How I Overcame INSECURITY & Built A Strong Identity

[@JulienHimself]

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[@marevixopol]

(This video was edited by Julien®)

[@HNIC_RAWZ]

Biggest take away, GET THIS B.S. OFF MY KZbin FEED. You can help me with 2 million dollars, 4 VEHICLES, 2 Houses, food, clothes, shoes, stuff like that.

[@justinwickee]

My key takeaways. 1. Discover what you love 2. Design your life to do more of what you love. 3. Serve mankind ( not from vid ) 4. Provide for my family & future generations * What is the easiest, laziest way to achieve a result? Stop glorifying hustle. * What are my values? * What is my “ win “ ( Define success for yourself ) * Stop “ productive procrastination “ * Gotta sacrifice something…spin one plate at a time. Once it’s spinning, start spinning another. Is there anyone I’d trade lives with? No. So then go ahead and own yours. * What feels effortless for me? That is where my unfair advantage is. * Say NO to anything that is out of alignment.

[@meagancrowley5197]

Thanks for this!

[@justinwickee]

@@meagancrowley5197 Anytime!

[@amrit_xaikia]

Channels like yours are a blessing for people who are trying to put their life together. Thanks Julien ❤

[@JulienHimself]

You are so welcome!! Glad my content resonates! 🙏

[@chivalrous_chevy1163]

Those are facts.

[@promano1227]

Indeed! Great stuff.

[@oliverunleashed9515]

Best self-help advice there is. “Know thyself” - screen out what is not authentic, do more of what is, and life is BLISS!!

Reading Nietzsche Beyond Good and Evil atm, - “Know thyself” indeed!

[@killman369547]

God damn i wish this video existed 10 years ago. Well, i'm glad i'm figuring this sh*t out at 28 instead of 38 or 48.

[@OneRadicalDreamer]

Thank you for this, I've been trying to make this shift but this makes me realize that I'm looking inward to find what I want, but then ask for others to validate it instead of moving forward.

[@dagyestudios4072]

“Asking yourself if you would trade lifes with them” most practical advice! Stay focused on your mission😊

[@Morgan-Zolko]

what's your mission :)

[@AndyNastas40403]

Thanks!

[@cronosalphaomega]

Came for copper, but found gold. Thank you, Julien! I think the title is not focused to what the real focus is : *Productivity*

[@bryanrador6957]

6:50 right. Heard an AA speaker talk about the juggling act in life with so many balls ...one drops to catch another. The key, stop juggling and hold the ball that feeds all the others.

[@itsdavidarries]

This is a very big lesson and advice for my restart season this year 2024. Also I just rewatched it again and I'm so glad I did, Great Vid! My favorite part was "having everything doesn't mean its gonna be enjoyable and the buffet scenario" was really great

[@swordsnorchids1997]

Usually I don't feel much for a lot of self help gurus but you're just different man but in a great way. I really resonate with your vibes and strong character and you help me get in touch with that amazing side within me so thank you for what you do. 🙏

[@cristianm.5689]

Finally something other than "jUsT LiFT wEiGhtS bRo"

[@wesleymango2712]

Honestly body builders are some of the most insecure ppl. A lot of them still have body dismorphia and came from a place of insecurity. I say this as someone who lifts.

[@KiDKeYz1000]

If I put this out it’s gonna elevate my brand and success which disrupts my comfort zone which is scary 😮 ….fuck that’s me. Productive procrastination. I must change this today.

[@JulienHimself]

Yes! Glad this was insightful! 👊

[@shea5542]

I was feeling really lonely and having fomo, living in a kind of rural area. Thank you for this. It really helped me.

[@bryanrador6957]

Thank you for recording and publishing these publicly. There's no way I could afford you to follow me around all day for lil reminders. I forget things and I'm realizing I am extremely demanding for purely ego-ic reasons and absolutely hate myself for it.

[@ashy107]

Great advice and very well communicated. I would also argue some people don’t really know their values. Figuring that out is an exercise in itself.

