How Jane Fonda Predicted Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck's Split

[@sondrainaz3895]

Ok. Jane Really told her. JLo did not care. She knew what people saw. Didn’t matter.

[@brendafuller907]

Jane wasn't the only one! We ALL new this wouldn't last!

[@ApplePie..]

We all? The media thought that it was a beautiful wonderful love affair.

[@JessicaFletcher-nn5ss]

Knew not new

[@janet5610]

@@ApplePie..Seriously.... That's right! You say it is a beautiful, wonderful love affair....REGARDLESS OF WHAT YOU PERSONALLY THINK ABOUT A COUPLES UNION. Isn't that what you are supposed to do? Wish a couple the best? Not try to embarrass someone on camera by bringing up your negative thoughts about their relationship or marriage. Jane was out of line....100%. This was not a private conversation. What was Jane in need of some press? I didn't think it would work, but I was hoping for the best for Jen. I didn't think Ben was good enough for her. He proved that to me the first time they were engaged. She is definitely more forgiving then I am.

[@brendafuller907]

@@ApplePie.. Sorry it didn't work out.

[@anavasconcelos9168]

She’s was right, Jenifer tried too hard so we could believe her Greatest love story never told … because never happened!

[@ROYAL_REBEL]

It was like giving advice to someone who is in her 20s, and the way she answered to Jane Fonda's advice, was like a stupid stubborn teenager's reply

[@lann2bme7516]

Yes. 💯

[@valeriemarin6612]

Hey, she was in love and REALLY needed her relationship to work. One got the feeling that Ben was her holy grail.

[@ROYAL_REBEL]

@@valeriemarin6612 That means she's not that bright.

[@valeriemarin6612]

@@ROYAL_REBEL and it's just sad really.

[@lovejones1897]

Bingo

[@catty8901]

Jlo was doing the most trying to prove they were so "in love" 🤦

[@Adam-faira5219]

Ben doesn't support her. He let her in her problem. If he really loves her he should support her and to be there with her not hang out with ex.

[@shelleycharlesworth5177]

@@Adam-faira5219 of course these actors are all Narcs- caring only for themselves. 2 narcs can not stay together. WAKE UP!

[@annacarter4879]

​@@Adam-faira5219we don't know the whole story the problem is too many people believe in anything we don't know what went on behind closed doors. But it was enough for Ben Affleck to leave.

[@annieann_3227]

Honestly….the whole world predicted this marriage/relationship wasn’t gonna last. JLO is a hopeless romantic, she lives her life in fantasyland and what she wants the relationship to be like instead of facing and living in reality. Regardless if Ben is the good guy or not, JLO only sees what she wants to see instead of for what it is. That’s why she jumps into marriage so quickly and go thru divorce just as quick when the honeymoon phase wears off. JLO is not the down to earth type of girl, she lives for the glamour, the attention and validation from the public. it’s hard for those types of people to find true life lasting love because those types of people are usually deep down insecure and have issues deep within. Can’t find true love when they can’t love and be content with themselves and they seek others to love them instead. This is my personal opinion.

[@monicachavez6609]

Wow! Very insightful. I enjoyed reading your commentary.

[@seri895]

It is very bad to criticise only Jlo.Ben has serious issues too. He has avoidant attachment and therefore big insecurities, commitment issues and alcohol addiction

[@annieann_3227]

@@seri895 yes I’m aware Ben has major personality issues but my comment is solely based on JLO perspective. This comment isn’t about their marriage issues, this is about JLO’s problems of getting into relationships with men who isn’t a good fit for her. Men who clearly are walking red flags but she doesn’t see the red flags because she only sees what she wants to see. This comment is about JLO’s poor taste in men and why she keeps picking them. The entire world knew who n how Ben is, but JLO still married him….in that case, JLO is the problem. This women lives her life based on what could be not what it is. She never got over Ben from many years ago, so she thought this was her second chance. JLO should stop putting her kids thru all these temporary relationships and just stay single and focus on putting her feet on the ground and giving her kids a normal and grounded life. I feel like her entire life is a show because she lives for the attention from the public.

