How Marrying A Filipina Changed Me For The Better

[@jaypapa4899]

The reason you do your video is to share your life. And the transformations, happiness, the rigors, and the challenges you share is what makes the videos more so important everybody. If not for that, there is no point watching. But the moral lessons, the viewers get for their lives as well that really matters. Keep it going, because you are teaching millions of viewers and hopefully you are changing them to be better as well. Thank you and blessed your family always

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you for this comment. Doing this type of video is honestly, not easy for me. These types of comments really inspire me to do more. Again, thank you!

[@TS-hi4wf]

Yes. This video hit me as well. It helps me/us do some introspection of ourselves as well and to be cognizant of our privileged life. Thank you for your video. I’m in the PH now, and I’m grateful.

[@gabrielbold1012]

@@TS-hi4wf Been twice...Still trying to deal with the heat and humidity😑...Having hard time to keep stable with this1😕...Love all that try to live beyond the walls...

[@HorizonMelt]

@@ItsMe_Philippines Thank you for sharing. I never forget those humbling lessons cuz they sometimes sting. But when I get past the initial reaction, I'm grateful that the person who showed me the way was there. And honestly, some of these real tough videos to shoot are the best ones. The best for you and the best for me / us.

[@marylenevillaflores7025]

Thank you so much for vlog .the realization is really wonderful

[@rahulmaron]

When I was in the Philippines, I used to be grateful for everything and contented in life. Now here abroad, with all of the comfort around you, I easily lost patience and complaining on non-important things. Thank you for sharing, I just realized what I have lost and you helped me find it

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thanks for sharing your experience and happy to have helped!

[@geraldynson753]

I understand how you feel. I immigrated to Australia 40 years ago and I can't wait to retire back in the Philippines

[@petermorgan4720]

I have a Filipina girlfriend. When I saw the title, I guessed exactly what you were going to say. The patience, acceptance of life, humility, femininity, gentleness (& physical beauty)... Took a lot to share that video but really appreciate it, man, and good luck in all you do out there.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you

[@07Kimo07]

I’ve lived here in the USA for 40 years and was really having a hard time deciding on whether to retire here or back to my home country, the Philippines. Your testimony just strengthens my desire to spend the rest of my life there where God, Family, Friends, and Neighbors matters most instead of material things. Thank you.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

When we look back in life we remember and think about those great memories. We don’t look back wishing we bought more junk

[@JojieCerteza]

I left Philippines at 10 and didn't think I'd go back to live there. But in today's economy, I"m looking at retiring in Philippines.

[@07Kimo07]

@@JojieCerteza Same here! I will be able to help more people there giving more meaning to what really life is all about.

[@TG-gk6fv]

Oh yeah can't wait to move to Philippines from USA with my Siblings and be able to be with my eldest brother in Philippines.

[@ninja.saywhat]

i had the same mindset when i arrived here in cali a decade ago. changed my mind around 3 years ago and have been planning for it ever since even though i'm still in my 30s.

[@bigkahuna225]

I just came back to Canada after my fourth visit to my fiancé this year in bacolod. I can be moody and if things don't move fast enough I get grumpy, watching my fiance and how cool she handles everything and puts up with my tantrums. Its taken her 4 years but emotionally I am not so much a spoiled westerner anymore hahaha when I want to be moody I just look at her and calm myself and act a little more adult. She is the best thing that has ever happened to me😁

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Great to hear more stories like mine. We are very lucky my friend.

[@bigkahuna225]

Yes we are😁

[@lourdes86179]

Yeah I knew the feelings, my hubby like you lack of patience especially he caught traffic here in the US I told him be patience remember the Manila traffic and in Post Office line with 5 or 6 people. I told him Philippines post office has a long lines.

[@99awindy]

Yes, it is true. Even though my wife and I are still U.S. based, we are fortunate enough to be able to visit the Philippines several times per year. Over the past 18 years, I've come to not only appreciate but cherish the time over there, in the province, where the simple act of going grocery shopping definitely (always!) takes longer than it would in the U.S.. Here is progress: I no longer shake my head and become impatient at the grocery store (not palengke) when it takes forever to accomplish using a credit card (two copies, all sorts of procedures, etc.) to pay for everything. And I now marvel at the traffic and how, for the most part, frustrating as it is, everything works. Everyone gets where they are going (there are no rules, it is quite disorganized, and giving anyone an inch and have them taking a mile, traffic flow-wise is a mistake), it is still quite amazing that in a country with that many motorcycles and cars, they all seem to figure it out.

[@steverunswithscissors]

Tampo 🤣

[@ericcervero6134]

Thanks for your honesty, I'm Filipino living in the states, family and happiness are our priorities, but living in the states we get bombarded with material things, that is why I go to the Philippines get that family value back and it humble me, great content.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you for that comment and being humble here is important

[@kathiemathias212]

Definitely visiting the Philippines does bring you down a notch and to reality and find that material things will never ever make you happy. Most people will get lost amidst these commercialism but a genuinely good person will realise the importance of humanity. Cheers, happy the Philippines remains a positive influence in all cultures.

