How I started my small upcycling business + sew along with me!

One of my most asked question is 'How did you start your business?!', and today I am answering it! Whilst I sew a new style of bag, I go through a brief timeline of how AFRAYED Upcycling came about AND I've added some advice and tips in case you are on a similar journey! 🌸🧵
p.s I am very aware I say 'ermm' quite a lot...I'm trying to stop this 😂
In regards to the online marketing courses I took, I bought a few courses from The Small Business Handbook -www.etsy.com/uk/shop/thesmall...
I also bought a few small business related books too!
If you enjoyed this video and have any questions, LET ME KNOW!👇
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Website - www.afrayedupcycling.co.uk
Hello beautiful humans!! I'm Scarlett, the coral-haired, secondhand textile obsessed gal behing AFRAYED Upcycling. Creating unique, size inclusive, snazzy clothing and accessories is something I am BEYOND lucky to call my full-time job!
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[@plansandprocrastination]

This was fascinating. As a long-time maker who once had her own physical shop, I have tried to understand and embrace social media to help create a virtual space to sell. I fail. I fear I'm much too old to incorporate and internalize all that is needed to "do" the social media thing. I adore your ability to present yourself and your information. It would be stellar if you end up with the time to go into a little more depth re: how to maneuver through the social media maze (esp for us older makers). Totally understand if your time never allows for this. You are a most refreshing young lady!!! Congrats on finding your path in life!

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you! Social media can be quite daunting at first, but I think it can be easy ti navigate with a bit of confidence! I’d love to go more in depth, I’ll take note for maybe a future video or written thing!☺️✨

[@paulinelarson465]

My town, 50K population, a suburb of Akron Ohio, has a crafting consignment shop in the Community Center. My granddaughter (33), her daughter (13), and myself place items for sale there. Upcycled clothing, children's clothing, some with matching doll clothes, unique T-shirts, purses, totes quilts, furniture. My granddaughter films short "making it" videos that she can place on Facebook, Instagram, something else. After making multiple pieces, she notes sizes, materials, prices of each type and location and hours of the shop. It is working out rather well. We don't have to deal with collecting payments, shipping, unhappy online customers or people coming to our homes. Customers can see our multiple products, hands on, and shop other sellers booths, pay and take their new treasures home, immediately. Works well for small volume production.

[@marikunastudio]

​@@paulinelarson465 This is such a great idea! Never heard of consignment stores before. What's the name of your social media accounts/brand? Would love to see what you make.

[@jbirdz3609]

This is very relatable!

[@anitaswart.]

I love your logic, but creative way of thinking and doing. In 1969 all this you shared was exactly what I wanted to do. But nice girls went to uni, waisted my father's money and became a teacher. I could only teach for 18 months because I hated every moment. Then secretary of the nursery and sewing all the rest of the time with two little ones. Image no internet. But every time I wanted to give up, I just thought of teaching. I'm South African and we had home industries where we could sell our goods, fantastic. Saturday and Sunday markets. Everything you shared, take it from this 73 year old, is invaluable for having your own business. I think you should write a book. You talked about marketing, admin etc. The things creative people don't like. And the time it takes, very important. Production isn't really such a problem. I'm living in Cambridge, where in 19 years haven't really found much creativity, so would love to move somewhere north. Keep up the good work and keep sharing it pays off. God bless Anita Your South African granny x

[@susanpepper1671]

It's never too late!! Live your dream :)

[@afrayed_upcycling]

What an interesting story! I hope you get your creative flair back, you’re a little younger than my grandma and she’s got the sewing machine back out recently!✨💜

[@LizzieStuff]

I think she could write a book too. Great suggestion. Especially if it is infused with her cute and quirky style and sweetness.

