Time stamps hereeee: 00:00 - Intro 00:46 - 1. The Sneakiest Secret 03:00 - Unriddle 04:35 - 2. The Lowest Maintenance Secret 05:48 - 3. The Best Kept Secret 07:52 - 4. The Worst Kept Secret 09:46 - 5. The Overal Winner
@sunnyaaliyah95472 ай бұрын
Please what are your setting on the canon g7xii❤
@melvin48292 ай бұрын
It helps living alone I think. I always feel busier when I have to share time with someone else.
@carinaoliveira58502 ай бұрын
I've always felt this!! When my sister comes to visit for holiday for a couple weeks, I feel like nothing gets done! The small cleaning and prep tasks, start to fall behind because I'm constantly invited to dinners and events with family and friends.
@divyasasidharan29602 ай бұрын
I swear, it's like someone is eating away ur life
@qpixelthree802 ай бұрын
Literally, getting married added more to my to do list, then having a kid.. boy, just trying to get through each day as happily and regulated as possible 😅😅
@AngelicWitch4442 ай бұрын
@@divyasasidharan2960wow why would anyone want someone eating your own life??
@guestservice-w3qАй бұрын
My 4 yo and wife sabotage all of the routines i set for myself so yes, it'd be way easier for single people leaving alone
@Naommc2 ай бұрын
Love that one of the biggest secrets is just having money
@sodotta2 ай бұрын
? u think she works this hard for fun? i'm honestly only seeing money well earned, spent and invested - where is the problem?
@Naommc2 ай бұрын
@@sodotta No problem, just a little out of touch as a hack 🤷🏽♀️
@francescasianna55882 ай бұрын
And not having kids 😂
@en23362 ай бұрын
@@sodotta you sound triggered, you should look inwards as to where that anger comes from. We can calmly both respect her honestly and also acknowledge that most people do not have the class/wealth to follow her lifestyle exactly, and that is an important societal issue that wealth is often a prerequisite to living a full life like hers. everyone should have that right!
@shwarma2 ай бұрын
@@Naommc I agree.
@vk3980Ай бұрын
I don't think bleaching your toilet every day is good for environment or your budget.
@clairelovins8139Ай бұрын
ok I’m sorry but stop lol.
@hnicholeКүн бұрын
@@clairelovins8139 They're right though? Who tf bleaches their toilet every single day.
@Claudia-lq3ns3 ай бұрын
Be careful when uploading docs that are confidential to the internet for any reason, especially when the purpose is to process the data somehow.
@FloatingInSpace57022 ай бұрын
This is such a big deal so many don’t think of! Al learns from whatever you upload / type. Make sure to read confidentiality/privacy/sharing clauses before you use these platforms. Especially for anything related to work if you have clients or personal information.
@melaniegriesemer2 ай бұрын
Never trust your brain to remember everything 😅 sooo true! I love Google calendar for EVERYTHING. I used to always feel stressed like I was forgetting something but now that I write everything down I don’t even need to worry about it! I know it’s all written down!
@DrFayeBate2 ай бұрын
Literally the GOLDEN rule 😭💖
@carlygreen22933 ай бұрын
Babe, I love this, and James Clear. But I am not killing myself with bleach everyday while I shower lol. Steam makes smells more potent. However, the Fly Lady's morning "swish and swipe" works 10xs better for me. This is a great video. Love all these tips. You're a true inspiration!
@sophiaprice4859Ай бұрын
Came straight to the comments when I heard that part! You absolutely should not stay in a room with bleach for a prolonged period. I think a better alternative would be to pop the bleach in the toilet after your shower when you’re opening your window to let the steam out. 10 mins later you can come back, flush the toilet and close the window. In the mean time, you can spend those 10 mins in your bedroom getting dressed, drying your hair, etc.
@AutumnVulpes3692 ай бұрын
so in other words my ADHD Fs me over again... i do a lot of these already and still cant do them and still dont have time
@rue_777Ай бұрын
you poor thing
@JesteneLeRoy2 ай бұрын
the best thing you could do for yourself is to move your body even when you don't feel like it! Love these tips!
