how i realized i was agender

[@sr.ahaples6895]

I've only recently found out that I'm agender and I related to almost everything you talked about in this video, some things I wasn't even fully aware of yet, for example like how even though progress has been made with the whole not assuming people's gender, it's often still assumed that everyone has a gender, and that does feel a bit uncomfortable. Anyway, I wanted to comment because when you mentioned that agender people are mostly all very different, and that you had never met anyone with very similar experiences, and that it made you feel lonely, I felt that. I've not really met anyone else who is agender as far as I'm aware, and looking more into this and listening to other people's experience with it online is cool even though we're all quite different, it does feel kind of lonely... But this video actually helped me so much because, again, I could relate to pretty much everything, and it's actually the first time I've ever heard someone talk about these feelings and experiences that I too have, and that used to make me feel like there was something wrong with me, even in queer spaces sometimes, but hearing you talk about it made me feel less lonely and also reassured that I am in fact valid :] So yeah, thank you! And sorry for the wall of text LOL, have a good day!

[@_ad667]

Ugh, the feels!! Thank you so much for commenting- makes me feel less alone too!

[@shlysion]

This video really helped to accept myself more as an agender person. Thanks!

[@_ad667]

so so glad, positive vibes your way!

[@spice0467]

:> happy vid like these show up for me now. There's still verry litle representation that I can fine for agender people but I relate to all of them, thankyou 4 making this!

[@beckheorshepls5397]

I remembered once I was questioning if I was agender or demigirl and I learned that agender could be included with agender. I ended up identifying as a demigirl but still occasionally wondered if agender was a better fit. This pretty much a affirmed that I'm definitely not agender. Most definitions describe demigirl as commonly being partially girl/woman/female and partially agender or genderless but that's just not true for me at all. My experience with being a demigirl is that I'm partially girl and partially xenogender, which is a gender that is related to abstract concepts and commonly outside of a human understanding if gender.

[@gooconz]

Thank you for this very thorough explanation!

[@sketchcore1174]

thank you very much for sharing this because I just have 17 and personally it's the first time I hear someone who feels almost the same thing as me and the fact that I still search my gender that's really help me.❤❤❤❤❤

[@_ad667]

I'm so glad!!

[@Never_again_against_anyone]

Great explanation👍This resonates so much.

[@kimzachris5340]

very relatable, thank you

[@tinkeringwhimsy5339]

That’s me

[@Eyeywiwueyvdhhd]

I’m Agender to 🖤🤍💚🤍🖤