[@tangerinejukebox]

If you're talking about Cambridge, UK, this is where I am too (or rather, I'm on the outskirts in the villages) and there's lots of lovely creative groups! If you knit / crochet / do fibre crafts, there are groups that meet up regularly. I'm most familiar with the evening knit nights as I work in the day, but I believe there are groups that meet in the daytime too :) If you draw, take a look at Urban Sketchers in Cambridge. If you're interested in peeking into other artists' studios, take a look at the Open Studios in July, where dozens of artists invite you in to see what they make, from painting, ceramics, glasswork, metalwork... it's fascinating! :D I hope you can find a community to join and enjoy :)

[@xReckOnHellx]

This video healed me, for real. I have a 9 to 5 job as a pattern drafter, but the work environment, control-freak managers and lack of creativity are so stressful and demotivating, it's starting to make me hate my job. I am seriously thinking of building my own business in upcycling, but I'm so scared. Thank you so much for your tips, I took careful notes of everything you said. 🙏 Wish you the best in your business ❣

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Fear is the most contributing factor as to why most of us don’t take the leap for these kind of things, but once you do, it’s worth it!! Life’s too short, if you never try, you will never know - wishing you all the best!☺️✨

[@dianegraydon1143]

Good morning from canada...I too went to college for design and learned how to sew very well...when I went for my interview I was able to watch others as we were in an auditorium..and I was seeing the judges very bored with girls all made up with their professional portfolio and when they asked her where else she has applied she listed off a bunch of other school..and I at first thought I'm never going to get in ..I was wearing my home made dress with a sketch book and a few items..and the one judged asked me where else I had applied..I said no where.she asked if that was wise..I said firmly..no where else..., if I didn't get accepted I will take night school classes to better my skill and I will come back next year...I got in and I didn't see thatgirl...you have wisely done the right things toachieve..you should always listen to advice but bottom line dare to dream a better life..and don't be afraid

[@afrayed_upcycling]

I love this!! Very similar experience! For the university interview, I knew my work wasn’t anywhere near as good as others…especially as I have a hard time drawing in general 😂🙈 and I was so surprised I got a place! Almost didn’t make sense haha

[@tracyheath6076]

This video inspires me so much. My mom was a seamstress, I also did some sewing through the years. But I have always had this desire to use worn clothing, Sheets, etc to make patchwork material and design clothes. At the present my husband is taking a room in our house which by the way is the house my dad built and I grew in, and that room that he is now turning into my sewing room.Who would have every thought that would happen. Now at the age of 61, I am thinking I have found my passion right beside rollerskating. However, my husband would rather me sew. LOL. Please keep making videos. Your voice is very pleasant and I so enjoy the energy and ideas your videos give me. Your fresh air.

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Oh that is so sweet, especially as I don’t love my voice in the slightest!😅 Can’t wait to see what you make!

[@bexxxxxx]

Great video. I'd like to go part time sewing, but I am not good at social media and struggle to put my face out there. Thank you for all the good advice

[@afrayed_upcycling]

I wasn’t great at the start! Feel free to look at my posts/reels on instagram and copy some of the post styles. Some things work for my business and some don’t, so just try different things to see what works for you ☺️✨

[@sueburton6920]

Thankyou great advice and great video hopefully it will give me the push I need to do this myself as I've been thinking about it for years

[@haresbreathtarot]

Thank you so much for this brilliant video! 🎉it was really interesting, as someone who is always yearning to be self employed it was realistic yet encouraging! The perfect mix 😻✨

[@afrayed_upcycling]

@@sueburton6920I kept saying to myself ‘if I don’t do it now, I never will’ and that mindset really helped! There will never be a right time, so just go for it!☺️

[@paulinelittlewood1229]

You have time to read? Very clever ideas

[@LizzieStuff]

I know you probably won't see this but this was the first time I watched one of your videos and I really enjoyed it. You had great tips and are down to earth and really make cute items. I have wanted to start my own business for 20 years... Can you believe it? I have let fear stand in my way and I just am inspired by you that you just went for it and I wish you so much success.

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Hello! I’m trying to read and respond to every comment!😂 thank you for your compliments!💜 fear is the only thing stopping anyone from taking the plunge, and I can understand why so many don’t do it because of the stress! But, if you never try, you’ll never know and I think that’s scarier!

