How I’m letting go and embracing a new way of living - highly sensitive personality

[@TheCottageFairy]

Sending much love, I hope this video offers you some moments of peace and mindful rest ❤ I am always surprised by how little we tend to talk about uncertainty in life and of the life cycle in general. It’s actually quite strange, I think, as it is what unifies us all. I am uncertain how my life will turn out, where I will be in the future, but for now, I’m happy to be here and share some moments of reflection with you ❤ take care and please share your words of wisdom. Much love

[@lulaslabyrinth13]

Have been feeling the same...ever since I released fear, I have felt more calm and more ALIVE than ever. Thank you for the constant encouragement & support, dearest 🙏🏻💕😇 ! Also...saw you in Jonna Jinton's video!! I yelled out, "oh, my GOODNESS, it's Paola!" And my husband says, "who is that again?" And I yelled, "The Cottage Fairy!!" 🥰🌟🤩

[@thinkforyourselfjohn3167]

It's been through the valleys and my darkest times that the Love of God and his light have shined the brightest.

[@vkq47]

Thank you!

[@بيان-ع2ص]

Just now I'm starting to be good after this video U make me see life in a different way I hope u enjoy ur time .. sending my love from Egypt ❤️

[@AissyZulkarnaini]

We are also talk about it in Quran (Islam) we call that with Ikhlas

[@mort6913]

You are an ambassador for serenity and reflection. Your gentle videos give many viewers a dose of calmness in this world of chaos. Whenever you feel that you are not doing enough to make the world a better place, consider the stillness you provide to restless minds and the exponential good you send out into the world by simply sharing your thoughts- thank you for this. :-)

[@TheCottageFairy]

I deeply appreciate that ❤ I am honored, thank you so much

[@jannybranciforte9295]

Thank you Paola, you are making the world a more beautiful place with each video. It is a truth, not an imagined assumption. Each and every person who takes the time and energy to write a comment is absolute and concrete evidence of your impact. You have become such a gentle part of my life, not a passing thing, but your gentle life that we witness in your soulful and honest reflections and creativity seep into our very beings - we learn from you the Art of Quietness and if we practice what you reflect on, that is pure evidence to me that your life is making a difference in this crazy and often noisy world. Stillness is a healing balm and awakens every heart to Love and Compassion for our selves and for each other. What more beautiful way can there there. be for one human being to plant an ever expanding community of people who honor the quiet life, and who are reminded of its exquisite healing properties. In this way You Tube becomes such a miracle worker in the world for extraordinary individuals like yourself. Also, May I just add that it was so sweet to see your beloved Luke in this video. .

[@larryreynolds8580]

So very well said. Paola brings so very much peace and comfort ❤️

[@cherylmcmillan984]

@Mort13 ... Well said!

[@donnabacon4681]

@@jannybranciforte9295 ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@yarazard]

I live in Houston, Texas, like your sister. Sometimes I feel like our stories mirror each other. I too, was an English literature major. I love reading. I too tried to be like others to go out and socialize more than I really wanted to. What eventually forced me to slow down and really honor my true nature was having kids. You are so lucky to have found the gift of honoring oneself at such a young age. Love your work, love your videos…

[@karencarey2739]

I am 63 and have been recently laid off with 85 of my fellow co-workers. I have been working since age 15 so now I get the chance to slow down and enjoy the rest of my life. Your videos are teaching me how to live a more mindful life. Thank you for sharing your story with us ❤️❤️❤️

[@Englishroserebecca]

Enjoy your free time. Sometimes it takes time to adjust to not working but when you do it’s wonderful. ❤

[@pamelawamala6751]

What a beautiful opportunity to nurture other parts of yourself. Best wishes for joy an d fun in the adventure of it.

[@kimkeck6266]

Karen my sincerest hopes are that you and the other 85 laid-off employees are going to be fine financially. I am concerned for you all. Not only do we all need money, we need also to feel productive and not let our minds and bodies to deteriorate. 🌺🩷🙏🥰

[@LittleKikuyu]

Enjoy this new phase of your life! warm wishes to you ❤️❤️❤️

[@roseg1333]

Sorry for your lay off but I’m glad you are seeing it in a positive light I hope you are well in all senses especially financially 🙏🏼🕊️❤️

[@desertrose128]

One of my favorite quotes by Rumi is " Surrender, for in God's Hands we rest untroubled " It's truly the best way to live. Your gentle nature is inspiring, thank you for being you.