@ariannafree3 ай бұрын
Girl, thank you for showing up for us! We know - actually we don't KNOW know - that your life must be obnoxiously heavy at times, and yet here you are being the sister we need. Thank you for making the time. Truthfully, this is also a form of medicine you are practicing, as we are all healing and growing from your motivation. Keep on swimming chica, and mind the gap 😉
@DrFayeBate3 ай бұрын
you’re too kind🥲 but honestly KZbin is my saving grace, the perfect escape and I have all of you to thank for it! Thanks so much for watching and being my oasis amongst all the stress 💖
@gockelxxxxxl95843 ай бұрын
My med school entry exam is the day after tomorrow and some of your videos really helped me in past weeks. I‘m diagnosed with ADHD too and it‘s nice to see that this „disease“ doesn’t prevent from study medicine. But I‘m male, so my symptoms differ from yours.
@DrFayeBate3 ай бұрын
Best of luck tomorrow! And so happy you’ve found the videos helpful ✨✨
@gockelxxxxxl95843 ай бұрын
@@DrFayeBate Thanks a lot, your wish worked and I got accepted today! But now the real challenge begins
@tiaa4582 ай бұрын
@@gockelxxxxxl9584 Hi! 4th year here: if I could go back and tell my first year meddie self anything, it would be to have heard of Dr Justin Sung sooner. His KZbin channel singlehandedly changed the way I learn and made med school content feel sooooo much more palatable. I only discovered him halfway through my third year, and then suddenly everything I was learning was suddenly sticking in my brain and making sense collectively like how I understand things I enjoy, like my hobbies. You don't realise how much time you're wasting on inefficient study until you finally try to understand and employ non-linear learning! I know it sounds corny but this guy helped me bridge the gap between knowing and understanding, and I want every student to discover it. I can't praise him enough because he's not even hiding this info behind a paywall - I learnt everything I knew from his free videos. He's got a course but based off how he described it, it's more for those who either don't have time to figure it out only on their own, or those who just really need deeper help than just leaving a comment or reaching out to him with a question on social media. I figured I'd try giving it a shot on my own and I found it worked well enough!!
@MindYourPerspective-1Ай бұрын
@@gockelxxxxxl9584 congratulations
@BB-wc6np3 ай бұрын
Do you have an editor? They’re doing their thang with your content I love it 😍
@salonibhagwani59763 ай бұрын
Your Google calendar looks very eye-pleasing and aesthetic, could you please share the colour codes of your different calendars. thank you!!
@lini2214Ай бұрын
My house is super clean when I wake up. I only need to make the bed, clean the kitchen and clean the couch and table. I tidy everything when my water for my tea is boiling (3 min) and after that whilst my tea sits for five minutes and then the house is clean when i eat my breakfast 🥰
@wesalali68253 ай бұрын
best youtuber ever currently doing my gsces and planing to study medicene in the future and you just motivate be to become the best version of myself
@DrFayeBate3 ай бұрын
🥲🥲🥲 stop itttttt 🥲 best of luck with ya gcses and journey to medicine 🩺🩺
@maedehchorli63624 күн бұрын
As an ADHD girli how do you develop routine? It's extremely exhausting for me.
@elliekay3396Ай бұрын
half if this is sponsorships
@JilTheReal3 ай бұрын
I love your content because it is always interesting but I also have to say, your editing (or your editor if you outsourced that) is so incredibly good. Your whole production is amazing and I just needed to let you know! ☺
@marinapan29713 ай бұрын
Faye, it's irrelevant to the video, but I wanted to say that you had such an incredible glow up after graduating med school. You look radiant in each and every video, even after a long shift😂!!! Love youu❤
@marykatemurphy3738Ай бұрын
i wont even lie an AI ad in a time management-help video is pretty fucked up
@AshleyBritney2 ай бұрын
that gives me anxiety
@Simplyryanne3 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing! I have a hard time outsourcing because I am a control freak but really should try to do this. I also like to think of being disciplined for habits, rather than motivation because motivation is fleeting.