[@davidlaws1438]

We've all been there brother, we as Americans are spoiled to some extent, I use to have a major anger problem, then I spent 24 hours in jail and then I woke up, I learned to control myself and to understand the things I can't change. I now have my priorities straight... thank God he woke me up 🙏

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Great to hear that brother lucky as you do. I’ve been in trouble for my anger as well. But now it’s hard for me to even remember the last time I got angry. Because it’s never worth it.

[@davidlaws1438]

@@ItsMe_Philippines Exactly 💯right.. it's Never worth it..

[@marylenevillaflores7025]

You are so lucky indeed

[@ericrollings]

It’s good to see other western men admit their past anger issues. I had the same problem years ago. It’s quite childish. I’m happy for you all for realigning your priorities. I’m on a similar path. I’ll be back in the Philippines in 8 days. I’m excited.

[@Brandanmayhew]

Yeh righto

[@michelleg.4587]

Also as a midwesterner, we do gripe so often that it was a norm, but the Philippines humbles us to another level of gratitude. God bless your family.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Well said, thank you

[@mdhussamalkhatib]

well said. I like to add something from my experience, I have been married to Filipina for 35 years and everyday is a happy day for me, and I wouldn't like to change a single day.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Love to see these kinds of comments

[@tonymckay6556]

great! i hope you already practice their habit of taking a bath everyday. they dislike body odor.

[@michaelsalomon3752]

Great! I’m happy for you man. Keep it up.

[@dextersahagun5814]

lets get to golden anniversary...

[@elvisparisella5301]

I'm really proud of you for being so patient and understanding and helping me understand Philippino people better

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you for the comment and thank you for watching. I still learn and adapt every day but I smile because of it.

[@OnlyKindnessMatterAfterAll1]

It's spelled Filipino. Even better and more correct spelling is Pilipino. But definitely not Philippino. Lol. I made the same mistake. My son corrected me.

[@3xoticx]

I’m a female in Canada and your channel and story has changed me. I love watching your wife smiling at the simplest things I take for granted every day. Absolutely beautiful. Wish you many blessings.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you! 🙏🌴🇵🇭

[@dongertan3320]

Well you can visit the philippines.

[@misalala7145]

As a filipina, I was taught by my parents, teachers and oldies to not always complain. To always put yourself on others shoes and that you are responsible on what you feel.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Good parents!

[@WojciechowskaAnna]

maybe that's why so many women in your country are subjects to domestic abuse and can tolerate bad treatment sadly. Lots of enables have this kind of attitude. There is a difference between complain because of being spoilt and the difference between enabling all kinds of abuse by keeping eyes closed.

[@Brandanmayhew]

One thing I've learnt about the philipinnes is the narcissism is out of this world. It's that bad that it's literally ingrained into the culture. So saying something like "ohh it's your own fault if you don't feel good" is just total rubbish and narcissistic. Some of the philipinos really need to grow up. That whole tampo thing is just petty and silly too

[@Brandanmayhew]

Your parents came from an era of trauma. That Is all trauma based advice and narcissistic. Actually think about it. Yeah complaining isn't good and I'm not saying it is, but how you said what you did really shows the colours of how your culture thinks and acts. Very black and white

[@Brandanmayhew]

"You are responsible on what you feel" dumbest advice I've ever heard

[@joeyramirez556]

its good to hear from a foreigner like you who fully understand our situation that despite of the shortcomings we've been going through ,we still find a way to deal with it.

[@Cons2911]

If you’re only going to pickup 2 things from the Filipinos.. one is be patient..and 2nd be happy even with the simplest things and even with the problems that you have..still have time to smile

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Two great points!

[@JojieCerteza]

yeah true, i've always been taught, cherish what you have, whilst trying to do better.

[@susanwhitney8681]

bingo bro😂🤣

[@markpurcell1488]

So true. Thanks. Praise God..😇🙏😊

[@CyclingMartialartswithMusic]

Thats is what my parents told me growing up. Now in dark times I realize those lessons are precious.

[@Kanointhejungle]

Don't know what inspired you to share this story but thanks.. It is all about being grateful for what we have. We come from an existence where more is better.. the one with the most toys wins. The Philippines has a way of making us grateful for the little things in life.. I know I've also become very humble compared with who I use to be.. On video chats with my sister she's commenting "Wow, you changed".. We must change and adapt or we will never make it here.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

I believe that as the Philippines changes most people for the better. If we embrace it and allow it to.

[@jorgemercado3941]

God bless you!

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

@GOcsalon Ocsalon Philippines is an amazing country! Thank you for watching

[@concepcionlarios7083]

you are a man with a good heart. You know how to adapt because your wife and you yourself that realize that complaining will get you nowhere. Acceptance is the key in order to cope with a certain environment. You were humble enough to accept your mistake. I admire your reaction and your wife's way of handling your petty complaints. You both stay happy and always keep the love you have for each other. PRAY.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you my friend I really appreciate positive comments

[@whatsnext-007]

Great personal story....because it was realistic. I have picked up on this through other vloggers as well. Westerners tend to complain about things in the Philippines instead of absorbing the culture. It's obvious you have absorbed your surroundings and it's good to hear. It takes good character to self analyze and change your way of thinking. Enjoy your channel...a good vlog on reality check.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you for that comment!

