11 Ways to Become More Attractive (Using Psychology)

[@HeraBonheur-f5b]

"When you stop judging others, you stop judging yourself. When you start notice the positive in others, you remember to notice the positive in yourself"

[@LoLo-gf5df]

I think we should stop thinking about how great and deserving the other women or person is instead we should start thinking about ourselves and affirm that “I deserve the best ! Give yourself a princess treatment world can f*ck off for a moment, yes we should respect others that’s fine but we should first respect ourselves ❤

[@pipmiller4413]

gives treat others how u would like to be treated a whole different meaning

[@ramitah6855]

@herabonheur-f5b It’s actually the opposite. “When you stop judging yourself and noticing the positive in yourself first then you will notice the positive in others and stop judging them.”

[@peppeppermintangel]

- eliminate choice - evaluate the value exchange ; set boundaries

[@kellyb12345]

My grandmother always said, if you notice something new about someone, always comment on something positive about it - even if you don't love it (just say something you like ie "the color of that skirt is beautiful "). That way they feel noticed and appreciated, and your complement was sincere.

[@eileenstasczak6606]

Compliment, the act of saying something positive about something. Complement is something that accentuates something or someone in a positive way. (Her hair color complemented her makeup and skin color perfectly.)❤❤

[@Sarah-ii3rq]

ur hair now makes u glow and shine so much more and it looks so healthy❤

[@DrFayeBate]

🥹❤️

[@elbt101]

1:34 pick your outfits out the night before. It's helped me get to the gym

[@elllliiie]

Same here! I always was running late to work only because I did not know what to wear and in the end I always looked like disaster wishing to go back home

[@elbt101]

@elllliiie smart thinking!

[@vanessaprincesssa]

Faye, I absolutely loved the video, ESPECIALLY the second half where you talk how to glow up energetically and as a personality, not just from the outside! Thank you! One of the best videos on your channel and I especially loved the longer 30 minute format!

[@sofiaahmed005]

These videos give me LIFE. Love you Faye!! 😭❤️

[@DrFayeBate]

Enjoy ❤️

[@Aria-gq6uv]

Yes! This is the video I've been dreaming of since I was in high school! I've always had a low-maintenance skincare routine and my skin is thanking me years later... but I didn't feel like it was worthy enough to share online. This video got me feeling more inspired to express myself authentically.

[@e.c.4173]

Please do share that skincare routine ! X

[@paperplannerstudent896]

Confidence can’t be bought. It’s in our head ❤

[@sid4579]

it def can be bought lol, try living in a nice apartment, have a good car, dress well and expensive. That shi def matters, telling you as I am not financially secure but when I get those fat cheques sometimes I become a different man

[@samlab2935]

@@sid4579 thats kinda true but your foundation is still weak. it all starts from within. in my opinion. but i understand what you are saying

[@paperplannerstudent896]

@@sid4579 you can have it all and still feel like shit, money can’t buy you a new mindset, fair it helps a lot but you need to start working on yourself to truly feel good

[@snowworld1641]

​@@sid4579that's temporary. Not real confidence

[@unit333angel]

this is the first video i've seen from you! I love how positive your energy is and how insightful this video was! I feel the sincerity in your energy and i find that so comforting! thank you for these tips, i loved it!!!

[@julie9136]

would love to see a chatty GRWM-ik it wouldn't be your usual content format but your makeup and hair have been GORGEOUS and I'd love it if you could share some of the products you're using

[@RoxanneLo]

so happy YT recommended your video. i love that you talk about these habits with concrete examples and insights such as uniform effect and doing research. thank you! subscribed!

[@punitha_a_gowda6662]

Love this video. I love that you talk about this based on psychology. This makes so much sense and solves so many insecurities. Thank you for making this video. ❤

[@sunnydanisummers]

1:58 Wow, this really made me realize why I’ve struggled with routines promoted by self-help gurus, especially those from white male KZbinrs. Their routines-like waking up at 5 a.m. to work out-don’t align with my life. But your point about emotional labor clicked for me: routines aren’t about the specific activities; they’re about reducing decision fatigue. It’s not about what you do but having something pre-planned that works for your life. Thank you for helping me see this in a new way!