[@minutes5138]

1. What do i value? ( in priority ) 2. Live in alignment to the list. 3. Don't do it all at once. 4. Pick one. 5. Not everything needs to be perfect. Think of the laziest way to get stuff done. 6. What's my ideal life? 7. Be willing to lose out on things.

[@GabrieleSantoro-01]

SUMMARY: Fomo? Envy? Find out your values and live according to those Time managment: more time dedicated to what you value more Spinnin plate theory: focus on 1 thing at the time then add another, then maintain Avoid Productive Procastination: avoid doing what is just barely productive, audit what gives you the most ROI x time spent (opportunity cost) = ruthless priotization, find highest ROI activities and just do those Be willing to not be perfect. Done is better than perfect Find what is the easiest way to still accomplish the result Have a clear win, clear goals Find what is effortless for you, that's your unfair advantage vs the competition

[@tanu12358]

Wow !! what a mind blowing this channel is and julien also..I watched so many vidioes on social skills and confidence but i can say this is real to apply and i can feel it😊🎉

[@peteronuoha9085]

Discover what you love and train your mind to do what you love

[@TheInteractionSpace]

Amen

[@leonardodasilvagarcia673]

What a video! It blew my mind in such way that I can't explain. So much value was poured in a single video.😱

[@JulienHimself]

Thank you! 🙏

[@vccv9785]

You're really inspiring man, you know what I've been thinking of putting my thoughts out there for a while maybe I'll try making a video or two

[@Le_RealitySamurai]

Stop thinking about it. Just start your camera, record and post.

[@JulienHimself]

Glad my content has been inspiring! However, the best kind of inspiration is the kind that leads to ACTION... Time to put those videos out! 😉

[@TheDorkle]

Perfectionism and control, loosen up a little. Hear, hear! Solid messaging. Thanks!

[@samihakhondoker2456]

literally bruh

[@TheDorkle]

@@samihakhondoker2456 no doubt fam

[@damienwelter4543]

I'm almost always on the same wavelength of the videos you post whenever I get the chance to see them. I was just letting go, feeling and embracing those insecurities was how I verbalized it in my head, and then BOOM! Here we are, a video about how to embrace and eliminate insecurity, by figuring out what values I really want to move toward, and staying in integrity with that, allowing my invested ego identity energy to transmute into my true Self, and form my CHOSEN identity

[@kylebarrettz]

I started following you because you're delicious, but I stay tuned because your content seems to affect every facet of ones potentially better life... honestly, you cover so much ground and I'm grateful for ya

[@JulienHimself]

Thank you! Glad my content has been so helpful!

[@dr.reenajagdishprajapat2081]

So true, this is happening with me, while business is doing good, my weight is highest and I am hating this. Thank you for the insight

[@harshvardhansinghrathore3248]

Thanks man for this video 🙏🏼👍🏼

[@peteronuoha9085]

Define success for yourself

[@TheRussianGenius]

Thanks for this one!

[@JulienHimself]

You're welcome!

[@leoexgb3219]

Julien is incredible as was this lecture, but I gotta say the most epic thing about this is is Stephen Amell's "F**k Cancer" hoodie ❤️

[@AndyNastas40403]

2:10 biggest takeaway is "establishing IOR" by auditing longterm goals!

[@guilhermecoutinho7521]

You are changing my life. Thank you!

[@JulienHimself]

Glad to hear it! You’re welcome! 🙌

[@RocketGary]

Thanks Julien for the great content

[@JulienHimself]

You’re so welcome!

[@shariazaman1050]

I do trainings will be using your content in my session...everything makes so much sense in this video thanks for making and sharing it Julien...fan from India

[@makingpeoplebetter8654]

if this is new do not train please lol

[@VValkyr]

It all sounds good, but if you don't know yourself, you don't know WHAT your priorities are, and what is it that you truly want to dedicate yourself and your life towards then you are screwed before even approaching a start line. As for me, it feels like I simply don't know myself, don't know what I want or what I am supposed to be, and as a result I sit in home all day, maybe go outside to ride a bike, I try out different things but it never feels like it's "me" so to speak. So I just wander around and sit in this brain fog bubble, unable to build my life around a purpose because I don't even know that purpose or what I want to work towards.