[@ericbown1551]

Every now and then ya have these moments and it certainly helps having a partner that’s grounded. It keeps ya humble and honest, we are blessed to have our Filipina. 😊

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Yes we truly are!

[@Galloway737]

Thanks for sharing... I am the same way and need to stop myself and see the bigger picture what is important in life. It is how we have been programmed growing up in the USA. My asawa helps me as well to appreciate the little things that at the end of the day are really the only things that matter.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Exactly! Thank you for watching

[@kingsbrace3736]

That's a great story. I had a similar experience once, not only in that I am with a Philippina and we have a home and are growing a business in the Philippines. I remember when I was living and working in another country - an affluent nation with a sizeable population of migrant workers. I was at a pizza place and a big, fat, obnoxious American came storming in the door with two pizzas in his hand. He went right up to the counter, slammed the pizzas down, opened one of them up, and starting berating the cashier and the cook behind him because they had committed the appalling crime of failing to provide him with double cheese on both pizzas. He only had single cheese. The poor guys working there - neither of whom could afford even one of those pizzas for a meal - started to apologize profusely for the outrageous act. But that wasn't good enough. The fat man was not about to accept any kind of apology for the infraction. He ended the display by reminding them that 'in the civilized world, people are entitled to precisely what they ordered.' This is a basic element of 'civilization' he admonished them. He then walked out, but not before reminding his tormenters of the lesson he had just imparted, and that it was going to be him, the fat ass, who would have to pay the price for their incompetence by being forced to eat two sausage, pepperoni, and ground beef pizzas with only a single layer of cheese. What a pig. What an absolute pig. I felt so embarrassed. So, I get it brother. There is a lot inside of Westerners (and us Americans in particular) that is quite unpleasant. We tend to see only what annoys us and all too often NONE of the blessings in life, many, if not most of which, we never deserved in the first place. On a hot day, how much of a treat is it to walk around with a cup of ice that you can munch on? That's a pleasure most people never think about.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

We’ll said brother and such a great statement. Ice is What if it’s late in gold on a hot day. But we actually complain about it like it’s inconvenient.

[@kingsbrace3736]

@@ItsMe_Philippines There is a lovely video that my fiancee sent me that is here on YT. I wonder if you have seen it. It is titled: 'Provincial life (eating Guava and Grapefruit) PHILIPPINES. It's pretty moving, actually. Talk about real life...

[@evanebalasca9715]

The spirit and soul of that fat guy u mention is a good example of devil, or satan. Lord Jesus always says...be humble and kind always. That the strong message of God, and give love ❤️ and peace to all. Thats the spirit we always practice here in the PH🇵🇭, wether you are rich or poor, but the spirit of God is within our soul, thats why we are warm to any kind of humanity. We always look up to God and you will never go wrong. Give ❤️ to everyone, this means you love God.

[@danielroydrawe]

Filipina

[@oldiesgeek454]

I hate to hear this type of story, since I'm American and I live in Utah. I would never treat a worker like that. I'm lucky to live in a state where people treat workers nice, even when they make a mistake. 😊

[@gaigepaul]

This is what happens when you have a good wife that knows how to calm you and makes you want to be a better person!

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

💯

[@steveroberson1488]

It takes a big man to admit when he's wrong ,you are truly blessed to have such a lovely wife ,wish you two all the best !

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you and yes I really am.

[@beantherebean2049]

Great honest video. I too have learned to be grateful for the things money can't buy since 16 years with my cebuano wife.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Great to hear and I’m sure she’s an amazing wife.

[@udirtypuppy5174]

i am living just north of you in San Carlos City and building my Filipina and our family their dream home. My fiance has taught this old dog several life changing tricks also. The importance of family and the daily joy you might miss being "grumpy" like i am too often. I am going to give a her a big hug and thank her asap. Salamat Po Sir Cory for this video and its wise words.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you and I hear great things about Dan Carlos. Happy to see more people finding what makes them happy.

[@udirtypuppy5174]

finding what makes them happy in our sense of place is especially rewarding. keep up the content and honesty.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

@@udirtypuppy5174 will do and thank you

[@BernaSkea]

Was born there but spent most of my life in the US so I know exactly what ur talking about. I remember going to the Philippines for vacation and I noticed that too everyone seemed happy and I was complaining about alot of little things too, things I didn't have patience for and wasn't accustomed to. I realized how everyone around me with way less than I have are way happier than me. Ty for sharing and for being genuine

[@WayniKlaru14344]

Thank you Bro for your service. You can't go wrong with a Filipina wife. Please treat her with respect, the love and the family and everyone surround you. In return, they will give you a 100% of their love, loyalty, service and trust. We filipinos are very resilient people and have only simple dreams and needs. Our family is important to us. You, being part of the family and accepted are some essential things that matter most in a good relationship having happy and contented marriage life that will last a life time. Take care Bro and God bless.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thanks bro and I appreciate the positive comment. Being part of this country has been amazing and I’m going to continue being a better and happier person every day that I’m here. With the supervision of my wife of course!