[@margietucker1719]

I love Rumi...and own a couple of small books containing his work.The same sentiment is expressed by Jesus, when He says..."Come unto me all you who are weary, and heavy-laden...for I will give you rest".

[@desertrose128]

@@margietucker1719 indeed!

[@blackthornsloe8049]

My husband and I are still recovering from covid . We are in our fifties and sixties . Both of us have been understanding how fast and unpredictable life is . Overwhelming. Your work immediately puts me into contact with a deep place of soulfulness. In a world that feels so soulless sometimes you are sucha force for good .🌻

[@bearcat2020]

Amen. Thank you for sharing. Take care.

[@pamwilliams6630]

Praying you recover quickly. We got it on Jan 4th, not fun. I'm 69, hubby 68. It sent my BP soaring and dear hubby is having trouble with circulation. We will recover and trust God has everything under control.

[@blackthornsloe8049]

@@pamwilliams6630 thank you . We are having similar issues. My poor husband has been having multiple heavy nosebleeds every day . He's at a specialist as we speak. Hoping for the best . Such uncertain times for everyone . Blessings to you and yours .🌻

[@margaretstanton7567]

Blessings and good wishes for a complete recovery!

[@ninawildr4207]

I went thru hell with covid almost 60 last november and what helped me recover was following a carnivore high fat diet...watch Dr Ken Berry

[@MaryBeth1965]

Your calm voice and demeanor help this granny overcoming cancer surgery and other life struggles. Thank you. 💕 🎄 Nature is so healing. It's our true home and where we truly come alive.

[@TheCottageFairy]

Sending you a big hug ❤️ thank you so much

[@MaryBeth1965]

@@TheCottageFairy yw. Hugs back ((((☺))))

[@thinkforyourselfjohn3167]

I'm praying for you Mary Beth ♥️♥️ God Bless you.

[@blackthornsloe8049]

Well wishes 🌻

[@MaryBeth1965]

@@thinkforyourselfjohn3167 thank you so much 💕

[@lorajones3531]

The soap! The baking pan! The dress! So many pretty things to love in this video.

[@deirdreclark2128]

Look at a cats life, they never hurry and KNOW how to rest. They are great teachers.

[@becomingadreamcatcher]

I also struggle with managing my anxiety after having a major breakdown a couple of years ago that cost me my dream. But I learned so much about myself during recovery, to slow down and give myself more time, to adapt my own pace, and to be open about what happened is especially important in my opinion. Mental health issues are still a delicate topic that is discussed rather reluctantly. But I taught myself to address my past with it even with people I just met, to treat it like something normal and not as something unspeakable that I need to hide and feel ashamed for. And I find that by doing so my anxiety loses a lot of power over me. Take care, everyone. 🥰💚

[@bearcat2020]

Thank you for sharing. Very good. Take care.

[@wildflowerwind6941]

Very wise words of wisdom. I have trouble dealing with life.

[@bearcat2020]

How are you?

[@cherylcosgrove511]

Well said!❤

[@kylemccoymusic4202]

I recently moved to a cottage in the mountains. Mainly doing it to work on my album. Your videos helped me make that decision. Thanks for your wholesome content, it helped me so much with this path I'm on. Not sure where it will lead me. But right now, I'm happy and excited for the first time in a long time.

[@ellen823ful]

Just be YOU. That is your path. That is enough. From Mr. Rogers: “You always make everyday a special day but just your being you.”

[@janelesniak1817]

Your shows are visual poetry.

[@conniestanton2273]

Your honesty about our lack of control is refreshing. As a Christian I take comfort that God is my loving Father and is all-powerful. I try to remember Jesus’ teaching in Matt 6: “Do not worry about tomorrow for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough troubles of its own.”

[@ltilley7343]

Yes, we don't know how much time we have here and God wants to draw us to himself. I like the way your videos always show the beauty of His creation. ❤

[@jennyheuermann120]

So true. I feel closer to God in nature. Especially in my garden.😊

[@missyme2405]

Well said!