[@katieo3421]

The conversation around boundaries in this video really resonated with me. My thoughts on boundaries were previously always something like, "what boundaries? I don't need boundaries! I'm happy giving so much of myself to other people!" but I've really come to realize how detrimental that can be for me in a variety of ways. That and mastering the art of conversation are two things I really want to work on this year!

[@DrFayeBate]

You GET IT 💅🏼💅🏼 I’m all for giving off myself and being kindddddd but that’s not the same as being a people pleaser and obliterating your boundaries because you feel you should or it makes you more likeable ❗️

[@Jessw16]

Top tip if someone asks you to do them a favour don't immediately respond with yes and regret it respond with 'depends' so you hear the favour before committing to it so you still have an option in doing it or not.

[@simlishmork3831]

My go to when someone says "can you do me a favor?" Is just, "what's up?" Its positive, curious, but non committal.

[@anjahruszowski4961]

I don't usually comment, but this was a wonderful video. Thank you for sharing so many great and unique points

[@EmmaSWright]

This was absolutely fantastic to watch to start my new year with. No bullshit, just bloody great advice I’ll be putting into practise. Subscribed!❤

[@Marbelhaj]

I love your voice, its so nice to listen to

[@murphydelfin5758]

this was such a good video, for glowing up physically and mentally

[@Alex-f6i4m]

i so LOVE your energy! and love your idea of tracking wins and writing them down. will boost my inner confidence. Your practical ideas for an alter ego are great. any practical examples of what it’s like to try that?

[@madelynwiedrick]

This video was absolutely everything! Thank-you ❤

[@ElizabethDollen]

It's all in our head and our aura, an ebook called the power of the female aura on lentlish explains this very well, a must read.

[@monikab3413]

Great video! Loved the non-physical part! 👏🏻

[@jenni230]

You were just as beautiful before. It‘s truly the inner glow-up, the confidence that makes the biggest difference.

[@nicolebalmier]

thank you girlie this was great

[@bernadettemclean5238]

So true confidence takes time we gain more confidence as we grow up

[@bernadettemclean5238]

This video was great!

[@dagnyhadley]

I’d love for you to do a review of your Oura ring and if you use it as a form of cycle tracking and birth control monitoring !

[@DrFayeBate]

It’s not suitable for everyone but I’ve used Natural Cycle for 3 years and with my Oura ring for almost a year and I love it ❤️

[@Fromroughtoreno]

Love your videos they are always so wholesome and inspiring

[@amandateresam]

This is such an informative video! But also, I NEED to know what lip combo you are wearing! It’s gorgeous!

[@DrFayeBate]

Sorry to disappoint but I have lip blush so it’s just that with clear gloss 😭 but the shade I have is supposed to mimic Charlotte Tilbury pillow talk ❤️

[@amandateresam]

@ it’s beautiful! I’ll try the pillow talk. I’ve heard tons about it but never tried it! Thank you 🫶🏻

[@heyitssammij]

Habit 1: have your adorable accent 😂😂😂❤ 1:10

[@mariateresaboll7463]

Awesome tips!! And your voice is so sweet 😊

[@belxii3882]

GIRL U GIVE THE BEST ADVICE EVER THANK UUUUU ILYSMMM💗💗💗💗

[@trishapaniagua9192]

I just found your chanel and really enjoyed this video❤

[@TMP-x]

Vlogmas is amazing! ✨

[@rubee1027]

I'm obsessed with your accent 😍

[@jernjustyle]

The first time I watched Faye’s videos, I could barely understand her words. However, after a year, I can now understand 60-75% of what she says, and my accent has started to resemble hers, though not 100%. 😂

[@DrFayeBate]

🤣🤣 thanks guys, I don’t get this often 🤣❤️

[@li1us]

Im german and its really easy to understand her to me

[@jernjustyle]

@@li1us im beginner at that time.

[@123kapul]

​@@DrFayeBate where are you from, if you don't mind my asking?

