ve seen so far
@itsshaytime487
@itsshaytime487 Ай бұрын
Yes💯
@TonyTheTGR
@TonyTheTGR 2 ай бұрын
I've maintained a fairly respectable 165 lbs; but I think what I do differently is that I eat to feel GOOD, not to FEEL FULL. If I feel full/bloated, that means I've eaten too much. I eat enough that I'm not hungry or likely to be hungry for the next say, 3-4 hours, and just call it. Fear/Guilt/Shame of "wasting food" is another thing to avoid, it's an emotional manipulation - usually pushed by parents in your childhood - that is a complete non-issue that needs to be let go of.
@ragel1486
@ragel1486 Ай бұрын
The Okinawans have a saying that basically translates to “8 of 10”, essentially this principle, with food. And there must be something to it - they are one of the Blue Zones! 😊
@itsshaytime487
@itsshaytime487 Ай бұрын
Yes💯
@trianglesandsquares420
@trianglesandsquares420 Ай бұрын
Lol, I do the opposite, eat to feel full, not continue eating to feel good. But I vibe with the spirit of what you're saying!
@Nikthehermit
@Nikthehermit 29 күн бұрын
The hunger signals can be wildly different in men compared to women
@syd2765
@syd2765 Ай бұрын
THIS. THIS is actually sooo realistic and one of the most helpful weight loss videos I’ve ever seen!!
@Kidrobot016
@Kidrobot016 2 ай бұрын
Im literally snacking while watching this and going, "Idont need this whole bag." This was really neat way to look at weight loss. Good job!
@EcstaticTeaTime
@EcstaticTeaTime 2 ай бұрын
Hey, fellow snacker here: it really helps me to have a bowl that just barely fits a serving of a snack. I got mine at an Asian grocery store but if you go into a regular store and look at the condiment dishes, you should be able to find one that's about half a cup. This will hold a serving of cheezits. Many serving sizes for snackish foods are about the same size. I would measure it out at least the first time, put the bag away, and walk off to eat the snack away from the kitchen so it takes longer to get back to it/doesn't feel like it is worth the effort to go back for more. And there is nothing wrong with going back for more, just a reminder that each snack bowl is a serving towards your overall intake.
@Kidrobot016
@Kidrobot016 2 ай бұрын
@EcstaticTeaTime The crazy part is my wife has those exact cups at home. I've never used them, but I will now. I usually do intermittent fasting, and it will work for a while. I'm a trucker and some days stress me out more than others and I binge while driving and then that leads into the next day and so on. Next thing I know, I've gained all the weight back. If I keep the foods out of reach or in hard to access areas I'm usually good about staying on track with fasting. Portion control is definitely my weakest point so I'm definitely going to try and use this cup. Thanks for the feedback!
@iheartkristal
@iheartkristal 2 ай бұрын
@@Kidrobot016hi! as someone who struggles with binge eating while working, i think you should try meal prepping the day before work or the morning of, im not sure what youre schedule looks like. if you can find a set of meals that has everything you need like your protein, carbs, fiber, etc. you can pack it in a lunchbox for the road. i can understand how difficult it might be to get a meal in before or after work but if you condition yourself to try, you can most definitely make a change for it. the only way to change what we want to is to do something different! even if making meals is too much, you can even snack on something healthier like fruits or pair it with something savory.
@itsshaytime487
@itsshaytime487 Ай бұрын
This is the only and best way to look at weight loss that has worked for me and really been truly happy with.
@trianglesandsquares420
@trianglesandsquares420 Ай бұрын
Hell yeah! And you can feel happy you allowed yourself to have half a bag, and that you saved some for later!
@nharmonia13
@nharmonia13 2 ай бұрын
i have had a similar experience whilst working on my own health and wellness journey! i'm so happy to see others choosing to put their happiness and health over unrealistic nonsense. the best thing anyone can do to lose weight, coming from someone who has struggled with her weight on and off most of her life, is to utilize self-compassion, mindfulness, persistence and becoming who you want to be NOW! i have successfully kicked my own tendency to emotionally eat within the last few months, and i no longer overeat (i feel fullness more appropriately now). on point as always, thanks for being here and sharing your wisdom, mae!