[@joriwilkinson]

I feel like many of us are in this chapter of learning how to have fun again ❤

[@yvonnebirch6026]

Sweet Paola I was delighted to see you recently in Jonna’s post with all the loving wonderful souls who sent in a video 💕 I had a wise friend some years ago who since passed. Her motto was : “ I will know what I need to know when I need to know it “ This reminds me to let go of the questions and trust the Universe. You give so much by sharing your heart in your beautiful video’s. Much love from an old Dutch lady in California 🙏🇳🇱💕🌷

[@globaljobs1855]

Who is Joanna?

[@valwright9871]

Yes let go and trust the universe. Magical unfolding as you become ready to embrace all you will be given. Bery nicely said.

[@Trissa.33]

@@globaljobs1855 Jonna Jinton, she has a KZbin channel

[@LauraG1]

I was so excited to see and hear you as well. Like watching a friend!

[@LauraG1]

@@globaljobs1855Jonna Jinton is the channel name. A wonderful, talented young woman from Sweden that celebrated her 4 million subscriber number by recently requesting and sharing subscriber comments.

[@Vintagebungalow]

When I am feeling overwhelmed and stressed, I try to remind myself that it is not about the action, but my reaction to it, that counts. So much is out of our control in life, but always, we can control our reactions to it. I choose to be kind, I choose to be loving, I choose to be understanding and supportive.

[@michellelea8511]

You have no idea how much this video means to me. I had such a very hard day today, I work in healthcare and we are all tired. Your reminder to be kind to myself and honor my feelings and anxiety was a gift. I spent some time today watching my stellar jays and downy woodpecker‘s and bush tits eat away at their suet and peanuts. It was a lovely moment. I have also been studying the stoics and I love that you included a quote from Marcus Aurelius. Bless you and know what a light you are in this world.

[@morganniciomhair8284]

Thank you for your service!Having spent time recently here in Ireland I consider fronting workers ANGELS I wish you were honored and paid more Give yourself a little treat!x

[@lore1260]

You live the life I used to try so hard to make for myself. Life had different plans for me and I got the opposite of what I wanted for myself. I live in the city, single, and every fear I dreaded occurred regardless. 99.9% of the hardships and heartbreaks I encountered in my life were out of my control and created by the people in my life. Whether it was work related, boyfriends, family, or friendships I learned to take the experiences as they came and never allow them to repeat again. Today, I am finally on the other side of the painful past at 47 years old. My life is now entering a phase where I can focus on myself and do things I always used to love doing in my childhood. Arts and crafts are some of the things I am getting back into. Your videos are helping me reconnect to my old self. Thank you!

[@laurathompson2505]

I loved this post almost as much as I loved Paola's video. Good for you, what an incredible journey, especially because, as you said, 99.9% of it was out of your control. I suspect that is the case for many. I also suspect many do not come out on the other side. You did it! I hope you enjoy your arts and crafts.....and all other good things that await you in your "new" life.

[@lore1260]

Laura, thank you for your kind words. I believe you are right many people are thrust into life barely surviving what is thrown at them. I hope the best for you as well, take care!

[@LittleKikuyu]

Best wishes for a wonderful new phase of your life! 🥰

[@juliebutler8241]

Funny, I'm 63 and I am struggling with the same things, except I am burnt out at the moment. Taking care of my mom with dementia till the end was traumatic and exhausting, I thought I could die. I just signed up for my Social Security and I will live on just that. But like you, I am happy with nature and the small things in life. For the moment I find myself retreating from groups of people and stimulating activity. I live in a snowbird senior mobile home park in SE Cali. Luckily, we have hot spring pools to soak in and sweeping views of the Salton Sea, the surrounding mountains and desert plain. The sparrows and house finches are migrating in to nest and I keep food out for them. Your videos are calming, and thought provoking and I look forward to them more than all the others. The snow looks like fun, and its very pretty and magical, but I am glad I am relatively warm. Been in the 60s here, soon to bump into the 70s. I do miss the trees and streams, but glad I have a nice view and safety as an older single gal here.

[@tarotofmylife3331]

Sending you love ❤ taking care of someone at the end of their life is incredibly hard (and from experience, it physically takes a toll very quickly - not to mention the emotional pain). Please be proud of yourself.