[@taliaharrison1691]

hey faye, could you by any chance make a video going over worthwhile clothing brands to invest in for good pieces? I never know where to look

[@Tuanaaerrrr]

she is rightttt 💖

[@bernadettemclean5238]

This video was great!if my clothes are clean I will wear them the next day

[@Anna-b9l4m]

Thank you so much for this video ❤

[@shannaveganamcinnis-hurd405]

Love you. One small tip re make up. Your neck is too light compared to your face. Need to even out skin tone. Will make you even more awesome!!❤

[@rani1634]

Very inspirational message you are so pleasant. there was so much to learn to become better version of yourself great vibes

[@arielgardea9745]

I love this video!! Thank youuuu for this🫶🏼🫶🏼

[@lindarobinson8110]

So many simple and powerful action points

[@taylorsoroka8237]

Do you have a podcast? Or can you make one so we can listen on the go?

[@the_sinatube257]

Dear Faye, I just wanted to thank you for all your videos they are so inspiring. I love your earrings, would you tell me where you bought them? Thank you so much for all your work Best wishes from Berlin 😊

[@Mandyzinha5432]

What a beautiful voice

[@limelightsinner7487]

Wish this was a podcast

[@jenni230]

Loved the tips. Subscribed

[@maryr23]

This is what real transformation looks like, you seem trustworthy fsr ❤

[@Tima-gr8ru]

Definitely a value packed video .. thank you ❤

[@avihabegum6973]

Love your videos if you made a podcast would deffo listen x

[@jndb19]

Great content. Subscribed x

[@tamaraa.m]

Love it👌🏾

[@elyanep]

What app do you use to edit your videos, they are so appealing to the eye!! 😍 love your work!

[@DrFayeBate]

I have an incredible editor! But I personally use capcut ❤️

[@elyanep]

@@DrFayeBate Ok! Thank you so much! ☺

[@haydeecrespo8750]

Hihihihi the failed split, other level! Thanks for sharing all theses advices and kind of knowledge. Saludos desde Tenerife, Islas Canarias

[@melissakeller2644]

❤Great ideas with pleasant presentation.

[@rachitha8847]

Thank you for your tips!

[@cherusake]

Okay, question right away in part 1: What if the type of clothing I'm attracted to doesn't work for my body type? Even if I find pieces that I like in my size, it fits horribly to my shape.

[@jennifer.jason0402]

"Invest skincare over make up" YESSSS!!!

[@tylaevans3716]

Just subscribed 💖

[@Nat-uf8fz]

Can you make a podcast please?

[@afalobi]

Would you be willing to link the tee you're wearing in this video? I'm not from UK, so if you've said the brand name, I may have missed it as one I don't recognize. Looking for well-fitting basics with this style of neckline.

[@ailsaturner1251]

I love all of these tips except I disagree with the name thing.. I hate hearing my name lol just reminds me of my mum telling me off 😅

[@Messiahandmaster]

Where are those earrings from? ❤

[@AnaCreativeStudio]

Every girl should watch this video 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@reganwebster8385]

I love your earrings! Can I ask the brand?

[@mariavitoria9652]

How can a beautiful woman like that EVER feel ugly?

[@ridasparks]

you're beautiful Faye, both inside out!

[@Lfcklopp]

A lovely vlog video God bless you 🙏⭐❤

[@kimberleyleanne]

I have a colleague who has over 2 decades of dermatology experience and they told me that lengthy skincare routines are likely more damaging than anything. She told me the best thing you can do for your skin is wash it with plain old water unless you have visible dirt to remove from your skin, ie makeup, sweat from the gym etc when you should use a good oil based cleanser, then always moisturise. Since following her advice my skin has turned a corner massively. I no longer get huge breakouts, just a small breakout when I’m due my period. My eye circles and fine lines have reduced and my skin is so much more glowy and vibrant. I highly recommend a simple skincare routine.

[@belxii3882]

hii! what abt people who have acne, oily skin and need specific products to help target their concerns? like, I'm a teen and I use a cleanser, an essence to help soothen inflammation, a moiusturizer and a sunscreen. it's really helping, but do you think making it simpler would help me achieve faster results?

[@kimberleyleanne]

@ I’m not a dermatologist but for me personally- less is more. I found when I used all that stuff I had worse skin, even as a teenager

[@belxii3882]

thanks for the advice!! :D

[@أوتشيهاساسكي-ض8ل]

​@@belxii3882your routine is already simple. I thought you'd say much more.

