How I make Time for *EVERYTHING* (even with a full time job) | 5 Secrets of Time Management

[@DrFayeBate]

Time stamps hereeee: 00:00 - Intro 00:46 - 1. The Sneakiest Secret 03:00 - Unriddle 04:35 - 2. The Lowest Maintenance Secret 05:48 - 3. The Best Kept Secret 07:52 - 4. The Worst Kept Secret 09:46 - 5. The Overal Winner

[@sunnyaaliyah9547]

Please what are your setting on the canon g7xii❤

[@melvin4829]

It helps living alone I think. I always feel busier when I have to share time with someone else.

[@carinaoliveira5850]

I've always felt this!! When my sister comes to visit for holiday for a couple weeks, I feel like nothing gets done! The small cleaning and prep tasks, start to fall behind because I'm constantly invited to dinners and events with family and friends.

[@divyasasidharan2960]

I swear, it's like someone is eating away ur life

[@qpixelthree80]

Literally, getting married added more to my to do list, then having a kid.. boy, just trying to get through each day as happily and regulated as possible 😅😅

[@AngelicWitch444]

@@divyasasidharan2960wow why would anyone want someone eating your own life??

[@guestservice-w3q]

My 4 yo and wife sabotage all of the routines i set for myself so yes, it'd be way easier for single people leaving alone

[@Naommc]

Love that one of the biggest secrets is just having money

[@sodotta]

? u think she works this hard for fun? i'm honestly only seeing money well earned, spent and invested - where is the problem?

[@Naommc]

@@sodotta No problem, just a little out of touch as a hack 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@francesca1234t]

And not having kids 😂

[@en2336]

@@sodotta you sound triggered, you should look inwards as to where that anger comes from. We can calmly both respect her honestly and also acknowledge that most people do not have the class/wealth to follow her lifestyle exactly, and that is an important societal issue that wealth is often a prerequisite to living a full life like hers. everyone should have that right!

[@shwarma]

@@Naommc I agree.

[@melaniegriesemer]

Never trust your brain to remember everything 😅 sooo true! I love Google calendar for EVERYTHING. I used to always feel stressed like I was forgetting something but now that I write everything down I don’t even need to worry about it! I know it’s all written down!

[@DrFayeBate]

Literally the GOLDEN rule 😭💖

[@Jesteneleroy]

the best thing you could do for yourself is to move your body even when you don't feel like it! Love these tips!

[@jordanbrooks8164]

I lost my phone after watching this and now it’s the end of the day and I pretty much did everything I needed to do today without my phone. Now I know where my wasted time is going.

[@franziskaw.3167]

key points or short summary for u (and me:)): 1. Rate-limiting steps: activities that take the longest time and slow you downnn -> so i would explain it like Ali Abdaal named it: Multimodality Multitasking-> do 2 things at once, but different modes of Tasks (e.g. reviewing flashcards in the bus) 2. Habits-> so u don't have to plan ur stuff newly every day! 3. Outsourcing->paying others to do the boring stuff 4. a system for ur time management aka Google Calendar (mentioned here and i love it too) 5. the Oscar goes tooooo : Love what u do. -> the concept of Ikigai

[@ariannafree]

Girl, thank you for showing up for us! We know - actually we don't KNOW know - that your life must be obnoxiously heavy at times, and yet here you are being the sister we need. Thank you for making the time. Truthfully, this is also a form of medicine you are practicing, as we are all healing and growing from your motivation. Keep on swimming chica, and mind the gap 😉

[@DrFayeBate]

you’re too kind🥲 but honestly KZbin is my saving grace, the perfect escape and I have all of you to thank for it! Thanks so much for watching and being my oasis amongst all the stress 💖

[@gockelxxxxxl9584]

My med school entry exam is the day after tomorrow and some of your videos really helped me in past weeks. I‘m diagnosed with ADHD too and it‘s nice to see that this „disease“ doesn’t prevent from study medicine. But I‘m male, so my symptoms differ from yours.

[@DrFayeBate]

Best of luck tomorrow! And so happy you’ve found the videos helpful ✨✨

[@gockelxxxxxl9584]

@@DrFayeBate Thanks a lot, your wish worked and I got accepted today! But now the real challenge begins

[@tiaa458]

@@gockelxxxxxl9584 Hi! 4th year here: if I could go back and tell my first year meddie self anything, it would be to have heard of Dr Justin Sung sooner. His KZbin channel singlehandedly changed the way I learn and made med school content feel sooooo much more palatable. I only discovered him halfway through my third year, and then suddenly everything I was learning was suddenly sticking in my brain and making sense collectively like how I understand things I enjoy, like my hobbies. You don't realise how much time you're wasting on inefficient study until you finally try to understand and employ non-linear learning! I know it sounds corny but this guy helped me bridge the gap between knowing and understanding, and I want every student to discover it. I can't praise him enough because he's not even hiding this info behind a paywall - I learnt everything I knew from his free videos. He's got a course but based off how he described it, it's more for those who either don't have time to figure it out only on their own, or those who just really need deeper help than just leaving a comment or reaching out to him with a question on social media. I figured I'd try giving it a shot on my own and I found it worked well enough!!