@ohkadde6621
@ohkadde6621 2 ай бұрын
thanks for sharing, i wish you the best 🙏🏼 I’m so proud of myself bc i also feel finally full after eating normal meals, it’s so free!! mindfulness is so important
@nharmonia13
@nharmonia13 2 ай бұрын
@@ohkadde6621 thank you, lovely, i hope you continue to find success as well! it really is so freeing, and i'm glad we can both experience a healthier relationship with food 🥹
@user-vn1op6gs8j
@user-vn1op6gs8j Ай бұрын
i appreciate how you’re passionate but not unnecessarily harsh with your words. and your pronunciation is very clear and easy to understand even though english is not my first language.
@lostweat
@lostweat 2 ай бұрын
I picked up playing disc golf for the past couple years and it's helped me lose weight. Any sport that makes you want to perform better creates healthy habits. I stopped drinking soda, stopped drinking alcohol, go to the gym 3 times a week and make sure I eat more protein. I used to over eat as well.
@muripu206
@muripu206 Ай бұрын
"everything i eat needs to be delicious, or else it's not worth eating" truer words have never been spoken LOL🙌🙌 also, it's so funny because i literally had so many of these exact same epiphanies just a few days before watching your video- it's like this video just confirmed my thoughts🤣 i've also struggled with binge ED and bulimia in the past, and up until now my relationship with food has been trash(to the point where i've tried to trick myself into hating food and would binge on processed junk 5 minutes later). with this new mindset, however, i'm finally starting to feel like i love myself again, my world isn't 100% controlled by food, i'm learning to be comfortable with saying no to food sometimes when i'm not hungry or in the mood for it, and most importantly i'm doing this all out of self love and excitement about being my best self both physically and mentally. thank you so much for this video and for your channel! you're so pretty and you're one of my biggest inspirations
@crentily
@crentily 2 ай бұрын
I've always been pretty skinny, but I've been finding that I've been gaining weight recently. This was an amazing video to help me get back on track. thanks! ♡♡♡♡
@darlingdior
@darlingdior 2 ай бұрын
can we get a eyeshadow/eyeliner tutorial?! I like your makeuop here
@daisy5074
@daisy5074 2 ай бұрын
dying for one too, its so perfect here !!
@curlykeys8261
@curlykeys8261 2 ай бұрын
This is great advice, I’ve lost around 30 pounds and have struggled with binge eating and food noise, what really helped me: 1. Healing the gut! So real actually. Having fermented foods like yoghurt, pickled ginger, sauerkraut . If you are desperately craving a food, that is a massive sign that your body is missing something nutritionally! And I didn’t believe it till I started acc focusing on my gut but I feel full and stable all day now. 2. focusing on healthy fats. I was taking a lot of weight loss tips from like, gymbros lol and they focus on low fat higher carb diets BUT as a WOMAN fats are soooo important for hormones + satiety. Carbs are cool but dropping them slightly in favour of having more fat helped me alot (things like avocados and walnuts) 3. Not everything that works for others will work for you! I used to eat oats every morning for breakfast because I thought that was the healthy thing. I always felt bloated and got hungry / energy crashes. When I switched to a Greek yoghurt breakfast with protein, nuts and seeds, I noticed immediate improvements in my digestion and how I felt. However you might eat the same thing and feel awful! Experiment and find out what suits your individual needs 3. Track calories but don’t obsess, take breaks as needed and monitor your weight over the course of weeks rather than days. If you haven’t lost any weight and it’s been like 2 weeks, you will need to adjust either calories or exercise. 4. It takes time! Don’t give up. You will have periods where you’re doing great and periods where things feel chaotic and off track. You’re in it for the long game ! 😊
@fattytuna5481
@fattytuna5481 2 ай бұрын
Fantastic advice!
@mercyihebuzor7220
@mercyihebuzor7220 Ай бұрын
I thought i was the only one who felt like that about oatmeal. I would eat my first meal(oatmeal) at around 12pm and before 2pm I'd be looking for what to eat. Once i switched to having bigger SAVOURY breakfasts/brunches, i started feeling satiated!
@subuleepyoo1462
@subuleepyoo1462 Ай бұрын
I think the crushes after oatmeal is bcs it’s starch and makes our blood sugar spike :) great advice, thank you
@orangepets
@orangepets 17 күн бұрын
Top-tier comment!!! ✨💖✨
@aeudjwhehdjqn
@aeudjwhehdjqn 2 ай бұрын
Love the focus on enjoying your diet and the way you exercise in this video, and also how you talk about how to make this sort of lifestyle sustainable!
