How I Transformed My Life | My 6 Year Glow Up Journey

[@ShiksNa]

Hi Cathy, I am also in the middle of my glow up 1. I started therapy 2 years ago 2. I worked on my wardrobe;found my style,got to know my body shape as well as the fact that I am short waisted and bought clothes for that. I love Trinny Woodall as she got me really understanding proportions 3. I have taken care of my skin for like a decade;I went to a dermatologist in London(Adonia Clinic) and now use a regimen from them. Before all my skincare advice was from Caroline Hirons 4. Bought quality. I really do my research before I buy shoes or bags and clothing. I prefer natural fabrics like cotton and linen and only buy leather belts from brands like Essential Antwerp. I also have my clothes tailored. 5. I changed careers;I saw my last career wasn't going to get me to where I wanted financially so I made a change. 6. I started investing in me and saving. 7. I took a makeup class so now I know how to do makeup for my face. 8. I have taken care of my hair for over a decade but wear wigs a lot more now. Online hair forums were my savior. On shapewear,I am looking into Wolford. I am not sure shapewear by nature is comfortable but we will see. It is really a journey. I am proud of where I have come from and where I am going.

[@WanjiruKamau]

Which career are you now?

[@ShiksNa]

@@WanjiruKamau Technology

[@Lisa_Wanjiru]

@@ShiksNa all the best in your career kairitu.

[@Nina-ci4ev]

@shiks how did you break into IT, I am in the process of switching too.

[@fridachemutai5237]

@@ShiksNa hey, could you mentor me? I could really use some guidance. Please when you see this, kindly reach out. My email- [e-mail] Eagerly waiting. Thanks

[@tinanjoki3339]

I admire this lady, am at a place where am also focusing on myself. On my late 20s I have lost a lot of self esteem. I working on redefining myself in term of how I look. I do home work outs everyday for 30.minutes and I have seen a lot of improvement. I have also enrolled in some make up classes which will boost how I look. My career path, is all over, I have been working as a customer relations for over 4 years, then moved to operations management and then sales and marketing. Trying to define my career is troubling but am working on how to put all this together. I just want to stand tall and feel great about myself.

[@FashionableStepMum]

Thank you Tina. Always remember that no matter what, you are precious.

[@webster6539]

Would love to interact with such genes

[@wangechimunyi6226]

Power to you Tina. Cheers

[@fragrancedeparadis1275]

It's one thing to be successful, it's another to be humble. Confidence and stable self esteem is knowing you're successful and choosing not to lord it over yourself. This lady is down-to-earth. May God take her from glory to glory

[@wanguigrace2957]

I look up to you so much!!! At 25, i have upgraded my wardrobe and general look thanks to you! Classy is better than trendy♥️ thanks for being you

[@sarahkawala]

You know i listened to this last night, and it kept me awake most part of the night. I was that girl on the trajectory of being a better in all ways - till 5 years back then life happened, lost everything that I had build. So just wondering minus lack of finances, how do you go about rebuilding yourself?. Currently I have started my morning runs/yoga, which I had stopped for the longest to time, am still so far from where I would want to be, but its a start. I don't even know how to go back to career growth- start. Anyone out here with answers - will really appreciate.

[@sarahkawala]

@@wholesome-360 am so sorry, but am glad you left with you alive, than in a casket. A day at a time, there is no formula..

[@charitykiragu4380]

This is where i am right now, i don't like what i see in the mirror. i miss the me before family responsibilities. from these video, you have woken up the girl in me.

[@FashionableStepMum]

charity kiragu oh am glad

[@mercy_muthama]

I love love love the consistency this year...WE STAN🙌🏾

[@FashionableStepMum]

Thank you for watching! You guys keep me motivated

[@joanagwata4963]

Woooow do you know in a nutshell you also handled self care and self esteem manenoz. This is such an eye opener

[@FashionableStepMum]

Joan Agwata Am glad you could relate to the video.

[@IamHildab]

I am exactly at that very point right now, of not even knowing who I am anymore, its feels like we have to restart building it all over agin and the mess is so huge that you don't even know where to start from... Its kind of conforting that other women, mothers went through this and could get out of it. I watch your videos the whole day and it gives me hope. Thank you

[@michellewanjiru2643]

Thank you for this detailed video. I love that it was a journey and I am at the beginning stages. Sometimes it's stressful because I usually feel like I need more money to achieve the stage I desire and I keep falling off this path when I feel results don't come as fast as I intend for them to. I definitely will be more patient with myself, invest and build slowly and work with what I can and slowly build up. I also started with Therapy, now I am doing lots of skincare, exercise, character development, dental care, developing a better relationship with food to going plant based, emotional healing and making peace with the past, growing my spiritual practices and investing in my dreams, learning about how to be better with my money, levelling up with education and building a business. I am slowly building up collection of shoes, perfume and clothes, much slower than I would like as I am still developing my personal style . Slowly teaching myself makeup, personal care and hair care. Also working very hard to afford services such as LASIK , laser hair removal and microblading. If it took you 6 years it's motivation that I am on the right path and I have to fall in love with the process not the end goal. This was so needed and affirming. I agree it has to be a conscious effort. I love what you do.