[@janetjohnson5581]

I'm 71 and I still want to be a fairy and live in the forest with woodland creatures. That's why I love your art and place the pieces I've purchased where I can see them all the time. My dear your are truly beautiful on the inside and out.

[@shujaatbuch8659]

Alone in nature is a calming feeling ...

[@shujaatbuch8659]

Why does a person who is so calm is so sensitive and so anxious

[@Amanda-jd8xs]

@@shujaatbuch8659 it is so. People always describe me as calm and yet I am sensitive to excess and anxious often. Perhaps the calm is what we give ourselves to sedate these excesses 😌

[@shujaatbuch8659]

@@Amanda-jd8xs sensitivity is the reflection of the environment one grows in...but we need to reflect in mirror as mirror shows us truth of ourselves...it is better to check ourselves in mirror daily then to put others through that mirror

[@cheri7384]

I am 73 yrs. old and I wish I had learned all these things you are saying when I was young!!! You are so very wise for your years. Love your beautiful, peaceful, soothing videos.

[@loridennis6979]

I wanted to live in the hundred acre wood for much of my early life. It 's taken me many years, and many experiances to connect to the love and light of Christ. Yet now I'm gaining the inner joy and peace which dispels the darkness. May you continue to be blessed on your journey!

[@tgeetoo9451]

God indeed is the truth, the light and the way to peace and love.

[@lindasteinbrenner8065]

The story about your sister is so inspiring that she turned her issues with depression around and is now helping others. I think that is important sometimes to get out of one’s head and reach out to help others. Something for which you are so good! Thank you! ❤

[@LK-tc4oq]

I needed this. Really. Thank you. I’m at the verge of crying and feeling content at the same time.

[@LK-tc4oq]

@CONNIE, GERMAN GIRL IN AMERICA! 🥺🙏🏼❤️ so sweet. Thank you.

[@bearcat2020]

Sending you best wishes a hug. Please take care.

[@kellyt4447]

God is reaching out to each one of our hearts. When we find him we will find our peace and joy. God bless to all. 🙏🏻

[@barbarastone3610]

All the way from the UK - I often watch the cottage fairy vlogs and love the way each season is revealed in all the small objects that are displaced or discarded by nature which seems to transport us all to faraway lands. Seeing you reconnect with nature and noticing things other people wouldn't indulges my imagination. I too have a curious mind whenever I am out walking, although it's not so easy here by our shorelines because you have to take extra care not to disturb the wildlife. But I am hoping to entice some new varieties of birds to my balcony once I've planted some climbers. I am inspired by the work that you do and all the secret formulas in homespun objects. I wish you all the very best with your Etsy shop.

[@kathyarnold9163]

Step by step....finding the good life along the way. Good for you!

[@jpamos3379]

Your videos feel like home, a safe place for my soul. I hope you know God is using you to do AMAZING things. Thank you for being you. 💕

[@sidilicious11]

Such a beautifully crafted video. Life is art, and art is life. You are so talented at both.

[@nennepanrikefairytaleart4773]

This video truly is a fairytale!, a fairytale of peacefulness and allowance ... You always talk about things that I find important and crucial ... I can sometimes feel drained if I talk too much about "shallow" things, (whatever shallow things are,) but what I mean is that it is important for me to talk about things that matter, to me, to us, to humanity, to the planet ... Thank you, Paola and take care!!

[@CammyHell]

Just enjoy yourself sweetie. You’re already leaving the world a better place because of your art and your book and your videos. You never litter you take care of animals you are enough. Just be … 😘

[@JuliaHope1]

Your videos are like a warm hug to my soul. As a fellow anxiety sufferer, your words hit home and are always such a gentle reminder to slow down and treat myself with more kindness. I appreciate you so so so much!! ❤

[@sherrimartin1057]

You are just a beautiful soul.....I feel like if we knew each other in person, we would be dear friends 🦋

[@margolucas3793]

I could smell the aroma of coffee when you were grinding the beans! 💕

[@Elizabeth-arb22]

Oh my gosh, me too! Nice comment margolucas3793.