[@LoveBeyondTheSea]

Amen to that Eric!

[@firefly8383]

Being a Filipino, you just need to be positive in everything or else you are gonna go crazy. My Parents always taught me that all of us are just passerby in this world and no one knows when we are gonna die, so always choose happiness and making memories with your love ones.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

You had very smart parents my friend

[@rgarciaprl]

this is exactly what i needed to hear. honestly. thank you for reminding me to be grateful.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you for that comment

[@malikkweli8627]

Your wife is a very smart person....WOW. Sometimes we need a little dose of reality to get us back on track. I appreciate your honesty bro..god is great🙏🙏

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thanks bro, wanted to do this video for a while now but honestly, not easy to record. Glad I did however.

[@Filo-Joe]

You're story really got me bruh. The moral of story is always be greatful. I have everything here in the US but I never smile. You're both very blessed coz many people there in the Philippines can't afford to buy drinks in the middle of hot humid weather. I think I'm very happy now and greatful. You taught us to be a better version of me.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

My wife taught us my friend, I’m just the messenger. In the states I would complain if my meal wasn’t perfect…. Now I remind myself how many people go without eating.

[@junlab2612]

contentment is happiness🇵🇭

[@beniciabuchanan3970]

#Happiness is the new rich.

[@AteRusV]

You have everything but you never smile?😥 im sad.... We Filipinos most of us here are poor and we not only smile but we ĹAUGH a lot everyday..... God Bless

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

@@AteRusV Now I am always smiling!

[@aussieaj8664]

I've been in PH a little over a month with another to go, It's amazing the things that used to annoy me in Australia. After this I have learned patience and the ability to enjoy what I have. Great video I agree this place makes us a better version of ourselves

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Enjoy hearing this type of stuff. Enjoy your visit my friend.

[@zaykhannation1501]

This message is so very important to most Americans who don't realize how spoiled we are in our home country. We forget what the important things in life are. It's okay...we live and learn.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you! We have more than we need and more than most have. Let’s be grateful for that!

[@haroldpiquero6212]

I really cried bro😅 Im very proud of you! And your a very kind person tho you have the biggest heart as a Pinoy than we are! So always be safe with your family 💕💕

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you I really appreciate that comment

[@ppgfreak17]

One minute in and already hit the like button. Always love your honesty and thank you for these kinds of videos.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you my friend

[@jeanniepiriyayon3169]

I too have a foreign husband from Thailand it seems they are the land of smiles. We as Americans sometimes get so busy accumulating the things we think will make us happy. My husband taught me how to be happy to be alive. We’ve been married 42 happy years I learned early on possessions don’t buy happiness. It comes from within.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Exactly! Thailand is beautiful and filled with wonderful people.

[@tonymckay6556]

thai men have body odor they don't take a bath everyday

[@jeanniepiriyayon3169]

@@tonymckay6556 that’s a rediculous thing to say. Most Thai take at least two showers a day. You could say most American men smell if you only spend your time with the homeless or European men smell because of the food they eat. Think about what your writing.

[@BobAround]

This was actually the video that brought me to your channel. Another channel did a reaction about it and that is how I found out about this channel and have enjoyed the content ever since. I can relate to what your saying a bit. Years ago i was dealing with back problems that were bothering me a lot and I was pretty much in constant pain. I lived far away (50 miles round trip) from a dead end low paying job that I couldn't leave to find another one because I was valuable and couldn't get fired. I was basically stuck in a bad place alone trying to do everything by myself and very angry all the time. Once things started to improve a small amount I decided to try to be happier. The first thing I did was when confronted with a problem or something that made me mad I asked myself if I do nothing about this will is affect me in a year? 90% of the time the answer was no so at that point I started not caring as much about everything and just let stuff go immediately. Some people around me saw that as weakness which created new problems but it was easily dealt with by staying away from them. Things slowly kept getting better and eventually I went 6 years with no back problems due to exercise and limiting myself because I wasn't 20 anymore. I'm starting to go backwards now because I have no room in my current small place for exercise equipment and I work a lot of hours but at least I know how to be happy now so stress and tension aren't making things as bad as they were. The point is I think what people see as problems is mostly insignificant and that is I think what you learned from your wife in this story is exactly that. Be happy with what you have and don't let something small ruin your day or really your life if your way of thinking becomes everything's a problem.

[@frank5436]

This reminds me of the story about a man that complained because he had no shoes until he saw a man that had no feet. Great vlog. I'm a new subscriber and I plan to move to the Philippines ASAP

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

I have a picture of that saved on my computer. Very powerful description of how we act sometimes. What island are heading to?

[@frank5436]

@@ItsMe_Philippines I'm seriously considering Negros Oriental. Valencia where the temps are somewhat cooler.

[@SteveSacramento]

This is a true story that gave me happy tears because I can say I am happy and have more than I need too and I try to not complain about the little things in life. Thank you SO MUCH for sharing!

