How Many People Have I Slept With? | Hannah Witton

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Secret phrase for the comments: "yes, I lost my phone - what's your number?"

[@MrGingerkid10]

0 and couldn't give less of a fuck, it'll happen when it'll happen

[@AmericanMan961]

+Ellis Lynn same. lmao

[@ayanhart]

+Ellis Lynn Well, I doubt you could give less of a fuck since you've literally given 0 fucks. Sorry couldn't resist xD

[@Bubbly027]

+holderoftheheart ahahahahahah

[@MrGingerkid10]

Fair play that was top

[@madeline8868]

+Ellis Lynn Hell yeah! lol

[@bmanmose3740]

When someone says: I get 10x as many girls as you. I just feel bad for them. Either because they can't do maths, or they forget that 0x10=0

[@Lenny_X.]

*shakes hand* well done (oh and im using that)

[@nickc2011]

+Rob Steele I tip my hat to you

[@Diggy26Doggy]

+Rob Steele i started laughing before i even finished reading it XD

[@BruT4LMC]

But its is still technically 10 times more.

[@bmanmose3740]

BruT4L urm... no it's not...

[@gandafel]

Next: What's my favorite position? | Hannah Witton An interesting video in which Hannah discusses her favorite positions... for reading a book.

[@gandafel]

+Hannah Witton Feel free to use it! ;) Other ideas: How long do I last in bed? (reading) How often do I give pleasure to myself? (with a good book) Does size matter? (it depends how much you like reading)

[@benjaminantonyflored6303]

+Hannah Witton and yes my picture is meh reading these suggested books

[@ZaZa12745]

+Hannah Witton Ugly

[@krogan52]

+gandafel I saw your first comment and was glad someone thought about this video the same way I did. Yet in a much more clever fashion than I could have ever written, but then I saw your reply :(. She skirted around the question and didn't answer it. I can understand not wanting to tell the whole Internet "your number", but then don't name the video with that exact title. Seems like a cheap sexualized way to get views. Why not: "What does your number mean?"

[@gandafel]

+krogan52 My reply was full of sarcasm too and both had the same reason that you're mentioning. It's called criticism through sarcasm and humor. It's kinda like what John Oliver does. At the end of the day, she is a full time youtuber. This is her job. So one can understand why she would market herself with such click-baity video titles :).

[@sevendueceoffsuit]

With the title "How Many People Have I Slept With? | Hannah Witton", I for some strange reason thought you were going to say how many.

[@HakimSpokenLewis]

I don't think it is necessary for her to tell us something so personal

[@sevendueceoffsuit]

+Hakim “Spoken” Lewis Me neither. Just don't click bait the title like that.

[@mattletissier9167]

+sevendueceoffsuit Maybe she lost count?

[@tonydimeo1882]

+sevendueceoffsuit That was my hope as well.

[@SuperFannyfarts]

+Matt Le Tissier , Its like throwing a sausage up an alley way !LOL :)

[@MitchCreasey]

so I'm now on -3 :'(

[@violettaschmieder2096]

And im exactly at 3^^

[@jstylezPictures]

same and two of em' were escorts haha but with my the women I loved it was special and I couldn't care how many partners people slept with I wouldn't or couldn't give a ballix lol

[@TheJimmyf22]

hahah this is great

[@JAFPyroxX]

Don't worry about it. I'm 22 and I am still a virgin and never even had a girlfriend. But I don't think that this makes me less a Man.

[@knightofcarrion7358]

AND i am -2 :/

[@alexwright4869]

I've officially slept with -3 people.

[@Chouetterargentee]

This question feels like an absolute minefield as a bisexual girl.... It's not only the number people ask about, it's numbers and gender, and then people have varying opinions on what counts as sex. I'll give a number, if I want to, but no followup questions.

[@TheJackawock]

Yeah definitely. I've only ever had one real relationship with a girl. I've doubts about my queerness off a lot of people, even her. It not fun and makes me feel constantly defensive when talking about this stuff.

[@mattletissier9167]

+Alice Ash If you've slept with "a handful of women" and "way more guys than girls" (i.e. many handfuls), their issues could have more to do with your overall number than your ratio of guys to girls. They may be intimidated by (and perhaps envious of) your sexual history. Like it or not, most people are wary of starting a relationship with someone whose number is abnormally high (or low), for reasons that are both reasonable and unreasonable.

[@aliceash396]

Matt Le Tissier​ I'm not even talking about potential partners I'm just talking about people in general!

[@aliceash396]

And also totally erasing my sexuality due to the fact I've slept with "many handfuls" of people makes no sense whatsoever. "Ah I am intimidated that you have slept with this amount of people.... you're not very bisexual, you fake"

[@currybumjenkins5428]

+Matt Le Tissier "fake bisexual men are gay but can't admit it, and fake bisexual women are promiscuous party girls who sleep with anyone in between boyfriends." That literally describes 90% of people I know who self-describe as bi lol

[@NarfalangoLJS]

Interestingly as a bisexual man I find I experience it from both perspectives. Most people who ask my number and know my sexuality look a bit blank for a moment then follow it up with "but how many guys/girls" and I can feel them making the judgment based on that answer. Like the more girls I've had sex with the better and the more guys the more "slutty" I am. Sigh.

[@Vaalia]

+Hkjb At least in my experience, it definitely is. In general, to men the number of girls I've been with makes me "hotter" and the number of men more "slutty". Conversely, to women I often find the men I've been with invalidate the idea that I was with a woman and am, truly, bisexual. If they consider the male number high, I'm straight in disguise or "slutty", as +Narfalango said. It's a strange and unfortunate paradox.