@K.Kali24
@K.Kali24 Ай бұрын
I was never a skinny kid I always had issues with binge eating but never wanted to admit I had issues with it and would eat for comfort when I hated how I looked but I’m 19 now and heavier than I’ve ever been, I was homeless for almost a year last year but moved in with family right before Christmas, i piled on weight but I’ve recently started going to the gym with one of my friends I’ve made in the last few months, finding habits and a diet that would work has been such a struggle because I feel like a lot of diets are so expensive and finding the motivation has been a process but just love the video the positive and specific info really helped ❤
@a.i.801
@a.i.801 Ай бұрын
wow i think this might be the most useful video on weight loss I have seen in a WHILE, you really explained so many struggles and how to deal with it, this is literally everything i needed to hear! thankyou so much for putting this out there
@sidneysharp.
@sidneysharp. 21 күн бұрын
So nuanced, transparent, and well spoken. It is so comforting to know someone has navigated the same journey! Peace and love
@urami54
@urami54 2 ай бұрын
ur ironically one of my fav youtubers. I dont watch you as often and sometimes i dont hold the concentration but when i do im really satisfied to hear your oppinion and stuff
@hippieprincess
@hippieprincess 2 ай бұрын
Since last January I’ve lost 40lbs (was 180lbs at 5’1 and now I’m 140lbs on avg!) I still have 20 more to go but guys! Literally just start with 3 main habits/micro habits: 1. Drink minimum 6 cups of water a day 2. Cut out chips, soda, cookies, candy. You have to have really strong will but you need to want it BAD enough. Find substitutes for snacks! Limit to 1 snack a day even. 3. Take a walk, do yoga, or go to the gym at least 1-2 times a week to start. U don’t have to immediately start at 5x a week but slowly leech these habits into your routine. And remember to check your form! We got this
@bubblysoda8149
@bubblysoda8149 Ай бұрын
Thanks for tips! I'm around your initial weight and a tad bit taller but my goal is to lose 50 lbs. How long did you work out (for 30 mins etc)?
@hippieprincess
@hippieprincess Ай бұрын
@@bubblysoda8149 np! Tbh once I’m in the gym I can be there from 60-90mins. Def at least an hour or a hardcore 45mins. The thing that made me shred the most weight was I would do stairmaster at every workout. 15-25 mins. 95% of the time it was 25mins but you have to build up to that. So the first two weeks do 5 mins, then add 5 mins and so on. Also, Don’t start w no crazy routine the first three months cus it’ll overwhelm you. Try out diff machines and workouts and see what’s best for you! My top 3 favs are stairmaster, leg or arm machines with weights (always start low and build up), aaand jump ropes (100x1) or squats! Just know most of my weight loss was cutting out meat to once a week, candy to once a week, no soda, hella water, let yourself feel hungry (it’s good). But yeah soz that this is all scattered but yeah the first 3 months I was down 25-30lbs. You have to want it bad tho !
@reginadunham9162
@reginadunham9162 Ай бұрын
Thank you. This information is very helpful. I will use this information to help me lose some more weight and tone my body as well as changing my mindset on what I think and feel about myself.
@isa-nw3tw
@isa-nw3tw Ай бұрын
were there any foods that are helping u out in this journey? im struggling with my nutrition tbh 😭
@abbycrabbyy
@abbycrabbyy Күн бұрын
i got braces in 8th grade, and even when i got them off i barely ate chips, cookies, candy, etc because i couldnt. this made me stop craving it and everything bc i literally couldnt.. this is how i stopped nail biting also because i got acrylics for 4 weeks and the habit just left my brain! i replaced these things with juices, water, and FRUIT. i eat like a carton of blueberries a day and have fruit with every single meal and for snacks.
@moz7173
@moz7173 18 күн бұрын
This might be one of the better and more realistic help vids for people who have a dodgy relationship with food - glad I found your channel
@RKMalo13
@RKMalo13 Ай бұрын
This is awesome. I've seen some of these tips before, but it's either your delivery or where I am in life (or both) that really made this sink in. Keep up the great work on your channel!