[@Layla-_]

@@afrayed_upcycling I totally agree with you. I'm finally taking the plunge and thanks for your tips.

[@ninirossau2304]

@@afrayed_upcycling if you are afraid of failing you will never know how high you can fly! please let me know the prices, I need an idea of what the market can bear.

[@donnaconrad5433]

I’m thinking in a few months you’ll have more money than you know what to do with ….. you’re amazing and every scrap of material you touch turns to gold ………You go girl !,,

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Ohh thank you! As long as I can pay my bills and go on holiday every now and then, I’m happy!☺️✨

[@lidabard2121]

Love hearing about your journey. Your tea towel designs are very clever.

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you! Its been a ride so far!😂🙌

[@amalthealovage]

thank you so much for this video. i’m in a place where i have no idea what to do with my life, but sewing is my passion and i really loved hearing your story. i’ve always been so intimidated and unsure of myself, and you have given my inspiration.

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Aww thank you! I love that I can inspire others 🥹✨

[@dorisamstutz5888]

Great advice. My little bird products business is my retirement fun fund and passion project so I understand all you have gone through and kudos to you for so generously sharing your journey!

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Oh I love that!🥹💜

[@Julierue]

Thank you for being so generous with your experiences and wisdom! 💖

[@afrayed_upcycling]

You are so welcome! Thank you for watching!

[@kathyjohnson1911]

Great video! I usually get bored or annoyed and don’t finish watching a video, but this time I’m watching it all!

[@afrayed_upcycling]

You’re the best! I don’t enjoy watching it back because of my voice so well done for doing the whole video 😂🙈

[@WendeKelly3]

Thank you for popping up on my YT feed this morning! as a bag maker for the last 7 yrs, I’ve recently hit the burn out point and was seriously thinking of just shutting things down. This has inspired me to find some tea towels and great thrifted fabrics and start some new designs! I’ve been making solid color canvas knitting bags for so long, I’m soooo needing so artsy fabrics in my life! I just love your aesthetic!

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Aww so happy you found me! Sometimes a little experimenting with different fabrics really ignites the passion again!✨🙌

[@prettyhomebymariadesousa]

Love your vibe, yes you do waffle a little but that is part of the charm of being yourself, so carry on waffling girl! I’m also I Kent, Herne Bay. ❤😊

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Hahah I love this comment 😂🙌 aww love Herne Bay - I’m from Orpington!✨

[@pieceofalliesworld7903]

Mucias gracias, this is what I totally needed to hear regarding the nervousness of going full time with my passion of sewing. I was also very young when my mama showed me how to make my own Barbie clothing with a sewing machine that was much like yours with only a few stitches at a time. But looking back now, slow is best when first learning something. I love your "quirkiness" which is bold and beautiful!!

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Oh it was the most nerve wrecking thing i’ve ever done! But so worth it!! Good luck with your journey ☺️

[@evasaker2476]

Thankyou so much for your very personal story and all the tips about how you started (and maintain) your upcycling business! ❤️ I think you are a fantastic inspiration! ❤️

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Ohh thank you so much, that’s so sweet!🥹💜

[@gwendolyn6210]

You are so inspiring! Thank you.

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Oh stoppppp!🥹 Thank you for you lovely words!!

[@fastrabbitcrochet]

You are wonderful. Thank you for this advice and the bit about “just go for it” at the end ❤ love your bright hair too!

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you!🥹✨ i really do mean it when I say, go for it!😂

[@jensee1]

Thanks for sharing your ideas and experience. So generous of you. I've recently retired and am loving working on all the sewing projects that have been waiting for me for years. So great to be in my happy place again. Not sure I will ever get to the stage of selling any of my work as family have made many requests! Love your colourful confident asthetic, you are an inspiration. Thanks so much.

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you so much!! 💜🌸

[@christinem281]

I love how you can multitask…talk and do something at the same time! I’ve never been able to do that!Thanks for sharing your learning journey! The travel sounds like just what you needed…very inspiring!