[@NarfalangoLJS]

+Vaalia Yeah and on my side I get the "gay in disguise" thing. People (as with you, particularly women) assume I'm gay and then if they decide the number of males is too high they take that as proof or confirmation of their theory. So many women will immediately write me off just because I've been with men. I'm not just assuming this just because they're not interested in me - I've been directly told on more than one occasion that my sexuality made them uncomfortable, and even when I haven't been directly told I can still often feel a shift in attitude towards me once my sexual history comes to light. To be honest though, I guess really it's a good thing because are people who make these kinds of judgments really the ones we want to be with? I'm thinking no. Thanks for sharing your experience :)

[@Vaalia]

I've done the threesome thing before and I swear that, quite unfairly, haunts you. It became a prerequisite for some potential partners that were never partners because of it. The other thing that grinds my gears is that I've been with a man for four years, it's looking like it may last, therefore my bisexuality was a phase and I liked men all along. Sorry, that's not how it works folks.

[@MarinaVieiraSouza]

this may sound weird but I've felt compelled to raise my number to my college/feminist friends. they were all so sexually liberated and I was a virgin for 21 years, I kinda felt ashemed of my "prudeness". specially when I came out as bi. people just kept assuming I've had sex, and I didn't correct them. meanwhile, inside I felt like my sexual orientation wasn't valid until I had sex with men and women (and when I eventually did I realized how stupid it was to feel the need to lie about my sex life in order to "fit in")

[@garyacker7388]

You shouldn't have to lie or have sex to fit in.

[@AmyLovatt1]

Your eyeliner is what dreams are made of!!!

[@AmyLovatt1]

about right!

[@made0041]

Misleading title much...

[@arthurroberts491]

My first wife and I were both virgins on our wedding day, it took us a week to get it right. She died 30 years later. My second parter is my second wife.

[@RenoHex]

When the concept of "your number" comes up, I like to reply with "Point of clarification: The number of *people* I have had sex with, or the number of *times* I have had sex?" It makes for fun conversations.

[@greensteve9307]

+RenoHex: Agreed! The number of girl's I've slept with is four, but the first one I was with for 6 years! So assuming an average of just once per fortnight after the first three months, that's 138 times.

[@thatzak]

I absolutely hate this question! It's not the number that's important, it's the fact that in social and romantic situations you're forced to answer an extremely personal question and will be hounded if you don't. Like, I don't care about anyone else's number at all. Leave me alone!

[@alecwinner]

Also for people who've been the victims of sexual assault, especially chronic/multiple sexual assaults, sometimes we feel uncomfortable with what our 'real' number is, so don't pressure someone to tell you everyone, and definitely don't ask for someone's 'real number' if they've been assaulted and you want to (for some absurd reason) know if they counted their abuse or not.

[@louisejonesetc]

I totally relate to being more bothered by the 'why' and not the number itself. I wasn't bothered at all by my boyfriend's number until I found out the stories behind each number and it fast became an issue, which we did eventually work through. I never felt insecure about his number being much higher than mine in the sense that I worried he'd compare me to others, but I was incredibly insecure about the reasons he had sex. I was worried about being used (I had v bad past experiences). My mind obviously raced to thinking he was a 'player' and just wanted me for a number, but, TL;DR, I finally found out his ex treated him terribly and HE ended up insecure about sex. So when they split, he went on a 'rampage' to try and prove he was good in bed, essentially. It sucked. He found it so hard to talk about and admit, it was all pretty repressed. We ended up finding out a lot about each other. We both had totally different bad experiences with sex, which could easily be misconstrued thanks to stereotyping. So it all comes down to healthy, honest communication I think, as most things do. You can't jump to conclusions. Our attitudes to sex before (and just as) we started dating were quite different, but now we are pretty sound with the whole shabang. And we've certainly learnt a lot in the last two years, and I'm sure we'll continue to! Numbers are a thing of the past for us. I didn't mean for this comment to be so long... I don't even know if it has a real point...

[@summer2011leggo]

I'm a guy and my number is zero so if you were to subtract 3 my number would be negative 3.How does one have sex with -3 people?

[@nickc2011]

+summer2011leggo What does it say about me that the first thing I notice is that -3 kind of makes a penis? I'm so mature.

[@ixamberluvxi]

+Nick C if -3 is a penis (which I can see because I have a perverted mind and see penis, vagina, and boobs everywhere).... based on shape and size... it looks like extremely huge balls, probably because they are blue... which would happen if you slept with 3 less than 0 people

[@bbaker4117]

1:30 in America you MULTIPLY the number of sexual partners a girl says she's had by three, and DIVIDE by three for guys.

[@StoutProper]

Khal Drogo same in the UK really, she's just trying to be coy and present a better image even though she pretends it doesn't matter. I mean when you're in treble figures what difference does 3 make?

[@Stagesylvania]

Khal Drogo Makes sense to me.

[@Stevesrssrssrs]

That's what I've heard too!

[@patrickgillespie5506]

i live in america, and not everywhere does that. We add and subtract

[@michealgonzales5347]

Hm... going by these calculations, I've been with 1/3 of a person :/

[@TheRobstargames]

This was a touch clickbaity seen as we never found Hannah's number, great video though.