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you great comment

[@DrJamesBWood]

Your genuine honesty and self-reflection is admirable.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you for the positive comment and it's important that we continue to grow and learn.

[@painrick]

Great video Cory, I can honestly tell you that I have noticed a change in you, your humility is increasing. Honestly, I thought you were extremely self confident like you think you’re a bit of Alright, but you are definitely mellowing and it’s very attractive in a man.

[@JakeandJesset]

Cory thanks for sharing and I 💯 relate and agree. Meeting my wife and coming to know and understand the Filipino culture def humbled me and helped me see and appreciate what is most important in life. As Westerners it’s all too easy to get caught up in the rat race and lifestyle creep (and too much ice lol) which is all so very unnecessary. A simple life with all the basic needs covered is all we need to be grateful and happy. We are a few years out but we are currently downsizing and planning for our exit to some place like Valencia or similar. Although we love and know Davao very well, we are excited to come recon Negros for our retirement spot as we believe we would love the proximity and easy of travel to other islands from Negros. Take care friend and keep living the dream!

[@junlab2612]

contentment is happiness

[@JakeandJesset]

@@junlab2612 ❤️

[@dollsetc.byrizaghar1635]

Thank you Jake! I enjoyed watching you boys since you two are just starting and living in that beautiful motorhome, had a child and moved into your beautiful home, had another child. . .and seeing you here was awesome. Thank you for choosing Negros island, born and raise here ( partly) comes and go every 6 months for 20 + years with my Canadian hubby 😁 Good choice! Valencia is a good town, find somewhere up the hill, always beautiful view up there. Good luck!

[@mltv5529]

@jakeandjesset I love watching your videos in living in negros occidental too there's a lot of places there the beaches especially in negros oriental has white sand beaches too it's good to see where you want to live is my hometown goodluck.

[@santos.2020]

Every man became a better person when he have a good woman in his life, Mother, Sister, Wife, Daughter and every woman feels happy, protected, loved when she have a good man in her life, Father, Big Brother, Husband, Sons. Its a perfect match when everyone plays their role.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

True!

[@povpaul]

This video was impactful after spending a month in the Philippines for the first time with my new wife and my son this past month. How we lose sight of the simple things and wanting more when all around us people who have less are happier than we can ever be. Your wife is a great woman helping you reveal a different attitude to circumstances. My son born and raised in the USA spent have his time complaining about walking, his phone not working, and not having a Smart TV in our hotel room. I'm sure I complained about someone my own things as well. Honestly thank you for giving me a different perspective on their culture and learning to slow down.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you for that wonderful comment I really do appreciate it. Happy to hear other people realizing what I did and I think we could all learn from what it takes to truly be happy. Your son sounds like every other child in a western country out there. Including myself growing up. I didn’t have a cell phone of course but I always had a TV and a game system. It’s funny Leading children over here that are happier than any kids I’ve ever met in the world. Yes they will have less than anyone else. It is challenging to help a child go from one realization to another however. Next time you’re in the country let me know and maybe we can grab a coffee or lunch. Not sure what island you head to.

[@povpaul]

We were actually in Davao during our honeymoon. We were mostly around Cagayan de Oro for our wedding preparations. I got to eat Durian and balut and we took a tour from a visiting friend we met in our Hotel around the Roxas Street Market. They told me back in 2015 some Muslims threw grenades into the market. Glad they increased the security. But I would definitely like us to meet sometime and ask some questions

[@miamigladiator9545]

My guy! Much respect. Much, much, respect! Takes big balls to be vulnerable! Wishing you and your family all the health and happiness in the world.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you for that comment

[@ChristyGL]

Thanks for sharing this and I'm glad you're enjoying your life with family in the Philippines. I'm also Filipino, married to an American and living in the states for 6 years. It is true that most Americans although not all, are spoiled and entitled and would complain at a minor discomfort. Every time my husband would complain about something small, I tell him to be patient and be understanding and put himself in the shoes of the other person. We need to spread love, respect and understanding especially during these covid times.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you for helping your husband like my wife does for me. We have the important things and I’m happy with just that!

[@cdl6953]

Good on you! So very happy for you ❤️ I love stories like this where another person made them better it could be a friend or a partner but there was a change. God bless you & your wife 🙏🏻

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you and the same to you and your family.

[@Rob_Harrison]

Good video, an honest conversation from the heart. Big thumbs up. 👍

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you, really appreciate that comment.

[@jstamaria9379]

Glad to hear that you came to realize and appreciate the simple things in life you see there around you. Good job!

[@Candidly_Aloof]

"everything else is just extra....." me nodding my head and agreeing wholeheartedly. God Bless you and your family.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you very much and the same to you and your family!

[@scottcte]

Your story resonates with me as well. I couldn’t be happier with my Filipina wife and her giving me a completely different perspective on how life could be. I appreciate so much more. I can’t wait to retire in the Philippines. I know there are still problems there like everywhere else, but the people are so much happier with far less than here. I can’t wait to share this experience with my children and friends as well.