[@pearlonyekuru7765]

For a young lady you are truly inspirational. Both elegant, articulate and honest. I love your sense of dress and self-care.

[@FashionableStepMum]

Thank you!

[@atananaturals8251]

My take away from this video is when you know yourself, you put in the work and you become so grounded that you don't pity party or apologise for who you are. Well done Cathy, I see it. The work you've put in and I love it. I'm inspired to figure myself out and if I get stuck, I'll come to image redefined for help 😉

[@TheSmileycece]

For shape wear, if you're getting the seperate shaping underwear bottoms, tuck them under your bra so that they don't roll down

[@FashionableStepMum]

That's a pro tip! Thank you.

[@bucketlistcess6457]

Too faced concealers are the best, I think. I love this video

[@melvinadhiambo2414]

My sister recommended this channel,and I must say it was worth my time. Merci .

[@carolyneu8waweru360]

Wow am so inspired

[@sylviashyaka7289]

Cathy! You inspire me. I love your character, style and honesty to yourself and those around you. Your family are blessed. You're younger than I am but I aspire to be like you as I get older. Well done dear. God bless you.

[@FashionableStepMum]

Wow, thanks for this. Blessing too 🙏🏾

[@pamellanuwarinda7554]

@@FashionableStepMum where is the link

[@kristianneainqullah8658]

I just love how whenever I come to your channel there's always something to learn ❤ Good, good job!

[@milkanyagam]

me too! i consider it educational entertainment!

[@deizyngala2211]

I am a young lady in my early twenties, am glad I realised your channel early.👏 Good lessons.

[@meshmesh1840]

Omg this woman talks to me in most of her self love videos. Love love love you kathy

[@FashionableStepMum]

Much love too

[@liberatambua7271]

This is very deep and extensive. I haven't figured out my personal style yet and honestly, my dressing sucks. I feel like I need a whole wardrobe revamping coz when I think of it now, I really don't have any piece of clothing that I love wholeheartedly

[@marywangai761]

I just love you and your contents are so inspiring, being in a place where am working on myself, my relationship with God, my weight, and how I look, I made up my mind to enjoy my life.

[@chiqlou3525]

Hi there.. I love your videos you are fab! Could you please share details of the hospital you visited for your mini gastric bypass in India? I would really appreciate it thanks!

[@Mamama123-k9w]

Newyork and co is closing shop. Best time to shop 😊

[@FashionableStepMum]

Mary J What ? On it . Thank you

[@Mamama123-k9w]

@@FashionableStepMum yes ma'am.us tall girls are ouf of luck 😩

[@Mamama123-k9w]

@@FashionableStepMum lord and taylor too..

[@Justgloryn]

Mmmmm i know the feeling of making every one happy and forgetting my self. Everybtime i would go shopping I wil find myself at the kids section. Buy clothes for my kids alone and neglected my self. I ddnt even have clothes to wear not because i ddnt have money but because i had had two kids in 3 years. I am happy now i am back to my self

[@victoriajackson7061]

Makes everyone happy except her self.... Tanks 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🖋️🖋️

[@kama6196]

Such a wholesome video.

[@murungicarol8846]

You are so neat.....definitely transformational......

[@brendakamboga7718]

I rarely comment on youtube but had to for this one. This is such a good video...I like the fact that you speak from your personal experiences. I’m an aspiring Psychologist and the part where you speak about doing therapy to work on the inside as you also work on the outside image really resonates with me. Also the strong message that introverts can also shine 👊🏾

[@adorncosmeticske5622]

First of all,i am so glad to FINALLY find an influencer who is within my age set 😊. Thank you for doing this. This topic is quite something because i know ones you turn 30 you begin to feel the need to make some changes and adjustments in your life. I am at this point now. I let go of self due to some things i went through. I did therapy for a year and now am in a very good place. I now want to changes my closet essential and i am just from watching your video on inner wear and now am making plans on how to wear and buy them. Thank you for being our elder sis. Keep up the good job. New subbie.

[@annndungu1113]

I need a public speaking course where can i get one? Good content

[@lindalove]

Whenever I watch your video's I always see you as an older version of myself or the I'm the younger version of you. I too got married into a blended family with 2 step children and I resonate a lot with your videos. I'm currently on a level up journey and I've started working on my skin, I finally have a beauty regime.. I'm struggling with the wardrobe part.. I don't know what to go for etc

[@Utadowot]

Very informative. Thanks for sharing. I got a my first and only shape wear/underwear for my tummy wore nicely while getting ready for work and removed it before I left the house coz it was about to cut me in half!!! It was too tight never touched it again but intermittent fasting worked for me.