@kamii3198
@kamii3198 2 ай бұрын
this is the realest advice ever. thank you sm!!
@sarahmusa4775
@sarahmusa4775 Ай бұрын
Love listening to you speak 🎧 you speak the truth for all of us foodies who want to lose weight 😩 it’s nice seeing a KZbinr being so real & not sugarcoating anything. New subscriber ❤
@crybaybee583
@crybaybee583 Ай бұрын
I’m going to watch this every morning to remind myself who I want to be.
@shanashawl1024
@shanashawl1024 Күн бұрын
"Everyday we do our best but our best look different everyday..." Yas! You're a queen!
@user-lt3tm4qk9n
@user-lt3tm4qk9n 26 күн бұрын
this is amazing. these are all realizations i have had slowly over time but you list it all so succinctly and without mysterious language. you are wonderful !!
@jamespooler9082
@jamespooler9082 2 ай бұрын
I feel that Honesty is the apex of the plan.(very proud of you MAE).
@sufidufi
@sufidufi Ай бұрын
Girl, this was amazing
@ThefutureselfLah
@ThefutureselfLah 2 ай бұрын
Girl, you are on fire 🔥. So inspiring, I was here since 4k, you deserve it so much❤
@May_You_Prosper
@May_You_Prosper Ай бұрын
I’ve been flipping through so many videos over the last few days and this one has a lot of good info. Thanks so much!
@bettykroll
@bettykroll Ай бұрын
You are the first person I’ve heard talk about getting to the root cause of food addictions and ED. You make so much sense. I’ve never looked at weight loss this way and I totally plan to adopt your strategy.
@juliannagutierrez180
@juliannagutierrez180 28 күн бұрын
can i just say you are an absolutely beautiful soul! tysm for the closed captions i wish so many more channels captioned there videos 😭
@HelloitsPrincess
@HelloitsPrincess Ай бұрын
Thank you, Mae, for showing up for yourself and sharing your process and mindset shifts.
@deeDe-if8et
@deeDe-if8et Ай бұрын
You have no idea how healing this video and story this was for me. I have a similar story and background to you. Thank you so much for sharing this I know this was everything I needed right now.💗 from the bottom of my heart I’m so grateful you shared.
@dnaturalartist546
@dnaturalartist546 Ай бұрын
Thank you for this. I started many of these practices on my current weight-loss journey and this is so true! These changes in mindset is making this feel more natural and sustainable over time and I am starting to feel and look better naturally. I want to LIVE the life of the version of myself that is healthy and balanced.
@lea-sophie
@lea-sophie 19 күн бұрын
you’re already surrounded by so many other good things is such a great thought
@itsshayene
@itsshayene Ай бұрын
this has to literally be the best video on weight loss/a healthy mindset I have ever seen. thank you
@diorfawn
@diorfawn 2 ай бұрын
omg ive been needing this 😭
@pearl_greytea
@pearl_greytea Ай бұрын
Ur honesty and openness is so refreshing! I relate to binge eating and the fad diets. Tysm for sharing 🩶
@shere.2475
@shere.2475 Ай бұрын
One of the most interesting, informative and honest videos I’ve seen. Well done Mae.
@azmr3
@azmr3 Ай бұрын
You speak at the perfect speed girl, thank you for this
@alejandraalonsos
@alejandraalonsos 2 ай бұрын
I’m so thankful for having encountered this video of yours. I’m currently battling anxiety, depressive episodes and I’ve been diagnosed with binge eating for a few years now. All that you explained really made sense to me and it really shifted my mentality in ways i didn’t think were possible. Thank you so much for sharing your experience Mae
@LovePantsu
@LovePantsu 14 күн бұрын
This is the most relatable, healthy, realistic and at the same time helpful weight loss video I've seen on YT. Many of the points you mentioned I realized some time ago, it was great to hear the same from somebody else. Thank you for the video.
@DonnaScott-zp5wz
@DonnaScott-zp5wz 2 ай бұрын
This video is a whole vibe! Thank you so much. I made the mistake of watching it during lunch at work and I made me want to cry because I could relate to this so much! I appreciate your transparency, truth and valuable insights! Definitely will like, subscribe and watch again when I’m in my own space 🪔🧘🏽‍♀️ Many continued blessings to you ❤
@ivana_4866
@ivana_4866 2 ай бұрын
Your struggles resonate soo much with me. I'm going to try to follow your tips!