[@halincandenza7640]

+TheRobstargames Agreed but on the other hand I watch her vids anyway. It's all clickbait to me.

[@sarahbush4462]

i really hope you're joking

[@guyfawkes3654]

Britt he is honest

[@ThisisRubbishlo]

😂😂🔥

[@singingintherain4750]

Then you shouldn't be so interested in her number though ^^

[@newxromantic]

I'm a 23 year old virgin, and am worried that the fact I'm a virgin, people would want to take advantage of that

[@newxromantic]

+Omega JNA Because I think, some ppl just want to sleep with a virgin and then just leave

[@kobemac3436]

sweety if that's Ur real then I think Ur really sexy and because of that u should have no problem finding the right person and just so u know I had sex with over 15 girls and I still haven't found the right one yet so don't give up hope sweetheart OK

[@kobemac3436]

if that's Ur real pic

[@newxromantic]

+Kobe mac I actually don't appreciate being cat called online, and this comment is a fine example of what I was originally saying. And one final note, it's not even me on my picture.

[@newxromantic]

+Kobe mac just no

[@wmbuchanan8512]

..."thoughts on the topic and anything i might have missed"... my favorite line

[@meremeth]

i identify as asexual so people who i'm out to assume that my number is 0 and will always be 0, this just comes from basic misunderstandings and stereotypes about asexuality. my attitude toward sex has nothing to do with my sexuality, its all down to the individual.

[@erngrrr]

+Meredith Williams preach

[@alexforce9]

+Meredith Williams so you have sex but its not need just something you do for fun?

[@meremeth]

Alex Force sexual attraction doesn't drive me, so if i want to have sex its because of libido or just for fun, yeah. that make sense?

[@SebastianLopez-nh1rr]

+Meredith Williams would you clarify the difference between libido and sexual attraction?

[@meremeth]

Sebastián López libido is sex drive/urge/longing and its a bodily function. sexual attraction is whether or not you find a person attractive in a sexual way. basically libido is "im horny" and sexual attraction is "wow that person's so hot id love to fuck them". ya know

[@omi8015]

Idk, I don't think I would date anyone who's slept with 100 people.

[@miadelrosario9947]

really? that's quite impressive i'd applaud them

[@omi8015]

+Mia “Mia deLOSERio” del Rosario I feel like it's easier to sleep with everyone rather than to sleep with only one person.

[@sha2424]

what if they were 1000 years old???

[@matnowak4797]

you obviously haven't tried

[@omi8015]

Mat Nowak Yeah I'm a virgin. I just feel as though sex is something you don't throw around. But to each their own.

[@Elizabeth-pt9dz]

Your hair looks so amazing!

[@blinky28890]

I get judged harshly for not having had sex with anyone and being 25. It's my choice and let's not judge anyone. Hannah great video and please keep talking about taboo topics :)

[@HoldeMaid]

It's quite funny. When this topic comes up with people other than people I'm intimate with / dating, usually people are shocked that my number is so high (I'm a woman) and seem to view it negatively. But if they know I'm gay, they react very positively, almost congratulating me on my success. I think the reason for this is that we see women as passive and submissive and men as active and dominant. When it comes to sex, this leads to a perceived gender difference where men are perceived as "fucking" and women as "getting fucked". However, gender stereotypes don't apply as much to gay people. Sometimes they are even reversed. So I guess if people know I'm gay, they think I'm "fucking" rather than "being fucked" and that is seen in a more positive light. It's very stupid. ... anyway, this is only my impression. Planning to run some psychological studies on this at the moment.

[@JessBess]

You're such a cool youtuber. There's so many female youtubers out there that just do fashion or beauty videos but it's videos like this that we need more of!

[@andystanford7117]

100% agree! Great video as always :)

[@S7EVE_P]

My tip: if their "number" includes a comma, RUN.

[@PalashaGabarra]

My tip is two digits is one too many.

[@S7EVE_P]

You all need to grow up. I wasn't being serious. It doesn't matter how many people you've slept with if you enjoyed every minute of it. Life is too short.

[@PalashaGabarra]

S J Powell It matters because it helps to gauge how good of a partner you're capable of being to someone else in the long run. Because "life is too short." Exactly.

[@S7EVE_P]

Lion Heart Everything matters given a certain context, people cheat for many reasons, one reason being their partner having a bigoted self righteous attitude. That's a big turn off.

[@PalashaGabarra]

S J Powell Are you implying having standards is being a bigot? If so, explain why. Is a woman a bigot if she has standards, or does that only apply to men? Explain. This might come as a shock to you, but most women are probably subconsciously turned on by someone that isn't a complete pacifistic pushover like you that would accept anyone with open arms. lol

[@PatrickBurford1]

I agree with Hannah's comment about the attitude the person has towards sex, to me that is way more important then the number itself.

[@flowersonthewall9262]

It is genuinely amazing the sheer amount of people who commented on this and failed to see and understand the exact point of your topic of discussion. The title of your video is not "click-baity" nor is it misleading. It states the topic at hand that you had chose to discuss. But as the topic is a questioning statement, people Assumed that you were going to tell them your number. Even though your opening statement made it clear that it should never be a big deal if someone decides to not disclose their number. The next amazing thing is all the people guessing your number, saying it has to be high and that since it is high, your worth as a human being has been erased. I just felt the need to get that off my chest. I don't quite know how you ended up in my recommended feed, but after 2 or 3 videos of yours, I have subscribed, as you have a pleasant tone and pattern of speech and seem to have a genuine love and interest for knowledge. I look forward to watching more of your content.