[@annieann_3227]

@@seri895 even you know that Ben has these problems, the entire world knows that. You don’t think JLO knew that before getting back with him?

[@angelinavega6696]

SPOT ON 100% AGREE

[@shelleycharlesworth5177]

Narcissism knows no bounds no bounds. Instead of cherishing private times and moments she wanted everything to be displayed. Exactly what Jane Fonda said.

[@DanielCastro-x1l]

I am not fond of Hanoi Jan3 but sh3 was right and for onc3 I actually r3sp3ct what sh3 said

[@Kay091-ew3qi]

And she has the audacity to say that she was raised by narcissistic mother 😂 her kids will say the same one day about her. Jer chidlren always look lost and sad

[@endorathewitchwriter1712]

I have a feeling JLO is hard to live with.

[@magdelinem6962]

Can you imagine someone making a whole movie about yourself.😂😬🙄

[@ronaldwashington5715]

😂

[@amandam8523]

Why not ? She could

[@arnelabih1845]

@magdelinem6962 lol nothing wrong with that we people that love ourselves we don't see nothing wrong with this

[@ApplePie..]

Narcissists have that mentality.

[@magdelinem6962]

@@arnelabih1845 SMH😂

[@jooliagoolia9959]

I saw it during their Barbara Walters interview in 2002. Jennifer doesn't give any room for Ben to breathe.

[@FireFly-y2d]

And that NEVER works!!!!

[@monicachavez6609]

It seems to me like it's her way or the highway.

[@Kay091-ew3qi]

Or any man not just Ben. I think she's the one who pursues men. She did the same thing with a rod

[@jooliagoolia9959]

@Kay091-ew3qi@Kay091-ew3qi Really hard working people sometimes don't realize you can't bring the same attitudes or behaviors in business into personal relationships.

[@CourtneysCockpit]

I love that jane called her out while she was in such turmoil over finding people. Im so glad this is resurfacing 😂😂😂

[@rosemaryrogers1478]

Jane Fonda know what she talking about🔥🔥

[@DanielCastro-x1l]

You m3an Hanoi Jan3

[@lenac3587]

Been there done that

[@rethabileramohloa5266]

She loves Ben way too much. Hunny never love a man more than he loves you

[@McD-j5r]

This is a good advice.

[@gasarolita9597]

She try her best! But every woman should learn from JLO and Ben! Don’t love Man to much! Give the room! Don’t bring your ex husband back to your life! Move on!

[@o_m8717]

I'd say she was so excited about him coming back and asking him to marry her that she forgot to live in the present moment. Otherwise, she wouldn't have been so drunk in love; she'd have walked away before saying I do. She was also too invested in living for the cameras.

[@wingberry123]

Nah girl, she loves herself more.

[@Serenityblu23]

Ex boyfriend but i agree with everything you said​@@gasarolita9597

[@littlelittle5]

Wow.. Jane Fonda is the next Nostradamus 😂

[@krystaldawn4053]

😂 Gold

[@TreesRgreen123]

The only time I seen Ben smiling whilst with her was on their wedding day. The rest of the time he looked miserable as sin

[@isabellavalencia8026]

Not her filming this private phone call....she just doesnt get it!

[@pattyh2410]

Yes!

[@Setsail-e8b]

I remember Jane Fonda making this comment very well!! It appears JLo wasn't wanting to hear the truth...🤔

[@DanielCastro-x1l]

I am no fan of Hanoi Jan3 but for onc3 I lik3 what sh3 said about JLo

[@monicachavez6609]

The only person JLo is in love with is herself. She can't marry again because she's already married...to herself. She's obsessed with engagement rings and wedding dresses. She lives in a fantasy world. I get the feeling she might be difficult to live with and that's why all her marriages end in divorce. I know she's difficult to work with because of all the accounts I have read. She should stay single. She has this fantasy about marriage that clearly doesn't translate into reality.