@jenniferluiza8583
@jenniferluiza8583 2 ай бұрын
What an amazing and helpful video! Thank you so much!
@ranpopopz
@ranpopopz 5 күн бұрын
this video helps more than you think. ive been struggling with BED and food noise for years now and never found an effective or healthy way to deal with it. this video has shown me methods i never even considered or heard of. thank you so much
@LizOdinseye
@LizOdinseye 2 ай бұрын
This is the best video on the topic. Actually life changing!
@soumyasaxena3535
@soumyasaxena3535 29 күн бұрын
It’s so wholesome to listen all this and I’m so happy that I’m not the only one struggling… you are so realistic and practical!
@mafaldapainho6145
@mafaldapainho6145 29 күн бұрын
THANK YOU FOR THIS!! this mindset shift was really what I needed to hear. And I absolutely agree that good habits need to be carried throughout life. As soon as I stop taking care of myself, all the bad things come back. once again, THANK YOU for sharing
@user-wl9ny3zm9k
@user-wl9ny3zm9k Ай бұрын
I loved this video. You are so relatable, the example of dieting and then eating something "forbidden" and then feeling so bad about that is exactly me. You provide so much valuable information and you are very well spoken. It was a pleasure to listen to you. In a lot of other weight loss videos I find myself waiting for the helpful piece of information and the person keeps talking and talking without giving any information of worth. You are very well informed and have a holistic approach which seems such a healthy approach, tackling the emotional, mental and physical aspects of weight loss.
@tinaa1610
@tinaa1610 Ай бұрын
This is soo important knowledge! I’m doing all of these things now and I’ve never been happier with my body or my self in general. I know I do good things like these mentioned here, and I can feel my body being happy for me. It’s a positive circle instead of a destruct one. Great video, new subscriber here!
@idek1950
@idek1950 2 ай бұрын
Thank you sm because I need to literally lock in for this academic year for me
@s.stevens4520
@s.stevens4520 2 ай бұрын
This video is GOLD!
@Keerexaurus
@Keerexaurus Ай бұрын
YESS THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS❤
@bonjourcupcake
@bonjourcupcake Ай бұрын
This was a really helpful and healthy way of seeing weight loss. I’ve been struggling and I’m definitely going to try this. Thank you.
@blu304x
@blu304x 2 ай бұрын
this was so helpful bc i wanna get more fit again 🙏 thank you mae!
@nevershoutmakeup9623
@nevershoutmakeup9623 Ай бұрын
This is the best non toxic video about losing weight. It’s been such a struggle for me to find something that works and often videos I searched made me feel so insecure and put me back into ED mindsets. This is the best thing I’ve seen about losing weight. Healthy relationships with food is so important
@TurnThePagePls
@TurnThePagePls Ай бұрын
Wow this is a video I NEEDED to see! It all makes so much sense
@so1thought
@so1thought Ай бұрын
Love this!! You laid out some ideas that I've never previously heard of (hypnosis) and lots of real-life examples that helped me to apply some common tips more concretely in my life. Keep up the good work!
@TheGenkina
@TheGenkina 20 күн бұрын
I watched so many videos about fat loss and dieting but this is the only one which actually made me stop, think and be excited for the journey. Thank you for sharing your wisdom, defo subscribing!
@borabutton7
@borabutton7 18 күн бұрын
This video is sooooooo underated!!!! This is the BEST video about weight loss ive seen. Ive been struggling with my weight for years and feeling insecure about myself, but this video was so good and indightful as ive been startibg a new weightloss journeey and this is was sooo so helpful thank you quennnnn
@JacobPAus
@JacobPAus Ай бұрын
This is so interesting!!! Most do not discuss the spiritual side of weight loss but you did a very good job of it in this video. I'm so impressed
@elaine8651
@elaine8651 14 күн бұрын
you're a queen for these captions. thank you!