[@woodrowmcray7295]

If your with someone shouldn't matter how many he or she has slept with that is the past just as long as both are faithful

[@modestieispurete]

In general, my asexual identity brings all sorts of expectations about my experiences and sexual history...like, I'm asexual, so *clearly* my number is 0, and that's why I identify the way I do, because I don't know any better, and I should "just try it," or whatever people say to try to invalidate my identity. On the flip side, when I came out to my parents, my father was incredibly relieved to assume that I would therefore be celibate for the rest of my life. So on the topic of assumed sexual partners, aces are either not supposed to have sex at all, or are deluding themselves into thinking they're ace because they're assumed to be inexperienced (regardless of that person's actual number). Thankfully, when it comes to people who actually matter (my romantic/sexual partners, obviously), my current girlfriends have been quite wonderful regarding it all, which has been lovely.

[@synchronium24]

"I'm asexual, so clearly my number is 0" Some asexual people have had sex or are having sex. More broadly, lack of sexual attraction does not preclude one from having sex. That said, I would imagine 0 sexual partners is common for asexuals.

[@modestieispurete]

The "clearly" is supposed to be sarcasm, but yes, you are also correct :P

[@synchronium24]

ladycovington15 Touche. My bad.

[@levitys123]

You can say that someone's "number" doesn't change your perception of them all you want, but you're lying to yourself.

[@JoelDaMan112]

true!

[@bitterbutter1000]

I lost count of her self-contradictions midway.

[@horrorjunkie92]

She cared about her ex having more but then later "dodged a bullet" because a later boyfriend felt the same insecurity. What an absolute lack of empathy.

[@jackcooper3307]

Totally agree and completely believe you'd be justified in changing a perception

[@CaptainJellyBS]

horrorjunkie92 I think you understood wrong (this is my take on it). I don't think she insecurity, I think she meant that he literally didn't like her because of her sexual history, and (to me) it doesn't seem like Hannah is someone who is compatible with people who are uncomfortable or judgmental when it comes to speaking about and handling things like that. I know this comment is a bit of a ramble that doesn't make too much sense, but I think your perspective is wrong.

[@markrichardson66]

She's jaded. In another video she says that unless a guy is perfect she wouldn't bother being with him. Which points to a decline in her ability to pair bond.

[@sarahjames5985]

I love this! You obsess about it all as a single and then you get married/into a long term relationship and you actually forget what your number ever was it's so irrelevant. Sad, but true.

[@StarcallerCeri]

I need a method to get over someone else's "number"... I'm so severely insecure that no matter how unfair and irrational and wrong I'm constantly told it is to be bothered by such things, it DOES bother me and it has effected things and it fucking sucks to be on that side of it because it's miserable AND you know that the other person doesn't want to deal with your "irrational" shit. It never mattered until I was with someone who had way more than me and because I WAS less comfortable with things the whole "I'm convinced I'm not good enough" thing came up and the worry that my partner would compare me or still think or/wish for a previous encounter basically makes my whole brain panic. I don't know if I'm supposed to suppress the way that I feel in future relationships because its "wrong" to judge someone that way and its my own fault for not being confident, or if I should stand up for myself and accept the way I feel and just wait for the person who fits a criteria that I'm actually comfortable with instead of pretending that it doesn't eat away at me.

[@jacquelineavery]

+The Ladydork I can relate to you somewhat, and I'm sorry that you felt this way in a relationship. It seriously sucks when your more experienced partner makes you feel less than. Personally, I think you would be best to work on recognising your own value and that being less experienced doesn't make you not good enough. I think you could miss out on amazing relationships if sexual history is such a factor. That said, if you can't be in relationships with people who have more sexual experience than you without it bringing up painful feelings, then I guess you shouldn't be. It's so important that you always feel totally comfortable in a relationship and sexually.

[@Logicalx]

Do yourself a favour and don't ask! When going in to a new relationship don't talk about past intimate experiences. There is absolutely no need to ask someone this question, and the reason I say this is because I share (somewhat) similar feelings. I've now learned not to ask, but get to know the person from the point that the relationship/dating starts. You'll save yourself so much heartache, questions, feelings etc etc. If you think about it it's quite a simple and obvious thing to do. I wish you all the best!

[@MesRevesEnRose]

When you're with the right partner, it won't matter bc the right partner would make you feel secure and comfortable and be understanding no matter what. So its not your fault.

[@liebekaese]

+Logicalx i totally agree with you! i didn't ask one thing about my partner's sexual history or past partners and in that case, ignorance is simply bliss, because it really doesn't matter. also I tell don't him anything about my exes as long as he doesn't ask :D i mean i'm not naive, but some things you don't have to know and they will only lead to jealousy and certain images in your head

[@Logicalx]

liebekaese Precisely. =0)

[@jenniferchristian8115]

I love this video 💜 it's made me feel better that I'm single and never been in a romantic relationship. I know I'm still young (nearly seventeen) but yeh the teenagers feels sometimes mess with your mind and stuff so 💜

[@admiralcooper]

This channel is going to blow up, in a good way

[@photofanatiker]

Just discovered your channel, you're cool :) Really like your content!

[@heavyhandedvlogs]

All points are fantastic, here. It can be super upsetting when you're judged by le number magique.