[@pinkroses135]

Leaning into my faith and enjoying the little things amidst the stress, anxiety, tasks and unknowns is something I've been doing lately so I appreciate the timing of this video

[@HareCreek76]

I think you are the younger version of myself that I had lost a long the way. Almost 47 now and I am finally allowing myself to slow down, sleep, wander, create, work less and just be who I am for the first time in my life. I have nothing to prove to anyone anymore. Your videos have helped me to reconnect to the young girl I once was before the world got ahold of me and told me what and who I needed to be. Thank you for sharing and helping me to remember the things in life that bring true joy ❤

[@brimalvin]

Thank you for reminding us to have FUN. We definitely need more of that in this busy-body world we live in. 💚

[@CarlaCashOutLoud]

Hi. I'm new to your channel and appreciated this video so much. My husband recently passed away suddenly and unexpectedly without warning. It was and remains traumatic. I've found myself feeling isolated, but am also becoming more aware of what I can and can't control. Your thoughts on "control" and "letting go" to give our mind and body rest really spoke to me. Thank you for that gift. Yes, life is uncertain, and we must cherish it all during the time we have. - Carla

[@mrsbigbug]

Warm hug from a stranger to you for your loss & pain. Have gone through a similar experience with my husband’s death. There is life on the other side of the grief.

[@wildflowerwind6941]

I too lost my husband suddenly and unexpectedly 12 years ago. I am very sorry for your loss. I hope you can find small comforts.

[@wildflowerwind6941]

@@mrsbigbug I am glad you found life on the other side of grief. It has been 12 years since my husbands death and I am still struggling with life in general. I probably still would be even if he were still alive.

[@mrsbigbug]

@@wildflowerwind6941 I’m sorry you’re still struggling. My heart goes out to you. I don’t know that I feel joy, but like Paola’s sister, I accept being up & productive as being a win. Much better than depression or gut-wrenching grief. I pray your struggles will become less and your happiness greater.

[@sheilavanduynfote5539]

I love your channel so much, your voice alone soothes my soul. You are so real and open so thank you for sharing with us. I know I feel so much better after your video. I actually feel like I am in a Forrest and I see the wood fairies and am soothed by all there is to see. My depression is not as bad as after listening to you. Thank you❤❤❤❤❤, it was great to see a little of you and Luke

[@bearcat2020]

Thank you for sharing. So true.

[@morganfiona8378]

I'm someone who is very attached to stability and am at a point in my life where i have little control over anything, and I've been struggling a lot with it but finding joy in the little things and talking about how i feel with people has made it bearable ♥️

[@lianeabeyta4515]

I have two grown grandsons 28 and 18, and it makes me sad that they label themselves as anxious and depressed individuals. I am afraid that keeps them stuck in this mindset. I just wish for a day they could just get up and be one with the universe. When I watched you making muffins, walking in the snow, playing with the dog, hugging your husband.... thats a day to relish and embrace. To stop thinking of tomorrow, the big picture, our own legacy.Just wake up one day be in the moment , as tomorrow will take care of itself. Just let life unfold and accept its possibilities, and its limitations. If we only worry about whats coming... we can't appreciate whats here.

[@luciakonickova3320]

You are so beautiful and your videos are healing, you are a healer on this planet 🌏 ❤️

[@juniorchavesopicassodeyahu988]

How is your voice so soothing and calming to the ears. You are an embodiment of inspiration here to give us an dose of positively, hope and enlightenment

[@gladysbrewer7420]

I don’t know you personally but sweetheart you are a delight to listen to. Be blessed , and never think you are not enough for you overflow with gentleness and beauty .

[@majorieterrazola2842]

Watching from Thailand 🇹🇭❤️ How i love your voice. 💕

[@DrCalyn]

I don’t know if I could ever be this chill

[@neelamshaikh12]

Such a comforting story read in a gentle voice. Keep reading to us as it unknowingly calms restless mind.

[@tamzenkarma]

Needed this today Many blessings to you beautiful, strong, special sister xox Love From Paonia, Colorado

[@crafter33054]

You are very blessed. You have so many talents, you can cook, you have a loving husband, faithful fans and way too many others. You are ❤️

[@BRYAN4509]

Your videos are now a routine in my morning. So calming, relaxing, and interesting. You're a special human. Take care, Bryan.