[@MindYourPerspective-1]

​@@gockelxxxxxl9584 congratulations

[@carlygreen2293]

Babe, I love this, and James Clear. But I am not killing myself with bleach everyday while I shower lol. Steam makes smells more potent. However, the Fly Lady's morning "swish and swipe" works 10xs better for me. This is a great video. Love all these tips. You're a true inspiration!

[@sophiaprice4859]

Came straight to the comments when I heard that part! You absolutely should not stay in a room with bleach for a prolonged period. I think a better alternative would be to pop the bleach in the toilet after your shower when you’re opening your window to let the steam out. 10 mins later you can come back, flush the toilet and close the window. In the mean time, you can spend those 10 mins in your bedroom getting dressed, drying your hair, etc.

[@caitlinmoore8740]

Also you really don't need to bleach your toilet every single day... Bleach is so bad for the environment too 😩

[@bewithyou9976]

Just discovered you - new subscriber hereeeee I'm a 2nd year med student about to start studying for step 1 with raging adhd imposter syndrome and procrastination. Need this now more than ever 😘😘

[@wesalali6825]

best youtuber ever currently doing my gsces and planing to study medicene in the future and you just motivate be to become the best version of myself

[@DrFayeBate]

🥲🥲🥲 stop itttttt 🥲 best of luck with ya gcses and journey to medicine 🩺🩺

[@AnysNadhilah]

The level of editing is INSANE! I love it😍 keep us engaged and entertained. I assume you have a video editor, please share tips to hire video editor please! Thank you

[@BB-wc6np]

Do you have an editor? They’re doing their thang with your content I love it 😍

[@JilTheReal]

I love your content because it is always interesting but I also have to say, your editing (or your editor if you outsourced that) is so incredibly good. Your whole production is amazing and I just needed to let you know! ☺

[@renee8906]

the editing is so top tier + the ASMR noises I LOVE IT

[@marinapan2971]

Faye, it's irrelevant to the video, but I wanted to say that you had such an incredible glow up after graduating med school. You look radiant in each and every video, even after a long shift😂!!! Love youu❤

[@fabienne.burgers]

I rarely comment on anything and any social platfrom but i must say this. I have noticed that there are so many 'self help/self care' guru's content creators and at leats 70% of them are not actually guru's and they are just yapping commen sense or their own opinion. I don't really care about their content, but it got me really selective on who i am watching. So i just wanted to say; Thank you for this video because i can tell (my opinion) that you really know what you are talking about, you really sound educated/experienced in this matter. you are not yapping about stupid shit and you are straight to the point. I rarely subscripe to anyone, but i know you are worthy of watching and learning from :)

[@DrFayeBate]

This has made my heart swell ☺️ sometimes on the internet I feel as though the real life, tried + trusted approach is over looked because it’s nuanced and a bit boring but thank you so much for watching 🫶🏼

[@fabienne.burgers]

@@DrFayeBate Everyone who thinks learning is boring are npc's. Again thank you, you really should be proud of yourself, because you are one of the content creators that make people change.

[@melvin4829]

yes omg or regurgitating other self help books

[@shreya...007]

Okay, people here are saying how out of touch she is for mentioning outsourcing as a tip, but I disagree. As she mentioned, women are so much more likely to try to do everything, and men are more likely to delegate. It is a good reminder that you don't have to do absolutely everything yourself just to feel like you are in control or that you actually did accomplish something. She just said that if you do have the means and resources to do so, delegating and outsourcing some tasks is good. It doesnt even have to always cost money, just look out for opportunities to delegate some tasks. I saw this in action in a tv show once and it stuck with me (House MD for anyone curious) The dean of Medicine of a hospital, a woman, refused to get a nanny but she also had way too many responsibilities at work and she literally brought her kid to work. She was so stressed out and she felt terrible. Finally one of the other characters, a male doctor tells her that women do what she's doing. If it were a man in her position, he'd have two assistants at work and a wife and nanny at home. That line just stuck with me so much. So yeah, thats all Faye wanted to convey here too. Thanks for reading through my rant lol

[@moths.for.valentine]

she acts like it's a best kept secret but ignores that it is a privilege for her to just pay people

[@angie20de06]

Thank you, Faye. I know you think you're not that amazing, but you are. Watching your videos always makes me feel like doing the stuff I need to do (and more than that, the stuff that I really want and committed myself to do!). Thanks a ton for all the inspo. I've seen you admit you have days when you feel like it's all scattered, but still you are a great source of inspiration to get my life together and run after my dreams. I hope this comment helps if you're having a not-so-great day. Really, thank you.