[@FashionableStepMum]

Glad you found what worked for you. Maybe you can also consider better fitted shape-wear. But definitely do what works for you .

[@lettice7015]

Wow!I love this,and for that I subscribe. Thankyou Cathy

[@FashionableStepMum]

dwayne calleb Thank you. Welcome to the family.

[@puritymakena2171]

also for dainty jewelry, you can look at uncommon james i dont think you'll regret it

[@FashionableStepMum]

Nice I will check them out..

[@ruthmuange459]

...am inspired.Atleast now i know glow up is a journey its not a one time thing...classy as always thanks

[@FashionableStepMum]

Ruth Muange Yes it is a journey. Thank you for watching..

[@margaretnjeri3116]

Hi mum i think i also need to take that class because some time i feel i don't know my style or my shape

[@FashionableStepMum]

You're most welcome. It will be highly beneficial.

[@marykimani9704]

Am so on this journey. 2 kids later I need to get back in track. Thank you for this 🙏

[@FashionableStepMum]

Cheering you on

[@marykimani9704]

Thanks doll.

[@veronicalumbasi]

You are the big sister I've always wished for ....my kind of content. I love you so much!!

[@violetmwenda6069]

Nice topic ,am encouraged to learn it's a journey not an overnight thing

[@FashionableStepMum]

That's very true

[@tamarabello]

I want to start my own transformation. This has really helped me, thank you x

[@winnienganga2107]

I just love your videos.. Can't stop watching them. Very nice content.

[@beriahbarua2152]

Watching you from Dubai. Much love Cathy

[@FashionableStepMum]

❤️❤️

[@damarisnjeri2963]

Wao I am really learning 👍👍

[@mamake1046]

You ooze class. Love it. Where do you buy your shoes from in the UK

[@concyayet9298]

Love your style,you look awesome

[@FashionableStepMum]

Concy Ayet Thank you ..

[@felicitykarimi4435]

Love you Cathy! I love your authenticity and elegance! You're also very wise and it's always a pleasure listening to, and learning from you. Keep doing what you do!

[@doreenonekalit9888]

Looking very pretty. This was a total overhaul. You are such a sincere resource! Thanks for sharing your transformation journey.

[@brendakamboga7718]

I rarely comment on social media but had to for this one. This is such a good video...I like the fact that you speak from your personal experiences. I’m an aspiring Psychologist and the part where you speak about doing therapy to work in the inside as you also work in the outside image really resonates with me. Also the strong message that introverts can also shine 👊🏾

[@adesuwaighodaro5344]

I love you!!!! Self care is honestly something from the inside out!! 💯❤️❤️

[@timewithruth]

Love how you mentioned the internal as well 💕 I also team pear 🍐, and I'm in the process of revamping my wardrobe, and being more feminine, a-line skirts and wrap dresses are my favourite. Thanks for the video x

[@FashionableStepMum]

Something Worth Seeing Most welcome.. Thank you for watching

[@annewaithira6234]

Very nice.. I love watching your videos

[@FashionableStepMum]

anne waithira Thank you for the support

[@susandiaz2473]

Wow am so inspired Kathy! Keep up the good job

[@BerylSLimoke]

This is such a good video. I'm currently working on a glow up this has given me tips and motivation to follow through. Thanks for this.

[@mwangiemma7634]

Very informative. Thanks for sharing

[@FashionableStepMum]

Mwangi Emma Most welcome.

[@lisaann4248]

You inspire me to be a better woman

[@fatmajumapili8918]

I love this series, please talk about body types and their respective styles. This is golden content. Thank you.

[@overcomer2569]

Thanks for sharing. Always a pleasure to watch.

[@FashionableStepMum]

Overcomer Favored Thank you for watching..🙏🏿

[@sweettoothmarie7304]

This is a very enlightening video. Cathy talk about how to keep everyone and every other thing at bay in order to concentrate on oneself. That's a challenge in my glow up journey. There seems to be one more thing to do or one more person (esp family) to first tend to and it's truly exhausting. Kindly take us through this...thnks!

[@janendirangu5173]

Very inspirational.......love it

[@FashionableStepMum]

Jane Ndirangu Thank you ..🙏🏿

[@rosehaese589]

You look wow. The hair, eyebrows beautiful

[@rosemalaso807]

Wow I have learnt a lot thank you.

[@FashionableStepMum]

rose malaso Most welcome

[@kristenbriah788]

Before i watch i jus wanna say that ive been waiting for this video like for ever .

[@100zerubabel]

Have you tried the Spanx Line of Shape Wears?