[@Sthemingway]

One of your best videos to date. Being "quietly content" is a good place to be.

[@starbrown1219]

I love how you are able to see the beauty all around you. And how you appreciate the process of making coffee the long way, and making your own soap. Beautiful.

[@kellyimbach4865]

Your channel soothes my soul and mind. I suffer from ocd and your videos put my mind at peace realizing that slowing down helps you and that gives me grace knowing I can do that too🙂

[@NateshasAmbience]

This was such an endearing video! A few weeks ago, I looked at the impermanence of life and had difficulty coming to terms with it. Life is so precious. I hope we work to make the most of it. ❤

[@MsScarletHeart4ever]

I am always looking for ways to not spend as much screen time but when you do not live with much nature around it gets hard especially during winter months.

[@Mark.H.9192]

beautifully said, Katie. I completely agree,

[@TheCottageFairy]

I definitely feel quite cooped up over here when it gets very cold 🥶 winters can be difficult, looking forward to a lovely spring!

[@Mark.H.9192]

'poofy' Quails, in late January. Lives well lived - both human and Quail. Kudos to your Mom.

[@AR-td7cn]

Life on life terms , the ultimate lesson. Boot camp for me was growing up in NYC, riding the subways, seeing how gritty and harsh life can be, at the same time how beautiful.Out of myself and into others, keeps me from the bondage of self. VIVA LA VIDA !

[@agds91078]

Hello fairy friend!! This Kentucky MerFairy sends well wishes to you and yours. I truly enjoy your channel and vids you make for us. You inspire me to do more videos for my channel and now that I’m able to do so I hope to get started back to doing the content I love and miss doing. I had to take a year and a half away from my channel to fight stage 2 triple negative breast cancer not knowing what my outcome would be and here I am thankfully in remission now for over a year and a half and praying cancer will stay away. I did 13 rounds of 3 types of the strongest chemo made and I have done 3 breast reconstruction surgeries over this year and a half and healing up great. I now have hair growing and I look and feel more and more like my old self each day. I found your channel while searching for calming videos to watch during chemo to help take my mind a bit off of all I was dealing with and I am so glad I found you. You truly do calm my days I’m very anxious so thank you. Sending hugs to you and everyone else watching from the snowy mountains of southeast Kentucky 💙🧜🏼‍♀️🧚🏻‍♀️

[@Lili-xq9sn]

I'm so glad you are doing better and that you are alive. :)

[@agds91078]

@@Lili-xq9sn well thank you friend 🥰

[@mariaetheridge8343]

I'm unpacking boxes at present having moved into my new abode 2 weeks ago. I'm rediscovering so many beloved books - there are many! Tales of Beatrix Potter, Wind in the Willows, Peter Pan amongst them - and yes, the entire Winnie, the Pooh collection! And poetry. I'm back in heaven!!

[@jfinke373]

We all enjoy your honesty. You, are of a special sort, the greatest sort we have. Many blessings. much love. You Are Awesome!

[@lindafisher8441]

Paola…I was just watching Jonna Jinton and imagine my surprise when she included your video response to what would you say to 4 million people…my goodness my two favorite spirits to watch and listen to in the same place….what an utter joy!!

[@Essy367]

There’s something so poetic about the way you speak that I always find so soothing. Your videos always bring me so much peace, and I can relate to many of the topics you discuss in them, so I thank you for that. I can also empathize with what you mentioned about your sister’s struggle with depression and desire to counsel others who have been through what she’s experienced, as I have gone through a similar journey in life myself.

[@feylights166]

This resonated with me. I've been struggling with anxiety and worry about the future.

[@tiffanysnyder8673]

Paola....you just make me happy. Thank you. 😊 Your beautiful soul radiates so much love and light to so many. 💗

[@therealJamieJoy]

Sending love, Paola. You are enough. You are always enough. Please remember that.