[@Matt.a44]

Yes, I lost my phone - what's your number 😂

[@thatkatieproject]

Loving the sex positivity of this video! The number doesn't matter, the attitude does. Like you said, sex should be fun and consensual! It's when people are misleading about their intentions when it comes to sex, that upsets me.

[@LadyofLetters]

Lovely, adorable video! xoxo

[@sonnytots]

As a lesbian, I've experienced that a fair number of lesbian women prefer not to be with virgins, which has never affected me because I lost my virginity at a very young age, but I do have a friend who's never had sex and she's genuinely scared to tell the women she's interested in that she's a virgin because of the mindset of our local lesbian community.

[@lauramendoza3761]

+Digvi Shah For me, every time I've been with a virgin girl (whether she has been or not with men before) the first couple times it's kind of weird... i feel awkward being her first and the fact that usually they don't really know what to do or how to behave adds to it. It's like there's a lot of things going on and it adds tension to the moment. Still, if I really like her I will just go on with it and kind of have patience or something... after all we've all been virgins at some point!

[@lauramendoza3761]

+Laura Mendoza and of course, I would want to know that it's her first time, I wouldn't want her to feel scared to tell me or anything. Communication is always very important. We must be able to talk about this things and feel comfortable about it

[@RachelTriesMakeup]

yes I lost my phone-what's your number?

[@milliemojo5260]

I now love hannah even more that I've seen the Blondie album cover in the background 😍😍

[@kyky99]

love this vidoe!

[@TheWingsOfAngles]

I get more judgements on that I identify as polyamorous, even though my number isn't high everyone expects it to be because of this. Meaning that I regually get judged on the number people think I will have because of my preference not my actual number.

[@TheWingsOfAngles]

Yeah I dont understand it, I mean unless we are going to possibly see each other it isn't going to affect you anyway, and a label doesn't coincide with how many people I choose to sleep with not that that it is relevant to how nice a person I am anyway.

[@TheWingsOfAngles]

YoshiPeach Mario no I do not sleep around and I am honest with everyone I'm with anyone I am with is aware of my preferences and we have discussions about it. I am currently in a relationship of 2and a half years I have never slept with anyone in that time other than this person as they wish for us to be monogamous and that's fine but if I decided I didn't want to do this anymore we'd have a conversation about it. Honesty is important

[@TheWingsOfAngles]

YoshiPeach Mario yes ? And I have control too if I want I can make a choice to be monogamous

[@TheWingsOfAngles]

YoshiPeach Mario no i can still be poly and not act on it. In the pst i have had ployamorous relationships where i have been seeing more than one person at a time. At this moment in my life it isnt what i want and wouldnt fit in with my current situation or enviroment (not to mention i dont have anyone that i am actracted to who would engage in a poly relationship with me) my MONOGOMOUS girlfriend is ok with this she does not want to see anyone else other than me bu8t after a long explaination and converstions is understanding and wopuld allow me to have another relationship (this is being poly)

[@oguzakkaya4720]

lmao your not polyblabla, you just cant get stick to one person at a time. stop making up new horseshit.

[@JackHawkin5]

I met one girl who pretty visibly turned off me as soon as I answered her question about how many girls I'd slept with. It shouldn't really be a question you need to ask, should it?

[@PolymorphicPenguin]

+Jack Hawkins I'm going to respectfully disagree with Hannah and say that I think people have a right to set their own criteria for who they are willing to have sex with, no matter how bizarre, illogical, or hypocritical those criteria might be. If someone resolved to only have sex with people who had previously slept with a perfect square number of partners (i.e. 0, 1, 4, 9, 16, 25, etc.), I think that would be really weird but nevertheless I don't think it would be immoral to do so. That being said, if someone is uncomfortable answering such a personal question as how many sexual partners they've had, that person shouldn't be pressured to answer it. Moreover, it is never okay to be disrespectful. Neither slut-shaming nor prude-shaming is acceptable. We need to own up to our own sexual preferences and realize that there isn't anything wrong with someone just because that person doesn't fit our profile for our ideal sexual partner.

[@ladyworpledinker]

+PolymorphicPenguin I think that sounds fair enough, though I don't feel she meant that some personal criteria is "wrong," just that you shouldn't be an arse about someone else's number and judge them harshly for it. And if sex is declined by another person because of your number, then you two obviously shouldn't be having sex because of those preferences. That's all.

[@StoutProper]

Jack Hawkins it wasn't enough ha ha not experienced enough

[@lazyperfectionist1]

"Why am I dancing?" Hey. Why not?

[@SarahNolesMusic]

hannnahhh! this was a great video! it didn't need the clickbaity title though imo, i would've clicked on it either way! makes me a teensy bit uncomfortable that it was so obviously a clickbait title. anyways, again, super interesting video!

[@FA9082]

"Sloots gonna sloot" - Confucius

[@user-zh3jh9gt9q]

sooooo I've slept with -3 people ? Great ! That's uh... sure ! I'm not crying. YOU'RE CRYING !

[@b33tta]

hi Hanna! i completely agree about everything, the only thing about the double standards for my experience it's not completely true concerning girls... what I mean is that it's not just that a girl must have had a small number of sexual partners and then she will be fine for society, she also can't have had too few otherwise she will be considered a prude or a loser... I feel like you can't win! I have had a small number, I've only slept with 4 people and now I'm in a serious relationship, because of that you can't imagine how many people told me that I didn't have enough sexual experience to commit!

[@b33tta]

great video by the way!