@shreya...007Ай бұрын
Okay, people here are saying how out of touch she is for mentioning outsourcing as a tip, but I disagree. As she mentioned, women are so much more likely to try to do everything, and men are more likely to delegate. It is a good reminder that you don't have to do absolutely everything yourself just to feel like you are in control or that you actually did accomplish something. She just said that if you do have the means and resources to do so, delegating and outsourcing some tasks is good. It doesnt even have to always cost money, just look out for opportunities to delegate some tasks. I saw this in action in a tv show once and it stuck with me (House MD for anyone curious) The dean of Medicine of a hospital, a woman, refused to get a nanny but she also had way too many responsibilities at work and she literally brought her kid to work. She was so stressed out and she felt terrible. Finally one of the other characters, a male doctor tells her that women do what she's doing. If it were a man in her position, he'd have two assistants at work and a wife and nanny at home. That line just stuck with me so much. So yeah, thats all Faye wanted to convey here too. Thanks for reading through my rant lol
@haffizahali34573 ай бұрын
Love this video super helpful tips! Will we be getting a vlog soon? It's fine if not I know how busy you are
@DrFayeBate3 ай бұрын
Currently editing one now! I’ve just lost loads of the footage and can’t find it anywhere so it’s been delayed 🥲 filming one this week too!
@skylnstudio14392 ай бұрын
Finally a video that was really helpful with facts and references thank you
@dreaminrebecca3 ай бұрын
Currently in my GCSEs and this is just the video I need thank you so much for this, love you Faye ❤❤
@DrFayeBate3 ай бұрын
Best of luck with you GCSEs!!
@renee89062 ай бұрын
the editing is so top tier + the ASMR noises I LOVE IT
What do you use for outsourcing jobs? Any websites?
@DrFayeBate3 ай бұрын
upwork or Fiverr are great! And I use a virtual PA service called task virtual too ☺️
@daydesirea57183 ай бұрын
@@DrFayeBateWhich video is on outsourcing? I do not see any links to watch it.
@divyasasidharan29602 ай бұрын
Ur last point was my 1st thought. Yeah none of that works coz theres no motovation in what needs to b done.
@fa6maal3beaidli313 ай бұрын
sooooo useful, especially with senior last finals week
@DrFayeBate3 ай бұрын
So happy to be of service 💖💖
@bewithyou9976Ай бұрын
Just discovered you - new subscriber hereeeee I'm a 2nd year med student about to start studying for step 1 with raging adhd imposter syndrome and procrastination. Need this now more than ever 😘😘
@ilmareofthemaiarАй бұрын
I think cleaning your toilet every day is a waste of time if you’re trying to maximize efficiency.
@florenciaiduarte39332 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experience with us 🙌🏼❤️
@AnysNadhilahАй бұрын
The level of editing is INSANE! I love it😍 keep us engaged and entertained. I assume you have a video editor, please share tips to hire video editor please! Thank you
@merykim77953 ай бұрын
For the love of God, when do you rest ? How much stamina do you have ? :))))))
@angie20de063 ай бұрын
Thank you, Faye. I know you think you're not that amazing, but you are. Watching your videos always makes me feel like doing the stuff I need to do (and more than that, the stuff that I really want and committed myself to do!). Thanks a ton for all the inspo. I've seen you admit you have days when you feel like it's all scattered, but still you are a great source of inspiration to get my life together and run after my dreams. I hope this comment helps if you're having a not-so-great day. Really, thank you.
@hanna-qq3yc3 ай бұрын
thank you sooo, so much for your videos! As a med student myself and most likely neurodivergent, I would sooo much profit of a working routine. But I struggle soo hard with implementing one that works for me. How did you build your own? I would LOOOVE a video from you about that!😍
@seraphstudies3 ай бұрын
Where is the video on how to outsource please?
@linseyk5728Ай бұрын
#6: don't have kids. It makes the 5 previous "secrets" 80% easier.
@fabienne.burgers2 ай бұрын
I rarely comment on anything and any social platfrom but i must say this. I have noticed that there are so many 'self help/self care' guru's content creators and at leats 70% of them are not actually guru's and they are just yapping commen sense or their own opinion. I don't really care about their content, but it got me really selective on who i am watching. So i just wanted to say; Thank you for this video because i can tell (my opinion) that you really know what you are talking about, you really sound educated/experienced in this matter. you are not yapping about stupid shit and you are straight to the point. I rarely subscripe to anyone, but i know you are worthy of watching and learning from :)
@DrFayeBate2 ай бұрын
This has made my heart swell ☺️ sometimes on the internet I feel as though the real life, tried + trusted approach is over looked because it’s nuanced and a bit boring but thank you so much for watching 🫶🏼
@fabienne.burgers2 ай бұрын
@@DrFayeBate Everyone who thinks learning is boring are npc's. Again thank you, you really should be proud of yourself, because you are one of the content creators that make people change.