[@hon.joycelay]

Such an inspiring video. Thanks for sharing

[@daisychepkorir7381]

You've really grown. An inspirational journey indeed

[@faithwoman8]

Great, great video. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. This is really life-changing information. I am looking forward to your book on what you shared in this video! I admire YOU!

[@cathythuo8606]

Thats an amazing transformation! I need to go back and work on my Pinterest board for a start. Good info!

[@FashionableStepMum]

All the best!

[@rosemary42]

Amazing life story and advice.

[@esthermurugi1975]

Where did you get the mini gastric bypass? Belly fat has really killed my self esteem and i don't have time to exercise

[@mercykirwa5294]

ELEGANT,TIMELESS AND CLASSY! Thanks, i will keep this in mind as i transform myself as i grow too mum.

[@unilovesisters3150]

Thank you for sharing your transformation journey. Inspiring.

[@FashionableStepMum]

Thank you 🙏🏾

[@geej608]

Hey....what do you use to remove dark parts under your armpits?

[@milkanyagam]

Great talk Cathy, A lot to learn from you always, and you really have become soo good at speaking in public, unless you say it, nobody could imagne you are an introvert that was uncomfortable to speak in front of a camera! #goyou!!

[@FashionableStepMum]

Thanks for the support

[@bre77777]

I am inspired. Love you Cathy

[@FashionableStepMum]

Love you too.

[@patriciaodila6302]

Thank you for sharing your journey. I love the transformation.❤❤

[@FashionableStepMum]

Thank you for watching..

[@wanjikugitonga2908]

Thank you for this video ,it's timely . Am at a place where I don't like the woman I am. I was in the airline industry for some years ,took great care of myself then I quit and became a mum .I stopped taking care of me . I am always tired ,I started walking in march ( covid happened ) I have lost 7 kgs ,I am now working on my skin regimen . Please keep doing more of this video's. The best shaper ,spanx from debinhams UK .I can attest that I used their shapers for about 7 years ,the best doesn't show lines and it's comfortable. Now I will start working on me .

[@FashionableStepMum]

I'm cheering you on! ❤️

[@joywairimu5882]

Am here i really need transformation nd u look Soo beutiful

[@Litzy_wambui]

You really inspire me. I love your style, simple and so classy.

[@chepkiruingetich3613]

Very very powerful, thank you for always sharing Catherine.I loved every bit and learnt so much. Be blessed.

[@FashionableStepMum]

Chepkirui Ng'etich Glad you enjoyed. Have a blessed week ahead.

[@Careerspective]

Wooooow you make me love myself and focus on selfcare ...I love you 😍

[@emmaouma1302]

Thank you so much you really inspire me to better myself and even opened a channel to talk about my journey as well thank you so much

[@kethiwangeciwacira8464]

I have learned so much. Thankyou.

[@liliangichuru6958]

Great content. Thanks Cathy!

[@bettynjogu5363]

Well spoken!! Always a pleasure watching your videos. Very informative. Thank you girl.

[@FashionableStepMum]

Thank you, this is very kind of you

[@jacquelinekivuvani7705]

Great video and great nuggets to take away...

[@Taaa753]

Thank you, you look gorgeous mami ❤️❤️I'm inspired

[@sansaraklifestyle4436]

My new crush. Very articulate and classy. You inspire me👌🏿♥️

[@enyakeenkai7267]

Your wig look exquisitely beautiful ...where didnt you it buy?

[@susankihara9521]

Wow so insightful. Thank you Cathy

[@FashionableStepMum]

Thank you!

[@missdee2192]

I was in such a grumpy old this morning you really calmed me down 😊

[@FashionableStepMum]

Oh so glad to hear this.. have a lovely rest of the day..

[@luminous3015]

Im currently on my glow up journey. Thanks for the video

[@FashionableStepMum]

We're behind you! ❤️

[@doristabu3399]

I just love your content Cathy... So classic yet relatable... I have learnt a lot thanks for this piece❤️❤️❤️

[@FashionableStepMum]

Doris Tabu Thank you for watching and its my pleasure to share..

[@kalumbuleahnjovu2167]

Thank you for this honest video

[@janetkerubo4870]

The hair🥰

[@joanchebii5545]

Love.Love.Love. Really informative, great content. Tuned in as always🧡🧡

[@FashionableStepMum]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@limitlesseveke]

You inspire me big time girl....

[@iansila2370]

Loved this so many tips I have taken and apply them in my regimen as a guy

[@faithachieng5929]

I feel like you're talking to me....I'm in that phase of transformation...both inner and outer I need to live my life and not live for others...

[@FashionableStepMum]

That's exactly what life is about. You can only love others as much as you love yourself.

[@irenecelestine9172]

Faith same here it's like she's talking to me, I had lost myself after getting married at 22 so on my journey of transformation now and I feel happy

[@liliankiruri364]

Good stuff Cathy! God bless

[@FashionableStepMum]

Ahsante,,, God's blessings to you too.