[@Rishu-c2t]

Found anything for this?

[@Flokoli1]

Thank you so fucking much for this one. I've struggled for so long about finding purpose in my life without feeling like I'm just walking on someone else's steps and this video is a clear guide to get in touch with my true self. You're actually doing God's work

[@oddityification]

I got paralysis of analysis I have two things that I’m very good at but I’ve never gotten any serious momentum on because I jump from music to martial arts back to music then Ill go on a hiatus and do neither 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@JulienHimself]

Time to implement some “spinning plates theory” 😉

[@savant_is_isaac]

I’m grateful for this❤

[@Tothamoon]

Thanks for this one king Julien

[@lesleybrady3948]

Ouu I love this! I’ve heard this as cooking on all burners! But I love this explanation! Always straight to the point! Thank you 🙏

[@JulienHimself]

You’re so welcome! 🙏

[@Tiwari_ji11]

I can relate to everything he says, and i am blessed to find him 🙏🙏🙏

[@sofiaaa3]

wow !! i love this content so badly

[@johanh7024]

How about fixing the biggest problem of them all - everyone’s lonely

[@_helmi]

My biggest takeaway - pick and prioritise ONE plate and be willing to let the other plates stand still

[@ehmehhuh]

.. you say do what you love, but how do you find out what you love?

[@dhillon_0020]

By trying new things

[@andriyastc]

finally video about FOMO!!!

[@JulienHimself]

🔥👊

[@bobbyjohnson5637]

“Ego” and a ego can be destroyed through trauma.

[@Bazakilouis]

Good points, if people would have their priority with putting their wife or husband as priority nr 1 and ignore many other opportunities there would not so many people divorce

[@katieann9026]

IMO the best path would be putting themselves as priority 1 and live that way for a few years before marrying anybody. Because too often people get married to someone who isn't compatible with their authentic self, so either they're stuck being inauthentic to make the relationship work, or their authenticity asserts itself and demands that they divorce this person who isn't their match.

[@meh.7640]

somehow i just had to think of a thing i recently came to realize, i thought, why is someone offended when i tell him something about himself that he already knows? like he's fat. because HE doesen't like the fact he's fat. it's his problem. if people tell me i stink i say "yes" and that's it. because i don't want to smell like roses or whatever chemicals that everyone is spraying themselves with. i want to smell like ME. and if they don't like it, it's not my problem. yes, i'm weird. that's not going to change. deal with it. i don't care about being anything other than myself. and now that i think about it, this already seems like enough of an accomplishment to last a lifetime. because i paid dearly for relentless authenticity. DEARLY!

[@jerseattle0722]

You can get them spinning all at once when you pick two. 3 is too much. Health and work. Work and family. Can’t have it all.

[@flyversusfly76]

Hard lesson for me😭

[@VereniceBellido]

I love love love this ideas

[@dagyestudios4072]

Very very insightful. Giu knows what he’s talking about

[@rubin-healmysocialanxiety702]

FOMO is a serious killer out there ❤️

[@DanKhanReal]

Damn! This is soo good!

[@djebarazidan103]

thanks man as always

[@JulienHimself]

You're welcome! 🙌

[@flyversusfly76]

Bet the camera man is real pissed at 11:00 😂 but great great content, i needed that👍

[@jonathanjuseth]

That spinning thing I use when It comes to languagues

[@Unikadanceevents]

Fantastic thanks 🙏🏾

[@chayanpaul8272]

That's genuinely cool❤

[@ekcorp6350]

12:30 got it, im omw to rob my local bank 🎉

[@etistyle96]

realy good video and for free. Thx u.

[@JulienHimself]

You're welcome!

[@guy_roh]

Those first 10 minutes are an absolute GEM, Julien.

[@JulienHimself]

Thank you!