@melvin48292 ай бұрын
yes omg or regurgitating other self help books
@BelindaBower3 ай бұрын
I love your unique, quicky but valuable insights!
@anunotebook2 ай бұрын
Your channel is such an inspiration! I'm just starting out with my own channel-please wish me luck on my journey.
@DrFayeBate2 ай бұрын
Best of luck with your channel! I’m sure you’ll absolutely smash it 🫶🏼
@anunotebook2 ай бұрын
@@DrFayeBate thank you
@humaira23473 ай бұрын
love the editing
@Rosannasfriend3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! I think you’ve really changed my life.
@DrFayeBate3 ай бұрын
This makes me so happy to hear 🥹🥹
@vanessaprincesssa3 ай бұрын
The Oscars format is SO cute! ❤ Thank you, Faye!
@vk3980Ай бұрын
What, hire people to pick clothes for you? Omg, what regular person can afford that? This video is useless for regular people.
@just.fisayoАй бұрын
Not everyone can outsource tho.
@gracielowden5464Ай бұрын
I love your style of editing so much! What software do you use (asking as girly who just got a job creating content for a company lol) ??
@linchenpalАй бұрын
Bla bla bla… tired of those youtubers
@nylasmi3 ай бұрын
This was so helpful! Thank you so much!
@ELLa-rp4lr4 күн бұрын
This video gives me anxiety 😭
@azninjasani8639Ай бұрын
you're one of my favorite youtubers. thank you so much for videos like this! i always take away something from your videos
@monnn_Ай бұрын
is it me or does she look like zara larsson lmao
@pindajungАй бұрын
The sound affects are driving me crazy!!
@haileywasheree2 ай бұрын
These were some good tips tbh
@DrFayeBate2 ай бұрын
So happy ya found it useful 🫶🏼
@zoemacpherson27012 ай бұрын
Plan on getting my PhD project to a point where I can outsource some of the work to Master's students.
@charIidamelioАй бұрын
Where can you find gratitude group chats??
@livingwithluisa2 ай бұрын
I love your video style! and the way you edit! It's so entertaining but also extremely helpful 🎀💕
@DrFayeBate2 ай бұрын
Thanks so much, so happy you found it helpful!! I have an incredible editor who is so creative and talented 💖💖
@randomlytshego2 ай бұрын
@@DrFayeBatecan you share who they [your editor] are? If they have a website or an Instagram account? I bet I could learn so much from them.
@KathyMillbournАй бұрын
Sorry where is the link for the outsourcing video?
@design_with_danaАй бұрын
Where do you find people to complete the tasks for you? 🤔
@pipelayomimikoАй бұрын
This edit is soo good and must have taken a long time! Great job!
@Itslayla444Ай бұрын
Any reverences as to where I can outsource someone to do online research on a few different things for me?
@alexandriadillhoff70692 ай бұрын
OK so now add kids and do again. I love these, but they feel like I need the next step since I have two kids 😂
@kleom3 ай бұрын
your editing makes you stand out, love it
@DrFayeBate3 ай бұрын
I have a WONDERFUL editor but I have shared your comment with her, she’s incredible 💖
@Obadank-i4t3 ай бұрын
I like u 😍...from syria
@anyagee9467Ай бұрын
I do all of this and I'm still poor
@akamepetrova3 ай бұрын
first!!
@DrFayeBate3 ай бұрын
Hope ya enjoy 🫶🏼
@wyosha932 ай бұрын
Who do you use to online shop for you?
@lornadarren12872 ай бұрын
Where is that glass from? X
@Miss.ducharme3 ай бұрын
❤
@DrFayeBate3 ай бұрын
🫶🏼
@FatimaM-u3u3 ай бұрын
ILove you ,you inspired me❤
@moz85842 ай бұрын
Happy to have found your channel!