[@Basementjacks]

Every single movie she does is with a wedding dress and something about romance. She's in love with the idea of getting married and proposed to. But that's about it. She's a terrible person off cameras

[@Maria-rx1us]

Jlos response to Fonda was "we are just living our lives." What the truth is she was living her life for the cameras and attention. The way she clung on to him when they walked and gazing at him like he was a God was over the top ridiculous. She's very needy and needs constant attention. Ben has enough children, he doesn't need that from her. She sounds smothering.

[@lenac3587]

She clung on to him for dear life because she can't live alone without a man by her side which completes her perfect life. Why need a man when she's hardly home and working all the time and always out and about for the paparazzi.

[@williwfosselman828]

No love the cameras.. she’s delusional she needs to stay single and work on her self

[@lizet3more]

I guess it's like seeing yourself in the mirror

[@VVylt]

It’s actually sad… but yes, life goes on

[@Kelly-qv9oc]

Let’s face it, Jennifer could’ve been the perfect wife and Ben would’ve got bored anyway. He was going to leave her no matter what.

[@tomandgerit.2157]

She filed for divorce and being that it is her 4th one, chances are she isn't "perfect."

[@luxurylifela2068]

I think it’s clear both are far from perfect. I agree that he would have gotten bored no matter what. He’s been there with Jennifer before and he knew who she was and her lifestyle. He was writing her love letters and mooning over her when he didn’t have her. As soon as her got her again, he lost interest. When he was married to Garner, he had the same angry, sullen facial expressions in public. He cheated on her and embarrassed her publicly. He low key blamed being married to her for his being miserable and his alcoholism. Now that he doesn’t have her, he’s spending so much time with her and using her as his emotional support animal, probably because she is/was engaged and was about to become inaccessible. JLo doesn’t appear to be the only one who can’t be alone. People rip JLo apart for her flaws and relationship missteps. Look at Ben though. Ole boy also has some problematic behaviors and a distinct pattern in his romantic relationships as well.

[@jakestroll6518]

He went ten years with his first wife so I’m not buying that one. These two are just very incompatible. They barely made it 18 months first time around but stupid fans gassed them up to think they were each other’s soul mates. Ben’s soul mate is probably Jennifer Garner, not this woman.

[@NkNk-vg8fc]

Bens a Miserable Fart....

[@amandag779]

She is in love with love. Once that honeymoon phase is over, it's boring for her. She will get married again.

[@Sinneranne]

We all predicted it not only her lol

[@jakestroll6518]

Jane predicted it last year before Jlo made her ridiculous movie. She was ahead of most of the public in foreseeing the trouble

[@rcov9747]

They were just never a good match. They might love each other, but even we as the public who don't know them personally, can see just how different they are. He's very private, and you can tell he has some issues. She's looking for a fairytale romance, she's very public and wants the whole world to know she's in love. It's just an odd pairing. Anyways I think she needs to cool down with the whole marriage thing. Engaged 6 times and married 4....just be single for a while girl!!!

[@ROYAL_REBEL]

Arod was a better match. Who was willing to be her puppy. Even dressed in drag for her

[@ilovelifelifelovesme773]

jennifer lopez: Thats us living our life. Hell no, it wasnt not in in private. otherwise you wouldnt have filled for a divorce.

[@isabellavalencia8026]

Exafuckenactly

[@momma3204]

My 4 year old could have predicted this marriage would fail! 😂😂😂

[@cesarhands2930]

When you don't plan your life, you end up divorced four times lol

[@catty8901]

Yeah because everything we plan always turns out 🙄

[@cesarhands2930]

@catty8901 No, but if you dont, it almost always turns to shiite. It's called having a backup plan

[@o_m8717]

​@@catty8901Come on, not 4 times.

[@BiBiBiBiBi-jy8qo]

Omg well said

[@cesarhands2930]

@catty8901 no, but it helps to have what's called a backup "plan." And learning from your mistakes.

[@mariac6340]

Her putting everything out there is the catalyst. She's too busy in herself she couldn't see him. Ben just said in the interview that the attention during their first hook up was too much. So what did she do Bennifer 2.0? She bound all the letters they wrote each other the last 20 years and showed them to her staff and crew as part of her self-funded documentary. Ben was mortified that she would put something so personal out there. Jane Fonda warned her, she pushes everything instead of letting things happen. Why? she's a narcissist.