[@kimlangenderfer7493]

I love every piece of clothing that you wear! I love the colors you choose and also the styles always suit you. It’s just another way that you use your art for self expression. It is so feminine and so very perfect ❤ I can’t wait to be inspired by what you wear next. ❄️💜

[@KatinkaPonders]

It is always so inspiring to spend time with you 💕

[@desislavabozhinova906]

I’m going through a bit of a hard time mentally right now, because I recently struggled with a health condition that left me at home with my parents for a month and a half. I’m only 20 and just entering adult life, so I’m occupied by a lot of anxious thoughts about the future that don’t seem to leave my head..will i find a good job, will i find a loving partner, will I dissappoint my parents.. Learning to navigate life is so hard. Growing pains. Thank you for your wonderful videos! I wish I can be as wise as you one day.

[@KMD2832]

My thoughts are with you x. Life will work out for you, it may not be exactly as you expect but it will work out,x. Give yourself the space to breathe and deal with one thing at a time, and you may find it all falls into place despite your worries x. Wishing you all the best in life, and if you have hard times, that you learn from them and grow stronger and wiser.

[@citrusgremlin]

I’m sorry to hear about your health condition. From a fellow struggling young adult, pls know you aren’t alone. We will find our way. Sending prayers and hugs💗

[@gingersal8052]

You're so young, take care of yourself first and foremost lovely! The rest will sort itself out.

[@mellibee100]

PAOLA! I just saw you on Jonna Jinton's latest video! :). What a fun surprise! It is a very chilly morning here in Nashville, TN. All the schools are out due to ice on the roads and I am indoors keeping cosy and watching the woodpeckers and bluejays enjoy the suet I put out for them :). Have a beautiful day. 🌄🌳🐿️😻🐾

[@mellibee100]

Also, I just heard about a book I am checking out of interlibrary loan which I think you would also enjoy. It is A handful of Happiness by Massimo Vacchetta (from Northern Italy) - a heart-warming story of how a tint hedgehog helped one man find hope :)

[@lifeisagift.cherisheverymoment]

Paola, the wisdom you share in this video is absolutely timely and beautiful and spoke deeply and profoundly to me today. Thank you! Namasté. With love. ❤ I have purchased your Book and your Audiobook and I have listened to and relistened to your audiobook and read and re-read your book and will continue to do so again and again. From this video: "It is not death that a man should fear, but he should fear never beginning to live." Marcus Aurelius "If you believe life is a gift, so it shall be. If you know that goodness is everywhere, You will begin to see it. If you wish for beauty, it shall appear. If you imagine a better world, You will take the first step to create it." Life is beautiful. Life is precious. Life is a gift. Cherish every moment.

[@clarityinteriors-o8o]

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[@itssoaztek4592]

Again and again I am amazed by your storytelling. And your fantastic camera work, including the fabulous use of light and composition. It's not easy at all what you do and you do it very well to say the least. Thank you for sharing.

[@fprleite]

Lots of love from Brazil 💚💚💚

[@coletteg.4548]

I just love you ! You are so real and that’s hard to find in people now days . God Bless you for being you and sharing the wonderful you that you are . Much love from Tennessee ♥️

[@meganfp1061]

Beautiful video thank you ✨ (Perth, Western Australia)

[@robinmp8300]

So nice to see you and your husband enjoying each other with Igor.❤ My pictures came and they are beautiful, I am never disappointed with the love you put in each one ❤

[@vkq47]

You are so kind and beautiful and so well spoken! I live to watch what you are making or listening to what you have to say! We all can learn to be more happy within ourselves which can translate into how we treat each other! Thank you for your channel! Venetia in San Antonio

[@dianab.3941]

The soaps look absolutely gorgeous. Blessing to you for a peaceful week.

[@sweethaven1929]

Omg what a memory , I grew up in my younger day in the island and would stop at this old neighbor and she will let me grind the coffe …Dona Cesar , do you know that your videos help me ,for all you say and do it’s so real and I share many ,life is a gift ,we must unwrap every day like a precious gift ..hugs 💕❤️💕❤️

[@dkm6054]

"I'm afraid of the ultimate reality that my life is fleeting, and that I need to cultivate the life I love." So so so true.

[@annareznikova4087]

Dear Paola, thanks you for sharing your sincere thoughts with us. Your gentle manner helps me also to reflect and feel more peaceful and more importantly that we are not alone in our struggles. And so you know - you are making this world better by being your authentic self , sharing it honestly and so beautifully with the world and of course by sharing your art too.