[@dreaminrebecca]

Currently in my GCSEs and this is just the video I need thank you so much for this, love you Faye ❤❤

[@DrFayeBate]

Best of luck with you GCSEs!!

[@lini2214]

My house is super clean when I wake up. I only need to make the bed, clean the kitchen and clean the couch and table. I tidy everything when my water for my tea is boiling (3 min) and after that whilst my tea sits for five minutes and then the house is clean when i eat my breakfast 🥰

[@missionfoodie]

Tell me you have no children without telling me you have no children 😆😆😆

[@rach9969]

I miss living alone and not in a house share lol

[@kleom]

your editing makes you stand out, love it

[@DrFayeBate]

I have a WONDERFUL editor but I have shared your comment with her, she’s incredible 💖

[@skylnstudio1439]

Finally a video that was really helpful with facts and references thank you

[@Simplyryanne]

Thanks for sharing! I have a hard time outsourcing because I am a control freak but really should try to do this. I also like to think of being disciplined for habits, rather than motivation because motivation is fleeting.

[@fa6maal3beaidli31]

sooooo useful, especially with senior last finals week

[@DrFayeBate]

So happy to be of service 💖💖

girl! How do you edit your videos?? I love them so much

[@azninjasani8639]

you're one of my favorite youtubers. thank you so much for videos like this! i always take away something from your videos

[@vanessaprincesssa]

The Oscars format is SO cute! ❤ Thank you, Faye!

[@livingwithluisa]

I love your video style! and the way you edit! It's so entertaining but also extremely helpful 🎀💕

[@DrFayeBate]

Thanks so much, so happy you found it helpful!! I have an incredible editor who is so creative and talented 💖💖

[@randomlytshego]

​@@DrFayeBatecan you share who they [your editor] are? If they have a website or an Instagram account? I bet I could learn so much from them.

[@abeermahadi]

The creativity 👏

[@salonibhagwani5976]

Your Google calendar looks very eye-pleasing and aesthetic, could you please share the colour codes of your different calendars. thank you!!

[@florenciaiduarte3933]

Thanks for sharing your experience with us 🙌🏼❤️

[@marykatemurphy3738]

i wont even lie an AI ad in a time management-help video is pretty fucked up

[@SeleneDove-w6i]

Working around rate-limiting steps mean: Reordering tasks (e.g., starting the longest step first so other tasks don’t get delayed). Streamlining the process (e.g., meal prepping once a week instead of daily). Using downtime efficiently (e.g., listening to an audiobook while doing dishes).

[@pipelayomimiko]

This edit is soo good and must have taken a long time! Great job!

[@humaira2347]

love the editing

[@BelindaBower]

I love your unique, quicky but valuable insights!

[@immaybeeASMR]

Gonna try it!

[@nylasmi]

This was so helpful! Thank you so much!

[@zengoce]

I don't really understand how unriddle could help with my time management but okay this video is pretty cool

[@AutumnVulpes369]

so in other words my ADHD Fs me over again... i do a lot of these already and still cant do them and still dont have time

[@rue_777]

you poor thing

[@jmarie1778]

She actually said she has ADHD too so implementing some of these things she mentions is how she’s managed it!

[@AutumnVulpes369]

@@jmarie1778 i know, but it doesnt work for me unfortunately

[@haffizahali3457]

Love this video super helpful tips! Will we be getting a vlog soon? It's fine if not I know how busy you are

[@DrFayeBate]

Currently editing one now! I’ve just lost loads of the footage and can’t find it anywhere so it’s been delayed 🥲 filming one this week too!

[@Rosannasfriend]

Thank you so much! I think you’ve really changed my life.

[@DrFayeBate]

This makes me so happy to hear 🥹🥹

[@MeraGal]

get so excited when you upload! always super helpful

[@devib9538]

Loved these!

[@maedehchorli636]

As an ADHD girli how do you develop routine? It's extremely exhausting for me.

[@haileywasheree]

These were some good tips tbh

[@DrFayeBate]

So happy ya found it useful 🫶🏼

[@moz8584]

Happy to have found your channel!

[@ELLa-rp4lr]

This video gives me anxiety 😭

[@polishedandpoisedplanner]

Going to incorporate these tips into my planning

[@cmednc]

Every hospitality worker or teacher is like - wait, everyone doesn’t already do no. 1? 😂

[@anunotebook]

Your channel is such an inspiration! I'm just starting out with my own channel-please wish me luck on my journey.