[@lenac3587]

That was the last straw that broke the camel's back

[@lavenberry]

I'm so glad that Jane kept it real with Jennifer, I hope Jennifer appreciates that. Will Jenny be the next Elizabeth Taylor? 😮

[@kimerietate8372]

Jennifer Lopez has a lot of confidence, but abysmal self-esteem.She had to marry The White Irish Knight (and change her last name to “Affleck”)in order to prove to herself that she’s more than just Jenny From The Block.Her saying,”She still got her beauty, her booty, and her bank account” in the documentary was such a sad tell of how she overcompensates for how poorly she feels about herself.

[@betsy5889]

JEN blew JANE off. Hopefully she looks back and LEARNS 🙏🏽

[@lenac3587]

Nah

[@annacarter4879]

When jlo and Ben got back together the second time to Ben it felt like the first why he left. Jlo hasn't changed but got worse it seems as if jlo demand attention from Ben Affleck' instead of him being himself. Jlo didn't want to listen she wanted things her way she wasn't acting like a wife more of a woman who demanded so much. Judt like she wanted that big house and telling everything about the marriage jlo didn't respect Ben Affleck she wanted the world to know everything but it didn't fit with Ben Affleck. Jlo treated Ben like he was a child instead of a man. Then came Diddy problems which added involving jlo it was too much drama especially for Ben kids. Ben is a private man jlo is more for the spotlight. Jane Fonda try to talk to jlo about her marriage but jlo didn't want the advice.

[@debrap947]

We all knew, not just Jane Fonda. When you are addicted to falling "in love" you don't listen to sensible advice.

[@driversseat1707]

That message has gone in one ear and out the other. She's probably looking for husband #5 as we speak.

[@Kristenoyinbo]

Already has one on the back burner 😂

[@lenac3587]

If he's willing to join the media mayhem. Being hunted and chased like a wild animal

[@sashaeliot6074]

Let's be real, Ben had started his downward spiral the minute he decided to mess around during his marriage to Jennifer Garner. 😒

[@jakestroll6518]

Yep. But I think it was alcoholism and depression that drove that decision. He should have gone into intense therapy immediately. If he had he’d still be in the family he clearly misses.

[@kaosaelee3322]

Jane Fonda.. is her monster in law mother in law in the movie.. she should know jlo well.. Ogs knows the best like my grandma 😅

[@josephinetew1647]

I’m glad they didn’t belong together

[@LeilaMaria94]

Why ?

[@martavioustisby4942]

@@LeilaMaria94Because They are toxic

[@JP-lu9ed]

Amen Jane. Before the wedding , she kept uploading pictures about the wedding planning and being in love but almost nothing about the man himself. It was notable and slightly odd.

[@PureSparkles22]

We all knew they were never gonna last

[@innervisions1828]

Having looked into Jennifer's dating/marriage history, it was obvious to me that this marriage would fail. Anyone who thought they would have a happily ever after ending is delusional.

[@th1s1kat]

Yeah, Jane Fonda and the rest of the world called it

[@Cindy-u6f]

Beauty only goes so far. It will attract a man but will not keep him in the long or short run.

[@jd737]

JLO is so rude

[@steevenhyde3505]

Jane gave her a great advice. Jennifer is too self centered. He has been very outspoken about how he doesn't like his private life being out there. He's also dealing with addiction, so imagine how hard it must be to deal with all that while being chase by paparazzi. It feels like Jennifer pushed him to be put there for the press more than he wanted to. He seemed so unhappy and she seems so insufferable, calculating and conniving.

[@kathryngilbert5952]

This call was so cringe! When jane said why are you doing this it looks like fake

[@Nogoingback424]

Gee Fonda must be clairvoyant predicting that one. Did anyone think it would last?

[@innervisions1828]

I never for a second there would be a happy ending. Take a look at her dating/marriage history.

[@JP-lu9ed]

Most people probably thought it but wouldn’t say something. Jane Fonda had the guts to say it to her directly and straight up. I hope Jlo ultimately appreciates that as someone really caring about her.