@queenwaffIes
@queenwaffIes 2 ай бұрын
oh my gosh, i’m so glad i came across this video. i’m almost the same weight and height in your before picture, and i’ve been trying to lose weight for YEARS. this is exactly what i needed, seeing your transformation is sooooooo inspiring. please make more videos on this topic i will watch every second of it !! 😂❤
@yatsumura7
@yatsumura7 19 күн бұрын
This was one of the most helpful videos I ever watched, thank you
@spindee407
@spindee407 2 ай бұрын
Wow! This resonated deeply. You have a lot of wisdom and I appreciate your sharing! Subscribed. ❤
@kirstysteele3764
@kirstysteele3764 2 ай бұрын
First video of yours ive seen and ive downloaded it to listen to on my walk later. Loved it!
@Raribayb
@Raribayb 2 ай бұрын
Girl this video is amazing thank you so much I’m so happy I found you!
@dianavanwinkle2299
@dianavanwinkle2299 13 күн бұрын
Love the way you speak because you get to the point quick. Thank you!
@geniuspeng
@geniuspeng 16 күн бұрын
Thank you for this video, it’s so simple and practical as well as emphasizes being kind to yourself and finding a system that works for you to maintain a healthy lifestyle
@MaddieJay
@MaddieJay 2 ай бұрын
I love the way you articulate things, it is so easy to take in the information. Thank you for sharing 🫶🏼
@MixedBean
@MixedBean Ай бұрын
This is so true. I lost almost 80 pounds by doing this. I’ve gained some weight back since but I was having a hard time getting back into this state of mind. So thank you for this ❤
@nadinejanecalonia7690
@nadinejanecalonia7690 Ай бұрын
I'm so happy that YT recommended your channel to me. I really resonated with you. Thank youuuu ❤
@Kayla-Blachetta
@Kayla-Blachetta Ай бұрын
After trying to lose weight and failing for so long this is literally what I needed to see today. Thank you so much for putting these words and issues into a video! Subscribed 😊
@NenaBabe
@NenaBabe 2 ай бұрын
You are so beautiful Mae, I found your channel yesterday & I’m over the moon 🫶✨
@Marta-ow4ng
@Marta-ow4ng Ай бұрын
I think what you said in this video makes A LOT of sence. And you inspired me. Thank you for sharing.❤
@laurettadelmar2781
@laurettadelmar2781 17 күн бұрын
These were actually really motivating and realistic things to think about and adopt into my life. I’m definitely going to take some of these mindsets on board
@somaroy5717
@somaroy5717 Ай бұрын
this is the best video ive ever seen to lose weight as a person with a binge ed i could relate so so much and im definetly going to change how i think about food and follow ur advice, thank u so so much !!
@naemaalnuaimi7245
@naemaalnuaimi7245 Ай бұрын
This is one of the best videos i have ever seen, i have been trying new diets for 3 years and some do work for me and when i reach my goal i always go back to my old habits but now since i saw this video i feel like it motivated me to become my better self and now i know what i did wrong in my weight loss journey, so thank you so much!!
@corvinisnotcarson
@corvinisnotcarson 23 күн бұрын
omg you really said everything that i was keeping in my mind and this things i learned while sitting on diets and having ed. This tips are very useful. I wish i could watch your video before getting to have ed, but well.. i really believe that there are people who watched this video and will lose weight in s healthy way. Thank you a lot 🙏🏻
@Deeyemz
@Deeyemz Ай бұрын
Hi Mae!! Just wanted to say that lately I've been experiencing dysmorphia to the point where it's seriously damaging to my mental health. Your videos have helped me a lot in feeling that I should be kinder to myself and trust the process that I'm in. Thank you for putting videos like this out there
@sansxverse
@sansxverse Ай бұрын
this is a legit weight loss guide! thank you so much
@nannuky1128
@nannuky1128 20 күн бұрын
I've already known so many things you've mentioned in this video, and even tried to do them myself, but romanticizing the whole journey is something I've never thought about. thank you so much for making this video! i feel like this time, I might finally succeed.
@eniewagner2947
@eniewagner2947 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for such an honest weight loss, glow-up kinda video. I’m so tired of the do this and do that to loose weight videos and it’s basically just drink water and don’t ever have junk food again. Gut health and your mental health is so important, so thanks for that.✨
@hokubluesky4989
@hokubluesky4989 2 ай бұрын
Nice to see that there’s knowledge and wisdom in what you say. Well done 😉👍🏻. Greetings from Italy 🇮🇹😉
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