[@TeamBombersportsUK]

Has the Blondie vinyl been there the whole time and I've only just noticed it? Either way, awesome. :) Also, one thing I get sometimes when talking about numbers - some people feel ashamed of having a high number of previous sexual partners, not because it's a high number, but because they feel like they've given themselves away too easily, like, they don't like the fact that some of those people didn't deserve them or made them feel ashamed. So sometimes it's not the number, but what the experiences were like and who with. It's an interesting topic and I don't really get the stigma around it, and the double standard is SO frustrating!

[@Stella-vv6no]

I was thinking about Barney Stinson the whole time.

[@alanlayton3662]

Am I the only one who started this video relatively sure I wouldn't know Hannah's number at the end of it? The angry, and insulting comments I have seen about her not saying it seem like reason enough to not say it.

[@milliemojo5260]

I now love hannah even more that I've seen the Blondie album cover in the background :D

[@GraemeMarkNI]

One. My wife :) People are strangely surprised by this. I have a mate who's a bit of a player and he was like "whaaat?! I put 12 notches on the bedpost this year alone!" and I was like "yeah, but that means you only had sex 12 times this year." :D Burrrnnn

[@rainblaze.]

GraemeMarkNI yeah and do you think he changes the sheets?....... eeeeeewwwwww!!!!!!!

[@IvefoundthetruthonMay]

Respect for dedicating yourself to one girl.

[@KreeZafi]

People in committed relationships have more sex than singles so eyyyy ;)

[@marthahawkinson-michau9611]

Me too! I've only ever been with one person, my husband. I was always super picky when I was dating, and I wasn't interested in "playing the field" for the fun of it. But then to me the choice to share the most intimate parts of myself with someone else tends to carry a spiritual dimension, and it's not a decision that I think should be made lightly, especially not the first time choosing to sleep with a person.

[@KiKianaKi]

Being part of the asexual community and also having an active sex life confuses people. People think that asexuals don't like sex or we just don't have sex. So when I tell people I'm asexual who also know that I have sex with my partner don't really get it. They think I'm either lying about being ace or lying about having sex, when in all reality you can be asexual and have tons of sex or no sex at all. People just don't understand what asexual really means.

[@ladyworpledinker]

+KiKianaKi I'm not asexual myself, but I have thought about how annoying situations like that must be for those who are! I'm thankful that I'm able to think outside my own box and at least be able to grasp qualities of others that are not my own! Just keep putting the information out there and hopefully, eventually it will be more widely understood.

[@MarinaVieiraSouza]

I was one of those people and when I learnt more about the spectrum I was SO DAMN RELIEVED cause for the first time I felt like I found an identity that fit me. I'm still discovering things so I keep identifying as bisexual but talking with ace people about the difference between sensual and sexual attraction and demisexuality has made a lot of sense to me

[@KiKianaKi]

I actually identify as demisexual (i say asexual because a lot of people don't know what demisexual is and sometimes it's just really awkward and too personal to explain the specific way I feel sexual attraction, it's incredibly person for me) and for the longest time I had issues determining the difference between sexual attraction and aesthetic attraction, and it gets super confusing when bi is thrown in there too. Because you're sitting there and you're like "ok, I feel exactly the same about men and women, but I don't know what I feel towards them." or when you have this friend and then all of a sudden you have a really emotional talk with them or you get a deeper connection and all of a sudden you're sexually attracted to them and it gets awkward. I know how you feel. It's tough and really confusing. But realizing who I am was a very liberating experience, even though it's still hard to discuss sometimes.

[@MarinaVieiraSouza]

+KiKianaKi thank you for sharing! these kind of stories help me understand and accept myself more. I don't know exactly how my sexuality works cause I do feel attracted to people at first sight, but from there to wanting to have sex with them almost never happens. I've also grown deep feelings for someone, enjoyed making out with them, but the sex was just not appealing. and when it happened it just wasn't good. even tho it was 100% consensual I felt like I was pushing myself because 'maybe I feel like I don't want it because I never had it'. it is all very confusing

[@synchronium24]

I was under the impression that a fair number of asexuals do not merely lack sexual attraction, but are sex repulsed. Correct me if i'm wrong.

[@Just_Some_Guy_with_a_Mustache]

Thank god I never have to hesitate with my answer. *sheds tear*

[@goldpilgrim]

But what is your number? You didn't tell us because you're afraid to tell the truth.

[@im9isabe]

Talking LGBTQIA+.. I know bi/pan people are often invalidated in their identity if their 'number' is mainly one gender, or if they havent had sex with a certain gender at all. (hint: its sexual attraction that matters, not sexual history!) Anyhoo thanks for another great video!! Loooooved your eyeliner today :)

[@Farcallo]

I've slept with no one and I'm 24 lol. I don't care much about it. I'm happy with my life.

[@CatrionaThePoet]

I grew up with strict Christian teaching and got abstinence only sex education (sigh), and that added even more insecurity. I had sex with one person before my latest ex, and my latest ex told me his number was somewhere between 20 and 30. I was 19 and he was 22. I was really shocked, because I thought anything above like...4 was a lot of people to have had sex with when you're as young as 22, I learned that it wasn't an issue, as long as he had been tested and whatnot, but the worst thing was about HOW he had talked about the women in his past, like 'oh I met up with some girl who lived around here, just wanted to get some'. That's what made it not okay!

[@shariarrahman9385]

+Catriona Grange yeah........but the point is what's the logic behind carrying your belief or perception of yours, most importantly how long your mindset can carry it you think?..........