[@anna-is6tt]

We all knew that relationship was doomed before they said, "I do." The minute she left the baseball player and went running into Ben's arms. Stupid move. She didn't give herself time to heal.

[@hyfmf]

Jane Fonda was the best part of that awfully cringe movie or whatever it was …

[@missstarrynight7736]

I wonder how Jlo feel about making that ridiculous movie about her "great love story never told". The movie showed her in a very specific light, very unfavourable, and to many people it was obvious that Moment, that Ben Aff was treated not like a life partner, but as an audience or "accessory". Moreover, Mrs. Lopez proved her indiscretion and lack of basic loyalty by showing everyone and their dog the private correspondence between her and Affleck. It's a betrayal of confidentiality and trust amongst life partners.

[@nstout7139]

Of course a narcissist knows better and doesn't listen to anyone. She's the center of her own universe, so she will be just fine. On to the next love bubble and drama

[@arnelabih1845]

Jane Fonda is so beautiful 😍

[@hopes.t.1092]

Smart words to listen too. 💜 Jane

[@Chrisgraww]

Hello 👋Beautiful Lady 🌹..How are you and the weather condition like?

[@DarknesssThereAndNothingMore]

To be fair Stevie Wonder could of seen this coming 😂

[@lenac3587]

They had been miserable once the marriage certificate is signed. It all started to simmer since their honeymoon. Everything was good before the marriage which involves certain expectations

[@jaliz2000]

Jane new from experience. She was trying to get Jennifer to just enjoy the marriage instead of constantly trying to prove their love in the press. She new Jennifer's ego and need to do that would cause difficulty.

[@superiortrans-1697]

Who really predicted the split was Jens 1st ex husband. He gave it two year and he was dead on to a tee.

[@ApplePie..]

JLo is 55 going on 16.

[@WithMunchkins]

JLo: "Duhh"

[@lizellejohannes5439]

Sad I really wanted it to work

[@Woohchaiell]

Oh please. Stevie Wonder saw this coming.

[@damarital9910]

Pobre Jennifer....😢 En todas sus relaciones quiere mostrar a todos que es feliz y que la quieren. Pero lo más importante es que ella se quiera asi musma y se valore..Necesira terapia y estar con su familia.❤

[@sharoncredell987]

The Signs He Saw That Things Hadn't Changed, and Worse New Ones Were: the Awful Two Movies and Horrible Album, Taking his Complimentary Tips from Kind, Attentive Servers & other Wait Staff, Calls to Paparazzi to tell them were they Were, at all times. Continuous Involvement with Diddy, Selling Without Permission his Entire Motorbike collection, Insults about his obviously Cherished ex-Wife, Disrespecting & Undermining of His, and his Former Wives stricter Parenting Styles, providing them endless Freedom of Access to everything they Safeguarded. Using His Children, and Hers, was the worst! 😮😮😮

[@Floatingmermaid]

Shes in an odd place of understanding and not understanding. She said Ben is a symbol of a beleaguered man....yet she doesn't except what it means...

[@spicyhot2552]

Jane was right

[@oanna1221]

Lol. Nailed it Jane. ❤

[@teacherlynn671]

When you steal other women’s men you get what you deserve. Try repentance and maybe God will offer forgiveness if your heart is pure. Get your own man Jennifer, for a change.

[@Serenityblu23]

Who did she steal? Ben was divorced from the other Jen for a while now. Are you talking about the baseball player? Or p.diddy and his two exes he left for jen

[@jeangray6863]

Jane, when I saw them rekindle, I said the same thing. She needs to spend time knowing herself. It's ok to be alone. She is too good for Ben Affleck.

[@titaniacarter5148]

JLo seems to be living her own reality show.. smdh, like she really needs that kind of attention, so pathetic that she feels the whole world needs to know about her private life.

[@mamahustru]

Ben throwing all blame on Jlo is the lowest of low.

[@Janedoe89479]

Lmao 😂 anyone could have predicted the spilt. 🙄

[@PaiviProject]

Well, I hope Jennifer would finally take some time to figure things out for herself instead of rushing into relationship with the next man. None of them seem to last longer than the "honeymoon" period.