[@brianadamson6607]

I have to agree with you my asawa has improved my life and my attitude to life immensely . We’re heading towards 9 years married and I have no regrets at all . I’m a much happier and patient person because of her 😊👍

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Same here and great to hear other experiencing the same!

[@brianadamson6607]

@@ItsMe_Philippines I even experienced something similar to your cold drinks story . It takes a little time to acclimatise to life there . Once you have life is more relaxed and simple , that’s just how I like it 😊

[@LoveBeyondTheSea]

Same with me.

[@Cons2911]

Ok, that made me smile.. you have found a nice one my man. And I’m happy for you guys

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you, love hearing positive comments.

[@jmfarrell5]

Haven’t seen your videos in a while…. Great to see you… thank you for sharing your experience - we’re always growing and changing. We’re a work in progress. Here’s to us making progress.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you and you are correct

[@keenobumbum]

Thanks for sharing and Glad to hear it that you feel better 6.8k thumbs looking forward for more vlogs

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you I always appreciate the positive comment!

[@mikeglo168]

The title of this video caught my attention. Congrats on finding someone who brings out the best in you. Such a person is a gift. There is so much good stuff in this 14 minute video: you seeing how petty your complaining was; seeing your wife's perspective without becoming angry at her for not seeing your perspective, you choosing to live with gratitude. I'm guilty of believing I can't learn something from a 'simple Filipina' (more judgment) but I can. And I don't have to travel to the Philippines to do so! I only have to watch this from the comfort of my home in Sacramento. Good on you, brother. You are becoming the man worthy of such a gracious woman and this video inspires me to do the same.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you very much for that positive!

[@BH195829]

Great video… you are totally evolving in the company of your wife’s spiritual dimension- lovely. 🙏💕🌏😊

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you

[@TheNoticeable]

This was a very humbling story thanks for sharing reminds me of the time i went to Philippines and saw were my mothers side lived looked like a chicken coop seeing that side really made be how good i have it in the states and shouldn't really complain about the little stuff in life cause there is always somebody out there who would kill to be in our position.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Exactly

[@scottbarker21]

Thanks for the reminder. I do way too much griping and I have plenty. Clearly you found a real treasure with your wife. I had watched a few of your vids but this one caused me to subscribe. Thanks again for having the humility to be teachable and passing along the lesson.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you for the positive come, and my friend!

[@coreyposley808]

Wow...i know I came across this video for a reason! My name is also Corey and I'm from Chicago. My ex Filipino and I visited the Philippines on a regular basis and I always complained about everything from aircon to food portions to catching a cab. I had a serious attitude and she would just be quiet. After visiting so much I started appreciating the little things but sometimes I need a reminder because i still have my moments where I complain about certain things that the less fortunate would love to have

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

We are both guilty of being from a place where we can have anything we want. Not realizing how many people die from dehydration as I complained about how much ice I had is an example. Let me know if you ever come back to visit again my friend and thank you for watching.

[@coreyposley808]

@@ItsMe_Philippines Yeah i usually try to come around February when its cooler there. I made friends there after my ex Filipina and I broke up, and the people there treated me like a king. I've been to a handful of provinces, and now I have Palawan and Cebu on my bucket list

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

@@coreyposley808 Try the southern part of Cebu if you have time! Beautiful areas with a lot less people than the northern part. If you visit that area at some point let me know and I'll take the 30 minute ferry over to you.

[@richedalmacio1831]

I know this is late but old videos can really hit home for someone that needs it. It came at the right time. Thank you for this video. Much appreciated.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you, appreciate the positive comment and happy it helped

[@andrewsantos4366]

Great experience and story, majority of Filipino grow up in a not have environment that's why in a simple things we didn't bother too much. In North America (except Mexico) in any little things we complain right away and I do understand with the experience here. Keep Vlogging we enjoy your content.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you very much and appreciate your kind words. Comments like this are way I make videos:

[@24zmofoz-metalzone93]

Hey this is the video I watched before I met my Filipina wife. After watching it I found my wife and I can honestly say she’s the most amazing person I’ve ever met in my life. She brings me so much joy, laughter and love that I’ve never experienced before and I’m grateful for her. Thank you for making this video because if it wasn’t for this I would’ve never took the extra leap and find something else elsewhere

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Happy to help and congrats on finding that her!

[@FinancialFreedomandPhilippines]

Absolutely great vlog, Filipinos do know what really matters in life. They don't have much material things like us westerners do and just to have your health and food and family are all that really matters in life. We can all learn a valuable lesson from them and their culture in this respect. Subscribed and liked 🙌🙏

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you my friend I continue to learn over here.

[@jmsrni]

Hi, I just happen to catch your channel at work on break. I watched a few and was very impressed. When I got to this one I had to watch it twice. I work at night and my Filipino wife waits up for me to get home every night. I told her about a video I wanted us to watch together. That morning I got this video up and I called her to watch with me. I scooted her chair close to mine and we started. You put into words so well what I feel about my wife and how blessed I am to have her in my life. I held her close and tears streamed down my face as we watched. We have been married for 16 tears now and I have yet to meet her family in person. I have a wonderful life and she is the reason why. Thank you for making this video.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you for the wonderful comment and I hope you get to meet them one day!