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Ohhh there’s hours of footage that I’ve had to cut out because I get easily distracted and literally stop talking 😂🙈

[@michelejohnson4558]

Its absolutely fabulous... and I love your technique of the scrapy quilting! I'm going to have to try that. I wish you much luck. and thanks for sharing.

[@maureenshaw1587]

Love to see things reused to make something new, good on you, very inspiring. 😍😍😍

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you!!

[@pearllucas452]

So glad your video came up on my feed. You are such a beautiful inspiration and I love your creative expression in your work.

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you so much!😭🌸

[@islandgyal507]

I love the bag and your hair! Both lovely! You've given some really good tips for those beginners who want to start their own thing. Thank you!

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you! Hopefully the advice is helpful! One day i’d love to do a workshop!

[@deb.m.7458]

Oh my goodness! How cute is that kitty bag ❤ Your clothing is really beautiful as well. I had some stuff I wanted to donate to charity. Instead I cut up the clothes and ended up sewing a really neat jacket. It was a really fun project and since then, made a cute purse. If people look around the house, you start to see treasures, like batting from an old futon, fabric from drapes, a table cloth, etc. Don’t know anything about social media, but can start sewing and creating for me. Really fun sewing journey so far. Thank you for inspiring us to create,

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you! 100% agree, my partner has to lock away the bed throws 😉 social media is easy once you get the hang of it!

[@MOFFPEG1]

Hi Scarlett, Thank you for sharing your story. I love your designs. Well done on taking the plunge with your small business. A new Canadian fan!

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Hello! Always wanted to go to Canada! Thank you so much!🥹

[@tatianawatkins7827]

Thanks for sharing your story, it's so relatable in so many ways. I was in a fashion school during covid and it just wasn't the ideal time and I just don't do well with traditional learning environments so upcycling was the best route for me. This video has energized me and made me feel like it's possible, thank you again from the U.S. well Massachusetts to be exact :)

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Aww I’m so glad this has helped!!🥹💜 best of luck for your upcycling journey, I’m sure you will smash it!

[@lifeontheround]

Ahhhhh, I love it. What a beautiful concept and very creative.

[@oldsouloriginal]

Brilliant! I hope you enjoy every minute 🎉 wishing you the best ❤

[@nadinemoseley6041]

What a fab little bag, loved it x

[@dschriv2]

Just found your channel. Really enjoyed learning about you and love your advice!❤

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Ahh so glad to hear! Thank you!

[@chrismatheson4376]

Loved listening to your gentle voice. Every blessing for future videos!

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you! I’ve never really like my voice so that’s a massive compliment!

[@vanessajooo]

This was so pleasing to watch! Thank you ☺️

[@Layla-_]

I'm finally starting this at 60 because I've wanted it for so long and I'm starting by taking some classes. Hoping for the best.

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Aww fab! Never too late to start!🙌

[@dionetaylor931]

I only met you this morning and I’m so happy to learn more from you. Your work is superb and so quirky and useful. Well done girl.❤

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you so much!! Quirky is such a compliment honestly!🙌

[@tonyaleasmercantile]

Really enjoyed this video. Thank you for sharing, and the bag turned out fabulous! I hope your business is very blessed!!

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you so much!!

[@barbaraokeefe423]

I'm a first time viewer and I loved your video and your story about starting your business. There's a lot to learn in establishing your business on social media. I retired a little over a year ago and i have a lot of time now to step up my business exposure but I'm hesitant. I don't know what to expect. You inspired me, though, to go out on a limb and I will! I subscribed to your site and hope to learn much more. I love your colorful creations. Keep up the good work!

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you so much!! Wishing you all the best!💜✨

[@deniseking3422]

Love the bag, great use of the tiny leftovers. Also love you keeping utcreal

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you! It’s a cool way to use those thread ends and overlocker bits!🙌

[@daydreamworksbykim2681]

Thank you for your words of wisdom. Enjoy your upcycling videos.

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you! Hope to post more soon!