@RobertBirch-vi3ig2 ай бұрын
Nice
@dianediane172 ай бұрын
si
@Divyv5203 ай бұрын
Hey Faye , very good video . I can do better editing in your videos which can help you to get more engagement in your videos . Pls lmk what do you think ?
@devib9538Ай бұрын
Loved these!
@polishedandpoisedplanner2 ай бұрын
Going to incorporate these tips into my planning
@Adnanhasb13 ай бұрын
Thanks for the share
@MeraGal3 ай бұрын
get so excited when you upload! always super helpful
@lima35642 ай бұрын
Honestly thanks for sharing those tips that help you ❤ But why do people let water run in the shower before hopping in? Like dont you feel bad for wasting all that water? I can normally not stand it if people want to annoy you about not being perfectly green. So sry But pls just overthink habits that waste ressources and about sharing them Thank youuuuu
@fatokiibukun78622 ай бұрын
Depending on where you live the water heater takes a few minutes to heat up. If you don't wait you'll have to start your shower with really cold water.
@milam_is_ok2 ай бұрын
...god, can you do ANYTHING anymore without AI crap?
@florenciaiduarte39332 ай бұрын
Yes. She just chooses not to 😎
@annadowns32622 ай бұрын
She is a productive queen and this is what AI was designed for!
@sizohmthethwa2 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@AdrianaVostrezova3 ай бұрын
Im sorry but how is this any different than any other video in here ?
@florenciaiduarte39332 ай бұрын
It's not. It's just HER experience, not every video has to be discover something new 🙄
@melissachacko2842 ай бұрын
Downloaded google calendar widget and checking out unriddle. Thx!
@slvrcrossАй бұрын
Not the paw-jeit boyfriend 💀💀💀
@reyhan22023 ай бұрын
Bu videolarına aşığım ama ingilizcem yok 😭😭😭💌
@DrFayeBate3 ай бұрын
Sorry about that! I’ll look into seeing how to get translated into other languages! What language would be best for you?
@reyhan22023 ай бұрын
@@DrFayeBate Türkçe 🇹🇷 💖💖💖💖💖💖 seni çok seviyorum auran ve enerjini binlerce kilometre öteden hissediyorum 💘💘💘💘
@tehilaelishaev2 ай бұрын
It’s hard to hear with all the edits
@Amv3322 ай бұрын
People without kids thinking they are busy … still gives me a laugh. UPDATE: I have responded to each of these comments several times… looks like she has enough time to delete my response though. 😂
@florenciaiduarte39332 ай бұрын
Then this video it's not for you 👀
@Amv3322 ай бұрын
@@florenciaiduarte3933 correct… you are very on point: thank you
@Amv3322 ай бұрын
@@florenciaiduarte3933 perceptive.
@noraaa84792 ай бұрын
She’s not anyone without kids she’s a doctor of course she’s busy
@Amv3322 ай бұрын
@@noraaa8479 okay
@ashwalbridge19792 ай бұрын
She has time because she doesnt have kids
@zwierzification2 ай бұрын
I get that having kids takes amounts of time and energy that may be difficult to see for those of us without them. But do you seriously believe that kids are the only thing in this world that can consume time? It all adds up, a time-consuming thing doesn't have to be childcare to be time-consuming 😅 even in the world of care work alone, caring for an elderly disabled relative can be much more time consuming than caring for a kid. Provided having kids was your choice and not forced on you it's really weird to complain to strangers and imply they can't possibly know what it's like to be busy.
@hnicholeКүн бұрын
I'm so annoyed with people like you who complain about how much work kids are ... like no shit?? You presumably should know that before you make the choice to have them?? She, and many other professionals, are incredibly busy. Being a doctor isn't a walk in the park, on top of social media. Personally, my full-time job IS working with kids, usually I have them longer than their actual parents do lmao. And I'm also a senior in college, studying for law school, and working 2 other-part time jobs - I would say I'm busier than any parent, considering I'm doing my jobs on top of watching other people's children all day. You can say some of these tips are a little out of touch, but to say she has time because she doesn't have kids is, frankly, incredibly misogynistic.
@ZeguiMusicoАй бұрын
Come across this video randomly and I watched LYXBAG . OMG your closet is every women’s dream! Love your voice and the way you talk
@CronkiteSwanhart2 ай бұрын
you’re literally my comfort person i love you #luxdups