[@maj.peppers3332]

1:30 but what if my number is 2...? Also, you did miss something. You didn't answer the topic question of your vid, which only makes me MORE curious

[@AntonFetzer]

1:30 I'm -3 ?

[@eHeroine]

Eyeliner on point! (100% agree with your message!)

[@megdempsey4588]

why is her eyeliner so good ??!!

[@corrieisme]

I was expecting you to say your number, Hannah ;)

[@UKGaru]

+corrieisme innit?

[@phormidable]

+corrieisme clickbait (the answer may surprise you!) No but Hannah, great video after all.^^

[@corrieisme]

+Lili J I'm just really nosy and like to know stuff about people! It would take a lot to surprise me I think x

[@arielc.9081]

it actually does change thing

[@Phoenix1664]

Does it?

[@markonlife]

I don't think I've ever asked someone I've been with the number question. I couldn't care less, makes no difference to our experience together.

[@Tazziii]

I once asked a guy that I liked (who I also had been really good friends with for a while) and I expected him to say a big number and it was like dramatically lower then I thought! That totally changed my perception on a whole load of guy things.

[@fewhfeuiwhfweuibffebwuifbw8444]

Click bait rubbish

[@thewewguy8t88]

i know right!

[@gumdeo]

1. Make a video about your number. 2. Don't say your number. 3. Profit.

[@kenouryios]

Exactly gumdeo

[@kenouryios]

Everything is ok now that’s why our society is going to hell fast . There is nothing wrong , no one is doing anything wrong . Can anyone say end times ?

[@brianalexclark4419]

shouldn't the question have been answered in the video?

[@thewewguy8t88]

i was just thinking that.

[@Ivellios23]

Nah, it's just to shame you for wondering or caring.

[@StoutProper]

Brian Alex Clark I'm gonna guess at around 50. Probably on the conservative side but I don't want to appear insulting

[@StoutProper]

C B well she lost her Manchester/Cheshire accent so I'm guessing thats the case. I'm not sure posh universities have less sex than less posh ones though. I was just guessing at 50, maybe it's a lot more than that. mind you I'm only talking about heterosexual sex, I don't really count lesbian since its not penetrative

[@davedangerous]

Sex is sex hetero bi homo or anything other. Penetration with an object or other part of the body can occur with gay sex i.e. hand. All are a learned experiences as opposed to inborn. The need for sex exists if your posh or not. I would imagine if well off posh people would have the money to buy a pro more often.

[@EllieIsabelle]

on my acting course we used sexism as a stimulus to create scenes and it was amazing how well rounded everyone was in regards to sexism in every gender and the pressure everyone gets to either say they got with someone or if they did, how they should lie about it to avoid being called a slut.

[@simonjrgensen6761]

+Elle Sayer You're going to be an actress?

[@VirginiaRThomas]

I think it is also important to discuss what "sex" or "sleeping with someone" means. Make sure everyone is on the same page with the context behind the number. It can get really complicated if you're bi/pan or poly! I abandoned asking and telling of "numbers" a while ago for that reason. It is more important to know the last time they got tested and the result than "their number".

[@thewewguy8t88]

i agree sex is complicated. but you know what buggs me the fact that so many people still do it. i personally know i would have regreted it but only because it would have been with people i would have regreted it with. i am happy i am still a virgin but only because my options were/are people i would have regeteted it with and or hookers. and i am 28 like people say it will happen when its the right time for you. well truth is its easy for you to say unless you yourself are a virgin.

[@PalashaGabarra]

People who label themselves pan or poly are jokes.

[@StoutProper]

Virginia Thomas on your types of relationships, yes. If however you are monoganous in your relationships the chances of an std are drastically reduced

[@Yohahn]

haha subtract 3 from mine.. well can you go minus?

[@josephholman2401]

click bait

[@janellehough6003]

When you said Tough Mudder, and I thought you said tough murder, and I was veeeeeery confused 😂

[@davidlance5310]

I hate feeling like I just want to have multiple sexual partners before actually finding someone and I hate now seeing sex/loosing my virginty as an only capable means of moving on from someone I never had a chance with in the first place when I retract every other option. and I really hate that dating, casual sex with different partners and binge watching tv shows, films and games and listening to nearly every song ever are the only things I want do on my bucket list before the world ends this or next year

[@lordzeus2652]

Gawd, is this what it has come to?

[@louishindle6620]

A large portion of this comments section genuinely upsets me so much

[@DrugTalkTV]

I don't judge number of partners as a big deal. As long as you're clean and choosing to be with me, then it's all good. I don't expect others to not enjoy sex before I meet them, and I don't want someone that doesn't enjoy sex! So there you go.

[@dwebber46]

Love the Blondie-Parallel Lines album cover in the background 👍

[@isabell255]

I slept with one person and its my current boyfriend because i think that sex is something special and that you should have it with the person that you want(or will) marry

[@shariarrahman9385]

+Sandy If you believe it's special than it's make your life also special.very cute. but always be prepared to if something bad happens. Because the more emotion you put into anything in life the higher the risk of getting hurt and of course equally get feel bliss if positive happens......things goes smooth. I hope and pray always positive happens to you...............

[@isabell255]

Shariar rahman Thank you

[@isabell255]

Shariar rahman Yeah i guess so too

[@shariarrahman9385]

+Sandy my pleasure..........