[@angelamccoll9786]

Loved your video and your creations! Great info ...thank you so much for sharing. It's raining here in Sydney Australia at the moment and you definately brightened up my day with your creations...👍👍👍✨✨✨

[@afrayed_upcycling]

You are so welcome! And thank you!!🥹🌸

[@EmilyKariya]

Loved watching this video!! Love all the colourful elements in your room and loved hearing your story. I went to a 'prestigious' London art university and it was disappointing, what you said about being left to your own devices and feeling like not going anywhere rang true to me. You've done amazing and your attitude and talents will take you further than a degree any day. I actually made a Victoriam corset using a vintage 80s tea towel in my first year of uni. Wasn't popular with the tutors but it was my favourite thing I made in the whole three years haha! Have subscribed as love what you are doing! ❤

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you so much!🥹 Ive heard soooo many stories of people feeling disappointed by the ‘big’ universities in London 🙈

[@quiltedbrownie]

First time on your channel. Personally, I LOVE your “waffling” & what your business is about. Thx for sharing your journey. I wish you much success! I enjoyed your video very much. 🤩🙌

[@afrayed_upcycling]

That’s so sweet of you to say, thank you 🥹✨

[@beckysartdesk]

That is such a cute bag! Thank you for sharing your business advice, thoughts, and experience!

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you for watching!🥹🌸

[@nellieolguin-davis1519]

I totally loved your video and all of your techniques thank you for sharing your talents!!!God Bless ❤❤❤

[@afrayed_upcycling]

You’re so welcome! Thank you!✨💜

[@mysweetdiy1]

Love all the tips, thank you for sharing! and what a cutie, you made a gorgeous kitty bag!😍

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you! 😊

[@SewingwithElle]

Well I must admit, this was a GREAT video. You touched on a lot of the things you discussed in our email. I SEW appreciate it and ALL the transparency. Yes this definitely helped me. I will take notes and be brave!!! I am going to make a release schedule for social media and check out quick books. Looking forward to more a day in the life of Afrayed Upcycling…. Happy Sewing @rellsews

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Aw thank you! Really glad to hear it’s helped in a way! I really do waffle so I’m hoping to get a more concise post together 😂

[@nunubarrantes8782]

I love your unique style. Great video.

[@KSMP]

Amazingly practical advice! Thanks for this and congratulations on going full time 😊

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you!!

[@kathrynbassett1535]

Love the bag. Great video sending good crafty vibes from Katy from NZ 😊

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thanks so much! 😊 I’d love to visit New Zealand one day! It was on the travel itinerary before the pandemic 🙈

[@i96634]

I love IT!😍

[@susanpepper1671]

OH, my gosh! That sweet kitty print is so cute!!

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thanks! It’s one of my favourite pieces I own!

[@AmandaPTS]

This is what I needed to hear! Thank you!

[@TinaBoffin]

Love the bag - you're very talented, and enjoyed hearing about your journey

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you thank you!

[@danceswithpitbulls]

I listened to Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow on audio. It was great. Cute bag and thanks for the advice.

[@afrayed_upcycling]

It is a great book, I really enjoyed it! Thank you!

[@sewitfits7393]

Excellent video. Your tips are very practical and helpful. Thank you for sharing! Now to "GO FOR IT"

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Yyyeeeessss!!🙌🙌

[@amandacharteris8305]

Thank you so much for posting this video! I'm currently at uni as a mature student doing fashion and textiles so the information you gave is like gold for me. Good luck with your business, I can see that you're going to be mega successful!!

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Ohh thank you so much!🥹 hows the course?! I’ve always wondered if I could go back one day? I’ve always thought going to uni at 19 was too young, only now nearly 10 years later do I think I could be ready to go back!

[@amandacharteris8305]

@@afrayed_upcycling I’m a very mature student 😂. So my experience at university to begin with was overwhelming and I felt really out of my depth. But by the end of the first semester I settled in. I did the HND fashion and textiles at college, then went to university directly into second year. I think from what I see of your work and incredible designs you would sail through uni. Sustainability is a big thing so you’ve checked that box and then some. Plus your sewing skills and pattern making would be a huge advantage. Go for it!