[@kerrylewis2581]

Honestly, I'd be proud to tell that story. Realizing that you found a way to be happier is a life lesson to be shared.

[@omorphyomorphy1156]

Thank you for sharing this perspective. We all need to be reminded at times. I’ve started this year off with a simple gratitude list I check off every morning to help remind me of what I have.

[@yourboyjesse]

Just want you to know that this video changed my whole outlook on life! I’m going to be marrying a Filipina this July. We’ve been together for almost 3 years. I visited her last year for 2 weeks. She’s the most important person in the world to me. There was one time where we went to the Korean grill & the tables were very greasy & instead of celebrating the fact that we were together I complained about the grease. I even embarrassed her by making the waitress come back a second time to wipe the tables. Hey thank you for the video! You’ve earned a subscriber. Hope you & the misses have a wonderful & blessed road ahead! Seriously thank you!

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you for the great feedback and happy to hear you found that person. We all have some growing to do and realizing it is the hard part!

[@yourboyjesse]

Ytfyutf

[@Diaz_the_barber]

I came across your channel by accident looking for something to help me understand my own life and I can say you and your wife have brought a positive view to me. I’ve watched a good amount of your videos and can’t help but smile thank you for sharing your story I look forward to seeing more of your journey

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

I’m really happy to hear that and thank you for leaving a positive comment. Reason why I started this channel was to promote positivity and happy. Want to remind people that we are here to do more than work and pay bills.

[@Diaz_the_barber]

@@ItsMe_Philippines positivity should be spread daily and y’all do a great job. What’s your Instagram I’ll follow you there as well

[@glocalexplore6812]

INCREDIBLE realizations in life! So profound. My priority is to be grateful, grateful, grateful for everything.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Yes!!

[@inkpools]

Wonderful story. Thank you for sharing! Looking at things from a different perspective is very enlightening.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you for watching, Adam. I’m happy to have woken up!

[@d2genx]

To my brothers and sisters in the Philippines.. Love from India. Happy to know our south asian values of humility and appreciating human kindness, decency and family values are being appreciated worldwide.

[@johnnywriight]

That story hit me hard man. I truly appreciate your transparency. I’m so happy for you, your wife and your new life. Maybe I’ll see you over there someday. Much love

[@AT-bt2co]

This made me cry. I’m so happy for you two. She’s was sent to you for this reason. ❤

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you

[@mrbbkk]

Gift from God for your good deeds

[@easterlizatinuade6551]

Thanks for the appreciation..this is how we live..be happy with what we have..more power and Godbless

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you and the same to you and your family.

[@LoveBeyondTheSea]

Same here. My Filipina wife has calmed me down with her attitude and perspective. They think westerners complain too much.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

They help us be better men and understand thee important things.

[@PinayTruckerGIRLUSA]

So nice to hear your story.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you 😊

[@allansorianomorales3950]

Am so happy you've found your wife, your love, your home. By now you know that we Filipinos embrace everyone and anyone, because, when you are with Filipinos, YOU ARE WITH FAMILY! Sending Love and Light.🥰

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you my friend and I’m truly blessed to be part of this wonderful community.

[@DeanDuggan-j5f]

Dude, I think this is the best video you’ve made. It’s good you come to the realisation. Good on ya mate.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you!

[@vernondavis561]

Excellent video Devil Dog. I constantly remind myself to be happy for all of the little things that we take for granted.😇🙏

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

thanks brother

[@tobywebb6452]

I've been here 6 weeks now, and yes it's a big adjustment, I'm slowly learning the patience required, my partner is typical Filipina, always happy and grateful for the most basic of things that we take for granted in the west. Have managed to acclimatise to roosters, dogs and karaoke, but I'm struggling with the plastic pollution sadly. Really hope this works out, but I have a lot of self development ahead of me. Thanks for all your videos, they helping me learn :) One question, where do you live, I seem to recall it's near Dumaguete?

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Correct, I am about an hour and a half north of it. Right outside of Bais city

[@udirtypuppy5174]

please be reassured that your struggle with plastic pollution will never be calmed. i find it reassuring to know that our youth and the new generations are trying to overcome the corruption, lack of political will and an addiction to single-use plastic sachets. ouch.

[@budolbes1317]

As a sovereign country run solely by Filipinos now, the Philippines is only 76 years old. As things are today, modernization in the cities coupled with a growing sense of protecting the beauty and richness of its natural resources this country, by good governance, would eventually improve in lifting up its share of poverty stricken citizenry ( the biggest user of plastic products) to a better economic level. When that time comes here’s hoping nothing would ever change the welcome laughter and happy nature that is so Pilipino. 😁👍

[@tufelhunden5795]

Semper Fi! Great story and clearly you found a great woman that's helping you on your journey in life. Congratulations!!

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thanks brother and Semper Fi!

[@PrinciplesOrDie]

Didn't expect this one to be tear jerky... But yeah this one is really try about your wife "Proverbs 19:14 Houses and wealth are inherited from parents, but a prudent wife is from the LORD."