[@louisemariec3608]

Don't patronize her- she's doing the right thing

[@supperEisMan]

I dated a guy who after we broke up said my sexual history was a problem for him. Dogdge a bullet there.... My first boyfriend was older than me and I felt insecure about the fact that he slept with more people. Complaining about double standarts seconds later facepalm goes right through my skull

[@RetryAgainAgain]

As soon as I clicked on the video I congratulated Hannah for getting me to watch a clickbait video knowing that I wouldn't get the answer to the question posed.

[@supremeclientele83]

A key that's able to open many locks is a master key. A lock that gets opened by many keys is a trash lock.

[@StoutProper]

wait, did I miss something? I didn't hear your number? Also, is it bad if you've lost count?

[@globaldreaming1232]

sinnedciti it's kind of bad😞

[@JoelDaMan112]

Hundreds of people,....then women complain,that no1 wants them anymore,or just for pump and dump reasons. Guys talk you know,when they hear that this woman is down for shit..... I only feel sorry for that decent guy who ends up with that woman. She will break his heart,so he goes to MGTOW. Women will start crying,that all the good men are gone.....and become stupid feminist. So yeah,this world is fucked!

[@StoutProper]

Global Dreaming I never started counting because I didn't realise how many it might get to and also because I didn't think it really mattered. I always wanted to find a girl and settle down, and I did with a few, just not permanently unfortunately, and in between...I dunno, it wasn't like I was trying, things just sort of happened. I can count on one hand the number of one night stands I've had tho, most of the time when I've slept with someone its been on multiple occasions. Lately I keep getting told that I'm really good in bed just not boyfriend material...and I keep ending up with girls in relationships too. I basically get used and abused, its ok for a bit but after a while you just start to feel cheap and insecure. Quite depressing really tbh

[@cactusitude]

Giacomo Casanova You sound like an unattractive virgin.

[@JoelDaMan112]

cactusitude Stop projecting your own shit to others,no1 cares,just sayin'....

[@MrFakeMaker101]

1, my gf and I have only had each other and I love that

[@kingbrutusxxvi]

I read a study in a medical journal (I work in the healthcare industry) years back that asked several thousand people various health questions, including this one. The report concluded that, on average, men doubled their number while women divided theirs by three. So, using their analysis for this example, if a man and woman each say they've had 10 partners then the man has actually had 5 while the woman has had 30. Keep in mind that men tend to be shamed if they don't have many partners and woman are often shamed if they do. Also, this study was in the early 2000s.

[@Natalany]

In my opinion, the only thing that really matters is not the quantity of sexual partners you had, but the quality of sex. Your number can be high but still it can be bad sexual experiences, so having a high number doesn't make you sex guru, especially when it comes to man adding in their "list" extra partners who doesn't even exist. On the other side person can have one sexual partner, but both of them are constantly working on improving their sexual life, so the quality of sex is good.

[@jenniferbartlett1603]

Yes! Loved this video! The double standard!

[@Dreamdancer11]

There is no double standard in this case...different genders value different things....take a virgin guy for example.. you wont see girls lining up to hook up with him if they know he is a virgin cause girls like experience and confidence in a guy.On the other hand guys value virginity.Thats why you are wearing a white dress in your wedding.....you are "supposed" to be pure..

[@PalashaGabarra]

It exists for a reason and only sluts are bothered by it. Sometimes male virgins are too, but mainly sluts.

[@sayyestosporks]

To some people it does matter, it does to me. But like you said, to me it's about the attitude toward sex more than the number. I've always treated sex as something reserved for someone I love and for someone that, should consequences like a baby arise, I can trust to not just abandon me and make me do it all on my own. For my personal relationships I prefer to be with someone who has the same idea about sex. The number itself doesn't really matter but a number can be indicative of the attitude they have. I get all your points and think they are valid to some people, but if I choose to say nope I won't date you because you've slept with 56 women, I have every right to do so. They don't have to agree with my decision but it's my body and I have the right to treat it like a temple. I have the right to choose who touches it and who doesn't and I choose the criteria of how I make that decision.

[@daleclary4964]

Well i was wondering how you would pull a topic like that off as normal smart healthy witty and very positive great job love your vidios you keep it real with a good point of view thanks

[@Jemike5]

I judge my own number more than anyone else. I grew up Catholic and in a conservative family. Doing anything sexual was frowned upon. This now weighs heavily on sexual encounters causing guilt for not waiting until married.

[@CultivateAwareness]

Let's be honest, you didn't share the number because you've lost count.

[@FlezzDurjis]

I don't even keep track, and really how could you? There's so much gray area there. Is it just intercourse that counts? Oral? Fingers? Other holes and phallus'? What about cyber sex? What about thinking about sex or dreaming it? Some of my favorite encounters ever were only in my head. I think what people are really concerned about is whether or not they can trust their partner. Determining that is far more complex than "what's your number?"

[@Lisa-tv7me]

very good point!

[@synchronium24]

"What about thinking about sex or dreaming it?" That decidedly does not count as sex. There's no other person involved, whether or not you masturbate. The other examples you bring up are more of a gray area.

[@FlezzDurjis]

Well what would happen if you told your boyfriend/girlfriend you had a sex dream with someone you knew? I'm guess there would be some jealousy there if trust is an issue in your relationship.

[@synchronium24]

FlezzDurjis I'm sure there would be jealousy. But humans are insecure about all kinds of stuff that isn't sex. That sex-related dreams are about sex doesn't mean that they actually are sex.

[@FlezzDurjis]

Well I just assumed we were just talking about jealousy