[@domy6827]

I love the kitty book scrappy bag

[@oddthreadz2789]

Thank you for a great video, yes fear is the thing that keeps us from our goals I know it has in my case. I am currently finishing my HND in Art and Design as a mature student but I am aiming to to take my side-line business and move forward with it (I make cold processed soaps in cotton bags and felted pictures from our sheep). Fingers crossed this time next year I will have a full time business x

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Ahh amazing! You got this!!🙌🙌

[@stephanieloffler8566]

Hi Scarlett, I just found this video by accident and actually I am really happy that I did! Such a sympathic, young lady doing the things I love (sewing/upcycling) as a fulltime job - great fit. Will surely enjoy some of your other videos one after the other. Just wanted to say "hi", subscribe and sending the best wishes from Germany 😉 Regarrds Stephanie

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Hello! Thank you so much for reaching out, i’m so happy you found me! Thank you!🥹💜✨

[@user-pq6wf7go4d]

Wow. What beautiful tea towels you have. Here in Belgium and the Netherlands you only have a checked pattern or waffle fabric. Sometimes you can find tablecloths in thrift stores with such nice images on them, but that's about it. Unfortunately, they are often full of stains and you really have to see if you can save anything. I work a lot with men's blouses, jeans, tablecloths and old knitted sweaters to upcycle. Good luck with your own business.

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you! I do find it hard to find good vintage tea towels to be fair, I always have to look online rather than find them in shops! Andddd they’re so expensive nowadays!

[@YzaJoy2]

Great video! Thank you for sharing your story. 😊

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you!💜✨

[@kateidiens3327]

Great helpful video! Thanks babe! Wishing you every success!🥰🌅🎉🤩

[@afrayed_upcycling]

No worries!✨

[@MikkiMiKayla1]

I clicked on this video for the title and the fact that you look just like a girl I went to school with and as soon as you started talking I was like oh that's not her 😂 ( I live in the US). But I'm so glad to have met a new internet friend . Thanks for the advise ❤!

[@victoriaannframpton7819]

Great ideas from New Zealand! Keen to see more. ❤

[@afrayed_upcycling]

More to come!🌸☺️

[@marianwooten6110]

Love your story.❤ Very creative ideas. You're so colorful and pretty! Very inspirational.

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Awww thank you for your compliments 🥹☺️

[@sewdarn2770]

Oh, you story-tell so well as you sew. Quirky and linen rock.

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Really?! I feel like I really struggled here! I totally waffle on and get distracted 😂🙈

[@CBromfield]

Thank you for sharing, this is quite motivating.

[@mishkalarsoncreations]

Keep it up! Excited to see where this takes you!

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you!✨

[@marikunastudio]

Hey Scarlett! Fellow upcycling business owner and youtuber here, really really enjoyed your tips and hearing you talk about your journey, it was inspiring and confidence-boosting! liked and subscribed. all the best with your channel and shop!

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Awww thank you so much! I love the upcycling community! Are you on instagram?!☺️

[@marikunastudio]

@@afrayed_upcycling yes! @marikunastudio :) though I need to follow your advice and post more often haha

[@MegaAnnajones]

I've been sewing, drawing & painting since forever. I also made scrubs & theatre gowns in lockdown. About 200 plus. I make my own patterns for bags. Well- make them up as I go along. Also keep making dresses. I used to make children's dresses with painting & quilting on them. I SHOULD sell but can't be bothered with all the admin/Internet stuff!!!! Love your vid. Keep it up. xxx😊

[@afrayed_upcycling]

200+?! That’s incredible!! The admin part isn’t too bad, I think the intial part of setting it all up is a bit daunting, but it gets easier after that!☺️✨

[@yung_n00b]

Thank you for this video and encouragement. I have wanted to start my own small business for almost 10 years now, I even went to school for textiles. I also collect vintage textiles and patterns. I worked as a studio assistant for years for another maker. But I am still too terrified to fully commit to my own business. I have done a handful of craft shows as a vendor over the years but always felt disappointed. A big part of the fear is failure, but even more so social media scares me so much. I know how important it is for success, especially after working for someone else. I am so self-conscious about being seen, being judged for not being attractive, or not cool enough, or people making fun of what I create or having high expectations of what I do or how I act. And I'm so scared of the burnout I will probably get from things like customer service and social media interaction. I have lots of ideas and sewing experience, but the business side of things is overwhelming. I have all of the tools but am still holding myself back. It's so scary! You are so brave, honestly.