[@DrFayeBate]

Best of luck with your channel! I’m sure you’ll absolutely smash it 🫶🏼

[@anunotebook]

@@DrFayeBate thank you

[@hanna-qq3yc]

thank you sooo, so much for your videos! As a med student myself and most likely neurodivergent, I would sooo much profit of a working routine. But I struggle soo hard with implementing one that works for me. How did you build your own? I would LOOOVE a video from you about that!😍

[@Brittanyem]

Rate limiting steps = habit stacking (with intention)

[@zoemacpherson2701]

Plan on getting my PhD project to a point where I can outsource some of the work to Master's students.

[@FatimaM-u3u]

ILove you ,you inspired me❤

[@gracielowden5464]

I love your style of editing so much! What software do you use (asking as girly who just got a job creating content for a company lol) ??

[@dariasaltykova6068]

You mentioned that you outsource finding an outfit: could you recommend someone specific? Or how to find such a person?

[@fredo2961]

So this productivity is for you to have a moment for yourself, yes? I can't imagine you having a good thoughtful hour or two if you can't just stay with your thoughts and gratitude for 2 minutes when and water for tea is boiling.

[@vladagoriacheva]

What assistant is she using for her calendar? I also want to have my schedule done automatically 😊

[@wyosha93]

Who do you use to online shop for you?

[@maitrikagupta6519]

Hey i’d be really grateful for your advice on what palliative medicine was like at st thomas, since i have it at kings and unsure if i will be on the on call rotation (i want to be) and whether i should try to swap it! Please please if you could spare some input it would help me out loads xx

[@robyntaylor9648]

What do you use for outsourcing jobs? Any websites?

[@DrFayeBate]

upwork or Fiverr are great! And I use a virtual PA service called task virtual too ☺️

[@daydesirea5718]

@@DrFayeBateWhich video is on outsourcing? I do not see any links to watch it.

[@elliekay3396]

half if this is sponsorships

[@Carolitadailytravel]

How you edited this video?

[@elleniisss]

What about being present on what you do? I don’t see being in the treadmill and replying emails is beneficial at all. Sports help to desconnect your mind from work. Same as doing chores while doing beauty maintenance. Sorry but i think all of this is SO toxic.

[@alexisbas10]

I NEVER use bleach ever. I clean the inside of my toilet with lemon juice, baking soda, and vinegar. I clean the outside with a water/alcohol mixture

[@seraphstudies]

Where is the video on how to outsource please?

[@Adnanhasb1]

Thanks for the share

[@divyasasidharan2960]

Ur last point was my 1st thought. Yeah none of that works coz theres no motovation in what needs to b done.

[@glowxxstaro]

how do u find people to outsource though that's the hard part

[@KathyMillbourn]

Sorry where is the link for the outsourcing video?

[@Itslayla444]

Any reverences as to where I can outsource someone to do online research on a few different things for me?

[@pindajung]

The sound affects are driving me crazy!!

[@charIidamelio]

Where can you find gratitude group chats??

[@melissachacko284]

Downloaded google calendar widget and checking out unriddle. Thx!

[@Myaussiehome]

Ikigai ❤

[@lornadarren1287]

Where is that glass from? X

[@RobertBirch-vi3ig]

Nice

[@just.fisayo]

Not everyone can outsource tho.

[@design_with_dana]

Where do you find people to complete the tasks for you? 🤔

[@karenrich9092]

You mentioned delegating research. I happen to enjoy doing that very thing.

[@AshleyBritney]

that gives me anxiety

[@mw01908]

Multi tasking and task association. I have a shave while I'm having a pee.

[@alexandriadillhoff7069]

OK so now add kids and do again. I love these, but they feel like I need the next step since I have two kids 😂

[@bequirivera8540]

👏👏👏

[@e.s.8184]

No kids... that's the secret🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Divyv520]

Hey Faye , very good video . I can do better editing in your videos which can help you to get more engagement in your videos . Pls lmk what do you think ?

[@merykim7795]

For the love of God, when do you rest ? How much stamina do you have ? :))))))

[@Hosamank-i4t]

I like u 😍...from syria

[@itsalicia94]

❤

[@sizohmthethwa]

❤❤❤

[@ilmareofthemaiar]

I think cleaning your toilet every day is a waste of time if you’re trying to maximize efficiency.

[@Miss.ducharme]

❤

[@DrFayeBate]

🫶🏼

[@anyagee9467]

I do all of this and I'm still poor

[@dianediane17]

si

[@lima3564]

Honestly thanks for sharing those tips that help you ❤ But why do people let water run in the shower before hopping in? Like dont you feel bad for wasting all that water? I can normally not stand it if people want to annoy you about not being perfectly green. So sry But pls just overthink habits that waste ressources and about sharing them Thank youuuuu

[@fatokiibukun7862]

Depending on where you live the water heater takes a few minutes to heat up. If you don't wait you'll have to start your shower with really cold water.

[@ghembrain]

The audio effects put me off

[@tehilaelishaev]

It’s hard to hear with all the edits