[@tudorlogofatu8529]

13:10 gold

[@JulienHimself]

🔥🔥🔥

[@cybrbby7]

Thnks

[@AndyNastas40403]

13:18 The metric. Isn't that "subjective"? If my long term goal is to "be objective" with myself ( because 'free choice' involves "not owning the truth" ) , then it involves defining myCONSCIOUSNESS and also willing to breakUNCONSCIOUSNESS, and that imho is impossible. (because, obviously, SUCCESS without a team is masturbation).

[@arbaaz94]

Beautiful video Julian great reminder for all ! ⚖️ Balance is key

[@Flokoli1]

🤹

[@mushkys9987]

Well for me eating and sleeping are the most effortless things l am great at And watching movies 😂😂

[@TheSantos173]

Great content 🔥

[@JulienHimself]

Thanks! 🔥

[@bruddie26]

Without watching i will just assume the answer is not caring

[@JustinHunterTCM]

No.

[@meekrodriguez6438]

Awesome video

[@JulienHimself]

Thanks! 🔥👊

[@risingbeings]

Hi Julian, your content has helped a lot of people with developing a high self esteem. I was curious to know the best way to have you on my show. I have interviewed multiple 7-8-9 figure entrepreneurs like Tanner Chidester, Jeffery M Banek, Lauren Tickner, Katie Richardson, Akbar Sheikh, Rahul Alim, Aunkita Nandi, and more. They are multiple 2CC and 2CCX award winners too. I do have the audience who would be your target audience too Looking forward to a fruitful reply.

[@navinansal7879]

Good ideas

[@DuckODuckProductions]

This Miami string of vids was bomb

[@JulienHimself]

Thanks! 🔥👊

[@yoya23-v2m]

thanks

[@kirak377]

bro love from india❤

[@user-mj6qr2ky9d]

How to find what u like ? And don't remember what you liked as a kid ? 😢

[@JulienHimself]

I have many different exercises and meditations that help my clients easily identify this in my private mentoring program: application.julienhimself.com 👌

[@khalil9809]

u help Lot of people

[@JulienHimself]

🙏🙏

[@Jackson-e4k]

This slaps

[@JulienHimself]

🔥👊

[@deejayjacobs2018]

WHAT DO THINK OF ROB DYRDEK?

[@RachelJoanna-i6c]

Hall Daniel Williams Ruth Martinez Mark

[@anusha2465]

When you have ADHD, your priorities are all over the place and change every 5 minutes

[@jarrod1687]

That's not real. Victim mentality

[@lukeclaydon6670]

Great

[@bushraa6527]

I just want the basic life all the basic girls in my family have but for some reason my mom hates me and keeps telling me I’m weird I don’t even get it

[@haksseupjjanehal1186]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@d-evil8075]

🔥

[@Greenstrtjs87]

step 1 be tall

[@MightyElemental]

Unfortunately, being tall isn't a cure-all for insecurity or anxiety.

[@FarwaAsif-yq3hd]

Being tall is also an insecurity for some people especially if you are a tall girl

[@abbasdauva7135]

Agree​@@FarwaAsif-yq3hd

[@blazing_zari4442]

😪❤️

[@psyferinc.3573]

comment

[@leifpeterson4850]

Why does he dress like that though

[@lechatleblanc]

most people are followers .. i think ive met like 1 or 2 other trend setters like me lmfao....

[@shallowwatersoriginal]

He seems like a person I'd do drugs with and go to gym also?

[@hyemuhyemu8221]

Work on yourself, looks max, hit the gym, when you appear in better physical condition than 95% of the guys out there, you get validation from girls, your confidence goes up and your shyness goes away, when people respect, admire, befriend you or want you. I used to be shy as a kid. I probably was cute but i took all the stares and giggles from girls as being picked on and made fun of. I got swol and everything changed. I now walk like i own the place and know i can take your girl, even the married ones. Its them, they for the streets 😂

[@handdurger2658]

why are you even here

[@adrian3747_]

@@handdurger2658he’s here just to brag bout himself tbh