[@denissesoto4724]

The earrings are absolutly gorgeous! Not more than you, though!

[@htnnah]

I have 4 products & 1 one of those is my toothpaste lmao

[@julietteberneche]

Is it possible to order Skin+Me in Canada? Thanks you 🙃

[@heyitssammij]

This is facts ❤ 1:21

[@kimberlykamp]

what camera do you use? 😍😊

[@johanna_wk]

Loved the video, but got do confused why you talked so much about skin+me until I realized it’s an ad, so would appreciate it if you mark it as an ad :)

[@zenorian6952]

Ok but the past year photo, she was still looking great lol.

[@MarieFelton]

Nice!

[@Myaussiehome]

Do you have a French parent? I found out I have some French in my DNA. I naturally do some of the French secrets.

[@freyagstarks]

where did you get your shirt?

[@AnnaLorris]

I feel like so many girls dont know the secrets we deserve to know. I found this book,' The Irresistible Seduction Formula' by Olivia Simmons and it’s literally life changer. Has anyone else heard of it?

[@_o6629]

No . Please tell me more about that book ..is it worth a buy??🤩

[@mashokelekarabo5078]

No

[@nodrvgs]

I’ve seen this in another comment section lol

[@zozoss5995]

This is a spam comment

[@anikoedina1521]

Scam

[@catherineboyle7837]

Hi there what style of tala top do you wear? I love your T-shirt - such a good basic!!

[@DrFayeBate]

Xs in tops and S in bottoms but I am 4ft11 + pint sized

[@physicstutus9851]

Such a useful video!! Thank you Faye 🫶🏻

[@nathaliefernandez378]

Where is the tshirt you’re wearing from?

[@MissMaisieMoss]

Tala

[@samanthajones4847]

Off topic BUTTT How does your hair stylist do your hair? I love the color?

[@HowToSaveMoneyOnCarRepairs]

Yeah man, useful information..! Thanks..! 🤔🤔😇😇

[@Tuanaaerrrr]

ı am not native speaker whats AKA thank youuu💖

[@quiggs31]

It stands for also known as!

[@miascozycorner7918]

Jesus loves you all! He cares about you and made you in His image! I pray that God would fill you with His everlasting Joy, Love, guidance, peace, and presence that surpasses all understanding! ❤

[@positivevibes568]

Hm.....

[@vb5414]

Hello Faye, thank you for your content. May I just say please be cautious with & recommending derm products esp those containing steroids. Long term sufferer of TSA/TSW here (topical steroid addiction/withdrawal) and it's absolutely debilitating gruelling, definitely wouldn't recommend usage of even the smallest potency % many have developed this condition after minimal usage hydrocortisone 💔 hope this is received with understanding 🙏🏼 ...fellow healthcare practitioner

[@DrFayeBate]

Hey! My Daily Doser doesn’t contain any hydrocortisone and all Daily Dosers are personalised based on a review on your skin ❤️

[@vb5414]

@DrFayeBate hey Faye, thank you for replying. That's a relief! I just know they use it in their preparations is all so good for viewers to know possible risks involved 🙏🏼✨ thank you for listening

[@amanielmoumni325]

Darling permanent make up is bad for you do you the chemicals that you’re putting in your skin and your system !

[@BereniceBerenice-hq4xq]

❤

[@lindiwehlongwane4736]

💚💚💚

[@PorfiCook]

Just a friendly suggestion, relax your forehead. Those mimics give you lines.

[@klavenice3572]

you reek I imagine

[@33nata33]

I hate publicity based videos

[@drinsafzeghina7561]

First

[@DrFayeBate]

Hey ❤️

[@miascozycorner7918]

JESUS DIED FOR YOU AND ME TOO! BUT HE IS NOT DEAD, HE IS ALIVE BECAUSE HE ROSE FROM THE GRAVE 3 DAYS LATER! HE LIVED AS IF HE HAD SINNED, SO WE CAN LIVE AS IF WE NEVER DID ONLY BY HIS GRACE, what we don’t deserve, He gives graciously!

[@StrayMind]

Great advice! Thank you