[@JoelKyayonka]

I also knew that is going to end between them.

[@beatpirate8]

i wish they kept their rekindle quiet. she is extroverted and he isnt it seems. i wish them the best. there is love there. it just is didferent personalities. he doesnt like all the pictures . she loves or doesnt mind it. she is able to keep her kids private. so i wish their relationship was private until it became solid

[@PatricaGraus]

You're not supposed to make u turn in past relationships. You're not to go backwards 😮

[@jenniferpowers7006]

Stop benifer! This is pathetic and boring!

[@stephaniedavis4597]

That's not a warning it's worry for a friend❤

[@jocquiswashington8097]

They could never be Nelly and Ashanti they for real happy and in love not this Ben and jlo thing

[@Plantbliss]

Um I love her but WE ALL SAW THIS COMING before they even said I do! 😂

[@Chrisgraww]

Hello 👋Beautiful Lady 🌹..How are you and the weather condition like?

[@captinzoom]

Jen was trying to not only sell this love story to the public but to herself. He never wanted to be married to her and she knew that but Ben like always does things he doesn't like and mops around about ..I think when Jane told her that she had to double down cause that exposure was to much. She was never able to exhale

[@jeangray6863]

This guy was a chronic drinker before you reconnected with him. What makes you think you should change him. He still love his children's mother.

[@ApplePie..]

He's cheated on everybody that he's been involved with, how does that equate to love?

[@renny1712]

Because JF was The Monster-in-Law, which always knew everything!!! 🤣

[@marissabergado7112]

Ben is wise. He saw she was just in love with herself. He was wise to move out when she went to Italy 🇮🇹. She wanted all the fame and attention & Ben was tired 😪 of her just posing for attention. Good for him to get out BEFORE it was too late 😂😂😂😂😂 What a delusional person J.Lo is, trying to use money to buy his love! MONEY CANNOT BUY LOVE ❤️ J. Lo!!! Should have listened to the Beatles 😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ and it is true your love ❤️ don’t cost a thing because ain’t no decent guy want your love 😂😂😂😂😂

[@jennslifeinhuntingtonwv2678]

I wonder if he regrets thinking the grass was greener? Cause Jennifer G. is a natural beauty.

[@JB-jp9gp]

I dont know why she made that stupid movie in the first ? Never been a Greatest love of all 😂 She just Humiliate her self around the world

[@olivergarrick1175]

Not just jane Fonda predicted it everyone did 😂.

[@ApplePie..]

Not everyone.

[@user-WispyMisty]

Jane Fonda was right!!

[@G_Vegas22]

They should ban her from getting engaged from now on.

[@georgiesimmons5924]

I've never seen someone who, so desperately needs to retire from falling in love and getting married🙄🙄

[@inmagarciaflor1010]

Todo lo graba, todo lo vende, se cree genuina y unica.

[@christineatkinson9083]

She predicted it wow it wasn’t really that hard to tell you the truth. Everybody in the whole world predicted it are you kidding me?

[@mandlas.4305]

Four divorces and you're only 55 years old?😮

[@dragonfly6908]

I actually thought Jennifer and Ben's marriage would work until Jennifer continued with her very busy schedule to maintain her fame.

[@MaryMatthews-jg7du]

A performative relationship

[@Sutter635-jk4td]

Look at the bright side their marriage lastest longer than Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphries.. hehehehehe

[@VictoriaAgnello-q3b]

Jane Fonda predictions she was not alone you got to know the girl Jlo will never settle down only if God Say So She not family oriented n one man not good enough she a diff kind of women

[@candilastname7429]

Everybody's talking about Bennifer... but what about the kids? Her kids specifically. Gahhh, seeing all these men come and go. Not cool. Wish she'd just focus on her kiddos before they move out in a couple years..

[@ronniebar3857]

So embarrassing 😂

[@donnah5378]

Maybe it wasn’t real love 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

[@jade7602]

"That's us living our lives!"

[@d37chicago]

Two Leo’s just can’t work..wish them both the best. Looks like they had fun even if for a short time, perhaps it was just the closure they needed.