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Aww noo it broke my heart a little ready this! You absolutely can do all of this, it really is your mind that’s holding you back. It can be daunting at first, and you will make mistakes, but once you get in the flow of it, you will do absolutely fine! I promise!💜

[@MyThinkingJournal11]

Your story is great, as well as your advice. Thank you

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you so much!

[@happytraveller8953]

Love, love, love this. Thank you for your time and sharing your journey. I would dearly love to 'get out there' as you and others have noted, and perhaps it IS the fear of the unknown that is keeping me from just jumping into my dream of making quilts for a living. No can do--I live in the UK where quilting isn't as big a 'thing' as in the US and because quilts tend to be larger than your adorable scrappy book bag, folks can't just pack them in their suitcase and go home, and most folks don't want to shell out $500 or more for the end product (queen-sized simple overall meander design). If I sold them for any less, I'd have to cut back on quality of sewing or quality of fabric to get the volume needed for a paycheck. In the end, I've figured that I might barely cover cost of materials (fabric, batting, backing--none of which is cheap) and would practically give away my time to keep the cost of the quilt at what most people want to pay. I guess I need to get some help in figuring out how to get that niche market of folks who recognize well-made items and are willing to pay for them. I also work full-time in healthcare and have a mortgage. I'd be terrified of not making enough to keep the lights on while getting a business going. Can't make and sell quilts if I'm on the streets...Anyhoo, thanks again for this: I'll have to keep on trying!!! Many blessings to you!

[@afrayed_upcycling]

My first thought was, is there any quilted, small accessories you could do to start with? Like bags, makeup bags, totes, wall art - things like that! Then once you get noticed as the quilting queen that you are, you can maybe get commissioned for bigger pieces?✨🪡 A lot of people start off my buying a cheaper item like a headband, then they gradually save up for more expensive pieces 🌸🌿

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Best of luck for you and your business! I really hope you go for it!🌸💜

[@happytraveller8953]

@@afrayed_upcycling yes I have started working in smaller things like baby sized quilts or lap quilts thst can be used as wall hanging. My plan is to try embroidered panels with quilting as well and see how that goes.

[@janvas7690]

You are so lovely! Love your products and your amazing creativity!

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you so much!!✨

[@cathylegg530]

Cute bag!!

[@charlottewilson4680]

I love your story.

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you!

[@falcieridesigns]

Ha ha. I'm the same as you. I think our background experiences are quite similar. And I am also from Kent! I am also a very impatient sewer. I have been prototyping a new t-shirt dress I'm making and I've been wearing it as I alter it until I am happy with the final result. It's the slowest project I've ever done! As I have got older my love of social media has massively dwindled. I loathe it now. Except for KZbin which I have discovered I love so I've decided that's going to be my selling media of choice. So far so good. PS. I'm so jealous of your sewing space. I need more room and I so miss my pattern cutting table!

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Ooo where abouts in Kent?! Aww I know, social media can be really overwhelming and all consuming 😅 good luck for your sewing journey! I’m sure you will smash it!

[@falcieridesigns]

@@afrayed_upcycling North Kent, near Gravesend. :)

[@soniaavakian9622]

All the best to you dear🙏

[@Bioluvskatz]

How absolutely adorable are you? And very talented as well. Good luck in your pursuits! Also you did give some very good advice here!

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Ohhh thank you so much!🥹🌸

[@suearthur5129]

Enjoyed your video. You are a delight and very talented.

[@MyDjturner]

I love the bag. I like making bags, but my patience would be tested with all that thickness. Great hints for a small online business. I'm still working out if I have the ability to do it. I've learnt a lot/ Thanks for sharing.