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Wow that’s a great scripture. Thank you for the positive feedback

[@CoachLitz]

Good story. Thanks for sharing. You said its not a fun video to record but this should be something you're proud about not ashamed.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you, appreciate the positive comments. I’m glad I did it

[@gbgarcherslifestyle4567]

You are blessed brother to have a Filipina wife. As a Filipina I miss the Philippines my home country. One day my husband and myself will be coming home we both miss the simplest things in life. My husband really love the Philippines he can’t wait that we will be back there soon. Hi to your beautiful wife from a Filipina living awhile in the USA. Have a Blessed day to you all!

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you and I’ll let her know!

[@CBZero]

Kudos sir for the courage to change for the better and to share your story to us. You have a wonderful wife.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Yes I most certainly do and thank you

[@Lumpia.18]

Great story that I can relate man! I'm a Filipino and my wife is British, this is one the things that's been hard to make my wife understand when she visited in the Philippines but how you feel about it niw is something I heard from her one time and that made me happy. Life is simple, loads of things to be thankful for. Have fun brother!

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thanks bro I appreciate the positive comment and make sure to take your wife on vacation over here!

[@teresanewcomb442]

Robert here.. Similarly happen to me and my intelligent filipina wife, so down to Earth.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Very helpful for us!

[@artbyrichellerivera4383]

As a FILIPINA, i could honestly share to everyone that not "all filipinas" are the same, i mean some are users so be careful on choosing, get to know them more espcially their background and the family history. No offense but i heard many stories that marrying a foreigner is actually one of their way to escape from poverty. Nonetheless, i could tell you guys that majority of filipinas are kind, caring and will love you to death. I wish you guys the best ❤️

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

My wife is one of them!

[@tekkugema4500]

the rest of the world has its own gold digger version, you just have to find the right person sus

[@elizabethceprino4182]

Nanira ka nman pilipina ka pa nman kahit saan bansa may manloloko wag mong eh pinpoint ang ang lahi mo nakakahiya ka

[@marciestoddard730]

There's a power differential anytime one group has more money/power. So even in the best of situations, it's good to be honest and view it for what it is!

[@JASNSOUNDS]

hey man thanks for sharing this is a really powerful story. ive had quite a few moments like this in my life that have put things into proper perspective. good on your for choosing to grow from it.

[@Cons2911]

Lost my father last year.. and of course it’s sad..one of my lowest point in life… but after a while.. I realized.. my father had a heart surgery I think 11yr ago. And yes he’s gone now, but we could have lost him 11yrs ago..so.. I am thankful for that 11yrs..still sad but at the same time thankful

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Sorry for your loss and you have a great point. Those 11 years are what to be thankful and grateful for it. Thank you for the comment

[@jaqsmom]

Wow thank you for the reminder to not sweat the small stuff and to have a heart of gratitude. 😊

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Don’t thank me, thank the Philippines for helping me remember thee importance of things 😊

[@ddjjss]

Thank you for a great story and a great life lesson.

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you for watching

[@philhunt2797]

Good man keep it humble! Admit your faults and find a way to make yourself better! I think your the most grounded tuber over there!

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Wow, thank you for that compliment. I try to make sure and remind myself to be humble. Really appreciate your compliment and I try to stay focused on what’s important I just keep pushing forward!

[@aRVeesBlog]

Your wife changed you must be a big thing and yes, the less we complain, the more peace we have in our minds All the best to you and your wife

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you for the compliment and I agree

[@aRVeesBlog]

@@ItsMe_Philippines you're welcome! have a good day

[@everymanhasastory]

This was an excellent video. I'm married to a Filipina too. And I've learned to appreciate the little things in life. Best of luck!

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you

[@123smartcontent]

Nice video! Reflection, empathy, change of perspective. Perhaps you think that she made you a better person, but look at all the other things s your environment that needed to be different in order to learn those lessons. They wouldn't have had the same impact if you had been with her but here in America. You may have learned the same things from her but it would not have had the same impact. I commend you for making changes and being more aware of yourself and becoming a better person. Thanks for sharing!

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Wry true and thank you

[@malloywest8766]

Amazing realization and transformation nurtured by love brother! May you both continue to grow and prosper fam!

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thanks brother!

[@ednel143]

Love the message of Gratitude in this Vlog. As we all should be everyday from the time we open our eyes each morning and before we close our eyes at night. Our time on earth is a gift of love from our Creator🙏

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Thank you

[@adamsty1728]

I was a Marine stationed in Subic a lifetime ago, and am FINALLY getting back there after losing sight of what's really important. Thank you for such an emotionally intelligent posting! I'm living vicariously through you until I get there- so keep up the good work! Semper Fi~

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

Best of luck! and Semper Fi brother

[@cherylcarter9198]

Great moral story . Sometimes the people w/less money are happier. It’s evident in many Filipinos because they are just truly grateful for every little thing they have. They may be poor in money but rich in many other things such as Love and kindness making them happy because a grateful heart brings happiness. And majority of us Filipinos are that way. Mabuhay !

[@ItsMe_Philippines]

You are 100% correct my friend!