[@mariapenilla8993]

Beautiful soothing video! There is so much I can relate to through this meaningful message. You have been gifted with the most angelical voice among your many other incredible talents. Thank you, Paola! Greetings from South America.

[@johndej]

Beautiful and thoughtful video!! Watching you sledding brought back some happy memories. I had one like that when I was young. Somewhere along the way it went wherever all those childhood toys went. I remember sledding, but not where the sled went. I'm realizing that as I age, the same thing happens to all the stuff and activities of my life. Interesting thing to ponder. Anyway, have a great week!!

[@shannonsalter6407]

Thank you for your authenticity. You have such a beautiful heart, Paola.

[@dogrady17]

Thank you as always for your kindness. A blessing at the end of what has been a day of heartache.

[@mrsbigbug]

A heartfelt hug from a stranger to you.

[@bonniebinsky6666]

Sending hugs! 💕🌞

[@Julie-bq6iz]

Hi Paola! I was very delighted yesterday to see your video message in Jonna's video! Two of my favorite artistic souls together. Your message was beautiful!❤️

[@sandrazboinski6473]

Thank you for this thoughtful composition. I agree to live in the present is so important and often so difficult. I deal with anxiety and am learning to accept that I am not in control and I need to allow and feel those emotions. Being sensitive can be tough and scary but we are often the strongest people. Stay warm and be well.

[@hannahviolette4553]

I totally relate about not tolerating the cold well...I don't get chillblains, but I do have Raynaud's Syndrome and so I literally turn purple when it's cold - lips, nose, fingers, toes...all purple. And once I'm cold, there's no warming me up outside taking a hot shower.

[@marycooney2194]

I loved what you said about sleep. I haven't been able to sleep longer than 5 hours at night and I know it's a control thing. I have been on a healing journey as well with anxiety and depression. I accepted this sleep thing as another thing to heal and what you said brought understanding. I am 62 yrs old and when I had my worst days in my 20s, 30s there was no talk about anxiety or depression, only advice to just push through it. Now I have learned to sit and feel what I feel. Thanks so much for sharing from your life and your sister's too. Be well and be at peace

[@jeanlilley3139]

I have found lined leggings with 2 pair of socks and long boots and pants keep my legs warm. I wear a tee shirt, a long sleeve cotton blouse, a sweater, and a warm scarf and coat when outside.. A hat or pull on toboggan keeps my head warm. I'm a mess and must adjust what I wear to stay warm or shed when too hot. I do well with staying comfortable because I've dealt with my body's temperature issues for all my life. Undergarments help a lot in the winter weather. You probably know this, but I shared because I used to shiver so much before I learned to layer clothing. I enjoyed your calm talk and watching you cook. Be blessed.

[@wildinwonder3700]

Needed to hear this message today. I tend to overwork in hopes to live a certain way in the future. However, there is no time like the present to prioritize what matters most and start appreciating life as it is in this moment. Thank you, Paola! I feel you are a kindred spirit.

[@mrstiggywinkle]

I got chilblains in my toes for the first time recently, they are SO painful!!! Took weeks to heal! Xx sending love and healing

[@StopListenThink]

I seen you on another video this week ❤ I seen a lot of people saying hi in that video and you were one of them 💕

[@jessmcd503]

Yes it was great to see Paola featured there

[@lisacronin9333]

I left the city 7 years ago to live in a small mountain town surrounded by beautiful forest and wildlife in your front yard..literally. The forest is amazing. It teaches you more about yourself than anyone else could. Nature is all about balance and so is life. I've learned that living in the mountains. 🌲🌲🌲🌲

[@worldover4616]

Just wanted to thank you for your beautiful artwork that I purchased on your esty website. Plan on and looking forward to returning for more.

[@Native-Kitty]

Thank you for this beautiful video Paola. Some of the things you talked about resonated with me and made me feel that I’m not alone. That acorn baking mold was beautiful ❤❤

[@lauranardini8329]

Hello Paola, I just read your book recently and I have to say I really enjoyed it! Your thoughts and images in the book were wonderful. I also saw your appearance in Joanna’s newest video on her KZbin channel. That’s awesome 👏🏻

[@RedMapleCanada]

Beautiful video, I enjoyed listening to your reflections again. Greetings from beautiful Pacific West Coast. 😍👍🇨🇦