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Haha my patience is tested every time with these, but they come out so well 😂🌸

[@larnold7614]

Such a pretty lady. First time I have seen colored hair on someone that I like. Great color for you !

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Haha thank you!

[@ravenlunatic1177]

Thanks for sharing your process and how you got to where you are. I found it all quite fascinating and informative. I love upcycling and only just really started using more used clothes instead of new fabric purchases. Working at the charity shop must have been so awesome for getting supplies. I’d love to know where you got your fabric tags from. TIA. Cheers from across the pond in FL😺

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you so much! Upcycling is just the best! I got the little printed tags from Contrado ☺️

[@BuddhiniKanchanaEkanayake]

Thank you very much for all the tips. Very helpful🙏

[@afrayed_upcycling]

My pleasure 😊

[@carolineschlunke]

Love the bag❤

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you!

[@EJsDaughter]

Hello! Oh My Goodness!! I love that dress and bag! Just subscribed to your channel. Going back to watch other videos. Thank you!

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thanks for subbing!💜 hopefully you like the rest of my stuff, although I am relatively new to this!😂🙌

[@EJsDaughter]

@@afrayed_upcycling You're doing great!!

[@lauriepercy2272]

It's difficult to market yourself. I taught my son to sew when he was a little boy. He became a first class apolstry artist. Marketing himself is almost impossible. Always push for what you want and need in both personal and work lives.

[@afrayed_upcycling]

It really is! It can be hard putting yourself out there, but Ive found that it’s worth it for sure!!

[@sudreiri7464]

Hermoso tu pelo, tus ideas, tu trabajo❤

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you!!☺️✨

[@odettepeters7493]

New subscriber and I am really enjoying your channel!

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you!🥹

[@teresabaez6925]

Recien descubrí tu canal!!!me encantó tu historia y la forma de crear tus trabajos, eres una Agata Ruiz de la Prada 😂 Tu frescura y simpatia te llevará muy alto 👍sigue asi y gracias por compartir 🤗

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you so much!!🥹

[@annetantrum5772]

Awesome thank you 😊

[@RinpochesRose]

Might you share your expertise re: your sewing equipment, the scissors, rotary cutter, cutting board etc - what tips on which ones to buy and what we need to cut & sew, please? 🙂

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Ooo will add this to the list of potential video ideas! ☺️

[@leighmichelle9585]

Thank you 💕

[@afrayed_upcycling]

You’re welcome 😊

[@fuzzles93]

Just came across your channel somehow and you are so sweet and I am super into recycling fabrics and upcycling too so love your channel. It’s my dream to be able to sell a product using up cycled materials. I make yoga bags from old sheets but haven’t committed to selling them yet life got too wild but want to get back to it

[@afrayed_upcycling]

That is so sweet thank you!🥹 definitely get back into it! Its so much fun!

[@archerandthemouse]

The sad thing is that once you let people know what you are doing and see that you even a tiny bit of success the copy cats come out in droves, the thieves, scammers and even department store designers... Love your work, hope people give you five minutes to find a little success.

[@afrayed_upcycling]

I like to think it would be quite hard for my stuff to be copied, especially by the big designers! But if it happens, then it happens…😅

[@carlasykes390]

You're awesome. Best of luck to you from a beginning sewer in Florida.

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you!!

[@cyndriay1551]

You are so talented & so adorable. New subscriber here. I can sew decent but I’m trying start crochet 🧶 business. The cat bag is so so cute 🥰 we are crazy cat people here

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you!! That’s one craft I am refusing to try out 😂 wishing you all the success!

[@adelewashburn3744]

Only just found your channel, at 58 I love what you do, x

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you!!

[@brandinicole7843]

I love this video it’s helpful to hear this from someone with the experience; and I must ask, do you know what color pink you or your stylist used? It’s gorgeous!

[@afrayed_upcycling]

Thank you! I make the coral colour myself! White conditioner, directions Poppy Red and Tangerine 🌸🌸🌸